That's still 100% on them. They thought they were hotter than they are and that's why they're so pissy. Blaming women, like most of them do, is a pathetic cop-out.
That’s Chad worship if I’ve ever seen it. I have screenshots from so many female friends with dudes pouring their hearts out, writing soliloquies just so they’ll come fuck them again. It’s almost a stereotype for fuckboys/players to “love bomb” to keep girls in their orbit.
That’s literally what I’m saying lol. The point I tried to make is that, because women can GET men above their league (albeit temporarily of course), it’s hard to view their “equal” in an idealistic lense.