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alikebabay/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:19 AM
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1

She is not interested. She will dump you as soon as she finds someone she likes enough to have sex and replace you. For now she just needs company.
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:57 PM
2

I think it is a LARp, so whatever is best for the narrative
/r/seduction15/08/23 04:26 AM
-9

Duh, she was obviously having affairs left and right
/r/seduction15/08/23 03:47 AM
3

Haha, "traditional" cultures could be even worse in regards of marriage. If your wife cheats (and she will) you don't just get divorce raped, but also socially shamed for being an unmanly loser. But, yeah, you could satisfy your parents wishes, pop out a couple of kids, have your wife going on dates and ignoring you. You want that, or you want to be alone?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 09:57 AM
2

Yeah, sounds about right. Maybe OP used not a good example. In that situation it is already too late. She took time to dress up, arrange hangout with girlfriends, etcetera. You should be looking at how you made mistakes before that happened.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 06:02 PM
6

Exactly my thoughts. Maslow was wrong. Sex is not easy to obtain.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:36 PM
24

Aaand with thousand attractive guys from tinder as well. They use tinder on the streets too, you know.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:20 PM
3

Read Joe Navarro What every body is saying. It has all the answers. Also pro tip: girls spot and assess guys from a very very far distance. So even before you approach they make their judgement about your looks and body language.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:26 PM
14

Still, this is a good case study. Every man who wants to do well with women should know the importance of looks. Improving body: gym Improving face: mewing and face gymnastics. Trust me, when you get jacked and go from 5 to 7 facially life becomes soo much better.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:07 AM
3

This
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:00 PM
24

Hank? Just talk about propane and propane accessories. Beware of narrow urethra, though.
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:16 PM
1

This. Have other plans, plan b. Hit on another girl, meetup with friends, watch a movie, go to sleep - if it happens at your home. Move on to another thing immediately. She doesn't care, but she does not care because she has something else in the bag. So should you.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:23 PM
9

Well. She didn't reject you initially, you guys dated.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:47 AM
2

Good. All I am saying is you are doing fine. Some guys need about a 1000 approaches before they get anywhere.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:01 AM
-34

Lol. 50-70 in three month? That is a good weekly number, not THREE month number. Do you analyse your approaches in the evening? Give yourself feedback?
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:56 AM
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Duh. Because they are agressive, can protect them from other men. Usually they are taller and have better faces than average. An more fun, more exciting to be around. All you need to do is become taller and have model looks.
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:16 AM
1

Visit gettingbigger subreddit. Thank me later.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:02 PM
72

Finally someone who gets laid gives advice. Op whatever this guy says. She just wants you attention. Its like sex to women.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:50 PM
1

This is good
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:09 PM
1

Now this might aound unbelievable. But just listen. She might have had a falling out with her boyfriend and needed some comfort and validation she is attractive. You seemed like a safe bet. Then in between two dates she either reconciled with a boyfriend or found a new one. Good job on your side overall. As others said, give her some space.
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:48 AM
1

In person comments are solid. But also yep. In instagrqm you have to rely on girls who message you themselves. So, yep. Unless you get dms from girls, don't bother.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:54 PM
1

Ehm. Hinge is for serious relationships. You are ready for that? P. S. Girls are waay cuter though.
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:57 PM
2

Approach at least 10 women a day. Setup tinder. Slide into girls dms on Facebook insta. Go out a loot. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:12 PM
-11

Yeah, no She wants to use you for attention She is not into you Don't go
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:12 PM
1

She said she was willing to meet up so you keep texting her. Then she found another text buddy and replaced you.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:12 PM
1

When she text you again, invite her straight home to hangout. If she declines, just treat her as last priority. Take your time to answer her texts, don't engage in convos, etcetera.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:26 PM
6

Don't do movie dates. Waste of time. You can't even talk to her. You can't leave easily - say you like movi don't like her. Or she doesn't like you but likes the movie. Hard to hangout after. High chance she leaves righ after getting free tickets and food.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:15 PM
1

I hate unfaliliar beds. Also, yep, morning routine could be attraction killer, many women are very self conscious.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:03 AM
3

Well I myself lurked seduction forums 15 years ago. And all the comments did help. So I am giving back.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:49 PM
1

Yeah, that was thw good part. But he has to consider social gropu implications as well. This is why cold approach is recommended - it removes all that social group problems.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:32 PM
1

This is good advice. But I would still go with giving up on this girl. Women are waay smarter than men in social cues. She knows you mate was interested. Despite what he says it isn't great social situation for her to be in, due to possible jealousy - we couldn't rule this out 100 percent. Therefore it is easier for her to leave the situation.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:59 PM
5

Op this is the best response here IMO
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:36 AM
2

This is solid. You will get some points instantly. For face do mewing (for jaw and cheekbones) and face gymnastics (improves eye shape). For cold approach: you kinda have to do it. At least 20 approaches a week.
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:22 PM
2

Older women are more direct. While young girl might think: yeah, he is not attractive enough, how do I ectract something from him, older one does not have so much time to beat around the bush. Try hitting on more of them, you might hit a jackpot)
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:15 PM
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Mewing and face gymnastics. Mewing for bones, gymnastics for eye shape. Will take about a year to see first results. Totally worh it.
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:53 PM
1

Haha. You have some skills, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:11 PM
1

Dunno, talk to your hand then...
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:08 PM
0

Talk to 20-50 other girls. Forget this one immediately. You are done with her.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:06 PM
0

This push pull advice only works if you are 8 and she is a 6.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:05 PM
4

Can't tell you without seeing you in person. Come over to my house (exact time) and we will find out. Anything but enthusiastic yes you meet with no response. If she suggests neutral place, you say: I hanged out a lot, feeling like spending time at home. If you are up for that, hit me up. Any other response but yes you go no contact. If you don't want anything to do with her, just ignore the message. Hope that helps. Also book her for you most dull time when you literally have nothing else to do…
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:12 PM
2

Also be 6'6 with chiseled jaw Easy peasy
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:09 PM
75

By artificial selection - arranged, religious marriages. Now we are back to cavemen days dating system.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:45 PM
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He is tall and has a good face. Boom.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:05 AM
1

Nah you can feel being watched. Actually you see them with area of your eyes, you just don't pay attention. But when they look at you you do.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:57 PM
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She might be having sex with someone else and seeing op as a friend by this moment.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:26 PM
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You are not an anomaly. You belong to majority. Look up statistics, its like 30 percent of youg men who never had sex. It is a lot. You just happen to see a lot of successful guys. If I was in my 20-s I would focus all my energy in building wealth, status, physique. And then some time on women. Well that is what I am basically doing now. Minority of guys just happen to be born good looking. And they get life on easy mode. The rest of us have to grind.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:22 PM
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Shoot your shot. She just got dumped by more attractive man and is bored. Depending on your looks and game window might be really small.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:59 AM
1

Ok, next step is girls actually answering to you. Next - asking you questions. Next - meeting up. Next-kissing, next-sex. Do you get my logic?
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:20 AM
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Well thank you)
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:47 PM
0

This is how one wjite foreigner gets beat up by 5 locals. You think they would fight him one on one?
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:44 PM
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Thia should have mpre upvotes
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:02 PM
2

Man this is gold. It isn't just a wing. Its whatever I am looking for in a friend.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:09 PM
1

She used you as a text buddy. Don't contact her, don't engage until she brings up hanging out herself. She mist have been doing that to several other guys just for fun.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:51 PM
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Because they add you to see the numbers for bragging rights. They message themselves to the guys they want to have sex with. But also keep in mind - you are good enough to be added for the numbers. It is better than getting no matches.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:51 PM
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This. I strongly disencourage public displays of affection. She can do it to you - it would even make you look better. From your side - chill, interesting, reserved.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:31 PM
4

So she agrees, goes on 10 dates with you, while having sex with someone else. Right?
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:05 PM
1

Well you should. There is the reason not to shit where you eat. All the girls might even hate each other in class, but all of them talk to each other. I don't think much harm donez but keep that in mind just in case.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:54 PM
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Redhead most likely asked french girl to exclude you. Now you are outcasted by both of them and their friends.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:46 PM
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Cause she wants to milk you for attention withiut giving you sex. Girl game. She has someone else for sex, looking for friends.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:16 PM
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Return your one text to her two, reply whenever you want, take hours, days. Basically when you are done talking to other girls, friends, family, your work, home errands, gym, etcetera. She is now priority 10 in your life. Treat her as such. If she initiates hanging out - ask her to come over and bring snacks. No more going out, she wasted her chances.
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:20 PM
1

Don't get the deal with people downvoting you. This is a legit question. Let me answer. She is staring because she gets off on it. The same way men get off from sex. She enjoys your attention. And she is fishing for another opportunity to reject you. Also, don't take her words for her being married as true. She might have used them as an excuse, to let you down easy and withous social repercussions. If she was attracted and she was married she wouldn't have rejected you. If she was attracted and…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:26 PM
1

Lack of attraction. She was hoping to friendzone you, but you escalated instead. Good job. Many women come to dates with a goal to friendzone guys, not to become their lovers. Its a female game.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:33 PM
0

What this guy said. Women only want to be approached by the guys 8 and above. The rest of the men are dead to them.
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:20 PM
1

It sounds like girl was attracted from the beginning. She gave you a lot to work with: walked up to you, helped with a friend, kept good attitude.
/r/seduction15/12/21 10:21 AM
4

Pure gold. This should be a separate post.
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:56 AM
1

She did have a pass from her friends as they always show pics of the guys they hangout with to each other. Preselection. Guy was cute enough for quick sex. And acted fast. Maybe that? Obviously she didn't want to blow her cover.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 06:44 PM
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Translated from feminise: I am sorry = I am sorry, someone better hit me up. But you are close third, fourth I am sorry, can we do it another day (then suggests another day) = I am sorry, someone better hit me up. But you are close second. So, no action is necessary. If you respond further, you agree for third, fourth or worse place in her rotation.
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:30 PM
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Ofcourse, special needs. Op will be an asshole for getting mad about it. He is already an asshole, though, for not offering help, am I right? You can spin it in so many ways.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:08 PM
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Lwgit excuse is when she offers another time to hangout. Otherwise it is a hard no.
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:57 PM
14

I did. Then got really depressed. Its like another game. You get tons of matches, numbers in mere seconds. You don't even have to try at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 10:40 AM
5

Also the store owner can go to mall management and ask them to blacklist the guy. And they might support him, cause he pays rent and guy looks like he harasses the customers. I do support cold approaching. However it does seem like op overstayed his welcome. Also the guys who report success cold approaching in malls might be more attractive. Nit to say op isn't attractive, however it is known that due to halo effect people with better looks get away with more things than "uglier" ones.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:48 PM
1

I like the candy analogy. We basically offer the product on sexual market. We don't get pissed when someone doesn't want to buy. We just go and look for other customers.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 04:56 PM
1

So basically no rejections, girls coming back, hitting you up?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 03:37 PM
0

Haha: Boy: let's hangout Girl: busy studying 24/7 Boy: Do I look like a piano? Girl: Huh? Boy: quit playing me!
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:16 PM
15

I tried to explain what it feels to be off the spectrum. Ant that is what i came up with. Neurotipical people drive on automatical transmission. Aspergers person drives with a broom on mr Bean's car. But then I have waay more ability to fine tune my social actions and waay better understanding of what I do, than someone who didn't try to fix the car, cause he didn't need to. Hence, advantage sperg. It isn't over.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 01:44 PM
3

Yes veterans sometimes are hard to understand for a new guys. He might have shit tonnes of lays, become desensitized, have confidence and plates at his disposal. But that all doesn't fit into one sentence: sex is not important. Ofcourse it is not important if you get it like water.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 09:07 AM
5

Just for clarification. What if she cheats with some armed forces guy or member of king's council? Or someone else with pull, influence and goons at his disposal. Hypergamy dictates she woild always find someone better in every way. Someone who can crush husband's with his fingers.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 09:04 AM
9

Its a lucky outcome. Be glad they don't call you mysoginist and try to doxx you and make you lose your job.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 05:50 PM
0

Worked for me. Only took three years of chewing hard food, chewing gum 20 minutes a day. But I got into mewing while looking for proper tongue position. So it was unintentional benefit. My face looks way better.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 05:44 PM
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Don't discuss your new beliefs with blue pilled people. At the very least you would stay not understood. At the worst you could decimate your own career.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 04:44 PM
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Welcome to the club. And, yeah, rule 1 - don't talk red pill. It can get so hairy and dangerous, you would be surprised. Also read up on 48 rules of power.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 04:41 PM
92

Embrace the loneliness. Besides, judging by your post you need a lot of time for yourself: lifting, mewing, nofap, meditating, career, hobbies. So use all that free time. Allow youself to get some breaks, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 04:36 PM
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It happened to me after good sex sessions. Your body language changes, eyes look different, you get a whole new vibe. Still it is better to self-improve rather than to rely on short-term effects to get girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 11:08 AM
1

Thank you. Yep, I guess I need more sample data.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 01:42 PM
2

What if she is "shy" with you, but very open with her chad? Any way to weed out these kinds of girls?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/21 11:08 AM
2

The only thing that I don't expect from red pill - is a stubbornness. And yet I see 6 feet guys with good faces telling people that all they need to do is approach girls. Red pill clearly lacks advice for low smv guys who are rejected non stop. Yes it does say get status and money. However, did anyone here consider how difficult it is for a bad looking guy to get status and money, even job oppprtunities? We do need better advices, more information for the ones who struggle the most.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 06:39 PM
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As I said, hsrd to explain. Unfortunately here on the red pill, in the sidebar, in the numerous posts I haven't seen advice on dealing with huge numerous situations, such as: how to cope with depression after being hard rejected by women on ten consecutive dates. How to not become desperate after one, two year dry spell. How to focus on tasks when your brain is overwhelmed with sexual frustration. How to cope with a daily life if you are socially isolated. In my opinion, initally red pill was de…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:36 PM
2

Well it is hard to explain. But this is akin to a meditation exercise. I am a person who grew up consuming enormous amounts of porn and indulging in alcohol, smoking, lavish spending, etcetera. Luckily I never developed gambling addiction. But my personality is addictive. Therefore I developing for my self some kind of emulation of experiences. It is still in the experimental stages. If it helps me with smoking, I might make a post in the main sub.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:25 PM
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I think this is good OP, also I am currently working on rewiring my brain to produce dopamine, prolactine (for orgasm hunger deactivation purposes) on demand. Basically it is a mind exercise where I imagine myself having orgasms whenever I am in a middle of dry spells. Works wonders. Right now I am applying this to smoking - imagining smoking instead of doing it.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:11 PM
2

Always happy to help out red pilled men
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:33 PM
2

Yeah, just remember it is like a court hearings. As long as your friend dates her girlfriend she is going to accumulate everything you said, did, etcetera, and then try to use that against you, just for some fun. Or just to get back at you for things other guys did to her.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:31 PM
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Just book her at the same time different place as one of your plates, fwbs. Or answer Dunno, I will get back to you and then never get back. Or book her at say sunday 20.00 (at this time I don't care if anyone flakes, more sleep for me), obvioisly in cafe near your home.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:18 PM
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This is good advice for copywriters, etcetera. It took me years of wrinting texts to realise this.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:13 PM
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This is advice from Alpha male strategies guy on youtube. I was unable to find original video, but I applied it many times and it works in terms of avoiding drama, not seeming butthurt etcetera.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:11 PM
3

Cause I had that happen to me countless times 😂😭😂😭😂
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:08 PM
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Yep, we have to calibrate. Friend is more important than some girl.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:07 PM
54

Looks like some kind of drama seeking attention whore. Pull back. And Just be nice in your replies. Girl: hey, how are you? You, after a while, if you have nothing else to do, done with your home errands etcetera, like in several hourz: great, had a nice gym workout. Now chilling at home. Notice how you don't ask her: and you? Cause you don't care now. If she confronts about long replies, just tell her you were busy. Eventually she will either give up, or setup a real date. Then you escalate and…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:27 PM
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Yeah, it was always weird seeing cool successfull guys with plain women. Now I know why.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:59 PM
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I start reading. Start thinking: how the hell this text is so good and not some pussy advice, like: text a lot to girla to build comfort. And then I see Woujo. Guys. I suggest you print that post down. And learn it by heart. This is gold. You should be the guy who has short convos and asks out hundred girls, rather than being a guy who texts several girls for weeks only to get blown off. Attraction is build in person. Also, yes. Woman are very, very smart. They know you want sex. They judge you …
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:21 PM
1

Paragraph three. Won't jerk you, but will makeout. That is exactly what happened to me multiple times with girls who just wanted me for attention and validation. Let me make it easy for you: this is not how the girls who want to have sex behave. If she is into you, she will shut test you, of course, but then have sex with you with heavy lmr, etcetera. This one sounds like she just enjoys attention. Take a look at part where she says she is telling about getting to know you more before you get an…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:47 PM
1

I would also go for it. Question game is an amazing way to get laid/spice up relationship. She will have a feeling ahe knows you better and will be less reserved. You could also spill some real facts on her: "i don't usually tell this to people, but i (lost my hamster /got into a fight /lost a good friend due to accident)". It has to be true. This will increase her trust in you, as you show your vulnerability.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:51 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:42 PM
1

But it is one of the necessary reads. Not sure if it is in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:40 PM
1

Very sad and soul crushing read. Why, just why.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:39 PM
1

I saved a looot of time by not searching porn: hours of my life wasted before that. My sex sessions can last up to four five hours now - single session. Whenever a woman rejects me now, even after hard making out - I don't have these dreaded blue balls and I don't need to frantically search out porn to make myself feel better. I just think to myself: well, more energy for the next productive day, new accomplishments, ercetera. So it basically helped me eliminate that desperation, that search for…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:09 PM
1

Also I highly recommend nofap for these cases. If you don't get laid, try it out. It does make you stronger and more resilient. Also it raises your abundance with women.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:01 PM
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This girl is advanced. In girl game, that is to say. Cocktease. Some women just want to see how much attention they can get from you without having sex with you. She expects you to commit your attention. Obviously she doesn't respect your basic needs and you as a man. Yep, look for other women, work on smv. If she is a 7, you need to be 9-10.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:55 PM
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Yep. Like a thousand times...
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:49 PM
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Sounds familiar. She is not into you. When they want to have sex, they have sex. Happened to me tonnes of times: had girl over, escalated, she ran away. At some point you just stop caring. At all. Just next, next, next, next, break, back to drawing board, monk mode, next, next, next, next, and back. And then you have some sex. Then more sex. Then you start looking for more attractive women. So you first live in hell. Then you become red pilled and move through purgatory. Then you see the light.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:46 PM
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Thank you! I wouldn't know what to do with my life if it wasn't for red pill.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:56 PM
3

Yep. Use them dollars to self-improve, not to indulge some woman, who may or many not be grateful for that. Whenever I take woman out to eat it is for the place where I want to go and for the food I want to try. Obviously, only after a few sexes, also she either has to split the bill, or the bill has to be negligible, or she has to earn it somehow by being reallly zero maintenance, always on time for dates and adding to my life.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:49 PM
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Tinder, cold approach. It just took me three years of hard lifting, working on social skills, swiping, getting good clothes, mewing, nofap, etcetera to get any success on tinder. Probably I went from 5 to 7 smv wise. The journey is hard. But the benefits I got are immense. So, yep, it isn't easy. It gets easier, but you have to do it every day. And it isn't gonna happen overnight. Right now I get Ioi's and matches on tinder, dates, ercetera. When I started, i got nothing, hard rejections after h…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:04 PM
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I answered in below comment. Untile you become nice, high value CHAD - you will have to reach out. That is my take anyway.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:14 PM
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No problem. Just giving back what I got from here 😎 It is also worth remembering that this community attracts disagreeable people. It was a real eye opener to see through red pill lense how agreeable CHADs are. It is easy for them to be nice. Good genetics lets them get everything just handed to them (i know the downsides, like jealousy etcetera, but just bear with me). Therefore guys and gals think: hey, who would I rather hit up? That cool attractive guy, who will make me feel great, or that B…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:13 PM
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Thank you for good words! important note. Girls have to be somewhat attracted to you to tag along. I would never consider inviting a guy to help me with shopping, etcetera 😂
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:22 PM
2

This is good advice. Another take on that would be asking her availability before you setup a date. So you get her number, text her, have a short exchange, talk about each other. Always ask her “what do you want to know about me?“. Talk about her hobbies and what she does after work - that would let you know about her schedule and free time. Then wait a couple days and ask her out at her free time. Then if she gives some bullshit about her being busy, just leave her on read. Or you can do the ta…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:58 PM
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Welcome to red pill world. Many guys over here including me go through that phaze. I still have to message and hit up people whenever I want to do something, go out somewhere etcetera. Guess what? I message girls and have them tag along. Just today I had a girl help me buy pants for deadlifts in the store. She would help pick diffetent pants, watch over my stuff and locker room so no one else occupies it while I go pick out othwr pants to try on, etcetera. Bought her ice cream for that. Obviousl…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:49 PM
1

Yep, getting laid has become waaay easier for the ones who know what to do. For instance they once closed restaurants and bunch of other stuff, so all you have to do now is get a coffee and go for a walk.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:52 PM
1

Establish some social proof first in your gym. Get to know everyone - regulars, trainers staff. Be on good terms with them. Approach only if you get indicators of interest or they open you: hey, is this machine, mat bench free. Get digits, ask them out. If they reject, stay polite when you encounter them. It is totally different from street game. You need social prooof so the people can vouch for you in case you encounter crazy girl or hit on someones girflriend, wife by accident. Overall - not …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:07 PM
1

Word. After raising my smv to a certain point I am grateful for hypergamy. I used to be afraid that my girl cheats on me with any man on the street. Now I know that chances are fairly slim - due to shortage of alphas and shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 06:26 AM
2

Cause each one of them attractive ones has like 5-10 guys messaging her daily. For them it becomes like a second work. And you don't value something you have a lot of, like water.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:07 AM
5

It is called shwdding old skin and becoming vulnerable. World isn't just going to ignore your transformation. It is also what red pill warns many guys about - crab bucket mentality, open hostility, jealousy, attempts to force you to conform. Gain power carefully and slowly, slowly exoand your limits and freedoms. Don't rush.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:11 PM
1

That was her way to simultaneously get attention and make op miserable. Both favorite things women love to do. Op didn't have chances back then.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 11:16 AM
1

This. We all need to find friends with common goals, common interests.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:12 AM
3

Haircut, platform shoes.
/r/seduction23/04/21 09:05 AM
4

When you start pulling and having sex consistently you will feel way better. It is about loneliness. Also work on friend group. You need emotional support.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:31 AM
5

Nofap
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:03 PM
1

I was reading this and thinking: fuck, this is my life. Except for girlfriend part. And getting so many party invites you have to turn them down. And lost of other stuff. Your advice on combatting negative thoughts with positive is golden. Despite all the work I put in self-improvement I still have them. I am putting it immideately into work. As such: despite not having a girlfriend in the past I have loots of options right now. And this is all due to hard work on self improvement. It wasn't jus…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 07:27 PM
2

If she shows you other guys messages, she shows your messages to other guys. That is not good. You should have called her out on that immediately. It indicates high value and boundaries. Then if you are fine with her showing your messages to anyonex proceed as normal.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:15 PM
1

This one. You already provide her with a good time. No need to become her problem solver, you are not a boyfriend and not a husband.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:41 PM
2

This will happen a loot to you. Well done. She didn't see you as a lover from a get go. So she decided to find out, how good a provider you can be. So it was over even before she asked her question. See other women.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:37 PM
1

Remove age from tinder. Then don't mention your age to matching women. You are doing very well attracting younger women. You should be able to slay older ones, as thwir smv is lower.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:45 PM
1

Agree with other guys, breaking frame. But disagree about total ghosting. This one flakes a lot, but you can still have fun times with her. Book her on your most boring times of the week - sunday evening, workday, etcetera - when you don't have other dates lined up. Or even double book her. Say you have meetup with a new girl at tuesday 7 pm, so book her at 21.00. Then if date goes well (you come home with new girl) cancel at 20.50 smth. If it doesn't, new girl bails for some reason, then you st…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:29 AM
1

As a guy, who asks like 10 other guys to go cold approach with and gets "no" every time Ineed a little bit more. It might be a cultural thing, I live in Almaty, most guys here practice social circle game, get into ltrs, marriage. The ones with good game are chads, so they need no wingman.
/r/seduction26/03/21 09:20 AM
1

Op, where and how did you find friends to do cold approach with?
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:27 AM
3

Excuse me. Where on earth these guys have any obligation to call these women? It is just a number. They might call, might not call, totally up to them. You don't expect women to show up on the date and have sex with you, right? Same thing here.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:22 AM
5

True. But what red pill gives the ones not blessed with looks is a vision and knowledge. It helps to see the real world in all its horrible glory and avoid traps. And there are too many traps to count. Even if red pill doesn't get you laid, it is still beneficial to learn about how world truly works so not to be taken advantage of.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 10:03 AM
1

You wanna be just an ugly bitch? Or strong and ugly man? This is what I ask myself whenever I doubt lifting for the sake of raising smv. Strenghth is good, even if it doesn't translate into overall attractiveness, which it does.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:31 PM
3

A) you wanna be serious with her, ltr, talk to him B) you wanna pump and dump - pass on her.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:27 PM
25

Well, thats what most attractive women do - date and talk to multiple guys.
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:04 AM
19

Just ask out many girls, approach more girls, meet new girls.
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:36 AM
23

Multiply that by hours spent searching for new porn. Thats a huge amount of unproductive time.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:34 AM
1

Listen to this guy. For facebook you can get numbers if you have 5000 friends and engagement on your posts around 50-100 comments. So out of slipping into 40 dms: Hey, nice to meet you, I got 4 numbers and one date. Seems like a lot, but I did it in my spare time. So 10 percent rate, but it takes a like 20 minutes to slip into 40 dms, also you grow your profile by 40 hot friends)
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:28 PM
1

Read up on color theory. Also google what colors work for your hair color and skin color. I was surprised to find out that red doesn't work for me, stuck to blue - cause black hair. It does seem stupid, but women are more receptive when I wear the righ color Currently getting rid off red clothes.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:22 PM
15

Lift like your life depends on it. Because it does.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:13 PM
2

Jealousy is very dangerous Also most of men are on the bottom of social hierarchy. Medieval times may be gone, but modern "knights" - chads are not going to be happy with serfs taking the women that they had previously available for them. We all here are going against the established social order, its a fact.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:12 PM
6

Go solo. At some point I figured lots of guy friends will just weigh me down, or even be hostile to my self improvement. So I did what had to be done - dropped them.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:18 PM
2

Do it! It works past puberty, I am 32, starrted at 29. Stumbled upon mewing while looking up proper tongue position. So do it for health reasons. However, now I actually have hollow cheeks)
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:14 PM
1

Hey, bro. Any news?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 07:27 PM
37

So, kickstarter for "Moo" movie? Seems like a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 06:37 PM
2

Just got rid of some old furniture. It was just taking up space.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:21 AM
1

The cuter one has access to guys who are way more attractive than you are. Or offer more commitment, or just more in some regards than you. Beleive me they had a long discussion about you. Most likely you can upset the plain girl, which you did. And annoy the cute one - she doesn't seem to care much, cause options.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:34 AM
1

So how long does it take to reach 3 plate squat? It took me three years and I am barely at 90 kg one rep.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 05:20 AM
7

It is all about efficiency. Lots of jobs can be automated, lots of tasks can be completed in shorter time with your increased competence. Ofcourse op didn't reach his 5 hour work day in one year. It must have taken a while. It is all about your attitude and ability to see opportunities even in some of the most mundane jobs. I would suggest looking for the ways to complete tasks in your current job faster. If it seems impossible try looking for area where you can find potential for efficiency. P.…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 03:08 PM
23

This guy is ugly How the fuck did he get a girl? What is wrong with her? Clearly there is something wrong with him. I dont get it I am mad Thats what happens
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:25 AM
8

Op, for a good experiment change description to a nigerian native. Dunno about others, but I still think you could get more matches, than in USA. It is way better to get women by being yourself,than with a green card. Also hb 10 might not put out until you make substantial investment if you go that way...
/r/askTRP06/03/21 06:58 PM
7

Second it. It almost seems like society hates independent thinkers.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:02 PM
5

If that is what you like, why not. Over here people recommend looking for donations, soup kitchen, etcetera. If you need social skills look for something which will force you to interact with bunch of people. I did product deliveries - giving food boxes to poor families. You get to see a lot of houses)
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:13 PM
8

Volunteering is a better option. It is more satisfying as well.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:41 PM
8

So why cash out now? Finally clawed my way into what’s left- mostly empties and spilled beer. Vomit caked into the carpet, stinking of acid and sulfur. Why settle now that I can revel in the shit heap- the king of hell- aging women at my knees like the cover of Love Gun (1977). Yep, mostly empties and spilled beers. Big boys broke all the toys before I was allowed on the playground. They ate half of my birthday cake, left the rest to dry, burnt all the candles. The rides are slow and rusty, anim…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:14 PM
3

Cause she had nothing to do and nobody else was available. Source: all my dating life
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:43 PM
1

If you are used to good beer, but you can't afford it, would you drink shitty beer. Or go sober?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:50 PM
4

No mistake, she found someone higher smv. And her conplaint indicates she wanted you to chase way more and get into orbiter zone. Well done, next.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:48 PM
0

Also I see the merit of people telling you to stay away. It seems you are not ready and need to work on your game.
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:32 PM
1

Cmon, quit downvoting people who say op could have closed and this was a shit test. Astounding number of people over here have no idea why women shit test. She was checking to see how op reacts to tough situations. Op listen this woman is not toxic. She was demonstarting that she doesn't go out just with anybody, but only with most capanlble and strong. And she was making sure you are fit for her. Also another reason is plausible deniability. She can't tell her friends: Oh, I approached this cut…
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:31 PM
1

Read upnon red pill stages, etcetera. It will take you to entirely new understanding of females and the whole world. I am still getting new answers on the questions that boggled me for years and years. Some of these answers were soul crushing. You will need to persevere as you read and then see red pill events in the real world. It would surprise you how much you didn't notice before.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:43 PM
1

Watching Corey Wayne right now
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:24 PM
2

The hole is muuch muuuch deeper than that. Be careful traveller)
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:24 PM
2

Of course you tell her what time you are available. This shows her you value your time and have things going on. Give two options. If she is too busy for you, then you have your answer straight away and save a bunch of time.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:21 PM
2

It is not about a girl. It is about you. You completeley reasses her value to you. Her personal flows become apparent. You start asking yourself: Would I hang out with her if it wasn't for her beauty? What kind of value does she bring in my life apar from sex? Is it worth to pursue her, or my passions, my purpose?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:18 PM
3

Omg I got it. She didn't like you enough, she was preparing to drop you, hence no sex. So she wanted to grab your validation - 10 out of 10, before she bails. So there was nothing you could have done, except may be cracking a joke, as other posters suggested. The whole situation was a setup for her to squeeze as much validation from you as possible, for them it is like sex for the guys.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:15 AM
1

This definitely should go to nofap sub. But basically huge urges first two weeks, then you get the hang of it and then it is real easy. It takes up to 90 days to get rid of the habit.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:13 PM
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Nofap is a keystone of abundance. You have to master it and become truly free from desire for a woman. Then you will stop caring realy whether you have a girl at your disposal, have a date, etcetera. While getting rejected you would think: what did I do wrong and not: waaaa, Iam not getting sex. Also superpowers. When I don't bust a nut, my mind becomes really witty. It is like: oh, you have to message this and that girl, swipe tinder some more, also there is a hottie walking down the street, go…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:06 PM
2

Nofap and karrezza/tantric sex. This is all you need.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:22 PM
1

Well if you think that salad is a good treat for my tiredness after workout, I would totally go for it. As the matter of fact I tried going without zma and tribulus. And you know what? That tiredness shit came right back These pills do work for ME. So I am jist shaeing my experience. Sorry about all that biker's troubles.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:14 PM
2

Lookup Woujo's posts on mission and purpose.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:42 PM
1

Zma, tribulus after workout. mandatory exercise next morning. Mandatory 8 gours sleep. And still, cramps, even after three years of lifting, cause I can't get my sleep schedule in order.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:32 AM
1

Ehm. I have to tell you you acted a little bit rashly. What women say and what they do are two different things entirely. This looks like her trying to reclaim her dignity and some power in relationship. You could have nodded, said "Sure, I understand". Then proceeded with some comfort, talking, etcetera. Then escalated. Read up on comfort tests, it looks lile one of these. If she said no again, then soft next for a week. If you think it is too much hassle, then consider the cost of time on aqui…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:45 PM
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If only people said what they meant and meant what they said.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 11:02 AM
1

Ok, yeah this was one of unexplained mind boggling things What they write about making women qualify to you is basic description of 10 chad behavior when he is out with a 7. So he is like: you are 7, I can get like 10 other 7s why should I spend time with you right now. She has to subconsciously feel you emitting this vibe. Real abundance could help. If there is noq readily available women you can experiment with: how are you better than my favorite tv show, my workout, my chilling with the guys…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:33 PM
1

Kk, lmk how it unfolds.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:14 PM
1

She is still milking you. You really need to read up on message timing. It is not on the sidebar. Basically imagine her on the other side of the screen with 20 othwr guys in her pm's. Each her message is a strategic hit. In this case what I see is: hmm, this guy is willing to play the ball and respond to me. He answers during evening hours, therefore he has nobody to fuck. So he might be simping. Also, he puts up resistance. Lets see how much I can get from him before final timing - your date ti…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:06 PM
4

Also, yeah, society for some reason does not validate virtue. It is broken.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:56 PM
10

I understand your rage about perceived ufairness. I used to have this feelings myself. But then I actually took a look at some local thugs. It is true they are bummy, and covardly wen faced with resistance. However, besides bad boy vibes they have tremendous social skills, status, access to financial resources and time. And they are risk takers, women like that - they are willing to break the rules - very attractive trait. They also are experts on how to provide emotions, which most guys are una…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:54 PM
3

Keep your answers short. Answer only during lunch hours. She has to think you are busy with work, having fun and with other girls. How would you text her if you wer banging other girls right now? Very sparsely I suppose. Also have backup for sunday. She looks lile an attention whore. I had this experience when girls setup date and try to milk as much attention from you as possible and then flake. They are catching up as well, you know.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:12 AM
1

I didn't list my height and 5'10 girls started showing up on the dates. And for me it turned out not really enjoyable to be with 5'10, as I am myself 5'10. So i listed my height and weight. It solves so many issues. As for attraction part, you can attract taller or similar height girls if your smv is high enough.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:04 AM
1

Advice about being polite from above is good. But I think you also need your backup - people willing to defend you publicly, including women. These can be your fans, your colleagues, etcetera. So you get mobbed online, they also have to jump in your defense. At a very least you will have a stalemate.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:33 PM
5

This. Always err on the safe side. Your life is not on the line, only your ego. Supid, dumb, lazy, entitled ego. Some people have nothing to lose or beleive they have nothing to lose. It is way better to avoid them. Also, don't tell this story to your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:18 PM
3

By having sex with her you forgave her and validated her behavior. Now she is confused. And now you are in the wrong. Next time you should have checked them both in your house. And maybe kicked them out.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:27 PM
1

Guess what. You are already grounded due to Covid at no fault of your own. Think of it)
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:34 AM
2

Tl dr. Women behave badly because they can afford it - they perceive you as easily replaceable. The only way to combat it is continued self improvement. It might be suprising, but there is a looot of mental background to flaking. Women have enormouse social experience due to exposure to so many people. It is just their nature. So they can make snap and mostly, not all the time, accurate judgement. The minute you meet a woman she puts you in one of her boxes: alpha 1, alpha 2, beta 1, beta 2, etc…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:16 PM
0

This is actually a good question that you should have been asking yourself before asking her out. Why is she so special you are spending time with her? "Cause I wanna has sex!". Duh. But this is not how Chads operate. Chad is having sex with a few girls and is a chooser. He can pick the ones who bring more to the table than sex. Basically she wants to see if you have this chad mentality.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:33 AM
3

Why do you downvote him? Mewing and chewing gum is legit. Grow beard, definitely. Also work on haircut and invest in it, experiment, if you can't grow beard. Surgery is a last resort, but consider risks of permanent damage. Face>body, but definitely lift.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:00 PM
1

I wanna start with saying, that a comment from one girl is not enough to make a decisive data about your face. But maybe cold approach a 100 girls. Then you could have some solid data. Also, just tell kid the truth. I really appreciate all the support in this thread, but I beleive we just can't ignore black pill. Red pill teaches looks money status and promotes game. Black pill and face stuff is legit. Scrawny average guy with zero muscle and 10 face can easily lay attractive women. My suggestio…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:35 PM
2

It is their job to keep you off tinder by giving incentives. If they resort to demands, it means they are not really into you and planned to drop you anyway.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:29 AM
5

Spot on. Notice how the girl is the one initiating interaction. In you case girl Responded. In his - she was the one proactive. This is a massive power shift in his favor.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:30 PM
27

Dull and bleak is a golden time for coming up with new ideas and self improving!
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:29 AM
1

I had a girl like that. She would throw all the jabs at me. I either ignore, or deflect. Then we get to bed. Then I remember what she said. This leads to some rough fucking. I am happy cause I get all of that out of my system, she is happy, well cause i think she acted like that on purpose ti get fucked rough.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:07 PM
2

Spot on. Too many guys beleive it is enough to stand up to a bully. Sure, he will respect you more than others. But you can still lose and still stay beta, but with more damaged body. Also good note on women. They will quite often pick attractive beta over ugly alpha. But you still need to stand up and raise yourbalpha qualities.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 11:43 AM
2

This is soo malicious and manipulative. You think: she acts jealous, therefore she must be invested and serious. No, dummie. She is jealous for you attention, without any intention to be monogamous herself.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:47 AM
13

You gotta read up on manipulation. Manipulation involves hidden agenda, forcing people to do things. Op is overt and doesn't force anybody.
/r/seduction15/12/20 08:34 AM
6

I promise you, if you put hard work: sidebar, etcetera, you will get there. You are already in advantage, you know why? Because you have NOTHING to sacrifice for self improvement. No attachments, no distractions. But you have to work, you have to keep faith!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 06:56 AM
1

Keep through. I was about to lose faith in red pill after three years of grinding in gym, career, social. I thought to myself may be just make shit tons of money and use that to get women. Then I got some moderate success. Then a bit more of moderate. Now I can call myself average. As for your basic needs I syrongly suggest nofap and meditation. Test your mental limits.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:04 PM
1

News flash, "good girls" date drug dealers and felons all the time. I agree with others suggesting you take ownership of your past. My response would have been: Yeah, so what? U scared? Or maybe: I am glad you want to know more about me. If you are uncomfortable with ny history, may be we are not good fit for each other. You can't go back and undo what you did. But you also can't be insecure about yourself. You don't have to give your crime history to every girl you date. Obviously what you did …
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:19 AM
0

Ratio of women to men in tinder is like 40 60. Also hypergamy. Also there are a LOT of girls on tinder who are already in relationships or even married. So basically they use tinder to trade up. Men use tinder to get laid and to start relationships. Hence huge disparity in likes and matches. I agree with OP, tinder should be used as a secondary way to get women, for instance when you are already seeing someone.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 09:17 AM
3

Tl dr. Leaarning game and gaming women is worth your time When a woman has powerful feelings for you, sex is just amazing. More feelz - better sex. Hookers treat everything as a transaction. I don't subscribe to transaction part of red pill fully. Chad gives woman best sex of her life and gets best sex of his life. John gives hooker cash and gets access to her pussy. But you are right - for most guys it is more effective to become rich and get loveless sex from a 10 hooker than to spend years to…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:57 PM
1

It seems like Op has no idea hiw real kings and high standing people act. Read up biographies, history. High value people are very, very careful with their words and actions, because they have a lot to lose.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 08:04 AM
2

This sounds solid. But what if boss is both asshole and both stupid? Should op just accept it as a fact and prepare to switch jobs?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 08:23 PM
2

Sounds very toxic to me. Lets say op says I don't know confidently after your advices. Then the boss guy comes up with something like: hey, why did we hire this guy, who doesn't know that?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 07:07 PM
4

I think bunch of you guys misunderstood the post. What I clearly see here is a boss who is trying to make op look unknowledgebale and dumb so as to use it as a leverage to force him to work more, make him look bad in front of his superiors. This does fall under social skills, however I would also like to know the answer.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 07:05 PM
1

I agree with others about obvious stuff. And you are on to something. I think it is called inner game. For example I am single. And recently I started behaving on dates like I am cheating on my girlfriend. I can't point out exact behaviors per se. It is more like an overall vibe: I am acting very reserved, no heavy kino or kissing in public, platonic interactions over text. It has translated into a tremendous change of attitude from women I am dating. I beleive they have competition anxiety and …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:43 PM
3

This is gold and I can relate
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:37 PM
3

Yes op I suggest you read up on covert contracts. Also evaluate your verbal overt contract with this girl Is she fulfilling her side, what she agreed to do? Is she breaching the contract? As for your question, she is milking you for you attention. For girls attention is like sex. Even beta attention is valuable somehow.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:33 PM
1

This is classic hostage situation. Help however you can without hurting yourself. Move out as soon as you can, build your own life. They are the adults and they should care for you, not the other way round.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:28 PM
1

Also by now both girls are reading the messages and discussing you. Girls always share messages from guys with each other.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:16 PM
29

Btw, it is not on the sidebar. And it should be on the sidebar - about chad rotation.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:30 PM
0

Sorry, just got back with my girlfriend
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:19 PM
1

Olk yeah Still an orbiter. Boyfriend, religion doesn't matter in attraction.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:41 PM
1

You have to give three days to a week warning like a decent person, depending on the arrangement.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:00 PM
1

Ehm. For a cause? You didn't provide specifics. Is she a tenant, what are stay arrangements, etcetera
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:19 PM
4

This is beta attention milking (my term). You are her orbiter, she is trying to extract as much attention from you as possible. It is low effort, also you can hardly ignore her, as you live together. Make her work for your attention by being nice to you. As for sex, it is a lost cause.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:52 AM
1

Nofap
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:35 PM
2

Ehm, no. They think they are right by default. And you are always in the wrong by default. Just take it as a feature of the women. Ur stupid Yep. You agreed you are stupid two weeks ago Yep. Last month I thought you are so stupid. And you are so stupid. Yep. Meanwhile you keep having sex with her.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:12 PM
9

I think OP just wants to make me cry. Very well put story. You were never going to be the Heartbreak Kid; you were always Cactus Jack. Spend years tearing your body apart to get to the big show, but only once you’ve made it do you realize that it always had to be this way. There’s no winning- only consolation; scraps cobbled together. The King of Hell.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 08:21 AM
22

Was looking for this. Ethnic men need bulletproof game, sharp style, strong physique, status, etcetera, just to level playing field with neckbeards. Guess this is life.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:32 AM
0

Be grateful you had this experience. Just imagine how many simps take girls to dinner dates, friends first, marry them, etcetera. I wish I encountered something like this when I was like 18. I would have started to change my life and approach dramatically. Unfortunately at that time I had no idea how easy women give themselves to chads. If i knew that back than, I would have been so much better off physically and financially. But I am still so grateful I know this now.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:54 AM
1

Orbiter /sexless boyfriend fishing. You are doing well by trying to close. Try waay more girls, keep grinding on your smv. Somehow it is not enough to pass the treshold for these girls, but you are getting somewhere.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:15 AM
1

This is how girls talk to guys who they are not attracted to. She was trying to extract as much attention from you as possible with minimal investment. She must be desperate as she had to resort to going so far.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 08:01 PM
1

You are in rotation with 20 other guys. She is having fun getting mass response, comparing them, checking timing, etcetera. It is very likely she batched your reply with others and forgot, because you might have even lower smv than some of her orbiters. P. S. It is peculiar, how red pill never talks about some orbiters having enormous svm..
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:17 PM
1

Well think about it this way. In the previous time the fate of most men was to die in war, from hunger, fights, etcetera. You were not guaranteed to survive and get a wife. And you also had to settle for a woman your parents would be able to secure marriage with. And that only if you were lucky to be born in a good family and your parents had resources. People had up to 10 kids for the reason, you know, not all of them were going to make it.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:16 PM
22

This is spot on. Just yesterday I had a long rant with myself filled with incel blackpill thoughts. And then it hit me: It is my testosterone, my energy, that enables me to feel angry. I am so grateful to be a man, to be able to have this energy and redirect it. I will put it to productive use, to get what I want from life. It does not matter anymore how miserable I will feel - everything will go into fire, into the forge to weld something better for my future.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 12:36 PM
5

You have few hours to fill You care about burning this plate You don't have other plates She is your girlfriend
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:05 PM
30

This. She is keeping you in rotation by short answers.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:08 PM
1

This. Fuck off as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:20 PM
38

Such a simple, yet wise observation. This is why we men need red pill in our lives.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:54 PM
1

Nono, definitely hang around while she explores like 50 guys. You will feel like a winner when she tells you you are the best of 50 and you can marry her!
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:42 PM
4

This exactly. So we have 8/10 chad that has access to sex and career options and each year his options expand more and more, just because doors open waay easier for beautiful people. And we have 5/10 guy grinding away for little money while being cucked and fucked ffrom his earnings and getting little to no sex. It is almost like society doesn't need or want talented and smart people to work.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 06:40 PM
1

How is refusing to spend you valuable time that you will NEVER get back on her and refusing to be option number 99 is a dick move? I am glad we are on the same page. I am in the same situation and was gathering my own thoughts.
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:30 PM
1

I feel like I am not good enough - you are not good enough for Me - translation from womanese. If she was attracted there would not be these kixed messages. She would pick you suggestion or reschedule and you would be sure you can meet with her. Look at actions, not words.
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:04 PM
2

Tl Dr. Try being available for ten more years, she might reconsider. It is a game. She is trying to gauge how much of your attention she can receive while giving as little as she can in return. You are definitely plan b, or even c. So she is using words that don't mean anything - words never mean anything for women so you string along. Ideally she wants you around as an orbiter showring her with your attention. But she can't say that, because you would bail in a second. Therefore she is giving y…
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:02 PM
3

I did ask you not to tell anybody
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:13 PM
1

Look up Omlalas relative smv post on sidebar. You can spend a lot of time rasing your relative standing with a girl. But a lot of time is well more spent working on your own smv. So you invest in the girl, give her your time, etcetera. But then chad can swoop in and trash all your work. It is better to become a chad yourself. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:39 PM
1

We really need to reasses Maslow's pyramid. Now that I think about it, food, security, self actualisation - depend on single person for the most part. Sex part, it should be somewhere else. Nobody owes anybody sex. Nobody owes anybody anything. But while you can hunt for food, grow muscle to become more secure, develop you craft to self-actualise, you can't force anybody to have sex with you. And you are not going to die, because you don't have sex. So including sex in the pyramid might be one o…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 02:02 PM
2

He is in two set, would not leave his friend. I would just get a number, and then message: hey, I am doing fun activity at 20.00 join me. If he flakes, I will reinitiate in a week and then ghost.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:15 PM
1

As someone with good rmv and low smv I can confirm that some girls get mad when you withdraw attention after ljfb. They lose good potential orbiter which is valuable to them. Extreme cases might involve girls trying to trash your reputation. I would suggest op reading "Art of seduction" by Robert Greene. He explains the dynamics of female game in a good detail.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:05 PM
4

I feel so hard for you. Be stoic about it. Your chsnces of great physicue are limited. But your chances to make money, master your craft, socialise are not. You can still work on status, which will increase your smv. Find other roads, keep moving. It might be blessing in disguise.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:48 PM
15

Just do it. You might not get laid, but you will learn a tonne about social dynamics. Your willingness to go solo instantly separates you from the losers. For me it was a huge learning experience. This sub is full of guides on going out solo and getting laid. First times were scary for me. But since then I met a lot of cool people, learned a lot about women and men, had a lot of fun and have really cool and funny stories. Needless to say my confidence and my social life and even my work life rec…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 06:44 PM
1

Wow, thanks, it is not just me. I also get a lot of: I need to be in the relationship first. I beleive it is due to low smv. Girls who had sex with me didn't dare bringing up the subject of relationship. So grind grind grind grind...
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:09 PM
12

No shit, Sherlock
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:46 PM
9

Good for you
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:15 AM
1

It is like looking in the mirror. I just can't agree with something I am not interested in. And my interests are too specialised.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:45 AM
1

I think for her it was well worth the effort. We all know usually in this case she would get shit storm of messages even from a good looking guys, which is more than enough to get validation, which is like sex for women.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:35 PM
3

Oke, yeah, now I am more sure about my point about bunch of chads and line of orbiters. You might not even cut in this case as best looking orbiter.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:23 PM
3

As others replied, turning you into orbiter. I feel like it is part of girl game: fuck chad and then there is a line of orbiters, each more or less maintenance. So in this case she has bf+chad+ may be another chad, plus orbiters who she texts more often. And theen you as option 99, may be. What do you think?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:22 PM
3

I beleive tribe thing is more about your own value. So you become high value by mastering sports, hobbies, whatever. Then people want you around and band with you.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:02 PM
6

Yep
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:03 PM
9

I think that is it. If she was attracted, she won't have mentioned gentleman and the rest of the bullshit. This is girls go to line for betas, along with you are being rude, I don't go to strange men's houses (of course you do) and the rest. It is not a shit test. Fitness test for money, perhaps..
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:01 PM
5

Hey, I gotta run. Lets meet later for coffee. Give me your number. Yes/no, buye buye, nice talking to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:19 PM
1

Yes. And now you might never see her again.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:05 PM
1

I can shorten it to chiseled face helped me more than anything
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:50 AM
6

If it is so dear to op he should know, that gfs opinion is worthless on that matter and can be disregarded as childs talk. His mistake was taking her seriously.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:47 AM
10

Fuck I get you. Every single girl seeing me: mm, nice beta. Oh shit, he is not playing beta along. Bad beta. And then she fucks off. But yeah, no point in playing along, we all know this does not lead to pussy.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:26 AM
1

Good job. She tried to use your resources. And frame that way next interactions. While sucking chads dick for free.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:36 PM
0

Ебошишь этих жирух, пока не похудеют. И все. 🤣
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:10 AM
0

I love your point about shit test. I too beleive online now is way better than before. Just pull girls straight home or for a walk and then home. It is almost like lockdown gives guys some kind of smv boost.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:04 AM
1

You did ok. She was pushing to see if she can keep you in the orbit. Happened to me several times. All you can do is escalate till hard "no". Which you got, good job.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:38 AM
5

Because op is her second option. Thats what she will remember, no matter how stupid it is. I had girl flake on her RELATIVES to have sex with me. She literally had nephew visiting from other town and she cancelled on that. If she is interested, she won't delay, also remember Iron rule of Tomassi - no sex is woth waiting for. SECOND OPTION. btw I do know how stupid it sounds. But this is stupid life we are forced to live in. People always have shit to do. Other commenters are right about having 3…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:43 PM
5

What is the median here?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:17 AM
6

Getting fired, losing your lifeblood and getting fired mark on your resume? It is expensive to be right.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:49 PM
14

I think OP has the point. Would like to know the answers as well.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:20 PM
1

You did see he said flake test? Flake test is to ensure the girl is down to meet without appearing needy. You almost have to do this, some girls start moving out to the date place only after getting this message
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:07 PM
1

My take is, that taken means she is a part of chad's harem. So she refers to him, when she says IHAB. Obviously he does not think so. This way majority of atrractive women will be "taken".
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 05:43 AM
1

I had nobody giving me this when I was growing up. Here on trp we have each other. And it rocks.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:33 PM
4

This. Incorporate talking to women in your daily life. It looks more natural and saves tonnes of time.
/r/seduction09/07/20 02:09 PM
2

This. Op, they don't respect you because you are low status. Increase your status and people will find exusex for your behavior. I wish someone told me this in childhood, instead of teaching me manners (
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:00 PM
1

That makes me angry enough to workout
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 01:24 PM
2

I can't even comprehend how twisted it is
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 01:31 PM
7

Ok, you know what, I need to know why so many people here call sex ego validation. When I have a boner I could care less whether I could brag about a girl I had sex with. I only want to get my dick wet and get pleasure. How is any of the ego involved in it? I am totally fine laying girls in complete secret without anyone finding out about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 01:22 PM
1

Currently working on becoming the most validating guy in the world. Sound way better than: cold approaching 100 chicks to get my dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 06:50 PM
1

It is interestung how you mention someone to share with. Did anyone here consider, that some guys coming to red pill might be people, who are rejected by society on daily basis? Despite all their honest efforts. For years. And years. And years. Not getting even meaningful friendships in return, I am not even talking about dating. The drilling question on my mind is "what is wrong with me and society?". "How do I fit in and do I need to?". And it is ultimately my problem to fit in. And nobody giv…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 09:09 AM
10

My take is that when you are in LTR, you lose like 1-2 smv points to "your girl". So you are 10, she is 10. But to her you are 8 now. So she sees another 10, or even 9, or 8, who tries really hard. And branch swings. And im marriage it is like 3-4 points gone from your smv to her. Yes, no? It it is not true, how come I have to reject so many married women? And how come it is so hard to game single girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 05:59 PM
2

Op is clearly toxic. But he is on to something. For many guys out here it will take years to become somewhat fuckable by women. They need advice how to sell now, before blowing their brains out. Lets say you are in coke dominated market as a starting specialist who still has school debt. You can barely afford rent and you know you will be starving if you won't convince buyers your cuke is as good as coke. And you can't work for coca cola, as they demand five years of sales experience and you are…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 08:21 PM
18

Good and solid advice
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:18 AM
24

Also, she might be married and cheat on her husband with std ridden alpha. How the fuck i did not consider thst before my thirties, I have no idea. And I call myself a smart guy(
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 12:30 PM
4

When I am in doubt now, I say to myself - I am going to approqch this girl and get rejected hard. And have fun in the process. So her number comes as a nice surprise.
/r/seduction23/06/20 08:49 AM
1

Put a ring on it, this girl is real marriage material
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:13 AM
8

I beleive it is better to be jacked loser (with women) with well paying job, than just a loser. Also, I dreamed about being jacked even before I found red pill. Thst "self improvement is mastrubation" line from Fight Club really fucked me up. Only now I understand it was said by fucking jacked Brad Pitt. So he was lying. How stupid I was...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 09:56 AM
3

Fuck!
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:19 AM
14

I love your female wolf analogy. I might be looking for that in a woman.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:38 AM
3

When you are husband you automatically lose smv points to your wife. And gain preselectionx which boosts your smv to other women.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 08:34 AM
1

Just remember, while you are sliding in her dms there are abiut hundred million guys hitting on the same girl in her dm, while you are timid. All of them are taller, richer, stronger, smarter, better looking, with better life than you. You have to know what sets u apart.
/r/seduction19/06/20 07:33 PM
1

If she likes you, conversation will go forward. So i say - nice meal - if she cooked something. She says thank you, thats my favourite. I ask why do you like it? She answers, something. I share my cooking experience. Integrate some jokes. If she invests by asking some questions, i match - rule of 2/3. Then I leave the interaction. Next time story pops up, I reengage and ask for digits. At any time girl can go silent, if thst happens, she does not like you. If she does no invest - she does not li…
/r/seduction19/06/20 07:31 PM
1

If she does no respond, or takes days, I block stories.
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:34 PM
1

I just comment, so say girl puts out her picture with the cat, I say nice cat. If she responds, i keep conversation going and ask for digits in a few messages. Then proceed to setup the date.
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:33 PM
1

Date and kissing. I am still working on my insta page,
/r/seduction19/06/20 04:56 PM
3

Yes. I usually comment on stories. It works like 1 out of 10 times for me, but I do have fun sending some funny messages.
/r/seduction19/06/20 11:35 AM
2

I agree, OP has to speak up. Even just for his sanity.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:25 PM
2

You will find people here to give you some tough love, I promise. Heck, even I might stick around at that time, may be becoming EC.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:49 PM
1

So she sees him in her dreams and you trust she won't even go back. And after your probing (I already know you probed her about that) she says she sees you in her dreams. And you are sure about her commitment, because you unlocked her inner slut.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:25 PM
1

I would escalate by ladder until hard shutdowns, freeze out, finish the date by thanking for the evening, setup date two at my home. They either comply on day one, or day two. Or i finish the interaction and hit up other prospects.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:20 PM
2

I am so grateful that redpill community pointed me to Robert Greene's art of seduction. It does not have guides on getting laid, but he is really good at explaining women's game. Basically they win if they get your commitment before sex. It is mentioned in other places, but Greene really goes into explaining the whole dynamic of women seduction game. He gives examole of Paris courtesain who was able to get the whole crowd of high value orbiters in modern term, by promising sex in undefined terms…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:19 PM
2

I love the part where you ask how did she learn to give good blowjobs. This is your gut talking. Also the part about her dating one guy and giving blowjobs to another guy got my attention. Her ex is out of the picture for now, but you plan to commit for life, what do you think will happen if they meet say in 10 20 years?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:13 PM
5

Yeah, agreeing to hanging out without sex, is handing your balls to a girl. I would rather spend that time working out, working on my projects, cleaning the house, sleeping, reading...
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:15 PM
1

The whole post implies passive approach to dating. You will get nowhere waiting for women to like you, unless you are st least 8.
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:07 AM
1

"so I used it as a way to practice my conversation with a girl one on one rather than just consider it a waste of time" Beautiful attitude. Even if date does not go well, I use this time to improve myself.
/r/seduction17/06/20 07:40 AM
2

Good point about worth. If I am worthless in helping people self-improve, providing moral and physical support, networking, problem solving, I am worthless as a person. People come for me for advice, for my perspective, to share activities. Banter and other fun stuff is secondary, I can do that with anybody. You are right, peope should be direct about their intentions. If they proceed agreeing to be your friend, they should stick to this position. Or they should end the communication, if you rej…
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:15 AM
-1

Please dont get me wrong, but what benefits do they get from friendship with you, that they could not get from other people?
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:51 AM
-2

Five year goal: becoming fuck all of you man. Ten year goal: becoming epic.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 05:21 PM
5

Horrible advice. They almost never call back and almost never initiate. It is a mans job to approach.
/r/seduction13/06/20 02:50 PM
1

Girl 3 is the backup, in case 1 and 2 flake entirely
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:57 PM
1

I had to write somewhere, so here is my take. I tried to setup a home date at my place (girl 1, handjob on the bench, last week) but did not receive confirmation from her. Also I stupidly made two phone calls, and of course she did not answer. Now I have unconfirmed date for tomorrow at 8 pm, confirmed at 7 pm (girl 2, number close, some kino) and confirmed at 9 pm (girl 3, number close). I will push 7 pm for kiss and home close, if she rejects, I will end the date by 8.30 to meet girl 3. I am l…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:57 PM
3

Now I feel ass raped, reading about all these moneys going to waste.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 06:47 PM
1

Blocking means op is so low in smv, he does not even qualify as an orbiter. I have been there.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:17 PM
1

I like your yes or no question. You can move on safely knowing she is not interested. Don't settle for anything vague with girls. I actually feel better when rejefted, as thw "fog of war" is gone and I can move on and talk to another girl without doubting whether I had this prospect.
/r/seduction10/06/20 08:17 PM
2

They might be younger, but they might have invested more time than you in their training. Just do your thing.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:47 PM
15

Real wife material
/r/seduction09/06/20 01:40 PM
1

Me too. Does it make me an askhole?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 07:59 PM
0

Op you already think about her exams. Do you really care how she does at school? Try to answer this honestly. She obviously wants your investment without giving anything in return. As others said, set exact date on your terms. I once had a woman, who cancelled visit from her younger brother who came to our city to stay with her overnight, because she was with me that night. Woman has to make arrangements for you. This is stupid, I know, but that is how it works...
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:56 PM
0

Yep, that is an open ticket for you to destroy her.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 05:34 PM
1

Also these "simps" profiles usually have about 10 thousand or more followers and way better pics than yours.
/r/seduction06/06/20 07:32 AM
9

Shukran
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:01 PM
18

I wanna get in on this. So before drinking and smoking people already get their dopamine hit. So lets say its friday morning and they pepare for evening party. Already at work they will be thinking on which booze to buy, which girls to invite, logistics and already getting pleasure. And then they will talk about party for the next week. As for myself when I take smoke break I already feel the pleasure of nicotine before getting to smoking area. And then i get my hit. So how do we remove it? I am…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:21 PM
21

Op she is already thinking about going to your house. I also enjoyed your detemination on refulelling a lighter, had a few chuckles about that.
/r/seduction05/06/20 04:31 PM
1

This is a reverse dynamics. If you look good they will be flirting with you or giving you ioi's.
/r/seduction05/06/20 04:30 PM
2

So did you fuck her? I need a culmination of the story.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 05:07 PM
1

Love that post about virtue. However we get numbers from insta to prevent flaking. Also messaging on insta is shit. How do you expect to setup logistics through insta?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 04:57 PM
2

Thank you! I was thinking the same thing and that is why I am not stopping.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 06:05 AM
41

You have onetis, go lift/loot other women
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 07:46 PM
10

Don't throw your good heart after bad love. Ass raped by cupid. Да вы поэт, дядь Вася.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:12 AM
2

So I want sex with an attractive women. I approach 100 in span two weeks. I get rejected, each time adjust my game. So i kill my want with nofap hard mode. Then I get a few lays. Then nofap again. Love your post.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 05:48 PM
9

No
/r/seduction30/05/20 10:23 AM
9

No, you hate me No. No you do. Nooo. Yes you hate me hate me. It can be soo fun to do this to girls.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:42 AM
2

Well fuck me, most of aidebar says something like don't text her, end. "She's fucked up and she will manipulate you to take her back when she's quickly likely failed to secure her monkey branch". This is more coherent explanation why we should not do something.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:04 AM
1

This is awesome love story. Спижжю наверное. But in my version girl and guy will get together.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 06:18 PM
17

Contempt with the relationship. I know it is a typo, but you may be on to something.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 05:44 PM
2

You were. But you know what? It is good that you have thia self awareness. Someone told me not to care whar people think. But they did not elaborate, that you should be AWARE what people think about you, otherwise you will become a blind pawn in someone's hands.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 06:33 PM
2

"Greater beta" is another one that always makes me laugh, as it reminds me of greater ape.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 06:26 PM
5

Rise of the planet of the betas
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 06:25 PM
13

I am so grateful for you for finding red pill at such young age. I wish I found it when I hit puberty, would have saved my life. I also love "my inner beta started to arise line", it made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 06:23 PM
4

It feels soo good to be rejected for me now. Because anxiety due to uncertainty goes away. And when girl accepts, it becomes an upside.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:05 AM
7

This is gold. I am so glad to have you guys! I also might give Star Trek original another chance.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 07:20 PM
3

(I doubt I’m gonna be able to get girls when I’m old). It is hard now and then the declining health does not help. But the current situation tells that if you could not get girls at 35+, guess what: you wife would not also want to be with you sexually. But in that case you wont be able to just walk.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 06:47 AM
-2

Come over to nofap subreddit. You clearly need it.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:40 PM
1

Yep. Thank you red pill for I knew this due to red pill! If girls mention social distancing to me now I know they are not into me. I pull one more time with ur funny, or ur coward and leave the interaction if they don't budge.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 07:29 PM
2

I am starting to think new partners for women in relasionships get smv bump and current one gets smv hit. As in familiarity breeds contempt. So the guy she cheats with can be equal or lower smv even. What do you guys think?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 07:17 PM
4

Hyperactive mind line is golden. I feel I have the same problem, it is very hard for me to tune out. Meditation helps, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 06:15 PM
1

18-30. May be 35 40, but that is stretching the limit Nothing illegal. You want 40 and up, suit yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 08:05 PM
1

Try looking at young girls numbers. Men outnumber young women totally.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:23 PM
1

Also sometimes some adult people can be plain stupid and do plain stupid things for only to them known reasons.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:19 PM
1

If you have a gut feeling, then something is definitely not right. As others pointed already, firstly you have to do self reflection about your actions, judge yourself as harshly as possible, look up tiniest details of your communication. Secondly, you need to evaluate the reasons of each persons behavior. It ia totally unacceptbale to phase out from work and ignore your bosses commands, people should be grateful for opportunity to have work at this quarantine times. But everyone needs to adjust…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:18 PM
7

You are here with like minded people. The people who actually want you to succeed. People who welcome your questions. Who had your problems before.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:16 PM
2

This one sounds about right. As a low smv guy you might be a threat to her, as people will see you not validating her behavior and following suit. And you are still low smv and not bangable (sorry for harshness), so she has nothing to gain, only trying to remove threat. Hold tight brother! And improve smv! It is a fucking grind, to improve, it takes ages (low smv guy here), whilde chads just show up and get pussy. But, whatcha gonna do.. Keep grinding, scrape, scrape, scrape.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:30 PM
0

Humblebrag post
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:54 PM
1

Wtf man, I practice every day to make my high pitch voice lower and you complain😐😐😐 Learn to appreciate what nature gave you.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:54 PM
0

Fuck yes
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:58 PM
1

Also, this has no reason to go to your boss. Murray is not your supervisor, from what I see and he has no business evaluating your performance.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:46 PM
-1

Actually I wrote too rashly about Murray. Most likely they both were testing you for professionalism. And you failed: not doing your job, confronting superior worker, messing with the deals which are not connected to your work related functionalities. I already see this three just from the glance.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:43 PM
3

So wait This piece of shit Myrray did not vouch for you in front of Ash? You got played. If this goes to the boss, what he sees is you not doing your job. You helping Murray is not what your company pays you for. You just got taught a valuable lesson. Next time Murray, who set you up, asks you for something, just tell him you have your own job to do.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:41 PM
1

Mastery Robert Greene. This is the book you need. He basically advices to change mentors as they lose their utility. But there is more to it.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:42 PM
1

Dis some good sheat!
/r/askTRP17/10/19 06:36 PM
2

Like game simulation, love it.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:03 PM
38

Big data!
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:18 PM
3

Spot on observation. Not only women want to hang out with people of higher smv. Everybody wants value. As for your question, yes, yoi would start shit testing people. It is not only for women.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:45 PM
3

I thought it was 11, 75 percent loss.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:36 AM
1

But he is not the king of cucks, at least he has that go8ng for him.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:17 AM
1

Girl: "But you look like a highschool freshman". Me: "I thought you were paedophile". Thoughts?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:17 PM
1

I really need a good response for how old are you. I am 30, look like 23, so far I was going with 79, 49, 15, 30, 23, I live in the fridge. How about "Maybe you are too old for me?".
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:01 PM
3

So when and where can I fondle vagene?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:55 AM
1

wasted my 20ties not getting enough pussy so I'm envious too. Reading this was like my balls hit me in the balls..
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:54 AM
1

Big props to OP for rejecting LJBF. Be strong, brother.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:46 PM
1

Honestly, wtf? This same shit happens to me too. I dont get it. Girl rejects me, then she hooks up with a chad and wants me to know about it and get jealous. So much effort over the orbiter. As you guys said, they should be getting orbiters like nothing, without any effort. Wtf, to what extent they are ready to pull the orbiters and put actual effort into getting attention. It is almost like a nice guy trying to get sex, as was mentioned here. But I still dont get it. Why not put as much effort …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:46 PM
1

Do you have acknowledgement? Yes - small claims court. No - forget about your money and the person. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:53 AM
1

Nose one is good, I am stealing.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:57 AM
-3

And this kind of behavior from woman made me swallow the red pill.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:24 PM
0

Ok. Perhaps I need to elaborate on it. I hate people who hurt themselves for attantion. This is degrading. This is manipulative and dangerous. This behavior exploits decent people and utterly destroys any sense for compassion. This is crying a wolf. And your LTR chooses herself to support this activity. And I know how tough it is not to be able to feel for other person. But this is utterly manipulative.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:24 PM
-4

Law 10: Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky. You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:36 PM
-9

Demote to plate, avoid bitch attentionw whore sister.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:26 PM
2

Can you elaborate on goging alone? I have my favorite burger place I go alone to just for burgers. But not much else.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:59 PM
7

I have been in this same situation countless times due to low smv. Firstly. Dont shit where you eat. Now. The chad will show up. He will fuck a girl. The girl will find the way to inform you about him fucking her. She will also inform him about your attempts with her. Google shit eating grin, btw I could not find a good technique, so I have been trying to improvise last few days. Embrace your jealousy and anger. Roll with the punches. Use it as a fuel for self-improvement. This is all I have for…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:39 PM
1

and sometimes I’m excited when a date flakes because I can catch up in other things at home. It took me like 18 years to get to this mindset. Nofap and meditation, i presume?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:55 AM
3

Yes they break shins. This will make you taller. But it will also make you weaker, lots of other risks.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:25 AM
6

I would answer with videogame analogy. So you are now young, level one for example (smv 5). You want to invest some time to become level 4-5 (smv 7-8). Because then it will be better points more damage, more armor, etc. It will also take years of boring work. For instance you are 25-30 and smv 8, 8,5 or even more. Or you can try to stay at level one and "enjoy" your 20-30s. So you are like 40 and smv 5. Or you do all the hard work, car hits you and you are smv 2-3 (disabled) at your 40-s. Think …
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:12 PM
1

Because I cant really think of her reason to do this and brag about it. Because she tried to raise her value using my name and by lowering my social standing. Why should not that make me mad? It made me mad as hell.
/r/seduction01/10/19 05:09 AM
1

Girl teject3d my date invitation. A few month later my chad friend approaches her. They talk and find out that chad is my friend. She brags to him about rejecting me. For some reason I am now mad at the girl for blabbing her mouth. Should I be mad at her? Why did she do that?
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:25 AM
3

Sidebar
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:22 AM
1

Schroedingers boyfriend. They all do this shit. They all are not loyal. Who told you this is a boyfriend and not jost some kind of orbiter or her brother?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:29 AM
11

Hate to think that. But you might be setup for false rape accusation. Block, deny, ignore, lawyer up. Because she might want to save her decent girl image and she definitely does not want to look like a whore. If I were you, I would just reframe what has happened as no biggie to the girl. I would tell her she is special and say i just was very emotional at the moment and liked you too much. She should drop after that like a wet blanket.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:14 PM
1

That is also wheh they call you an asshole 😜
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:43 PM
2

Read up on solo night game, sigmas and go! And have fun! Also, install shazaam.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:15 PM
2

Great take on soft next, I like it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:10 PM
4

Imagine yourself walking away from her. This is how I prevent me from forgetting things at home. So before I leave home I imagine walking to work. And think what I would do there. And then; "A, ha. I forgot to pack lunch, usb drive, smth else". Same for you.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:01 PM
3

What your crush did is called cockblocking, not LMR. She wanted to keep you as an orbiter and took proactive measures. I would have proceeded to kino crush girl, which either would make her attracted or leave the interaction. Two good outcomes.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:36 PM
2

Dunno, but you have to say nohomo, otherwise it is gay.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:18 PM
9

You did right not responding. It was NOT a banter from what I see. If it was a friendly banter, he would not have started talking about punches. Next time he starts this bullshit I suggest responding anyway. Because he looks like a guy who is trying to make you his bitch for dominance and reputation before girls. So he makes you his bitch and this increases his chances with girls. He can then go on bragging about how he dominates you, which will make girls wet, supposedly - btw the whole school,…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:25 PM
1

Old thread. But it helped me. So I will try to help. Smth like "Wow thank you for noticing, I am doing my best".
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:02 PM
6

Try reframing - videogames are so engaging, it almost beats interaction with real BORING people. Also you should have engaged girl 2. Simple: Girl 2, I love the way you know so much abouy my life. It is flattering. Hope your boyfriend is not jealous. Downside - It might make girl 2 attracted , which is great for you for preselection.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:27 PM
1

https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/728/how_to_talk_to_everyone_you_see this
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:49 PM
1

Bro, I saw really cool video about this same exact situation. Link was posted somewhere in this community, cant find it now. Basically the guy - pickup coach, tells about him and his date, whom he met in the hostel, and amog - huge blue eyed norwegian guy. They were chatting in the group in the hostel and this guy came through the window. All the girls and even pickup coaches date started looking at him And norwegian guy started telling interesting stories, laughung, makung jokes, looking at pic…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:55 PM
3

This. And about awkwardness. You made the right choice turning down work. But your answer is not the best. As an employer I would think that you are more interested in life otside company. And employer is a jealous bitch. So yes, you dont turn down work, you ask for more money. Think about the number of money you would do the extra work for and tell them. If they ask why, try answering with: "I am sorry, I am already trying ti do the best quality work at my usual work time. This extra work would…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:15 PM
2

Try looking up amog - alpha male of the group. For now I would recommend cutting all the communication to basic Hi and Buye. Until he treats you with respect. Then you would be able to set the terms of communication. I honestly wish you guys got along, even with a bully older brother you are better off at 17 then I ever was, because he inadvertently gave you a masculine example. Also you go to karate classes together, so you do have a lot in common, which is great. Also he is your brother and yo…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:03 PM
3

I would vouch for avoiding him until you can physically dominate him. Make it your goal to be not intimidated by anyone. Also deescalate and withdraw attention. I know it is hard, but you can with practice disengage with person even in the same room.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:37 PM
1

So I meet a girl. Become attracted. Then i think to myself - I had a great sex woth her last night and imagine the kind of sex we had. This is delusional. But it really helps to become outcome independent. It does not matter if she rejects me, we had sex (in my mind) anyway.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:29 AM
2

Previouse answers are pretty much bullshit. I totally get you man. Could not get laid as well, despite like 30 approaches a week. Try searching sexual transmutation, meditation, cold showers and nofap. Hope it helps. I am still in monk mode. Was actually browsing sub for similar answers. Basically what I can tell you, is starting with nofap, trying to meditate when you have urges (still fail at this), perceiving every women I encounter as already laid by me (helps a lot). Also try to visualise t…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:11 AM
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