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Its very true. I realised when I was 19 I was good looking enough that I didn’t have to try super hard for sex. So if I actually put in effort I could start sleeping with not only a lot of girls, but very attractive girls. After 4 years, 90+ on my body count I realised that I had some sort of weird addiction because what kinda started out as a way to attract girls for a bit of fun I always thought I’d find a gf sooner or later. Then I was like I need to stop and it took me a long time to break t…
/r/seduction25/10/23 09:47 AM
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My body count is 61 and most of my partners have been relatively beautiful women, and no I don’t watch porn. By choice though not because I have sex so much. Infact i regard myself as someone who doesn’t even necessarily need sex to function. Sure there’s times when I’m more after it than others but I’ve never felt or been desperate for it. The reason I don’t watch porn is for mental health mainly, setting up unrealistic expectations and unhealthy behaviour/habits from excessive porn. I also fin…
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:09 PM
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This dude who commented has a story that is literally the same as me, guess how many girls I slept with in high school? Maybe 1 or 2. Guess how many girls I’ve slept with since I grew confidence and went down the same path as him? > 60. FYI I’m 23.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:28 PM
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In my opinion guys who can’t get girls their own age is because girls his own age see the bum in them. Also at 19 vs 29 you both have very different outlooks on the world, want very different things, and going to have different stages. so… YES TOO YOUNG!
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:38 AM
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Easier said than done… ex did this to me 2 years ago and I’m still trying to find that “hot girlfriend” that will piss her off.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:38 AM
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Im a bit younger than you (23) but I’ve always grown up being the more attractive guy around so kinda have a good idea. I think you’re going into it with the right mindset of not being upset if it doenst happen. But when you’re on the call remember she’s used to guys being very agreeable to anything she says and tip toeing around her. Be straight up, from the get go, suss out what her intentions are and what your intentions are. Be honest and say things like “I’m not gonna force or chase you if …
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:25 AM
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Idk why people are being salty in the comments, I think you’re post is onto something and I know I’ll take it on board myself
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:29 AM
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I feel ya bro! I’m sick of it as well! Sick of being treated like hot garbage and then all your told is “just move on” nah fuck that shit! These girls are able to just treat people like shit and treat them as expendable toys from one to the next and it’s made out like we’re the problem?? You try so hard to do the right thing, keep your chin up, don’t dwell on it but it comes to a point where you feel so worthless it’s not even worth it. Literally lied to for no reason, it’s bullshit and I’m sick…
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:25 AM
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A good tip my mate told me is if you’re walking past a girl, she won’t look at you until the very last moment (your 10 or 2 o’clock) and I did notice that this was true in some cases
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:34 AM
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Not always, not every girl is like that, my ex didn’t meet me for a few weeks after speaking, bailed first time too. We lived together for 2 years. My second ex also didn’t meet me until talking for 2 or 3 weeks, sometimes it depends on their mindset might take a bit to get them around and relax around you.
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:34 PM
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The only correct answer here is you found her online without her giving you any of her socials. Bro you found her using just her name, she’s gonna think “how many profiles did this dude go through to find me? How desperate is he??” All you showed is that you can’t play it chill, you are way too eager and might not leave her alone. Stalking is creepy and absolutely no girl digs it. She wasn’t ready for it and the small chat she had at the gym wasn’t an invitation to find her online. Despite what …
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:09 AM
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Nah fuck that most of the modern world escorting is legal, don’t give business to a country like Netherlands who has a long history and problem with sex trafficking.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:19 AM
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Obviously its important to you. Not to me. And not to the girls ive met. I never bring it up, and they don’t either. I’ve had many successful dates and relationships. A partner is the one person I can be myself around and have fun with, why would I want to let all the problems in the world creep into my one sanctuary? I see covid on every tv channel, abortion all over fb, the environment everywhere (I’m an engineer so its part of my job) I just don’t care about it in a relationship, as I said th…
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:04 AM
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Maybe it’s just not important to me as it is to others? I don’t care what your opinion on Covid is, or your opinion on abortion or your opinion on the environment. For me, It’s not worth the possible argument that could ensue, cause even if I’m not interested in it, sometimes when you mention it people will grab onto it and keep going over it trying to dig. I just don’t care. I can find out deeply about you in other ways other than if you think laws in Utah are fair on the topic of abortion.. so…
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:56 PM
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Yeah there’s some but it’s a pretty small nice tbf. For example I’m into girly girls, ive not known many of them to own an Xbox or ride harleys lol
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:39 PM
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Not really, you can be compatible with people romantically and not politically. Most people, especially younger don’t fall flat into left wing or right wing, its like a mix and match, ie we could agree on an abortion topic, but not on the economy. My ex believed we should let in more refugees, I was the total opposite. We lived together for years and had great times. If we discussed that early (and for no reason) we might’ve risked being like nah and given eachother the flick before we got a cha…
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:36 PM
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Well I said glancing over it is fine, so if it comes up that you both are of same religion then sure, I’m talking more about if for example ones atheist ones christian, you don’t want to get caught into a argument based on morals.
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:14 AM
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I’m 23 and my body counts 41. I’ve never had an std of any kind, I’ve done one night stands, casual, relationships. And I don’t feel I’ve ever felt like a slut or that my choices were dirty or disrespectful to myself. I enjoy having sex with hot girls and usually have fun with it. I don’t think I’m any better or worse than someone who’s body count is 5 or something.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:53 AM
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What he means is no matter how well it’s going they might not know that and won’t take the chance/ or they just annoyed their friends not with them.
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:02 AM
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The only right answer, and usually if you do it right they will invite you back to their place.
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:00 AM
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Is this possible for men? What you just said then makes so much sense for me, experienced too much touch from good looking girls I find it really hard to commit even though I want to.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:03 AM
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Never a good idea to discuss politics or religion with someone you haven’t known or established a solid relationship with for years. Glancing over it is fine but talking going into detail is a recipe for disaster.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:02 AM
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“You can over come a lot of flaws” this part mate
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:05 AM
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Yeah can you explain further
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:05 PM
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Nah bro it’s not projecting, I think you’re pos if you try get with a girl that’s got a guy. You’re fucking around with peoples lives, thats not being a player that’s just being selfish. Sorry you think that way. Agree to disagree. You can pick up girls without having to possibly ruin some guys life.
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:29 AM
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Have at it babyy haha
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:15 AM
1

Yeah both of you. I hope you sleep with OJ’s new wife.
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:27 AM
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Yeah bro you are and shes also a piece of shit. Two pieces of shit in a pod if you will.
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:07 AM
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Always thought guys who could fuck girls with boyfriends were so cool. No I realise they’re actual real pieces of shit.
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:17 AM
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The second part wasn’t needed
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:42 AM
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Dick picks NEVER work. Just chat to her normally like you would over text but with the added benefit of it being a photo, occasionally chuck in a photo that you look good in. If she wants to chat to you she will, once she realises your intentions. I’ve done it before and it work out and I’m not a snapchat kinda guy.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:40 AM
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Coming from someone who’s had a lot of experience. this is not a success story imo. Sounds more like a pity fuck tbh. Bro leave her alone next time if she rejects you even once, a lot of girls (and guys too) just wanna have fun with their friends not have a white knight try and “save them from the creep”, cause 1) if she rejected you she can reject him 2) attractiveness is subjective, she might’ve actually found him more attractive than you and 3) you calling him a creep (seems your reasoning is…
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:06 AM
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Pretty much was the logic lol ahaha oh well
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:19 PM
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No don’t ask if it’s a date, as a bloke in his 20s who’s mucked it up with a lot of pretty girls and learnt a lot of lesson, my one tip here would be remain composed and assume that it’s a date! Be masculine and when you go be present, make it a date, she’s not gonna take the lead, you have to. Whatever prep you have before a date to hype yourself up make sure you do it, take control but not over the top. Idk how close you guys are but make sure you’re breaking the touch barrier, find excuses to…
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:02 AM
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Usually If they don’t I will, just a courtesy text saying hey I had a good time, like I’m in my 20’s rooting and booting is rude in my eyes. Usually can tell you won’t see them again when the interest in talking to you declines. Eventually you get a text along the lines of “i had fun but I have stuff I need to figure out” comes to mind. And I put that down to some girls just want sex which is fine with me lol I’m not looking to take any of them home to mum and dad.
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:54 AM
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I agree, shocked at the other comments saying go fuck yourself. If she’s really being a hoe and inviting two dates then thats so weird but I just don’t see it in this instance for the same reason.. it’s a concert. Im a guy and I have friends who are girls, it’s a little tone deaf to invite a guy friend but try and figure out who the guy friend is OP, ask “this other guy who’s going is he a friend or a date or an ex or something?” See how long they’ve known eachother for. There’s a very good chan…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:43 AM
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Depends on the girl but, nsfw; I’ve made a girl squirt who said she could only do that with toys and she never texted me again lol plus given good head and made them climax as well and still not seen them again. Some do come back for more though for sure just not all.
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:37 AM
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U give off incel vibes ngl
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:49 AM
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Tbf if she’s interested she probably will anyway. I asked a girl out for drinks and got her number, we didn’t end up meeting up until nearly a month later. We both seemed busy but didn’t give up.
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:45 PM
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If she’s into you she’ll most likely be happy to hear you talk about anything you’re passionate about, even if you don’t think people in general are interested. Or ask questions and dig deeper she’ll talk if she wants to, if not or they just bore you, go get a drink and find others
/r/seduction15/06/21 05:36 PM
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The big day hey, just be mature, thats really the best tip, don’t do anything you wouldn’t do with a date you like. Don’t try too hard to impress her, actually have a bit of fun getting to know her, when it finally happens there will be a bit more trust between you too, which will knock the edge off some of the nerves. Also make sure to spend time pleasuring her, she’s having sex with you too remember it’s not ALL about you. So a top could be learn where the clit actually is, work some tongue sk…
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:53 AM
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Hey bro, I had a similar story but a girl who worked at another shop in the mall. I had a great chat with her first time only like 5-10 mins, was kicking myself I didn’t ask for her number, I don’t think she was flirting with me but I just enjoyed chatting to her plus she was fine as helllll haha. Anyway next time I went in, what I did was I said, some friends and I are going for drinks and you should come? I won’t ask for your number but can I offer you mine?” She basically cut me off by enthus…
/r/seduction09/06/21 05:37 AM
1

Why don’t you just re ask at the end of summer before she leaves to go back to school?
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:10 AM
1

Have a look at a new model M6 or RS5, with good exhausts (has to be good not just ott loud) these cars look exotic and modern and sound exotic and fast. That’s usually what girls these days that would be like gold diggers want, modern, exotic and fast. Speaking as someone who’s dated a stripper, ive spent a lot of time around these sorts of girls and if there’s one thing I know it’s that they’re judgey, not all but alot. they want the latest stuff, all strippers ive met have iPhone 12s for examp…
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:47 AM
2

That’s what I was curious about especially with a lot of late 20’s being mums as well haha is this woman like 26 or 46?
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:06 AM
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Cave drawing?
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:05 AM
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I’m not some pua, I’ve only ever asked a hand full of girls for their number in person over my life but usually one thing that I keep consistent is just talking to them a little bit, don’t just come out and start hitting on them from the get go. even as I guy I’d be cautious of that if someone did that, makes a lot more sense if you chat to them for a bit and break the ice then ask. That’s how I would open anyway, generally it’s cause theyll have a bit of time to get into the groove of talking t…
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:02 PM
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Hey man I’m 23 and I kinda recently was like that, very introverted would go out maybe once every 6 months and hated it and wanted to go home, then I started realising if you do yourself up nicely, and go with a group of people you like and once you loosen up a bit you can have a really good time, just keep doing that and it becomes easier. 2 months ago I would hate the idea of going out to clubs, now with my group of mates we hit nearly every bar and club each weekend and it’s fuckin fun you me…
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:35 PM
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If you ask her to hang out at your place straight up it takes away her ability to say “it just happened” if you two end up sleeping together, so that is usually met with a no. IMO always ask to go out, she doesn’t know you, you could do anything to her at your place, also a she might see it as a red flag if she thinks you don’t want to be seen in public. Go for a few drinks, chat and talk all night, that’s why she liked you obviously, then ask if she wants to come back to watch something with yo…
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:39 AM
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Not a bad way to stand out I guess, I wouldn’t video myself though I think a voice recording would do the same trick but hey good on you for taking a different approach I’ll keep this in mind myself
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:36 PM
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Same boat as in being born with good genes, never had a problem getting girls attention, my body count was about 30 by the time I hit 21, it’s not fulfilling and sleeping with a crush is 10x better, you’re not missing out on anything, do you bro not what others reckon you could do
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:10 PM
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That attitude makes you sound an incell.. don’t. However what you’re saying still doesn’t make sense, make friends with people in your social level, if you have guy friends there’s other people who will be friends there who are girls, don’t worry about looks. But you also usually date within your social/friends level and group, it’s not like my ex’s are uglier or better looking than people I’m friends with.
/r/seduction06/05/21 05:31 AM
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fmd who hurt you haha
/r/seduction05/05/21 01:50 PM
1

My advice especially for girls who lack confidence is don’t come across as not confident. I’ve met some really attractive girls with no confidence and it sometimes kills it for me cause it feels like I’m talking to someone who’s not even making me chase at all and kinda feels inexperienced
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:37 AM
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This is the best response on here OP I’d take this advice ^
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:01 AM
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The music I like to dance to at clubs is more bassline which I definitely listen to by myself and dance to by myself, however there’s hardly any lyrics and it’s more like edm if you’re confused. I still look weird dancing, don’t know what to do with my hands when the bass drops ahah
/r/seduction23/04/21 04:09 PM
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I want to learn to dance I think it’s fun but when I move I’ve been told like I look like I’m being forced to dance, how can someone learn to just vibe and look natural?
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:26 PM
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Yep, she was shit testing op in a really shitty way, no respect, you dodged a cannon ball OP
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:29 PM
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This is actually a great idea, I remember one time my local baker offered me and my partner at the time like all these loaves of breads and other bakery goods because it was just getting thrown out, so we took some and we ended up offering our neighbours some loaves of bread and we ended up having a long chat and now we always say hi, so I could imagine cooking something and going down to present it would be a really genuine and warm approach, takes confidence too and shows you’re sweet which I …
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:54 PM
1

What are some situations where a guy can say no?
/r/seduction17/03/21 11:23 AM
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I can understand why you’re thinking that, it’s a little bit intense but you can still be interested at the same time some of these comments think just cause you’re not loving her instant texts means your playing games. Just put some distance inbetween your responses and know she will respond quickly. It doesn’t mean you’re playing games by doing that, take time to think about what you want to say even if that means taking a while, also it will make her wonder what you’re doing which adds to her…
/r/seduction30/01/21 05:39 AM
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Thanks this is really firm advice, if it happens again I will bring it up in person that’s a good piece of advice I didn’t think of. Thanks that really helped hey
/r/seduction21/12/20 10:54 AM
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This is a great piece of advice and I have a question in relation to your last part there about holding her accountable, I’m not sure if I did the right thing. I’ve been seeing a girl for a couple weeks and we get along like a house on fire and have been just enjoying going on dates and staying at my place the sex is definitely good and we chat throughout the days. The other night she said she was going to come to mine after she was finished hanging with her friends and I just said no worries id…
/r/seduction21/12/20 07:21 AM
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Idk why I’m being downvoted I’ve been seeing this chick for like 2 months and she low key loves it when I tease her like that, it’s never teasing about actually shit that would make her cry lol for example her name is franky so I always say “to be frank” or just play on words on her name stuff like that, it’s clear that it’s playful teasing and also it could be but you just got to be comfortable enough with yourself like have confidence what you’re saying is funny not rude there’s a difference l…
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:54 PM
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Yes I do, but you have to ride a thin line with it, playful teasing and make sure you guys are somewhat into eachother at the very least. And can’t be too hurtful, maybe give her a funny nickname or if she does one thing like trips then have a running joke that she’s clumsy idk just stuff like that that will make her say “omg you just hate me hahah” while she’s laughing
/r/seduction16/12/20 01:14 PM
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If she responds just respond lol if you’re purposely taking time to respond she’ll see through to eventually, sure don’t respond super quickly comes across as needy but lol once every 1-2 days will get yourself friendzoned quick, theres no momentum with that and you need to get the ball rolling eventually, sorry but that was terrible advice
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:15 PM
4

You know the difference between myself and a pair of glasses? Glasses usually sit a bit higher on your face
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:04 PM
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1 text every 1-2 days? Most girls will forget you exist if it’s that rare
/r/seduction07/12/20 10:38 AM
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I had a chick get angry at me for not answering her call and accusing me of speaking to other girls after speaking for 3 days, never met someone so insecure I ghosted her after that.
/r/seduction29/11/20 12:40 PM
1

Is there a way you can hug her? I remember learning one time take note to how their touch on you is, for example if when she takes her hand off you after the hug if she takes it off in a sliding/stroking motion or if she just lifts her hand off, this is a good indication of attraction but shouldn’t be the only point of proof you rely on
/r/seduction27/11/20 05:09 PM
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This is actually pretty good advice, and I like what you said about “the best time to kiss her is when you’re the most afraid this is your mind and body telling you this is the right time” very good advice, thanks :)
/r/seduction10/11/20 12:03 PM
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Bro I’ll tell you now why you’re not getting girls, it’s not cause you’re average looking it’s cause you’re immature, not at all confident and bordering on incel. You are bitter because girls out of your league don’t like you like they owe it to you? What do you think one of them is just going to give you a chance out of pity to give you a break? Fuck dude as a guy this is the biggest confidence killer. Get away from reddit and this head space you’re in, go and get a hobby and stop putting all y…
/r/seduction08/11/20 11:47 AM
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I actually asked him I can’t remember his response exactly but I think he said that what happened was he asked jokingly if you wanna go halves in a bag and then he kinda was like “oh shit sorry haha I was just kidding” and then she said nah I’d be down
/r/seduction06/11/20 06:17 AM
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I haven’t dated a cop or anything but my mate went on a few dates with a cop and said they did coke together lmao so I guess it depends on the person
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:58 AM
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I feel the pain in your words bro I know what you mean by feeling invisible and it’s like no matter what you do you can’t put a foot right, speaking for days still to get excuses to not meet you feel worthless. I wish I had some advice for you but I don’t unfortunately but I definitely feel your pain and that burning rage, you have my sympathy
/r/seduction04/10/20 07:59 AM
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Bro you fucked it haha first date and you were asking if her lips were real and nagging her for being on her phone? Should have been more prepared for conversation to flow I wouldn’t expect there to be a second date
/r/seduction03/10/20 03:21 PM
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Yeah I like it, I’m sure some dont but Just don’t over use it heaps and heaps
/r/seduction01/10/20 07:19 AM
4

You saying you liked her previous hair could sound to her like “I don’t like your current hair style” and that’s about the worst start you could think of before asking a stranger out especially to dinner, ask her for something way more casual like a drink or something
/r/seduction28/09/20 08:04 AM
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Yes I used to be friends with this girl on fb, she was very very popular online had tens of thousands of followers on ig (was actually a stripper at one of Australia’s most high end strip clubs) I said hey to her a couple times and then one time I found out she was from a state that is very picturesque in Australia so I asked her what’s Tasmania like, well they were all ignored. One day she made a post about drug use and I commented on it and she commented back, eventually it made its way to mes…
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:44 AM
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Sucks man.. all we can do is keep our head up and hope we get something like that again or better, here’s to blokes like us
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:13 AM
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You just feel sorry for yourself and have no confidence, work on yourself and stop telling yourself bullshit. No one feels sorry for you, just yourself, that’s life.
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:30 AM
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Bro it’s literally impossible to fall inlove with someone just cause they said how’re you? Don’t be naive. You’re just lusting over them cause they showed you an ounce of attention, you’re never gonna fall inlove with that attitude
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:15 AM
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No that’s lust mixed with desperation
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:23 AM
1

Great metaphor and yes it’s very key
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:39 AM
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Thank you! A lot of guys forget about this part of it
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:37 AM
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No I agree totally, I live alone also and it’s made me pick up hobbies and go to the gym and all that, I still think guys should make the first move, it’s apart of being a guy that I like, but I just think guys should remember that it’s a two way street and they shouldn’t be doing all the attracting
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:45 AM
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It’s easy too, not trying to sound all woe me but the majority of men I know feel that they must do all the work to get a relationship or it will never happen and we don’t want to be alone
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:14 AM
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Yes, I agree that it’s really up to the guy to make the first move but it shouldn’t be all about the guy attracting her, she may not initially but it shouldn’t be too long before she starts trying to attract him also, and doesn’t have to be looks it can be just by showing interest in him as a person
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:31 AM
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Physical attraction wears off eventually, emotional attraction makes relationships last
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:28 AM
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There is physical attraction and then there is emotional attraction, emotional attraction can be way stronger than physical attraction and while you need physical attraction obviously, physical attraction wears off
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:26 AM
1

Yes I’m just saying don’t forget she also has to
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:08 AM
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That’s the point of my post, it’s a two way street and you both need to win eachother over. Some guys put girls on a pedestal and forget that she has also attract me too, it’s not all about chasing the girl. Even I have fallen victim to this, chasing girls who were really not that into me and them just throwing me breadcrumbs to keep me interested, when really they never took the time to get to know me. Then when someone does it’s truely the best feeling.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:03 AM
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Any girl can put on a smile, wear purfume, and wear flattering clothes, while that is good and we appreciate it, it’s like guys thinking girls will be swept off their feet for.. smiling, wearing cologne and a good outfit. That just gets your foot in the door (and only to the right person) if you want to sweep a guy off his feet you need to put in effort, it has to be the right guy too you’ll feel it. It just feels different. We guys have interests too, we have things we are very passionate about…
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:55 AM
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What do you mean about open and close ?
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:26 PM
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Unfortunately I agree in a way, I think there’s too much emphasis on the guy having to attract the female and often forget that the girl also has to attract the guy
/r/seduction19/09/20 04:38 PM
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Yeah mate I know exactly, me too, someone’s you meet someone who is so perfect for you, soo nice to you, cares about you and wants to get to know you and they’re actually attractive to you, have a lot of the traits you dream of then it ends, it’s the thought knowing that hey I could be happy with them and now I won’t have that, whens the next time something equivalent will come? 5 years? 10 years? It’s a long long time
/r/seduction19/09/20 02:25 PM
11

They come few and far between, many years between girls who have made me feel really special, vs only weeks with girls I can fling and sleep with
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:31 AM
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Yes there’s thousands and thousands of girls out there, but in my whole life only probably 2 have swept me off my feet. Girls want a guy to sweep them off their feet, as guys do we not want that same feeling ?
/r/seduction19/09/20 02:25 AM
1

Yeah mate true story, summing it up like that a bit but And to be fair I’m quite successful for my age, own my own car and house and have a stock portfolio but this never was a big thing for her, she made a lot of money doing what she did and I did teach her how to manage her money better but I never got the idea nor did she make comments about me supporting her financially, she always wanted to be successful on her own terms Sorry I’m not sure what polymath means? We met just on fb, she was ori…
/r/seduction18/09/20 06:23 AM
2

Oh well done legend, remember keep doing what you’re doing cause thats what makes her like you, it’s when you think you’ve won her you stop doing what you did to win her over that she loses interest
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:21 PM
2

Ah fair enough
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:23 PM
4

No bad consequence? She’s literally already in a relationship?
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:48 AM
5

All my respect for you flew out the window as soon as you said “I’m in a relationship and probably just bored”. Do yourself and your poor boyfriend a favour and break up with him. Get some respect for yourself and others
/r/seduction17/09/20 09:47 AM
5

I remember being 13
/r/seduction16/09/20 12:52 PM
1

Sorry bro bit late to reply, how did it go? If you haven’t spoken yet, get her to talk about family, people always feel closer to you if they discuss their family with you, let conversation flow, she may bring up some subject that you can add something onto, whenever you feel like you’re digressing, that’s probably a good thing
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:22 PM
1

I wouldn’t say I was low value but I certainly wasn’t high value, I was a bit of a geek, bit of a nerd studied engineering, didn’t have many friends and slept in alot, skinny and white (hard to tan) and didn’t have game, I ended up dating this girl for 2 years who was a stripper at one of the most high end strip clubs in Australia, she had 10s of thousands of followed on Instagram, had 100+ messages a week from guys, she has a super model figure, thin toned legs, tanned, jet black hair, big lips…
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:03 AM
1

Lol Europeans think their girls are slutty until they meet Australian girls, then they look like nuns
/r/seduction13/09/20 03:03 PM
0

My body count was 17 by the time I was 17, now I’m 21 and my counts only 23, 6 in the last 4 years compared to 17 in my first 2 years, easier I think when you’re a teenager cause everyones horny and free on weekends
/r/seduction13/09/20 01:06 PM
4

Get her to talk about her self as much as possible
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:31 AM
1

Boxing gym will be 10x better but
/r/seduction11/09/20 02:26 PM
8

Get yourself to a boxing gym, boost your testosterone levels and confidence a lot, will take you away from your environment and mindset and distract you from girls, plus boxing can be so addicting and fun
/r/seduction11/09/20 12:19 PM
10

Imo when the underlying feeling is not being reciprocated and you’re therefore doing too much
/r/seduction11/09/20 10:43 AM
5

Hmm this is a good point and I have experienced this before but atm girls are few and far between and it’s hard to have an abundance of girls, any tips for this?
/r/seduction11/09/20 08:38 AM
1

Sometimes if the situation is appropriate I’ll move them around on me, like pull their arm over me so it’s on my chest, pull their leg up in mine just basically pull her in closer, play with her hair and then escalate further to hopefully making out
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:09 PM
1

Really depends if they’re learning from that experience though, I met a girl who was 26 and had had 9 relationships, I met her and could tell she was an immature brat straight from the get go who only dated so she wasn’t alone cause she clearly couldn’t stand being by herself
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:59 PM
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She’s emotionally cheating already, OP needs to have some standards and respect the bro code regardless if he knows the bf or not, she sounds like she ain’t that classy and will catch up with her
/r/seduction10/09/20 02:02 PM
7

Don’t be a dog is the next step
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:40 AM
2

You probably don’t like it because you’re not used to it, you’ll get used to it eventually and definitely pop yourself up a couple knotches
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:59 AM
4

Bro your beard is literally bum fluff, it’s not gonna just fill out over time and look good, you either got the genetics for it or you don’t, trust me you wouldn’t even look bad with shaven face or a stubble at the least, 99% of girls aren’t going to dig that beard look at least you’ll have a better chance with clean shaven look you got good skin with nice tint so will work well
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:42 AM
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Hard to hone this skill I find as well, pretty much the only thing lacking for me also
/r/seduction08/09/20 05:11 AM
0

I’m no longer debating with you, you’ve obviously made your mind up long before this and you’re taking everything personal and coming back with plain sexist remarks yourself based off opinion, it’s funny you put so many posts on dating advice but you CLEARLY have a bias and distain against males, maybe you should find some peace and take your own advice ?
/r/seduction06/09/20 02:49 PM
1

Ok thanks
/r/seduction06/09/20 02:29 PM
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You seem to be jumping to conclusion and taking offence before even understanding properly, I’m not nor did I say “men eleviate stress for woman” and your follow up point is purely opinion, I already know I don’t want to debate with you. But I will say what I meant originally, men are seen and have been seen since nearly the age of man as providers and protectors, 10,000 years ago if someone was attacking your village who would be protecting the people? skip forward to today, if someone is invad…
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:55 PM
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No I don’t think he meant being above them as in being above women, its clear to me he meant being above your emotions And whilst I agree with what you said generally, it’s human evolution that men are (usually) the protectorates in situations of stress, when you sense danger you seek protection, whilst ofcourse there would be some exceptions to this I believe this is most peoples natural instinct reaction
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:31 PM
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I don’t smoke anymore and definitely could not get shit done when I was stoned, id try to study and have to re read every line like 3 times and still forget it, my mind would wonder off and shit, never heard of anyone smoking weed to be productive though thats new
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:19 PM
1

Bro chill out you’ve chucked her up on a huge pedestal, you’re already acting like you can’t get her and feeling sorry for yourself, she has insecurities she covers up, she bleeds the same, she shits in the toilet, she farts and burps, theres things you’re better at than her, treat her as your equal, that will be super unattractive to her if you act like she’s too good for you already, because you’re subconsciously sucking up to her because you feel you’re inferior. Like bro you’ve put way to mu…
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:33 AM
3

I wouldn’t say having lucrative pics means they are automatically the unloyal type but I also think it’s a fair assessment to assume they’re not dating material, there’s always exceptions but there’s different ways to market yourself, wanting to show you’re a good long term option doesn’t usually include that type of personality
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:25 AM
64

Stopping smoking weed made me feel better, and thus gave me more confidence, all weed does it give you grand ideas while you sit on the couch
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:17 AM
1

Exactly bro it’s crazy to think you share these times with these people just for them to end up not even liking you or becoming strangers again
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:38 AM
2

Hahahaha that is definitely a good story I enjoyed that one, lucky to have experienced it
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:13 AM
4

Haha lucky man, funny enough there is a girl at my work who I know has a crush on me but she doesn’t know I do, I wouldn’t be mad if this scenario played out though
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:37 AM
1

Damn bro sorry to hear that, your first kiss is the kiss you compare all other kisses to, shame it ended out that way sounds like she was a natural flirt and you were apart of the ride for her, at least you got a good memory out of it try not to think about her doing your dirty along with your dog “friend”, cheers for sharing but
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:35 AM
2

I can imagine 😍
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:31 AM
2

Haha rocky start but paid off hey bet seeing that big smile made it worth it though
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:29 AM
2

That sounds really beautiful and definitely sounds like it was like a movie, sad you’re not still with her though
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:28 AM
1

Haha oh that sounds like it was one to remember, thanks for sharing that was a good read
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:26 AM
1

As a guy who is interested in fragrances and I know a fair few guys who are also interested, it doesn’t really matter too much as long as it’s not over powering don’t shower yourself in it, 3 sprays or so is good enough and no body odour, but mainly try to wear a purfume that isn’t in every high school girls collection (ie Marc Jacobs, black opium, Chanel coco) like they smell good gut you smell like every second 18 year old and its really boring now, I always like when I smell something new and…
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:11 PM
2

Even with covid I feel you should know where you stand with someone after a few months and he said she’s still trying to suss him out, in my opinion if you’re still not sure about someone after a few months there’s probably not a spark ?
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:58 PM
7

Can I ask how come you’ve know eachother for a couple months and only hung out once and just to get to know eachother? do you live really far away or what? That just doesn’t seem right
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:12 PM
5

Man what a great write up, it’s criminal this doesn’t have a thousand upvotes, thank you heaps I read every word and got a lot out of it
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:09 PM
1

Dimorphism? I’m not familiar with that term? I’m guessing it has something to do with the primitive trait of sussing if someone is a suitable mating partner? Or am I way off?
/r/seduction25/08/20 02:48 PM
3

Dude plane bathrooms are actually notoriously dirty and unhygienic, seriously there’s nothing romantic about it and you can get in a lot of trouble too
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:02 AM
5

For a guy and a girl who meet eachother for the first time in public say at a bar, how do you gauge attractiveness then? Wouldn’t that first impression be off looks which either gets your foot in the door or not ?
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:51 AM
1

Ahh okay right that makes sense because yes my follow up question was going to be can this translate over for guys as well? For example my ex was brunette and since then I’ve been more attracted to blondes, but it doesn’t mean only blondes haha if I were to meet someone with actual real attractive traits then that preference doesn’t matter
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:49 AM
2

Hey this is a really good post and as a guy I got numerous things to take out of this and has given me extra confidence because I’ve always felt I wasn’t attractive enough for the girls I find attractive but in my most recent post a few people said I was above average attractiveness so that is great to read Also could I get you to expand on what you meant in the last para about “specific physical traits” about how if women are too focused on a particular trait they don’t know themselves very wel…
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:20 AM
2

I love that YouTube channel and glad to see it on here I’ve watched hours of her stuff before it’s great for learning facial feature ques and just admiring the beauty of eyes and expressions
/r/seduction25/08/20 05:07 AM
1

Yeah bro you can get some good fragrances for cheap, I also recommend eau fraiche by Versace or Davidoff cool water for summer, they’re both pretty cheap and they’re aquatic fresh fragrances and both smell like the more expensive colognes, and those are the two I get the most complimented on, if you’re interested bro
/r/seduction24/08/20 07:12 AM
1

No worries man, also if you’re using the curve that I’m thinking of (yellow bottle?) it’s great for spring day time so if you’re in the Southern Hemisphere like me it will be a great time to start using it as it will smell it’s best
/r/seduction24/08/20 06:22 AM
1

You should try 1 spray on the back of your neck instead of wrists next time, unless you’re walking by people who are sitting down it’s hard to smell and gets rubbed off easily and breaks down the aroma particles Next time you’re out buying a fragrance look for “eau de toilette” it’s probably the most common form of fragrance, I bet if you own a few fragrances if you have a look at them some of them will be EDT
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:57 AM
1

But yes lol fuck body sprays hahaha
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:25 AM
1

So cologne is only 2-4% concentration as eau de toilette is about 10% and eau de purfume is around 20% concentration Also a tip for you is putting it on your wrist is a waste because it’s a high impact area meaning it will rub off within a much shorter time and unless you’re keeping your hands around head level it will be hard to smell, I like 2 sprays on my frontal neck area and then 1 or 2 sprays on the back of my neck so I leave a trail depending ofcourse on how strong the scent is
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:24 AM
2

Yes this is just advice for purfumes, im assuming most blokes know how to shower with soap Whilst I agree with no need to spraying on wrists, it does depend on the purfume, some are stronger than others where 1 or 2 sprays are enough, but some arent as strong and behind the ears where there’s a pulse point can help build a smelling aroma
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:12 PM
2

You want to know how many sprays and where to spray as well, you’re right drowning yourself in it can do far more harm than good
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:24 PM
1

Yes this is true! which can happen when people use the wrong purfumes that’s why I said know what ones are best for when, sweet fragrances like armani code profumo are better in winter because the heat of summer makes makes sweetness too strong Also obviously not drowning yourself in anything too you should have an aroma, not be able to taste it in your throat hahah
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:23 PM
2

Yes cool water is my newest one and I keep finding myself going back to smell it, smells fresh and high class Also the black bottle of ADG is the profumo just the normal ADG is the clouded bottle
/r/seduction22/08/20 06:11 PM
3

Yes if you want her to think you wear a fedora in doors and calls girls m’lady
/r/seduction22/08/20 05:50 PM
2

Find one of the posts on “kissing and when to kiss” on this subreddit, follow the ideas given there and next date you’ll have to really muster up and give her a kiss, I really doubt rejection will happen by date 3 and it could have the possibility to be super romantic as there’s been built up anticipation
/r/seduction21/08/20 08:17 AM
2

How is this the first time you’ve been flaked on? haha is this your first time asking someone out I reckon 98% flake last minute.. maybe more
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:07 AM
1

Thanks OP I just spent the last hour and a half browsing that channel, I think it’s helped me with eye contact and also a very beautiful channel to just admire
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:41 PM
1

Bro as far as texting goes this doesn’t come across as that bad or a weak game, I’m no expert so it could be better but you will have conversations with girls that you think went great and had a lot of fun talking to them and they’ll ghost you damn I’ve even been blocked in the morning with conversation that went similar to this
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:04 PM
1

Thanks dude appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:36 AM
1

A good alternative to nautica voyage is davidoff cool water
/r/seduction18/08/20 06:53 AM
1

I haven’t used that method yet of suggesting 2 days at once, I use the same proposal but usually only 1 day/time and it gets dismissed, that’s a good one cheers
/r/seduction14/08/20 05:54 PM
1

Cheers, I will look, do you know any ones off the top of your head? Preferably ones that aren’t like 180lbs + of muscle hahah
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:20 PM
1

What could I focus my energy on to build myself to be an attractive man?
/r/seduction14/08/20 12:18 PM
1

No I didnt know what you meant, but now I do, thanks
/r/seduction14/08/20 12:15 PM
1

But If she was boring, then she probably wouldn’t be asking to hangout then? So I wouldn’t be able to turn her down If she did ask me out by the off chance, I’d give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she’s more interesting in person, if not then no harm no foul
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:59 AM
2

Thanks that’s quite a good one, I appreciate that advice, I’ll use that “what would be a fun first meeting look like to you”
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:48 AM
1

I think you need to read again bro, I’m not the one saying “yeah I’ll let you know when I’m free” it’s the girl who says that to when I say something like “hey let’s grab coffee around lunch time” (for example) And I would happily say “look if you want to chat, why don’t you come over” (that’s actually quite a good line I’ll use that one I reckon” but it’s hard when I get like 1 or 2 responses a day and it’s mainly me carrying conversation
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:46 AM
2

Man I appreciate the help but I think you’ve read it wrong, none of this really applies to texting, I’m happy with how I look, I’m not the biggest dude but I’m fit, I look after myself, if I did anything else i would risk over doing it, I just want help with texting thats all
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:20 AM
1

I live in Australia, Australia and NZ are basically corona free, except 1 state which is locked off no where near me
/r/seduction14/08/20 08:49 AM
0

I try to use methods that I have used before that worked like saying let’s meet instead of asking to meet and being assured of myself, but if anything my success rate is getting lower and lower
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:39 AM
2

I have never really been told I’m ugly, and have been told that I’m like an 8.5 in the face, yet I’ve never been asked out ?? And maybe chased but like years and years ago back in high school
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:38 AM
3

Funny story but one time I went on a date when I was like 18 and after was texting her and accidentally texted “I couldn’t stop thinking about killing you” 😂
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:32 AM
4

Here have my poor mans award .. 🥇
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:13 AM
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