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Story time ☕amievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:24 PM
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PICKME CULTUREamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:41 AM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:35 PM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:27 AM
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RANTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:36 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:23 PM
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LIES MEN TELLamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:08 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:00 PM
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Story time ☕amievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:47 PM
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STRATEGYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:27 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:24 AM
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PICKME CULTUREamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:51 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:13 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:53 PM
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BOOK REPORTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:46 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:46 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:10 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:25 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:52 AM
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STRATEGYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:46 PM
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BOOK REPORTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:40 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:57 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:48 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?amievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:30 AM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:20 AM
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How-To High Valueamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:08 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:55 PM
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RANTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:41 PM
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SCROTES MADamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:42 PM
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False Accusationamievenreal99/r/MensRights12/12/20 01:43 PM
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BOOK REPORTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:57 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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PICKME CULTUREamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:39 AM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:37 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?amievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:26 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:13 PM
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SCROTES MADamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:24 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:58 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:29 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:34 AM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:01 AM
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BOOK REPORTamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:36 AM
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NAH, SISamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:17 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:39 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:22 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:23 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:23 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:51 PM
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FDS HUMORamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:34 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?amievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:28 AM
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STRATEGYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:11 PM
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SCROTES MADamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:59 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:18 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYamievenreal99/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1xxcKCGljY I just remembered this video by Contrapoints, and thought of our conversation.
/r/MensRights13/12/20 01:12 AM
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So you would say that these toxic traits are not what traditionally define masculinity?
/r/MensRights12/12/20 10:07 PM
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You are free to like whatever you want, as long as it does not harm others. Being a mother or a careerwoman. Or both. Or being a man who loves being jacked up, or being a man who loves being more feminine. What is not alright is a system that encourages boys to ridicule, dominate, oppress both women and each other. Shaming a man for having been sexually assaulted, pressuring young students into always writing A+, encouraging peers to be destructive, having to fear to be excluded from the group w…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 09:12 PM
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Before going off, I wanted to say that I wish you and all men out there to find their way to break destructive social norms and to self-love. Because how you love yourself is what you send out. And self-loathing never leads to anything but destruction, for both yourself and others.
/r/MensRights12/12/20 08:57 PM
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There is something I would describe as toxic femininity, which is traditionally different from toxic masculinity. After all, we raise boys differently than girls, though these things are slowly changing, which I am happy about. The idea that your appearance is all that's important. That marriage is the end goal and having kids is the ultimate dream. That other women are rivals on the "marriage market". Those things are what I would call toxic femininity. Did you ever feel like "Why am I supposed…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 08:22 PM
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I have edited my comment, because I saw that it was lacking in explanation, and added your answer to that, too.
/r/MensRights12/12/20 08:05 PM
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Toxic masculinity does not mean that being a man is bad. It means that as a society, we are encouraging ideals for men that are toxic (to both men and women). Like the ones above. Toxic masculinity encourages rape, laughs about it, says it's "manly" to be raped and calls men who report it "gay". Toxic masculinity also threatens and intimidates other men in order to force them to join in their destructive behaviour. Many young men who would be appalled by destructive behaviour of other men, decid…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 07:50 PM
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Male victims of rape face several issues. Just like female victims of rape, glorification. The "prison rape" meme is just as popular as the "stepsister rape" one. The rape / coercion category on pornhub is more popular than ever, as well, which is deranged. Dismissal. They either are supposed to think about and enjoy at all times of the day, and if they don't they are not men and something is wrong with them. "Haha, I would have loved to be raped by that hot teacher, what are you talking about".…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:46 PM
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This is not a game. I'm not here to win.
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:37 PM
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Thought so. As someone who cares deeply for anyone suffering injustice, I feel both disgusted and ashamed about how evil this community is. It's not just that you hate women and want to spread your agenda as much as possible. You don't give two shits about men's issues either. Men's issues only exist for you to be abused as strawmans in order to storm and hijack female struggle discussions and bombard with whataboutism. But when someone actually comes and wants to talk about it, and actively ask…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:29 PM
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Do you want to talk about male rape victims now, without insulting each other and assuming things?
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:23 PM
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Do you want to talk about male rape victims now?
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:17 PM
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So, just to make sure I followed, did we stop caring about male victims of abuse and rape now, and are jumping to the next topic? Is that all male victims are to you - something we grab out of our closet when we want to storm feminist subs and say "what about men", but other than that not really care about it?
/r/MensRights12/12/20 06:08 PM
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What happened to male victims of rape and violence?
/r/MensRights12/12/20 05:48 PM
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Because most of the time, those attempts are the issues abused as whataboutisms on a post about a woman's issue (hence, used to silence women on their own issues), instead of men actually dedicating time and effort to discuss that actual issue. And if they really cared about these issues, instead of just abusing them as strawmans to silence women, they would actively talk about them and discuss them. However, even on most men's subs, such as MGTOW, most of the time it is men bitching about women…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 05:38 PM
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bring up men's issues only to be shut down and said no, we're only going to talk about things that impact women A "What about men?" simply doesn't belong into a sub dedicated to women's issues discussing specific female issues. It deserves its own talk. Even if men's issues are acknowledged, it's blamed on the Patriarchy. In other words, it's always the fault of men, even if it's harming men. Men seeking power by humiliation not only over women, but over other men as well, and oppressing them, a…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 05:27 PM
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It isn't men storming spaces about female issues Isn't that what literally happened in this post? And not even just storming female places, but hijacking them as well: https://www.reddit.com/r/BanFemaleHateSubs/comments/kbs4oc/mainstream_feminist_subs_are_run_by_misogynists/ Bringing up men's issues when it's not just in order to derail the conversation and silence women, but when you actually care about those enough to make a post dedicated to it, is when we will happily talk about these issues…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 05:13 PM
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You're derailing, and I'm not biting. "These people" do not get upset because you talk about women being rapists and men being victims, but you only bringing it up when it is about men raping women in order to derail the conversation and shut up women. Read more slowly, maybe you will understand. I will happily talk about the effects of violence with you, and how both genders can be affected. I will not happily do it when you only bring it up in order to derail a conversation about female victim…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 04:31 PM
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As a lurking "one of these people": We care about sexual violence coming from any gender, and directed towards any gender. However, it would be delusional to deny that perpetrators in most cases tend to be men. "These people" do not get upset because you talk about women being rapists and men being victims, but you only bringing it up when it is about men raping women in order to derail the conversation and shut up women. And in this case it was specifically about how men are protected with excu…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 03:11 PM
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brb Xposting on mensrights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:40 PM
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Rapists everywhere, holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:31 AM
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If you want to go to that place, go to sleep, or start a revolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:14 AM
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A man will expect you to take care of the child, give up your career, do his household, please him after work, too. He will then proceed to leave you for a younger one or "because he has so much responsibility with you after you ask him to take out the trash once", and complain if you ask for financial support for the child, because him being expected to send 50 bucks for his child living with their mum is "a woman being a golddigger". Of course, it is fully expected that she will, after she gav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:00 AM
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Gaslighting and dumb fucking bullshit is a males expertise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:13 PM
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May I ask where you are from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:02 PM
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True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:50 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:13 AM
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I had to look up the Gulabi gang and fell in love. The sad part is that all my hobbies, my job and my company are basically 100% male. I am the only woman in class, at my job (I work + study in IT) and my hobby is competitive gaming mostly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:01 AM
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I must say, I made some bad experiences with female OBGYNs too, namely "I know what that feels like, it can't be all that painful". Still, I don't want a man anywhere near my private parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:35 AM
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I must admit that I was probably one of the biggest pickmes in my teenage years. Lonely, sad, desperate for attention and affection. I'm so glad I grew out of it. Mainly because ripping yourself off your dignity will NEVER grant you a guy's affection, but he will hate you for it. Also, after seeing all the evil men in the incel, mgtow, trp etc culture in recent years, I completely lost any sort of interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:01 PM
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I have resentment for women who have toxic passivity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:53 PM
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I thought it was the other way around and PIM to be newer. My bad, sorry. The info about PIM is still correct though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:45 PM
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I've just listened through some of it, thank you for recommending it to me. There was this guy I met via OLD. He was emotionally abusive and manipulative, as in telling me stories and then saying he never did. I always suspected he hurt me deliberately, and even accused him of that once. After I had expressed unhappiness before, he made plans for christmas with me, telling me about this place in the secluded woods he had, and how he would love to spend it there with me. I always felt a bit scare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:25 PM
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The Gift of Fear Bought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:29 PM
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My niece is 11 years old, and she told me that a classmate asked if he could anal rape her. She also has an anorexic classmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:28 PM
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https://myanimelist.net/animelist/Selune9584?status=2&order=4&order2=0 This is my MAL, sorted in descending order by the ratings I gave them. I mainly watch Seinen (more sophisticated topics directed at a more mature audience), Thrillers, "Psychological", Dramas. I agree with one aspect u/GrapeJuiceEnthusiast said though. Many of popular anime (in the west!) tend to be Shounen, and hence, like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:34 PM
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Oh dear god, please watch the anime. Yes, the manga is amazing, but the voice actors, the music, the atmosphere and everything is on a whole different dimension. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wxoPZijXU0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:33 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:32 PM
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Most of the anime you listed are Shounen, which is the genre "for boys" (lit. means "boy") and has a lot of that stuff in it. It's like watching porn and complaining about too much nudity. If you want recommendations, I can gladly give you some: https://myanimelist.net/animelist/Selune9584?status=2&order=4&order2=0 This is my MAL, sorted in descending order by the ratings I gave them. I mainly watch Seinen (more sophisticated topics directed at a more mature audience), Thrillers, "Psychological"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:28 PM
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admit most anime series have that in some form As someone who not only has watched anime for over 20 years, but also lived in Japan for 1.5 years, I can tell you this is NOT AT ALL true. Please stop letting gross weaboos with yellow fever and hentai addiction dictate what anime is, and have an open mind to see the authenticity beyond that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:13 PM
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Nana ripped out my heart when I watched it the first time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:10 PM
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A lot of girls went through hardcore pickme stages in life (or maybe this is just me), and Avril was a teenager back then. Let's cut her some slack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:06 AM
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Yep. It's as if, women are supposed to break to become women and men are supposed to break us. This is exactly what it is though. When you ask a woman questions like "What made you strong", it involves stories about rape, about assault, battering, manipulation, cheating. by their partners. When men are asked, they will usually tell you about these things they did to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:43 AM
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Now you know why I don't want to have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:37 AM
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Just get a sex doll and a maid, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:22 AM
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"No one would agree with you on that" Context: neX was triangulating, his female best friend called him names and told him about her rape kink. I said that's not appropriate, he was supposed to shut it down, if we are in a committed monogamous relationship. But he was very extreme either way. He loved telling me different versions of a story and proceed to claim I just misheard or misremember. He loved fucking with my mind, and he drove me to the point of self-harming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:21 AM
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As someone who has gone through BPD, I know that this scrote is portraying us falsely in order to hurt us, because men love hurting women. I can also tell he is probably NPD, instead of BPD. People with BPD do NEVER talk like this, but narcissists do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:08 PM
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I meant riling us op and provoking us deliberately is what they generally do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:50 PM
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Just ignore this type of content. It's literally made to rile us up. That's what men generally do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:42 PM
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Of course, her having sacrificed her social life, career, income, body in order to raise his child and clean his appartment and therefore enabling him to have his career, which he otherwise couldn't have in the first place, just to be then dumped and be a single mum with no career or social life and provide alone for the child is her job. That's completely fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:12 PM
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Many of you in the comments assume men have low EQ. This is dangerous. If you have low EQ, you don't know any better, since you are not capable of empathy. But these men are completely capable of empathy. Look at how they treat each other. If they acted out of lack of empathy, they couldn't do any better, and would be acting out of ignorance. But that's not the case. Men laving low EQ is the narrative they use when they drop their "Am I supposed to mind read? How could I know this would hurt you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:19 PM
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I keep seeing post like this over and over here, and that's also part of the handbook. But whenever I call these women out saying that they should stop accepting this behaviour, and they are incentivising this behaviour by allowing it and staying anyway, I get called a "victim blamer". It's like, make up your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:43 AM
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"The bar is mainly so low in 2020 because a lot of males are pathetic as you said yourself - it's not our responsibility to raise the bar." Women who settle for men like this incentivise this behaviour and throw the rest of us under the bus. Tinder, for example, has the grossest of gross guys, and girls are still willing to lower themselves for them. What kind of message does that send? What kind of message do women send who pamper their little boys and sacrifice themselves for their low value b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:20 AM
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They don’t want real conversation or to know anyone or connect, they just wanna get their rocks off. Nooo you're getting it wrong. They are just misunderstood. We women have it so much easier to find real connection, and it's misandrist that we would say they are like that /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:20 AM
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Her boyfriend let her walk home at night alone??? He couldn't have bothered to drive her, or at the very least get her an uber?? You sound like you're new to the world of men. Let me introduce you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:05 AM
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I had a detailed profile on OLD once. They would message me saying "Hi, I like your profile. If you wanna know more, message me" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:31 PM
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go be single and fuck prostitutes if that's ALL you care about and quit bitching Why do that when girls give it on Tinder for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:26 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/3ALiTfG This got me banned from r/DeadBedrooms His profile was full of rapekink shit btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:24 PM
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fuck their wife while she just lays there like she's dead, and then make that into a flaw with her rather than himself raping his wife. You can tell these dudes do not give the woman an orgasm ever. Sounds like a typical guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:05 PM
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You don't care about your wife's feelings. Congrats, you described men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:50 PM
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Men are like that. I'm not surprised at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:48 PM
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They are both clowns. I have no sympathy for the woman. You can't tell me she married this person without knowing his personality first. They are both clowns and a perfect match. Women who let male behaviour like this slide and EVEN MARRY MEN LIKE THIS are the reason the bar is so low in 2020. And please girls, this man is not "clueless". Men are never "clueless" as they claim to be. He knows exactly what his friends did, and how she felt. And it's not that they don't care either. They do care. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:47 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:35 AM
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A couple of years ago I would have bern shocked. Now, this is just an average man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:23 AM
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Money > Smegma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:46 AM
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lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:45 AM
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saved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:45 AM
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I believe it's meant more like "When you are heartbroken and lovesick over a relationship, it is okay to mourn for a time, but keep in mind to eventually move on. There are more important things to focus on, and this is just a minor inconvenience"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:02 PM
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My rule number 1: Focus on and proritise yourself first. Do not ever compromise your career or education for someone. It is nice to have a companion, but always remember that when shit hits the fan, the only one by your side is you. Treat yourself accordingly. A man may leave you, your education and career won't. Treat it accordingly. My rule number 2: Never ask yourself "Does he like me? Why does he do that? I feel like he does not treat me as I want to. Maybe he doesn't know?" Honey, he does k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:00 PM
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They know. They dont act out of ignorance but cruelty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:35 PM
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Learning sex from porn is like learning driving from GTA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:02 PM
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Because their sole purpose in life is to make ours hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:31 PM
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lol as if
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:29 PM
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All "leftist feminist" men are into is polyamory and choking. Meanwhile conservative guys want to have legal control over our bodies. You really can't win. Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:23 AM
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They think they’ve got you now. It’s game over. No more trying You're making it sound like they ever try anything but deliberately hurting you and pushing you just to see how far they can disrespect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:23 AM
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until I find out that they EXCLUSIVELY WANT HARDCORE ANAL SEX. Degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:22 PM
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if you tell them no, they just keep on pressuring you, hoping you give in. a lot of the sex i had before I found FDS was highly coercive. Men are socialised to ignore and overstep women's boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:21 PM
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"porn sick" "complete slob who doesn't take care of himself, doesn't shower, doesn't groom, wears the same oversized stained sloppy tee 10 days in a row" "has a profile full of 18+, BDSM, gonewild and similar subreddits" "oversteps boundaries deliberately to provoke you, or questions your boundaries and pushes you; proceeds to mansplain your boundaries to you" "Doesn't take a No for an answer and disrespects your boundaries and when you tell him this is the last time he's disrespecting you like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:09 PM
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often times the woman is pushed over the edge by the man in her life because he wants her to be hysterical My ex would legitimately get a boner when I was angry/frutsrated/crying. So what did he do? He kept provoking me deliberately. I don't think he was that much of an exception. They get off of upsetting us and then acting like "OMG I am so clueless as to why she is so angry LMAO"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:58 PM
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There's more male Karens than actual Karens in this world "Karen" is, like "hyteria", another method to silence women. If a woman speaks up, just call her a "Karen" and laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:53 PM
73

TRP: "Here's how you can manipulate these hoes into sleeping with you, because rape should be legal and women deserve no rights. I love watching porn where women get humiliated, battered and mutilated. Also, let's just slaughter them, because Elliott Rodger is our king" FDS: "Stand up for yourself. You deserve being treated like a human being. Don't let him treat you like garbage." Male: OMG LITERALLY THE SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:52 PM
66

Woman : has a boundary Male : sudden urge to violate it True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:50 PM
74

Those things are not "reciprocating", because men don't do them. Here's what we could reciprocate though: Expect HIM to work 8 hours, then come home to do chores, too. Make HIM carry the baby. Neglect HIM into Oblivion, then tell HIM to take it, because that's what a good husband does, and when he complains, gaslight HIM into having a mental breakdown. Make HIM sacrifice his friends and career for the family. And then, of course, dump HIM for someone younger. Coerce HIM into sex by telling him i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:40 PM
9

Ah. Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:47 PM
7

Stop it. Don't give me false hopes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:53 PM
9

notallmen /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:38 PM
4

It's not just a tiny group of crazy TRPs anymore. Men in general are growing up and being socialised with this mindset on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:02 PM
7

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:48 PM
16

These people don't seriously believe this. Upsetting us is just another way for those degenerates to perform power over us. Men love upsetting women, wasting our time, acting clueless and feeling powerful. Don't give them attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:37 AM
46

Pretty sure the being offended is an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:20 PM
153

Also they get offended when a woman crosses the street because of them or ghosts them/gives a fake number Actually, they don't. A lot of them walk behind you in dark alleys exactly that on purpose, in order to frighten women. Frightening, manipulating, angering and hurting women is a matter of power to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:56 PM
8

Especially the double message, followed up by another message 3 weeks later. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:51 PM
59

Because, they know, she will. Simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:14 AM
100

Scrote: my humour is dark Me: Oh, morbid? I love that. No, sexist and racist. It's always sexist and racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:10 AM
4

I don't know Amber Heard, so I can't say anything. What I do know is that what everyone else perceived doesn't matter, since narcs excel at manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:56 AM
8

I don't disagree but when your WHOLE family, many of your friends, and all your assistants are against you? That's not the picture of a good person. Trust me, I have broken up with a man with NPD. Not only did my entire friend circle think I was the bad one, I was being so systematically gaslighted over a period of months that I thought everything I perceived to be right was wrong, that I was getting crazy and was ready to admit myself. You can't describe it, if you have never experienced it. On…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:48 AM
7

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:45 AM
5

To be fair, all narcissists have their flying monkeys, and are great at their smearing campaigns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:42 AM
17

Yes, a friend. Throughout my life, I made the mistake of moving for a man several times. To the point of being completely new in a new city, no old friends, isolated. Meeting new people is hard when you're an adult pushing 30 and in the age of social media. So yes, I am in complete isolation, except for my deeply misogynist working space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:51 AM
41

I'm 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:49 AM
43

You know, I do get sad sometimes. I wish I had that 2nd person I could take on my dinner nights out, travels and alike. Someone who is not a porn-addicted, narcissistic, abusive degenerate. I have given up on it, and my decision is final. I just wish it didn't have to come to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:28 AM
5

We better hold on to memories of these people. Men like that are going extinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:57 AM
10

I didn't know abou Ajeet Singh. He seems like a beautiful person. A true role model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:37 AM
3

"entrepeneur" = "unemployed"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:04 AM
1

Chris Evans accidentally leaked his own nudes not long ago and his largely-female fanbase responded by distracting people from finding them. Contrast with "The Fappening," where men shared several actresses' hacked and leaked nudes with impunity and people fell all over themselves to explain why it was the actresses' fault. WE ARE NOT THE SAME. This. We are not degenerates like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:03 AM
2

I have a feeling someone made a troll post and posted a poor unknowing man's photo, mocking him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:01 AM
1

Men tell women to give the ugly guy a chance, and he will be grateful and be good to you. The truth is that a man who doesn't even respect himself and take care of himself wouldn't do it towards you either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:59 PM
14

and he has an entire chapter about why mental health issues are a bullshit excuse for men's violent, dominating behavior. It's all about ENTITLEMENT, period If I were less poor, I'd give you Gold. Instead, I'll say Thank You.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:02 PM
7

Which one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:36 PM
13

I didn't mean that you were making light of the situation, but the general public does. When I was complaining about a sexual harasser at my workplace, for example, they said "You BOTH need to SOLVE CONFLICT in healthy ways", or "You seem angry, try meditating". These people are being coddled and protected by the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:29 PM
14

It doesn't make me smile. These people are out there, organising in groups, hounding women, sending rape and death threats, terrorising us, bullying us out of workforce, recruiting young children on social media and literally committing mass slaughterings. It's not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:23 PM
20

Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:16 PM
1

No. They get off on invading female-only spaces because how dare something not be centered COMPLETELY around them and their dicks for once! Just check how often they terrorise us on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:59 PM
26

They've decriminalized spousal abuse in Russia, and everyone's hands are up in the air, rejoicing that the "rates have gone down." This is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:42 PM
44

Honestly, at this point, I'm not even sure how to properly defend ourselves anymore. They are out there harassing, raping, slaughtering us, and people are like "Yea take it easy, it wasn't that bad".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:32 PM
27

Does that mean we are supposed to go full Elliott Rodger mode now, too? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:17 PM
86

$500 this dude is a sexual harasser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:13 PM
59

https://imgur.com/a/7qBHVyV Just look how normalised it is for these terrorists on reddit to make new accounts simply to harass, terrorise and silence women online by spamming their inbox. And this is only one of about 20 messages I got since I made this post 1 hour ago. Guess who isn't degenerate like that. Women. Besides, of course: When's the last time you ladies got free food, dates and had people feel bad, instead of being laughed at, when telling them things? These scrotes are full of hate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:44 PM
55

But guess who is "crazy and hysterical" when she tells someone to stop touching her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:32 PM
69

🤡 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:41 PM
0

I said "I want a pic first". He said "What about Discord/Snap?" I said "Use imgur". He proceeded to send me his Discord tag anyway xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:39 PM
29

Unfortunately, with the increase of anti-feminism terrorist movements such as Inels, MGTOW and PUA, their aggressive recruitment online combined with the downplaying and dismissal of the issue by the institutions, it's going to get much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:15 PM
104

#notallmen, btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:06 PM
5

You don't seriously believe this terrorist means what he is saying, do you? He gaslights. They always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:33 AM
29

You ignore them. They will go out of their ways to provoke a reaction. My nEx got a boner when he made me yell or cry and tried very hard to upset me. They need the attention, they crave it. Ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:57 PM
83

So now we are romanticising pimping out your girl?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:52 PM
61

Pedos being pedos, nothing unusual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:51 PM
85

Replace "game" with "decency" and he is absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:51 PM
11

What is it with these people and not being able to spell names properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:28 PM
8

Out of all things, you forgot how abuse, torture, mutilation and rape is sex positivity now? Shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:13 AM
4

Honestly, they just popped up in my Amazon recommended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:50 PM
30

The first one tells several stories about hateful, abusive, low effort men and women who have standards so low they still stay with them. She writes about why these women do it, what impact it has on other women, and why it is so important for a woman to understand that she can not change her partner, but she can change her standards. The second one gives an insight into the far-right populistic manospheres on the internet. Namely terrorist movements such as MGTOW, Incels, TRP and white supremac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:40 PM
2

Women absolutely hunted, too. Men, later on, made "only men" hunting circles, because they were intimidated. I recommend reading Marilyn French's "From Eve To Dawn".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:29 PM
18

The bar is so fucking low, I can't even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:48 AM
1

As much as women have been taught the false narrative that we should be nurturers in our relationships, caretakers, all forgiving, tolerant, etc. men have been taught that they can and should expect to be accepted as they are and that if a woman won't have them, major flaws and all, then she's shallow. That's why us having standards rubs them the wrong way so much. They feel entitled to relationships and love even when they are horrible human beings with shitty personalities and no prospects. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:48 AM
2

Thank you for this much needed post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:45 AM
21

Now cry, because those ideals are long gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:44 AM
25

They are more on the loose over there about actively approaching, harassing and attacking random women. India light, if you will. I agree with the last part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:58 PM
37

South Korea is a cesspool if sexual harassers and abuse, but the country and food is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:31 PM
18

<3 Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:03 PM
6

Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:02 PM
5

http://imgur.com/a/ftHiGlG That's weird. But it explains why it received no comments/upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:00 PM
1

Korrekt. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:58 PM
10

Funny enough, I made this post this morning: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jriade/the_ways_men_project_and_gaslight/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:33 AM
3

I did not consider that. After having lived in Tokyo, I can definitely see where you're coming from. But nope, Germany. No education cost, financial support for students.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:30 AM
65

It's not a conspiracy theory. That's what they collectively do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:11 AM
47

All my life I had wanted to study this subject at this university. After I had dropped out of school at 17, 3 weeks before graduation that is, I graduated on my own and went there. I was really excited. Only to find out that I am not capable of studying as much as I was 10 years ago. I felt really stupid. I quit university and fell into a depression. This was 2 weeks before christmas last year. I was dating this guy back then, long distance. For christmas we visited his family, and he told me "i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:52 AM
67

I'm proud of you for having been smarter than I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:29 AM
2

Nope. Unfortunately there are many like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:35 AM
5

It's more than a scrote whining. The original is "Be a lady they said". About a woman telling about rape culture, about how raped women are treated. Men couldn't hold themselves back to mock us and make a parody about it by complaining about made up, nonexistent standards, just to silence rape victims even more. They, truly, are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:07 AM
8

Tbh, at this point of my life, I doubt a man with any sort of basic decency even exists. Let alone high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:29 AM
2

I have been a gamer for 20 years, I've dated many of them, and I hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:24 AM
3

This was in Germany though. Education is free, and you get financial support as a student from the government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:22 AM
2

So you don't think IT and gaming is where porn addicted, misogynist, narcissistic, creepy, predatory manchildren lacking the very basics of self care meet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:44 PM
6

Reminds me of this post I made: https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlGamers/comments/jpntev/dating_a_gamer_as_a_gamer/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:33 PM
1

She should have just communicated that being burnt alive hurts. How was he supposed to know, is he a mind reader or what, geez. ​ /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:29 PM
14

Ok let's wrap it up: Be a gentleman they said: When is the last time a man actually dressed, looked, acted and treated you like a gentleman? You don't earn enough: You live in mum's basement and leech off her, shut up. You're too weak: Abusing weaker people, being a pedo and beating up women is pretty weak. You're not ambitious: Correct. But it's not like men really care about ambition. Don't reveal yourself: No need. Subs like r/TRP will do that for you. Don't show emotions: Plenty emotional wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:02 PM
2

I used to be the queen of pickmes. Gaming is my largest hobby, and I work in IT. There are a lot of failures in my branch. The nonshowerers, the manbabies, the irresponsible, the narc, the sexist, the porn addict. I had been brainwashed into thinking "As a woman I have it so easy. I'm sure they're great. All they need is a chance to show me they are nice people". I think you can count men in IT and gaming as "creative types". Or maybe all types are garbage. But men in IT and gaming... oh god, do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:51 PM
38

Both. Definitely both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:44 PM
66

Trust me, it sounded way worse in German. I translated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:43 PM
41

It's really mindblowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:39 PM
27

Many adults choose to support creepy and abusive men though. They might not believe her, or belittle her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:21 AM
65

Don't date. Focus on your education + career. NEVER give up your career / education for a man. If you happen to date, say No to things you don't approve of. Vigorously. The most important one: Women have a reliable gut feeling that something is off. That you feel insecure with him, sad, cautious, scared. However, many will allow men to gaslight them that it is "Not so bad, you are just overthinking it, and he is actually a nice person". DO NOT MAKE THAT MISTAKE. Trust this gut feeling. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:19 AM
1

Let's see if I'll fit in. It is a bit intimidating, thinking of it. Unfortunately, I don't really have an online presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:11 PM
1

Let's see if I'll fit in. It is a bit intimidating, thinking of it. Unfortunately, I don't really have an online presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:11 PM
1

But I'm not rich, and rich men are even more narcissistic and manchildish. What were your criteria?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:44 AM
6

Oh dear god, I do feel the dating part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:13 PM
72

I'm living in Germany. My parents are of middle eastern descent. Whenever I meet new people, I get hit with the "Where are you from?". Of course, I tell my hometown, but they won't stop. "No, where are you really from? Where are your parents from? What country did your parents come from? Come on, tell us. Why are you hiding it? I really want to know". As you might guess, it's mostly men. It's not that they don't know it makes me uncomfortable. They enjoy humiliating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:15 PM
1

They don't treat each other like that. They don't treat women like that either, most of the time, if it is at work. Dating for them is abour power. And to them, lacking respect = power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:22 AM
1

I believe it is their collectively internalised disrespect they show towards us with that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:08 AM
1

I don't know much about data science tools, but sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:18 AM
116

I had following encounter: I joined a Facebook group after moving new to this town, because I wanted to meet new people. It was not a flirting or singles group, but one for going out and meeting people. There was this guy who made 4 accounts just to stalk, harass and attack me verbally. When I made a post in the group to ask who the admin is and gave a description of what happened, the admin said he can't look into my PMs, so go to the police. I said I have screenshots, he said he can't check 'w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:11 PM
87

The entire bible - from placing the cardinal sin on women, over god giving birth to a son without a woman, to boys being born "a second and superior time" by men via baptism and circumcision - is a cesspool of declaring women as lowly and making up excuses for oppressing and abusing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:27 AM
2

You're welcome! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:28 AM
9

Let's say I took one for the team. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:28 AM
1

♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:28 AM
1

Don't forget: "I'm sorry you feel upset." vs. "I'm sorry I made that hurtful joke."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:03 AM
8

Thanks for the positive feedback. :) Unfortunately, I have an attachment to software I write and I'd rather not make it open source, I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:48 AM
9

So how come you're single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:42 AM
11

That's one of the criteria I looked thriugh ever photo manually for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:37 AM
3

What app is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:00 AM
10

I would be honoured to make it into the handbook. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:35 AM
3

You're welcome, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:51 PM
2

Why do I have to think of Tom from Desperate Housewives when seeing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:50 PM
9

Perhaps we could tag them. But I don't want to make them mad. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:32 PM
5

It doesn't sadly. We could tag them, but I don't want to make them mad. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:31 PM
8

<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:30 PM
14

Wow, I'm flatted, thank you so much :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:30 PM
5

WOW! Thank you so much! ♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:10 PM
12

Yes, Python :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:20 PM
26

Even fake dicks that weren’t requested with “big Latin cock” search bar not cropped out. I actually bursted out laughing, thanks. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:41 PM
12

Haha sorry :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:35 PM
68

I used Python, since it has an implemented cvs-library. I had a Python macro module do 4 things: Swipe right on all men (I let a mouse macro recorder run for this one, which looped through leftclicking the Like button. Filter their profiles and messages for text: Here, I used regex and searched for message lengths as well as hardcoded words, like "Hey", "poly*", etc. Unmatch and record reason for unmatching. Filter their profiles for pictures: I used neuronal network methods to check if the prof…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:06 PM
20

It was okcupid. Can you recommend Hinge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:56 PM
25

Wow thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:54 PM
35

I'm sorry for the harsh reality check. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:46 PM
23

I have a post for that too :) https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jo02nw/share_your_ridiculous_old_stories/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:44 PM
48

Yes. I have a legitimate profile, showing multiple fotos of me, a long bio with my hobbies, interests, job, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:43 PM
33

You're very welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:16 PM
26

I've been doing this for 15 years, so I should be able to answer some of your questions or explain/teach things. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:14 PM
142

You're very welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:45 PM
130

Yes. I always thought that seeing actual numbers might help. And being the software developer I am, I programed a bot matching all guys, then scanning their messages and profiles for codewords.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:43 PM
91

This guy: - has been ghosted and unmatched enough times to create a survey like that - has been ghosted and unmatched because of his 0 interest behaviour - continues his 0 interest behaviour They know. They act all "Why do girls always ignore me", but all that is funny to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:33 PM
24

Big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:26 PM
93

Oh dear mother Mary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:21 PM
25

I sure did. And I am so sorry for your experiences. What dating app lets you call though? Did you put your phone number in there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:16 PM
16

Porn existed then, too, though. And I don't recall it ever being this terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:14 PM
7

You're right, I have misworded it. It is more observation than intuition. And yes, after speaking day 1 and the topic fell on fds, he also mentioned porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:32 PM
6

I have read the book. What he calls an abuser, nowadays we call a narcissistic personality. And sadly, it's the same for most men, not just a handful of abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:47 PM
6

What is paultrick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:05 AM
9

Thank you for the recommendation. Now I have something to read today! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:05 AM
52

Probably. Let him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:55 AM
21

Oh no, I would never do that. He didn't even know I had a reddit account. He came out on his own and said "I'm on reddit and there is this sub called FDS I've been on a lot in the past". He told me all these ideas on his own. I'm going to take a wild guess here and say that a lot of women nowadays are pickmes and don't have any standards and expectations for their partners whatsoever, so when he talked to me and read between the lines, he realised I do have them and guessed I might be on here an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:47 AM
1

There is no incentive for them to be any better as long as there are still women who accept their bullshit. Yes, it is men who act wrong, but it is women who signal that their behaviour is acceptable, trivialised and excused. Stop taking this responsibility offf women. We are not children, and we are responsible for the standards we set and the behaviour we deem acceptable. The reason most of them act like this is because no matter how they act, there is and will be a low self esteem girl who pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:04 AM
1

Women are responsible for what women do. Whenever a woman accepts his misogynist, abusive, creepy, predatory behaviour, goes "I bet he didn't mean it that way", "Let's not be that harsh", "I'm sure he loves me", "I know you are a sack of shit, lack respect, self care, a career, literally anything, but I'll still be readily available for you via a 3 AM booty message on tinder", a new standard for how men behave and what women must endure is being set. And yes, this standard is set by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:54 PM
25

r/nametheproblem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:07 PM
9

That sounds horrible. I'm sorry you are going through this in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:30 AM
24

I disagree. Mothers who excuse, encourage and trivialise their sons abusive, predatory behviour with "boys will be boys", girls doing the same and showing them it is okay to be low effort, abusive nd shitty and they will have a pickme anyway, are the main ones responsible for society's negative standards in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:05 AM
9

Can someone educate a non-American what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:01 AM
8

Despite it being supposedly modern times and feminism is supposedly getting big, in reality it's getting more dreadful by the day for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:52 AM
20

The main difference between a low value scrote and high value husband material man is confidence. A confident man will be caring, will self-improve, will respect you and not tolerate bullshit behaviour. A low value scrote will be a misogynist, will envy, will dump all work on you, be lazy and too scared of his peers to call out bullshit behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:59 AM
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It has not been since the dawn of time. I recommend reading From Eve to Dawn by Marilyn French.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:05 AM
2

Dating is so much more risk and so much less rewad for women than for men. And men need it so much more than women. And women are as empowered as never in the past couple of millennia. Yet it is women who are so much more scared to lose it, so much more committed, interested, engaging, emotional labouring, while men mainly act careless, lazy, dumping the work on her. Yet these people keep staying together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:53 PM
28

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:37 PM
1

Men: "DO YOU THINK ALL OF US ARE PREDATORS?! RAPE CULTURE DOESN'T EXIST, YOU PARANOID FUCK" Also men:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:34 PM
6

Men will go out of their way to apply abusive, harmful tactics in order to "seduce" women, fail and get bitter... while ignoring how easy it would be if they just were kind and took care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:11 PM
0

I bring you this: https://life.gomcgill.com/people-are-becoming-disabled-by-choice-and-they-are-called-transabled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:17 PM
38

I dont even understand anymore at this point, why these girls in r/relationship_advice keep accepting this behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:26 PM
1

There is unfortunately, starting tomorrow. Though I used today to go to the hot springs my colleague invited me to. Life is even more fun :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:09 PM
9

Went to a club. Had 4 Coladas, danced the night off. Shaked it for all of you girls, too. Life is fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:33 AM
6

If we could raise a new generation of confident girls who stand up for themselves, instead of being gaslighted, abused, manipulated and forced into accepting, trivialising and excusing abuse, creeps, predators, women could live in a good world. Because they, too, keep setting new low standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:30 AM
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fantasy is men being nice to women and treating them lovingly. Imagine our standards for potential partners and men in general being so low that being "nice and treating them lovingly" makes someone a unicorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:25 AM
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There are more things we should stop normalising. "Men couldn't possibly know that him throwing insults at you, murdering your cat and killing your parents could have possibly hurt you". "Of course he makes jokes about women being less capable / dumb / sex objects and will treat them as such, boys will be boys". "What do you mean grooming and dressing properly, instead of getting to a date with yoga pants and a stained t-shirt, while she spent 3 hours getting ready? Self care is a woman's job!" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:19 AM
6

Both are scum, so they might just make a perfect couple. This wife should yeet her ass out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:40 AM
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When I wrote a post on that sub to young girls to set up boundaries, not put up with neglectfu, low effort or abusive behaviour or excuse it, people lost their shit because "so mean and toxic" and kept assaulting me verbally. At the same time, the sub is full of "I'm being mistreated, what do I do?" , and responses encouraging the girls to stay in abusive relationships. My posts and comments telling women to stand up for themselves and stop putting up with abuse really seem to hit a nerve. It's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:17 AM
10

*not shutting it down immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:59 AM
32

She’s 32 and has admitted that she’s only with him because she fears she’s too old to find someone else in time to have kids. Society loves nothing more than conditioning women to excuse abusive, creepy and predatory male behaviour and blame themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:22 PM
2

Remember the shitstorm Gillette got for telling men to not enable sexist and rapey behaviour?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:30 PM
1

It was not a prank. He knew what he was doing, and hurting you gives him the feeling of power he lusts for. And if he destroys wht is valuable to you and finds it funny, it is only a matter of time until he escalates this type of behviour towards you. "I couldn't have possibly known" for things that would obiously hurt you is a common gaslighting and manipulative tactic they use against you. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:27 PM
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"how much of a wank tool" I wouldn't want to guess how many teenage girls have been through "Are my boobs big enough","Am I getting too fat", anorexia and similar issues, in order to appeal to lazy good for nothings who can't even be bothered to put on a non-stained shirt".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:24 PM
28

Women always know there is something wrong. It is that we choose to indulge in deluding ourselves ("I don't want to overreact", "Bet it's just half as bad", "What if I can't find anyone else", "I bet he is just busy") deliberately because we want to be "compassionate". And someone manipulative of low value will count on exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:13 PM
32

Let's not forget the CrazyWoman™ and CrazyEx™ tropes we so love. And god forbid they ever find out you were diagnosed with a mental illness or suffer depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:11 PM
11

Exactly. Conditioning young women that they should do something doesn't mean they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:10 PM
50

If you ask yourself whether he may be playing with you, he is. Most men don't hide their intentions that well. It is women who prefer living in denial, because they wish their dream if being treated properly got real. If he cares for you, you will know. If he doesn't give a shit, is lazy, puts in zero effort, expects you to do all the work, gaslights you in fights, you will know, too. And no, it is not because he "can't read your mind", or "didn't know". He did know, and he is playing dumb. He j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:34 AM
3

Can we stop hitting people in general? Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:37 PM
1

This. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:38 AM
1

If it gets mad over women protecting themselves from creeps/predators, it's 100% a creep/predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:09 PM
1

Option 1: A sweet, elegant "Excuse me". It works in most cases. Option 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEuU64Zt4B0&list=PLxV22tkViEq3bvw0JvQBa6ScXGcmKreQA&index=17&t=0s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:06 PM
2

LVM of TRP: "This is how you can be a non-caring, nothing-providing, narcissistic, egocentric person who hurts, abuses and manipulates women into sleeping with him, because women are trash. All of them are dogbrained foids and shouldn't have any human rights whatsoever. Take away their right to vote, study and work. Also, make good use of their nurturing nature." FDS: "Please protect yourself from horndogs and narcs who just want to exploit and abuse you. Don't rush into things too fast, work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:53 PM
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" Always be willing to walk away Always engage the woman on your terms (frame) at all times. Spin plates. Never be the one looking for a relationship. If a relationship develops, great, but it is hr onus to initiate the transition from casual to serious. Keep your options open, even in a relationship. No eggs in one basket. Boil them suckers and store them in multiple fridges, ready for consumption at a moment's notice." Man, this will for sure want a woman want to be with you. Also: ​ Dude: bla…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:22 PM
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Don't settle for less than you are willing to give. But also don't waste someone's time who gives way more than you are eilling to give. Sounds basic, but works pretty well.
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:07 PM
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This subreddit make me scared of ever EVER EVER sleeping with a guy. Ever. God forbid if I become pregnant, I'm literally Hitler. But guess what. niceguysTM be like: She won't sleep with me = "What a prude bitch" She is pregnant = Basically her career is dead She has a baby = Let's leave her because fuck responsibilities She is a single mum = Literally Hitler She has an abortion = Literally Hitler She doesn't want children = Literally Hitler ​ also niceguysTM: "Why won't she date me? Must be bec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 03:26 PM
7

Bitch, how do you say no to food? Any food. And I've heard only good stuff about Applebee's. Females like this give us all a bad name. ​ On another note though: Why do we hear so many stories about american girls being like this? As a European woman, this type of behaviour always really disturbs and confuses me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 09:36 PM
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