Admittedly I constantly worry about making women uncomfortable. in my opinion, I've seen women (and also Trans men and non-binary people) completely, in my opinion, overreact and judge harshly over what I consider small mistakes or what I'd consider innocuous jokes. Overall, I feel I have to kind of walk on eggshells.

Now, no one has stated that they think im creepy, but examples of things people got mad over are me making a joke that that congress woman vaping in a pregnant woman's face was good, that people with septum piercings look non-binary or that a female conservative politician was ugly AFTER someone called her hot (I'd also call male politicians ugly if someone else called them hot).

I sort of feel like i treat people the same regardless of identity, and if I wouldn't say a joke in mixed company, I wouldn't say it to anyone.

So two fold. 1, am I wrong? and how in general, not just this shit, do I make sure I dont make people uncomfortable.

Also im kinda lonely and like hugging my friends regardless of gender but only if I've known them for years or at least a few months.

please delete if not allowed