I am scared to get in the right mind frame

epimpstyle · 2024-12-31T00:58:07+00:00

I guess you know that the right time to approach a girl will never come, it will never happen that you are walking down the street having a super-high energy, good mood and just at that moment you see a girl on the street, she comes towards you, makes eye contact with you, smiles, there is no one around to hear you talking, both of you wearing the same color t-shirt to make the perfect opener... nah... stop dreaming, this only happens in movies.

Once you understand that perfect timing and moments never happen, you have to try another method. Either you go out of your house when your mood is good and you have about 30 minutes to approach someone or .... when your mood is bad, just tell her something and hope for the best - but that is easier said than done, but if you don't tell her anything, the chances of her telling you anything are so small that you need a magnifying glass to see them.

You can't have high energy all day long, but talking with a friend will keep you in the mood for a much longer period of time than walking down the street alone.

Another version is to warm up before you talk with a girl, so you talk with a vendor, with an older man/woman - it is important just to say a few sentences to a stranger and slowly you get in a talkative mode and the good mood of wanting to talk with a girl will appear (again, you have about 30 minutes before the effect disappears, so you need to act quickly, the longer you wait, the worse it will be).

how do I act like I actually want sex and not be afraid to want it

You're thinking too far ahead, just look that even getting into a talkative mode with a girl is difficult and there's so much preparation just to say "hi", so for the moment forget about nasty things.

Radiant_Ad2782 · 2024-12-31T02:51:04+00:00

My rule of thumb is if i see the girl again for the 2nd time and she is attractive you just do it , plus the good old "I couldn't look at myself seeing you for the 2nd time and not talking to you ect" other option is just start a conversation

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-31T07:54:14+00:00

You should organize your life properly so you can maintain that positive attitude and high motivation even after long hours of effort. Surround yourself with people that support you. Wear good clothes, exercise, eat healthy, take care of your hygiene. Also, such issues to approach usually stem from lack of experience or poor game plan. Do you know what you want to say? Do you know that you can’t get experience in your head, you absolutely need to take some risk and jump into unknown to progress.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-12-31T12:37:58+00:00

You can’t. Don’t chew more than what you can bite.

In fact having the constant need to approach can make you look needy or desperate. If you’re tired then you’re tired. Love and take care of yourself first. Hot chicks are always around.

Title	I am scared to get in the right mind frame
Author	amlextex
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 30, 2024 11:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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