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alwayslearninggame/r/seduction12/08/19 07:54 PM
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alwayslearninggame/r/seduction12/08/19 07:42 PM
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alwayslearninggame/r/seduction19/08/19 02:49 AM
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Oh the Walmart. The problem with Walmart is the shift. It's like going to the zoo. A 4 in the real world looks like a 8 in a Walmart. My friends refer to this syndrome as the "Walmart 10 principal" as in a perfect 10 at Walmart would be maybe average at the local JC (Junior College). Never hit on a female in Walmart...at least let them come out into the light first.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:20 PM
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I use sentences when I'm not texting.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:17 PM
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You're already broken: "follow on insta" "absolutely gorgeous and exactly my type" . She already knows you're a pussy. That ship has sailed. You don't have the balls to approach her and "I am not great with flirting in the first place. " How would a date even go if she was drunk enough to say yes? You can't hit a 6mph fastball and want to go to the majors. Every woman wants to go out with an underconfident boy that can't say anything right to her....you would be a story she told her friends on h…
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:12 PM
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She's probably not thinking of fucking you while she's telling you how her marriage tanked... Be fun. Have fun.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:04 PM
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What should I text her? Something that embraces something you spoke about that you have in common and is light hearted. And is it better to ask her out in the first text? You are posting on Reddit: you clearly do not have the balls to pull that off. I'm gonna suggst an activity but is it a good idea to provide two options and let her choose? Be the man, set up the date: no more of this pitter pattering around pussy footing. By the time you figure out your shit some other guy will have sunk her b…
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:01 PM
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Watch Anthony Hopkins movies and learn to speak like him.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:56 AM
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Why label it beforehand? Just have fun and see if you have any sort of connection. Determine what you do next based on where you are in life and where it goes with that person.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:54 AM
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2 years. If they really like you, they will remember.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:52 AM
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There's a big difference between dating a girl and keeping a girl. If you're trying to keep girls half your age, you may want to figure out what is psychologically doing this. They shouldn't, on average, be mentally stimulating for you.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:50 AM
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The fact that you don't have the balls to directly approach her makes this already a fail. I'd leave it if you like shopping there. If you're going to be stupid, you might as well be funny. Fill a hand basket with eggplants and ask her if she likes emojis.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:45 AM
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Learn how to flirt. Learn how to be indirect. Learn what your limits are and how to stay at the line. Make sexual thoughts be part of the norm of the conversation. Ex. I was sitting next to a woman Friday and we were watching a scary movie. I noticed she had a roll of duct tape under the table. I picked it up, looked her in the eyes, and "said put out your wrists". I knew her boundaries, she's super vanilla and wouldn't do that, but she did smile and say, "you're super kinky, arn't you". She has…
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:28 AM
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Why do you look away as I lock eyes with them?
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:55 PM
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How about read the room and be natural.
/r/seduction15/08/24 11:26 PM
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Clearly you should give up on this. The fact that you are asking this here means there are a lot of girls who look under their bed and check their closets hoping you're not in their room....
/r/seduction30/05/24 01:23 AM
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You say, "Next". If you want to waste your time on her, look up cat string theory. Who said you did anything wrong? "I don’t know what I did wrong in the first place." It sucks but the only thing that you are doing wrong is dwelling.
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:01 PM
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Live your life first. I'm out with my friends and a girl text me...she can wait. How would act if you had 10 of her hitting you up? I'd go microwave some pizza and have a beer. Then I'd play video games for a while. Then fold some laundry. Then I'd be like she's kinda cool I should hit her up so we can have fun together. That's the key I always forget with chicks. It's supposed to be fun...if it's not then other things are more fun.
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:50 AM
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There are two things I'm working on with that as well. I remind myself that we're in the bubble. There's me and a girl and everything outside of that bubble is outside. Girls are much better at knowing we're "in the moment". I don't know how many times I've walked off and then went "she wanted me to kiss her" or "she was waiting for me to say something". Guys have to focus and be there. That's why the smile and eye contact thing is so important: it initiates the bubble. I'm hoping this makes sen…
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:39 AM
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Dude, you're sitting by the phone....literally. You sound needy she smells needy on you. She could be in a movie, ate bad Taco Bell, any number of things. Focus on some other shit for a day or two. Don't respond till she does. She'll wonder what happened to you if she's interested. I don't use texting except for building comfort (ie tinder) where I haven't met yet or for girls I picked up, and for logistics. The average hot girl is getting texts from 10+ guys that want to hit it. You text too mu…
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:28 AM
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Tell her you only want to put it in uncomfortable places. She says no. She'll tell her friends and your value just went up. She says yes and you own her ass...literally. I agree with audrey. If you want to be a friend. Be honest. If you're looking for a slump buster, it just fell in your lap. You own what you do.
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:13 AM
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Picture her taking a dump before you speak. If there's a freezer near by, stick your head in there for a minute (before you see her). The cold resets all the adrenaline. (No I'm not joking.) It helps me to have some canned stuff for that....some situational starters. How did your....go? or some kind of opinion question. I find that when I walk up and I have something to say...conversation just follows.
/r/seduction26/08/19 04:10 AM
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settle for a regular dude - change your mindset bro The way to open a girl is to smile and make eye contact. Use your "I know you have a secret" smile. If you have that down, you can say a lot of dumb openers and not blow yourself out. Learn push pull or cat string theory. Compliment but don't go for the looks. Best openers are conditional to what's happening (observational) or a compliment....their style or something not just any jackass would say....like something bla bla bla eyes.... "I'm gla…
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:59 AM
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1 . ezjtoken got it down: Get a new haircut, shave, and just put yourself out there. A women isn’t going to fall on your dick. As long as you smell good, approach enough girls you can eventually get a chick Also wear clothes that fit right. If you really care about your looks, hit the gym and stop smoking weed. I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that your college has more than 200 people. You don't sound like a party guy...you could learn to be....but for now....learn some day game. I'm 42…
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:41 AM
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I would say, "are you trying to seduce me Mrs. Robinson".
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:01 AM
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My one lately: Hi _____ . What adventures have you gone on this summer? I also try to calibrate based on the pics. I move a lot faster with girls that have DTF pics (not to be confused with "I want validation pics") or girls who use the word "we" really quickly. I like to use their name. They get a lot of chain letters from guys who cut and paste. I also like to get them to think about fun times and talk about them. Most guys go with commenting their looks right off the bat. I also can turn it a…
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:30 AM
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"Also, she's not looking for a BF right now, so I'm shooting for platonic friendship at the very least. I don't want to turn her off from that by sending something that might make her think I'm trying to flirt." - You're friendzoning yourself. Take selfies of doing cool things. Present the lifestyle not your inner game problems. She sends you pics you send pics back....unless you just want to validate her....
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:14 AM
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You know I have x-rated vision....
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:19 PM
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Thanks !!!!
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:56 PM
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I usually make out on the couch or somewhere "safe". When they start feeling me up, I grab them by the hand and lead them into the bedroom. I escalate from there. I also agree with FairAnalyst about the massage. Take it real slow. I follow arteries: that's where the most nerve endings are. You can go from inside her shoulder all the way to her hand. Hold her hand and build trust. Do the same thing on the inside of her legs when you get there. A lot of girls will open their legs a little. I then …
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:35 AM
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I'd use something from the Snickers Satisfies commercials...
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:59 AM
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How far you get?
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:54 AM
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You don't deserve the first girl. The looks of the second girl doesn't matter...what matters is that she knowingly cheated with you. She will cheat on you. lol
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:43 AM
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Option 1: You tell her how you feel and tell her you can't see her for a while, while you get your head straight. Option 2: You tell her how you feel and go for broke. You gamble your friendship if it works or if it doesn't. Option 3: You get some game and seduce her. You gamble your friendship if it works or if it doesn't. Option 4: Suck it up buttercup.
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:58 AM
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escalation Starchy's Encyclopaedia of Kino
/r/seduction14/08/19 08:10 AM
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I intend to ask her. The problem is that it will blow stuff up more when I bring it up. My best guess would be that when I asked her out: I broke all the PUA common sense rules and scared her. We were in the office and I asked her what days she had off. She said why. I told her because I'm trying to ask you out. She said Wednesday night was good. I said cool. She asked what to wear. I said she needed to dress nice enough that I could take her to a nice place and that she should wear shoes that s…
/r/seduction13/08/19 07:42 AM
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You need to be true to yourself first. Write down what makes you an awesome person and look at that when you wake up. Go to the mall and find a hot looking retail girl. Tell her that you have a date and ask her what would look good on you. Make sure what she picks is congruent with you...and buy it. Have one outfit that makes you look good. Then practice smiling and making eye contact with girls. Just do it. There are 100 more steps but start with that...
/r/seduction22/06/19 05:04 AM
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Your ideas are not bad but I should have specified that we are both 16yo. Do you have any advices for younger dates You mention something super low key...a place you would go with your friends to have fun....don't think a date place: Think to yourself: She's going to go somewhere to hang out with a super cool guy. Ask her when she's around/available. You can meet/pick her up at ___time, at ___place to do, ___fun thing." Make it super straight forward: 1) girls get scared easily 2) be specific an…
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:11 PM
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I'd dip on her for a week or so. See if she misses you. When she freaks out, take her some place mellow. Look at her like she isn't your friend. Lots of coy smiles, eye contact, and flirting. You'll know pretty quickly if she's in to you. If she's showing real interest, escalate, isolate, and tell her you're really interested in seeing how she kisses...
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:44 AM
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Next he as fast as you can in your mind. The amount you overthink this is obsessive. You don't want to be thinking about every like, post, or text. Live life have fun. Meet a girl that is sending you nude snaps and is in the IG pictures with you that other people are liking....
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:18 AM
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Don't get too drunk next time...
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:08 AM
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"You look like a normal girl. I just moved here (point to where you live) and I'm wondering what places you think are cool to hang out at." Find common ground. Make a date or say you'll be at ___bar she mentioned on ___day @ ___time and you wouldn't mind seeing her there...
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:55 AM
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Maybe blow it up a couple of times to get those thoughts out of your head. Do these and you'll get faster quickly or learn how to duck. Good openers for this: ​ me "Have you ever had sex on weed, man?" or me "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?" girl "why" me "Because it looks like you landed on your face."
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:45 AM
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You shouldn't change your plans. She can smell that you are needy. She wants to have fun...not meet a guy that already likes her too much. ​ She may not want to go out with you. There IS NO DATE without a specific time and location. I fell into this trap before. The deferred date just lets her not feel the anxiety yet. She a 60% chance of flaking: I wouldn't lose sleep over her. ​ Do this before the weekend and do not contact her other than this before the date! : Your best bet to be a high valu…
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:24 AM
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Don't poop where you eat. Work chicks are bad deals... She's trying her hardest if she said what you typed verbatim. You have a window before she gives up....I'd go up to her the next time I saw her and say, "I haven't a boyfriend either you should buy me a drink". You would need to smile make good eye contact and wink and say it with congruency.
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:59 AM
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She is one of the thirty people you hit up this week. You don't ever remember texting her. You make good eye contact smile and hit up a topic you had at your last encounter. Get her to go somewhere with you (instadate). Plan B. Work into the conversation to find something you're doing that she's interested in and tell her she could swing by if she wants. Plan C. Or find something that she likes to do and mention it is on your bucket list this summer. If she's down ask her what her week looks lik…
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:47 AM
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A set is a group. Most girls arn't alone. Two set could be 2 girls or 1 girl 1 boy. Three set three girls, or 2 girls one boy, or 1 girl and two boys.....4 set, 5 set, more.. Baby steps. I would practice smiling and making eye contact and saying something. Your first missions are to get a girl to smile back. Your second missions are to get a response from a statement or question. You could be like "You look like normal girls. I have a date tomorrow night. Where do you think I could find somethin…
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:35 AM
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No low key restaurants that have some sort of live music or ambience? Get a drink and an app. If she's cool go for a walk and see if there's something that clicks for where to go....If she's lame use the walk to walk her back to her car. I look online and see what local events are happening every night. It doesn't have to be super cool....I've had girls interested after going to a farmer's market...it's more of the conversation than the venue. I also have a list of standbys: the best vista spots…
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:19 AM
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Can't get an Uber and meet her half way?
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:09 AM
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Maybe I don't understand but a girl you barely know is supposed to go up a mountain with you? This is how Law and Order SVU Episodes begin....not trying to be mean or anything. First Date - KISS Keep it simple s..... Make sure there is a specific: a) opening in their schedule b) time c) place (probably public at first then try to iso) Try to minimize their ability to flake...
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:58 AM
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Instead of checking me out on facebook....Buy me a drink and maybe I'll sing for you.
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:46 AM
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