Don't sleep on Tinder

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-05-18T16:55:43+00:00

Forget the naysayers man. You read her and she read you. You both wanted good sex and you got it. Win-Win.

The only losers are people here who are trying to belittle your experience. But then I don't blame them. They don't have enough life experience to understand this. I am 41 too and I completely get you.

Good job done!

Edit: Corrected "love experience" To "life experience".

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-05-18T16:00:43+00:00

Tinder is like having a passive flow of new opportunities. Keep on doing real life stuff, use tinder when you feel like it

yoitsappy · 2022-05-18T17:35:43+00:00

Tinder is sleeping upon me

ksmith11011 · 2022-05-18T17:07:39+00:00

You didn’t steer things towards sex, she was the one who steered it there and you’re just along for the ride. Sounds like you’re enjoying it though. Congrats

rjones416 · 2022-05-18T17:15:40+00:00

single moms in their 30s looking for sex...easy smash.

Dean_Soja · 2022-05-18T19:25:37+00:00

This sounds like a 14 year old wrote it, but congrats I guess.

froze_gold · 2022-05-18T18:13:31+00:00

Nice.

I know you aren't trying to catch feelings, but be warned - those feelings we don't want can creep up when they leave

Educational_Soup8845 · 2022-05-18T19:05:07+00:00

No shortage of matches on tinder but they all flake. Have had much more success with Bumble and Hinge, not to mention the girls are hotter on those two apps

Alpha-011 · 2022-05-18T19:16:20+00:00

It doesn't look real your history at all. It's ok to lie a little bit but making a whole history based your man's mind It's just fucked up!

Girls will not trust any random guy for sex at once, they need little clues, this is why they prefer to hang out first, at least 10 minutes before entering in someone's stranger room. She have kids! That's another point why she wouldn't do that.

IF SHE DOES huggggeee red flag🚩

Overall_Ebb_7833 · 2022-05-18T15:22:39+00:00

This is problem with online dating: it make women think all men want sex cause of this.

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-18T16:57:59+00:00

I had one like this off Bumble a few months back.

Hey we all get a lucky hit sometimes. But don’t start thinking that this is some kind of norm off OLD because it is the exception.

_Loup_Garou_ · 2022-05-18T20:44:26+00:00

You sure this was Tinder or did you click on the ad to find Hot and Horny MILFs in your city looking to fuck?

ShopperOfBuckets · 2022-05-18T20:03:07+00:00

is this a copypasta

PAULL-BLART · 2022-05-18T20:48:09+00:00

Nah man if I can’t give her head I can’t statisfy her, I will try to anyways even if she doesn’t like it, usually asking her in a teasing voice makes them give in.

oxycottonowl · 2022-05-18T22:03:17+00:00

Why is this whole sub so fucking cringe fr.. ?

Overall_Ebb_7833 · 2022-05-18T15:38:56+00:00

Answer: Yes. My heart has been shutter. But I move on from that. :)

AuremYT · 2022-05-18T17:43:39+00:00

Gnarly. I’m 19 and only had two hook ups and no longer looking for more….sooo enjoy yourself dude. Congrats 🎊

Archyblackcat · 2022-05-18T17:56:50+00:00

I wish I had tinder but my Gf will find it ..

ExpensiveNinja · 2022-05-18T19:06:55+00:00

Are you a good looking guy? 6' or higher?

Son_of_lakes · 2022-05-18T20:39:55+00:00

Why a hotel room and not your place?

Delicious_Jackoff · 2022-05-18T20:40:18+00:00

Cues Little Red Corvette intro

schebobo180 · 2022-05-18T21:08:54+00:00

I guarantee feelings will be caught. Lmao

That being said you do you.

Charge36 · 2022-05-18T21:13:07+00:00

Awesome but be careful. I've been with a couple girls like this and they can lose interest suddenly for no reason and go cold on you. Enjoy it while it lasts and hopefully she stays interested

anabrolichk · 2022-05-18T21:41:45+00:00

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Dumbengineerr · 2022-05-18T22:04:24+00:00

Still trying to make sense of the headline

Real-Edge-9288 · 2022-05-18T22:18:17+00:00

happy you got some of that good sugar wall... try to not fall for her so it will be long term. If you fall for her biy her flowers and stuff... she might freak out and end it. best of luck

Mean-Dragonfruit4941 · 2022-05-19T13:50:25+00:00

Hinge is better

BudgetInteraction811 · 2022-05-18T17:05:42+00:00

I don’t see why people are getting upset here. It’s gross for guys to be pushy about sex with women they don’t know off dating apps, but this woman is clearly wanting the same things here. The difference is not speaking in a vulgar way to women who aren’t looking for that already. Most don’t want this, so don’t do it to most. She does though; what’s the issue?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-05-18T17:58:00+00:00

Don’t sleep on Online Dating in general.

I had more success with Bumble and Hinge, but some guys do really well on Tinder

originalgainster · 2022-05-18T18:53:33+00:00

A real girl or trans?

anabrolichk · 2022-05-20T12:03:21+00:00

And it's over. She said she didn't want to wait an hour for me to get out of work tonight. Sounds like bs. Told her it did and that it wasn't a big deal for her to go grab something to eat first and then meet me after. I know where I went wrong was joking about relationships and marriage. I knew that would probably fuck things up. And it did.

Just not my fucking day (yet). This girl at work I'm crushing on probably isn't interested. I offered her some candy and she got weird and evasive on me. I'm not gonna talk to her unless it's work-related after that reaction.

Also my ex gf unblocked me. I'm like her favorite person in the world to go to for advice. I messaged her. She asked me about a compliment a guy paid her. Had to nope out of the convo and block her. Still got feelings for her even after all the sex I've had since her. She slept with someone about a month ago now and it really got to me even though we've been broken up for a while.

Gotta keep my head up and see what else the night brings. I'm exhausted. Poor sleep all week. Tomorrow's a new day if I don't magically meet a girl tonight lol

In the past a day like this would have had me in tears. I'm very minorly affected even though I've slept four hour nights all week. That's definite progress. No dice with these three women. So fucking what. Many more to come 😉

Title	Don't sleep on Tinder
Author	anabrolichk
Upvotes	180
Comments	119
Date	May 18, 2022 3:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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