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Ultimately, it's your call. Only you know if the issues can be worked out, preferably through couples therapy. If she's not messing with you, it's almost as though she's baiting you to talk to her.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/18 03:41 AM
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Did she have a history of bullying you or playing you? She either misses your or she enjoys toying with you. Either way, there's a reason(s) why she's your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/18 03:32 AM
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Don't take her back. Also, don't be alone. Get therapy. Seek out friends and family, and set goals. She probably wants you to seek her out. Don't.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/18 04:21 PM
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Yup. I was browsing TMZ, and he knocked up some billionaire heiress from Europe. He paid off his previous "baby mama", so that he could bring his son to Europe. Dude was a gang banger before that picture. Fame is a fickle thing.
/r/MensRights16/08/18 08:39 PM
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They're almost celebrated in some circles online when they're attractive too.
/r/MensRights16/08/18 05:19 AM
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Can you cast a spell on my STBX?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/18 05:22 AM
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Sure it does, because some people believe wealth cures most ills. Suggesting that most problems revolve around money is a generalization, and ambitious at best. I doubt Bourdain or Spade killed themselves over money.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 05:34 PM
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Despite wealth and social standing, we all have the same problems. Some folks are just better at hiding them.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 04:30 PM
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Following this one.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/18 01:43 PM
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You as well. It's important to not let the kids suffer more, nor bash the other parent. Seems your ex will do enjoy to harm her position. Be careful.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/18 03:35 AM
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Good. I wish you the best of luck. I'm going through a divorce/laid off last year, and some other bs, but your situation is tougher than mine. At least my nutjob of an ex and I can agree, for the most part on the kids. I'm not sad about the divorce, although I do like having that partner in life, losing time with my kids hurts. If they can prob she's a whack job and using the kids to hurt you by limiting time with them, that will definitely hurt her. While it's not always easy for dads to get re…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/18 02:36 AM
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Can you get records of these false police reports? I would think all these bogus claims would show a judge how unstable she is mentally.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/18 02:08 AM
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I might be wrong, but think moving out wasn't the best choice until you lawyered up. Might hurt you in custody, depending on what arrangement you're seeking.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/18 05:01 AM
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Look at this as a chance to reinvent yourself. That's what I'm hitching my ride too. My marriage was a mistake, outside of my kids. Like you, I've made some poor career choices and made me even more miserable. Reboot and move forward.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/18 04:56 AM
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Temp parenting orders and temp orders on bills. My freaking attorney has never mentioned doing these, and my wife was living out of state when I filed.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/18 06:34 PM
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Definitely, start meeting with attorneys. I'm going through the same thing, plus loss of job due to outsourcing. I'd suggest getting a therapist for the anxiety. Mine has been really bad lately, to the point of panic attacks.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/18 06:33 PM
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Sorry, but I couldn't trust her. She needs therapy, not that everyone doesn't need it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/18 03:13 AM
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I'm definitely keeping her, just for peace of mind. So many give me their advice, but they're biased in my favor (relatives). Lawyer gives me the truth and allows me to call her on her b.s.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/17 04:33 PM
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As much as my lawyer seems to be solid, it's thousands I'm going to piss away.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/17 08:07 PM
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I appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/17 03:17 AM
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At least you have your kids. That's all I want in mine
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/17 05:47 AM
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Thanks!
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/17 02:57 PM
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Have you been married or just guessing?
/r/seduction21/03/16 07:04 PM
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No problem. You took a huge step in the right direction. As you know, there will be girls that like you, that you don't like. Attraction is what is it is.
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:54 PM
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Not stupid. If you don't ask, you'll never know. If she says no, there's always other girls to ask. Maybe she's nervous, maybe she has a boyfriend, or she wants to tell you no in a gentle way. Don't sweat it.
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:43 PM
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Gotta walk before you can run. Making an approach puts you ahead of 95% of the guys out there.
/r/seduction19/12/15 05:58 PM
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Spot on advice!
/r/seduction11/12/15 05:27 PM
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How much do you masturbate? That can absolutely affect your sex drive.
/r/seduction11/12/15 05:27 PM
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I'd tell girls, he's just as nervous and afraid as you are. If you're interested, don't be afraid to initiate conversation, and expect he might be awkward in his response until he gets comfortable.
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:46 PM
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Are there clubs, coed sports? Just get out there and realize they're as nervous as you are.
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:21 AM
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Like anything else, practice will only make you better at it. The fact that you conquered your fear, will serve you well in the future. Taking that step to try, and possibly fail, puts you ahead of 90% of guys out there. Certainly wish I had the balls to approach when I was a much younger man.
/r/seduction22/10/15 03:03 PM
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That they're as nervous as you are. No need to be afraid or intimidated by them, just start with hello.
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:53 PM
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I can understand someone being intimidated by a doctor, when you're both essentially on a date interview, which is what a first date often feels like. Good that you can still access your inner child. Too many adults lose that ability, or it's tainted by them always feeling like they can't act that way, and have a childlike joy or fun.
/r/seduction19/09/15 05:26 PM
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She's nuts, and you're smoother than you think you are. Then again, when you have nothing to lose, most tend to relax, and game flows easier.
/r/seduction19/09/15 03:35 PM
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Wisdom though experience. Regret SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Trust me when I say this. "Life moves fast, especially once you have kids. " Couldn't wait to hit 21, seemed like it took forever. Couldn't wait to get older. Hit 25, still felt like life would be a long, long, ride. 30. Ok, now I'm really an adult. 31, had my first kid. Last 15 years have flown by. 46 now, and life seems to be flying by. Trying to pump the brakes. Some really good times, some shitty ones, and some never experienced be…
/r/seduction19/09/15 01:36 PM
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As a 46 year old guy, life is too short, go for it. If you like her, tell her. Don't wait. F the seduction and alpha crap. She obviously likes you, enough to spend more time driving around. Every time you bring someone new into your life, it's as though they're a tour guide, taking you on a journey. New things, new places, new experiences. You never know how long it's going to last, or how great it's going to be. However, if you don't take that chance, you'll never know how great it could be. Yo…
/r/seduction19/09/15 01:28 PM
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You're overthinking it. If you like her, tell her. Call or text her, and thank her for the car ride, and tell her you had fun. Don't get caught up on making the move. Sometimes you just need to enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction19/09/15 12:45 PM
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You're ahead of 99% of guys just by that simple action.
/r/seduction22/08/15 06:47 PM
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Kids doesn't mean cougar. Just my .02, as it's just semantics. I will accept MILF. Lol
/r/seduction08/08/15 02:43 AM
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Since when are cougar 35?
/r/seduction08/08/15 02:37 AM
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Agreed. The word alpha is tired too. Alpha denotes d-bag. Some guys think alpha means being one one thing, but alpha is more a mind set of being confident in oneself, without being a d-bag with others. I can't stand that word. Confident, strong, but also willing to be compassionate and understanding with those around them, that's the definition of alpha IMO. Too many seeing it as being the one upper, and dumping on everyone else around them, with a singular goal in mind.
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:37 PM
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I like this advice but it can be phrased better. "Do you have a phone number" yields two possible outcomes. She says yes and she says no. If she says she's not comfortable giving you her number don't continue pressing for contact information. She's not interested, move on. Exactly, those are close ended questions. Open ended are preferred. Most guys, if she says no, will probably stand there dumbfounded. Bingo on second point. There are plenty of women/girls out there. If she says no, move on
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:59 PM
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Exactly. Don't be a creep, relax, and smile. Making an approach is probably 90% of the battle, and will put you ahead of most guys. If you get shot down, oh well, you got some practice in.
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:18 PM
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taking the risk and dealing with the rejection is all awesome and you should be proud that you got there. That right there. If I only had the balls to just talk to women I felt were interested. The guts to deal with rejection and realize it's not personal. Every girl that's been attracted to me I have haven't been attracted to, and the same way with women/girls I've been attracted to. Keep plugging away, and you'll be fine. 90% of the battle is talking to them, and have the balls to go for it, i…
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:16 PM
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How about instead of worrying about "staying alpha" you instead just worry about being happy with who you are. Will lead to a lot less stress and will make you a much better person than trying to fit some ridiculous male stereotype that you think women are attracted to. Amen. I hate that word ALPHA. You changed some of your behaviors that some women will be attracted to, but it's more your confidence that wowed her, and not some alpha bs you think is what worked. Unless she's has absolutely zero…
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:14 PM
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She said YES but I'll prob ignore her for a few days cus that's what seductive people do right? No, don't be THAT guy. The seduction stuff is good for getting normal shy guys some game, but don't wait. You don't have to call her two minutes from the time she leaves, but don't follow those rules to the letter. Call her the next day, even just to chat. At some point, if this develops into a real relationship, and that's what most guys want at some point, you're going to want to show who you really…
/r/seduction21/07/15 11:59 AM
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Great advice. TRYING to be aloof will just blow up in your face. Relax, and have fun.
/r/seduction03/07/15 06:30 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I CAN'T STAND the whole Alpha bs, as most of them are just paper tigers. Confidence is key, in whatever you do, but there's true confidence, and fakes.
/r/seduction03/07/15 06:29 PM
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I've wishlished that book, and gonna grab a copy soon. This is a bad habit of mine that I want to conquer. edit: turns out I already have it on Kindle, it just had a different cover. I know what I'm reading this weekend.
/r/seduction03/07/15 06:17 PM
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