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There is a big discrepancy in this community in what is considered a plate and a lot of confusion stems from this. If OP had an arrangement going on with a fine lady, they met Tuesday nights, had a glass of wine, did the deed and then he left -> Go ahead and smash If OP had this one plate for a year, she is bestie with his mom and she went cold and fucked another dude (which she obviously did) -> Leave her on read
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:23 PM
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Is it possible that a girl waits a few dates to fuck you because you're high value and she doesn't want to look like an easy slut in your eyes? Yes absolutely. Most of the time not fucking on date number 1 or 2 comes from lack of escalation though. And when you haven't escalated / established yourself as fun and sexual right from the beginning, it is way harder to get there with that girl than it is to just get a new one. So for beginners this rule limits the energy they spend in girls that are …
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:02 PM
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You don't need a bibliography. A confident and athletic man, with passion, good career, high quality friends and proper spine, uses 80% of RP principles already. If you read all the books then you know it all, understand nothing and use even less. ​ Here is a easy to follow plan: Start going to the gym. Today. Never stop. Do this before you do anything else. Read the stickied post here and the sidebar. Read and implement the advice in these books in this order: _No more Mr. Nice Guy, Models by M…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:41 PM
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Do something scary every day. Something that gets you out of your comfort zone but start really really small and progress from there. It really depends where you confidence level is right now. A good start is to tell a girl a compliment while your passing her: "Love your shoes!" Tomorrow stop a girl and tell her: "I really love your shoes!" Day after stop a girl and ask her: "I really love the shoes, they fit your handbag so well. Are you interested in fashion?" Ladies can't say no to this quest…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:13 PM
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Only text for logistics. If you two have a good vibe face to face, why do try to build comfort via texting? If you see her within the next 2 days,stop texting and just ask her out then. If not ask her out via text now.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:03 PM
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Dare something everyday. Start very small and never end.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:58 PM
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Do you have high testosterone or do you assume you have? Friend of mine has had this crazy full beard since he was a teenager but had such low level that he is on a replacement therapy right now and it really changed his life for the better :)
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:56 PM
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I strongly disagree with your second point. OP should try to get another girl to go top-golfing with him but if he doesn't have anybody and she finds the time, then there is no harm in going out with her.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:27 PM
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I did martial arts for years and the two most valuable skills I learned were: 1. Keeping a cool head while deescalating situations. 2. Getting out of situations that are about to escalate.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:15 PM
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This is horrible advice. All you can gain is a measly plate but the risk to lose your momentum is immense when getting back together with an ex. Tell her you have appreciated the time but the two of you are just not compatible. You have moved on and she should respect that decision. Then block her ass immediately everywhere and never doubt this decision.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:55 AM
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I text as little as possible. If I wan't to set up plans, I just call the girl and make a plan. They can't leave you on read when they are on the phone, there is less time for doubt, she can't screenshot a call and send it to her girlfriends for an in-depth analysis and in my experience I get less flakes for plans that were set up via phone call.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:39 AM
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Invest in yourself Envision in depth the life you want to have in 5 years. Write it down. This should take >3h. Write down which habits you have to form to get there. >2h Write down which habits you have right now that hinder your development to get there. >1h Identify the triggers for your bad habits. You have to really self reflect here. Take your time. Write it down. >3h Prioritize your habits and their triggers by the impact they have on your life. Write it down. Some of your triggers are ac…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:27 AM
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What is the difference in banter and shit tests? What difference in your response does it make?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:35 AM
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Focus on your university and get top grades. This is your number one priority. The job market is really tough in Spain but with stellar grades you can pick the best jobs, get good cash and develop a great life in a few years. If you don't do this, you'll end up with a shitty perspective regarding your career and struggle for the rest of your life. Your second priority should be raising your SMV. If you have the body of a greek god and social hobbies, you meet girls and they will fancy you. Plate…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:31 AM
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Get a therapist and get a good one. Talk about your problems with the right people. Keep up what you do at all costs. When you have healed your soul you'll have a strong habits and you will not slip into destructive habits easily. And treating yourself well is always a good thing.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:17 AM
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In essence: Tailor your life so it suits your wishes. Make your wildest dreams reality. If you tailor it to get women you'll end up unhappy eventually. Here are some additional thinking points for you: - Do you want to live in a big city? - Do you have to drink to go out and party? - Do you have the balls for daygame? - What kind of life to you want in 5 years.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:05 AM
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She probably regretted the BJ. Improve your SMV and generate more options.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:54 AM
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All plates break eventually. Let me make this clear. Either you get involved romantically with them or they vanish from your life at some point. So invest accordingly to what you want from them. In my experience throwing a little and (I emphasize little here) comfort their way, eg. taking them on a "date" or gifting them some skittles, doesn't change the time when they brake. But if you do it right, you can fuck their friends as well.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:46 AM
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The applicable action to make game natural and effective is: be high value Lift, travel, have a good career, work on your social skills, become a rock-star in some field, network, interweave your network, create and deliver value for your inner circles. Grow your life on your terms and when you have abundance in opportunities, your time becomes sacred and you have to pick the best options. In regards to game this means you have to reject women left and right so you qualify them hard. Who are you…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:27 AM
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Establish comfort Establish attraction Isolate (invite her to your room) Escalate and smash Don't worry about your teinted reputation while your backpacking. If you'd invite girls regularly in your room, some will say yes, the rest will say no and some more will come and knock on your door, because they are young and horny and backpacking in Australia. And you don't need a room to smash backpackers anyway. The beach, showers and empty unlocked private rooms are your friend;)
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:37 AM
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I never listen when girls state their rules. I ignore most rules of everybody. Most people are inconsistent as fuck and when they say something like: I don't... What they are saying is: I want to be somebody who doesn't do...
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:29 AM
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If I can't escalate within the first two encounters, I just move on. Meeting the girl and either escalating or getting the contact. Setting up a date. Don't game that girls game. Just game her.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:14 AM
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80/20 applies here. Don't juice for the first 80% If you don't have the discipline to eat, sleep and lift properly, then you don't have the discipline to handle steroids. I think you there are two things you can do: Make sure you get proper rest. You can't work 6 days a week, train hard 6 days a week and sleep shitty 6 hours per night. Eat more. If you don't gain weight you don't eat enough.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:10 AM
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First mistake How can this linger in your mind for more than 0.5 seconds? How can you invest 2 minutes in formulating this mundane post? You have to apply the Pareto principle. Improve your behavior effectively. Second mistake She shit tested you and you qualified yourself to her. Give her a look that says STFU or don't engage at all Third mistake You stepped in her frame. Never do that. Exceptions could be temporarily made if a hot lady opens you.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:11 AM
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You can try to value women for qualities you wouldn't value in yourself. I appreciate when the ladies are childish and I appreciate their emotional view of the world. Einstein wrote: “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” I say: "If you judge women by their ability to be men, you'll never see their value."
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:24 AM
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I'd like to throw in here, that Chess GrandMaster have thirsty female groupies and with game they can capitalize on being the rockstars of their field.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:01 PM
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I lost a lot friends when I started following my dreams and in hindsight, it's painfully obvious to me that they were low quality. Regarding your family... Nobody shittested me as hard as my own mother when I started going to the gym and got bigger. I've just handled it like any other shit test and eventually, everybody in my family ended up being happy about my changes.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:52 PM
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You completely miss the point here. You suck with women in general. Speaking with 5 women while being in college for 3 months shows that you have to work on your life. And that is why SirKolbath tells you to read the sidebar and work on your life.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:40 PM
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To answer your question, no she wouldn't. Most women don't bring home a cuckoo child. And if you get a DNA test, which you always should, you can't be fooled nowadays. Being in a relationship creates a lot of comfort which is working for you when she compares you with other males in your league but works against you in your goals and discipline to get them, which can diminish or even destroy your SMV. Think of staying on the couch with her instead of hitting the gym.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:29 PM
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There is no general answer. It depends on your personality, her personality, the previous dynamic and most of all context. You need good social and communication skills, asses the situation and adapt your strategy accordingly. I might say:"boring!", and STFU after that. But this only works, when you are fun and she has had qualified herself for being boring, which means she is self-conscious about it. If she goes skydiving eight times a week this won't work.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:58 PM
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I recommend Anki and POLAR for note taking and getting information into your long term memory. However you should actively summarize ideas and the implication they have on your life. But reading is like 5% and taking action is the rest. You should have a 5 years vision, 1 year plan, quarterly goals and keep track of this weekly (in best case with a mentor or an ambitious buddy). This works for me right now. Other people probably need a 10 year vision...
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:39 AM
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Think about this. You hook up with this chick and she thinks she is hot shit. But you get soft while doing the deed and now she has this little voice in the back of her head: Mabye it's because I'm ugly/fat/have uneven nipples And she/her hamster blames you for that bad feeling. You should probably just ignore her. If you want to put in that effort and stroke your ego -> I did this years ago in a quite similar situation: - Tell her it was nice with her but you just didn't feeel it in bed. This p…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:25 AM
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Your probably 21 right now. That shit happens a lot... If you have the courage, talk to your friends and you will here plenty of stories likes those.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:15 AM
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You missed your shot - you simply didn't escalate hard enough. If you didn't get overtly rejected, you didn't escalate hard enough. Here is what you can do: - Friendzone that girl, but keep "gaming" her. Show high value and probably highlight that you're a fun guy while downplaying the beta bux aspect. - Use her to broaden your social circle and game her colleagues.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:04 AM
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