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Field Reportalexmel25/r/seduction17/02/21 03:36 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationalexmel25/r/seduction12/05/21 05:55 PM
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Field Reportalexmel25/r/seduction29/07/21 03:28 PM
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Resourcesalexmel25/r/seduction24/02/21 01:11 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broadalexmel25/r/seduction08/06/21 08:52 AM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broadalexmel25/r/seduction21/05/21 02:55 PM
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Conversationalexmel25/r/seduction09/03/21 01:09 PM
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Conversationalexmel25/r/seduction28/02/21 09:57 PM
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Resourcesalexmel25/r/seduction13/10/21 01:08 PM
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Lifestylealexmel25/r/seduction29/01/22 03:59 PM
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This would mean you get laid every 300-500 approaches as a beginner. This number seems ridiculously high. It is usually every 100-200 approaches. Talking about cold approach here
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:48 PM
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Thanks for all the metaphores but concretly what do you suggest
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:00 PM
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Meaning that I should first start alone and then with wings?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:44 PM
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I have experience with wings only. Trying to go by myself but it s much harder
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:26 PM
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You are probably more polarizing than me if you get less dates but such a high date close rate. Are you being persistent every time you talk to a girl that gives you an objection (in a hurry, bf, etc...)? If yes, how without being too pushy?
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:39 AM
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A date every 5 numbers is not that much isn t it? What do you mean by more agressive?
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:43 AM
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Nothing wrong with dating foreigners I love it. Of course there is the level in cold approaching but from what you say it is also who you target (non british girls). How is it possible to have 100% success when some girls have bf, not looking for anything or you re not their type? Even with the best game and experience in the world you get rejections that are out of your control
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:26 PM
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I agree that sometimes it does not depend on what you do. However I got 15 numbers recently and none of them has converted into a date. So there must be smth I am doing wrong, it is not only the unluckiness with the girls I meet
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah I agree, my question is about improving the interaction itself
/r/seduction08/06/21 12:33 PM
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Thanks for the precious info! Usually when I send a value text with a picture of a cool thing I did, the girl responds but without asking any question or investing more. How do you make her invest progressively (if she is at least remotely interested)?
/r/seduction14/05/21 11:27 AM
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Do you call her out of the blue or you say that you ll call her at a given time?
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:18 AM
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I thought voice notes could be usefull as it reminds her of your voice and is a richer way of communication that non of the other guys talking to her use Isn t it needy to just call her out? Whatever the way to do it is. So sending value texts even if she doesn t answer can work uh? Might try that thanks.
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:17 AM
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Is really calibrated to do that since she stopped answering?
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:26 PM
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What if you don t have time to go for food right away? Isn t it better to plan it for an other day and take her number?
/r/seduction09/03/21 04:26 PM
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Thanks for your reply. You don t bother closing in this case? Just in case she is at least a bit interested
/r/seduction09/03/21 03:51 PM
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Yes I am usually quite sociable, guessing things about her, making jokes, teasing a bit and making her guess things. I am usually the one who stops the conversation after 10min. But I need to slow down, be more sexual and make them invest at some point to get better results I guess
/r/seduction01/03/21 11:07 AM
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I am struggling between building comfort/being friendly when you approach a girl so she wanna talk to you and as you said being less agreeable/polarizing. How do you do both?
/r/seduction01/03/21 10:50 AM
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Kiss close
/r/seduction19/02/21 12:39 PM
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Yes I try to. My block is the first approach itself. Once I start a conversation I m not bad at it, I m a sociable person and I enjoy chatting to people
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:09 PM
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Haha no from 5 numbers I got 3 dates, from those 3 dates I got 2 KC and on lay
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:05 PM
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I guess the key is to try and see that you re not bothering people that much and that you don t die from it haha Trying to apply that to myself as well
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:35 AM
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So you seem to be more comfortable with approaching and getting numbers since you managed to do it consistently. Cold approach is only about getting a number and then a date. Then it s a whole other thing to bring a girl from a date to home. Hopefully living by yourself will help that
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:33 AM
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Very valuable indeed! Thanks for sharing your experience, that is very helful!
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:26 AM
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Regarding the last part of your message, I think that the only fact that she stays in the conversation and doesn t find an excuse to leave can be a good indicator of interest. Although she could also be polite and friendly only but that s still positive
/r/seduction17/02/21 11:36 PM
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Haha yes I am a beginner, those 3 dates I had were at the very beginning of my jouney last October. I call it beginner's luck. After that I struggled being consistent hence less results (2 flaky numbers, one sounded interested when I approached her but too afraid of covid). As I told I still struggle a lot with AA that is quite frustrating lol
/r/seduction17/02/21 11:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing! Would you be able to explain your mindset when you do your 1st approach of the day by yourself? To get from being "in your head" (meaning overthinking, automatically finding excuses, etc...) to building that momentum
/r/seduction17/02/21 11:24 PM
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I m not yet able to do it by myself without a wing. I feels kinda forced for the first time of the session but it gets easier and easier the 2nd and 3rd time. The unatural part is in our head only. The good thing about direct opener is that you polarize the interaction and you know from the start if the girl is at least a bit interested (if she decides to start a conversation with you). I struggle a lot to do this first approach of the day when I am alone, I have an adrenaline rush and my legs w…
/r/seduction17/02/21 07:43 PM
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AA = Approach Anxiety Yes I say something like that. That she is cute or that I like her style or that she looks elegant, or smth more specific if I am inspired. Depends on the context
/r/seduction17/02/21 05:39 PM
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I either go to girls waiting outside a station or do a stop if they are walking. I just go with a direct opener. The first approach fails most of the time because of AA but the next ones are better. I struggle to approach alone, only did that with a wing so far. I want to progress on that
/r/seduction17/02/21 05:33 PM
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The goal is to have a general idea of how difficult it is to daygame around the world depending on your level. Of course every approach is different, it is just taking a step back and observing tendencies. Hearing about successes and failures helps motivating eachother in my opinion. This is the point of this group as well
/r/seduction17/02/21 05:07 PM
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In London the temperature almost never goes below zero degrees. I usually go with a wing close to big train/underground stations where a lot of people are passing as all the shops are closed.
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:43 PM
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Fortunately every girl is different and many of them like it. As long as it is done respectfully with a big smile and a chill vibe I don t see the harm in it
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:13 PM
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