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Money isn’t everything I’m realizing but it does help a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:24 PM
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*was working on a specific product that Amazon was building at the time that got scrapped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:17 PM
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Cool. Worked there too as a contractor. Didnt like the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:16 PM
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I make a lot and still date men that out earn me. I’m not opposed to dating someone who makes less. I don’t really care actually because I just offer to pay for the difference if they can’t afford something comfortably. When you care about someone for WHO they are it doesn’t really matter how much they make and I’m willing to make up the difference because money is just…money. I can always make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:40 AM
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Same. Friend rejected girl because she’s a virgin. I swear. She’s a 8/10 looks wise. Hyper religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:45 AM
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Exactly. Men don’t admit this. It’s a blind stop for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:44 AM
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Eh. Red pill men say it’s “just fucking” to justify spinning plates so….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:00 AM
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This is a sugar daddy arrangement. It lasts about 2-4 years max.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah….i genuinely feel bad for them. I was there once and it was such a waste of time and youth. These were the “good men” too. They are essentially all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:44 AM
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I dated a doctor & yes. He did not respect me until I started earning six figures. Young woman aren’t hip that a lot of older men simply think you’re dumb. They chose you for a reason. They get to raise and mold you into the woman they want. Those marriages always end when the wife realizes her value much later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:22 PM
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Lmao 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:53 PM
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Honestly? The same for men with higher n counts. The low count man I’ve dated (he was 6’4, civil engineer, & hot as hell) was super judgmental, way too disciplined & just uptight. He was loyal but damn…I’m not signing up for a life of misery just to have a low n count partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:51 PM
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Did you still respect even after she let you cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:39 AM
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*lifestyle creep ruins people. Also, stagnant wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:53 AM
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How did they treat you? Just curious from a male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:56 PM
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I know plenty of women who work out, have gotten interesting hobbies & even gotten degrees to better themselves. Myself included. I also started my own business. My dating life got a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:52 AM
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Obsession is unhealthy. You’ve put her on a pedestal and idealized her which is why you’re obsessed. She’s more of a best friend since you dont get tired of her presence. Pick the younger girl. Actually put your all into the relationship and see what happens. You can help her into becoming a better version of herself as she gets older. You don’t find women with all those qualities many times in life especially as you get older as a man. You’ll see once you’re like 30-35 lol
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:42 PM
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True, but I wouldn’t be able to pull the caliber of men I do if I didn’t upkeep myself. The competition is steep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:37 AM
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Right? I get that there’s a lot of natural beauty queens out there but a lot of us get a little work done to look even better & no one really knows expect our bank accounts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:36 AM
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I’m in the south! My nose job was done in Texas & boobs in Miami. I highly recommend traveling to a surgeon whose work you like & who quotes you reasonably. Happy to give out their info via messages!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:34 AM
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Becoming an Emirates flight attendant is extremely hard. You have to fit an aesthetic. My mom is a retired flight attendant so I know all about the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:30 AM
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Be attractive Take care of yourself physically & mentally Have interests of your own Be able to converse about an array of topics Don’t take yourself too seriously Make him feel wanted by compliments, light touching Be trustworthy. A lot of women can’t hold water & anything you tell them they tell everybody else. If he can trust you with his inner most secrets? He’ll most likely fall in love. After that it’s about compatibility. You’re either compatible or you’re not.
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:56 AM
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The guys get attached because she’s their only source of pussy/love at the moment. The players have more options & are sexually more active. So he’s prob sleeping with another woman besides her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 01:45 AM
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Yes, exactly. Atleast let me have some nice dinners & conversation & have a reason to do my hair + makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:30 PM
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I could see that. The key is her character and how much attention she now seeks. Just observe her and it will be pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 03:09 PM
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Lol. If you only want 1 child then no it is not too late if you stay healthy & get Pap smears & get your egg levels checked yearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 03:08 PM
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Yep. 35 is the age that if you wanted to be married, you had 5 years to work on that. Especially women. I’m a year from 30 & dating for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:12 AM
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Honestly? You find a girl who wasn’t attractive growing up. One that got that nose job or lost weight and went from a 4 to a 7, or just grew into her looks. I’m telling you this because that’s me lol. I got rhinoplasty & my facial harmony gets better as I age. She might not be confident when you meet her but when you’re in a great relationship your confidence improves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:09 AM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:42 AM
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What about men marrying the “safe” choice? The one he knows will never cheat? Versus the hotter social butterfly. I’ve noticed a lot of my male friends who got married under 32ish married the girl who checked all the wife boxes but he still lusted and cheated because she wasn’t his physical preference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:05 PM
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Thank you for being so mature & giving me hope! Best of luck to you in your relationships. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah, this sub and TRP is so disheartening because I just now have a good job & am able to live the lifestyle I want. I’m turning 29 next year. If I would’ve gotten married to my bf before now I would have sucked all his money up as I had a bad income as a student & no family support (I had to work 2 jobs). I had no time to date. Any man I dated needed more of my time & commitment & I needed to focus on being my best self for ME. How can a women possibly be a good wife & mother if she can’t even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:27 PM
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Yes, only if she is the one that broke it off and didn’t want to commit fully. (Cough, cough) I’m talking about myself.... My ex was HV. I just wasn’t ready to be married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:33 AM
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Be unapologetic. “I can meet somewhere in this area ____ as I’m not willing to drive all the way out there, sorry” I only included sorry because I’m being polite and he technically hasn’t disrespected you yet. He wants the date close to his house so he can suggest continuing the date at his place with a drink & then get physical with you even if it’s just a kiss. His goal is to escalate the physicality with each date until he’s slept with you. Every guy does this 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:22 AM
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Pro tip: develop a false sense of narcissism. That’s what I did & how I landed my HV ex. I literally did not care if he liked me or not. I was super sassy and walked around like I was Gods gift to this earth lol. It intrigued so many men & some would try to shoot down my confidence but it never worked. Fake it until you make it & before you know it your life will change. Go practice right now...go to the grocery store or mall & walk around with your back straight, head held high and as if you’re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:24 PM
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I actually appreciate this honesty. I wish more men were this honest! We ask for them to show their true selves & he has...be grateful for this as now you know where you stand & can proceed to block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:27 AM
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Yeah, it’s not worth the energy anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:30 AM
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He thought he was slick 😂🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:12 AM
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Just act busy when HE hits you up. Do not tell him when you’re in town. Then he’s going to ask to “hang out”. At that point you tell him you’re into dating more seriously right now towards a relationship. Watch how he responds. If he doesn’t plan a proper date then block him. Also, do not have sex with him until commitment and until he’s proven himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:58 PM
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I’m so sorry & thanks for your insight ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:36 AM
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He’s just saying that to get you to sleep with him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:30 AM
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He acting real bold for a man without a prenup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:37 PM
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Just state “Who said you meet the standards of someone I would consider being in a relationship with?” With a coy smile :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:58 AM
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Watch porn and escorting documentaries and discuss them casually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:38 AM
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This is why I’m marrying up. If my husband ever does this to me I’m taking him for all he’s worth and yes this will be explicitly stated in a pre-nup or else I won’t get married. Cheating clause and children clause. For every child I have of his = $100,000 For cheating? Half of your retirement accounts & $500,000 Seems as if most men are controlled by their desires. I’m controlled by my best interest 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:28 AM
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👏🏽👏🏽 thank you for the confirmation I needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:46 AM
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How do we avoid this?? My last relationship was like this and it gets so tiring. He was HV but was so lazy when it came to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:09 AM
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The brand is strong 💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:15 AM
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Sugar daddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:55 PM
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Honestly..I think he’s just happy to be dating a 21 year old and isn’t looking for anything serious. Also, why are you the one making 2 hour trips each time? You should alternate driving to each other every other date. At the age of 30, he should know what he wants, and shouldn’t be trying to “take it slow” at this point if he is serious about a relationship and wanting to make you his girlfriend. I would let him know that you don’t think you two are compatible and wish him the best then proceed…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 02:58 AM
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I really like: "your body is a direct reflection of the person you are. You are the only caretaker." The same can be said for your mind. Exercise, limiting my meat consumption to twice a week and upping my vegetable intake, and going to a therapist has helped my depression immensely.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 04:38 AM
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I think you may need to take some time to yourself. Go stay with family if at all possible. Your health, emotionally and physically should be your main priority for the next year or so. You have a beautiful human being inside of you, and you would be doing her a disservice by not putting yourself first right now. I can't comment on whether your relationship can be salvaged or not as we do not know you two personally, but therapy should be your next step as well as scheduling yourself a mani/pedi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 03:52 PM
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My boyfriend is number 3: keeps to himself, extremely ambitious, and took him a year to open up to me, haha. We met on tinder. As for where he spends a lot of his free time; he goes to the gym ALOT. If I were to run into a man like him, it would be at the gym, on my lunch break at a restaurant nearby his engineering firm, or through an alumni program as he is very active with his alma mater. I think the gym (take a yoga class, or ask a male for help with a certain machine) would be your best bet…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 06:55 AM
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Try the brand "The Ordinary". It is affordable and WORKS.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 04:30 PM
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