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I’d want laser beams
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:36 PM
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I’m not broke or unattractive and I’m single and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:33 PM
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I’m a guy and at a lot of work places Ive been at, women are treated worse and scrutinized more by management
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:25 PM
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How you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:15 PM
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I wonder if it’s because women are seen as more valuable/desirable socially, so there isn’t as much of a pull
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:13 PM
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Maybe my jokes but they seem to laugh at them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:58 PM
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You’re so kind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:20 PM
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I’d hate to mean so little to a friend that this is how much im worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:19 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:13 PM
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Sorry for being accusatory and sorry they don’t invite you always
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:12 PM
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I’m single and it’s rarely one on one. Still, even hypothetically, I’d hope after years of friendship they’d know me better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:12 PM
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Like, when guy friends ask you out, do you say no more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:56 PM
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Why do you hang out with your girl friends more? I always do mixed gender hang outs, im extremely against only hanging out with one gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:56 PM
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Making friends has been hard for me in the past couple years. I get too scared I’ll creep them out. I used to be really good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:53 PM
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Guess I can’t afford to be that selective. Beggars and choosers and what not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:44 PM
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This is really good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:34 PM
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Have you noticed this more with women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:33 PM
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Well the questions is also about why women do this more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:33 PM
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I usually hang out in more than 1 on 1 settings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:29 PM
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I relate to a good chunk of people regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:42 PM
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You don’t relate to people in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:38 AM
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I think if you could only have intimate friendships with men, you’d also want intimate friendships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:32 AM
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I think you do as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:12 AM
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I think if you only want male friends, you’d also want female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:11 AM
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Because many of my close friends are women and I want to break through the barrier set up because I’m a man and I don’t want how close I can get to be limited by being a man. I also feel like men with only male friends are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 AM
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You don’t know me or how I act
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:57 PM
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Female friends do hug me and I don’t develop feelings. I don’t develop feelings for too many people, and I don’t ask out my friends usually because I don’t want to scare them off. Also, you also sound entitled to the same thing I want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:57 PM
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Same reason you want female friends probably
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:55 PM
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What about female friends who are bi or lesbian? Why do they get special treatment in regards to potential romantic entanglement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:07 AM
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You don’t know me or what I do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:05 AM
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Well I always respect when people say no, that’s not the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:48 AM
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I don’t believe so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:44 AM
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Well I don’t do the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:43 AM
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Well, the solution would be not discriminating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:12 AM
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Doesn’t change anything. And I’m jealous over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:11 AM
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I don’t talk to people this way irl. But I don’t think it’s right for you to treat people differently not based on their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:10 AM
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I’m always mad at evil men, but I’m also angry, to a much lesser extent, at women who choose to view me in that group, even after knowing me for years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:31 AM
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Yeah, I want that, close friendships with women also. I don’t want it to be just one gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:29 AM
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Well it’s not whether or not I am able to get that, it’s whether or not men are able to get that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:28 AM
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I need it with both men and women. Sorry. I’m not willing to live in a world where that isn’t possible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:10 AM
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I dunno what to tell you. I don’t want to fuck everyone on earth. It feels lonelier to only have male friends, even though I love them as well. I treat all my friends the same, regardless of their race or gender or sexuality, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:09 AM
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Nothing, I just need it with both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:02 AM
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I can and I am in many ways. Like I said though, I need both
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:58 AM
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I want it from both
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:57 AM
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What about bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:57 AM
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Yeah, but if you try to break through that, women still hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 AM
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I want it with both. It’s not sacrificing safety because I’m a safe person, everyone in my life knows that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:56 AM
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Seems like it doesn’t matter weather or not im trying to fuck you because I’m a man, you’ll just assume I am anyway, right? The only way to change is to be seen as completely not looking like a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:35 AM
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Ok, if I lied and said I was a trans woman, would that be the only way to be loved by women platonically as much as another woman? If that’s the only way, I’d do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:33 AM
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Ik but I just want to be as platonically loved as women by men and women. I want what you have but was born wrong for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:30 AM
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That makes you a bad friend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:29 AM
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Ik im not a woman, that’s why I’m super jealous of being on the other side of that wall you put up. Sorry for being born with a dick. Wasn’t my call
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 AM
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Would you go with guys who don’t want to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:27 AM
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How? It’s discriminating because of how someone was born
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:01 AM
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No, I thought you were saying that women caring about men was good and that it was wrong to obsess over the fact that men were born men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:59 AM
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But you only connect me to the actions of evil men because I was born with a dick and balls. What about people who know me well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:51 AM
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I just don’t like that there’s a level of low be i cant have because I’m a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:51 AM
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That’s kind of you, if it’s the response im thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:50 AM
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Many men can handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:46 AM
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Well it seems that half of the population is unwilling to listen and give support because of our gender. So no wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:46 AM
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No. Just don’t treat people differently because of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:49 AM
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I mean what if people did that for racial minorities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:49 AM
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Then why do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:47 AM
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You know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:47 AM
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Why do you do it with your friends with vaginas and Y chromosomes then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:41 AM
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Ok well idk where you meet these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:40 AM
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Same reason you need it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:40 AM
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Yes, but based on these responses, being a man is a dealbreaker, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:39 AM
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Depends on the man. Same reason you would with women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 AM
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Yeah, you’re othering people because of their cock and balls and Y chromosome. You discriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 AM
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Because you don’t know every male and it’s shitty to lump people together because of their sex organs and chromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:37 PM
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Yes. It seems like you would rule them out regardless of whether or not they wanna be with you because you assume their intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:33 PM
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Yeah but it seems that no matter how a man acts, you’ll always view them that way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:28 PM
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I don’t do that with people irl, obvs. But according to all these responses, women dont want me to be vulnerable, so I’d be driving them away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:26 PM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:19 PM
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Yeah, well you get sick of people always putting a wall up between you and them because you were born with the wrong parts. What am I supposed to do to shed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:17 PM
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Well sorry they were born with a penis I guess. Their bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 PM
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Sounds like text book discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 PM
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Damn, so you’re just a bigot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:02 PM
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I don’t. Most of my male friends dont
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:02 PM
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So you act like you know ever man’s intentions? You just ruled them off because wrong chromosomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:01 PM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:00 PM
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Did that stop you from being friends with men in general like all the other commenters?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:00 PM
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That’s biggoted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:59 PM
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God damn. That’s depressing to know no matter what, this will block men from that platonic connection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:59 PM
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I’m sorry you had that experience, but are you really going to discriminate against half the fucking planet for having the same body parts and Y chromosome as your shitty friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:58 PM
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I mean, it sounds like you just know worse people, im not close to anyone like this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:31 PM
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Yeah, I mean my friends don’t brag about sexual conquests
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:29 PM
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Why do you think you know my friends better than I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:12 PM
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I’m not saying it “cannot be that bad”, I’m talking about specific people’s behaviors who you have never met
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:08 PM
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That’s why I don’t assume Muslims and Arabs are terrorists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:56 AM
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Everyone I know talks to everyone the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:54 AM
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I don’t know anyone who talks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:41 AM
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OK, so it's rape
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:14 PM
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how would you know the person wanted sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:23 PM
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yeah, he raped her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:22 PM
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What’re you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:17 PM
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How can you consent in your sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:17 PM
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WHAT? Because she was ASLEEP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:10 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:09 PM
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I don’t think she did any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:42 PM
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For you, but I wouldn’t ASSUME that about the woman this man raped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:41 PM
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I’m sure but I can guarantee all my friends know that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:37 PM
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They were unconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:55 PM
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Vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:07 AM
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I could transition completely. Pretend to be a trans woman. Get the surgery and then stealth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:54 AM
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Can’t I be written off for the same way women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:50 AM
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Not every man. Me. I’m jealous that you have connection I never will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:48 AM
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Yeah well, I can’t control that, and while I HATE all the things women go through, I still want to live a fulfilled life. I can’t imagine you wouldn’t be pissed if you were viewed as a threat to your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:41 AM
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You said women would never truly trust me. I don’t have access to that level that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:36 AM
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I don’t have a record of hurting anyone. I just LOOK like people who do. I’m not a fucking statistic, I’m a person. I fucking hate periods and I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:36 AM
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You’d be pissed too if you had a limit on how much people love and trust you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:34 AM
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You can be trusted on a level that I can’t and I am jealous of that because it was all I wanted in life but was born the wrong gender for that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:33 AM
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I HATE how you’re sentencing me to a lonely life. That I’ll never have what you have. I’ll never get that kind of love
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:28 AM
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So that’s your answer? Write someone off because they were born with a dick and balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:27 AM
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Because I was born wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:25 AM
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What if you know the man? Like, really well, been friends for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:24 AM
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Those are all horrific things, but in this ONE instance, I’m more concerned if I can really be trusted, like a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:17 AM
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There’s billions of us. How many can you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:15 AM
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Because I’ll never be truly trusted, not like a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:41 AM
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But I’ll still never get that connection with non-male friends, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:31 AM
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Literally yes. You’re irredeemable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:21 AM
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So what the fuck can I do? It sounds like I’ll never earn that level of trust and connection women do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:20 AM
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Idk man, literally the only reason I’m alive is for love and connection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:18 AM
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That sucks. I guess at this point, how can I prove that I’m not like that? That I can be trusted, like a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:17 AM
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That’s fucked up, but it’s also fucked up that I’ll never be trusted to the same extent as a women and all I did was be born with a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:14 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:13 AM
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Oh, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:13 AM
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That is so fucking obviously rape, I hope you fucking go to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:12 AM
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Man, fuck you. Saying I’m some fucking monster cuz I was born with a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:10 AM
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Either way, it shows they’re a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:09 AM
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I don’t hurt people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:07 AM
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You don’t know me. I don’t hurt people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:07 AM
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Same reason I’m pretty sure you’re not a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:00 AM
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I have to imagine most women want trust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:54 AM
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Because I need that closeness to people, I need connection, which requires trust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:41 AM
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No it hasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:39 AM
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The most anyone can trust anyone. As much as I trust my brother
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:35 AM
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I have to trust people. I need people in my life who have my back and I need people to feel safe around me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:27 AM
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Idk, I love people and I need to be loved, and I can’t have people thinking “what if” about me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:20 AM
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No, I trust them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:18 AM
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If everyone is a potential rapist. That has to affect viewing people as “your people”, people who have your back and protect you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:17 AM
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So how do you view trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:14 AM
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I don’t think I am. I want to know the answer at least
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:13 AM
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How so? Like, obviously it’s a risk, but how do they see that aspect of a male friend or partner? Like a wild animal that could snap at any moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:12 AM
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All of that is sex without consent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:10 AM
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So do you not trust any men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:59 AM
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God damn, I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:57 AM
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It’s sex without consent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:55 AM
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I also hope my women friends are confident I’m not a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:55 AM
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Wouldn’t you hope your friends don’t think you’re a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:54 AM
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That sucks. How can anyone love anyone or care about someone or trust anyone, if they’re all could be rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:53 AM
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Everyone I know knows what rape is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:51 AM
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Is saying that specific to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:47 AM
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I mean, I hope my friends are confident I’m not a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:46 AM
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I mean, I would hope my friends are confident I’m not a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:46 AM
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Damn, that’s awful. So how can anyone love anyone or care about people if they could be a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:45 AM
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I’m confident none of my friends are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:43 AM
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DARVO?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:43 AM
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Are your friends rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:34 AM
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With their actions and personalities as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:15 AM
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I mean, idk why they would do that to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:10 AM
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I know but can you expand on what you said before?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:09 AM
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Are your friends rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:08 AM
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Boooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:08 AM
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No, but I know it’s against their values
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:07 AM
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How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:07 AM
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I wouldn’t be friends with someone who’d do that, though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:57 AM
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That’s ONE guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:22 AM
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That only describes introverts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:22 AM
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I don’t think that’s a good sample size, people who dm you on the worst app in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:22 AM
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Probably impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:21 AM
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On Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:04 AM
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Again, wildly differing personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:03 AM
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Then there would clearly be a lot in common between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:03 AM
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I’m sorry that’s been your experience. But I don’t think that’s a realistic world view
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:01 AM
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You said they were boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:00 AM
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That’s othering them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:00 AM
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Not everyone likes everything. There’s way more variation between people within race/gender/sexualities than between those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:00 AM
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That absolutely is, you’re saying they’re boring and evil, all because they were born with a dick and balls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:57 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:57 AM
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Everyone has a different personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:54 AM
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It is when you dehumanize men who aren’t horny towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:54 AM
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Because of the circumstances of their birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:53 AM
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Yeah, you dehumanize and other them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:51 AM
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Well, evidently you don’t care if they are horny or not because you other men who don’t want to have sex with you, so I’m calling bullshit on that being the only thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:51 AM
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Seems bigoted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:49 AM
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Yeah, you wildly other them because they, buy chance, were born with a dick and balls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:49 AM
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That sucks, but the first part is obviously bullshit. Of course guys who DM you on Reddit are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:48 AM
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I mean, you completely dehumanize men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:46 AM
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Kinda lame. What about guys with good values
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:45 AM
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Why do you hate non gross and horny men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:28 AM
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Again, it seems like you hate men who aren’t gross or horny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:27 AM
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Well, you seem to hate men regardless of how horny and gross they are, so I don’t understand what the issue is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:24 AM
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But a woman having a crush on you wouldn’t be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:23 AM
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Why aren’t you scared of your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:22 AM
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Yeah, but you seem to view a man having a crush on you as evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:07 AM
1

You said you don’t think any man could have something in common with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:07 AM
1

What if a lesbian friend had a crush on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:00 AM
2

There’s no way you’re only interested in being a woman and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:00 AM
2

Do you think lesbians are gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:59 AM
1

I’m sorry again you’ve had bad experiences, I don’t think anyone deserves that. But I think this is discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:59 AM
2

Is everything about your identity being a woman? What about similar hobbies? Similar job. Fans of similar media? Similar personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:57 AM
2

Why is that gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:56 AM
1

What about a safe guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:54 AM
1

You’ve never had a crush on a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:53 AM
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I’m sorry you’ve had bad experiences, but that’s discrimination. It seems the reason you don’t want male attention isn’t about sex, because even if they aren’t attracted to you, you don’t like them because of how they were born
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:51 AM
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What about men who don’t try and fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:49 AM
0

Would you same the same about female?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:46 AM
0

So it would seem that you DO still find men talking to you for companionship (as in an actual relationship) or friendship or because they like talking to people and community building annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:43 AM
1

That’s extremely fair. This is probably ignorant and sexist, but I sorta thought, mostly from the internet, that women didn’t like being approached at all by men anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:38 AM
0

I guess that’s obvious, but I thought you were saying male attention as a whole was annoying or low value
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:31 AM
0

Out of curiosity, do you find it annoying when men are into your personality, want companionship or friendship from you or just talk to you because you’re a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:26 AM
1

Guitar is pretty cool. Like Jimi Hendrix of Eric Clapton from Cream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:19 AM
1

I’m curious what your experience has been
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:16 AM
1

Compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:56 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:17 AM
1

I don’t believe you that you don’t need to know rape is a frequent problem among women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:18 AM
1

So you pulled it out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:55 AM
1

That’s awful. Can I see a source though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:44 AM
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Yeah, but that’s because men don’t usually rape each other as much as they do women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:53 PM
1

Not illegal, but I guess I don’t like the idea of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:04 AM
1

I didn’t say it should be illegal, but certain thoughts you should save for a professional
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:05 AM
9

Because no one likes being lonely and everyone likes empathy and that seems pretty understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:04 AM
1

What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:56 AM
1

No, therapy is a good place to talk about things you can’t talk about with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:52 AM
1

I’m not doing this bad faith side stepping. If you start shitting on women, you should get shit on back. If you want that, go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:09 AM
1

Make all the changing rooms individual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:56 AM
1

Maybe not illegal, but I guess morally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:20 AM
1

How about mixed gendered spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:41 PM
1

That’s not what I said. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:15 PM
1

You seem pretty judgemental
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:01 PM
1

Because you’re being an asshole, and people don’t like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:01 PM
1

How do women do that? I don’t think women are all evil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:51 PM
1

Where would you want to do that and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:10 PM
1

Yours in combination with others’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:10 PM
1

how? Most people value their own lives, so reality would seem means lives matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:48 PM
1

Yeah no shit, that’s a class in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:31 PM
2

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:26 PM
2

Why do you want men’s only spaces? What’s wrong with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:24 PM
1

Again, why not? It’s not hard stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:23 PM
1

Why not? Do you not understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:12 PM
1

But you seem to understand how safety is a benefit, so how are you so confused at the idea that more people being safe is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:08 PM
1

I’ll ask a second time, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:57 PM
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Do they vocalize their hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:56 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:54 PM
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Badass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:48 PM
1

So you probably understand why others want it. Why do you act so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:47 PM
7

When?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:21 PM
1

You don’t value safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:13 PM
7

How is that women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:05 AM
13

Why do women have to accept creeps and right wingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:12 AM
1

wait, like 3 guns?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:41 AM
12

why do women need to accept men being creeps and going alt right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:24 AM
1

they should just choose to have humanitarian political views instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:23 AM
1

everyone is entitled to safety
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:15 AM
1

I dont think that's true, there's billions of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:11 AM
2

this felt really good to read, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:07 AM
1

what if you like her as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:10 AM
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I can usually get a laugh at most of my jokes, these are just examples of ones that people get mad at. im more concerned with making people uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:44 PM
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that. makes sense, thank you. I guess im more concerned with overstepping an unset boundary, the person doesnt communicate that it was overstepped but they still hold it against me regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:23 PM
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how is it on me if I unknowingly overstep a boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:29 PM
1

its not emotionally risky if both parties act like adults
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:59 AM
1

why would you ruin a friendship just because someone shoots their shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:57 AM
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People rarely CHOOSE to he vulnerable with me. I tried EVERYTHING but there was always a limit. People I've been "friends" with for years. I used to be less toxic, more healthily masculine, but YEARS of being othered and gate kept from tight-knit, intimate friendships made me bitter. who wouldn't get bitter at that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:13 AM
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I'd cut off my dick to have the friendship levels of one of the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:21 PM
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