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I love annoying girls and making them uncomfortable. It's self amusing and if you are congruent with that, then it is actually comfort building in itself. If it's just a plain conversation where it's evident that she would rather be somewhere else, its not going anywhere and looking at her phone and shit then leave.
/r/seduction25/05/16 07:18 AM
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Yes you fucked up but the pain of this one will make sure you don't make that mistake again.
/r/seduction25/05/16 07:03 AM
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Despite the fuck ups man I think you did everything else correctly. Yeah I would tone it down on the compliments in the future. I rarely compliment past the initial "you look good" when I meet her. But it seems she really is conservative like you say. Although I would not assume this about every girl because she could just be shy. So I would actually try and hit her up again since she showed enough interest so text her in a couple of weeks and try again.
/r/seduction25/05/16 07:00 AM
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Own whatever personality quirks you have man. Take your weirdness and multiple it by 100 and express it in front of people. In my opinion this is what charisma is. You have it too it's just your hiding it.
/r/seduction23/05/16 11:45 AM
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She is still interested man. I think you mentioned before you deleted the post that you had made out with her on each of the dates. You should definitely escalate beyond the makeout on the next date. Otherwise she is going to get bored. I use to just assume as soon as girls would stop responding mid convo that they were no longer interested and that I must've said the wrong thing. I'd run into these same girls weeks or months later and would be all over me. I always check in with girls now when …
/r/seduction23/05/16 11:38 AM
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Don't move on yet man. I've wasted too many opportunities with girls in the past because I was scared of giving up the frame or didn't want to look needy etc. It's been a week, just hit her up again.
/r/seduction23/05/16 05:18 AM
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I think a difference between the "beta" and "alpha" guy is their emotions to begin with. The beta is in a shit mood when he approaches girls whereas the alpha guy is in a good mood. So the alpha guy doesn't need to suppress anything. I think at the beginning there will be an element of faking it. You will be in a shit mood and you will need to pretend to be in an awesome mood. Eventually with practice and time you will feel good regardless of the circumstances and it will be like second nature. …
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:57 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:39 PM
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Yeah this OP, keep it real simple. I would personally say the statement "you should come" instead of the question.
/r/seduction21/05/16 04:34 AM
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If you want her to open up, open up about yourself first. She will follow your lead
/r/seduction20/05/16 02:21 PM
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"Not important" and change topic.
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:45 PM
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6-7 times since December is not much. You aren't going out enough to gain social momentum. It's like everytime you go out you have to reset instead just building on the previous night. Go out more before considering a decision.
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:38 PM
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"Tonight? Only about 20 times". A soft rule is agree and amplify. Then just continue with the conversation. Most of it is body language and maintaining your composure. If you get defensive then you've already lost it. You can just say "Yeah" if your body language is solid.
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:57 AM
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Yes its okay man. You can directly ask her "do you have a boyfriend?" or go for the number and then she may say she has a boyfriend. Don't get hung up on it though, whatever her response, just change topics and continue the conversation. The banter I like a lot too. I would've joked about how much she must've paid the guy to get a marriage visa. Also if the conversation is flirty you can say stuff like "your boyfriend doesn't spank you hard enough!" when she says something stupid.
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:34 AM
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I know it gets beaten to death around here but meditation is your friend man.
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:39 AM
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Girls are awesome wings.
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:38 AM
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If she doesn't respond to an initial text, I always wait a week or two and try again. Certainly don't give up now because she has already shown a level of interest. I don't think she is playing hard to get. She probably just wasn't in the right mood. What did you text her?
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:33 AM
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I use to use pickup lines, Simple Pickup style. It was the only way at the start that I knew how to get into a fun self amusing mood. After 3 or 4 of them, me and my mate would just start coming up with stupid lines like "if you were a carrot, you'd be a good carrot" and girls would laugh at the sheer stupidity. Numbers were obtained. Good times were had.
/r/seduction17/05/16 02:19 PM
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Treat everyone equally. You all moan about equality then you start kissing a hot girl’s ass whilst leaving the less attractive one in the corner. You're a good dude to say this man. I can just feel the good vibes emanating from the text. I'm always working on letting go of judgement, it's hard but meditation certainly helps.
/r/seduction17/05/16 10:52 AM
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Does your friend have a website?
/r/seduction17/05/16 07:06 AM
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"Slow down woman, you text too fast"
/r/seduction17/05/16 02:57 AM
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I wouldn't move on, it's too early. She is still interested, she just wasn't in the mood when she saw your text. Their emotions fluctuate so much so it's all about catching them at the right time. Text her in a week saying something like "Hey, lets grab ice-cream on Thursday night" If she doesn't respond, then I would move on.
/r/seduction17/05/16 02:39 AM
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Being emotional is not a bad thing. There's just a time and a place i.e. not a club or bar when girls just wanna have fun not be serious and shit.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:03 PM
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If you don't think of much of your field, she won't either. "I'm studying Psychiatry, fuck yeah! it's so awesome" OR "I'm just studying Pyschiatry, no big deal, it's not the best field but I guess I kinda like it" I bet your saying a variation of the second one which just conveys insecurity man.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:00 PM
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RSD
/r/seduction16/05/16 12:50 PM
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I think your expectations have risen too high since the F close man. The highs and lows are to be expected. You're too outcome oriented. You just did a whole bunch of approaches and your feeling bad? So anything less than a F close you are going to be disappointed? Bro, that's a recipe for disaster. The little victories are just as important as the big ones. They build a strong foundation so when you do have bad nights, you can still be feeling good and not get down on yourself. And certainly sw…
/r/seduction16/05/16 03:25 AM
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Inside jokes are good to bring up
/r/seduction15/05/16 01:25 PM
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Kudos for pushing through all the rejection man. It's good that you are experimenting with stuff like the hand of god. Try recording yourself on video or even just audio. With things like the hand of god, your body language and vocal tonality need to be very strong. You may feel bad today but your still better positioned than before you went out because of all that in-field experience that you can now try and breakdown and reflect on. Will help immensely the next time you go out.
/r/seduction15/05/16 12:26 PM
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Have some canned material to start off with. The better you get, the less you will use them but you have to start somewhere. And you will have very cringeworthy and awkward interaction but you need to have them to learn from them. There is literally no way around that. A humiliating and embarrassing conversation is better than having no conversations. Remember you will never see that person ever again so who gives a shit what came out of your mouth. At the very least, your awkwardness was an amu…
/r/seduction15/05/16 11:38 AM
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Even if an attractive woman were to catch your eye you wont be good anyway man. You can't just magically get good with girls when you've been sitting home all day furiously jerking off to porn for 10 years. You're not the exception. It's not going to be different for you. Everyone always thinks their their exception to the rule. The rule is you approach every girl. Gain experience and when that attractive one does come along you can actually do well. You don't need to spend money to get in shape…
/r/seduction15/05/16 11:27 AM
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Practice makes perfect. Your first bunch of conversations are going to suck so much shit that it's going to make you cringe everytime you think about it. But it's the only way forward. Don't go in with a conversation in mind. You will actually surprise yourself how much shit you can actually come up with on the fly. Try it or else you will never know.
/r/seduction12/05/16 08:55 AM
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I know what you mean man. Its been the story of my life. With girls, I always make it fun by saying something like "if I see you again and I haven't done the thing that I say I'm going to, I give you permission to punch me in the balls" all with a smile of course. With people in general, when you see someone that you know again don't avoid them. You're probably going to think 'oh shit what if they ask me if I started that thing, fuck fuck fuck, avoid at all cost!' Don't do that lol just talk to …
/r/seduction12/05/16 08:26 AM
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Just be honest man. If your life isn't where you expected it to be, share that in a positive way. Tell them that you had plans to do this and that but you kinda got lost and just never got around to it but now your making amends. People respect honesty and more often than not they will reveal that their life is not as perfect either. If someone is legitimately in a successful place, acknowledge it. Don't be bitter. Tell them straight up, yo that's inspiring what your doing and ask them how they …
/r/seduction12/05/16 06:49 AM
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If you let nature take its course, you'll never ask a girl out. Nature got better shit to do.
/r/seduction12/05/16 06:29 AM
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If the date is going awesome and you anticipate a second, "I'll take care of it this time, you can take it next time. That sounds fair right?" Girls are more reasonable than you think. Girls are awesome. I think maybe it's awesome being a guy...
/r/seduction12/05/16 12:37 AM
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The girls aren't the problem, you are. Many of us can atleast kind of relate and let me tell you man, you will only drive people away with that kind of hate. Meditation 10 minutes a day + approach more because you are overly invested in one.
/r/seduction11/05/16 10:27 AM
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If your watching porn, then I'd stop that. Made a big difference for me when it came to interacting with girls.
/r/seduction11/05/16 09:18 AM
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You can begin the date on the rooftop (do it when you're arranging a place to meet) or begin somewhere else, tell her that she just has to see the rooftop view(play up how awesome it is) and lead her there.
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:43 AM
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Sounds like you just suck with women. All three of your points are skills you just haven't learnt yet. Keep approaching and know that it's hard for all guys. You aren't some unique case.
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:36 AM
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Love holding hands combined with some roleplay.
/r/seduction10/05/16 01:15 AM
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Well if your hitting the clubs, there's almost always a professional photographer there. Open some girls and at some point get a photo taken with them. Then find the photo on FB.
/r/seduction09/05/16 01:54 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6_z2gEJCeg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zik_bqUkz6k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inoRL-u9U7k really good ones of Craig Ferguson that I think you would like
/r/seduction09/05/16 01:03 PM
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I watch a lot of talk show interviews, there's a lot to learn from them especially the ones where the host and the celebrity have great chemistry - it almost always involves banter. Conan is very good and I think Craig Ferguson is especially good with his female guests.
/r/seduction09/05/16 12:13 PM
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I'm going to try this out this weekend
/r/seduction09/05/16 06:33 AM
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Yes its worth approaching. It's always worth approaching. Even if nothing occurs from it, you gain valuable in-field experience. Send her a text soon after meeting her so she remembers you. Some of the best girls I've known have been 2 minute number closes. Game is funny like that.
/r/seduction09/05/16 04:00 AM
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It's the best feeling in the world
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:58 AM
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I don't think you should change too much right now tbh. Now if you were using canned material and didn't show your personality at any stage then that would be a problem. You're not doing anything wrong by using canned stuff, we all use them to a degree. Just keep showing your personality, keep it fun and eventually you will become naturally less reliant on it.
/r/seduction08/05/16 02:02 PM
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Good stuff Saul.
/r/seduction08/05/16 11:51 AM
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Keep going. You say you have good days and bad days - thats all part of the journey man. At least you've been lucky enough to go on the journey because most people will never get that opportunity (they have kids, demanding job, committed relationship). If you got rejected by 1000 girls but girl number 1001 is the absolute perfect one for you, wouldn't you say the journey and rejection was worth it? Keep on keepin' on.
/r/seduction08/05/16 07:57 AM
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Yes you should approach. It's the only way to get over your social anxiety which is the core of your problem. You have no accomplishments because your SA holds you back. You don't date, because your SA holds you back. Stop letting SA control your life. Checkout at this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iGk87bug2s - it will do a better job at reasoning why approaching is the only way out of this. Read the comments in the video man, you aren't as alone/unique as you think. RSDTyler claims to …
/r/seduction08/05/16 07:37 AM
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This is gold. Bookmarked!
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:27 AM
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Yeah man a lot of us would have experienced something similar, you just need a break. But also, when I get cynical like that its because I'm unhappy in another area of my life, usually my career. Then once I fix that thing my cynicism just disappears. I also felt this way when I realised I had no hobbies outside of cold approach pickup. Got myself a couple new hobbies and then naturally I was attracted to going out again. Game is at the core of who I am now so I always find myself coming back to…
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:01 AM
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Numbers. Most people use Whatsapp so you can see still see their face. I hate knowing even the slightest thing about girls before going on a date because it ruins the excitement for me. And if I already know so much about the person before the date I get WAY ahead of myself and start romanticising the shit out of everything. Not good.
/r/seduction08/05/16 04:47 AM
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Own that creepy smile! If you can't change something, exaggerate the fuck out of it. Take a pic of that creepy smile and go ask girls how you can make yourself look less attractive because you're sick of getting hit on all the time!
/r/seduction08/05/16 04:27 AM
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Watch rap videos with funny dancing and emulate that on the dance floor. My fav right now is the dab. Obviously you're not going to dab to impress the ladies but it will be amusing to you because it's just so silly. When you're having fun, opening will be a lot easier.
/r/seduction08/05/16 03:53 AM
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