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Red Pill Theoryalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 12:56 PM
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Rant/Ventingalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:51 AM
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Rant/Ventingalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:20 PM
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Red Pill Theoryalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:21 PM
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Red Pill Theoryalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:15 PM
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alpha_buffalo/r/askTRP06/06/15 02:54 PM
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Rant/Ventingalpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:10 PM
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alpha_buffalo/r/askTRP21/05/15 01:07 AM
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alpha_buffalo/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:53 PM
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alpha_buffalo/r/askTRP01/10/15 08:38 AM
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alpha_buffalo/r/askTRP03/06/15 09:53 AM
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alpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:33 AM
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alpha_buffalo/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:06 PM
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This is important, I had an encounter a few weeks ago with a girl in a relationship. Empty house, invited me over for dinner had drinks and she expressed her feelings for me but in a longing way. I was drunk but i was damn well aware it was unusual. Told her to lock the door up, started recording immediately. Purposely said things to ensure she audibly consented. Though in the morning she said she didn't regret anything (cheating), the peace of mind from recording is much greater. Backed up the …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 09:25 AM
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Are we really going to compare Valve and Semco to China ? This is from Gary Becker Nobel Laureate. Visionary leaders can accomplish more in autocratic than democratic governments because they need not heed legislative, judicial, or media constraints in promoting their agenda. In the late 1970s, Deng Xiaoping made the decision to open communist China to private incentives in agriculture, and in a remarkably short time farm output increased dramatically. Autocratic rulers in Taiwan, South Korea, S…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 01:42 PM
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Please provide examples of shared leadership?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 12:25 AM
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Once again you deliver IllimitableMan. Power sharing is deeply inefficient, in relationships as well as in business and government (China). If equal power sharing was such a useful thing you would have Co-Ceo's in corporations (Men and Women). I would go as far as to say the need for sole leadership is visceral. A ship is guided by a vision and seldom do two people share the same vision thus direction.(Too many cooks spoil the broth). Adding on to your points I truly believe there are two functi…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:40 AM
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With all the engineering and mathematics those are very simple simple calculations. He could honestly set up a company where 12 people rotate monthly shifts for 12 months,no one ever repeats a shift - a new person every month- each getting 1mil a month = p.a = 12,000,000 p.a on "pleasure expenses" assuming he still fucks till he's 80, that would cost $432m he would have had 432 different partners. Along the way someone would accept just living with him with no marriage license ffs!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:29 PM
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How cucked can you get to sign up to a second marriage again. For what? What's the rationale of being legally married a second time. He's a billionaire FFS would she refuse to put out because he never signed a paper? Unimaginable really.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:21 PM
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Makes me teary eyed. 2-3 whole Billion dollars? For what EXACTLY?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:18 PM
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can someone help find the video of him that truly made me sad to see one of the most important people of our time being disrespected so callously? The wife was giving an interview and was calling him the equivalent of a weirdo, no frame etc
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:14 PM
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Excellent and analysis and even more excellent proposal of applying the TRP principle of 'Agree and Amplify'. Completely different and fresh way of looking at it. You are right that it may have reached the stage where confrontation does not work, only co-operation. Fasten your seat belts tightly.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 03:31 PM
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You epitomise 'logic'. You have a lucid, way of thinking. Bravo
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 11:19 PM
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''If you are rich you are handsome". Greek saying. I absolutely think attraction is Demand & Supply where looks are a composite function that make up the supply curve. I have a really aesthetic face but I know my body negatively devalues my looks. That being said, strengthening other areas, body, posture, confidence, dress (presentation), visible charisma - all can positively increase the composite supply function of looks. What the market demands is open to anything and changes with every marke…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 12:55 AM
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You can walk away or threaten to if she won't play your game. The most important weapon in gender relations. Set precedents, set benchmarks. Like a stockmarket suspend trading, cancel licenses if the participant does not comply. My ex always used to complain that everything was like a test. How she felt is not my business. What is my business and within my control was that the ship was not compromised and any weaknesses were dealt with immediately. I detached my emotions and was able to make cle…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 12:50 AM
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My father is a business owner and epitomises this completely. Most of the stories he tells are problems that he solved . Im really lucky to have a 'hero-figure'. But at work it is an obvious thing, you straddle the line between what your expectations are and what will benefit you. In personal life, taking care of problems, thwarting threats to the family and telling them as stories much later makes you a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 02:27 PM
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Only thing missing in here is that ensure that you do not invest more than she does emotionally. Observe the golden ratio too, give her 2/3 of everything she gives you.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 08:17 PM
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Sadly, I cant travel to the city she is in but I will look it up and I wish I could hear his side. Your theory Guy got her tipsy, she got frisky, and did the act. Chances are it wasn't the movie like experience she wanted, though. I agree. The way I read it, she isn't implying rape, so she consented to it, but she is trying to leave enough leeway to claim she didn't really want to. Any time I hear a girl say she didn't want commitment, I translate it as the guy didn't want to commit to her. She …
/r/askTRP26/10/15 08:08 PM
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But - and here's the thing - AWALT. AWALT genuinely takes the sting out a great deal. Not going to get a sweeter story elsewhere but there's no reason to reward lies either.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 08:00 PM
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True. I mean the biggest thing here is there is a huge distinction between having sex and not remembering and being penetrated for the first time.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 07:57 PM
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This is also my biggest concern. Especially the link between her thinking it's not important to tell me when it's clear she cant control her alcohol but is so fixated on getting the most maximum freedom to be going out regularly. Im treading extremely carefully.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 07:55 PM
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I'm also getting this nasty feeling that my dad doesn't want me to succeed so much that I won't need him at all. He's quite egoistic and a workaholic. Im in exactly the same situation
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 11:22 AM
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Wow man, that's a really messed up experience, always wondered what it's like to have a girl who strips.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:01 PM
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I also use the same, I envision that I am the boss and the woman I get is my P.A. If your P.A is lousy or incompetent you have to get rid of her immediately after the normal procedure i.e warning, suspension, forced leave then dismissal. You can promote her to director, you can demote her to a normal administrator official position. Things like this are so important to constantly appraise whether you're running a viable concern or your just fucking around. Demand excellence & cut the deadweight.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:58 PM
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One of the most key pieces I've come across on TRP. OmLaLa, extreme gratitude for this. I would recommend. 1) It be sidebar material. 2) You also make it into some form of lecture slide/ book format because it is actually one of the most educational supplements that I have come across here. I really admire how you organise your thoughts and accompany them with really illustrative examples. So glad to be part of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:08 PM
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Thank you, I personally don't regard a woman if she has not a sign of neediness for me. Generally in my experience if he is not needy at all - she's highly likely to be manipulative and using you for her own ends or has no regard/value or adoration for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:51 PM
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Everything you have said is truly spot on. When I read it, coming from someone else's eyes other than my own, I see the absurdity in it all. I think the main thing is overcoming my inferiority complex (mentally & physically) and having an abundance mentality. Im banking too much on a tomorrow that's not foreseeable as you said and I instantly recall a quote from the investor Peter Thiel, 'Planning is arrogant' (In relation to things affected by what is largely out of control). Thank you so much …
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:27 PM
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Very true, for instance - Im very particular with girls i'm fucking being in touch with their exes. My current, after promising has been in touch with her ex 3 times after. He left an indelible mark on her but it's also a sign that I will not be exclusive with her because she doesn't deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 04:47 PM
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Here's the problem: once fat girls in the latter category have sex once, that's it. They are on the road to becoming the first category. Because now their ego has grown, they have validation, but they still fucking hate themselves. I know because I have seen it happen first hand. This is true but there is an alternative course of events that I have witnessed. Assume you are higher SMV than her, i.e you are the best that she could do, she is lucky to have you , you are better than her and you can…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 04:33 PM
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After realising that the rabbit hole is closed and you're free, the feeling is bliss. I really think it's like walking into a retail store, knowing the exact position, price and availability of every item. Thats how I feel with my interactions with women. Pre - TRP every woman would get equal maximum attention. Now I can place a perceived value on any woman based on key indicators that are so plentiful on TRP and accordingly apportion the appropriate amount of resources - time, effort, interest …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:16 PM
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Even now, I don't like my ex-gf, but I wish her nothing but the best because I feel sorry for her. Because she's a woman she doesn't know any better, so I'm just feeling sorry for her. There's nothing I could've done once I was classified as a beta in her head, so i can only be mad at myself. Im currently dating a girl and I know this is where we are heading. Not a problem to me, she's chasing utopia and thats her decision. Without TRP I honestly don't know how I could've have foreseen whats see…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:09 PM
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"Punish swiftly, Reward Slowly".
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 11:48 AM
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These models and graphs are mapped based on assumptions (negligibility,domain,heuristic) that are a necessity to understand humans. We assume humans are driven to maximize utility, though the decisions leading to their consumption bundle may not be fully 'rational'. These models and graphs make up our daily lives in currencies, commodities, election forecasts etc They are all mapped based on assumptions. The best we can do is quantify the extent that the assumptions we make will hold true. To th…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:43 PM
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So glad I study economics. Al that you are saying can be put into economic context that explains consumer choice behaviour for humanity as a whole. everyone in the world is alive so they can feel pleasure. why eat? it feels good. why shit? feels good. everything we do is so we can feel good. Humans by nature try to maximise utility. Utility is happiness, comfort etc all the things you describe. Humans will be driven to achieve more utlitiy, the level of their utility is mapped by an indifference…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:38 PM
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Man, the way this is so correct is crazy. My most recent relationship the girl cheated on me, back then I used to blame her for being a slut etc. Yes AWALT but that does not excuse my own shortcomings of not having an abundance mentality, not holding frame and importantly getting out of shape (willful decrease of SMV). I contrast this to a relationship I had many years ago when I played competitive sport. Playing competitive sports meant a guaranteed stream of women seeking involvement - automat…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:42 PM
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Once fucked a fatty when I was 17. Literally ruined my pre-selection SMV. Small community so all the girls know each other and nothing is inescapable. SideNote: Never expect a fatty to be discreet.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:04 PM
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To conceptualize what TRP is to me, I think of war in a social context. I think of the people I would need, the diverse skill sets and knowledge capital. Then I think where could I access, the POOL/group of this talent. Answer - TRP. Sure there are great writers i.e Jared Diamond, Robert Greene who would be immensely useful but those are outliers. TRP has the widest pool of like minded individuals with the knowledge base and diverse skill sets that it would need to achieve a basic proficiency in…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:39 PM
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Op here has no common sense. All the reversals OP talks about are common sense and things TRP always speaks about. In the case of success getting to your head, discipline and constant repetition acts as a leveler. If you stay disciplined, you are constantly reminded of your shortfalls. Quite often people who have let success get to their heads aren't really successful in the greater scheme of things and TRP is all about the greater scheme of things. When we look at feminism, divorce-rape,self im…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:01 PM
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Ridiculous how this is the exact same list of me. The only one in this list that I have dated is a feminist but that ended two months in and it was pre-TRP. In college right now and I cant date another girl who's not in college or has no conception of the work 'sacrifice'/time-management. Girls who are not educated think you are incredibly selfish with your time and as a result make every effort to get pregnant ' to stop you in your tracks'.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:35 AM
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A girlfriend fine. Any other girl fine. But marriage? Absolutely not. Why set a precedence for your girl, that she will take as the norm from thereon. Shooting yourself in the foot?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:13 AM
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Letting another guy rail your WIFE, same time as you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:11 AM
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Letting another guy rail your WIFE, same time as you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:41 AM
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At my age, a lot of hoes I knew back in the day are getting married. I see the pics all over facebook: some soft-featured dope with kind eyes posing proudly with his "catch." She's maybe a bit prettier than average, so the guy thinks he's hit the lottery. A friend of mine got a wedding invitation for next month of a girl who i used to play with 2 years ago. She moved on to me after her 4 year LTR for hypergamous reasons. My idea was to plate her but she was after more, Im not religious but the h…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:19 AM
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Hunger in the context I talk about is not hunger for the need to eat but the hunger for the need to succeed. Pain is not actual pain from the sensory nerves but pain from coming across obstacles. Pain threshold as I speak of in the case of billionaires is their ability to repeatedly overcome obstacles.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 05:22 PM
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What I dont understand about guys is that surely with the abundance mentality you shouldnt give two flying fucks whether or not your friend or friend-of-a-friend dates your ex. AWALT, don't go looking for unicorns out there. Dont expect women to have some moral highground- they know no boundaries, they could get with your brother and justify it.Men are men, your friend or whoever may just be dating them for sex. Point is, worry about yourself, don't create unrealistic expectations that you then …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:20 PM
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Now if I’m on the phone and I say, “Look I got to go.” And you say, “Why you gotta go? I want to talk to you some more.” You are raping my time. You are taking something from me. No means no, bitch. I said I got to go. Why are you forcing me to stay on the phone and talk to you about nothing.” Haha reminds me of my last LTR, it ended when the girl asked me how much I was willing to make it work? My reply , ''I am only willing to go as far as my sacrifices will not impinge on my freedom and happi…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:47 AM
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Black and not attracted to Gabrielle Union one bit. Would take Leila Anthony anyday
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:33 AM
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Im black and though I have had darker skin women, lighter skin women have higher perceived SMV. Personally I prefer lighter black women, though they have a less desirable attitude. Economics is a good teacher - scarcity (less supply) = more value. Dark skin women are not hard to find and not hard to get, never been rejected by one. Complete opposite for lightskin women, that cannot be contested.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:25 AM
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I've been thinking about this, this whole week that pain and hunger are the best gauges of progress. Anytime you are not hungry, anytime you many not be hurting - either you are a billionaire (at the least) or you are not pushing yourself adequately. MIND: Scientists in terms of mind are some of the best examples of hunger. A true scientist though having massive accomplishments treats their field like it's uncharted and has a perennial thirst for knowledge. Their achievements are for the outside…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:34 AM
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Illimitable man, you never fail to comprehensively and precisely explain things.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:52 AM
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Same boat, I have never longed for the company of anyone especially men. To be honest, currently in my life I get by by one or two friends for specific purposes - eating and drinking. Other than that, after reading and internalizing Self Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson, self comes first.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:31 AM
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Your wife is constantly shit-testing you and you are not holding frame nor even showing any intention of holding frame. Im not being dramatic but that's the sort of thing that estranges women especially when Chad Comes along and makes her live on his terms. My wife made a comment about me going to the funeral home and if that's how I want to spend my time. Basically what you should have done is Agree and Amplify ''How did you figure, I intend to actually stay there till kingdom come'', then walk…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:37 PM
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Kind of makes me jealous that I haven't experienced this type of AWALT yet. I had an ex over at my place this weekend. RadFem type, I literally had zero sexual urges to her. Absolutely no urge. Which is usually unlikely for me. Just reassured me that my initial inclination to her in the relationship was to get her to submit. Thereafter, RadFem's become untenable.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:23 PM
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Thanks! This honestly had me puzzled this morning. Had to ''hold frame''.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:52 AM
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My favorite break up line is, "I just can't give you what you want." At once this assigns the blame to yourself while also implying that her needs/wants may be unreasonable. Either way, she can't get what she wants and therefore Briffault's Law is triggered and she sees the logic in not dating you anymore. It's almost as if she broke up with me. What would I be without TRP ? Exactly what I needed to say. Now I can't wait for my plate who is expecting a LTR to get off work to tell her exactly tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:19 PM
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I have been in that boat. Fucked a girl (fatty) who at the time agreed to be discreet. But AWALT, she couldn't kiss and keep quiet. Live in a small town so she really went out of her way to make sure she ruined my rep (i.e The womanizer etc). But the fundamental point is that, I used to care. Now, I do not give a fuck. I do not owe anyone an explanation. That being said, I do consider who I fuck and who i don't. If I stick my dick in crazy, I make sure she's the crazy who wont make my eyes sore.…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:11 PM
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Haha I recallthe last girl I was smashing going from calm to bat-shit crazy all because my phone was locked, would not give an explanation or answer her but just laugh whilst I was packing my gym bag (dread game). Women are funny when you understand them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:17 PM
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For social strategy I always recall the Bruce Lee quote, ''Be water, shapeless, formless.'' There are huge dividends in being socially diverse, talking to all sorts of people and long term value when you exit as soon as returns start to diminish in your social interactions.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:47 PM
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Assuming by your name, ur a '93 born, you have done well to realize this early.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:44 PM
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Life isn't fair, especially if you have a penis. So what you need to understand as a man, is that you are under no obligation to play by the rules of the people who view you as an acceptable loss. Thanks OP. Thank you. This is the most important thing I will tell my son if I have one one day. This needs to be internalized.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:42 PM
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Have been with escorts for a while in the UK. Biggest benefit for me is it gets rid of foggy brain. Clears my mind so much that I can think straight and decide exactly beyond sex what I would want a woman for.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 10:26 AM
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Like stocks hypergamy is women trying to derive super-normal exponential returns on their investments but adopting a short term trading strategy. It's almost absurd.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 06:18 AM
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So concise, so true. Its a start but definitely this sub is making live life as it should be lived. The little shit that held me back, the little excuses, little postponements are giving me an increasingly better quality of life/mind-state. Not just a refinement on my internalization, but highly thought provoking questions and beautiful explanations of theory I thought I already fully understood. Im one month in TRP and im learning new outlooks, rational outlooks on things I seriously thought I …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:45 PM
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It's a bit different. It's about scale. $320k a month affords her access to circles and likely places that he could be or people who he could know. $320k a month would make you a millionaire. Billionaires do associate with millionaires.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:07 PM
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Better than nothing indeed.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:47 PM
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A prime example why you don't see many successful female investors is because of the lack of long-term guided decisions. Think of a company with great value that has a sudden drop in stock. Women would divest but when the stock price rebounds on an upward trajectory, they would be ready to buy. This is exactly what happened when you quit your job though you had money in the bank etc etc. Essentially, women are noise-traders.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:30 PM
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Because I'm a minority race and in Europe, I always have a lingering fear of being accused therefore I take precautionary measure to ensure that there is doubt if I were to be accused. 1) Avoid sleeping with girls after alcohol. 2) If I can, ensure that girls come to my place on their own accord by themselves, not with me. 3) Never to delete messages that show clear interest. Hence I avoid messages on platforms that disappear (snapchat). May seem extreme but the consequences as shown in the case…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:27 AM
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Effectively being delusional.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:37 AM
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She can hang out with lots of women who don't want to have sex with her. So why a guy? I think she has become addicted to the attention and validation I'm dealing with too many girls who are like this.The key is to have the abundance mentality. Escalate and if she is not party, exit immediately. Attention is not for free.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 07:39 AM
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''You want a friend on wall street, get a dog''. - Carl Icahn
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 10:02 AM
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This was one of the hardest parts of TRP to swallow. I used to orbit so many girls and radio silence or the 2/3 Golden rule assures that many of them disappear. This is easy if you live in a big town. If you live in a small town, you must rid yourself of the fear of loneliness to prepare to lose those you orbit and that's where lifting, hobbies and things that make you better come in.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:56 PM
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As others have suggested - Dread Game. Start making yourself more desirable by being more interested in you. I personally think maybe you're giving her and her feelings too much attention. Be a bit more selfish, let her see people being interested in you. Also lift like fuck. Start Squatting, doing deadlifts and bench-pressing more this will get your T- up which i think maybe contributing to you being all soft , considerate, inquisitive thus leading her to lose her sex drive. Loss of sex drive i…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:39 PM
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Yeah as said below, pick your battles wisely not worth any damage they could cause to your car but remember that you do not owe these people any favors or empathy from now. If they are loud and make noise, record and report. If they want to play a privilege game exercise yours too all within the laws.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:25 PM
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This happened in South Africa. Her friends testified that they had seen her before with her “rapist” and that they often touched each other and swam and played around. According to them the woman seemed to be very comfortable with the man. I can only imagine how the guy's life has been temporary derailed. At 20 he probably was on his way to college but for 3 years due to hamstering, has probably faced nothing but scorn and ridicule. Firstly he is really lucky to have been on bail throughout the …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:09 PM
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100% Troll. If you are getting what you need why marry? There is certainly a problem if you seek validation because she has sat on 100 dicks. Any woman who has sat on 100 dicks regardless of her now settling down cannot be ultimately set for a LTR and even if so it should not be you. After 100 dicks what makes you so sure you're the last one? Worse off that she's a 10 as you say. Wake up and go get a 26 year old who hasn't had to charge anyone for what is abundant.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:58 PM
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I definitely did not expect it to escalate to this level. Good grace, what world do we live in where one can't even express their views without getting someone's back itchy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:24 PM
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Kind of me too. I will only drink on a Friday after a week of work and lifting everyday. Saturday morning i'm lifting to compensate for the few hours of reward. It's all about discipline.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:34 PM
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People like you can't be helped.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 11:54 AM
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That's simply obvious. When we say 'women' we exclude family obviously and those in need regardless of gender (old people). Women refers to those which we have the possibility of having a sexual relationship. In future please expand and don't leave open ended statements. Illustrate your shortsightedness in full so we can down-vote you in one go.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:37 AM
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Give your alternate approach then please?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:14 AM
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Confidence Lifts Truth-Teller Doesn't Give a fuck. -''Who gives a shit what people think about me, I don't really care.'' Is Tim Shark a Red Pill example or are there other qualities that define being a Red Pill?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:36 AM
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So true, In LTR's I lose frame hence I have for my safety in not getting baited and having a kid, I have decided to spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:25 PM
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Haha I wouldn't be surprised if that would get me tagged for Sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:06 PM
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At 40 this would be highly ambitious, a 3rd wife yes but not for a rich dude.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:42 AM
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Just look at what she’s done to George Clooney, reducing our American prince to the status of adorable sidekick, like an animated chameleon or snowman who provides comic relief and gentle chuckling in between his master’s courageous adventures in saving the world. Delusion or RP gone BP as suggested? Help me make sense of this.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:32 AM
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A great subject to weigh your views on as a successful Alpha is 50 cent.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:46 AM
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No not at all.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 09:56 AM
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I look around at a lot of women and see a bunch of confused girls who don't know what their doing with their life. Its really an unenviable position. Could swear we were wearing the same glasses.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:50 AM
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Have some other problems as well but the biggest diffrence between myself now and a couple of months ago is that I have stopped being so patient waiting for problems to solve themselves while I whine, but instead take action and do something about it. Once you adopt this attitude you're on your way to becoming the definition of a man. Nothing beats pro-activeness/ initiative/ action. Keep striking the iron whilst its still hot, keep grabbing the bull by the horns and make no excuses. I kind of s…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:15 AM
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Through him I learned various practical machiavellian tactics to advance myself socially and professionally. My mind literally exploded at how simple and intuitive, yet creative and incredibly effective these various "plays" were. It was like I was being introduced to a completely new world. Following his advice, I literally made more progress on my social and professional life in this year than I have in the last three. Most of all because we were close, he allowed me to pick his brain and I wo…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:07 AM
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V. Adhere to the golden ratio https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ For every 3 things she does, do it twice. i.e for this guy to fork out $200 hopefully she would have spent $300 on him. ''The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas.''
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:49 AM
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Really true, as a minority I notice a distinct difference in the way I'm treated when I cold-approach than when i'm with a social circle - even one high SMV guy is decent validation. This is a harsh truth I've come to accept. I really believe in being autonomous because my schedule requires me too but to be successful with women as a minority requires me to go out of my comfort zone and have a social circle even if I am remotely interested in what they do/talk about.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:42 AM
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In reality, you need to have her in emotional chaos. The higher the power output of her hamster, the greater your chance at scoring. So true, I think I have really done this successfully once in a club so successfully that the contrasting behavior I displayed sent her hamster spinning that she ended up crying in the club. Still took her home. Very effective.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:29 AM
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I guess ultimately that's where women and men differ. Men understand the concept of sacrifice and are prepared to do so whereas women innately ''need'' the best of both worlds. If I wanted the best of both worlds in this case I would say ok, whilst you in Italy i'm allowed one nigh stands where i don't get to know the girl well. No girl would accept this, instead a guy has to sacrifice. Best to just end it, glad you agree.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:02 AM
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Imagine how successful girls would be if they read all your edits as a article. Probably cry for a few days but that advice would yield some serious positive results .
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:56 AM
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It actually hurts my eyes trying to read it thinking about all the girls I know who are caught up in those beliefs. Luckily, the wall is a shrewd teacher, one just has to make sure you are not a recipient of a girl who has envisioned her wall approaching. It's not your duty to save them.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:52 AM
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Find a stable woman who was raised by her father to have boundaries and a realistic understanding of the world, not someone who identifies with this garbage. Last girl I dated had a father who showed her boundaries but articles like this, influence from friends and other modern day things made her cast out all those boundaries and made her feel like an entitled brat. Exercise extreme caution bros.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:50 AM
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Noted, has back fired in my own home. My older brother is an ultimate Beta, that's reason enough I guess. New experience, New girls it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:13 PM
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Noted, unfortunately with the girl im currently courting she didn't really know her mother. Guess it'll make for a field report.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:11 PM
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Yeah for me the worst is when I wake up and she's the first to come to mind. But her bullshit keeps me from talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:10 PM
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Thanks, I was waiting on someone to understand the title!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:08 PM
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Law of power #4: Always say less than necessary. As well as that, advertising yourself as a loose cannon makes you look insecure. In fact, if you do it, you probably are insecure. Stoicism and mystery are what you need. I agree with you to an extent. Stoicism and mystery are good but complete silence may indicate other things, depression, low self-esteem or plain stupidity. Say somethings, and Say them confidently, witty if possible.If you cant, then say something bold, then retreat. You can't i…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:53 PM
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This is it. This is exactly it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:44 PM
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True, I'm trying to just find our what next to do in order to build myself up. Currently about to finish my Bsc in Economics and Finance, which should stand me in good stead to be self-sufficient. Have good contacts and natural acumen to sell and hoping to go into commodities as I previously used to do before college.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:38 PM
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Couldn't have put it any better. I had the same problem as OP but through reading philosophy particularly stoicism it helped me frame what happiness is. For it to be meaningful, it shouldn't be sustained. Striving for security and freedom as you say should be one's mainstay with happiness happening as a natural progression outside of that. Wanting to be constantly happy once you re-calibrate your life and focus on security and freedom becomes a bit idealist.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:32 PM
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You will be surprised by this community. No one here is in oblivion. We all know the social hierarchy that exists but we explore solutions in which to subvert and mitigate the externalities caused by it. I'm a minority and I know that given a blonde girl i do not have the equal chance of getting laid as does a white tall high smv male. But read TRP enough you will know how to exploit the rare opportunities and as a male, opportunity is all you need. i.e The blonde girl may have a brunette friend…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:24 PM
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Really is taking longer to cure than I thought. Thanks for debunking it. TRP is one of those things Im guarding jealously, I dont want to talk about it with my peer group because I am basking in the new found glory this is giving me.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:20 PM
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Well this could be another Harsh Truth. I am a minority and I know girls my race who always fucked outside of it are the most difficult to contend with and have unreal expectations whilst entering panic mode when The Wall approaches. There's something about a gang lord ex con drug dealer that your expensive boat club membership and nice loft can't offer Another harsh truth, once a girl has gone exotic, what makes her tingle can change. The brashness of an ex-con will arouse her far much more tha…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:17 PM
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Completely agree. Im from a 3rd world country and one thing that puts me ahead of other minorities is my general outlook on life when talking with women. As a rule of thumb, I will not talk about hardship(problems), If i am forced into I make it a point to make fun of it. I make sure I am confident even if I am faking it( DO not ask for trivial advice) . I remember being with a girl and I am not even from the city we just happen to meet there but she said 'I love being with you here because you …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:04 PM
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Thanks, so right on the time part
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:50 PM
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Haha happens more often than you think especially the suck up part of it which is so cringe-worthy. My hope always is that these guys one way or another find the balls somewhere to just alpha-the-fuck up because their slope is a treacherous one. Often these guys are the prime example of ''behind every man's downfall there's a woman''. After she breaks his heart which could be avoidable, he will lose all his drive and be one of those ''back in my days'' type of guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:44 PM
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Appreciated, sorry if it sounds confusing but the girl's mother is a single mom.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:34 PM
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Nothing More useful than a forum with like-minded older and wiser people. Lifting!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:31 PM
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She just confided in a boy she thought was as a man Really? Really? Do we give the same excuses for a man who confides in a hoe because he thought she was a lady? Absolutely not. RP(ers) please do not be fooled into thinking you can make excuses for folly in life. The second you do, don't expect a great deal from life. Sorry
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 12:41 PM
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maybe my confidence beforehand was a sort of defense to my insecurities That's it, thats exactly what i had before I started lifting. The confidence I have now is a different one, it's assured confidence in my abilities. Its almost like editing a photo on a computer as you wish without regard because you have the original backed up somewhere. It's power really.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 12:23 PM
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Such a society you are suggesting is against all biological reason. Nevertheless, if such were the case, you would have a proliferation of lesbians. The interesting thing is that with lesbians, one partner always assumes the role of the 'alpha male' you never find two 'beta type' women in a nice cute relationship. It's almost hard to completely ignore the role of the alpha, to do so would be to ignore the whole history of mankind. I would argue that the assumption that Betas's are smarter and in…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 12:03 PM
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No, please read the sidebar. The Wall is when a women's appeal i.e SMV is increasingly diminishing at an exponential rate by the age of 30. We have to be accurate about this. It is not just about having kids, kid's are a by-product that women use to subvert the wall, just as marriage is too. On the issue of disability well that needs research to verify. The case of your mum is an outlying one that is subject to alot of factors largely dependent on the guy she ended up marrying. ''The Wall'' sugg…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:51 AM
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Budgeting for investments to be made in women is one of the most arduous tasks because of the unknown, immeasurable risk profile that women possess. No other asset besides mining in 3rd world countries can have the high probability of sunken costs (complete-write off) as investing in women. The first vacation you take with a lady having saved up could be the most opportune time in her eyes to call it quits with you.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:42 AM
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I dont think you fully know what ''the wall'' is. It's not just about conceiving especially while married but about SMV. If you're suggesting that your mom had 1 kid at 38 with one man and another at 43 with a different man and so on then yes, her wall came later. But if it was all with the same man, the wall may not be applicable to her.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:31 AM
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''No Contact'' works so effectively. Used it recently, cut all ties, texts social media etc Be wary of the girls who ''leave stuff'' at your place. Had one who left a book at mine, it costs $1 on amazon, she wanted me to send it to her etc when I know she was just trying to engage in a conversation. Immediately decided I will not send anything that is not high value to her (She has loads of cash) unless she requests multiple times. Girls will do all sorts of things just to get to speak to you, h…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:21 AM
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Had a similar situation in a recent relationship but it wasn't a shit test. Girl decides 1 month into the relationship that she wants to study in Itay for a year abroad, stood my ground and said I will not be part of an optional long-distance relationship all because she wants to spend time sightseeing and meeting new people. Anyway she assumed I was so pussy-whipped and went ahead with her application. Didn't waste time and and ended the whole thing. This was pre-TRP and I felt guilty at first …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:11 AM
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Exactly, this is the best attitude to have self improvement should be for personal reasons, why a girl is sucking your cock is absolutely irrelevant. Whatever motivates her to do a good job is her problem.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 12:13 PM
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Dad goes on holiday when he wants to, last holiday was in mauritius why? Because it is the haven for single 39- 45 year old women who Dad kindly bangs. Luckily his face hasn't aged so he easily passes for 52-55. And at the very least he is healthy and in control of what he does with his time so there in so justification to what you are saying.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 06:13 AM
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You, fail to be objective. James Deen is an outlying case, he has ''social-proof'' in this case. Women see how good he fucks and makes other women feel good + his good looks. But he is an ordinary guy, you can find many James Deen looking guys but they will not have the social proof that he has so subconsciously the women will be attracted to the guys who have good looks and can probably fuck the best - which is the ''NFL Linebacker'' as you say or athletic guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:47 PM
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Who has a higher success rate, the small guy or the athletic guy? Be objective!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:44 PM
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I don't think this place is for you. All you try to do is justify why you are lazy, your line of thinking shows that you are lazy. You have no abundance mentality. Money is your only tool, without it basically you wont survive (no prostitutes). The Essence of a man is having many options so stop justifying and looking at microscopic examples of ''guys wearing tap-out shirts''. You are 40 so what? My Dad is wealthy, 68 and still goes to gym every morning at 5.30 am why? Because he appreciates the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:37 PM
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It all makes sense now, you never see the 8's, 9's even the 7's lining up to fuck the White Knight who is praised in the news for 'standing up' or displaying a high level of morality but rather its the obnoxious arrogant guy who puts himself on a pedestal that the women will bend over backwards for.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:26 PM
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The Day I learnt to be a man was how I saw my Dad handling his mothers death! The same way he has walked out of the house to go work for the family was exactly how he was that day - unmoved like a rock, the only difference was ofcourse that he hugged me (I was about 12). From that day I knew what being a man was about 10 years later im still working towards it. The man has all my respect.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:21 PM
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Off topic, but your posts have re-calibrated a great deal of my life. I see clearer and It's only right I express my gratitude.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:16 PM
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True, situations like that are the mark of a man my brother. Men are not remembered by how nice they were but by their strength and what they built. It's our biological expectation, to be strong, to improvise and to have a plan. That's what being a man is about. You should read The Remains of the Day by Kazuo Ishiguro, good casual read whilst the main emphasis is to keep calm and think clearly in moments of despair. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:13 PM
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Same thing I ask, my parents are extremely sympathetic which does not do anyone any good!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:09 PM
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In my first year of University I took this for granted, I went off track and let my body slump - girls who threw themselves at me before were now ''seeing someone''. Im so glad I cam across TRP going into my last year of University with 3 months to lift like my life depends on it to get what's available to me. Always remember women love guys that are irrationally confident and more-so, guys whose physical presence can back that confidence up - try not to smile so much too, be charming but don't …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:04 PM
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Read the Side Bar. But first and foremost, remember that you are not just a male but you have to be a man. I have been there before. After you read the sidebar you will have a clearer idea of what is to be a man and realize that the first cardinal offence is paying this LTR/girl too much attention. Men have greater purposes of which flourishing is one of them. These are all roadblocks, impeding your journey to manhood. Goodluck
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:19 PM
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They were all trying to use me for one thing or another You have just put every relation I have had with women into context. What I have extrapolated from your comment is that if a guy wants to see what a woman really wants from him, toy around with the concept utility. Alter what you supply, more of this sometimes and more of that - how she reacts will give you a better idea of how to deal with her. i.e If you are unhelpful (low supply) and she reacts to that she wants you to be a beta provider…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:34 PM
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Golden, this is simply it. Society today makes us believe friendship has some magic intuitive force that binds two people when it's quite the opposite. A wealthy greek man once told me, ''if you cant be used, you are useless'', reiterating that if no benefit exists - there can be no friendship. However when it comes to women, be friends with them at your own peril because that benefit is usually one-sided and women are extremely effective in acquiring more than they paid for (The Beta Foundation…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:21 PM
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So so true! Precisely explains why you can meet a girl, not much transpires out of it, you think the girl is just ''cool and chilled'' but one your friends will tell you all the angles her legs went up in and you over-diagnose why you never saw that side of her yet it's simple! Be a ''cushion'' to a woman and she will rest on you. Be a '''bucking bull'' and she will ride the fuck out of you! Remember this too, ''Irrational self confidence, will get you more pussy than rational defeatism''.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:51 PM
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TRP is amazing, I literally thought there was something wrong with me because as a rule of thumb I will absolutely not tolerate dating a woman who finds it permissible to frequent nightclubs and even worse dance with other males. It happens all around me and everyone seems to think its ok , ''just having fun'' as they say? Really ? Not in my world, im not that blind. The Second a woman does anything that stimulates any sexual organ with any male other than her partner, its if you want to say ''a…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:02 AM
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Absolutely agree, im an African but live in Africa and I can't help but laugh at how easy AA's have it in America but yet are brainwashed by the media to always assume they are the victims. Most misfortune on their part in this day and age is through bad decisions and sadly structures have been systematically created to subsidize bad decisions. Us Africans from Africa do not know a single thing called welfare or food stamps or any of that stuff. Even with bad policies all we understand is simple…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:54 AM
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her knowing you have a plan with a reasonable probability of success Spot on. I might add that it takes some form of rational intelligence on the woman's part mixed with few viable and better options to the point that her leaving may also be risky. We can never precisely know what the woman was thinking too, who knows if she kicks herself for not leaving whilst there was something to salvage, maybe the guy may have hidden the extent of his downfall to the extent she never knew till he was on $0.…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:03 PM
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I've seen it happen in the UK, basically because the kids are in University and may still be living at home, those are the grounds that the woman gets awarded the home which ofcourse comes with restrictions for the man to visit. Plainly ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:53 PM
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Furthers my theory that we need to teach men to recognise and avoid bad personality traits in women/people rather than avoiding marriage altogether. And its so hard for the untrained male (worse for the Beta) to spot the Bat-Shit 110% type. The Bat-shit 110% type come on the strongest, have their sights firmly set so much that males misconstrue it as the strongest of love.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:42 PM
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People tread much more carefully around you when you look like you could knock them the fuck out. I think Arnold called it the "respect of size." Women notice this too, and it associates with the protective theory that women are attracted to men who can protect and provide. Lifting enhances your looks but I maintain that it also enhances your status especially given in a social scene where people are very careful to make sure they dont say the wrong thing to you. Bottom Line: Lift!
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:21 AM
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I second you here, I have been both sides of the coin and the treatment I received when I was physically in shape was distinctly different.After the swallowing TRP it made alot more sense. Lifting /being swole is a form of signalling. Most of the population can be lanky,its easy to be lanky. However, few have the ability to mobilize large masses with their bodies. This signals so many things, ability, resolve, discipline, ambition the list is endless but the beneifits are two pronged, outward an…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:51 AM
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Just reminded me of this guy Mister_keating, his looks resemble everything beta, a pushover but he hangs out with Dan Bilzerian who has some Alpha traits and enjoys all the fruits of being around a jerk.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:30 AM
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Hoow so?
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:33 PM
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''it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself.'' Wouldn't you say that excerpt goes against the idea of self improvement in that it reccomends that the focus must be on another goal or another person? But I guess,if you want to focus on another goal/cause/ person sometimes the immediate way to do it is self-improvement i.e If you want to better …
/r/askTRP21/05/15 01:33 PM
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I think you're reaching a plateau and I would suggest mindfulness may help overcome this, try meditating, to dissimilate things to their simplest form and proceed from there. Clarity and execution is what you would want to focus on. On exercising, try a new challenge maybe, go and do only bodyweight exercises lat in the night or something, to get out of a plateau you need to shock the system. All the best man
/r/askTRP21/05/15 01:01 PM
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Noted and appreciated, I have a similar experience to you. My fuel at this stage comes from 3 main sources, 2 girls who rejected me based on my masculinity and my mother who constantly berates me with comments such as ''who do you think you are?'' showing complete lack of confidence in me.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:52 PM
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Thanks so much, far too many times have I been focusing on motivation ahd hype and it makes sense that its short lived. When I did achieve things and was really alpha before an injury and my downard spiral, my progress was premised on Toil, commitment and Disclipline so I will revert back to reading and internalising discipline more. Because Im new and I assume you have been RP a while I want to find out, how far someone like you is and what you try and focus on?
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:50 PM
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