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Escalation & Calibrationoriginalgainster/r/seduction02/01/22 02:45 AM
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Logisticsoriginalgainster/r/seduction06/01/22 08:47 PM
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Logisticsoriginalgainster/r/seduction08/01/25 04:19 PM
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Fundamentals originalgainster/r/seduction28/10/24 10:15 PM
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Outer Game originalgainster/r/seduction11/12/24 10:54 PM
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Lifestyleoriginalgainster/r/seduction04/03/25 02:24 AM
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Outer Game originalgainster/r/seduction07/01/25 04:33 AM
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Fundamentalsoriginalgainster/r/seduction04/05/22 07:39 PM
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originalgainster/r/seduction01/01/16 10:09 PM
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Resourcesoriginalgainster/r/seduction21/01/25 11:35 PM
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Outer Game originalgainster/r/seduction20/01/25 04:51 PM
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Resourcesoriginalgainster/r/seduction30/01/25 09:25 PM
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originalgainster/r/seduction08/12/15 12:35 AM
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Fundamentalsoriginalgainster/r/seduction17/01/22 03:59 AM
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originalgainster/r/seduction07/05/16 05:01 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationoriginalgainster/r/seduction03/12/24 06:16 PM
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Fundamentalsoriginalgainster/r/seduction24/12/21 04:21 AM
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originalgainster/r/seduction01/12/15 03:10 AM
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originalgainster/r/seduction03/04/16 07:02 AM
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Conversationoriginalgainster/r/seduction01/10/20 05:44 PM
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Field Reportoriginalgainster/r/seduction07/03/22 04:03 AM
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Outer Game originalgainster/r/seduction25/03/25 03:52 AM
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Outer Game originalgainster/r/seduction10/04/25 08:13 PM
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Fundamentalsoriginalgainster/r/seduction24/01/22 10:42 PM
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originalgainster/r/seduction21/12/15 01:42 AM
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Lifestyleoriginalgainster/r/seduction23/02/25 01:50 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
20

It’s called the post nut clarity
/r/seduction16/10/25 12:23 PM
2

This is like the story of that young musician who asked Mozart how to write a symphony. This story is almost certainly untrue, but that doesn't keep it from being true. If you know what I mean. Young Composer: "Herr Mozart, I am thinking of writing a symphony. How should I get started?" Mozart: "A symphony is a very complex musical form and you are still young. Perhaps you should start with something simpler, like a concerto." Young Composer: "But Herr Mozart, you were writing symphonies when yo…
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:54 PM
1

definitely not by asking about it on reddit :D
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:15 PM
1

It’s all in your head
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:50 PM
1

You text her right away with a dick pic
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:02 PM
3

Take her somewhere for a drink. Tell her you know her son and he is a good lad. A few pints, a few bar hops, and then… take her to the headquarters. Next morning she’ll make you the best breakfast you’ve ever had. Use your brain. Sorted.
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:28 AM
3

This
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:29 PM
2

I feel like you're thinking in the wrong direction. Your problem might be that you are trying to say the right things at the right time but you are probably failing or maybe you are succeeding but it's not congruent. If this is what you're doing, you need to not be needy, be vulnerable, and be honest with the women you meet. Maybe you are indeed not needy and you are honest with women. This is a slightly worse scenario because that might mean that you have a very dull personality. In that case, …
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:58 PM
19

also don't get offended when she rejects you or gives you hard time. just smile and be persistent. pay attention and give her some attention. listen to her :)
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:44 PM
8

dance classes
/r/seduction19/06/25 09:29 PM
21

Although it improved my dating life, I can't say it led me to a successful one yet in the way I want it, but reading Models was eye-opening. Don't get invested in someone you don't even know. It's okay to be rejected or if things don't work out. Don't be needy. Be vulnerable. Be honest.
/r/seduction05/06/25 06:43 PM
1

this is not about seduction.
/r/seduction15/05/25 07:16 PM
1

It's a book by Mark Manson. Arguably the best dating book for men.
/r/seduction09/05/25 07:39 PM
1

ABC. These ladies won’t understand anything else.
/r/seduction08/05/25 04:49 PM
2

Have you read Models?
/r/seduction08/05/25 03:34 AM
1

The things we have to do to be in a relationship these days… we are all cooked.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:44 PM
1

not true at all lol
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:18 PM
2

Break up with this great girl to be a player. Then regret that decision. Try to get back with her and fail because she has a new boyfriend. Regret that for many years.
/r/seduction16/04/25 05:00 PM
1

I thought she was interested because she gave me her Instagram and responded to my previous message
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:53 PM
3

I’m an idiot
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:24 PM
1

I had an hunch on not going for the second text but I’m bad at listening to those hunches lol
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:16 PM
-19

Ah nice I fucked it up again
/r/seduction10/04/25 08:43 PM
2

Yes. I have a date with one next week actually. 10s only season. Sorted.
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:36 PM
-2

Yeah the normies
/r/seduction26/03/25 06:00 PM
-3

Newbies won’t know
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:31 AM
-1

No
/r/seduction20/03/25 05:19 PM
1

Read Models
/r/seduction14/03/25 02:44 PM
98

Start by not caring too much about what women think about you being boring
/r/seduction14/03/25 02:20 AM
1

who the fuck cares?
/r/seduction12/03/25 05:08 PM
2

Wrong sub. Mods!!!
/r/seduction11/03/25 01:23 AM
1

Read Models by Mark Manson. I'd say don't cross out online dating.
/r/seduction10/03/25 06:42 PM
7

Not sure if this a pre-written opening question but it sounds like she's trying to get you to qualify yourself.I would take this opportunity to do the opposite and disqualify yourself and say something like "Oh I'm actually not special at all and you should definitely not date me ;)" Don't answer these questions directly especially if you just matched haven't even met this person yet. This is one of the options you have and certainly not the only one.
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:17 PM
11

You’re good
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:47 PM
4

What you say doesn't really matter compared to the intention behind it.
/r/seduction04/03/25 02:46 PM
9

There are a few things here. Short term solution: assuming there is some physicality and kissing on the date already it’s never a bad idea to ask the girl to come to your place. What’s the worst that can happen? She’s gonna say no but if you don’t ask you’re not gonna have sex anyway. Long term: you seem to have some issues with expressing your sexual desires any that kind of stuff. You also care too much about how the girl will react when express your desires. That’s neediness. You should work …
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:56 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:27 PM
5

My tip is to put your phone down and talk to women in real life.
/r/seduction09/02/25 04:28 PM
3

Do chicks still dig you? If they do, why not
/r/seduction09/02/25 04:26 PM
7

Nope not a good idea. Just thank her and move on. This is needy and women are better at smelling neediness than you can ever be.
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:44 PM
2

Niceeee
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:26 PM
11

It always has been
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:43 PM
1

“Wanna get drunk and fuck?” Always worked for me.
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:03 PM
2

If you wanna ask just ask. Or invite her to a bar close to your place and escalate from there.
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:00 PM
1

We are afraid of rejection and we frame it in a bad way. Actually it’s a good thing.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:14 PM
1

It doesn’t matter. If that’s what you wanna do you should go with that.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:13 PM
1

“Hey it was nice meeting you on the weekend. Wanna grab a drink on the next one?” Feel free to get more creative and flirty if you want.
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:59 PM
1

Didn’t read the whole post but yes a gym date is as good as any other date. Go for it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:58 PM
1

Why are so worried about doing it the proper way and not scaring her off?
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:53 PM
2

What is wrong with uncles 😄
/r/seduction03/02/25 04:48 PM
1

Don’t be needy.
/r/seduction31/01/25 03:42 AM
1

I agree with you but what do you do when you pull back and she doesn’t do anything. Is this the wrong mindset?
/r/seduction31/01/25 03:41 AM
1

just did and she she said "it's truly a reflection of me and where I am at right now. i enjoyed our time together."
/r/seduction30/01/25 11:04 PM
1

So essentially what you’re saying is to make a list of traits you want in a woman and then make her qualify herself on those
/r/seduction30/01/25 10:04 PM
1

Sounds good. Will do this! Thanks.
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:29 PM
1

Have them like me, I guess yes if I like them too. The others no.
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:21 PM
1

How can i figure out what the issue is? There is no feedback loop in this bitch lol
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:13 PM
1

That’s the point of going on a second date
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:08 PM
1

What should I be saying to display high value?
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:08 PM
1

I mean I don’t think I have a fear of losing them but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:06 PM
2

How late? They might be talking to 10s of guys at a time so it’s normal that they take their time to reply.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:41 PM
11

You can’t play hard to get on the app. The point of the app is to get them on a date.
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:01 PM
1

Facts
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:34 PM
2

There are 3 ways of passing a shit test. 1. Ignore. E.g. say "sure" and continue the convo or open new topic. 2. Agree and exaggrate. E.g. "Oh, I'm so into Asian girls. I listen to BTS 24/7 and just passed my B2-level Korean test." 3. Misinterpret the question. Interpret it as if she is asking if you are into her and she might be worried if you aren't. "Asian girls, hmm, maybe... I guess it depends how interesting you are"
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:11 PM
1

There are degrees of good but anything other than silence is good
/r/seduction27/01/25 02:06 AM
5

This is a good message to receive. You need to build some rapport.
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:54 PM
1

Thank you for your comment and trying to help me out but this is just bad advice. How is this different from the false hamburger ad on TV? I personally prefer not to lie or lie as little as possible. I'd rather have integrity than lie to fuck someone's ungrateful daughter. I suggest you do the same.
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:56 PM
-5

Mods!
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:45 PM
1

Lying about what?
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:08 PM
1

Late 20s early 30s
/r/seduction22/01/25 04:12 AM
1

like a fivesome?
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:19 PM
0

Nah i think this is stupid
/r/seduction21/01/25 04:24 PM
1

Lesson learned
/r/seduction20/01/25 09:43 PM
2

https://imgur.com/a/yqoc9Id
/r/seduction20/01/25 09:19 PM
5

FYI I have a life. I have other dates lined up too. It’s just that I want this chick and she went silent since last night.
/r/seduction20/01/25 08:14 PM
1

I know but we had a nice date.
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:26 PM
12

That’s not a hard rule. There has been girls I slept with after double texting.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:10 PM
1

Who has low rejection rate and how do you define low?
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:55 PM
9

Welcome to the real world, Neo.
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:26 PM
2

Nice try, Diddy.
/r/seduction15/01/25 07:31 PM
16

I had some success with the direct approach but I think the majority will end up in rejection no matter how you approach.
/r/seduction15/01/25 07:23 PM
1

I should do that
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:54 PM
1

Do you approach women every where? Even in the subway?
/r/seduction09/01/25 03:38 PM
1

Sometimes there is still no second date even if I pay on the first
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:27 PM
2

Yep gonna take the L on this one. Unfortunately I let another hot chick slip by bc of this one. There are only so many hours in a day and I’m a busy guy. Oh well, it was a good experience nevertheless.
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:52 PM
10

Aight I get it. For the record, I was sleeping with another girl and going on dates with others while I was seeing this one but call a spade a spade she was my favourite. Though I wasn’t even thinking about a relationship until Thursday at least consciously but this makes the most sense. Thanks for the explanation and the advice sir.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:14 AM
3

Idk man she doesn’t seem like a girl who would care about such things. Since the first date she offered to pay and did pay for some of the stuff.
/r/seduction07/01/25 04:59 AM
1

no it's 2016.
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:53 PM
2

Ignore, misinterpret, or agree and exaggerate.
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:53 PM
121

because they get 1000s of matches. it's not about you bb.
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:57 PM
1

On hinge i usually open with a push pull like “you look like my future wife or absolute trouble” or “you’re adorable. hope you aren’t crazy” etc. which has been getting me good results in a city where it’s hard to date. Would that be too over the top on insta? How should I open? I think if she follows me back that’s a pretty good sign because I know how much follow requests girls get, right?
/r/seduction13/12/24 03:52 AM
1

"When one door is closed, don't you know another is open"
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:10 PM
4

You think you can get it up with her? If yes, then go for it. Who cares? Sometimes all you need is an ugly fuck to end a dry spell. Plus she might be eager to please you because she's ugly.
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:08 PM
2

Not necessarily. Depends on your game and how you take care of yourself and some luck.
/r/seduction11/12/24 03:04 PM
2

Not wrong
/r/seduction03/12/24 10:30 PM
1

Bro took buyer frame to the next level lol
/r/seduction26/11/24 10:31 PM
1

Good point. I think this is what one needs to do sometimes.
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:08 PM
1

So what is the right response in this case? Should i disqualify myself? Exaggerate? Take it literally?
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:32 AM
7

Yeah you’re probably right. Not as bad as silence but still pretty hard to come back from (this is happening on a dating app). I guess I can just have fun with it at this point.
/r/seduction28/10/24 11:59 PM
6

lel
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:50 PM
6

no gf no problem
/r/seduction01/06/22 07:21 PM
1

You figured it out, son. Congrats.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:17 PM
3

A real girl or trans?
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:53 PM
2

College is probably a good place to start.
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:13 PM
2

it's a joke
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:02 PM
4

Good for you, mate! Happy to hear that good things happen too in this world.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:01 PM
0

pics or didn't happen :)
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:59 PM
14

If you hadn't had any sex in 2 years, yes, it will make you happy at first. However, as quench your thirst and mature, the happiness it gives will not last that long.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:24 PM
1

Welcome to dating in the 21st century. Oh btw if you are very pretty, guys might be intimidated by you or think you have a boyfriend and pass.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:48 PM
1

Possible. However, a lot guys don't approach girls even if they find them attractive. Aren't you on bumble or something? Even ugly girls get a lot of traction on those apps.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:00 AM
1

She gets multiple DMs like yours on the daily. You are even worth her time for her to even open your message.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:32 PM
0

About 95% of the time they look away fast. I have a very pretty face with a side of mysterious. Not my words, close friends have said. Seems like 95% of the guys you make eye contact with are pussies, or they are not interested.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:28 PM
3

Well, you can always turn to the bussy.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:08 PM
5

3some?
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:42 PM
1

She even went to the point of asking me if I told him about her… 🙄😞 This is kind of weird.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:42 PM
8

Damn! This escalated quickly.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:47 PM
6

And he became the POTUS 7 years later? What a man!
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:35 PM
1

How exactly do I stand out from the crowd The best thing you can do is to be yourself, and be true to yourself and others. how can I expect them to stay loyal? You can't.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:33 PM
4

That's not what I said. You're looking at it from a wrong perspective.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:41 PM
144

Dude who cares? This is all in your head. What matters is you being true to yourself and others. I don't think any of those ppl laughing at you have the fraction of self-confidence you have. Don't take the rejection and ridicule personal. You still got laid. Focus on the positive!
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:42 PM
1

Don't worry, it'll be all over when she ghosts you soon.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:39 PM
1

Making a billion $
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:23 PM
1

Yep.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:25 PM
4

Yes. Don't message a complete stranger. If you met her at least once, you can. There was this girl that I met once. Couple months later I added her on FB and messaged her. She ended being very much into me and my favourite fuck-buddy. Boy, those were some good times... Then unfortunately she moved to the other side of the country. Having said that, most of the girls you message will not end up like that.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:04 PM
3

Lel dumb girls
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:40 PM
0

Hmm I doubt it but I don't care. It's your health anyway.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:35 PM
1

hmmmmm
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:54 PM
-8

Good luck with STDs! Better get tested soon.
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:19 PM
3

Expressing yourself freely is a lot more fun than doing PUA shit anyway.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:51 PM
1

She will.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:46 PM
9

For the best results, the showers have to be cold.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:07 PM
675

Exactly bro. i'm 15 years-old and i've been with 169 women. i stopped shooting heroin and started taking showers and then built a billion-dollar company when I was 12. Needless to say babes noticed. Just work on yourself and the rest will come to place :))))
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:23 PM
1

It's normal keep going.
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:17 PM
3

"Hey, how is it going?"
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:42 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:05 PM
1

It probably helps but it's not a necessity.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:30 PM
0

10 a day is quite a bit. Depends on how much time you have tho.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:04 PM
1

Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:02 PM
1

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:25 AM
1

Hey man that's just how it is some guys are better with women than others so don't fret. If online dating isn't working for you I would say just delete all those apps and try talking to women in real life and who knows maybe you'll be more successful that way.
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:33 AM
0

Her body was amazing so I told her I liked what I saw, and asked if she wanted to meet up this weekend. You lost here there. She probably sent those nudes to show you what you missed out on. You should be frugal with the validations you give to these kind of girls. They want what they can't get.
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:35 PM
1

OLD literally has done nothing good for this world and it would be for the better if it was gone. Agreed.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:12 PM
6

Yes. Just stop being a bitch and start talking to girls.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:52 PM
1

Usually but I did get some lays and a couple relationships out of them.
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:47 PM
1

Good advice!
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:24 PM
4

pushin' to the cushion
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:23 PM
12

I actually don't know any short guys who does well with girls.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:02 PM
-2

What the fuck is wrong with you bro? You care too much about what ppl think about you, but that's normal when you're 18.
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:18 AM
6

Preach, Wall Street Bets!
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:42 PM
4

send a dick pic.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:05 PM
3

I think porn and masturbation affect your success with ladies. Maybe placebo maybe not but it does have a negative affect. Quitting masturbation combined with talking to random girls improved my sex life for sure. r/seduction is not your father. You should decide if you are to quit masturbation w/out porn or not. You can test it. Stop beating your meat for 90 days and see how it goes. If you don't see any improvement, you can always go back to being a masturbator.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:50 PM
1

For sure.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:41 PM
3

Sure, I'm not disagreeing with that, but that's only to a certain extent in my opinion. You don't have control over everything.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:35 AM
1

Define insanely.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:18 AM
1

i agree but it also depends your chemistry with the girl and how much she likes you too.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:18 AM
1

Consider what lol? Not holding hands? What are you saying
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:13 PM
1

Don't know if it's just you but not me.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:07 PM
2

most ppl don't. keep that in mind.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:43 PM
9

Human psychology. Would you like to go spend money at a restaurant with no customers or would you prefer a place that is relatively busy?
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:24 PM
1

how is your journey going?
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:13 AM
2

Update: Yes. I finally had sex with a girl whom I met on the street. Another dry spell is over. So, I guess it works :)
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:10 AM
2

you can have all the muscle and "business" (whatever that means) you want. if you don't talk to girls, you will get none.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:02 AM
2

Gotta get closer
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:08 PM
3

Yeah we all do. I'm trying not to.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:03 PM
4

You described how in your post
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:16 PM
6

You are
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:47 PM
-3

Lol ppl in this sub overthink so much
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:46 PM
2

Yep I agree. Life is short. It's always better to start early.
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:00 AM
8

Because ROI is very low. Also if I have an account open I spend too much time on it. I spend that time on more beneficial things + real game is way more fun. I also don't like spending time on my phone.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:25 PM
114

The best dating app is no dating app. My opinion.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:07 PM
1

How lol?
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:23 PM
1

Nope unless you're about to insert.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:53 PM
14

No.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:00 AM
1

I think this might a serious issue. You might wanna get pro help if you aren't able to figure this out on your own.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:49 PM
22

Welcome to the internet buddy.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:18 PM
2

I will. I appreciate your comment.
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:16 PM
5

Thanks for the encouragement. I am working on it. I'm reading the Mystery Method and working on attracting girls rather than approaching them in a brute force manner.
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:50 PM
26

Getting rejected by one girl is not problem but when you get rejected by 80 of them it gets a little more difficult. How are you going to be abundant if you can't even get one?
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:09 PM
2

Build comfort but not sure how you can do that on Instagram lol
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:28 PM
3

Have and display high survival and replication value.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:27 PM
3

I prefer talking on the phone too but what if she doesn't pick up or return your call? I feel like if she is not responding to my text she won't pick up my call. I guess you need establish this during the approach.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:31 PM
1

A little bit of efficiency would be nice.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:34 PM
3

Whenever you want. You already fucked her what's the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:32 PM
1

You need to figure out how to handle those situations and disarm the guy. How do you do that? I have no idea.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:29 PM
2

Approaching girls and getting numbers isn't hard. Turning those digits into dates is.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:28 PM
1

Did you get coaching?
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:21 AM
1

How do I find my authentic self?
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:37 PM
1

don't worry, man. i'm also 28 and new to the game. 28 is not old.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:26 PM
-24

Maybe
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:47 PM
2

Welcome to the club. That's just how girls (who are not interested in you) are. Try sending something unrelated but high value. If she doesn't respond to that, it's probably over.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:46 PM
1

THIS QUESTION IS NOT ABOUT SEDUCTION. GO ASK THIS ON R/SEX OR SOMETHING. Geez, are there no mods in this sub?!
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:49 AM
-4

why is this in r/seduction?
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:51 PM
1

Lucky kid
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:08 AM
1

Think about the places where night clubs are closed due to covid and realize how lucky you are.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:48 PM
1

For a couple weeks
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:48 AM
1

Do you want my social insurance number too?
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:45 AM
3

Not yet but not approaching doesn't get me laid either.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:39 AM
3

I'm not scared
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:28 PM
3

How often do they come? What's your ratio of success with that approach?
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:21 PM
2

nice line. thanks for the advice. what do you do if they don't respond?
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:21 PM
1

start with saying hi to the people you wanna talk to :)
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:17 AM
2

That's the mindset. Full send!
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:14 PM
19

Life is too short not to send it. We're sending it even in the lockdown!
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:05 AM
2

don't meet them in social media.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:41 PM
3

Yeah, I guess my willpower got a little weak after getting flaked and my texts not responded to but I'm getting back to it. Gotta be willing to mess with women and play the game consistently. ToddV said in one of his videos that as long as he plays his best game, he is happy no matter is the result. That should be the way I look at it.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:55 PM
2

At the mall lol. Usually I go up to them and say "hi, you're pretty, what's your name?" or something along those lines.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:47 PM
6

Source of that stat? maybe we were just born at the wrong time, maybe this just isn’t the time period for young average looking guys to experience the pleasures of intimacy/dating. maybe. or maybe you go out and socialize more.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:32 AM
14

you approached hundreds of girls with no success?
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:29 AM
2

Thanks. Some days I approach 5 different women, some days I can't even approach one. What do you when you try to approach but not in the mood or you can't approach for some reason?
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:12 AM
1

Got it, thanks. How can I recover from that "hey beautiful?"
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:01 AM
1

Got it. How can I recover from that "hey beautiful?"
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:59 AM
2

Thanks for the comment. I promise the whole Seddit community that I will not text a girl "hey beautiful" ever again :D How can I recover from that silence of #4?
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:58 AM
3

Thanks but I've done that already. It doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:22 PM
2

how should I open then?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:20 PM
1

How should I start the convo when texting?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:18 PM
1

Need more info on how you're texting and what you're saying. I can send you the screen shots but how can I reach you? I see your account is suspended and I can't DM you.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:30 AM
2

good banter bro. the author has some room for improvement in his vocabulary and writing style tho.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:26 AM
1

own it can't grow taller so own it. if you can't go to the gym, swim, play basketball, or do any other physical activity, or go to the gym ;)
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:12 PM
1

Sick I'll DM you
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:24 PM
4

Any tips on how I can find settings to cold approach women on my own during the day or night time? you can approach them anywhere. Is it weird to go to a bar alone? no.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:05 PM
1

Will keep this in mind. Thanks! Already rolling solo for now doing day-game. Well, by day-game I mean going to the mall at 8 pm and talking to a couple girls. Looking for a wingman because that would be a good addition to solo. If I can't find anyone, I'll still be approaching.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:47 PM
1

Still looking?
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:56 AM
1

that's the level i wanna get at but i don't use instagram.
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:15 PM
7

you're right. if you don't approach, nothing will happen. thanks for the inspiring post. i'm starting over again after years.
/r/seduction16/12/21 04:03 PM
2

Fuck that
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:10 PM
1

You wake up.
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:50 AM
8

You kiss the guy
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:56 PM
1

Did you even read my post? Its not about physical limitations or the looks at all u/nomysteryhere_. This clearly a cookie cutter comment you guys make on many posts. Lame.
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:40 AM
0

yes but i'm not a homeless man in NYC and we have COVID now.
/r/seduction01/10/20 07:18 PM
1

Show boobs
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:35 PM
1

just tell her: "Where ya going?"
/r/seduction09/05/17 05:59 PM
1

keep tindering and go out and meet girls
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:15 PM
1

Certainly not as vital as food, but sex too is a need.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:18 PM
7

Agree with this but you've got to start from somewhere.
/r/seduction02/01/17 02:39 AM
36

you are hungry, but you can't get the food you want.
/r/seduction02/01/17 02:37 AM
0

"Would you like to have sex?"
/r/seduction08/12/16 10:47 AM
1

This.
/r/seduction03/12/16 05:19 PM
1

Smile.
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:45 AM
3

is this the actual tl;dr?
/r/seduction13/07/16 12:43 AM
1

Shes seeing someone now This should give you all the motivation you need. If not, time will.
/r/seduction28/06/16 03:27 PM
1

just watch RSDTyler's videos. he is amazing.
/r/seduction18/06/16 08:41 PM
3

don't be hard on yourself. don't expect to pull a 9 or a 10 tonight. like you said you're rusty. think about tonight as a warm up and have fun.
/r/seduction18/06/16 08:38 PM
3

Good perspective. Thank you.
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:14 PM
2

I just had sex too bro! And it felt good! Man it's been a while.
/r/seduction03/04/16 06:52 AM
1

no
/r/seduction16/03/16 11:21 PM
0

Here is the set of steps you should follow: Grow a pair of testicles Approach If you don't know what to say Simple Pickup has an app that sends you openers. They update it every week. I once used one of those and got a kiss and a number
/r/seduction05/03/16 05:14 PM
1

Yeah, but making her laugh can lead to getting laid.
/r/seduction22/12/15 03:45 AM
2

You: No, I'm serious. Honest question: How many girls have you approached before?
/r/seduction22/12/15 03:41 AM
1

Of course, that's the idea.
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:28 PM
0

You can actually say that if you want. You can say that in a way that she won't believe it's true, take it as a joke, and laugh. Have you ever watched Simple Pickup's videos? They might be faking them, but they say a lot of stupid shit to women and make them laugh. It's not what you say. It's how you say it.
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:19 PM
1

Alright I'm gonna look into it!
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:57 AM
1

What if I don't really know how to play rugby? Can I still learn?
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:18 AM
1

Yeah, I've actually been noticing this lately. Thanks for the advice btw.
/r/seduction21/12/15 02:46 AM
1

That's right.
/r/seduction21/12/15 02:21 AM
1

It's funny because I had the most success with women when I was in a depression and thinking of dropping out of school, which was years ago. I haven't been able to reach that state again, yet.
/r/seduction08/12/15 10:10 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:53 PM
1

I may or may not see her again. Yesterday was the last day of classes but whatever.
/r/seduction08/12/15 04:14 PM
1

What you say makes sense. I just didn't feel comfortable asking for the number at the time, but I guess that's the idea, stepping out of your comfort zone. I'm still satisfied with my progress today, though. Next time I'm gonna ask for the number, even if I don't feel comfortable with it. If she doesn't wanna give it, it's her loss.
/r/seduction08/12/15 03:37 AM
1

Nice quote
/r/seduction08/12/15 12:04 AM
4

You, my friend, are an inspiration. But have you heard of condoms maybe?
/r/seduction08/12/15 12:03 AM
3

Nice post, man. I like Swingers too. The thing is I've been doing what I've been interested in all my life and the last time I got laid was over 2 years ago. Of course, one should be oneself, but I don't think that will make the cut for everybody.
/r/seduction07/12/15 11:54 PM
1

Of course I would. Here are the reasons: I'm awesome. I'm awesome. I'm fucking awesome. Need more?
/r/seduction05/12/15 06:49 PM
1

Study date
/r/seduction05/12/15 03:03 AM
6

Congrats on your approach and number-close. Next step: Call her and arrange a date. If you don't call her soon she might lose interest and even forget who you are.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:41 PM
1

Montreal
/r/seduction30/11/15 05:10 AM
1

Quebec
/r/seduction30/11/15 05:10 AM
3

Quitting porn and masturbation helps. That's what motivated me to learn seduction.
/r/seduction29/11/15 07:16 PM
1

Some times they come up to me and yell, "don't you try stealing girls from me again." But I end up AMOGing them anyway. Hahaha! You're fucking awesome, dude.
/r/seduction21/11/15 05:56 PM
6

You should have come up with something better than asking her name, but I know, you couldn't. I respect the effort man. I haven't been able to open a random set on the street yet.
/r/seduction21/11/15 05:49 PM
1

You should be like this little bro: https://youtu.be/10BVWHXX7uI See how chicks dig it?
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:26 AM
1

So it's all about practice? Also, in his book, Mystery says that you shouldn't compliment girls on their looks, especially when opening the set. I guess that's not true?
/r/seduction12/11/15 05:13 PM
1

You should post this to /r/askseddit, not here.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:00 PM
0

Oh yeah iamnaughty.com is definitely a really good site for hooking up. It's both REAL and GOOD.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:16 PM
1

You should have planned the date when you agreed to do the activity already. Be like "Let's go to this bar at 8 tomorrow!"
/r/seduction09/11/15 02:32 PM
2

If I pop this in too soon and she says something like "not gonna happen", like you have mentioned it, what should I do?
/r/seduction04/11/15 11:33 PM
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