| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | depressed afHow did it happen ? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of Feminine Values“Given or earned”? You know theres a big difference right... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Having a high stress job and still being active?Thanks dude! Appreciate for being able to answer my question. Yeah its usually when theres a big job, everything else goes on the back-burner including health. And the toxicity just keeps building up. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Having a high stress job and still being active?Maybe I worded my question wrongly, but what I meant was, is there even a way to preserve being masculine in a world that isn’t interested in building you nor in your character due to the simple fact that making money is more important and everything else is not a priority? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Can a beta switch to an alpha in a woman's eyes?That is literature. Fiction. Not that its not relevant, but it should be taken with a grain of salt. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Career Advice for High SchoolerCare to elaborate on your vomit of thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:06 PM |
| 3 | College tinder?Skip the question. (Sometimes its best not to answer every statement) text: whats your number? What do you think? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 8 | Career Advice for High SchoolerNot really... Asktrp lately has had an influx of people that I would categorise as “the blind leading the blind.” (Not the EC but the weirdos with weird advice) But anyways to keep it Simple and Stupid, check out college subs on reddit, do internships(this summer or work) and develop your hobbies because they’re cool and few will have them (especially the Russian, if you do some tests and maybe tutor it as the first guy in your school, thats a cool way to distinguish yourself in applications) Yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you say going monk mode raises or lowers your SMV?I think its like those questions “why aren’t you married by 30 questions asked by anyone including the cashier at McDonalds”... you get what I’m sayin? Instead of going on monk mode, actually go live with the monks if you have the patience. But I’d say go and do a challenge instead. Train for a marathon. Learn to swim 5K. Etc etc. You kill ten birds with one stone, but its hard, not going to lie. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Would you say going monk mode raises or lowers your SMV?They’ll wonder why you aren’t having girls coming with you. You damn right. But what can you do? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Girls smile, look at me, exchange numbers but no dates?Yeah you can fuck off lmao. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls smile, look at me, exchange numbers but no dates?If I were you, I’d be silent instead of writing something that is not smart. If you were diligent enough, you would have noticed I was talking about a trend I noticed, not about one girl. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls smile, look at me, exchange numbers but no dates?Yeah I’m aware of that no reschedule is low interest. I want to change then to medium high interest with future girls. Thats a negative. I send two texts usually: •First text as ice breaker. •Second text in 3 days: hi (name)! Hope things are going well in (any stuff I know about her.) sometimes I say something about myself, say anything cool I’ve been doing recently. Then last sentence, I just say “ lets meet up for a drink/coffee/ this week.” Obviously it changes up and down, I could add, remov… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Approach in class?In a nutshell, do you worry how people look at you when you talk to friends? No you have a dgaf right attitude, he’s your friend and thats it right. Same thing here, go and approach like a friend. Talk to her, make small talk introduce, talk about class so far, and then say whats your number. Plus as always, people don’t really care, whether its classmates or people on the street, only you care tbh; so do it and be happy that you tried rather than keep on wishing. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 10:37 AM |
| 1 | I get IOI at the most inconvenient times, what to do?I reckon gym same thing, just as you leave, open her up? What about the girl that is about to leave/walks by you? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I get IOI at the most inconvenient times, what to do?Understood, I will bear that in mind. I just felt like I escalated in a friendly manner, well I perceived it as that, and it made me awkward in my mind to go for that number line. Anyways, I have a lot of learning to do. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I get IOI at the most inconvenient times, what to do?Yeah but theres tension, when they look at you, I don’t feel like I could smile. Its just strong eye contact. If its an approach without IOI, I would say hi etc and smile. The amounts of times I walked by when I got IOI hurts my mind when I think about it. Yet I do get rejected so thats why I am hesitant asf. What do you mean by ask for her number? Honestly it has happened three times, I chat with a girl and I can’t kick myself to ask her number. Like it doesn’t feel organic. Sometimes its organ… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:36 PM |
| 3 | I get IOI at the most inconvenient times, what to do?Thanks for the tip! Understood. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Lost at 28Lifes too short to worry about marrying. Get a girl pregnant and then see if it works, it works. Remember she has to want to be pregnant too, so its pointless thinking everything’s up to you. As long as you have healthy genes, its a mutual thing to have children. No point in marrying and then seeing if she can’t have children. It just depends man, its beyond TRP or even me to talk who you should tie your life with. It could go well, it could go horrible. You could die in a year and this idea wil… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Lost at 28Not everyone can afford a house, you can keep renting. Economy controls everything, if you don’t know well you know. Don’t let the house stop you from being with someone if you want that. However unless you live in a small flat, you won’t be able to save a lot of money to buy a house. If your job permits you to barely survive, keep looking for a better job. If it allows you to save money and you like it, get the money and keep saving. If you are marrying for “class and to be new money”, your inv… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | This girl I live with applied to be a "professional cuddler" tell me about herAgree and amplify here | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | SMV is highest it’s ever been yet still struggling to pull girls that I want to pull?How long did it take to change your position from weak to a strong frame? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Where can I set a date if we both live far away?I mean, that sounds like an ideal version no? Surely you can be flexible no? I live in an urban city, and most cool stuff (cool clubs, musuems etc) happens in the centre. Where I live, there is very little action, or cool stuff. A few lame bars but thats it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Dudes I need help!I think I’m a mix. Idk. A bit of both. I can converse but I do feel anxious when talking to some extent. I get into my head alot. Its just even the convo was interesting, there were some weird things, a) she looked around me when she was talking, and looked at people, even at other boys. B) I didn’t overtly flirt with her, and she opened me up by asking me where Im from/what I study/“those BIO questions” ya know. So it felt weird being interviewed haha. But she did give her number and all. I did… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Dudes I need help!Yeah thats a good way to look at it. Just being a social dude and talking to this girl, it changes the mindset to I don’t want anything from her, which would make me feel that I shouldn’t ask for a phone num in the end though? Ever had that? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Dudes I need help!I mean sometimes I say to myself, just do it, and then sometimes I say whats the point, you’ll waste time and won’t get her number/sex/she won’t be your gf/ basically becoming outcome dependent without noticing it at first. And sometimes I’m like “ehh what the heck lets do it!” Is this because of imposter syndrome or because I just need to keep more approaching and talking? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 11:26 AM |
| 4 | It would never happen to me. She's special. And I'm wrong.Yes but isn’t the concept that if you’re an alpha in her eyes, she won’t cheat? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Started to cold approach but I freeze and choke 4 times out of 5, and can't find a way to conversate longer than 10 secondsI approached as well today, it went okayish but my mouth somehow got dried up and I felt very excited, as if “holy shit am I actually doing this!?” making my arms weak and my stomach full of butterflies which didn’t help. When will it get smooth? Or you just stop caring and it subsides in the end? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the paranoia of being cheated on?Paranoia, a fiction of your imagination. It’s conjured up. Why aren’t you battling those thoughts and allowing them to get to the better of? Again, it’s not that you aren’t ready of a relationship but understand its fears and I probably think because you are afraid of losing out, so make peace with that, and focus on the bigger issues on life, we are all on borrowed time, plus if you are a cool boyfriend to your girl, she probably won’t look elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | She's the oneHow did you seal the date? By calling or texting? What do you think if you got rejected? How would you feel then? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Confidence Above AllVasily thanks! I have approached on the weekend two girls, and talked to 6 girls today. (Two were crushes in uni, and approached a set(two girls), got cockblocked by her friend and then talked to a not a hot girl, but forced myself because they are human and wished them well, and talked for a solid 5 minutes about mundane stuff. Not bad, for a rookie, but I do see I want to push more, and push the buttons around instead of giving every answer like a vending machine. Ps I did miss some good appro… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Got a girls number, how to set a date?Bobbie great point in pointing out the psychological point but my point was...lets be honest, you can’t send a first text “lets go out”, because its going to hurt you more than do you good. Now, sure there are a million variables at play. How you met, how long you talked, what did she think of you, etc etc but generally, you have to set this well, even if shes into you, you still have to look chill and not text like a beta “come jump on my dick” right???? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls number, how to set a date?My dude this is both wrong and right advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number, how to set a date?Ok rationality is not bad, what’s true is true, but you also have to consider two things A)girls don’t want to be easy B)a bad text can mess up your game. So should I just send hey! Its “me” ? And wait... what happens if theres no reply? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Confidence Above AllI approached 4 chicks in two days since I last wrote and reading your comment. I have approached before but I’m getting slowly used to it. Rejection hurts tbh, and this is daygame so no nightgame. Got rejected by a girl today, we held eye contact like it felt deep but when I asked for number, she said shes not in the mood rn(like she doesnt want to date). So slow small progress bit by bit. Wbu how many times did you get rejected? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Confidence Above AllLooking forward to your podcasts! zaitsev on other hand I often feel shy saying stuff to girls. How can i get less attached saying stuff to girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Approaching when its hard/uneasy moments!Thanks Man! totally spot on. Gotta push past the resistance regardless how we feel. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Approaching when its hard/uneasy moments!Fair enough bro I just gotta run after them if shes worthwhile. But it does feel like theres a million negative thoughts running when you still didn’t open but is still approaching phase. That few seconds before you open her up are really tense. Whats the best way to not get hung up after a number rejection ( no reply after sending first text ) ? I say to myself “dont get hung up” but damn I still feel hurt kinda, although Im not bitter at all, just kinda feel empty/still awaiting for that messa… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Approaching when its hard/uneasy moments!Judging by your lack of posts and FR and huge amounts of comments, I don’t think you should comment much. I am curious what the experienced users did in those situations, if they had them. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in fashion or photography? or big changes in career?It does suck the life out of you. Plus you have to like it. Its not for everyone. What are you doing currently? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in fashion or photography? or big changes in career?No way dude! Can I pm you? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:38 PM |
| 3 | What advice/ tips would you give yourself if you could rewind time back to being 18 years oldEnglish is good though if you know how to use it. But the usual pathways are lame after finishing a english degree. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?Oui oui je vais ! Thank you man! Late reply but I will work on it!!! | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?I will try, i know its not an overnight process but its making me harder to know of my smv scale because certain type of girls see me(look at me) whilst other types ignore me. And both types are hot in their own way. And thank you! I will keep working! | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?So sound/be like a confident guy and you’ll get those chicks? Why I desire this attention? Seems like the question itself is a mindset of the 1%. Or did you mean something else? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?I will try meditation! | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?I mean sure face is important, but the thing is I either seem them in a group of girls (no guys to judge) or guys that aren’t 180cm/80kg/chris pine/pratt/pitt face, but most are like baby face (chalamat etc) and they don’t lift/not athletic... | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Any french dudes? I lift yet I don’t get much attention, am I doing something wrong?Thanks bro! It just seems weird and makes me feel as if those girls are out of my league. But I’ll remember your words. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | If it was free would any of you get plastic surgery?Everything we do is not just for ourselves but to look better in our society no? I mean we hit two birds with one stone, we look good for the people and we feel good for ourselves. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | New to this, was this an IOI ?Possibly but probably not. Anyways I probably will never know so this post is futile at best. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I finally beat it- the hardest journey of my lifeHow many did you actually approach though? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | New to this, was this an IOI ?Understood, but I don’t think it was realistic in my case. She was with friends(or fam not sure), it was the sub and my station was in a few, hers might have been till the very end. Sure, you can continue talking to her till her last station but idk seems intrusive no? And I just felt shocking because her I am, a dude that can’t take normal pictures and this girl, that first ignored me started looking at me. Which I didnt anticipate tbh. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 09:41 PM |
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