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alias_guy88/r/seduction15/04/18 02:04 PM
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alias_guy88/r/seduction20/04/18 09:22 PM
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They have a good relationship with their Father A woman who has a positive relationship with her father is more likely to be of higher value. A father can offer emotional support and educate about various aspects of life. A good relationship with her father gives a woman the ability to trust men, which is key in a high-value relationship Her parents are still together and married It depends on the relationship between her parents. They may be pleasant or contentious, but if her parents are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:03 AM
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It's somewhere deep rooted into the limbic system. It's a biological phenomenal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:35 AM
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There are extremists on all sides.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 12:34 AM
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A lot of the comments are correct with, “depends where you look” kind of answers. A lot of people who look for dating advice are usually women. Probably because men are programmed not to deal with emotions and other things. So the answer is never gonna be, “I am a woman and it happened to me too, but it’s probably your fault”. Their take will probably be a consensus of their own personal beliefs and what affected and happened to them during their own personal relationships, I.e their man cheated…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:21 AM
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Moral of this story. Read Corey Wayne and use his terminology and sayings on Reddit 😉 haha.
/r/seduction16/12/20 02:23 PM
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Well enjoy your day all the same :)
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 02:54 AM
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I’m not excusing his behaviour. I’m just detailing what might have happened in respect to the night. Being vulnerable etc and asking her home was an example of this. You’re getting heated and emotional, no need to. Have your opinion I’ll have mine. That’s all there is :)
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 02:12 AM
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I mean rejection is an emotional hurdle to get over as well.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 02:04 AM
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Well I mean we are assuming. I don’t know how he felt, can you tell me 100% that he knew he had nothing to lose ? That’s a bit of a fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 02:01 AM
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Well no he asked her to come back home with him. That’s vulnerability. Hard to depict his intentions, maybe it was for that reason.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 01:47 AM
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There’s a difference between emotional vulnerability and being and adhering to your true intentions, which is a form of vulnerability. Being vulnerable doesn’t necessarily mean I’m crying in your arms emotionally. It could mean that I take the plunge and ask for a girls number with the risk of rejection.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 01:44 AM
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Yeah you are kind of insane. Maybe you read it in the wrong context, but I didn’t mean it like that so thanks anyway.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:47 PM
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I deleted my original comment because it came across in the wrong context. He was being vulnerable in the beginning, but the irony was that he attracted the girl with his no needy behaviour because she was needy. That’s my intention, that I wanted to get across in the beginning. Not the fact that he touched her and that I was telling people to touch her. I was saying that he moved her hips with his hands to get her out of the way because he wanted to. Which is incredibly risky move, because the …
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:44 PM
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I also said I’m “not endorsing his behaviour” Specifically. My language is quite clear. What you’ve done is you’ve read one sentence, got Pissed off and you’ve linked it to “psychopathic behaviour” and accusing me of having a similar thought process. I thinks it’s Disgusting you have no idea who I am.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:38 PM
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He did what he wanted without any repercussions which is stupid.... You missed the second part to the sentence
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:31 PM
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I’m not endorsing his behaviour I said it multiple times. I would appreciate not being compared with psychopathic behaviour. I’m also referring more to his behaviour throughout the night, he acted more interested in his interests (sport game) than in her.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:28 PM
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100% I guess I tried to outline the processes Of behaviour for the night and my message didn’t come across clearly. I agree, he was incredibly needy, but showed vulnerability in the end with his true intentions by inviting her back
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:19 PM
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Well being vulnerable isn’t necessarily being emotional, there’s all different types of vulnerability. I guess it looks like I’m justifying his actions, and I don’t mean to be doing that. Placating and faking a persona, and acting like a dick is not the way to go. In fact it’s pretty bad, and treating people like shit is bad. My message was simple, he acted needy so he attracted someone needy. What attracted her to him originally was his original intentions, but what got her to stick around was …
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 07:12 PM
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You should get a cat because they’re awesome. But anyway, so cats can be very temperamental. The idea, this isn’t just red pill, is that a cat will leave your side and wonder off. Those that chase the cat for a pat or to get it’s attention will notice that a cat will walk further away. Thus, if you leave the cat alone it will come back to you eventually. This is why cats sometimes go for the person in the room that actually doesn’t like cats. Now, the red pill spin is, women are like cats. If yo…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 08:55 PM
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Precisely what a good point. If you really want to attract superficial, terrible women then go ahead. I think the problem with the red pill community is that they obviously see all women like this, so they just want to attract the “hottest” version of it.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 12:55 AM
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I love this post. Even the idea of being that “alpha” guy is a visage. You can’t keep the bullshit up forever eventually you’ll break. What a lot of guys do is, they see what these men are saying, and of course it makes sense to them, so they start doing it. Weirdly enough yeah, it starts to work for them, but then they realise that these women that they’re attracting are superficial, low integrity women, and they wonder why all women are like this, and so the cycle continues. If you’re gonna ac…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 12:54 AM
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Ultimately there are further issues in regards to the nice guy syndrome. When guys say that they’re super nice and that women only put out for the arseholes, I’ve noticed a trend with guys who think that they’re nice but they’re not really nice. I think you’ll find Robert Glover states something pretty similar in his novel, in which he refers to nice guys who are really not nice guys but wantCommodities in return like covert contracts. I’ve also noticed a trend that men who say they are nice guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:52 AM
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Yeah in the book models by Mark Manson. Manson states that a girl is either neutral, receptive or unreceptive. Women who are neutral will have to either side on one of the other, They can’t stay neutral for very long. I found this to be pretty accurate from my own experiences. The girl is either into me or she’s not and there’s no real in between there, there shouldn’t be any ambiguity,
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:59 AM
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There are two common routes (there's more) but in it's the simplest form. You can cold approach or social circle approach. If you cold approach, you inevitably approach a bunch of women who have a list of endless excuses to not want to go on a date with you or meet you. You are battling the odds, and they are not in your favour. Usually, it's not even personal, but a lot of guys take it personally. Social circle approach eliminates a lot of this, and ultimately you have greater odds. I cold appr…
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:51 PM
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Yes this is true as well. They will make you believe that you are spiritually/emotionally already connected to them. Speaking of, the ex mentioned above did the exact same thing, she would tell me that she felt like she’s known me forever. Our star signs were the same and she told me that this was very important to her and, (insert all the other narcissist stuff) I thought she was a bit weird about that stuff, but at the same time I found it very loving and cute. She made me believe like I was h…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 12:26 AM
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Guys can play mind games regardless if they are red pill are not but I’ve seen from a lot of posts on here men that all of a sudden turn callous and cut out their girlfriend, or start being rude to someone they are seeing. And then all of a sudden they want their partner back. This is more narcissism. Women and men both do this. There's a lot of books on this stuff, but basically women/men will want you when they want you and will throw you back into the crowd when they are done. They will come …
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 12:15 AM
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Well dude, at the end of the day, she wanted more and you didn’t. Women are incredibly perceptive and she knew it was just a fling, that’s why she knew it was “okay” to screw another guy at the party. She made sure everyone else knew, so that you would know, to make you jealous. She doesn’t know what else to do, so the only way for her to get you now is to make you jealous enough so that you want her. She gave you an ultimatum, you decide what you want. If you don’t want to be with her, then tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 11:49 PM
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I think that the red pill is just blown out of proportion, in respect to its ‘proper gander of women’. If you look through popular sub Reddit’s for relationships, you’ll find the The sub Reddit is actually banned on a few of them. I find that a lot of the advice is either super right wing, in respect to intense theories of treating women like shit for example, or it’s incredibly left-wing, in which the advice will give some type of study or science based approach as to why they believe what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:12 AM
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Interesting theory, and you made some good points. Overall, I think you are on the money with the pursuit of eternal youth. Women age a lot of faster than men, and I think with digital means now being more abundant, the rise of social media for instance, makes it seem as though these events have appeared out of nowhere. Where as realistically, they are now just getting more attention through social media. I feel like it’s some sort of mini early life crisis for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:56 PM
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To woo women it’s all about what you say, and if you do it correctly, you’ll enchant any girl. Good times trying this though. I learnt the natural approach to women is the correct one. Honesty and Non-neediness are two major components that will put you in the strongest position you can be.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:01 AM
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Agree with the above comment. I would also add, replying to this text quickly would probably make you seem overly invested in her day. But you can always turn her day into a positive, by texting back by acknowledging it, and telling her that you hoped everything worked out. At the same time you can spin it and say perhaps your day wasn’t as good either and that you can understand exactly where she’s coming from.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:58 AM
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This might be more to the fact that this girl is actually engaged in the conversation rather than smiling and nodding at him. I’ve dated a lot of girls who simply appear to be engaged but in reality they’re not. Girls who want to insist on putting their own story on top of my story even though I’ve given them two hours of my time with them telling their story. Nothing irks me more than a girl who doesn’t really pay attention to what I say, and it’s the same on the other end as well if I never pa…
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:51 AM
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Yes I agree with you on this. Although I am subscribed to the red pill, as they do provide some insight that I agree with, most of what they say is too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:02 AM
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I don’t know why people still complicate gym exercises like this. 5 x 5 works just as well as any other strong lifts or heavy lifting program, “keep it simple stupid” and use a routine that works for you. It took me awhile to realise what works for me, but strong lifts is one of the best programs I have ever used. The whole debate about strength and Hypertrophy Is quite ridiculous. With strength you build muscle so build strength and build muscle at the same time. It doesn’t matter if you do eig…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 10:36 PM
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Probably one of the biggest things I struggle with is eating. I Just hit 6 Feet as a guy, I bulked to 80KG's a few years back and noticed a huge amount of attention. Not only did I notice a lot of attention but I genuinely felt amazing. I decided to cut, and got into a comfortable state. Ever since I've struggled to eat in an abundance. I would eat in an excess of 3500 calories, but just eating that alone was tiring, till I finally got use to it. I know this isn't a fitness Subreddit, but would …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:37 AM
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Pretty much what the title says, this didn't happen years ago if I recall correctly? Online dating has taken a massive leap in the dating world. It's no longer considered unusual, but more normal than ever before. ​ I think women are just more careful these days. The problem with dating apps now, is the normality of this process, and how embedded it is in the dating world. Communication through text is possibly the worst form of communication, but it's considered the 'getting to know you phase'.…
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:07 AM
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I think the biggest take away from this is just to try, and if you take a chance you’re more likely to succeed than you are if you never took a chance in the first place. I’ve been out with plenty of women, I’ve asked out models, I’ve asked out nurses, I’ve dated lawyers, I’ve dated hairdressers, and surprisingly a lot have given me their number on the first approach, some haven’t, some have been quite harsh, but surprisingly girls will at least give you their number, I’ve been pleasantly surpri…
/r/seduction02/09/18 09:24 AM
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Dating Women Podcast is a great podcast, would recommend. I don't agree with everything DocLove says, but he's pretty much got it down right.
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:29 PM
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Manson talks about the 'stories you tell yourself' when you are trying to talk to women and excuses used to not, as in 'I was too late to work out', being the example. You should talk to women because you want to, and if you honestly aren't feeling it, then don't, but you shouldn't be using excuses. For me I don't ask girls out at the gym not routinely anyway, unless I had to, but that's because it's never really worked out for me, and here and there I still will but it's dependent on my mood an…
/r/seduction21/08/18 02:35 AM
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I'll Pm you.
/r/seduction17/08/18 07:03 AM
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Depends where you live, we have centres devoted to ice skating which is all year round.
/r/seduction17/08/18 07:01 AM
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Bowling, ice skating, minigolf, arcade games, rock climbing. Don't go to the movies, don't take her out to dinner. Just make it fun and enjoy it. Do something YOU would like to do.
/r/seduction17/08/18 07:00 AM
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Expect awkardness if/when you break up, unfortunately this is unavoidable. My advice is to not 'shit where you eat', I asked out two women at a conference I had once and it became incredibly awkward. I didn't even work with these girls thankfully, but I decided after to not ask out women that I work with nor had to associate with in the work world. I read your comment as well about this not being a serious job, I still believe it's probably not the best idea, but if you're going to ask her out a…
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:54 AM
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Asking a girl out on instagram or facebook, someone that you've never met before, means you're only asking her out based on physical attraction. This is neediness, and I would advice against doing it as it will make you appear desperate.
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:45 AM
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I always talk about the ratio. The ratio of interest will never be 50/50 its next to impossible. Where you want to be is the person with less interest or investment, say, 60/40. It’s a good optimal interest ratio and both people have investment, one more than the other. If you’re 70/30, chances are your interest is becoming increasingly low, and it’s a sign of clingy Behaviour or other behaviour that is causing disinterest. By 80/20 your investment is so low you’re starting to want some space, 9…
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:18 AM
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Showing and keeping eye contact isn’t about domination it’s a combination of vulnerability and non neediness that mark talks about in his book. You stare and hold because you want to, because you don’t care. If you suddenly turn away after she sees you looking at her it means you’re nervous and a little intimidated, it means you care about her views of you and are embarrassed that she caught you staring.
/r/seduction02/08/18 11:01 PM
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OP, let us know how this went :)
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:54 PM
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I don’t think I would be friends with someone like this personally, but you might have the sort of personality that counters her (so to speak). Arguments for not being friends are: You’re infatuated with her, thus this will break the chain completely by removing yourself from the situation. Why would you want to be friends with someone who demands materialistic things from their partner? We know that status is an important component of seduction, but to outwardly demand such a thing, just goes t…
/r/seduction24/07/18 08:53 PM
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I would say destroying people’s lives and trying to seduce a married women is your first wrong step with this woman. I’m a firm believer of not fucking up peoples lives even if they would ‘likely cheat’. I know someone on here commented say they rather just have them cheat, but think of it from the flip side. If she’s cheating for you, chances are she’ll cheat on you. Remember that. Secondly, you’re infatuated with her, she’s also almost twice your age, but I can guarantee she can pick up on the…
/r/seduction24/07/18 08:31 PM
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No more mr nice guy reference. Liking this
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 11:57 AM
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Haha true.
/r/seduction16/05/18 07:40 AM
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I agree with this, but maybe not just Women? I think human beings in general have a hard time accepting reality, and consistently dismiss responsibility. I see guys shift responsibility all the time. To believe you had no influence at all on a woman's cheating for example, is to declare that you are at no fault, thus you are a victim. How are you ever going to improve with that mentality? What, so you are saying she was completely at fault? I'm not saying you are equal or more to blame, but I se…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 06:57 AM
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Dude if she hits you up, answer it and plan the next date. Otherwise like you said, leave it. Deleting her on social media was a good thing to do I guess, at the same time you've potentially closed that window as she'll probably leave you alone now. I think the key thing here would have been to be honest about your intentions. My text would have been as follows: "Hey, that's a shame to hear you really seemed like someone worth knowing. If you're ever free let me know, if not then that's okay too…
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:37 AM
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This would be Models By Mark Manson
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:12 AM
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I had this recently, and I talked to a girl from an induction from my work. I then asked her for a drink next week, and although I don't think she'll get back to me (didn't get her number, gave her mine) I felt so invigorated :P Tinder doesn't give you that thrill!
/r/seduction17/04/18 08:50 AM
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I guess I'm using tinder too much in respect to dating and not actively looking for dates IRL much anymore. I'm using my protein shakes as my whole protein so to speak. (I dunno supplement reference) I normally I have 2-3 dates a week. Then I'll repeat seeing particular girls over a longer period of time, but again 90% are online and they take up a lot of time as it is... so I'm wondering if I should cut it back and try real world approach. Perhaps stop tinder for a while
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:12 PM
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I find that I meet up with women from online who tell me I'm better in real life, which had me thinking the other day about real approach vs online. A couple of key things that I've been considering in relation to this comment, and without sounding too much like a dick, but I feel like most women online are using online dating because they simply don't get approached in real life that often, and it could be a bunch of reasons. You could reverse this idea of course in respect to men, but I feel a…
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:00 PM
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I feel men who complain the most about women are over invested. I feel like I repeat myself on a lot of subs, but being over invested in women will cause men to over analyze, and when they 'predict the perfect formula' for seduction, and it doesn't work, they get frustrated. Some men will follow red pill and still not see the results they wanted, so they'll sink deeper into beliefs that all women are bad or that all women will only be attracted to a certain type of guy. Some men will follow PUA …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:55 PM
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So I've read the book and really liked it. The think is that I don't really understand the concept "neediness" fully. Neediness is demonstrating behavior that instills the value of low self perception, neediness in its rawest form is not living honestly and demonstrating high investment. For example, I go on a date with a woman and she tells me she hates dogs. I know I love dogs, but to make sure we have things in common I tell her I hate dogs. It's like a bad smell, women pick it up straight aw…
/r/seduction08/04/18 09:56 AM
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Status is high value in your demographic of choice. A guy who is a big player at the law firm who crushes his opponents and makes a lot of money will have higher status at a company get together, more so than a heavy metal rock and roll concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:39 AM
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I need an honest answer to the “you’re so pretty, why are you single?” question I get almost once a week. It’s not that I’m looking to get married asap or have kids (also the last of my peers in that dept.) but I want to know what it’s like giving all my love and affection to a human and not my fur baby. I want to make sure I’m not broken? Women should be allowed to leave anyone they wish for whatever reason. As a society if we deem this acceptable is it fair too to encourage men to be hypergamo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:32 AM
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I think when it comes to dating, living naturally and being yourself works, but you need to be incredibly non-needy and have a high sense of self worth. If you don't, following 'performance rules' still works well and some men choose to take that path instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:33 AM
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Well my confidence actually stems from failure. Being shut down, turned down and dumped over and over. Left for other men was a common one for me for a while. Eventually I just started investing in myself, and my confidence was a side effect of my self value. As I became more invested in myself, I stopped caring what other people thought because... why should I?
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:20 AM
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You know you're being more 'beta' by chasing a girl like this. Why? Because you're invested in this one person. Move on man and find someone worth your time. This chick seems to be a complete waste of your energy and yes, a complete mental case. She doesn't know what she wants and she's probably afraid of being alone. Being Alpha isn't getting this chick, being Alpha is walking away because you have other options. When her friend hit you up and asked about you being on tinder, that was her probi…
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:15 AM
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Correct to the comments here. Escalate quickly, and polarize women. Tell girls what you want. You're going to get some girls that are going to turn their noses at you, and sometimes you'll simply strike out... that's okay. If you polarize and make them decide, you'll be surprised at how often they say yes. Especially if you're one with a large amount of confidence.
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:10 AM
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I think Doclove says it all when he says ultimately you want a 'Good Flexible girl'. Sounds like she's good to keep around, but I would be exploring more girls.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:20 AM
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Wait a few days before messaging her next time.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:17 AM
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Start with online dating, exploring places you enjoy (meeting people there), join social meet up groups through apps and Facebook and start learning and practicing game with strangers. It's fun.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:16 AM
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Read the sidebar is good advice. Read similar posts on here and try piece together real world experience into as well. Good luck friend.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:10 AM
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No, being silent is actually a good response to a shit test. When in doubt, just be silent. Your response to shit tests should be humorous with a 'I don't care' aspect etched in for fun. If she's going to try make you jealous then screw her, it's your date, have some fun. For example: "So I'm seeing this other guy as well, he's really cute" "Really? Looks like I just scored a wing man for tomorrow night, do you have his number?" "So you don't mind if I talk to other guys?" "As long as you don't …
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:08 AM
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You increased her attraction to you by willing to walk away if you needed, you showed her you didn't 'need' her number, you wanted it, and that's the difference. You tested her, you did well.
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:53 AM
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I feel like it's gonna be really hard to build interest through just texts and snaps for a week, but I don't wanna go silent for a whole week and lose her interest. She won't lose interest if you don't text her, actually being absent will heighten her interest. Building attraction through text or snap, simply does not work from my experience. In fact over texting and being too available will cause her to lose her interest quickly. 90% of all texting should be to set up the date and then just lea…
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:51 AM
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Okay, what advice would I possible hear at this point? Be honest. "I'm not use to this kind of thing". "I won't take up much more of your time" Aha dude... ah well, that's kind of cheeky and could potentially be conceived as humorous, and hey at least you were honest right? f'm curious, what was her expression? I'm hoping She found you attractive. She found you so attractive she was willing to sleep with you on the first night. If she's a 9.5, what does that make you? Ranking is all individual, …
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:37 AM
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Agreed with the advice here. I would say 90% of all my texting is just to set up the date. You should practice this, and not text consistently. When she reaches out set up the next date. If she reaches out when you've planned the next date already, eventually reply, take your time of course, we all have busy lives, but don't get into those text conversations that go on and on. Let her know you're busy, and can't wait to see her. If she doesn't respond when you ask her about her 'Schedule' the fo…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:29 AM
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I was honest with her? That doesn't make sense - she knew what my intentions was because she instantly wanted me to know that she's not looking for anything right now. But that's not stopping me from talking to her right? No your intentions weren't honest in the end. Look: I replied to her conversation but a short response, and the "Yeah that's cool" Next morning she replied straight away saying "Sorry :("+ "Hope your day goes ok x" I told her that it was fine and that we are cool. It isn't 'coo…
/r/seduction06/03/18 01:51 AM
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Instead of being honest with her, you lied about your true intentions. You want to be more than friends. This is how men get permanently fixated on one particular woman. Ive seen this scenario a few times, I've also been in it. Guy has investment - guy keeps messaging girl he hooked up with - she messages back - she never agrees on a second date or maybe he does and it's incredibly quiet - he keeps messaging her all the same - she loses attraction or now feels she needs to let him know about the…
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:55 PM
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I like your response as well.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:22 AM
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would be all alone for Valentine's day(my friends think it was a hint from her, but I'm not so sure). Reminds me of that 'Is she into you' video, where there are so many signs, but they are all ignored sarcastically. She's interested.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:34 AM
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I wanted to stick around and wait for her to finish, but if I did it would come off as creepy or stalkerish. Acknowledge that you are breaking social norms when you talk to her. "Hey this is random, but I enjoyed talking to you and I think you're pretty cute, can I have your number?" If you acknowledge that you are breaking social norms it isn't creepy. The only time she will find you creepy is if you've given her an uncomfortable feeling about you. Some ways guys do this: They will ask for her …
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:04 AM
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This is all internal. Therapy, find out why you put so much value into the perceptions of other women Self discovery through education and literature. Read books, improve on yourself.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:57 AM
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I find that performance during actual dates really sucks. Or at least far from what it could be. I think I come off as boring. To me over performing, trying to do X then Y proceed with Z protocol, never really worked. In fact, it usually screwed up the entire date. This scenario made me change my thinking about perfomance. I was on a date with an incredibly attractive girl so I went aloof, asked her a bunch of questions, kept it about her, without really exploring myself (not opening up emotiona…
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:12 AM
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Yes it can, more so in those things you long for or are chemically destined to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:49 PM
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We as humans sometimes identify patterns that are not simply there, we try rationalise this way, it's the way we are hard wired. Sometimes there are patterns, don't get me wrong there are, but I am yet to conceed that through my experience that you can use a blanket rule for women, even if it's only the 'general consensus'. This is true in monkeys as well, they're the only other known species to look for patterns and assume patterns that aren't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:59 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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