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Are you an adrenaline junkie? Start skydiving. It's human flight, you will spend every second of free time doing it, because its so fun. Mabye don't do it though... you'll spend half your paycheck on the sport
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:26 PM
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Find a hobby that you enjoy more than spending time with woman. For me its skydiving. Goodluck.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:48 PM
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I see this in my pick up soccer group. Be nonreactive.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:55 AM
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The whole point of texting is to set a time and place to meet up where you are not interacting through 0's and 1's. No need to be playing 20 questions... The biggest mistake guys make when texting is texting back IMMEDIATELY. This is the neediest thing. Wait a while before responding to her, it's simple. Doing this makes you different, and mysterious. Does all the dirty work for her. For what to text? Simply make plans with her.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:58 PM
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She couldn’t sleep without taking benzos
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:56 PM
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Comes in phases for me. I’ll focus on school and gym heavy for a few months, and then all of a sudden want to have tons of sex.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 05:00 AM
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The sidebar Books from the sidebar Read “The Rational Male”
/r/askTRP24/03/20 03:31 AM
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I had this exact situation happen to me, except I got back with her and cheated. Good job breaking up. It’s tough. Now stay away from her, you made your decision. Own it. I honestly still have emotions/feelings for my ex LTR, but they are not as strong as time passes. I’ve heard that it takes guys 18 months to get over an ex. So give it time and enjoy the new women, do some cold approaches for fun too. You have some oneits for this girl. You will find other women you will want to spend time with…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:25 AM
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Tell her bye bye. Go find a girl that will.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:19 AM
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This has been talked about many of times. Crab bucket theory will end up applying to you. Go ahead and cut more contact and find new friends with the “new you”. I wouldn’t burn any bridges, from a power standpoint.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:17 AM
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Yea I’m not sure how this happened actually. If a mod sees this please delete on my posts.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:05 AM
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Yea I’m not sure how this happened actually.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:04 AM
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Staring at me, ignoring her bf. Telling me I’m so attractive.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:57 AM
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Just talk to everyone. I started with 5s and 6s but very quickly I had no desire to approach 5s and 6s. Just approach all women
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:00 PM
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6 approaches over 6 MONTHS. Get out there wayyy more than that. You need to get used to this. Build up a schedule for approaching. Going downtown to meet someone? Arrive 20 minutes early and cold approach. On the subway? Meet a girl. Walking in between classes? Meet a girl. Try to approach just 1 girl a day. You’ll see, you will want to do more and more more.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:29 PM
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Sure you could say that, it is just a play on words. At least he has the mindset that he is looking for other women. Sure you will act a bit more “monogamous” subconsciously if you only have one source, rather than 3, you are right on that part.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:15 PM
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I actually consciously don’t amog my friends. I hold back from doing so. I tend to build them up more. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:34 PM
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Some day game will go along way: You get better at talking to people, specifically girls, in “awkward” situations. This will make every other situation easier. These social skills are amazing. You get to have sex. You can get invited to events, as you will naturally talk to EVERYONE. All of this is done sober.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:28 PM
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This is why you need to be daygaming in college along with your fraternity stuff. You put the two together and bam, you have skills no one else can match. I wish I was in a fraternity so badly, but I’m not and I’m too busy for it. But hey I day game, and I get the skills/confidence that all the Brads and Chads have so I can enjoy myself and NATURALLY GAME. Go approach girls on campus, makes social events easy easy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:26 AM
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What I needed to hear. Got my research done and found 3 steals. Appreciate you.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:41 AM
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I agree. Just one of the tougher choices I’ve actually had to make.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:36 PM
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You need more sidebar. Yes MORE SIDEBAR. It’s over with her, move on.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:06 AM
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Who tf cares what someone else’s SMV is. Just better yourself, don’t worry about other people.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:59 PM
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You answered the question already, high SMV.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:19 PM
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Do: Fix your mindset You have not been on a date with her, and you are already considering an LTR....
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:18 PM
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You are not alpha. Leave her. Go become alpha. Source: your post history
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:33 PM
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Tell her you understand and wish her good luck.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:50 PM
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You should be demonstrating high value through stories and body language. Not clothes.
/r/seduction28/12/19 02:50 AM
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I’m just waiting for the next post. “LTR is texting ex”. People post and don’t take advice, ridiculous.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:47 AM
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You have a fear of what people think of you. You need to stop giving a fuck. Best way to go about this is exposure therapy. Here are some ways: Go lay down on a busy side walk for a few minutes. Try to convince a cashier to let you have an item for free. Approach strangers. Just start dancing in public. Doing all of these things will suck and give you bad anxiety at first. However it will go away, and you will stop caring about what others think.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:59 PM
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No contact. You need more side bar.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:57 PM
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What I was looking for. I’ll definitely give this a try and see if I have more genuine smiles throughout the day.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:53 PM
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Yes I know. There are some situations when this is helpful. We are social creatures, aren’t we? I’m trying to improve my social skills, specifically when approaching and smiling is a huge plus. Shows high value etc. Don’t be a Scrooge.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:41 AM
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I agree that people do that. I’m not insecure, I don’t want to come off as a threat when I’m meeting people. Charismatic people smile.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:40 AM
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Well you’re addicted to porn, no wonder you haven’t gotten laid. Once you quit the porn you will actually pursue women, since you’re not getting a release through a screen (this really messes up you’re dopamine btw). Quit the porn. Read some books. Go talk to some women, you’re in college, they are EVERYWHERE.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:34 AM
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Glad to hear!
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:27 PM
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The power of now.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:24 PM
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The mystery method.
/r/seduction20/12/19 11:17 PM
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About treating life as video game: https://youtu.be/gWIi6Pytde8
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:53 AM
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This is why I treat life as a single player video game... who gives a fuck. This is out of your control.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:47 AM
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Look up the mystery method with this. Here’s it in a breakdown. You open the whole group. Make them like you. “Exclude” the girl you want. Then go after her after the whole group has been won.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:45 AM
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I will never understand guys posting an essay about a girl they are no longer going to fuck. I’m not even going to bother reading it, I’ll just read the title. Dude go find another girl.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:40 PM
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Literally anywhere. Look around. They are everywhere. Class, library, walking, quad, etc. I mean dude, EVERYWHERE.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:39 PM
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The relationship is over already.
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:31 AM
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I’m going to be honest. She wants to sleep with another guy. Leave now before you get damaged more. Check out r/asktrp.
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:27 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:19 AM
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Rejection is better than regret.
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:57 PM
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Go pursue other girls. It takes us men 18 months to completely get over a breakup.
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:09 PM
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Yea I can’t read this. Learn to punctuate.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:54 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:00 AM
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I’d get a new wing or go out alone...
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:56 PM
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It hurt my soul...
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:44 AM
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Watch some Todd V. He’s great. Watch some infield to get some insight.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:27 AM
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Learn pick up. Will help you convey to her that you are the prize.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:03 AM
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Wow you have a lot to learn. You’re worrying about a girl that you will never fuck honestly... starting reading side bar books my guy.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:09 AM
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I’m not necessarily recommend this BUT you can get ego death with a heroic dose of mushrooms... be careful Why are you thinking about this so much anyway? We’re gonna die, oh well, nothing you can do, it’s out of your control. Your ego does not like this. Drop your ego. Mabye go do something “crazy”. Go skydiving. Do some stuff that your brain perceives as being “close” to death. Obviously be smart about this.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:09 PM
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You tell yourself that you will come across another 10. With this attitude, you never will. Go plate some 8s and 9s and a 10 might just come around...
/r/askTRP14/12/19 10:44 PM
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Ghost her correct.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:25 AM
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Appreciate it. This is my first set of plates. You think I should just ignore the text?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:44 AM
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Correct. I upgraded her to fwb which is why I was hanging out with her. She is now demoted to a plate after this. I’m just asking, should I demote her further to a next? I’ll defiantly give it a read.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:34 AM
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Perfectly fine. You can still get some great gains.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:17 AM
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Eye contact is a seen as a threat to our primal brains. It is natural to want to break it. When you’re making intense eye contact with someone, make them break. Don’t be the one. Use good judgement because fights can be started if you make someone mad. However if you’re on a date, just own the eye contact. The other person will think that you’re very intense
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:59 PM
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It gets easier with time. Don’t let your hamster spin. Catch that mother fucker.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:52 PM
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It just helps me figure out my thinking patterns and enjoy my senses more. I do not care if you do it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:29 AM
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I have always tended to think a lot. I see meditation as “clearing my email”. I’ll have “no mind” way more throughout the day. It makes me conscious when I’m opening a door, buckling my seatbelt, taking a step, literally everything because my mind is no longer busy thinking. Let’s me live in the moment more and enjoy the little things.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:28 AM
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First self help book I read. It’s a whole other pill, bigger than the red pill. Got me really into meditation, which is the biggest skill I’ve learned on this journey.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:43 PM
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Can vouch helps 1000%
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:56 AM
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I’m taking a plate that’s leaving for a while on an “active” date tomorrow night. Do not go eat and talk. Let her do this with her girlfriends or betas. Do stuff that guys like to do. Rock climbing, top golf, tennis... I’m taking my plate bowling tomorrow night. They have to earn this with good behavior though. Not something you do often if they are plate status.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:53 AM
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Not cumming is actually a great way to keep girls around. Most guys when they fuck a hot girl, cum quick, if not they cum anyway. You not cumming will make her insecure and show abundance. She’ll get those thoughts of “is he fucking other girls”... etc.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:28 AM
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It’s a numbers game. Some girls will like you, some girls won’t. You should’ve been approaching for a while now if you wanted to. You’ve raised your SMV, go approach some girls now. Go have sex with 5 different women. No more Oneitis. Todd V has excellent stuff on approaching women.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:26 AM
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I relate to you. I’m 19, and I don’t relate much to people much my age. I’ll go hangout with people and everyone is just scrolling through Instagram or looking at snapchat stories. I’m just sitting back with thoughts “WHY THE FUCK AM I HERE”. Technology has had a huge downside. With this, there are some great people my age out there. I feel like as technology progresses, people will just live more and more in their own head.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:24 AM
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Yes read the rational male.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:51 PM
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Make sure you have some money saved before you move out if that’s possible. I’m in a similar situation, and I’m waiting to have an income of double what I need before I move out.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:08 AM
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Well he’s going to be in shock, he has no other response. Trying to imagine the feeling in his stomach right now...
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:12 PM
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“BUT SHE SAID SHE DIDN’T MEET UP WITH ANYONE”
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:03 PM
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Like the other responses, just say “no problem”. She will go date some beta and then come back to you when she’s single or she just wants some alpha dick again.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:02 PM
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Yea you’re right... I’d use a condom.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:28 AM
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You: “I found your ex on tinder, haha” Him: “Which one?” You: “—-“ with screenshot He about to learn...
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:05 AM
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No problem. Women will judge off the worst picture anyway. Glad to know to get rid of it. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:39 AM
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I’ll definitely do that then. What do you estimate the bf I am in the post bulk photo on my profile is?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:31 AM
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I see your point. 100%, cold approaching is my main way of getting plates.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:27 AM
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Don’t worry about it haha, I honestly never think about it. Yea I’ll be looking for a new one.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:21 AM
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Measured at my gym last week. I have a post on my profile if you’d like to view it. I think it is the first photo. I’ll pick a better one for sure, I do agree it does give off the look of a chubbier face.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:20 AM
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Yea I’ll be switching that one out. Is what your talking about with my eyes just my ptosis(droopy eyelid) in my left eye?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:12 AM
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Hm, must be the picture then. I’m 14% body fat... best physique of my life. Looking at it now I see how I look less lean than I actually am Appreciate the response.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:57 AM
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Figure out logistics...
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:02 AM
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Well you started off well. And then your other two pictures are god awful, let me help you. https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4370/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another_tinder_guid
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:45 AM
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And how does this affect your life?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:19 PM
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You need more confidence. Keep improving yourself. I went on a. 4 month dry spell after discovering the pill just to improve myself... in college too.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:14 AM
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Leave this people. Time to get a fresh start. These people will not respect you. Also read 48 laws of power. Just books in general. As many books as you can.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:22 AM
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Get her emotions involved. Come on you’re better than this.
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:15 PM
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You’re giving this girl too much thought. Just look how long your post is. Don’t double text.
/r/seduction02/12/19 09:17 PM
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Journaling. Meditation. Reading. Cold showers. Replace your bad habits with good habits. Actually write down what habits you are going to replace and with what habit you will do that with. Write down your goals and how you will complete them. Look into body weight fitness, a pull up bar is a great investment.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:19 PM
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You need to get some social status in high school. That’s most of game in high school. I had awful game but I had social status so I could still pull girls. My social status didn’t rise until I was 17, so there’s a high chance yours can. If you want to have the best high school experience: lift, read (social skill books, the rational male, etc), make friends with the “cool” kids so you can go to party and pull, STOP GIVING A FUCK AND BE YOURSELF. Alpha is what alpha does... remember that.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:12 PM
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Being unavailable on text is great, it is a form of peak-cocking, as every other guy responds within a couple hours. Just save conversations for being in person.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:47 PM
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You handled it perfectly. Just make jokes out of like you did.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:45 PM
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Read or listen to “The Rational Male”. You’ll learn so much more about female nature than you can on these forums.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:44 PM
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Thank you for this post. I just started listening to music when I go out and it’s so much fun dancing.
/r/seduction27/11/19 04:46 PM
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If you want to, then do it. I wouldn’t come here to seek validation from the red pill on this topic. In my opinion it is always good to learn more about other people’s experience and opinions as a human.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:21 AM
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If they are staring back it’s not creepy, it’s sexual tension... You gotta approach too
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:48 PM
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Eye contact is a threat (our brains are old). Don’t be the one to break it. Make them break if.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:48 PM
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Yea you talked too much, only try to talk when you can display higher value, or when you are actually having an interesting conversation.
/r/seduction04/11/19 10:24 PM
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This what I have done: Similar spot, haven’t been red pilled for too long. I’m too serious and angry and just give off a fuck you personality now. Anyway I have had a very outgoing/confident/fun vibe before if I get my mindset correctly. Getting the correct mindset: What I did to get this mindset was watch a lot of pick up artist on YouTube and just using what they do. They have that playful personality that I know you are striving for, so I just emulate it. I recommend reading “The Game”, great…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:36 PM
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Have you approached any? You know you’re the male right, you’re expected to approach. Look for choosing signals, then approach.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:25 PM
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“You can’t negotiate genuine desire” I want a girl to be sexually attracted to me.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:21 PM
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Why did you just type out a whole ass essay on a middle school relationship
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:06 AM
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Grabbing food has been the format every time.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:20 PM
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Yea that would definitely be ideal. We are both 18 however. I’m gonna go eat with her and I’ll see how the sexual tension is. If it’s not there I’ll just cut it short. Appreciate it. I’m curious, how old are you and how long have you been red pilled?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:19 PM
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Appreciate the response. Yea I thought her still wanting to meet probably means part of her is DTF as I maintained frame around her. I haven’t had many prospects lately as I’ve been abstaining from everything sexual on purpose for the past month. If it doesn’t work out I couldn’t care less however. Yea those logistics would be optimal. I live at home however, but I thought it out as, get food -> her dorm -> shit goes down.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:04 PM
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I understand. I would say go get drinks, but we are both 18 so sort of difficult.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:01 PM
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Try out semen retention if you are interested in that, seems to give me an edge and lots of intensity. Read how to win friends and influence people... classic book and helps loads with social skills. Yea you’re going to get most of the new ideas from reading, make it a daily habit. Just get out of your comfort zone, that’s the only way to grow.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:00 PM
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If I were to go back to when I was 16 I would just start self improving hella. Self improvement -> confidence -> game/confidence. Just start self improving, small steps. Get a workout routine, read some self improvement books, fix your posture, get a job, etc...
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:07 PM
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Are you naturally good at dancing or did you learn?
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:04 PM
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