allusivecat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
90	Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tactics		allusivecat	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 01:19 AM

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1	Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tactics Absolutely agree!	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 03:00 AM
15	Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tactics While the author’s example was more on the nose, negging is about insulting a person and attempting to play it off as a joke. A few examples from this article are (https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/negging): -“A haircut would balance out how asymmetrical your face is." -“You know, you'd actually look kind of sexy if you lost 10 pounds." -“Wow, you're actually really interesting. I didn't expect that." Some might interpret “you’d look kind of sexy if you lost 10 pounds” as being called fat (…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 06:37 AM
8	Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tactics Yeah, definitely. Ads with zoomed in yummy burgers and sizzling noises to make us hungry or the fact that products are portrayed as something we are “missing out on” in order to make us feel tempted to buy them. Capitalism at its finest.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 03:57 AM
5	Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tactics Thank you for the recommendation!	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 01:48 AM
1	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? Wait, are you trying to compare like body builder sized women and men? Because those are not natural body sizes for people.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 06:50 PM
1	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? When I Google things like "top female celebrities" they are all in shape and toned so I am confused on where you are getting this from. Also, people in Hollywood aren't the average (which is why they are in Hollywood). And not all male celebrities have abs tho? Abs are hard AF to maintain so these men and women usually prep for movies this way and then on their off season put on normal percentages of body fat.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 06:36 PM
2	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? I have no idea where you got "abs are not usually attractive on women from" or the rest of your statement because I have never heard that and I find those attractive in women. Can you post a link that scientifically proves that is not true?	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 06:20 PM
1	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? Tons of women? https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/g19537355/women-with-amazing-abs/	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 05:54 PM
2	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? Who says they are not attractive?	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 05:48 PM
14	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? I think you need to hang out with more people. In my experience, those stereotypes don't always hold true. I think in general most people want someone who is at least taking care of themselves, but what that looks like is very dependent on each individual. The typical "oh all girls like guys with muscles and guys don't like muscular girls" is a stereotype of straight people that I don't even think most mature straight people follow. People are attracted to what they are attracted to and I know p…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 02:15 PM
2	Do you feel that the Red pill has anything good advice? I mean they are just people making up facts with no proof so I guess anything goes haha	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 03:01 PM
1	Do you feel that the Red pill has anything good advice? How does redpill apply to politics and religion? I understand both these things involve thick skinned leaders and compromises for certain goals (or just straight up murder depending on the religion/country) but this is life and human nature imo. Also, I think you would love taking psychology if these things fascinate you the way that they do :)	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 02:44 PM
3	Do you feel that the Red pill has anything good advice? My main concern is that the red pill ideology really puts such a focus on manipulating every environment that you are in. Are there some people who will try to manipulate you? Yeah sure there are evil/mean people wherever you go but the majority of people are not like that and if every situation is approached with the mindset that someone is trying to trick you, you end up robbing yourself of the genuine experience you could have. I don't see much proof that "people seen as alphas" get much furt…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 02:36 PM
4	Do you feel that the Red pill has anything good advice? Genuine question, what good advice other than workout and discover your own hobbies?	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 06:34 AM
4	The impression I got from talking to a redpilled guy for the first time (as a woman) I think it depends on where you are from, for example if you're from the south in the US there is probably some sexism in guys there by default. I say this because my current man is a northern city guy who has had plenty of friendships with women and is very sweet. He grew up with a very strong mother and his respect for women is genuine. We both lurk this sub and he laughs at some men online who push this redpill stuff because he sees it as what it is: emotional manipulation. I wouldn't encoura…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/20 06:40 PM
20	The impression I got from talking to a redpilled guy for the first time (as a woman) I'm so sorry you had to go through that. You are very smart for seeing it what it was. I was first exposed to redpill by my ex... who is now an ex for a reason. He found redpill 2.5 years into our relationship and ruined the rest of it.. He couldn't for the life of himself respect me as a human being after that. We had so many fights because ANYTHING I said was me "manipulating" him. I got tired from being out all day? I learned new information and changed an opinion I had? I liked something dif…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/20 02:45 PM
1	Still trying to leave the incel community because it's bad for my social anxiety for some reason, and finding it hard r/selfimprovement is nice too!	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/20 10:17 PM
1	Still trying to leave the incel community because it's bad for my social anxiety for some reason, and finding it hard I mean this pandemic is no help lol. I am not on Facebook either. Where you are located are you near any places you could join (hobbie wise) that's more in person? Personally I think if you're trying to take a step back from political stuff its good cuz you can bond with people over different common interests. And get to know people personally this way. Reading is also really good because it opens your eyes to other peoples perspectives. I switch from fiction to psychology or language learning d…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/20 10:16 PM
12	Still trying to leave the incel community because it's bad for my social anxiety for some reason, and finding it hard Are you looking for other forums to join? r/menslib is a great place. But also, maybe try to join some that follow your hobbies? Not everything has to always be political and sometimes taking a step back can be a nice refresher. Good luck :)	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/20 09:57 PM
9	Why would a girl choose me out of the other alpha guys? First, yeah there is no such thing as alpha guys. Also, like dont hurt yourself by projecting your insecurities of other men onto her desire. You dont know what's going on in her mind. And just as men like very different things about women, its the same for women. I know for sure I have a type. Its men between 5'4-5'10 (no preference on skin tone/race but who know how to groom themselves nicely) who are fairly skinny but exercise enough to not be winded by a flight of stairs. Like if a guy falls…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/20 07:05 PM