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I will say in response to the individual whose comment was removed that I was not 10% as successful in building meaningful friendships, relationships, and friends-with-benefits dynamics when I was “in the Red Pill” as I have been since I left it. I am currently in a very lovely LTR with an amazing woman but would probably be miserable, alone, and causing significant emotional harm to those around me if I stuck with the red pill misogyny cult rubbish.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 01:37 AM
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It essentially functions as a misogynistic cult. It brainwashes vulnerable young men into believing that they have to mistreat women and behave as narcissistic sociopaths in order to be romantically & sexually successful. It tells these men that anyone who disagrees with the views of the red pill is not to be trusted and isolates them from those outside of TRP - like a cult. I fell down the rabbit hole at age 13-14 and am still trying to heal from it well into my 20s.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/25 12:21 AM
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I fell into the 'red pill' rabbit holes when I was in my early teens (many, many years ago) and got out over the course of my late teenage years. I would be more than happy to participate and would love to have the opportunity to share my story with someone. Please feel free to reach out if you are still looking for participants.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/25 10:47 PM
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This 100%. If you cannot get him to stop bringing up his "redpill" beliefs, then the answer to the question of how to communicate with him is: Don't.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 08:12 AM
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Doesn't seem like anyone has really picked up on this. Rollo's interview with Robert has just under 38K views. More alarmingly, the interview with Rollo on Robert's podcast has 82,000. While I usually don't like to comment on things I have not thoroughly looked into, I'm not going to bother listening to a full hour of Rollo Tomassi for the sake of my health and sanity. But I'm guessing that he's just a hurt, divorced guy looking for something to make him feel better about his divorce and griftin…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 08:07 AM
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Couldn't have put it better myself.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 03:32 AM
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I have self esteem issues and attachment to issues Which you will not be able to heal from while dating someone who treats you so poorly. You deserve better. You know that he isn't treating you the way that you want to be treated and certainly isn't treating you half as well as you deserve to be treated. You should end things and tell him why you're ending it. He isn't going to get better if he thinks that people (and specifically you) will continue to put up with his narcissistic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 03:31 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story with me. I found that I related to much of what you said. Everytime I like someone I freak out (I think I start disassociating) and so the only way I seem to be able to get anywhere with someone is by beginning to act. I can unfortunately relate to this. I have major dissociative issues that have been triggered for weeks or months on end by toxic/emotionally abusive relationships. This is where TRP steps in, I guess. The Bible of acting. And you go and pull women…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 04:34 PM
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Extremely well said.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 06:53 PM
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Being confident in yourself. Doing what you believe is right, even when you know that it is costly and you may/will be judged for it. Being secure enough that you can be open and emotionally vulnerable with yourself/those close to you, male AND female, and not worry that this makes you "less of a man." The ability to not put sex on a pedestal and avoid chasing after it. (e.g. To the point of manipulating and emotionally abusing women like TRP encourages, or doing things unconsensually. Those beh…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 06:53 PM
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I found TRP at 14 and left it a couple years later. I just felt incredibly alone and miserable. I wanted to learn how to get my shit together, find some good friends who respected me, and get into a relationship (or at least get laid) I certainly accomplished those goals to some extent, but I realized how bigoted, hateful, ideological, and idiotic TRP was. I slowly went on there less and less and as I spent time in the real world, I shed many of my "RP" beliefs. Going back on there as an adult, …
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 06:44 PM
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My thoughts: Anyone who does things for others with the expectation that they are entitled to sex/romantic attention in return is a simp/nice guy/etc. If you genuinely just do things for others because you're a nice person who enjoys helping people and you expect nothing in return, then you are not a simp. (Though some women who are used to all the men around them trying to fuck them may perceive you as one)
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 03:27 AM
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As I said, people on the red pill subreddit call them "purple pill" which is just code for espousing toned down versions of some of the few moderate and sensible ideas in the red pill.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 01:49 AM
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Just be critical of what you're reading and look out for red flags (as you should be doing with any self-help/advice book) and you should be fine.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 01:05 AM
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My father was an awful role model. Definitely has NPD, was not very masculine, was rarely emotionally present. He physically abused me from 3-4 until I hit him back when I was 17. He never stopped emotionally abusing me. His mother (my grandmother) is quite narccissistic as well, though rarely mistreated me. My father was the least favourite child as the eldest, and I was given the same role (with the abuse far worse than my dad ever got) in my family. I suspect that my great-grandfather was the…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 12:43 AM
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I read it many years ago when I was 14 or so. I recall it being helpful and not too heavy on "redpill" ideology. Generally books that redpill guys call "purplepilled" are basically just the healthy, non emotionally avoidant version of the redpill ideology.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 12:13 AM
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