amethyst-golem Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
57	I'm hurt, but I 100% made the right decision	LEVEL UP	amethyst-golem	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 06:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its Subtlety A very good HVW friend of mine told me many years ago, "if they're not fuck yes, then it's no." I've tried my best to live by that and it has served me very well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 06:09 PM
28	Tired of NVM posts.Let's hear your queen ish! I just bought my first home in October, and for the first time in my life I'm living completely by myself. And ladies, it. Is. AMAZING. I've been spending the last few months fixing, painting, decorating, and making this home truly mine, and it's been a fantastic experience. I'm learning a lot of skills and having so much fun, and the idea that I can change my space at a whim just delights me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 04:38 PM
4	Always have your own What a bouquet of red flags. All the early signs of what could turn into an incredibly abusive marriage. Controlling finances, vehicles, OP didn't mention any friends, so possibly cutting contacts? Or making her unable to create any. And controlling her independence in so many ways. Run, sis. Worked with battered women for years and this is how probably 95% of the cases I had started.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 05:59 PM