| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 180 | Don't sleep on Tinder | Escalation & Calibration | anabrolichk | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:16 PM |
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| 1 | how much does physical appearance matter (acne)?That's the way to do it | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | how much does physical appearance matter (acne)?I agree. He could see a dermatologist. For me cutting lactose out was the ticket. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:36 AM |
| 3 | how much does physical appearance matter (acne)?I have almost no acne now but did better when I had acne in my 20s. Don't let it fuck with your confidence. Own that shit. Yes some girls dislike it but others simply don't care | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever spotted a Daygamer/PUA in the wild?Seen a guy approach a girl who gave me very clear IOIs and stood in front of me (super close). Guy was way older and creeped her out. I was too pussy to talk to her at the time. I glared at the guy and he said sorry but didn't lose his cool or his smile. The girl just looked at me. I respected the guy then and now for trying. If I'd had the balls to talk to her I probably could have got her #. Second time I've seen it happen I was trying to work up the courage to talk to a girl and a guy swept i… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Don't sleep on TinderYour advice was legit. I almost lost her by catching feelings a little and saying some half serious commitment type shit. But yeah she's back after a two-week break | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderTwo weeks later and she's back. I got a message from her this morning while waiting to meet another girl lol. She wanted to meet tonight but I'd already nut twice with the new girl. I'll see her next weekend, hopefully. I've been approaching girls I find irresistible and my approach anxiety is GONE when I make a move. Seems I can't resist a pretty face and phat ass and will go for a girl with both without hesitation 😂 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?About 40 mins ago on my lunch break: 'i already have my lunch (holds up bag) but you look tastier.' she laughed and said she was sorry but she had a bf. God she was beautiful | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenYup I keep that in mind constantly. Can't let the downs get me down when the ups have been so good (and are going to be even better)! | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenThank you! Yeah just need to stay mindful. Can't let rejection get to me. Been rejected twice in four days by girls I work with. Can't let it get to me or I'll miss opportunities with the more attractive women I don't work with 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:24 AM |
| 5 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenOn a few of my first approaches I told women who were walking by me that they were beautiful. When they actually stopped and said thanks, ready to talk, I was like 😳 and just kept walking lol. I felt like I wasn't good enough. I still have that issue now. I've had very, very attractive women hit on me, even got their contact info and gone on dates with them, but my nerves fucked me up. I have poor self esteem for sure and it comes from childhood experiences. I definitely want to get past this, a… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenI did my first cold approach like... six years ago now. I was terrified. The girl was really sweet and really understanding of my nerves. I kept running into her after and she just held eye contact with me every time. I didn't have the confidence to talk to her again after she shot me down that first time. If I saw her today I'd ask if she remembered me 😂 Also I've been waiting for signs to approach but I would never have met my ex gf if I followed that rule. Some girls just don't make eye conta… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:42 AM |
| 3 | What would you say to start a conversation with a girl at the gym?I can't explain it but I had to. Was something instinctual deep down. We were together for 2.5 years through all of the ups and downs. Gotta take chances and not overthink things. She laughed when I asked her how she got that sweaty btw. We don't speak at all anymore but I learnt a lot from our time together. Take some damn chances or you won't get the girls you want and deserve. I think I'm done with relationships for a while. I get too attached and settle and I want to break that pattern and l… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 5 | What would you say to start a conversation with a girl at the gym?Met my ex at the gym by asking her if she got that sweaty just by lifting weights. I was nervous af but pushed through. Convinced her to let me check out her bodyfat with a squeeze test. My mouth was dry from nerves lol. She decided to leave the gym and say bye to me right in the middle of a heavy bench set. My heart fell lol. I said bye and then hoped I'd run into her again. I didn't, but we matched on an app many months later. Our first date was working out together at the gym. She loved the s… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Don't sleep on TinderLol. You sound butthurt. You can barely string a sentence together in English. Keep going please. I won't respond though 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Don't sleep on TinderYeah you are lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like a sleazy sales man when you cold approach?Yes | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like a sleazy sales man when you cold approach?Send me a pic? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like a sleazy sales man when you cold approach?Wtf. I'm 41 and meeting women left and right atm. Figure out what the issue is | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like a sleazy sales man when you cold approach?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderTurns out you were right. But I had a good time. Next | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderWho gives a fuck what you believe? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsAs long as you're happy my guy. Jk, nice job, and thanks for the inspiration 💪 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl of my dreamsHim and the dude? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderAnd it's over. She said she didn't want to wait an hour for me to get out of work tonight. Sounds like bs. Told her it did and that it wasn't a big deal for her to go grab something to eat first and then meet me after. I know where I went wrong was joking about relationships and marriage. I knew that would probably fuck things up. And it did. Just not my fucking day (yet). This girl at work I'm crushing on probably isn't interested. I offered her some candy and she got weird and evasive on me. I… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderHong Kong | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderNot here! | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Don't sleep on TinderWe're both Asian, but not Chinese (the dominant race) | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderThat was an unexpected q. Props you caught me a little off guard with that one 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Don't sleep on TinderYes, did you just work that out? Lol Gonna try and get another 40 minutes right now | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderShe's spending the night with me Friday. I asked her to because I really enjoy, I guess need, the physical contact. Let's see how I feel after | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderTalking to as many women as possible. After my last relationship I'm really fighting catching feelings | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderSorry NYC slang. It means don't underestimate Tinder | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderYeah a little height def doesn't hurt. She's like 115 lbs though and says I'm really heavy for her (215 lbs atm). | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderNo need to click on ads for MILFs in this city. There seem to be lots around! I used to automatically reject any woman with kids. That will no longer be the case. I got checked out hard by a mom with a kid in a stroller a few weeks ago and was weirded out. Much regret, she looked amazing | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderWhy is everyone asking me that lol. 6', she's around 5'2" I think | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Don't sleep on TinderFelt like she was losing interest a few days ago and deleted the convo. I was wrong though. We're still on for Friday | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderThis isn't my first rodeo. I expect failure/rejection and approach new girls daily atm | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Don't sleep on TinderI think it entirely depends on the city. That recent Netflix documentary, Tinder Swindler (?) really made Tinder popular here again | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderYeah I am waiting to see what happens. I don't actually know her yet. Especially coming out of a long relationship where I spent hours a day talking to my ex. I feel like I'm a different person after that last relationship | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Don't sleep on TinderGood looking depends on the beholder here. Most women automatically reject me just because I'm the wrong race. And yes 6' | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderCIS | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderWait and see what the next two decades of life bring | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Don't sleep on TinderDon't worry we'll take care of her for you | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderOh I did go down on her and I will again. I think she just fears intimacy/romance | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Don't sleep on TinderWe live in Hong Kong. Very dense city with very expensive property. Hotel rooms are really cheap atm since the government makes it very difficult and expensive to enter HK. That should change in June but for now cheap hotel rooms are the way to go. Even pre-COVID, hotel sex is the norm. Just big city things | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderOk buddy. We talked for a week first ftr | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderYup just taking it as it comes. Having options helps | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on TinderYeah, there are loads around but my unconventional schedule makes meeting them a challenge atm | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:11 PM |
| -2 | Don't sleep on TinderDeleted the chat unfortunately | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:10 PM |
| -3 | Don't sleep on TinderTell that to the girl I was seeing around Christmas. Seriously damaged goods. She thought she was going to marry him and he raped her repeatedly and would have killed her. All she needed was tolerance and numbness, right? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 12 | Don't sleep on TinderIndeed I am. She did make a sexual joke first, I think, and I took it from there. I couldn't not lol | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:09 PM |
| -5 | Don't sleep on Tinder😂 | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Don't sleep on TinderIt's entirely consensual and we're both enjoying ourselves very much. Trying to make this a weekly thing | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:06 PM |
| -3 | Don't sleep on TinderI meant for medical and religious reasons. I used to be a bitch too so I feel you brah. Life isn't a fairy tale as you'll find out when you finally get some tail | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Don't sleep on TinderAgree | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 14 | Don't sleep on TinderOr we're both mutually tired of the bs | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 47 | Don't sleep on TinderThanks! And she's totally ok with me sleeping with other women as long as they don't get jealous and start bothering her. Pretty sweet deal | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Don't sleep on TinderYou still want sex. In reality the only men who don't are asexual or abstaining for other reasons. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:54 PM |
| -16 | Don't sleep on TinderIntimacy and emotions expose you to the potential for serious pain | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Don't sleep on TinderYou'd think huh?😂 | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Don't sleep on TinderThat's the plan 😁 | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 11 | Don't sleep on TinderIt's refreshing for me to be able to just have great sex after a relationship in which the sex was terrible. No emotions to worry about. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Don't sleep on TinderHad your heart broken yet? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 11 | Don't sleep on TinderDon't we all want sex? Lol | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?Thanks, we still talk. Reached out to her last night. Can tell she still loves me. Might see her some time soon | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?Yes. She wouldn't have because we didn't have enough rapport yet. She met me off the app because she already 'knew me' though | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 08:30 AM |
| 29 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?Was at the gym and saw a very cute girl with a great butt and she was deadlifting and very sweaty (impressive). Gym is in our apartment complex. I have never seen anyone else deadlifting there, let alone a total hottie. I was out of practice, and hadn't approached a girl in months. I had to talk to her. I asked her if she got that sweaty just from deadlifts. She laughed and told me she did cardio before that. We talked about working out and life a bit more, and then bodyfat levels. She said she … | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 08:23 AM |
| 15 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?I met my ex gf at the gym! | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 06:54 AM |
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