So me and my wife have been married for 9 years in 2 days. We have two young daughters who I love more then anything in the world and as of right now I haven't got to see them in 2 weeks and it's killing me to be away from them. We also have a 17 year old that was 4 when we got together and I have raised like my own since then. About 5 years back my daughter told me she went with Mom and met some guy that she was hugging and kissing. She was only 4 at the time so my wife dismissed it and said she was just making stuff up and that she did meet a friend but she didn't hug or kiss him and that in fact he was gay. I didn't really believe her but at this point I thought we had a good relationship and chose to take her for her word and left it alone. Then it happened, a little over 2 years ago she left her phone out and it was sitting right next to me when she got a text from the man she was having an affair with. After opening her phone I found months of conversations she had been having with him about her sneaking to his house before work almost every day and was full of very explicit things they were doing. I told her I wanted a divorce and we were done but after weeks of her begging for forgiveness and many promises she made we ended up staying together. I wish I would of ended it then but the thought of not having my family was too much and I thought it was going to be better. She came up with ideas to make me stay like making a Facebook together since that's were she contacted this guy mostly and she had me put a program on her phone that let me track her and seen every text she made and every call she made. I told her I didn't know how I would ever grow to trust her again but having these things made me feel a little better. So as time went on I felt we were getting a stronger relationship going again and but then she took everything off her phone and took me off the Facebook and started saying I was a stalker and she needed freedom. I agreed and everything felt better for awhile but then a couple of months ago she started saying I never let her go anywhere and she started getting up and leaving on the weekends before me or the kids would wake and not coming home until late at night saying all kinds of lies about where she had been. After a couple weeks of this I told her she was not going to just leave me with the girls and go run off so she started taking them with her and making the girls lie to me about where they were. I ended up finding out the guys name because my daughter out of the blue tells me that she went with Mom on a "field trip" to a mans house and told me his name. I confronted my wife and she told me she was making stuff up again but with little effort I found this guy on Facebook with pictures of him and my wife and my kids all over his Facebook from over a month back. So after finding this she calls the police and tells them that I hit her and have threatened her and the kids. The police come and talk to us and after all is said and done she ends up leaving and says she is taking the kids to be with him. The cops knew she was lying and there was not even a report made because my girls told the police I didn't do any of things she was trying to say. Over these couple months of lies she kept telling me if I didn't like what she was doing then I could just leave but I was trying to fix it and she just kept saying if you don't like it get your clothes and leave but that the judge would have to decide who would get what so I better not take anything out of the house. So after she told me she was moving in with him I changed the locks to the house and told her she could either bring the police with her to supervise and get what she needed or I could bring whatever she needed to her. Instead the next day she came home and kicked the door in and said she was not leaving and that I needed to leave or she was going to call the cops and tell them I hit her again. So that's what she did she called and said I had punched her and threw her down which was an absolute lie. The police came out again and the cops actually made her leave again because she had no marks and they didn't believe her. After that I decided I had to leave or she was just going to keep doing this until the right cop showed up to our house and I would get locked up because of her lies. So I left my home and kids to try to get away from her and a day or two later she started just completely ignoring all communication and would not respond to me at all. I kept asking her to come see the girls and talk about divorce and trying to do it amicably. Instead a couple days later she went and told even more lies and got an injunction on me saying that I had threatened to kill her and the kids that I had a violent criminal history had been Baker acted before and all kinds of other lies to build this case up against me so that she can get my kids and make it look like I am some kind of monster. I have zero criminal history never been Baker acted or hurt or threatened her or my children ever. She has had a terrible work history since we have been together with no job ever lasting more then a few months except 2 where she would bounce around to different departments right before she was fired from one to keep at that place. But even those were like 16 and 18 months. She was making decent money but was fired from her job a few months back and now has a crap job making over 5 bucks an hour less then she was and now is probably going to try to get custody of my kids and support and alimony since she makes so much less now. I have a lawyer and so does she but how scared should I be? I miss my kids so much and I hope the hearing coming up for the injunction goes well and that I can see them again soon. But she probably will just keep trying to get me locked up to build her case. What do you guys think will happen? We really don't have much as far as assets and I make the same money she did before getting fired and taking this new job. Ive been at my job for almost 10 years and I want to have custody of my kids and make her pay alimony to me but all I ever hear is horror stories about what happens to the father's in divorce and am so scared sad and hurt. I am sorry for rambling on but I just don't know what to expect and am scared as hell right now. Just wondering what some others opinions might be out there because I am devastated and scared.