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Mkey, we had a skype call, she was in a good mood and I apologised.... and she said "uhm, what was it that you said"? I just brushed it off. So, nope, doesn't seem like this was the big deal. I have no clue wtf else is going on.
/r/askMRP29/12/15 07:40 PM
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I do post on owning your shit weekly, I've done some shit. There's a lot I need to improve, but I'm not just sitting here browsing reddit.
/r/askMRP29/12/15 04:34 PM
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India?
/r/askMRP29/12/15 04:33 PM
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Uh yes. Asshole Alpha, I see this is a thing. I really try not to fall into this trap, which IMHO is not addressed properly around here. No I really worked on improving myself, I realised how I was not a leader etc.; however it seems to large degree this confuses her as she's so used to lead (some) of the family life that she's trying to fight it. Anyway, from my point of view there was nothing really major going on during xmas. I did say one stupid thing during xmas diner (drunk - I don't drink…
/r/askMRP29/12/15 04:32 PM
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I used to have MFM fantasies. Since swallowing the pill I realised it's the most beta thing ever and will fuck you for good. It just gives the woman the opportunity to have sex with an alpha she craves, while keeping the blue pill provider. What could be better for her? Sorry this happened to you. If there are no kids involved, ending this might be the best option. Edit: oh, I see there are kids in the picture. Sorry, I have no clue what to say then. You are fucked one way or the other. What is …
/r/askMRP29/12/15 03:44 PM
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Well, i drove back home (kinda long drive). I'll get a couple of glasses of wine my self. What I hate is leaving the kids there. I thought I wanted to use some time by myself, but house is empty without them actually. Well, next time I need to plan some alone time with the kids. Anyway, cheers man, I'm getting drunk tonight.
/r/askMRP25/12/15 09:53 PM
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Fuck that. She values my credit card all right. TRP has its points, but I ain't exactly a fat loser or anything. For some reason, it's got way worse since I've taken the pill.
/r/askMRP25/12/15 09:49 PM
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I figured MRP is a bit too much about bossing the wife around while my SMV is low There really is no other option as to get more attractive. Lift. Figure a style. Don't be fucking boring. Take her on an action date The last one is so obvious, but I'm so stupid I didn't figure it out. You know what our 2nd date was? Rock climbing. Of course she loved it. Since I've become boring. Actually I almost took her on a diner date. Fuck I'm stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 05:07 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Great provider, boring, low SMV sexually. Don't worry, keep going and work on improving yourself. Lift! You can't negotiate desire, no point to be mad at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 05:03 PM
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That really depends on the mother. Some women are terrible mothers. So in fact, some men will never experience true love.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 03:11 PM
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Thank you, really, thank you. I now see how saying a few words is not STFU and is failing the shit test. I see I should have said "Yes, I'm making a drama, obviously; I've started packing and I'm calling my mom to pick me up because you don't want to have sex with me". Something like that? Regarding SMS, well, I was in a bad position. I wanted to say goodbye to the kids, but really, one of us had to lose. Her tantrum and reaction is another thing, but saying "see you in 30 minutes" is not the so…
/r/askMRP13/12/15 07:12 PM
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I would look into anything 20 something. Some girls have tingles for 40+ old men. Frankly, the way society is, man at 20 are boys. You are a man, you have an advantage. You need to know probability of down sindrome get's exponentially high with age. You need to cross out 30+ if you want to give LTR some time, because she'll be too old for the 2nd kid. How this is not publicly discussed is beyond me. Just look at the damn chart http://www.aafp.org/afp/2000/0815/afp20000815p825-f1.gif But there's …
/r/askMRP13/12/15 04:01 PM
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OK, I see I need to work on technique (agree and amplify, amused mastery). To be hones, I really don't recognise the shit tests. There are shit tests here? Also, I did stfu god damned, we barely even speak as I'm just STFUing, and things are just escalating as I do. Where are shit tests, help me out, please!? Refusing sex is not. Coming down to argue... Dunno.. I was really beta in the past and I understand how she could see me simply going out as yet another scene. Now how she feels ill, yeah, …
/r/askMRP13/12/15 02:14 PM
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Anyway, today she really exploded. But in a fucked up way. I'll try to make it short. I'm flying out tonight. I had to pack etc, then I had to go to a pharmacy to get some painkillers before I leave. Now, where I live, most pharmacies are closed Saturday afternoon, so I had to locate one which was opened. You need to know my wife had plans in the afternoon, which I knew of, but here timeframe was "when kid wakes up". So I went, but I forgot my phone at home. Big mistake. I'm new to the city, I d…
/r/askMRP12/12/15 05:52 PM
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I got a lot to do in this department. The fact that she rejected me was not the point here, escalstion after that was interesting. For the past month she's been very strange, nervous, detached. Seems as i'm tuning down beta it threw her off. She's quite alpha herself, so we are each in their own corner. Till today there was no fight though, but today she exploded. It was really strange, i need to collect my mind, maybe i'll ask for advice tomorrow
/r/askMRP12/12/15 04:37 PM
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I used 'cuddle' as a bad translation of what i used in our language, but rest assured, she knew exactly what i came for. It really was more along the lines 'come, let's do it'
/r/askMRP12/12/15 12:08 AM
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That is not "one way or the other"? That said, yeah, fathers 2nd wife made sure I get next to 0 inheritance.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 07:40 PM
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As a child of divorced parents, that shit fucks you up one way or the other. It lacks stability. It's a full of manipulation. Also, it's really easy to be "cool dad" 3 days a week. It's hard to be a full time father, bring joy, interesting stuff, but also be strict etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 05:24 PM
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Woha dude... no no no... don't the fuck move out. It's your house, your kids, your life. She doesn't wanna be a part of it, SHE leaves. Keep it together. If it hurts, if you need to cry, no problem, do it with your friends. But DON'T MOVE OUT. That's the most Beta thing you can do. Just think about it. She said "I want to end this", and you said "yes, master, I understand I'm not worthy, I'm leaving, sorry to dissapoint you". Is that your frame??? IS that what you are? FUCK NO. Your house. Your …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 05:11 PM
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Oh fuck. I need to bring joy, hapiness and excitment in my home. I suck at this, badly. Welp, guess i have work to do...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 10:45 PM
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I don't actually watch porn since quite some time, but other than that you gave me lots of food for thought, thanks.
/r/askMRP28/11/15 07:42 PM
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Shit I need to improve: - lifting. I've lost 10% of my bodyweight, and now my arms are like sticks. Not sexy. I see now what you guys mean by lifting. More dread to my partner. Bitch has zero desire for me. Which only means one thing: i'm way too nice guy, too beta. The thing is, I have some hobbies I really enjoy, but I do at home. have no clue what to do about my PE. I don't initiate because I feel bad about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 10:43 AM
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8 years is not that long. You can manage it. You are a good person and probation is not a problem for you. Do everything you can to never, ever cross path of that woman again. Change city, country, whatever you can. start your own business as a counteraction to potential employment problems.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:44 AM
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I can't help but wonder if my wife ever cheated on me. I had some bad times in the past when I really was a disgusting beta.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:37 AM
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My wife is a religious snowflake, good girl who grew up on a farm in the middle of nowhere. Yeah, we fucked on the first date. To this day she keeps saying "she doesn't know what got into her that night".
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:21 AM
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Shit I own I actually have a great, very well paid job (I'm in the 1%) I restarted investing. Not trading, investing Graham/Buffet style. Started group sport once a week. Turns out I'm no worse than guys in their early 20s (I'm late 30s). I'm constantly learning and getting certificates I'm starting to be aware of the frames, and try to live in my own I'm working out Lost quite some weight and look ok Diet. I got that. No bread. No sweets. No really, I'm actually fucking awesome, I've just been …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 09:52 PM
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Yes, right! I mean "talking about it" type of communication.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 11:13 AM
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Oh god.. "communication". Before I found TRP/MRP, I realised the only communication that work is to just punish the unwanted behaviour? It can be simple stuff, like clothes lying all around. Throw them somewhere out of sight without a word. Slowly they will learn if they don't want you to mess with their things, they better take care of them. Of course it can backfire, so beware. Communicating about sex is just laughable. r/sex will tell you how "communication is key". Boy, they couldn't be more…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 08:38 AM
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For me it's porn and fantasy ruining me! From young age I fantasized about being loved and fucked and what not. Due to the stress of being discovered of course I trained myself to cum as quickly as possible. What's interesting is that I didn't have problems with girls who were really hot in bed but I didn't love them. Not sure what to think about that. Anyway, for me it seems I need to stop fantasizing. Which makes sex / masturbation kinda boring compared to the "experience" before. But it needs…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:27 AM
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Ah yes, about the "lending", I did in fact opt to pay the overdue bill rather than give her cash. I also know I'm not getting it back. At the moment I can do sth like this once a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 08:22 AM
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Fuck, I used to hobby. Photography, model airplanes, dancing, some sports... Now I just can't wait to crash on the couch and reddit. Caught in a loop I can't seem to break. Fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 07:37 PM
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I don't get item 2. First, some recent information (which we didn't know at the time): apparently he and his wife broke up. That really makes him a threat. His SMV is high, he's a damn fitness instructor. What do you mean by talking to him about her nonexistent health problems and debt? I don't get it. And what's DEVI?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 07:53 PM
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Oh my god... it's full of frames! So many frames... everywhere. Everybody wants me to dance as THEY want. How have I been so blind to it? And how well they have trained me to respond to all their manipulations. My mother, master of manipulation, I can't reply on an email (work) and I get an email full of guilt. And I feel I SHOULD answer to calm her down, entering her frame. My manager, sending my an SMS on Saturday. And again, I feel I have to respond. It hurts not to. Again, I'm his puppet. My…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 07:42 PM
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Don't yell at kids. It's weak. Be firm, but guide. My wife when to church with the kids (I don't go to church). She told me a "friend" was throwing my boy in the air and how much the boy liked it. First I did not react, then I told her that I'm the only one who's throwing my kids in the air; should he try it again, I'll smash his face. (I have a feeling for a long time my wife is drooling over this guy, btw). No sex when I'm tired in bed. It's boring. In general wife is not as active as last wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 08:32 PM
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One thing is puzzling me... I don't want to have sex that much. My wife is quite hot (other than a bit skin on the belly after two pregnancies). But I just don't get that "I want to fuck you" feeling very often with her. Damn.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 08:16 AM
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Oh fuck, reddit doesn't give me an option to ignore you. I'm sure you are proud for all the work you do for your boss. Please proceed, nothing for you to see here.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:40 PM
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already on my kindle! But really, really some fucked up shit. Yes, I totally know, that's the game. But a part of me would prefer to die not knowing it, if you know what I mean. Reading it feels like losing anal virginity.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:18 PM
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I'm new to this... what's LMR?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 08:17 PM
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so are you red pill or ex red pill?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/15 07:41 PM
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Good. That's exactly what I do. It's like a customer who pays good, but is an ass. Pretend to enjoy their company to keep the checks coming!
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:40 PM
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Oh fuck me, amazon shows some of the laws in their preview. That's some fucked up mean shit. But HE IS USING IT!!
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:38 PM
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I do work for myself! I would be crazy to work for anybody else. There is no way I could be THE boss. Being somewhere in between sounds just stupid - way too much work and not much more money.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:35 PM
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Laws of Power The 48 Laws of Power?
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:33 PM
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I wass my own boss. I like the current arrangement more! Like I said, I earn really well, and I need to put in less effort!
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:32 PM
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thanks, will read
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:29 PM
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She's giving you an opportunity to get her some dopamine flowing into her brain. Fight her, physically. Find what works for both of you. Would not be surprised if she wants to be hit.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:23 PM
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well I don't care if he loves me :-) I really don't seek his validation (he think he does). But he's so sure he's the smartest and the best, that he could become dangerous if I was totally honest with him. Maybe the question is: is it alpha, if you know you are subordinate and your manager thinks he controls you, but you are aware and just play along to protect the salary?
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:21 PM
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Why not get married? Because they are not man enough to lead their families? Why does your marriage suck? How can YOU improve it for YOURSELF?
/r/askMRP22/10/15 07:12 PM
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Honestly, I think some people here missread the sidebar content and only pick the most douche stuff. The books (first two a least, which I read so far), are nowhere near as hardcore as this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 03:13 PM
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This shit works. I fucked 3 times last week. No, wrong: I fucked whenever I wanted last week! It's incredible how my fears want to stop me. So I let my wife fuck me on saturday and she doesn't want an orgasm in return, and I felt kinda bad. BUT! Next day (sunday), I was in the mood, we flirted on couch etc. But I was afraid to go after it.. because refusal. So we go to bed. I lay there, waiting for her. She comes in and says "oh, you are a sleep, I wanted to read". Me:"I'm not going to sleep, I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 01:11 PM
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about my wife and her reaction, which you'd know had you read the message
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:51 PM
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Shit test with a kid involved, huh? That's a low one. In general we have the rule that daughter needs to be ready for school before bedtime. Meaning clothes, schoolbag etc. I put my daughter to bed, wife goes to tell bedtime story... 15 minutes later daughter comes down "to show me how she's going to look tomorrow". I told her to go up as she should be ready before and now it's not time for this. Which backfired, as she really wanted to show me the new dress (which I didn't know). Kid goes up cr…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:49 PM
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Dude, what is even the problem? She had cock before yours? I mean ok, you are 44, get over it. The two of you have two great kids. Without this woman, you wouldn't have the great kids you do. Regardless of everything else, be grateful for that. Her body aged faster than yours due to 2 pregnancies and births. Not trusting your wife is just so beta... what is there to trust!? SHE needs to hold of you, not the other way around. Just grow your alpha steadily, but keep the beta there, too. But frankl…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:39 PM
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This community is full of clueless subjects who read material on the right very one-sided and biased. Poor souls who come here and don't have the wisdom, and trust you. They risking fucking up their not-so-bad marriage, which could be doing better with the right approach. I was genuinely surprised and worried. You offered nothing of value to me. So just shut the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:31 PM
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why the downvotes? random feminists and betas doing that or what?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 03:19 PM
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i guess we've "learned" that through our feminised culture? that said, as a man, I don't understand orgasmles sex. but again, our roles really are different.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 03:16 PM
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i'm quite sure this was the first time ever. today she came to me and embraced me really tight. again, very rare treatment otherwise. All i'm thinking is: fuck, I've changed our relationship upside down in a week!? It is ME who is the asshole ruining our youth by simply not be "the man". Oh fuck that hurts badly. On the other hand, the big question I have is: how far can I really push this? It really seems I'm only limited by my fears. But the way this is going I would not be surprised if even 3…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 02:38 PM
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I kinda am coming from BD. Now I see I'm coming more from simply me being boring to hell. We had sex at least once per month, also some really god sex. I'm currently reading married man sex life primer.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 12:29 PM
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Hm, there are some books I've read a few years ago about (kids) brain and how they are developed. I'll try to look them up. Regarding 7 it's actually my preference. Sex feels better for me that way and I find it more erotic. Do whatever works for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 11:30 AM
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agreed... the problem / pressure is, the dentist told us he has lot's of dental plaque, which can turn to caries. So it's important AND urgent
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 02:48 PM
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uhm... no, you took that away from yourself, by being a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 02:11 PM
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Just reflexing a bit what's happened through this week, mostly note to myself with a practical question at the end. So I'm now in the middle of the 2nd book on the right. Oh fuck, I was such a nice guy. Role model for the betaized man. The good thing is, there is some alpha still in me, I just lost contact with it. So what did I do so far: Read o more MR nice guy Half read married man Sex Life Primer After work just went into a mall, reading the book without saying anything to my wife and came h…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 12:11 PM
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i just tried to hold his head and brush his teeth, don't worry (he's 2). He's a little alpha and fought back.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 12:05 PM
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no... it's just the freaking irony. Be alpha. Cool, I'm alpha. I post. I get spanked by the mod. I go cry and post where he told me to. But at least he told me i was a good boy. See what I mean? :-)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 11:51 AM
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well fuck you too
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 11:46 AM
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I just started this journey and i read the NMMNG yesterday. I don't have all of the problems from the book, but one thing really threw me off guard: my sex life revolves around fantasy! I never thought of it as a problem. But I fantasize when i jerk off, when I have sex... Worse guys (this hurts, but here it goes): sometimes i describe my fantasies to my wife as we fuck, or I want her to tell me hers (cringe). Not surprisingly, this leads to PE. On the other hand, I really don't know what kind o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 06:36 AM
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