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Inner Game amlextex/r/seduction29/01/25 01:17 PM
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Conversationamlextex/r/seduction13/05/25 12:23 PM
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Field Reportamlextex/r/seduction08/06/25 05:50 AM
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Fundamentals amlextex/r/seduction06/05/24 02:11 PM
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Outer Game amlextex/r/seduction01/06/25 01:24 AM
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Resourcesamlextex/r/seduction09/04/24 12:08 AM
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Fundamentals amlextex/r/seduction06/05/24 08:01 PM
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Fundamentalsamlextex/r/seduction15/02/22 05:57 AM
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Field Reportamlextex/r/seduction02/06/25 05:25 PM
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Fundamentals amlextex/r/seduction11/06/25 02:08 AM
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Conversationamlextex/r/seduction01/05/22 04:14 AM
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/r/seduction08/07/25 06:55 AM
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I feel you. Most women say “oh big dick”, but I wouldn’t believe them. Now, knowing I am larger than average (but not by much), it’s safe to assume they’re telling the truth. Since then, I know I’m of value, since my penis is actually of quality. Haha. I possess something most men do not have, and could not have. Thus, I push more women away, which makes them want me more. But noooo. My glorious 6.3 inch penis is for someone else.
/r/seduction14/06/25 01:34 AM
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lol how did I simp?
/r/seduction13/06/25 08:05 AM
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Good. Morally, I feel at odds bro. When I bought her the food, she said, “I go home now.” I said, “No, let’s eat upstairs.” She refused to and I took the bag with me. I actually ended up giving the food back to the grocer. Then this morning, I realized she stole my Casio watch. While I feel bad that she left hungry, this sweet girl stole my shit. PLUS, I check my phone’s web browser and there’s a page showing a gambling slots game. The bitch knew my password and was gambling.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:12 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:24 AM
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I just don’t like how it ended. It doesn’t sit well with me morally.
/r/seduction11/06/25 04:23 AM
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Lol what a great fucked up night for both of us
/r/seduction11/06/25 03:46 AM
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I just realized she stole my Casio watch too. I actually took the bag of groceries from her. I told her we can eat upstairs, and she refused to. So I left with it. Waking up this morning, I’m still confused if that was morally good or not.
/r/seduction11/06/25 03:19 AM
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I can’t wait to say this story to my friends.
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:31 AM
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Yeah that’s true. But I still don’t like that I bent my boundaries.
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:30 AM
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Yeah, I think you’re undervaluing the size of your penis in all this. You’re able to make them cum with less effort than most. That’s not the average male experience. In the best way possible, you’d make the worst sex coach because you can’t teach what you have.
/r/seduction10/06/25 12:18 PM
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I don’t follow. Differing skill levels varies your sensitivity?
/r/seduction08/06/25 10:06 AM
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So your dick is desensitized naturally?
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:45 AM
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When I climax before an outing, I just feel anxious.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:45 AM
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Ngl, I attended one a year ago. While it’s not worth 4g’s, I did get a lot out of it. The biggest one being Tyler has off days. He’s godly in field, but even he gets rejected, gets awkward. I needed to learn that. It’s helped me shatter my perfectionism.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:07 AM
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Hmm that’s insight
/r/seduction08/06/25 04:53 AM
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Carve out your own niche so you’re always the most attractive. Develop your personality during the mean time.
/r/seduction07/06/25 06:24 AM
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So…before you enter the church and make a vow you’ll break, be honest about your lifestyle. Marriage is not open. Open is not marriage. If you want to get married for tax breaks, fine.
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:32 PM
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Women ignore most men.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:41 PM
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It isn’t ok to say that I want to fuck you?
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:30 PM
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She was a single mother. 45 I think. She really wanted to be my friend. I was up for it, but since I'm leaving this city for a long ass time, friendship was pointless.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:57 PM
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What did I write that suggested I wasn't bulding trust with her for 2 hours? Also, I'm leaving this city tomorrow, so I honestly didn't have more time to give her.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:43 PM
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When she laid my head on a pillow and massaged my face, I cuddled closer to her breast. She rubbed my face lightly and scooted up. Or when she laid her arms across my chest, as I started tracing my nails across her skin, she rubbed my hand and laid it to the side. Yeah, I said she can go, but I want to fuck her, which implies I want her to stay.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:41 PM
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What is your definition of marriage?
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:18 PM
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Then that’s not a wife bro! Husband and wife is an exclusive love affair. Legally I guess she can be one, but not in spirit.
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:22 AM
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It’s just a karmic thing. Do onto others you would want done to you.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:27 AM
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As a future zen priest, while I cannot lust, I can still have sex with women I truly love. This is grounded on no harm, no attachment principle. Where does a zen priest find love? I suppose out in the world. Either she finds me or I find her.
/r/seduction05/06/25 02:09 PM
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That too
/r/seduction04/06/25 01:30 PM
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Haha he’s neo
/r/seduction04/06/25 08:46 AM
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How did your approach turn out when you gave a random group of women drinks? Did you get someone’s number? Has anyone man bought you a drink and you ended up dating them?
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:22 AM
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Of course buying a girl a drink works. There’s no need to experiment. But imagine the hole in my pocket for every girl I approach. This method worked 50 years ago because men and women gave each other time of day. In today’s world, women can be picky due to dating apps.
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:16 AM
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Here’s the problem with payment—that just gets your foot in the door. The man still has to swoon you. That is the game. Not saying helllo here’s your drink :)))
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:44 AM
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I’m sorry you lost me at the first comment. I’m not sending free drinks for you and your friends. That is what simps do.
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:33 AM
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Welllll, there is an argument to be made if you follow the mystery method. But who the fuck wants to be locked in that box?
/r/seduction03/06/25 08:29 AM
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Where bi gal?
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:44 AM
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Hold that frame!!
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:43 AM
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Thank you! Yes, it’s manipulative. But then what? I didn’t get any sexual cues from her. Did I do anything wrong?
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:27 AM
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When does self belief turn to self delusion? You still have to read her cues.
/r/seduction03/06/25 04:40 AM
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No I didn’t want to close, but I wanted some sexual cues from her. She didn’t give me anything. However, she did respond trustingly to my escalations. But she never touched me, complimented me, held gaze. I should mention that I was hesitating to flirt at times. The biggest one was when I covered her eyes 10 minutes in—idk if I should have kissed her there or then. I wanted her to trust me.
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:42 AM
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Admittedly, I’m not gaming consistently to develop sensitivity to nuanced social cues. For instance, the top vote getter in this thread shared insight on eye cues. Something I wasn’t aware of. So there is that.
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:30 PM
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While I don’t claim to be good at the game, your perspective is pretty toxic. I think it depends on the environment. Sure, out in the streets, I think it’s fair game. But there are spaces where tact is required. For instances, while you may apply your ethos like RSD Julian did, too much fearlessness can be distasteful. In saying that, I’m curious, what is your take on dancing?
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:32 AM
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You have an awareness of a sociopath. Haha Thank you.
/r/seduction01/06/25 02:37 AM
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I too have yet to attract a model. I don’t know how to be normal around them because I relate so much with art people. So that leaves me with being boring, since I can’t relate. It seems like models love language is flirting. But what then? You can’t flirt every second.
/r/seduction01/06/25 01:27 AM
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God damnit I love you. May Jesus find you a suitable virgin.
/r/seduction01/06/25 01:17 AM
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The fact that you have any special super duper nuclear one liner is needy behavior. The best liners are always improvised. Equally, the best prose are not typed like this.
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:06 AM
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They make it easy for you. When a women gazes at you, you start feeling the butterflies. Your eyes widen. You notice what she's wearing without having to notice. They make it easy for you to fish a compliment because the fish just jumps right onto your tongue. Haha. And the fish just wiggles out a compliment. LMAO.
/r/seduction22/05/25 10:24 AM
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Just go to densely populated areas. What nobody tells you is that meeting women or men should be easy. It should never feel hard. If women are not looking in your direction, cold approach will be hard. If they are, they make it so easy for you to fish a compliment and deliver. There will be grey areas where an approach is semi-easy, but you were hesitant. That's just wisdom you'll have to internalize and keep going out consistently. Baby steps. Easy steps.
/r/seduction22/05/25 06:57 AM
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We need sexual validation on first approach to loosen us up and show proof to ourselves we still have it. After the initial approach, we kinda know we’re Gucci, so we don’t need to be validated as much until the next big hurdle like a group approach or something as intimidating. If you mean we need sexual IOI’s, yes, in every encounter. However, that’s different from validation. Edit: I just reread your comment. I actually agree that being authentic means being honest with our needs. If that mea…
/r/seduction22/05/25 05:21 AM
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An authentic person doesn't care to be polarizing, nice, mean, attractive. Most people are not living fully authentic. This goes deeper than merely a one-night stand. Being authentic means never needing sexual validation. It means living in your own world, and allowing people to enter and leave when they want. You're giving good base level advice, but there's holes in it when you go deeper into what authenticity means.
/r/seduction21/05/25 07:52 AM
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Go on...
/r/seduction15/05/25 04:27 AM
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How come you aren't as quick with flirty women?
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:03 AM
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I appreciate the story. I'm glad you were lucky enough to lose your sexual cowardice much easier than most people's stories. And from a CBT perspective, yes, gradual desensitization w/ positive reinforcement is advice I'm willing to follow. Just a consistent exposure to women is a start. I'm tired of random acts of suggestiveness in the midst of me being in another mainframe. I'm not good at improvising.
/r/seduction13/05/25 02:09 PM
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idk wtf u jus wrote.
/r/seduction13/05/25 02:05 PM
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You're technically right. I had that retort simmering in the mind, but my problem at that moment was congruency. Saying "...my name is Naughty," wasn't congruent with my chill vibe. I wasn't prepard to be sexy in voice and gaze. That's as technical as I can get. But admittedly, it's not the first time I've held my tongue. Quite often, I find these lusty encounters out of the blue, when I'm like yoga mainframe, chill af, good neighbor vibe. I hate it. Yet, I kinda don't, but it really jars me whe…
/r/seduction13/05/25 02:01 PM
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Really? I genuinely mean that. I assumed most gamers can seize an opportunity, especially as easy as what I experienced. Do you have a similar story?
/r/seduction13/05/25 01:34 PM
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I adamantly stated I don't want advice. Please read what I wrote or don't comment.
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:40 PM
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Thank you for your compassion and for reading my first sentence.
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:35 PM
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In the video? Go watch her lol
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:29 AM
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I've thought that too. But I feel like most pornstars suck at fucking. Like, many pornos I've watched, I seen women give the shittiest blowjobs. Be passionless in the bed. For instance, when I went on a failed impromptu date with Jenny Hendrix, she was crazy. So, I thought she'd be amazing in video. Bro. lol Nothing.
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:39 PM
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I love how a women sounds when they talk. I love how soft a women is when you touch. I love how gentle a women is when you open up. I love their breast, butt, legs, and skin, their eyes, nose, lips, and kiss.
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:01 PM
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Put it like this, what is the most popular thing in your sub-culture? Right...so do what they're doing. After you gain confidence from that, that's when you do things outside your sub-culture. If you jump into doing unpopular things, it will be harder. But it's up to you. As a beginner, do you want it easy or hard? The only time you wouldn't do what's popular is if you have some moral qualm against it. Otherwise, go build your confidence the easiest way possible. And do it consistently :)
/r/seduction10/02/25 03:52 AM
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Whether you cold approach successfully or not, it’s still abnormal. Abnormal doesn’t mean it’s weird or anything (that’s subjective). It’s behaviorally abnormal. MOST men do not cold approach because it’s not a social norm. If OP wants to do cold approach, he should first get his feet wet doing socially normal things. It would build his confidence vs shattering it doing socially abnormal things.
/r/seduction10/02/25 02:37 AM
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Getting bitches is socially acceptable behavior while cold approach is not. Hear me out. Getting bitches has exclusively meant going where women want to be approached. Bars and clubs as you mentioned. Cold approach is that as that well, but there is a difference that makes it abnormal. Cold approach doesn’t care if women want to be approached. This could be in a subway, on the streets on a Monday at 2pm. The women could be running late and the cold approacher won’t care. Don’t get me wrong, you …
/r/seduction10/02/25 02:19 AM
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Fuck cold approach. Don’t do abnormal shit. First have a socially normative base— Join school clubs, go to events. Only after, you can do socially abnormal activity, like…cold approach. How come? If you base your social happiness on cold approach results, you will be highly disappointed. This is what I would’ve have done if I started over. College clubs. School events. I didn’t have that base and therefore I was unhappy because cold approach is exhausting.
/r/seduction10/02/25 12:01 AM
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Only compliment her when you feel it's genuine, because everything else is faking it.
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:06 PM
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Well, if he's not a writer by trade, I understand.
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:49 PM
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Shame on you! Be a man and learn to write.
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:50 PM
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Oh, this was mostly AI?
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:49 PM
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How did you teach yourself how to copywrite?
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:48 PM
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A shit test challenges your morals and values. Do you stand for what you believe in. If you do, you’ll ace shit test without thought. If you’re on the fence, it will feel like a shitty test.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:44 PM
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Why would they need good game? They have status, looks, and money.
/r/seduction03/02/25 05:32 PM
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To be fair, most ppl wouldn’t have thunk it. Especially for those who started the pua movement.
/r/seduction31/01/25 10:39 PM
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I respect that.
/r/seduction30/01/25 01:11 AM
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No, she asked if we’re getting dinner. I didn’t invite her. She insisted.
/r/seduction29/01/25 08:56 PM
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I didn't ask her anything. I let her lead. We went to get ice cream, her choice. When she wanted dinner, I chose a pizzeria.
/r/seduction29/01/25 08:30 PM
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I'll admit I was very skeptical, but no--I appeared loose and fun. When it came down to the bill...THAT'S when I was disappointed.
/r/seduction29/01/25 08:28 PM
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I expect her to offer to pay, so I can reject it and pay. Her offer shows me she's not entitled to a free dinner. That's a humble woman I want. That's someone I'll give anything for free.
/r/seduction29/01/25 08:25 PM
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After we had ice cream, a few walks in, she goes, "So are we going to have dinner?" I didn't mind it, but I was like--we just had ice cream. It was 7pm.
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:38 PM
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Why would I go after entitled women?
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:35 PM
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He doesn't follow what he's saying? lol
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:16 PM
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Bad advice. What does cheap emotions mean? I know your mother was happy. Was your father equally happy? The hot 20-yr-old's expectations are more "wild river rides". Can you deliver? Your advice is to go after what I like while compromising my values?
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:13 PM
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What are things you're willing to compromise for the casual sex person? Equally, what's the limit for them?
/r/seduction29/01/25 03:03 PM
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I have never thought that. Holy shit. But if I put her in that box, do I just let her keep crossing my boundaries? What moral and value system do I put her in?
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:38 PM
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Yes, because I did not want to lose her and feel any regret after.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:28 PM
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Sure. When they don't offer to pay. To me, no one is entitled for a free dinner. Of course, I will pay, but I need her to offer. The last women I did this with insisted I'm playing a game. Maybe. But it's a way to screen how humble a woman is. I despise entitlement during a date. I despise cherry picking the double standard when it suits a woman. And she was HOT. But I couldn't get over it.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:15 PM
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Apologizes, I don't completely follow you.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:13 PM
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That's wonderful. Congrats! When you first started your zero-bullshit policy, did you have more sexual encounters?
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:12 PM
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Respect. How has that faired with your dating life?
/r/seduction29/01/25 01:51 PM
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If everything went well, they make it easy for you to lead. How do you make it go well? Organic chemistry.
/r/seduction29/01/25 01:19 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. Your parents may have grown up in a similar household. You cannot love someone until you love yourself. Equally, you cannot attract WHO you want without attracting yourself. I would redirect your efforts from outer game to inner game, so to speak. What that looks like is having a balanced lifestyle: - spiritual - physical - mental - social - health - financial Focus on these traits, and you'll become the lighthouse. No longer needing to be a ship for a women's lighthou…
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:32 AM
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You don’t love yourself. When you love yourself, you become a beacon of love. Do you want to be the lighthouse or the ship?
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:47 PM
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No I agree with you. But what man of high standards is also a player? Two different worlds. You can’t have both.
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:36 PM
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Fair. However, you wouldn’t be at the level you are if you couldn’t attract quantity. This community says 1 thing, but prefers a flock over a golden chicken.
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:30 PM
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What if your standards attract less women than you want? Like is it ok to lower your standards for the sake of fun and experience?
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:27 PM
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I would use that opportunity to make a joke. Hell, say a sex joke. Like, “My gift is in my bedroom.”
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:03 PM
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How do I not let rejection make me feel unworthy or something like that?
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:55 PM
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How did you dig, so to speak? Like meditation, travel, writing, etc?
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:50 PM
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Interesting. How did you work on your self esteem?
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:33 PM
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Todd V has great material on it on yt.
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:16 PM
0

That’s the point
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:20 PM
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“Why you askin’ why, beautiful?”
/r/seduction23/01/25 04:38 PM
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The coolest and the hottest and also, the coolest.
/r/seduction23/01/25 01:45 PM
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Tinder is taking a shortcut to love. It won't improve your approach anxiety. Won't improve the skill of seduction.
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:41 PM
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The best location is around your arms.
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:38 PM
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Underrated comment. I should add that it should be a genuine honor. And that is only built, not on rhetoric, but on having your own lifestyle aligned with your values. Otherwise, she'll never feel like it's an honor.
/r/seduction22/01/25 12:19 AM
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I asked them to pay the tip, and I cover the meal.
/r/seduction22/01/25 12:19 AM
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wtf did i just read?
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:17 PM
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Short tongue. My gag reflex hits. Most vaginas look like a pastrami sandwich.
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:06 PM
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You're better than me. I hate eating out. lol
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:55 PM
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The average penis size in America is 5.5, so you are good! My size is 6.5, average girth, but I struggle at times to make girls cum. What I found to help is being honest in bed. That relieves most of my performance anxiety. Women who love you will reward honesty in bed. Always.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:54 PM
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Why did she marry you in the first place?
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:12 PM
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How many inches? Seriously though, you got to build the courage to address it. You know she wants a better sex life--she fantasies about it through porn. So, you got to put in the effort. That starts with being honest. The best you can hope for is her being honest as well.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:10 PM
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That's fair. There's a lot of impressionable ppl who read top comments like yours and think pussy is the best thing ever. It's a fleeting moment of great pleasure--really good pleasure, but like an hour of body massages with me drooling through that head hole is good as fck as well. But yeah, the totality of foreign travel is the shit.
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:37 PM
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Why do ppl associate sex with the best time of their lives? There’s got to be greater times than pussy.
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:28 PM
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Blues eyes white dragon will get slayed!
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:13 PM
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After you get their attraction, pull them to a dark corner and show them your yugioh cards. “It’s time to d-d-d-d-duel!”
/r/seduction17/01/25 01:47 PM
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I’m reading that book right now. Wished I would’ve read it sooner.
/r/seduction15/01/25 07:00 PM
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This hits close. I will just say that Radiohead’s “Creep” is a great way to laugh at oneself and the notion of being a creep. Just laugh it out, and be willing to lose women. There are 4 billion of them.
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:10 PM
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Go and be awkward, young man.
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:50 PM
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Single ladies!
/r/seduction17/10/24 12:48 PM
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If you can seduce a mirror, you can seduce girls.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:06 PM
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Just say you’re 6”. Or 4ft 11. Say you’re 9 feet tall!
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:54 PM
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I never knew I could say that. I will use this line for everything.
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:40 PM
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Hahaha that’s IF you get her number. Imagine seducing girls just to blow them off
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:34 PM
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My worst is hey you look cute. It's sooooo basic.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:31 PM
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There is an argument to be made if you don't validate her. It would keep her chasing.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:44 AM
0

But mostly, yes. Yeeet, sometimes no.
/r/seduction06/09/24 01:51 AM
0

I say, "Hey babe, wanna get wet?"
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:32 PM
15

Don't be afraid to choke on your words.
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:36 PM
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Perhaps
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:53 PM
3

You could be 74 and game a 30 year old. All that matters is attraction. Let other ppl judge.
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:42 PM
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World Famous 3-Step Approach to Showing Interest to Your Dream Guy: Step 1: Say you like his tie. Step 2: Then say, I like your belt. Step 3: Finally, say, I like. If you do all 3 steps correctly, it will work.
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:31 PM
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Just join a hobby club, find ppl of similar interest. Love will find you when you're working on yourself.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:12 AM
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Last night, I met a girl who made everything so easy for me to get laid, I thought this was a set up. From her holding her hand out so I can grab it, to flirting with me enroute to ice cream. But, she was hot, so fuck it. Everything was great. We were flirty, laughing, etc. However, after ice cream, alarms went off when she said, "So, are we going to have dinner?" She had this self-entitled tone that was off putting, but instead of blowing her off, I went along to see what happens. We go to a pi…
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:27 PM
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Bro, yes on paper your bio stats limit you. So, fuck your bio stats. Leverage 100% your greatest strength. If you don't know it yet, what RSD suggest is your energy. The great equalizer at parties is your vibe. If you have a free flowing fun energy, women will forget that you're 5'4''. Again, focus on strengths. I'm 5'8.5". I leverage my sense of style, my humor, and ability to dance in my game. Focus on your strengths.
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:57 PM
1

Really? How did the therapist react when she found out you date her niece?
/r/seduction22/05/24 01:21 PM
1

It didn't make you better because you lost momemtum. What I've learned in practicing (or not practicing) game for a month it's all about momentum. Imagine after getting laid, you went out again. And again. And scheduled your week to talk to atleast one stranger after work every day. You would have wind in your sail. Ever so slowly.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:11 AM
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To add, our ancestors who procreated found their mates in group settings. They weren't isolated like solo gamers are on the streets. So, if your goal is to be a solo gamer, I don't think millions of years of mating will help. It goes against our hard wiring to cold approach strangers. I think theory can help. However, if your goal is to find a mate, our ancestors point to being part of a larger group, and meeting your mates there.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:04 AM
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80% Exp, 20% Theory. For me, doing RSD Owen's bootcamp was life changing. We would learn the system from 2pm - 9pm and practice it at night until 3am. Now that I'm back irl, I'm regressing into my thoughts. I've lost the adrenaline rush my body anticipated during the bootcamp. Momentum killed. Now, theory doesn't help approach anxiety. However, based on what I learned at RSD, the solution is gaming with like-minded men. That will guarantee I return to gaming again.
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:58 AM
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I'm in my early 30's and I've never had a gf either. As others have said, atleast you got LAID-- from going to a PARTY--in your early 20's! On the rare occasions I go to a party, I have never gotten laid from it. So, you are definitely on your way to that goal of yours.
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:49 AM
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Of course there is. Sex!
/r/seduction17/05/24 06:51 PM
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You right. She was the 1st cute girl in a while at work, and I forgot to press off autopilot. I've got a bad habit of "comfort building" for too long.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:34 AM
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Cus it's not the first time I've seen a girl "turn off" during work. I only notice her during my break. We don't work together.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:26 AM
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I hear you. So far for about two weeks, I have taken two approaches: RSD's indirect approach, and learning Currie's Mode One direct approach. Both express the frame of alpha, just in different context. What you're saying is trash the alpha frame entirely? So, what does that leave a beginner with?
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:25 AM
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How am I full of shit?
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:26 AM
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What kind of guy am I?
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:58 AM
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Fair point. IRL it's def a mask. I reserve the word "alpha" for reddit mostly. Thank you for responding.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:13 AM
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For our tribal ancestors, social rejection could lead to excommunication from one's tribe, ending in death. So, unless you were the biological alpha in the group, you would not risk your social tie to mate with their women. That ancestral fear has been embedded into our reptile brains since. That is why approaching women is scary for majority of men. Our neocortex can rationalize the fear, but now it's a psychological fear. Something you wouldn't have been aware of intuitively. And yes, it's sca…
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:59 PM
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YES THEY DO
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:40 PM
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uBERMENSCH? That's ghey as hell. Alpha is a great word. Idk what you guys r talking about.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:25 PM
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The craziest?
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:24 PM
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Currie is not an online pick up guy.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:20 PM
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"You don’t have enough experience with women" You're saying it's high risk and short term reward. I 100% agree. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:17 PM
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LOL that's hilarious. I'm have to say that line irl one day.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:16 PM
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If Carl Jung can successfully group 4 billion ppl into 2 types of personalities, extrovert-introvert, I think it's possible to group 4 billion into 4 types.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:05 PM
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Overgeneralization. I'd say it's very very scary to talk to women. For many biological and psychology reasons.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:03 PM
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lol it's cringe, but when defined, it makes sense. Essentially, it's a person who knows what they want and has the courage to go after it. That's alpha. So, if you know you want to hook up with a girl, and have the balls to go after it, even if you fail, that is considered alpha.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:01 PM
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And you're definitely #2.
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:52 PM
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You don't understand why a man wants to hook up with a girl at work? Do you have a low sex drive or something?
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:51 PM
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Sure. Hence the title "fake alpha".
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:45 PM
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Thank you for reading my post. Yeah, if I can pull safely, then I try. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:45 PM
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Why do you disagree?
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:41 PM
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There are four types of men in the dating world: Alphas Alphas with some beta qualities Betas with some alpha qualities Betas This idea comes from Mode One by Currie. Highly recommend. Do you disagree with this labeling?
/r/seduction16/05/24 07:56 PM
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So, you'd open up with something like "I love your breast" kind of phrase?
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:05 PM
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I will check this out. Thank you. Curious, when you opened with that line, what was the follow up like? So she smiled and got wet. What did she say or you said--the dialogue that led to the close?
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:01 PM
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How do I know you're not trolling? That's absolutely terrifying thing to say at first approach.
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:01 PM
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Eh. I mean, I've just had one coach, Owen Cook, and he was legit. His inner game approach has helped me become aware of my stifled psyche, which significantly helped me with my outer game. Granted, I'm really a beginner, and his approach may be too basic for you.
/r/seduction06/05/24 08:05 PM
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Yes, the game is simple. Open, small talk, hook, flirt, close. It's the social conditioning that's difficult to get rid of. That just takes constant exposure. Curious, who is a famous coach who is weak in your eyes? I just did a bootcamp with one.
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:53 PM
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Thank you so much.
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:49 PM
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So, I just returned from a beginner's bootcamp, and started my first day back at home. Knowing that I want to improve my confidence and skillset in gaming, after work, I had a plan to see a museum facade a mile from me and made sure to walk slowly and enjoy the scenary. The results were a few approaches, no closes, and alot of insight gained. Probably spent 2 hours total. It was fun. As far as folks saying it's a waste of time, just do it on the weekend, etc. well it depends on what you want. Da…
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:48 PM
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Indeed. I feel like my approaches are also becoming too friendly. I remember on one date, this girl said, "Say the dirtiest thing you can think of." I struggled. So yeah, perhaps throwing rejection out the window is a good frame for next time.
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:34 PM
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You make a good point. I guess my issue is finding a hook point to escalate. For example, the "q/a" thread between the girl and I seems like the hook point. However, what this thread is suggesting is that it's a false hook point. Like you said, it's mere conversation at best, boredom at worst. With that said, I think the hook point is when I ask her in return and she's passionate about it. Like, if I cold read "you look Puerto Rican" and she says yes, perhaps I can use that as a flirting window.
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:33 PM
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Pointless banter. Ok. Is there an example of that on YouTube?
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:27 PM
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Elaborate. If she ask me for my sign, I just say no?
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:26 PM
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What if she’s so persistent that she wants everything and won’t leave until she gets it? I’m (I hate that I m saying this) scared to disappoint her if I’m being difficult.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:25 PM
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Thank you for your reply. Hm, I guess context would help. I was drawing their portrait, so naturally I guess they’d be bored—or curious? Both maybe. I assume that mystery causes curiosity causes desire. And desire is good for dating, or at least first encounter, no? Once I finished her portrait, then I made my move. She rejected me lol.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:22 PM
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This doesn't explore the depths of love, just the part where magic tricks can turn a girl on. On a brighter note, it sorta has a good ending. Strauss made another book. I forget, but it does explore his emptiness post-pua.
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:30 AM
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Didn't mean to stress you out.
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:05 AM
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Hahaha...oh god you're too pragmatic. I want to get lost in a love story. I already know the psychology of love. (psych grad)
/r/seduction09/04/24 12:21 AM
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Why not? It seems acceptable. And I'm sure the women on those YT vids consent afterwards. If they didn't consent, you wouldn't see them on video. I could be wrong.
/r/seduction03/04/24 09:50 PM
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Interesting. Too bad I can't wear sunglasses.
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:29 PM
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Talk to the white women.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:48 PM
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