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| 5 | My brother was a textbook redpiller. Why was he more accepted than I was?You sound very red pilled :( Based on what you've said, anyone that takes on a new religion or reads lots of books and develops a new set of positive values and beliefs, will eventually feel 'healed'. So if they are being abused everyday, have poor self-awareness, are homeless, living in genuine poverty and struggle for their next meal or struggle with a learning difficulty or a genuine mental illness, all they need to do is be stoic and develop a new set of beliefs and they will be fine? That's… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 08:58 PM |
| 10 | My brother was a textbook redpiller. Why was he more accepted than I was?OP there is quite a lot to unpack here and it seems that there's more to it that just redpill behaviour from your brother. It sounds like you grew up in a toxic family. Please go and read up about this. This isn't just about your brother, this is about the people in your life who continued to protect him and chose him as their golden child, while they failed to protect you. It can be difficult to recognise what's going on because we all think that our families are 'normal' but what you've descri… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 08:06 PM |
| 6 | My brother was a textbook redpiller. Why was he more accepted than I was?Most psychologists are mentally ill themselves. Your statement is about as red pill as it gets. If you've been through trauma and you've been able to heal, then you know that stoicism and working out in the gym is not the way to heal from a traumatic childhood. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 08:02 PM |
| 13 | So Fresh & Fit spent years saying women were too emotional to handle problems but then cry(literally) just because YouTube demonetized them.Yep. And the loudness of the crying from fit or fresh or whoever he claims he is. It was so loud and unnecessary. I'm actually in shock. With all the things he's said to women when they cry, I'd have expected him to at least switch off his microphone! What's strange is that they should have realised that this day was gonna come. They were already banned on tiktok for their misogyny and now they have the audacity to be upset just because they've been demonetized by youtube. Smh. What on earth did… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/23 06:31 AM |
| 9 | So Fresh & Fit spent years saying women were too emotional to handle problems but then cry(literally) just because YouTube demonetized them.You really think that these guys had lambos?! Wasn't it obvious that it was all rented?? These guys are nowhere near as wealthy as they pretended to be!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/23 11:29 PM |
| 34 | So Fresh & Fit spent years saying women were too emotional to handle problems but then cry(literally) just because YouTube demonetized them.Omg. These men finally got what they deserved. All of that toxic masculinity bullshit, claiming that real men have no emotions and this is who they really are. If they had a good business model and multiple income streams as they claim that they do, then being demonetised by youtube shouldn't affect them, right? Now just to be clear to everyone in this sub who is going to say that 'women are laughing at them for crying' and this is proof that women can't support men when they are being vulnerabl… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?Yes please! | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 05:47 AM |
| 7 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?Sorry to hear that. It's tough to not fall for these things when you're looking for answers. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?Interesting. Are you parents still together? Which aspects of red pill do they believe in? Has it affected you in any way or are you just used to it? I get a sense that red pill could work if both parents strongly believe in it but I wonder how it affects children who grow up with beliefs such as men rule the world and men can have multiple girlfriends even when married etc | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Fresh and Fit In a NutshellIf only everyone could see through fresh and fit's bull shit. I genuinely wonder how many of these podcasters are actually gay but they can't express that part of themselves because of their religious upbringing or the fear of what their friends will think. And this guy is right, if you are just tolerating women and you don't actually like them, then why do you spend so much time talking about them? Why do you need to build an army of followers to join you in hating women and bringing them down?… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/23 05:22 AM |
| 3 | What age do you think people are most likely to join red pill? If you're still red pilled, what age did you join?Damn. So the people that were meant to be older and wiser than him basically just led him astray and he's probably never going to leave red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/23 07:35 PM |
| 5 | What age do you think people are most likely to join red pill? If you're still red pilled, what age did you join?That's ridiculously young. I'm almost scared to ask - How old is he now and is he out? Can you even get out if you join at such a young age? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Are redpillers happy?It's great to meet another survivor! 💪🏽💪🏽 Yeah religious abuse is definitely a mindfuck especially when you've been in it for all your life. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Are redpillers happy?I feel like red pill is very similar to a cult. I say this because I grew up in a religious cult. I grew up with very religious but abusive parents and I had many toxic relationships in my life. Even though I was abused by multiple members of my family, I kind of felt happy. Being part of the cult gave me a sense of happiness and purpose. It took many years is therapy for me to learn the meaning of healthy loving relationships and for me to understand that I was in a cult. After I realised this,… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Are redpillers happy?It is like having a disease but blaming everything else for your worsening physical state. This is such a good way to describe it. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Im ashamed that i fell into the red pill rabbit hole ,im a horrible personI think you've done really well for recognising that it was not healthy and that's the first step. Try to tell the truth to your best friends, I know it's hard but it's important that you come clean and show that you've changed and you're ready to do the right thing. Also, try not to be too hard on yourself. I have a friend who joined red pill in his 20s. Now he is in his 30s and in theory he should know better, but he doesn't. He's lost all of the good people that were in his life and he's chan… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 03:07 PM |
| 3 | I want to denounce the concept of SMV but for some reason, it’s been true from what I can seeThis is one of my main issues with red pill. The idea that women can be numbered and rated. It's as if they are unable to accept that EVERYONE ages in the end. What are they going to do when their girlfriend's reach their 40s, 50s etc And that there will always be someone that's more beautiful that your girl friend. Even if she's a supermodel, a 'more exotic' model will appear on the scene next week and your girl will just be like everyone else. It's insane for people to make a decision based on… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 24 | The irony about the "red pill" nameYep. Red pill is about seeing the truth that others can't see. But most red pilled men live in denial. They just can't handle the idea that they are using of a phrase that was created by someone from the trans community. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism?I read incest and thought - my goodness, this red pill has taken a dark turn! :( | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 08:40 PM |
| 4 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedI would be very mindful about anyone in the 30s who claimed that they were so rich now that they wanted to retire. People that are rich in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s will usually want to keep building their wealth. Even those that officially live off their pension, will usually choose to travel the world or do something fun in their retirement years. So anyone I meet that says that they are 30 but are now ready to retire - I would be asking them questions such as what do they intend to do in '… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 08:38 PM |
| 9 | men do get more attractive as they get olderYes, you are 100% correct. All men that are aged 80 are far more attractive than men that are aged 60 and all men aged 50 are more attractive than all men aged 30. 🙄🙄 Edit: I forgot to mention that 25 year old women are particularly attracted to older men so they might ignore you if you're the same age as them. They will usually prefer men then are rich and ageing. Preferably men in their 80s or 90s. Women in their 20s see the baldness and wrinkles in 80 year olds and they are very attracted to … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 01:28 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with muscle dysmorphia?You don't need steroids. Just sounds like you need therapy and a dose of reality. If gaining muscle is your goal then why not just eat the right levels of macronutrients, lift weights and go to the gym? It'll take some time, but you'll eventually start making the gains. It seems like you're looking for a short cut when there isn't one. The other thing that's disturbing is that you fail to see that having a 6 pack doesn't guarantee that girls will love you or that you'll find a girlfriend or that… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Young men invisible until 30?This idea is really dumb. What do you even mean by visible? Do you mean dateable? Marriageable? Seeable? More attractive physically? Emotionally avaliable? What do you even mean? I'm guessing if you really wanted to push things you could say that you're more dateable at 21 than you are at 15. And you could say that you're more likely to be marriageable/engaged in your 30s than you are in your 20s. But to claim that men are invisible until the age of 30 is highly retarded. Logically speaking, the… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 09:17 AM |
| 5 | I'm not red pill anymore but I still have a lot of painHi, feminist here. And slightly concerned by your post and your views on feminism. OP please go and research the meaning of feminism. Feminism is about equality. Feminists believe that men and women are equal and women should have the same rights as men. Feminism is a reaction to the patriarchal society that we live in. For centuries, feminists have fought for women's rights so that women can have access to higher education, women can finally vote, have bank accounts, run businesses, work in pol… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/23 02:55 AM |
| 16 | someone change my mind?As with all red pillers, Andrew tate talks a lot of BS and mixes a bit of truth with a bunch of lies. So what are the things that Andrew tate said that you still believe to be true? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How do redpill dudes explain Kieth Raniere of NXIM?Red pill will say that he was powerful. And he was actually an alpha male with a lot of masculine energy or maybe even a sigma male. They sometimes talk about sigma males when you bring up something that doesn't fit with the norm!! Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Ex Red Pillers please watch Stolen Youth on Hulu (Even if you’re still Red Pill and curious)I watched it too. Ended up brawling my eyes out especially for that family. It's scary how the brain can tell a story so different from reality. I hope anyone that's still borderline red pilled can learn from this and understand how dangerous it is to play games with other people's minds. And also see how red pill uses similar techniques to brainwash them into thinking certain things about women. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 28 | Did being red pilled change your physical preferences in the women you wanted to date/marry/sleep with?This is gonna sound really harsh but here's my opinion. Feel free to ignore. Your ex bf is Red pilled therefore he's brainwashed. It's close to impossible to help or save anyone that's brainwashed. He wants you to feel insecure and that's why he's making you jump through hoops and comparing you to other women. He's trying to get you to win his 'love' and attention. What you're experiencing with him may look like love but it isn't. Read up and learn about healthy relationships, watch programmes a… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/23 05:42 PM |
| 2 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.I'm a woman and I get where you're coming in terms of women letting go of friendships and focusing only on their families, but I also think that it depends on the individual. I've been very proactive about maintaining my friendships and I've been through so many stages in life. I've got friends that are also at different stages and I've learned to respect that. A friend with three kids under the age of 5 isn't going to have the same energy, time or interests as a friend who is single. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 07:10 PM |
| 35 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.This is such an important topic. If only the manosphere addressed this sort of stuff so that more men could support each other. It's also worth mentioning that women have always seemed to master the art of friendship much better than men. This means that single women that aren't dating or on and apps, are less likely to be lonely compared to single men that are using all the apps. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Cringiest red pill phrasesThats not the issue. The issue is referring to a woman as "ran through" it shows the disgusting way in which red pill men view women. Even if she's had 1000 sexual partners, why do you see her as 'ran through'? She's a human being. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/23 08:30 PM |
| 13 | Cringiest red pill phrasesYep. "Ran through" is just disgusting. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 07:50 AM |
| 5 | Women of r/exredpill why would you want to have a relationship with a guy?To have someone to build amazing life memories with. I have lots of great friends but I'd love to have that one person who knows me inside out. The world can be cruel sometimes. So I want someone who I can love and care for, someone who loves me back and makes me feel better about the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/23 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Cringe lmfaoAww... So you decided to join in and write the cringiest post of all? That's adorable!! 😊😊 | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Men, you need female role models in your lifeI agree. Its not the only reason but its definitely one of them. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Men, you need female role models in your lifeI agree that there seems to be a lack of positive male role models. But how does one solve this problem? I feel like red pillers are trying to solve this problem but they are teaching and modeling the wrong things. It would be interesting to know your thoughts on this. Edit: added the word positive. It would be good to see more positive male role models. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 11:34 AM |
| 31 | Men, you need female role models in your lifeI'm glad you're starting to see that women are human beings too. When you think about it, it seems so obvious but red pill really messes with your mind. Here's hoping that your story helps some of the other ex red pillers in this sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Men, you need female role models in your lifeIt might help 1 or 2 men, especially in this sub. Who knows? Yes, most red pill men will say that his therapist is clearly the exception but let's have some hope that his experience might help some men consider therapy and also start to look at women in a more positive light. We gotta believe that there's hope for some red pillers and ex red pillers, otherwise what's the point of this sub! :) | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 01:45 PM |
| 10 | Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?Exactly. Femicides in the western world are very real and women have to be extremely careful about our safety and who we let into their lives. Also, I don't know if you ever read that reddit post asking women what they would do if we had 24 hours with no men on the planet. And so many women responded by saying they'd love to jog in the park particularly in the evenings. Which is so sad. Some men responded to this by saying that they couldn't imagine living in fear of jogging in the park. I think… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 05:13 AM |
| 17 | Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?Well said. There are literally no benefits to being with a man that thinks this way. No love, no emotional support, no kindness. All the red pilled man wants to do is 'protect' and 'provide'. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How Does School Make Men Feminine?I'm not really sure what you're getting at? Are you trying to say that you believe that you shouldn't work a 9-5 cos most millionaires and billionaires have never worked for anyone before? Or you shouldn't bother trying to make money because most billionaires already come from wealthy families? Many entrepreneur millionaires and above (including Bezos and Branson) have worked for someone at different points in their life even if it was very brief. Not sure about Musk. As for most 'self-made' ent… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How Does School Make Men Feminine?Yep. That's true. I was mostly referring to millionaire or billionaire entrepreneurs that started their own business at a young age. Haven't got any stats to back that up but I'm thinking of the likes of Jeff Bezos etc | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 04:58 PM |
| 11 | How Does School Make Men Feminine?These red pill gurus are clearly con artists. So they'd rather you leave school with no qualifications? And they'd rather that you don't get a job. There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a 9-5. Even if you still want to launch your own business someday. Most millionaires and billionaires have worked in at least one job in their life before they started their business. It just sounds like they want to give terrible advice so that young men will be so confused that they end up signing to onl… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | What made you turn soy?Exactly what I was wondering. Came here to see the responses and so far haven't been disappointed! 😂😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Losing a husband to RPUnfortunately, my friend is still in it. He's in his 30s but he often just sounds like a 12 year old. I would laugh if it wasn't so sad. The last time we spoke it was clear that he was far from leaving red pill. Towards the end of our friendship, he became even more arrogant. I grew tired of trying to talk sense into him and a couple of our other friends also gave up. It's hard to know when/if he'll ever get out. I guess that's why I said, just look after yourself and do what's right for you. Re… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/23 10:44 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill has now been well-known for about a decade. It seems it's track-record for actual helping men is dismal.It depends on what you think it's meant to help men achieve. Does it help men feel better about themselves ie. Feel that they are better than women? Yes Does it help men feel that they can achieve happiness and fulfilment by looking good and making money? Yes Does it help men feel that they are alpha and therefore they are respected by all other men and admired by all women? Yes Are these men truly happy and fulfilled? No. Are these so called alpha men really respected by all men and admired by … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/23 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Andrew Tate arrested on sex trafficking chargesYeah. Maybe she's disappeared because she's protecting herself. But I get what you're saying, it's very possible that those brothers have done something with her that's meant that no one can find her. Hopefully, she'll turn up and she's fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Andrew Tate arrested on sex trafficking chargesMaybe she just cut them off. It's not uncommon in a toxic family, for the healthier sibling/s to walk away and end all forms of communication. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 04:34 PM |
| 27 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?I believe that she only said this to him because she knew that this would be an insult for him. Andrew Tate is the sort of person that wants the whole world to believe that he has multiple women on rotation and he can have any woman he wants. It's pretty much guaranteed that he's the sort of man that boasts about the size of his dick. And that's why saying that he gives 'small dick energy' is probably the best way to offend him. Andrew Tate is used to receiving insults but there's no way he won'… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate arrested on sex trafficking chargesWhat's the story with their sister? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 03:50 PM |
| 10 | Do you think these so called red pilled men/women will get anywhere in future?I've thought about this far too many times cos when I first discovered red pill, I couldn't help but wonder what the point is ie. What the hell do these men gain in the long run?! I think the red pilled men will find success in some area of their lives, and they will put it down to red pill. The problems that they will encounter in life will be because they will just keep looking for shortcuts. Red pill makes it seem as if there is a secret shortcut to success in life, when in fact, there isn't.… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 10:32 AM |
| 18 | Losing a husband to RPI think you've got to do what's best for you at this stage. The problem with red pill is that you can't tell how long they'll be in it. 2 years, 10 years, 20 or even 30 years and in all of that time you'll just be left waiting. The saddest part is that if you do end up filing for divorce, he still won't immediately wake up from the red pill because he'll convince himself that you're just acting out on emotion and that women are the ones who initiate most divorces because they are emotional. Its … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 10:05 AM |
| 5 | Losing a husband to RPI might be wrong but I think that deep down it comes down to low self esteem. So they want to feel powerful and in control and who is the closest person to control? Their wives? Edit: I don't think they go into it with this intention. I think they genuinely want to improve in life but red pill ends up giving them solutions that will help their self esteem but not necessarily their marriage. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 09:54 AM |
| 3 | The boat is sinkingThis is really good news. I just hope that they have enough evidence to fully expose this man's madness and put him away for a decent about of time. Unfortunately, if he gets good lawyers and he's able to get out of this mess without a criminal conviction and without having to serve any time, his fans will end up loving him even more! 🙄🙄 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.Lol. Yeah I get that it's different. I don't really care much if the stats never change. Whether the preference is down to nature or society, I just think red pilled men need to be more open minded and stop complaining about their height. Thanks for your input though. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.Hmm well interacial marriages are on the rise. I guess you'd say that the preference for most people is to date within their own race and the reason why interracial dating is rising is because people who would have 'naturally' only liked their own race are unnaturally choosing to date and marry outside their race? They are working outside of their natural disposition? Preference is highly influenced by society. If you genuinely believe that all preference is just natural and inbuilt then you're … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Murdering with kindnessYes of course Tate is partly to blame. Do you really think that all of these men were always that way? Surely Tate and other red pill content creators have helped these men to think this way. Also, if it was the case that every red pilled man is just naturally influenced to exude toxic masculinity, then no one would leave the red pill. Surely influencers like Tate are influencing many of these men to think like them? I don't think all of them were just born this way. I'd say that at least 10-20%… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 11:20 PM |
| 17 | Murdering with kindnessHe's still very active on Facebook and twitter. And maybe even more famous now cos of the 'unfair' ban from other platforms. He was also the most searched for person on Google for 2022 ie Who is.. Andrew Tate? I actually feel sorry for his followers. In 10-20 years time, they are gonna end up being the lost generation of angry men that either never got married or settled down or ended up divorced, or men who ended up being abusive or being abused, or men who ended up with serious mental health i… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Murdering with kindnessLol@reading it daily for the past 10 years! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.I read everything you wrote and I feel compelled to ask you to genuinely question your beliefs about women and their 'nature', if you continue to believe that 'female nature' exists then you will never fully overcome the programming of red pill. I am a woman but I do not believe that there is such a thing as 'male nature'. Some women believe that most men have zero emotions other than anger, most men will always sleep with as many women as possible but I believe that every man is an individual a… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.There's no such thing as 'it's nature' unless it can be backed by science eg you can see it in our dna. Most things that red pill obsess over are just societal constructs. Have your spoken to 1000s of taller women and 1000s of shorter men to show that the women are less likely than the men to consider this? How do you know that the issue mostly is with the women? Also, if women are saying no to shorter guys, is it because this dynamic has not been normalised yet and they are concerned about what… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.Seriously? There's always one person that will come along and turn this into 'this means that red pill is right' Yes, women typically go for men that are taller than them but that's because of what society has told us. If people became more open minded eg tall gall considers dating shorter guy and vice versa, they will both have more options and may increase their chance of finding love. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Good looks are to dating, what being born wealthy is to your financial statusI wouldn't say unlimited cos there will still be some people that don't want to connect with you either cos you're not their type physically or intellectually or lifestyle wise. People want to connect with people that they share something in common with and you can't be all things to all people. Also, why does this matter to you? What is your dating goal? Are you trying to date many women as possible over a period of time or are you looking for a LTR? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/22 06:28 AM |
| 9 | Good looks are to dating, what being born wealthy is to your financial statusLol. But what do you mean by 'dating is easy' do you mean the number of dates that you can go on each week? So if you're hot, you could find 100 women to go out on dates with in a year and if you're not, you might only be able to find 5? Possibly true. I agree that you might be right if your dating goal is to date or sleep with as many women as possible, rather than to find a LTR. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/22 04:30 AM |
| 22 | Height preferencesI've just spotted that all your posts are questions about height. You really need to let this go man! | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 30 | Height preferencesWomen don't have an exclusive preference to tall guys. I'm about 5 foot 3. I've dated taller and shorter guys and the only thing I remember about the relationship, was how they treated me. I don't think about their height. I can't imagine me thinking - Damn, the best thing about the relationship was his height. Women that think this way are the equivalent of men that say 'ah man, she was so hot, the best thing about the relationship was her butt or her boobs' yes men like that exist and they des… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 7 | My Best Guy Friend is Sucked In.This was the exact same position that I was in last year. I joined this group because I really wanted to help my friend out. It didn't work out. Red pill is like brainwashing. It takes over their lives and their minds, and you can't reason with them. I only found out about red pill because I noticed a huge change in his behaviour. He had always been kind to me but suddenly I noticed that he seemed to have no faith in the possibility of being in a healthy relationship. Plus he seemed to be determ… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | More men should go to therapy while in a toxic relationship, self improve, and dump afterI understand why you think it would be fun to dump a toxic person but your advice is based on faulty logic. Firstly, a toxic woman definitely won't sit there and think about why she's a bad partner. You need to read up on narcissists and psychopaths so you can get an idea of how toxic people think. They don't care about being dumped. They will either look for revenge or they will just move on to their next victim. Secondly, if you find yourself in a toxic relationship, then the best thing you ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/22 09:03 PM |
| 5 | More men should go to therapy while in a toxic relationship, self improve, and dump afterYou leave better than you came. Lol. Toxic relationships aren't some sort of reality makeover show. They can be extremely traumatic and can have a life-long negative impact on people's lives plus it takes time to heal from these things. I'm not sure why you're just encouraging people to waste months or years of their lives, in a bad relationship when they could be in a happy one! Also, most people don't need to be in a relationship in order to improve themselves. However, if this method has work… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/22 08:53 PM |
| 6 | More men should go to therapy while in a toxic relationship, self improve, and dump afterNot sure if you've been in a truly toxic relationship before. Leaving is literally the only thing you should be doing if you find yourself in one. There's no benefit in hanging around. Also, what does it mean to leave a lasting impression? Are you trying to get the other person to feel bad for being toxic?! Or you want them to see you develop as a man and then miss you when you're gone? That's a complete waste of time. If you're in a bad relationship, just leave as soon as you can. Getting thera… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 12 | More men should go to therapy while in a toxic relationship, self improve, and dump afterHmm.. Why can't he just get out of the toxic relationship ASAP. Toxic relationships are damaging to your self esteem as well as your physical and mental health. What's the befit of getting therapy while damaging yourself at the same time? If you wanna leave, just leave. You don't need your therapist to back your decision. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/22 08:11 PM |
| 5 | How to stop "spinning plates" and be faithful in LTR?It sounds like you're not quite done with spinning plates. Doesn't seem that you're ready to commit. I know it sounds odd but age is arbitrary and turning 35 doesn't mean that you're ready for change. It would make more sense for you to keep spinning plates or staying in the dating world until you know for sure that you're truly ready to end that lifestyle and commit to a monogamous relationship. You can also look into polyamory as its an alternative lifestyle that might be more suited to your n… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?This is exactly what I've been thinking. I wonder how many red pill leaders are actually just gay but struggling with their sexuality. I've only ever heard about 'chads' from Red pill men. Most of the women I know have no idea what a chad is and if you showed them one, they'd say 'good-looking but not for me!' | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenFair enough | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenI agree with you on the points above. However, you have also stated that: The data actually shows the opposite of what OP claiming. People maximize the best mate they can get along the wealth/beauty axis which usually ends up more or less evenly matched. People aren't making decisions just along a beauty/wealth axis. The decision making process is far more complex than that. For example when you look at 76 different traits including beauty and wealth, kindness comes up higher for both men and wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenInteresting. I'm not a man so I don't know what comes up on when men search on dating apps but I'm hoping that it can't be every single female dating profile. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenOh come on! Sometimes, I just wanna give up on this sub. Women don't always pick the tallest guy!! Argggh!! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenTo be fair I couldn't really think of an example. Also, I though red pill was all about the six 6s 6 pack 6 foot tall 6 figure income etc.. Wasn't this one of the main things that red pill promoted | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenWomen prefer to date up both in attractiveness and wealth / status. I don't think this is true. Imagine a woman that struggles with her weight and is slightly overweight. She might even say that she'd like to date a man with a six pack but there are many problems with this. Realistically speaking a man with a six pack might not be keen to date a woman that's not perfectly fit. A woman who is overweight might like the fantasy of dating a guy with a six pack but she knows in reality what this guy … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenOh and according to TRP there is no such thing as a high quality woman. They only believe in being with virgins that are aged 25 or less. And they believe that all women over 25 who earn too much money do not deserve to be with any man, so in theory according to red pill, these sort of women won't even be able to get a homeless man to date them!! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenYeah, cos if you're not homeless and toothless, then you probably won't be compatible with a homeless and toothless guy. Duh! Compatible lifestyles will always matter. You would have a completely different lifestyle from a homeless guy so it wouldn't make sense. Even if you moved him in your home, you would probably still be too different in terms of your upbringing, expectations, ideas of fun, culture, intellect, friendships etc. But if as a woman, you had to choose between two guys who you wer… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenYou are literally interpreting that data to make it read as what you want to read! You completely ignored the first paragraph. This is why red pill exists because even when presented with data that shows that ppl value various things, and they don't simply just match looks with wealth, you still read it to mean what you want! They say that most people are not like Donald Trump but that it may appear that way for various reasons, but ultimately people make choices based on compatibility. If you t… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenThe article also said in a selection of 76 traits, when picking a partner, people rated 'kindness' higher than looks or wealth. In the end, I guess what I'm trying to say is that red pill is just a bunch of made up rules. Women don't always select their mates based on money and men don't always make the decision based on looks. The decision making process is much more complex than that. Also, red pill completely ignore the idea of love. I'm not even sure if red pillers believe in love. Also, if … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 08:09 AM |
| 11 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenHave you read the full article or just picked the part that matches your views? In the parts you've just quoted, they are talking about what people say they want vs what they go for in reality. Please read to the end where they explain that people match with their own characteristics ie. Smart people go for smart people, good looking people tend to match with good looking people, wealthy people tend to match with wealthy people. So a woman that is kind might say that she wants someone that is ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Logical contradictions in red pill ideologyKevin Samuels used to say that a woman shouldn't have political views but I also never heard him say they shouldn't vote. Though I also kind of think that that's what he meant. I still can't understand what RP has against women with political views! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Logical contradictions in red pill ideologySo do they want women to go to work or to stay at home? I'm so confused by this! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?Why boredom? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Didn't say that conservatism was evil. I'm saying that the red pill views align with some very far right 'traditional' views and are a perfect tool for recruiting people to vote for politicians like trump. Everyone is entitled to vote for whoever they want but I would not be surprised if a young man that is politically neutral, joins the red pill and within months begins to adopt far right views, and votes for the party that aligns best with his views. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.That's the point. Someone on the left could easily adopt red pill ideologies but I'm pretty sure that after a few months or years their political views will change thanks to red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Alright guys, it seems they finally admitted it. Come and watch the video. What do you guys think? How do you feel about what was said?Lol. I thought you the video would show Andrew Tate finally admitting to a deeply rooted hatred for men. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 02:05 PM |
| 3 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Thanks for sharing this. I think the new generation of red pillers use YouTube more than Google for their searches. Hence the growing YouTube channels and I don't think they are searching for the phrase red pill. All I know is that there are more and more new YouTube channels every month and the red pill content is getting bolder. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 10:14 PM |
| 5 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Thanks. I'll look out for your reply. Btw I meant to say, I'm not expecting you to have all the answers. But yes, very curious to see some possible solutions to this! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.But that's the thing. I don't think it will get better in the future, because no one is actively countering this movement. Even in this sub, most people agree that red pill is growing but some people are still saying that its not that big. But do you really want it to be big before you do something about it?!! If this thing keeps growing year on year and the future generation will be living in a very different world. It needs a movement that is counter to it, and I don't think anything like that… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:38 PM |
| 4 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Please forgive my ignorance. Why would anyone want to destroy the nuclear family?! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 6 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.I didn't say that the men are not frustrated. I'm saying that this growing group of men are basically voter heaven for some politicians. And the movement is showing no signs of slowing down. Also, I'd be interested in your views. Why are so many men frustrated? What do they need to change in order to permanently solve that frustration? Also, surely the manosphere was meant to be their safe space and it turned toxic. So how can a safe space be created? I'm expecting that you have all the answers,… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:33 PM |
| 3 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.A political idea, doesn't need to be locked in one country. I don't live in the US but red pill is over here in Europe and it's tied to Conservative parties. Ideas can easily be jumped on and used for political purposes. You said that I have failed to give one example. I literally gave an example in my previous comment of how one of the largest red pill Forum on reddit (which was eventually banned) was set up by a republican law maker. And another user has shared research on how red pill was als… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:24 PM |
| 7 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.I don't think you need to do a lot of mental gymnastics for this one. Many people are indoctrinated into certain beliefs and often it is those in power that encourage or fund these ideologies. An ideology that may appear to be harmlessly growing and hurting 'no one', can often end up being extremely dangerous. Red pill appears to be harmless, but if enough young men across the country, accept it as the norm, then you'll be dealing with a very dangerous group of men. Some of whom who will activel… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Thanks for your insight. Yes, the idea of red pill and blue pill definitely didn't start with political motivations. Having said that, I think the red pill that we are seeing today is the perfect platform that is possibly being used by right wing politicians and those aligned to these politicians, to help attract more young men to latch unto such views. Of course I can't prove it so everything I'm saying is pure speculation. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 3 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Thanks for sharing that link. I'll watch it in full when I have a chance. So far it is really eye opening. I never really believed or thought much about brainwashing until I discovered red pill and saw the damage that it had done to my friend!! And sorry to hear that you also lost friends to redpill. I think it's insane that it can just take over people's minds and they don't realise it when it's happening. It's sad to know that they will most likely spend the rest of their lives getting in and … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 09:25 AM |
| 3 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.I agree that on the surface it seems like just a reactionary movement but there are some deep political views within red pill. I've been reading, watching, learning about red pill as an observer and for the past 12 months and I've kept wondering, what is the big picture. What is the aim of this movement? Why would you need to get boys to hate women or feel that women are the enemy? I'm guessing that most of these red pilled boys and men, grew up with a mother who was half-decent to them, so why … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 09:05 AM |
| 8 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Interesting about the idea of taking away their ability to get love. It would definitely be a good tactic if that's the goal. One of my friends that is Red pilled has really isolated himself, he has a girlfriend but only seems to hang out with other 'alpha males' that are just as lonely as he is. Before he was red pilled I thought he was normal but over time, I've seen that he really hates women and also seems to hate 'weak men' too - basically any man that he doesn't consider to be alpha enough… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 07:59 AM |
| 19 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Also, it doesn't help that one of the biggest influencers in the growth of red pill on reddit (before the sub was banned for spreading its misogynist views), was an anonymous user on reddit who turned out to be a republican lawmaker. https://www.vox.com/culture/2017/4/28/15434770/red-pill-founded-by-robert-fisher-new-hampshire | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 07:27 AM |
| 4 | Stop trying to make Alpha males a thingThank you. Couldn't have said it better. If you're struggling to stand up for yourself then you to go to therapy or read books to learn to set better boundaries. The solution is not red pill. Why go down the red pill and become a dick head, lose out on good relationships that could have been in your life? Red pill doesn't end well for any one. It just teaches men to create a lonely existence for themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Stop trying to make Alpha males a thingThe issue is that the language of alpha, beta and sigma, creates hierarchy and it doesn't help men see themselves as equals. Any language that creates hierarchy is inherently dangerous. It impacts the way red pillers view the world and therefore they begin to see everything as hierarchical including their position in society compared to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Stop trying to make Alpha males a thingLol. That's a good one. I'm not even religious but I think I'll start saying that to red pillers. Make them totally confused! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 06:38 AM |
| 27 | Stop trying to make Alpha males a thingIf you're not red pilled or you've managed to get out of Red pill, then you'll know that there's no such thing as alpha, beta, omega males etc | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Why does RP promote ”dread” in a relationship when we can see this:Because RP men find it easier to create chaos in a relationship than create a sense of calm and support. So basically, when they create drama in the relationship, the woman will end up having a trauma bond with him (if she's not emotionally healthy) So he causes chaos or acts in a terrible way towards her, then she gets frustrated and tries to figure out why, he eventually 'makes up' with her and rewards her with sex and then she never fully resolves the problems in the relationship. It's fun an… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill makes men MISERABLEOh. Didn't misunderstand you. I was commenting about how absurd it is for red pillers to complain about women leaving or divorcing them after they've treated them like crap! | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill makes men MISERABLELol.. Like why the hell would she leave? Surely she should be grateful to be treated like shit?! Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 08:49 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill makes men MISERABLEHmm... The way you speak about women. It sounds like you must be really happy. And not miserable at all. 😒😒 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Women who have dated or is dating a man who have claimed to RP what were the Red Flags and negative traits that you found in him and have you ever spoken to them about it?I've heard of breadcrumbing, negging, and gaslighting but this is new. I had never heard of mewing and minoxidil so I started to think, oh gosh. Need to Google this this so I can quickly spot if a guys is doing this to me. 😭😭😭 Goggled and thought - Phew. Finally something that they can only do to themselves! I always learn something new from this sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Could having multiple partners make you happier?I wouldn't go so far as to say that monogomy is unnatural but I think that some people are more suited to polygamous relationships than others. Monogamy is a preference for many people but it's doesn't work for everybody. And yes, culture and religion have definitely helped shape most people to become more monogamous. The problem with redpill is that they promote the idea of having multiple partners because it makes you more "alpha" but there is certainly no benefit to having multiple partners u… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Redpill, Blackpill made me gay.So instead of seeing a qualified professional therapist, you decided to read some books at home and become your own therapist? Lmao! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 11 | [FOR WOMEN - Experiment on penis vs height]100% agree with this. I wouldn't want to date a guy that's preoccupied with his height and his penis size. All of that energy that could be used in loving himself, living a happy life and making our relationship amazing. Instead, he uses the energy to worry about something that he cannot change. What a sad waste of precious time. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?Yep online scams and brainwashing can happen to anyone. Age doesn't protect men or women from falling down the red pill rabbit hole. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?So Red pill hasn't affected you or caused you to hate women, so therefore you believe that overall it's not a bad thing. Really? Just because you have been able to 'take the good' and keep yourself of social media, and you don't watch hours of hours of Red pill, doesnt mean that TRP is harmless. Not ever teenager or young man is simply just 'taking the good'. Most teenagers watch numerous hours of this stuff. It is highly addictive and the youtube algorithm will keep feeding you more and more co… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?If red pill has not had a negative impact on you then this is great but please don't try to convince other people in this sub that RP is harmless, or that it only focuses on self improvement and exposes 'female nature' I'm not sure if you realise that this sub is to help people to leave Red pill and accept that RP is nonsense Red pill philosophy is extremely dangerous and it is equivalent to brainwashing. It has caused damage to many relationships. Many good men have lost their self esteem, and … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 06:06 PM |
| 6 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?You do realise that this is exactly how brainwashing happens right? You hear someone say few things. Some of which you agree with, some of it you don't agree with. And then after listening to it over and over again you start to agree with the whole thing. RP teaches men to mistrust women. It's highly unlikely that you can watch hours and hours of Red pill content and come out of it without it having a negative impact on your beliefs about women. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 02:20 PM |
| 3 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?I'm super interested in this. Did you both enter into it together? Who introduced it to you and also how was it different back then? My friend is in his early 30s and he's still stuck in it. He's now engaged to a woman who shares his beliefs. I think RP is also very suited to people with the religious belief that women should submit to their husband. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?I'm super interested in this. Did you both enter into it together? Who introduced it to you and also how was it different back then? My friend is in his early 30s and he's still stuck in it. He's now engaged to a woman who shares his beliefs. I think RP is also very suited to people with the religious belief that women should submit to their husband. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 36 | Is being “BB”, settled for, or being seen as the “safe/stable” guy a valid concern?Red pill makes you think that women walk around rating the opposite sex on a sliding scale of 1-10. Red pill makes you believe that all women secretly despise their ugly husbands, and they fantacize about an attractive man that they slept with in the past when they were still young, before they 'hit the wall'. Please remember that this is just a story that is being sold by red pill and it is far from the truth. The truth is that most human beings are drawn to each other because of some level of … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?Yeah there's some good in religion but also lots of terrible stuff. Might delete it later. Thanks for the safety tip. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?I'm a woman. In terms of honesty, if you think a woman that you're dating is lying to you about the number of men that she's sleeping with, then you probably shouldn't be dating her, cos it means that you don't trust her. In terms of knowing the story behind the stats, I mean that you should ask questions and get to know hey on a deeper level. The 'body count' numbers aren't even useful if you don't then know her life story. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?Personally, I don't believe that your numbers matter. I'm more interested in your views on sex, and if the numbers are high, why are they so high. Bodycount cannot hold a marriage together. What will create a happy marriage is genuine love, support, trust, honesty, emotional maturity, and compatibility in many areas, including having similar views on sex, and similar views on commitment. My ex-husband, only slept with one person prior to being with me. He was just 13 and the woman he slept with,… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 09:46 AM |
| 7 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?We are humans living life, not actuaries calculating risk/benefits for insurance benefits. I love this comment. I think TRP makes you completely lose sight of this. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?People who don't like JP are 100% allowed to mock JP especially feminists. But that doesn't mean that all women mock men when they cry or all feminists mock men when they cry. This is why red pill is so destructive, they view something that some women do and then extrapolate it to the entire female population! I could also watch some red pill videos and then walk around and say 100% of men are cheaters but that would be a stupid thing to say because it can't be true because there is no way that … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?Can you accept that: JP is basically one of the lead people in TRP and that his views are causing men to believe that society has stripped/is stripping them of their masculinity. Can you accept that JP has enemies who can't stand him and many of these enemies are women Can you accept that some women will laugh or put down a man because he is crying. This is most likely because they are emotionally immature. However, an emotionally mature woman won't do that. Can you accept that all women (both e… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 06:53 AM |
| 14 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?I'm so irritated by Aba and Preach's response to this video. It's as if they are treating JP as an innocent man that has not already caused harm to many men and women. JP is crying for incels and their loneliness but he is literally spreading false ideas that are creating these very same incels. People now look at themselves in the mirror and instead of seeing the beauty both inside and outside of themselves, they use numbers to rate themselves and become convinced that no one will love them. Th… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How long did it take for you to detox and what helped youDo you mean that therapy helped? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox.This is the post that I was referring to https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/umlo26/you_guys_come_here_with_your_very_redpill/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share I'm not sure if the detox kit already has this but maybe it should include we a guide on how the detox process really works ie. how to help people get out of TRP. Those of you that successfully managed to get out and fully detox from Red pill, black pill etc. You need to tell others how you did it, how long it took, what ki… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 02:05 AM |
| 6 | If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox.I think the problem is that too many people here have been hurt by TRP ideologies or they are still struggling to accept the damage of Red pill, so they are consciously or subconsciously being insensitive towards the OPs. If people aren't showing empathy, it's not that they don't want to, it's probably because they aren't able to do that yet. They are projecting their anger at red pill, blue pill or black pill and taking it out on the OPs or other commenters. I've noticed that some of the best r… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 01:55 AM |
| 9 | Helping someone realise the programming of RPIt's very difficult to deprogramme someone that is deeply into red pill. Red pill relationships only 'work' if both partners believe in the same nonsense. So you really only have two options. You can leave with your sanity intact or you can stay with him and try to adapt to his narcissistic behaviour. If you leave, you are free to tell him the problems with red pill. This won't change him immediately but it will plant a seed in him. If you stay with him, you will most likely end up being hurt in… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Anyone exiting the red pill paradigm has to read No More Mr Nice Guy.They aren't reading it with the same intention that you used to read it. They read it with the view that 'nice guys finish last' I'm not even convinced that any of them actually read the book. They just like to talk about how it helped them understand why being a nice guy leaves you broken hearted. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/22 06:25 PM |
| 10 | I wish I could make amends to those I harmed while being brainwashed.Seriously? How insensitive. This sub isn't here for you to spread anger towards others. It's here to support people that have been harmed by TRP ideology. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/22 04:20 PM |
| 12 | What does a woman 'loving' up on a man and 'loyalty' look like to you?Part 1 'Loyalty' in the red pill community simply means a woman who doesn't cheat or leave her man no matter what he does. She stays loyal to him, even if he cheats on her, treats her like shit, has a gambling habit or drinking addiction, and even if he ends of up in jail. A loyal woman would never leave. Plus, she'll do anything for her man. She's basically a 'ride or die' chick. This is why TRP often talk about how women love 'bad boys' and why they have prison pen pals. Notice that TRP never … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Why people say they want one thing but do or go after the other.This is so powerful. Thanks for sharing. It reminds me of the book 'deeper dating' The book talks about the sort of relationships that we instinctively attract, based on our childhood and our sense of familiarity. After reading the book, I realised that throughout most of my adult life, I had been subconsciously attracting really toxic friendships and relationships into my life. I was repeatedly doing this through because it was really familiar to me. I'd grown up in a family that had been abusi… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 08:32 AM |
| 5 | My girlfriend told me: WOMEN LIKE GOOD MEN MORE THAN ANYTHING.This is much better. In fact, I think we should start a new movement called green pill and use the limb method as our classification system. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 07:23 PM |
| 3 | can someone explain this to meThanks. I think it's because I was never red pilled so I can see all the levels of madness and dangers with TRP ideology. I found out about TRP completely by accident and I only studied it so that I could to help my best friend get out of it. He hasn't left and will most likely not leave for many years to come 😔😔 Also, I know what its like to be brainwashed because I basically grew up in a cult. So I know that logic can be helpful but it's still very very difficult to get out of brainwashing. I'… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/22 05:46 PM |
| 9 | can someone explain this to meLOL @ cooking food to fatten up the man! Yes, I think it's a new thing! I wonder what they do when they have a traditional wife that loves to cooks? Do they choose not to eat it out of fear that they may gain weight? I can just imagine this poor alpha male who is so busy working hard so that his wife can stay at home full time...but when he comes home, he's choosing not to eat his wife's food cos he's scared that she's going to fatten him! So what was the point of asking her to stay at home? The… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 10:19 AM |
| 55 | can someone explain this to meThere's nothing to explain. Everything in red pill is designed to convince you that all women are terrible. If a woman has a well-paid career or good education = she is too modern and she's not worth dating If she doesn't have a job = she must be a gold digger and she's not with dating If she's not a hot babe with a rating of 8-10 = she's not worth dating If she lives beyond the age of 30 = she has hit the wall and she's not worth dating If she has a kid from a previous relationship or marriage … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 09:40 AM |
| 13 | A personal story that might illustrate what (some) women are actually interested inI don't think that's the point of his story. I believe what he's trying to say is that most women are attracted to normal men who can just be themselves and be comfortable and confident in their own skin. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 17 | My Ex Redpill Boyfriend Killed My Self Esteem…but I’m Healing.I don't think you need to feel any shame about this. It could happen to anyone, plus you were able to effectually get out. These RP men either look for an insecurity in you or they use manipulation techniques to try to make you feel insecure and feel that you are not showing them enough love. It sounds like you didn't really have any insecurities so he desperately tried to create them for you. Its good to see that you were able to get out and recognise that he was red pilled. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | I think want to be with somebody and i haven’t felt like this since i found about red pillYou should say what these videos are about | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 4 | I think want to be with somebody and i haven’t felt like this since i found about red pillI second this. I think OP has literally just realised that there's something wrong with red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys think redpillers lack morals?Yes. The leaders definitely lack morals. But the followers are mostly just brainwashed and that's why all their morals are gone. If they got out of Red pill, and got some decent therapy, I'd like to believe that most of them would be quite normal and have a good sense of right and wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand hypergamyHere's everything you need to know about the very foolish concept of hypergamy... Red Pill wants you to believe that while a woman is dating you and while you are busy working hard to make more money and building more muscle... Women too are constantly scanning every room, every job, every situation... for the richest guy, the tallest guy and the guy which the most muscles. And when they see him, they give him a knowing look that says 'I like you, you are more alpha than my boyfriend' and the ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theorySo... You say you're not red pilled but you believe that some women like bad boys.. Who are these women that are attracted to bad boys? Are they mentally and emotionally healthy? Why do they want to be with someone who is guaranteed to hurt them? Men and women generally do not want to be hurt, even babies avoid pain. It's not normal for a grown adult to seek out harmful situations where they are guaranteed to be hurt by their partner. And also, so what if your relationship is successful? I thoug… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 13 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryLooks like you haven't detoxed yet. Please read the red pill detox kit. Grown women that are attracted to 'bad boys' clearly have issues. Yes teenage girls might be attracted to bad boys because they are still very immature. However, if a grown up says that she likes being with men who cheat on her, then she obviously needs help. Think of it the same, how many men do you know that say they love to be with girls who cheat on them? Not many. Yes, there are cases where a women might be open to shar… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 13 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryI think it's worth expanding and explaining what you mean by RP may work for some women. In terms of 'working', I think most people here will agree that it doesn't 'work' for men or women and it ultimately hurts both genders. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 9 | The red pill is the Bible on how to manage toxic people?Lol. I've read Dr Ramani's book. Please can you explain which parts of the book correlate with red pill. Also, why not just be with someone that's healthy, rather than using red pill to manage a relationship with a narcissist? Seems a bit pointless. If someone shows you that they aren't healthy, then just leave. Why do you need to use dredgame, spinning plates and everything else?! | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 6 | If the wall is undefeated...doesn't that apply to wives too?Yes, this is the actual problem. Rp is 100% made-up nonsense. You cannot make sense of nonsense. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 04:36 AM |
| 14 | Is it really over for women over 25?I love this. Thank you. I got married in my late 20s. And now I'm in my late 30s, recently divorced and I'm and to get back into the dating world. I have great friends, and I have a generally great lifestyle. Life is whatever you make it. No such thing as 'over'. Life is only over when you're dead! | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 30 | Still afraid of womenI'm sorry that this happened to you. I think you should look into therapy. I went through a traumatic situation a few years ago which meant that I could continue working with my male colleagues but I genuinely struggled to be around men in a non-professional setting, and I would find it difficult to feel safe around any man. I want to assure you that there are good women out there but you won't find one if you're not in a good place, so please look into therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 10:05 AM |
| 16 | A long and largely pointless rantI agree with this. You've described yourself in so many ways that are positive things that women are actually looking for, from friends and lovers. I think therapy will help you see just how amazing you are so you can let go of the red pill ideology and embrace your true personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 14 | Leaving my red pill boyfriend + some thoughts on his ideologiesWhy are you even here? Wouldn't your time be more productive in subs where people agree with your views? Your comments are just showing us that some people in TRP are totally brainwashed, and will never find their way out. I'm pretty sure the only reason people are being relatively kind to you in their comments, is that they feel sorry for you and understand that you've been brainwashed. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Married red pillPlease make sure you read the detox kit as advised above. It's good that you're beginning to see some of the issues with MRP. If you're ready to make your life better then it may be time for you to leave MRP for good. The link to the detox kit is at the top of this thread. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 4 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.So were you red pilled? And if so, how long were you red pilled and how did Red pill impact these behaviours? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Kevin Samuels diedSeriously? 1. I'm not an investigative journalist. My job is not to watch all of KS's videos. I happen to have watched a few of his videos last year and this year after he died, I compiled a list of the things that I remembered. As you can see, someone else commented in this thread, that KS had said that you shouldn't trust kids when they accuse an adult of rape, and I was very surprised by that. 2. KS was an influencer and his opinions were dangerous. He was influencing young boys and men to th… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 09:44 AM |
| 6 | I can’t be the only one who loves strong womenWell in TRP everything is over simplified. And a trad wife = a maid who has sex. Kevin Samuel's the red pill guru was famous for saying that women should only give sex, sandwiches and silence. So yes most red pill men don't want personality. They just want a woman who they can come home to and a woman who won't complain, while they maintain multiple relationships with women outside the home. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 3 | I can’t be the only one who loves strong womenThe issue is that red pill never talk about personality. They talk about women's looks and being submissive. I think you got downvoted cos your post almost sounds like you believe that you can have a woman that is traditional, submissive but you still want her to have a personality. When people say they want a woman that is submissive they are basically saying agreeable ie. I want to manipulate her so that she doesn't have a say and therefore she loses her personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Kevin Samuels diedSeriously, in all of what I wrote, this is what you took from my comments? Don't spread misinformation like she discovered it all alone I'm not spreading misinformation and I didn't say that she worked alone. No scientist works alone. And if anyone thinks that she did it alone, that's their problem. Not mine. Actually, Antoine Henri Becquerel was the first person to discover radiation. Marie Curie and her husband Pierre Curie helped his research. I'm not writing a science text book, the focus of… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Female looking to help my brother who started watching redpill content recently.The problem with red pill is that there doesn't seem to be a mild version - it's addictive. The youtube algorithm will always suggest more red pill content to you. And before you know it you're back down that rabbit hole. I think it's more realistic to consider therapy and reading books or listening to podcasts that can help you understand what healthy relationships should look like. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Female looking to help my brother who started watching redpill content recently.Interesting... Sounds like red pill worked for you...Why are you in the ex Red-pill sub? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Female looking to help my brother who started watching redpill content recently.Lol @maintain attraction. Who told you that the wife is not attracted to him? The sister has basically said that the wife is a nasty piece of work. That means that the relationship would have ended, sooner or later. There's not much he could have done to keep that relationship going, and Red pill would certainly not have helped him or her. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Female looking to help my brother who started watching redpill content recently.Seriously? No. If he was red pilled, he might have stayed even longer, as he tries to use games to hurt and manipulate her, and get her to obey him. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?You were in a relationship with him but I wouldn't consider those the best years of your life, unless you're planning to have a terrible life ahead of you. The content that he's watching has already turned him into a user and eventually he's going to turn into a full blown abuser, and unfortunately abuse always starts off so subtly that it's hard to see it until you're fully experiencing it or maybe until you're finally out of it and this may take years, if you stay. OP, your future will be brig… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/22 08:46 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?I agree with this completely. You were in a relationship with him but I wouldn't consider those the best years of your life, unless you're planning to have a terrible life ahead of you. The content that he's watching has already turned him into a user and eventually he's going to turn into a full blown abuser, and unfortunately abuse always starts off so subtly that it's hard to see it until you're fully experiencing it or maybe until you're finally out of it and this may take years, if you stay… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels diedThese were part of his 1 hour plus long live videos so I don't even remember which ones but all those negative messages stuck with me for a while. 😔😔 Maybe if someone else reading this has a channel and enough time, they can put a compilation together. I don't run a channel so I don't have any reason to trawl through KS's videos all over again. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels did nothing but create more incels.I would add that red pill men probably don't make the best fathers. Their manipulative nature and their inherent belief that their role is to provide and that raising children is the job of the mother, makes me suspect that they won't be very involved in their kids life or even know how to fully emotionally connect with their kids. So with point 5, this can't be achived through red pill ideologies. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels did nothing but create more incels.Interesting. Encouraging people to date based on looks and money would not achieve any of these goals. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | The Truth about Red Pill's TruthsGreat idea. This book is needed. In fact, a tonne of books like this are needed. I'd be interested in being an advanced reader. Feel free to PM me. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I wish women had to compete for men.Could be fun! LOL | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 4 | I wish women had to compete for men.Awww how sweet - you won't kill babies, you'll just abort them when they turn out to be male? OP you need to start detoxing and stop speaking out of your ass. I haven't got the energy to try to educate you any further - Hopefully someone else can help. In the mean time, read through the redpill detox first aid kit: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ho4cvx/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/ | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 7 | I wish women had to compete for men.So somehow in all of this obsessing over men and women, you're thinking that killing babies could solve the problem? You think that wars and having fewer men in the world, could help so that women can have fewer options? And then you say 'Too bad this will never happen'? This is just madness and it's sad that you don't see it. I wonder how long you've been in the Red pill and at what stage you will realise the damage it is doing to you. Every single thing you've said in your post is pure red pil… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 6 | I advocate to all men trying to leave Red Pill to quit porn useLoved reading this. So many great points. Even though I'm not religious, I think sex can be deeply connecting healing, and spiritual. But very few people know how to experience that level of connection. And whilst I don't have anything against the use of porn or masturbating, I think getting addicted to it, is where the problem lies. It can definitely make men value and connect with women purely based on sex and sex appeal, and women have sooooo much more to offer than sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Will Kevin Samuel's death help some followers leave red pill?You've just confirmed exactly what I've suspected. Fans like you will never be able to see the harm that he's done and instead of recognising that he was a dangerous individual, you'll see him as a hero. The fact that he had no significant person in his life who loved him enough to announce his death, should be a warning sign to red pillers. The fact that it was his elderly mother who had to speak to the press about his death, shows that for many red pill men when they get to their 40s, 50s and … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Will Kevin Samuel's death help some followers leave red pill?Here are just a few of the dangerous messages that KS taught men and women - His message was toxic and dangerous for MEN and WOMEN. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ujfcrx/comment/i7itnt8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Will Kevin Samuel's death help some followers leave red pill?Yeah, it really is a case of misery loves company. It just seems so sad to think that these men are going to end up continually recreate problems for themselves, wasting years of their lives. It really seems that there is no way out. And for his followers, Kevin Samuel’s death could have been a wake up call but I guess they won't see it that way. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | You guys come here with your very redpill thoughts.. to an ex redpill forum…. And then argue and gaslight people that make sense… but are opposing of your STILL redpill views.OP, I don't think you're being helpful and I’m not even sure if you’re just trolling at this point.This sub is meant to be a safe and supportive space for people that have started to recognise the harmful effects of red pill and right now it seems that you're unnecessarily upset that some people in this sub haven’t outgrown TRP ideologies. Yes, ideally people would leave red pill and immediately get rid of every stupid idea that they learned from TRP but we all know that it takes time. Red pil… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | You guys come here with your very redpill thoughts.. to an ex redpill forum…. And then argue and gaslight people that make sense… but are opposing of your STILL redpill views.Totally agree with u/Melificarum Yes, we NEED to be empathetic and compassionate despite what they think about women. These men have been brainwashed to think that women can't love them for who they really are. Imagine how damaging that must be! I'm not sure if you're heterosexual but imagine walking around thinking that EVERY single man is only out to get you and use you - that must be awful. This is the message that Red pill is selling. I don't think any red pill man was born with an innate ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | You guys come here with your very redpill thoughts.. to an ex redpill forum…. And then argue and gaslight people that make sense… but are opposing of your STILL redpill views.Red pill is 100% brainwashing and when you've been indoctrinated with so much bullshit, it's hard to separate fact from fiction. I was never even red pilled, I only started researching it and watching videos because of my friend that was brainwashed into it - I was basically curious about where he'd learned all this crap. Strangely enough, within a couple of weeks of watching the crap, I actually found myself believing the nonsense! The only thing that helped me was being able to read up on fact… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Donovan Sharpe's Conference of Masculine Excellence (PARODY)u/RedPillExamined Theres an old video interview where Kevin Samuels originally said that women over 30 and single mums are great to date. I stumbled upon it on youtube a while ago but looking for it now. Have you seen this before? It would be great to see a video that shows what a fraud KS was! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Donovan Sharpe's Conference of Masculine Excellence (PARODY)These are some of the crappiest men in the world!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 10:24 AM |
| 6 | Kevin Samuels diedShe wasn't at his bed side. She was a stranger to him. He met her on the same night that he died. He took her home and the reports say that he suffered a heart attack while with this woman. So technically he didn't die alone, he had a stranger with him. But in terms of a family, he died alone. He had ex wives and a daughter who had a very strained relationship with him (this is not news) but he didn't have a wife or long term partner or anyone who loved him on a personal level, beyond his friend… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 3 | What is it like to be married or dating a red pill?Yep. I've read some of the posts in that sub and it makes me wanna cry. You can tell that some of these men actually want to improve their marriages but they are going about it completely wrong. Many of the men are clearly depressed and clueless and they just want their wives to value them. Like they could literally fix their marriages if they just spoke to their wives, and developed a level of understanding, listened to their wives, booked a baby sitter, went out on date night, showed some roma… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What is it like to be married or dating a red pill?There are in fact many red pill men that are married. See the reddit sub r/marriedredpill | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels diedI think they call in because they've been brainwashed by the content. So they think the only good men out there are high value men that earn 6 figures. And they look at themselves and think, is there any hope? Will I ever be good enough to meet a man, let alone a HVM? Calling KS is like a final lifeline for them. They call cos they want KS to tell them that there is hope for them but ultimately KS just tells them that they are average at best, and they will never get a high value man!! Lol. I ag… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Kevin Samuels diedKevin samuels definition of HVM is a man that earns 6 figures or more. That's all. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 6 | Kevin Samuels diedThe only way to know for sure if rich men are more likely to cheat is to look for a study on this. I think money does reveal your true character and some men may be humble when they meet their wife but as they gain wealth, they might feel that they deserve to cheat. Ultimately, lots of people from all walks of life cheat, and different sexual orientations cheat - Rich, poor, men, women. And even though there are many cheaters out there, there are also lots of people who choose to stay faithful t… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 10 | Kevin Samuels diedI had to Google the meaning of 'domestic discipline' and after reading it, my only thoughts are... WTAF! This is so messed up! | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 12:17 PM |
| 66 | Kevin Samuels diedIt's obviously sad to hear when anyone dies but I can't help but think that Kevin Samuels death was full on karma. One of his favourite sayings was "women over 30 would die alone" but it turns out that he was the one that ended up dying alone!! Whether you like it or not, KS was a dangerous figure. He made men believe that all they had to do was earn more money if they wanted to be with a woman. He never spoke about becoming a better person in terms of your character and behaviour, he encouraged… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?I viewed it on a desktop | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/22 01:05 PM |
| 7 | why does it always feel too soon?100% agree with this. Sending a message via text means that you have no idea if she's distracted when she gets it, you don't know what mood she's in when she receives it and then you still have to wait for a response. Asking in person is more likely to get a good response in terms of timing. Either way, really hoping that it's a positive response for you! | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?This is actually really good - Love the debate! LOL If there was a hell, I think Kevin Samuels would deserve to rot in it for all the pain and problems that he's causing the next generation of men (and their wives and kids) but I don't believe in a hell so I guess the only solution is for non-red pillers to create a better world for our kids and warn them against red pillers. So sad. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 6 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?This is really insightful | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?I'm sorry that you experienced this. The reality is that there are some very messed up women out there and it's very hard to spot them. My mother is a narcissist and so was my grandmother. They both mentally and emotionally abused me when I was growing up and even throughout adulthood, my mother was extremely manipulative to the point that I believe one of her main ambitions in life, was to ruin my life. Most people never believed me and even know, only a few of my close friends know the truth. … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 6 | this subreddit is an echo chamberThe issue is that many women are sexually assaulted and harassed and if you can't back it up with stats and you're not a woman then what experience or knowledge are you speaking from? I think this sub can be helpful for men that want to leave red pill ideologies but it's not helpful if you continue repeating things that come from angry red pill and make it seem as if most women are lying about assault. Yes, some women will lie but I'd say that most women and girls that I know that have experienc… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Really good Tumblr post on Twitter about what a trans man has observed:This is powerful and true. I'm convinced that if more men took the time to build genuine relationships with eachother, we wouldn't be dealing with red pill. Women do this naturally, we are socialised to form deep emotional connections with eachother and to support eachother in our times of need. In my opinion, the manosphere proves that men are looking for real connection but unfortunately, instead of connection, the red pill community have created something dangerous. I'm so curious about how m… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Is white knight syndrome a real thing men do?There's a good book about this if you want to find out more. It's literally called the white Knight syndrome but the idea behind it is that there are some men that are always looking to date women that need to be 'rescued' Some men always find themselves dating drug addicts, alcoholics, mentally unstable women, cheaters, compulsive liars, gamblers etc. They date these women because they subconsciously have hopes to save them from their problems. And the reason they do this is because often these… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | The roommates podcast and the redpill communityJordan Peterson is definitely red pill and that's why the red pill community love him so much. I don't want to take this conversation in a completely different direction, but when you listen to Jordan Peterson and watch him carefully, you'll see that he's extremely intelligent but possibly also mentally unstable. His ideas are very archaic and misogynistic. There's a brilliant interview online, where someone visits his home and he has portraits of sad/mad people all over his walls, and he says t… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 9 | The roommates podcast and the redpill communityRoommates podcasts is 100% redpill and I can't wait to see its downfall. They've had Jordan Peterson on there and Hafeez is clearly obsessed with him. I'm waiting for the day that Hafeez's marriage ends so that the roommate followers can see the flaws in their leader. Interestingly enough I think Hafeez is a decent guy that's been turned by red pill. He likes to give this good christian boy image, which may be true to some extent. When you listen to him talk about his upbringing and growing up i… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Saying goodbye to my best friend..Thanks for this. Yes, I'd definitely describe it as grieving. I looked up to him for so many years so I've been grieving the loss of our friendship but also one of the few people in my life that I really respected. I might summon up the courage to tell him the truth about the changes I've seen in him. It's a tough one because you never know how he'll react but it might be worth it if it helps him see that he has changed. Thanks again!! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp?I can't say that I know what you're going through because I wasn't in trp, but I've seen how powerful it can be, and I watched someone else change as a result of the red pill. I think you mustn't blame yourself for this. The red pill is a form of brainwashing and it's addictive. It convinces good men that they need to become narcissistic in order to meet or keep a woman, which is completely untrue. The ideology has worked on millions of men for over a decade and it's still working and ruining li… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Saying goodbye to my best friend..How have you approached the subject as a friend? I haven't directly spoken about Red pill because I know that he'd deny it and then cut me off. He hates being confronted or questioned in a way that could make him seem like a bad guy or someone that has done wrong. I've mentioned a few times that I don't think his girlfriend will appreciate some of the things that he says and does. When I say this, he will laugh and mock her, and say that there's nothing she can do. He's already started treating … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 11 | Saying goodbye to my best friend..Honestly I have no idea. He was burnt a couple of times in relationships and I know that he would always go the extra mile for the women he dated but I don't think it was ever fully reciprocated. It's strange now that I know about redpill one of the stangest things is reading that men feel that women don't love men or women can't love men cos I feel that so many women love fully and deeply but men like to chase women who don't love them! It takes maturity for a man to accept that he does want lo… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | serious question: how do you trust people?Trust needs to be earned, not freely given. I'd say take your time with people, observe how they behave, ask yourself if they are giving you the same respect that you would give them. And when they show you who they are, believe them. I believe that trust takes time and people will eventually show you who they are through their words, their action or their inaction. Also, some people are trustworthy in some areas but not others. I have some friends who I trust them to be there for me no matter w… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | This is terrible..Dude, if you're not trying to leave red pill, then why are you in the ex-redpill sub? This group is for people that are ready to leave the madness of redpill, and those that want to start forming authentic relationships in their lives. Most people here have had a first hand experience of the red pill ideologies, they know that Red pill is addictive and dangerous. If you're trying to leave red pill, then they will be more than ready to support you and answer your questions. If you are still red p… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 10 | Why are single red pill men angry at single mothers?Please remember that this is the ex redpill sub/red pill detox sub, for those that are beginning to understand the dangers of red pill. If you're here to promote RP and convince everyone that RP is good or safe, then you're in the wrong sub. In answer to your question, if you follow a lot of red pill content you'll see that there is a huge amount of anger, hatred and disgust that's directed at the women in general, particularly those listed in that paragraph. The reality is that many RP content … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?Seriously? Gaslighting? Please remember that this is the ex-red pill group which is here to support people that want to leave red pill ideologies. I've shared my opinion and OP has shared his opinion and I've respectfully agreed to disagree. In normal disourse, most people would simply refer to this as a difference of opinion. Far from gaslighting, I'm not here to persuade OP to live his life any differently. If I share my opinion and he changes his mind to leave red pill ideologies, then IMO th… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 51 | Why are single red pill men angry at single mothers?Hatred for single mothers is the ultimate hated for all Red pillers. They say that they hate women who are overweight, women who earn too much, women with too many degrees, women who have pets, women with high body counts.. But the ultimate hatred is single mothers. This demographic is the perfect group to hate because they represent every fear that the red pill man has! Think of it this way, they are obsessed with finding virgins or women with low body counts, they laugh about pump and dump, so… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 9 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?If looks are the most important thing to you then that's your decision. The problem is that many people in the Red pill community focus so much on looks and forget about personality, common interests, emotional maturity, shared values, shared goals, humour and all the things that can make a relationship work. But if personally, you just want to meet someone and you're not ready for a full on relationship then I suppose your looks and their look, may be enough to get you started. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 04:22 AM |
| 23 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?Looks are an important factor when choosing a partner but remember that looks aren't enough to keep you in a relationship... there's always someone better looking just around the corner. Are you gonna keep breaking up with your partners every time you meet someone better looking? Do you expect your partner to stay with you because you are the best looking person that they will ever meet? Do you plan to never age and to look the same or to keep on looking even better, for the rest of your life? I… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 8 | Can you de-programmed a red pilled partner?Take it from someone who has had to crawl herself out of a decade long abusive relationship, you need to get out. Save yourself and don't look back. I wish someone had been kind enough to warn me sooner. It is close to impossible to make a relationship work with an emotionally immature person. This man has a lot of growing up to do, but he needs to do it on his own. As long as you are in his life, it will distract him from realising that he has a problem and he will just continue to blame you, b… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 6 | What are redpill fathers like? Do they treat their kids as badly as their wives? Saw this post in another sub.I agree that this tweet seems quite extreme but the reality is that I havent really seen many red pill content creators talking about parenting and when they do, they all seem to think that this is purely the woman's role. I can imagine that many of them will be just as distant and emotionally unavailable to their kids as they are with their wives. Edit: I can see some of the comments here coming from people that are still red pilled stating that women can't be trusted and its wrong to express y… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 08:43 AM |
| 3 | What are redpill fathers like? Do they treat their kids as badly as their wives? Saw this post in another sub.I agree. If you think women can't be trusted anymore then stop dating them!! Women enter relationships with the aim of giving and receiving love and respect. Not all women are evil, hypergamous, selfish etc. If you believe redpill so much so that you can't trust any woman, then simply find another species to engage with. You shouldn't be dating any woman if you know that you'll never have the capacity to love her. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 08:22 AM |
| 3 | I think about going back to blackpill because I'm circumcised.All I can say is that Red pill = confusion. There's nothing right or wrong with being circumcised. It's not even an issue for most women and I can't imagine it being a deal breaker for any woman. We need a thread that discussed red pill ideology vs reality cos this concern you have has been completely made up by red pill content creators. They want you to continue to feel insecure so you can consume more of their useless content. It's a vicious cycle and if you're not careful you'll lose yoursel… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Why is Red pill so additive? I don't understand how it sucks in so many people?This sounds good. I'll definitely try this technique whenever he brings up any RP statements. Hopefully it'll make him see the flaws in his own thinking! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/22 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Why is Red pill so additive? I don't understand how it sucks in so many people?Everyone knows him as a decent guy. We've known eachother for about 10 years. When we used to work together, one of our senior managers, used to joke that if she had daughters, she'd love for one of them to marry him cos he's such a good guy. Everyone loved him at work, and when I say everyone, I mean everyone. When he left, you could feel the difference and everyone still asked about him for months because we all missed him. He's very emotionally intelligent, he's always treated me with respect… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 12 | Why is Red pill so additive? I don't understand how it sucks in so many people?Interesting view on the dystopic world. Hadn't even considered that side to it. Makes sense. Listening to my friend, sounds like he views dating like a battle ground!! So I'm thinking, well what's the point in dating if you're treating it like some sort of war?! Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Why is Red pill so additive? I don't understand how it sucks in so many people?Thanks. This was really helpful. I get the sense that people go into it for one problem and end up finding a million new problems that they didn't even know they had. Yes, I think he needs my support but I've been listening to his language over the last few months, and it's clear that the RP addiction is real and its getting worse! Everything he says is coming straight from content creators and my words don't seem to be making any difference. He thinks that I'm just naive and I haven't seen the … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 8 | just my opinion on TRP - dont hate please, just thinking out loudYep. I agree with this 100% There are decent women out there, who will love you for who you are but... They won't date you unless you're the type of guy that can love them for who they are!! And remember looks fade, people age. If you keep dating for looks, then you'll keep attracting women who are also dating you for your looks or money or whatever you offer them. You'll never be satisfied and they'll never be satisfied. One of you will end up cheating or leaving for someone that can offer them… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Just reading some of these responses and you can see that some responses are from hardcore Red pillers that are still convinced that marriage is a financial transaction and that the only thing women want from men is their money. Some responses are still talking about taxes, legal costs, divorce, alimony and all the problems that happen if you get divorced. You're in the ex-redpillers sub, it's time to detox and understand that marriage isn't some sort of financial transaction. You've got a long … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I just see an escort?My personal belief is that it's good to have balance of various friendships in your life and having a girlfriend will not necessarily cure your loneliness. So yes have a girlfriend but make sure you still have other friends and maintain authentic and good quality friendships in your life. Even if you choose to get married, it's important to have other friends in your life, not just a wife. I feel for you in terms of finding genuine friendships, but that stuff is important. If your friendships la… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Should I just see an escort?You still need male friends. Otherwise you're going to expect too much from this girl when you meet her and I say when cos you will eventually meet someone that you like and someone that likes you back. Also, loneliness isn't always due to a lack of friends sometimes it's about the depth and the quality of these friendships so think about if your friendships are authentic or if they're just superficial. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I just see an escort?Are you looking for a friend, a new group of friends or a romantic relationship? You won't get any of that via an escort unless you're just looking for sex. Can you try taking up some new hobbies? Try new apps? Also when you meet the right girl, you'll still need to have friends outside of your relationship. So you need to take time to meet people. Don't rely on this one be to be your only friend. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | So what if I want a career oriented women??u/IFufi44 I'm so sorry that you went through all of that - I hope you've been able to get out of it safely! I agree, most women want to have a greater sense of purpose in their lives and contribution to society. I can't imagine any woman who would want to constantly ask their spouse for 'pocket money' - How awful!! I wish there was a way to warn these women about the dangers of red pill. I've seen some of these men mock women live on youtube, because they have a Masters degree, a PhD or they are… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 13 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Even in third world countries. You see educated/uneducated women from villages, working in the markets, making crafts with their hands or working on a farm. Most women like to be productive beyond just looking after babies! | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Could red pill content help women understand men?No. If I want to understand a specific man that I've met, I will spend time with him and ask him specific questions so that I can get to know him. Men are different from eachother. There is not one man, podcast or youtube channel that can speak for all men. Same applies to women. That's why redpill is crap and it won't help me understand men. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The Rise of the Red-Pill Black Male Relationship “Coach”The point is that it's a growing movement and in the black community its not considered fringe. Its profoundly affecting black women and men's lives. Its easy to dismiss it if it doesn't affect you and you don't have any people in your real life that are impacted by this, but for those of us that have seen the impacts, it's not considered fringe. It's painful and it's causing huge problems. You don't need to acknowledge it but please don't try to dismiss something simply because it doesn't affec… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | The Rise of the Red-Pill Black Male Relationship “Coach”It's definitely not fringe. It's quite widespread from teenage boys to men in their 60s. These red pill content creators have MILLIONS of loyal followers and it's growing! The only reason I'm in this sub is because a friend of mine who is in his 30s and has always been one of the kindest people I know, is now deeply into this stuff. He's smart, successful and he's probably one of the most social people I know. He's made some poor choices in girlfriends in the past so I understand why he delved i… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 12:31 PM |
| 9 | So what if I want a career oriented women??I would even go so far as to say that the stats that redpill share are usually nonsense. Redpill like to suggest that marriages are better off and women are happier with being stay-at-home-mums. The problem with this is that many women enjoy having careers and many stay-at-home-mums have plans to re-enter the workforce when their kids get older. Women that are SAHMs sometimes feel trapped in their marriages because they cannot afford to leave. So the idea that women are happier and traditional m… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 12:21 PM |
| 21 | So what if I want a career oriented women??It's your life and you get to choose how you live it! It's great that you've realised what it is that you truly want! Remember that Red pill is just a group of men trying to convince everyone to follow their ideology of treating women as if they are objects. The content creators want you to get hooked on the single men/dating redpill content. Then when you get married, you'll upgrade to the married redpill content. Then when you inevitably get divorced, you'll need to upgrade to the divorced red… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Can Red Pill make society go back to a time like the 1950s or a patriarchy, even go back to gender roles?The reality is that the only women that will agree to the terms and conditions that Redpill men want are: A. Women with really low self esteem B. Gold diggers Redpill is just a formula for toxic families. When redpill men have kids, they will teach their girls to remain as uneducated as possible and to be beautiful. They'll also end up teaching their boys to be just like them. The bad news is that some of those kids will grow up and end up just like their parents. The good news is that some will… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 02:15 PM |
| 12 | Women's high divorce rate is because they leave "respectful, caring, supportive men" for more "masculine" men, says woman psychologist and 4 decades marriage counselorExactly this. I'm yet to ever meet a woman that says. "My husband is a true partner and best friend in every way but now that we've raised our kids together and our careers are both going well, and we've been there for each other through the good and the bad, I've decided that it's time to leave my husband so that I can find me a 'bad boy' someone more masculine who will treat me like shit." Yeah right!! | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 03:55 AM |
| 11 | Women's high divorce rate is because they leave "respectful, caring, supportive men" for more "masculine" men, says woman psychologist and 4 decades marriage counselorThis article has ZERO statistics or research. It is very easy to get published in Huffington Post as it was always designed to be a collection of blogs from individual authors. That's why they had so much content. Be mindful that this article is one person's opinion, based on their so called experience with these unhappy marriages plus it sounds like they are genuinely trying to sell the idea of Red pill. I wouldn't even take this as factual. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on the “you wouldn’t ask a fish how to fish, you’d ask the fisher” analogy?The Red pill ideas are just insane. Seriously, how many men do you know that want to be treated like shit? Not many. The same applies to women. Most women that are emotionally healthy and stable want to be treated nicely. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Positive action=potential attraction.This is really useful. Thanks for sharing | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | How did you feel when your boyfriend or husband took the red pill?I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't even imagine if my partner just suddenly became a different person. Are you still with him? Does he know that you know that he's redpilled? Is he on a path to recovery or is he still red pilled? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 02:06 PM |
| 3 | How did you feel when your boyfriend or husband took the red pill?Yes, he had a couple of bad relationships, where he gave far too much and was treated badly. He always had a bit of a 'knight in shining armour' personality so he seemed to attract very broken women into his life. He ended up trying to save them and they would hurt him in return, I think he joined red pill because he was fed up of being used by women. I agree. He probably needed a healthier way to deal with his heartbreak eg. Learning to set boundaries. This would have helped him immensely. He c… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Found this gem while watching a kevin samuels video...because I hate myselfKevin samuel videos are really depressing. The men/young boys in the chat show so much hatred and disregard for women but the women who come on the show, also seem to hate themselves! :( Unfortunately, there are quite a few women (younger and older) that believe in the nonsense that Kevin Samuel teaches. Many of them say that they are 'grateful' for the truth that he has given them! It seems that most of the women that follow him, are looking for a shortcut in life. They want a 'high value man' … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?One of the paragraphs in this article literally says: 'So no, women don’t retain men’s sperm for life. That’s just silly.' The article says that it there's no known explanation as to why some women have male cells in their brain and one of the reasons could be that these cells were there from birth, ie absorbed from a previous sibling or twin from inside their mother's womb. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 12 | How did you feel when your boyfriend or husband took the red pill?My husband isn't Red pilled but one of my best friends is, and I feel devastated. The only reason I discovered that he was red pilled was because of some horrible sexist comments he made earlier this year. Considering that I've known him for many years, I was surprised to hear him talk about women as if they were just objects. I did some online research and found that he'd adopted these views from the red pill community. The 'new him' has become very controlling in his relationships, whereas the… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 10:27 PM |
| -6 | did you ever feel like you lost genuine connections with women because of red pill ideology?Interesting. You'd think Red pill would have the opposite effect. Was it a conscious decision to disconnect from women eg. Cos you stopped trusting women when you became Red pilled? Or was it something that just happened and why? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/21 11:19 AM |
| 8 | About Single mothersYes this is the exredpill sub, and for me, I'll make it clear that 'I hate redpill' - I'm not sure about other people. I hate Red pill because its the worst relationship advice I've ever seen, and it'll only lead to more children being born into dysfunctional homes. In terms of what you've said above... I don't know which part of the world you are from where all the women are trying to have babies with random men! In countries where raising a child is expensive, you'll find that most women do no… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | what is it like to have a relationship with a red pill?That's insane. I'm going to have to assume that Red pill just adds on to whatever toxity was already there! Good to know you're out of that! | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | what is it like to have a relationship with a red pill?That's awful. 15 years? Out of curiousity, was he redpill from the start? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 10:17 AM |
| 8 | what is it like to have a relationship with a red pill?I can imagine that it would be very superficial and the redpill man would be very emotionally closed, manipulative and controlling, expecting the woman to display perfection, femininity, beauty, submission and obedience at all times. It will be inauthentic, and it'll be based on following the redpill rules and expectations rather than having a shared genuine love. I can imagine there are two types of women that end up having long term relationships with red pillers. The woman who loves him - she… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you not fall into the trap of believing hypergamy?If you believe that hypergamy is backed by science, please share your evidence so we can all see. I had no idea that most women in the world are chasing after a man that can give them financial security while they sit on their arse doing nothing. If most women are jumping from one man to the other in order to climb a 'social/financial ladder', then I'd love to see the research. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you not fall into the trap of believing hypergamy?Lol@longer criminal record. Basically, if he's cuter, taller, better in bed...its proof that she's hypergamous!! Lol. Also, they love to accuse women of chasing after wealthy men...but these are the same men that encourage women to give up their jobs and qualifications, so that she can be more feminine and so that he can be the 'man'. So if every woman followed their rules and stopped working to become a stay at home woman/mom, she would have no choice but to be hypergamous cos she wouldn't be a… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntMaybe a good step would be to remove 'sad' and 'manlet' from your username and change your username to something more neutral or positive so you feel more confident about yourself. You become what you think. Also, get therapy if you can. This redpill stuff has brainwashed so many good men, making them become so insecure and angry and ultimately becoming something that they are not. Its good to be kind to others, but most important to be kind to yourself. You deserve to be happy! Start taking the… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntHere's the link https://youtu.be/0Ti86veZBjU | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntHonestly, there is no such thing as alpha or beta male. Women like all kinds of men. And some women don't even have a preference in terms of looks, as long as he's nice to her, treats her with respect and they have similar interests and goals in life. Not all women are going around looking for a chad. Many women want love and someone to experience their life with. Just like you, women don't want to be judged for their looks, they don't want to be judged at all. They want to feel confident that y… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Balancing out Self Improvement from RPI feel that the line is crossed every time women are spoken about in a derogatory manner. Unfortunately many of them 'pepper' each youtube release with this language towards women. Realistically speaking is going to be hard to absorb the good, and ignore the bad without this having some impact on your view on women. You may need to find some alternatives or select only those that you feel are in line with your beliefs. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | How long does it take to detoxSo is it worth saying that most people learn the hard way? Would it have helped if you had a friend that had talked to you regularly about relationships? Not sure if I should give up on my friend and I don't know if I have the patience to listen to more of his crap. He seems far gone. I haven't told him that I know that he's RP but he's showing all symptoms and right now he's convinced that he's smarter than everyone else including me. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 12:57 AM |
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