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Legal Rightsangry_cabbie/r/MensRights13/04/18 10:51 PM
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Years ago on FB, I was engaged in a debate with some friends about men's issues. One (now former) friend said that he didn't experience such things, and asked why his opinion as a white man didn't count. I use this guy in anecdotes a lot. Out of all my IRL friend groups, he actually had about the most privileged (socio-economic) background/childhood. Lawyers for parents, lawyers judges and major land owners as grand parents. Anyway, I started referring to that as the "Candace Owens Defense". Som…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 05:39 AM
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'member back when Amazon was pressured to stop selling shirts for young girls that said, "boys are stupid, throw rocks at them"? 'member how "online feminists" were upset over that, despite a core message of feminism being that exactly such a thing would shape young minds? Well, anyway, Amazon started selling those shirts again years ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 05:09 PM
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So what do you suggest?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 05:04 PM
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Not all feminists, but always a feminist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/26 07:01 AM
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I saw a Facebook comment declaring that since there were 62 million victims, there were 62 million perpetrators. 🤦
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 11:22 PM
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Narcissistic grandiosity predicts greater involvement in LGBTQ activism. Narcissists may engage in feminist activism to satisfy their grandiose tendencies, study suggests. Antagonistic narcissism and psychopathic tendencies predict left-wing antihierarchical aggression, study finds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/26 07:55 AM
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Never assume with acronyms online, if for no other reason than people five years from now will read your post without having your framework.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 06:56 PM
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Or, and hear me out, actions like this will be used to point out to young, vulnerable men and boys that women are privileged in society, and that nobody cares about men and boys, and that if these young vulnerable people would just return to traditional values, they would find happiness. You know, like has been happening in reality for awhile.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/26 05:45 PM
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It's about not having close friendships, which can include intimate relationships. Like, I have a lot of people that are friendly when they see me, and I'm sure most of them consider me a friend of some type or another... But I stopped being the first to reach out years ago, before my wife died, and very few of these people have done more than be friendly to my physical face when I happen to be around. At least, that's my understanding of the phenomenon. And don't misunderstand me, I'm hyper fix…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/26 10:18 AM
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Go ask around /AnarchyChess why they became a safe space for trans men and masc presenting trans and NB people in 2025. And then go ask the /CuratedTumblr why they did the same a few months later. Or if you just want to search both subs for "misandry" and "androphobia", you'll find a lot of discussions, and individuals opening up about their negative experiences in "feminist" spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 05:32 AM
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Start talking about transmisandry in those spaces, especially when trans men and masc-presenting people are present. Then, once the idiots admit that some form of misandry exists, you have already got their mind opened.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:56 AM
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Dammit, you're giving me a glimmer of hope for the future. Anyway, I just edited my original comment to strike out "extra syllables" and put in "specialized targets". For the record, a fair bit of my ire over these issues comes not merely from being treated unfairly. There has been a lot of active denial and gaslighting towards me about my lived experiences, by people that refuse to allow their personal beliefs to be tested. Including people IRL that knew far more of my history and experiences t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 09:19 AM
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Yeah, as my username may suggest, I may have some anger issues. Culturally, this change and acceptance of linguistics may have already hit a point where my "politely bitter" attitude/words might be coming across as less polite lol. I absolutely did not mean to downplay or deny that experiences like what you have had are not valid in multiple ways. Like, I'm 100% still used to dealing with people who deny misandry even exists, unless maybe if we're talking about transmisandry. I need to work on t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 09:12 AM
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Yeah, that Dionysus seems to explain it the same way I see it. Transandrophobia, is when trans men’s struggles are dismissed as being less important, because men don’t need help or men already have help or men don't face real struggles. Emphasis mine. I mean, I see that you're both saying that transandrophobia is specifically something that trans men and masc presenting trans and NB face specifically because of the latter, but I'm saying that it's still just misandry specialized for your otherwi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 09:01 AM
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I guess I did say it was all just misandry with extra syllables. My point with that statement was that it all just seems to be things added on to misandry; if they did not have something against men, as a whole, the extra stuff would not exist. Regardless, thank you for the response. I'm going to check out those links.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 08:55 AM
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Other than a fear or hatred of masculinity, what do you see as the root of it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 08:38 AM
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After they lost this last election, the Democratic corporation spent $20 million sending people to a nice hotel for a week so they could figure out how to get men and boys back on their side. The ended up firing the woman that was in charge of that. And they still don't know what they are doing wrong. That had a real, real strong "we have investigated ourselves and found that we have done nothing wrong" energy, IMO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 07:59 AM
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You know the old joke about using Personality A with friend group B? People have gotten too used to having their safe, private spaces where they can let their hateful rhetoric flow freely. They sometimes forget that, say, just because they're a mod of a sub, does not mean that sub is actually a safe, private space for them to let that hatred flow freely. They also tend to suffer the fallacy where of course they're justified in their hatred, they can excuse it all sorts of different ways. It's th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 06:57 AM
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Just this last year, I'm aware of /Trans and /CuratedTumblr having user revolts because of the high rates of "androphobia" or "transandrophobia" or even "transmisandry". Note that, ultimately, those are all just "misandry" with extra syllables specialized targets. In every case, it was the "masc" that was the problem. Because male-presenting people have far more privilege than female-presenting people. The /Trans issue had led to /AnarchyChess being a safe haven for trans men, with lots of comme…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/25 06:16 AM
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Stereotypes tend to have an ounce of truth behind them, often far in the past. I would argue that the protector stereotype has been altered into a toxic thing in the modern era, but that that does not mean the protector stereotype itself must be toxic. This, to me, was a positive representation of the protector stereotype.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 09:29 PM
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Stockholm syndrome has nothing to do with this. A person suffering a recent traumatic experience, does not want that traumatic experience to be made public. Dan understood that. He also understood, something needed to be done. Not as protection for his sister in law, but as protection against his society. He also understood that he would need to suffer punishment for his own choice. And he took that on willingly and without argument. He did so in a way that kept the traumatized person away from …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 09:18 AM
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I literally just saw a short on YouTube from the old Rosanne show. Her sister Jackie was in a bad place, her bf had just beat the crap out of her. Dan walks in and asks what's going on. Rosanne tells him, Jackie cries out that she doesn't want anyone to know. Dan grabs his jacket and walks out. Cuts to Dan, still in his coat, sitting in his recliner. Rosanne answers the door to a couple of cops, who say they have a warrant to arrest Dan. Rosanne starts to tell them about Jackie, Dan just cuts he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 05:52 AM
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Rape culture was originally about prison rape, a male on male problem. It got appropriated to paint men as always bad. Incel was originally gender neutral. It got appropriated to paint men as always bad. I'm hardly surprised the male loneliness epidemic had become appropriated to say we should stop making issues gendered. Misandry is bubbling up more and more lately. Look at /trans right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 04:57 AM
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Karl Marx was against Feminism, because he felt the fight for rights across classes would be diminished by the fight for the rights of a group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/25 07:58 AM
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When was Pride Month officially recognized? That's where I got it from. Bill Clinton, 1999.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 06:49 AM
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Men's Mental Health Month is four years older than Pride Month. Im at a point where anyone who feels threatened by MMHM, I'll just call a bigot. As if gay and queer men, cis and trans both, don't need to have their mental health taken seriously either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 06:24 AM
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People are assholes. Doesn't matter what is or is not between their legs. Does not matter what they do do not prefer between their partners' legs. People are assholes. And some of the women that chose the bear over the man were definitely F** H**s that were thinking the wrong type of bear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 05:23 AM
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I have a bunch of friends who are ACAB. We're at a point where most of them understand my reasoning, and we do agree on some aspects of why people go ACAB. One friend in particular, had some issues with me not being ACAB, until we talked about feminism, misandry, and I started saying AFAM. All Feminists Are Misandrists, because of the exact same reasons All Cops Are Bastards: they insulate and cover for the worst of their group, downplaying their negative actions and effects, while promoting the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 05:46 PM
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Am I reading these figures rightly? Slightly more than half of IPV is non-reciprocal? Suggesting that, overall, women are slightly more physically violent within relationships (given the 70% figure)?
/r/Male_Studies11/04/25 07:00 AM
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I will happily work with a feminist who sees egalitarian as a good thing. There's been a growing number of feminists who see egalitarianism as anti-woman. I view them as entrenched in fanatic level beliefs. There seems to be very little chance of working with a fanatic of any ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 05:01 AM
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It's the rich vs everyone. Always has been. The rich women were coddled and didn't have to work, long before the majority of women were given that privilege. You don't want to smash the patriarchy. You want to be at the top of the patriarchy. That doesn't change anything other than how much power you and your friends have. That doesn't change the material needs of everybody else, it doesn't protect workers doing the dirty jobs that you won't encourage women from going into, and it doesn't help a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/24 08:16 PM
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"Toxic expectations of gender roles" seems good to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 10:51 PM
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You're already ignoring the whole of human history. The rich send the poor to war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 01:19 AM
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Who were handing out white feathers?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 01:00 AM
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Your first sentence was that "we" (men as a whole) "abused the fuck " out of our safe spaces. So now you understand why I'm going to continue ignoring and disbelieving you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 01:10 AM
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Probably the same way you rationalize ignoring people asking for information that you have, just so that you can focus on people you disagree with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:51 AM
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Let me get this straight. Instead of listing mens safe spaces, which the OP directly asked for, you felt it would be more effective to come after me for having watched space after space after space be shut down? Does your therapy often tell you to focus on individuals you find toxic instead of helping the majority?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:47 AM
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Your rhetoric was ascribing toxicity to make interactions with males. Sorry if I don't buy that type of bullshit. That also has nothing to do with feminist groups constantly campaigning to get men's spaces closed down. Like seriously "bruh". You're putting the fault on men, because they're men, and you don't like "locker room talk". Which, amusingly, I've never encountered outside of jock spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:28 AM
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Why does that not surprise me?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:15 AM
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Hat does not surprise me, somehow.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:15 AM
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You sound like someone who thinks men should socialize like women. We are not the same, biologically or psychologically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 12:11 AM
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Amazingly, instead of fulfilling the OP request to list some, you're just commenting some toxic air, here. List them, please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 11:48 PM
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Men aren't allowed to have safe spaces. Every time we start to have one, it gets derided as sexist until it's opened up to be more inclusive of everyone that already has safe spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 09:30 PM
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That was legit the original point of the MGTOW movement almost 20 years ago. That's a full cultural generation. Men were opting out because women wanted to be strong and independent and only get the best of the crop.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 10:12 AM
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PDF warning.
/r/Male_Studies10/08/24 12:51 AM
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Combination of old-world misandry and homophobia. If a man can't defend himself, he's not a real man. If a man takes it up the ass without fighting them off, he's obviously gay. If a man is raped by a PCM iman, obviously he wanted it and let it happen. One of the good wins of earlier schools of feminism was acknowledging that sexual assault is a problem that can happen to anyone. Shame they keep downplaying how often men are victimized, and how often women are victimizers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 09:19 PM
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Occupy Wall Street was started by the Tea Party. Then it became the 99%. Then it became the 99.9%. Then it became The Progressive Stack show literally as Wall Street billionaires were laughing down at them from a patio. Identity politics is a cancer from the ruling class to divide the suffering class.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 06:20 AM
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Yes, there is. There are feminists that fully see the issues men face, have empathy for us, and want/try to change things. They are unicorns.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 07:28 AM
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Nah. They'd have to believe men are human beings before they actually enforced that one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/24 08:13 PM
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As long as I've been aware of /MensLib, which has been for about as long as it's existed, it has not been a left wing men's group. It has been a feminist-based men's group. Which means, in action, if you're not looking at men's problems through a feminist lens, you're in the wrong. And fuck that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 01:22 AM
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Yes, we are. One that, as far as I can tell and recall, was made in part to specifically point out that there seemed to be a particularly toxic reaction within popular left-wing spaces regarding issues affecting men. I agree with both of you, but I think I have the take that the person you're responding to was condensing, satirically, and their own personal experiences trying to talk about such things. I've been involved in these online discussions for over fifteen years at this point, and I kno…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/24 08:36 AM
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The last time the idea of drafting women was brought to the SCOTUS (by a group of teenaged feminists), the ruling was that, since women were not afforded combat roles, there was no reason to require them to register for a draft. Shockingly, despite women being given combat roles since then thanks to our bullshit wars in the Middle East, nobody has tried too hard to revisit the SCOTUS ruling. Which would now require women to register for the draft. Also shockingly, when it does get brought up in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 06:21 AM
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No, this sub tends to focus on studies published within the last decade.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 05:36 PM
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The Vagina Monologues originally included a story of a 13 year old girl being raped by a 24 year old woman, and included the line, "if it was raped, it eas a good rape". It was titled, "The Little Coochie Snorcher That Could". The play was celebrated around the world for four years before a conservative critic pointed out how terrible that came across. Four years after that, the piece was rewritten to raise the age to 15 (because that's legal in most places, and of course feminists don't have a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 06:59 PM
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Tool of the system, i.e. part of the machine perpetuating problems. Akin to being a bootlicker, in some respects. Society has undergone major, significant shifts, in many directions, in just the last twenty years. One of those shifts was including "forced to penetrate" in sexual assault stats. You are literally working with out-dated information to push and perpetuate an outdated (or dare I say, conservative) view of sexual social dynamics. And you don't respond for shit other than to dismiss pe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 09:43 PM
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About a decade ago, a buddy of mine at the time opened up to me about a situation with his ex. She had ended up screaming at him and throwing porcelain plates towards him during an argument. He was scared, but kept himself calm and tried to grey rock and diffused the situation. Said ex, was one of the more academic feminist women I've known, personally. He had opened up because I was struggling with leaving my own abusive relationship. He wanted to show he understood. A few years later, he becam…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:54 AM
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Hitchens' Razor. Considering my response (which was eventually sourced) was pointing out that the research alluded to by OP (and you, I guess) was bunk from extremely faulty premises, biases, and data gathering, I'd still like to see what sort of sources they're using. The only one they did add was published probably before you could talk, and was only looking at a very narrow period of criminal justice history. An period where women were not allowed to own credit cards in their own names.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 04:20 AM
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Probably because they started the thread with a series of claims without any sources, and their only responses within their own thread were asking for sources. Kinda makes it seem like they started the whole thread in bad faith. Welcome to Reddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 03:54 AM
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University of Bristol, 2021, comparing courts between UK, USA, and France. And, of course there's always the systemic bullshit known as The Duluth Model Of Domestic Violence, which caused men who were victimized to be arrested for being abusive. I could definitely add a bit more, mostly PDF links. But like some of the others, I'm seriously questioning your Good Faith here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 02:39 AM
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What wiki where? Also, did you look at the top? Published 2003, referencing 1974 to 2001. Think long and hard about what women were even allowed to do during some of those years, legally speaking. You think they wouldn't have been treated like kids? Sorry for the snark, but I have no idea what wiki your referencing, to use an article published before most of Reddit was able to walk without falling. Anyway, my work lunch break is about to pop,, I've got some links collected and will post them in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 01:56 AM
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Sure. Would you be kind enough to cite your own sources, while I pull them up?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 01:30 AM
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Women are less likely to be charged for the same crime as a man. Women are less likely to be arrested for the same crime. Women are less likely to be convicted for the same crime. How do you think this affects collected crime stats?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 12:20 AM
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Oppressor/oppressed being why leftists have been becoming anti-Semite, alone, should show you that the oppressor/oppressed narrative is not a good lens to look at shit through.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 06:25 PM
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Move the left away from the oppressor/oppressed narrative that had become dominant. Whether people want to accept it or not, that narrative tends to tell young men that they are the problem, because they are men. That does not make them want to buy into it. Why would you want to go all-in supporting a cause that tells you that, because a small group of people that share your sex have been powerful assholes, you are as bad as them? That has been the dominant left-wing ideology. And the right has …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 07:20 AM
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Fukken saved, mate. Thanks for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/24 05:14 AM
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This is hardly a new thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 12:43 AM
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Under a Monarchy, who is allowed to have a voice? The aristocracy. Who were the aristocracy? The people that were rich enough to own the land. Same shit, different system. That, I believe, was part of what inspired Marx to write out this thoughts about how every social struggle in history has been a class struggle. The rich landowners controlled what happened. Eventually the people started to rise up against that, here and there, which led to the ability to vote being expanded.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/24 08:02 PM
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What in the fuck are you even talking about? Every person of voting age should have the right to vote. The fact that it was kept to just the landowning head of a family for eons does not mean we took rights away from anyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 09:14 PM
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It's their job as human beings to help. Just like it was men's jobs as human beings to vote in equal rights for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 03:49 AM
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And it was not the men suffering who wanted to end that study. That's a particular point I like to bring up on that one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/24 03:07 PM
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I'm not a fan, ideologically, of vegans. But the only reason I'm saying that would be to give just little extra weight to the next thing. Gladiators diets were largely vegetarian. And tell me gladiators haven't been used off and on for decades to show Prime Manly Potential!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 07:26 AM
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If you go far enough back in history (say, the late 70's/), you'll find references to Battered Husband Syndrome. Of course, if you go to a place like Wikipedia, up might notice that BHS barely gets mentioned, but BWS is noted as having been coined as a phrase a year or two later. Ain't that weird.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/23 11:47 PM
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Early to mid 90's.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 08:15 PM
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We have to call out, denounce, and publicly work against our crazies and extremists. It's as simple as that. I'm old enough to remember when the Westbrook Baptist Church was first gaining notoriety, and how they were often softly protected by all sorts of different types of Christian churches, because they were fellow Christians. Now, it's pretty much just the fundamentalists that will still stand up for them, ideologically. One thing I've noticed over the years, would be how often actual misand…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 08:28 AM
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Good gods I would have loved to see you in the flame war days!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 08:13 AM
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I'm one of the ones that believes autism in women may well be under-diagnosed, given that the classic Replication Crisis caused us to assume that any given thing would present the same between men and women. For example, in the last fifteen years or so, people have started to see that sociopathy in women tends to be less about overt physical violence then sociopathy in men, and more about manipulation of external relationships to cause them to violently implode. Similarly, self-harm used to be s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 03:04 AM
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Where did you say all men are dicks?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/23 10:40 PM
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You are correct with that last point. The men actually testing the drug did not want the study to stop. Including many of the men with the more serious side effects which caused the ethics board to stop the study.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 11:33 PM
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I do recall a small study showing that men who went for sole custody were more likely to get it. But they left out some framing. For example, are men who have a lot of evidence that their partner has been violent to the children more likely to ask for some custody? Or how about whether or not men were able to afford a lawyer good enough to give them a decent shot? Of the men who did not ask for sole custody, how many had evidence of their partner hurting the kids, and how many were even able to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 02:47 AM
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At a guess: men and boys are generally taught to "suck it up" when it comes to emotional attacks, and generally feel emasculated when physically abused by a woman. Girls and women tend to be told early on that they will be physical abused (hence have a level of expecting it/planning for it at some point), but emotional abuse tends to convince them that they are less than worthless?
/r/Male_Studies14/10/22 02:23 AM
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Only because all the non-toxic people that try, get attacked, ridiculed, publicly insulted, and pushed into the right. What a pipeline!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 03:28 PM
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What, no Ghostbusters 2016? The gender-flio movie where they took a 1980's independent, feminist woman, and turn her into a blond bimbo sex object played by Thor? A movie with literally no positive male roles?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 05:33 AM
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I'm guessing "new to them" women?
/r/Male_Studies27/06/22 04:51 PM
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They didn't expect women to Man Up And Get Over It, either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 10:14 AM
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It's likely a dig at the "man flu", often used to mock men who seem to suffer from the flu worse than women on average.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 06:33 PM
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Ghostbusters 2016 seems an amusing example to bring up, in my mind. They didn't merely gender flip the secretary, they turned the (not dumb, passably-attractive for the time period) secretary, into a male airheaded bimbo. Janine was an average woman. Kevin was intentionally stupid eye candy. The exact kind of (gender flipped) attitude that we have been progressing away from for decades. But it's okay when "they" do it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/22 12:50 AM
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So... He was using Whoopi Goldberg's idea regarding Polanski, i.e., that it wasn't "rape" rape?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/22 09:25 PM
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"toxic manifestations of cultural gender expectations" seems a better label IMO, but it's gender neutral. So of course it wouldn't be received well by many.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/22 10:30 PM
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I've been trying to find it for years unsuccessfully, but I once caught an old black and white piece about wonderful new inventions coming into the home to make life easier for women. Automatic washing machines for clothes or dishes, for example. One of the "positive" points the narrator mentioned was how this new technology would "help keep women dainty". And that got me thinking... Having studied (and at this point briefly lived) survivalist and rustic homesteading lifestyles... It takes work …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/22 06:59 AM
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Having just come across your thread here, I'm glad you had the foresight. The linked thread has been removed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 03:01 AM
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Pheromones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/21 04:04 PM
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I'm in my mid 40's. Almost every male in my life has at least one story where they recognize they were a victim of sexual assault. The majority of these stories contain female perpetrators. I find that pretty fucking telling, these days.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/21 11:29 PM
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To paste in a comment I made in a different sub earlier: Yes, it might... when performed on women. Tunisia (PDF and color-induced eye-strain warning, blame the original authors). Kenya (PDF warning again). Obviously, I'm against child genital mutilation. Period, full stop. But I was reminded of these studies earlier from a CMV thread, and thought they may make a fun addition to this thread.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 02:29 AM
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That's... One of the ways propaganda works. It's kind of a variation of the Virtue Words technique via Dog Whistling, sometimes with a smattering of Motte and Bailey to defend and obfuscate. Kinda like the whole kerfuffle over "racism" being used interchangeably for both "interpersonal racism" and "systemic racism", sometimes switching back and forth depending on how the writer feels it would best carry their argument, without actually switching the implicit label.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/21 11:52 PM
8

Last year I picked up a thin silicon sheath with five powerfully vibrating mini-eggs off of Wish for like $20. It's been one of the best sexual purchases of my 40+ years of life. Just saying, there's better options for men out there than you may realize, they're just not advertised much. And for point of reference, I've been complaining about the lack of options for men since 2004 when I started working in a porn shop. The digital age has been a boon for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/21 02:06 AM
8

Ahh, the classic "internalized misandry".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 02:18 AM
9

Women don't get to decide what is misandry. Isn't that how this works? Fun fact, the word "misandry" existed before the word "feminism".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 01:10 AM
3

They seemed to happily agree that that was what they were doing. It was just about a week ago if you want to do a short dive in my comments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 06:34 AM
25

I actually engaged with someone recently because, as a feminist, they felt men needed to man up and do things ourselves. My first comment to them was calling them out for telling men to man up. But hey. Feminism is for everyone, or something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/21 08:16 PM
21

In the USA too, I swear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/21 08:15 PM
1

It's amazing how you can speak the lessons you haven't learned.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/21 02:17 AM
1

Sounds like an argument that 21 may be too young to be held accountable for their own choices. But then, considering in her MeToo era Vanity Fair piece she admits that she didn't consider it until 44, maybe it's a woman thing \s. She also implies (likely unconsciously) that a sitting PotUSA may be too powerful to ever believe consent; I guess if we ever vote in someone that unmarried, they'll have to give up any intimacy for four to eight years.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/21 12:54 AM
1

Ah. An insult. Allow me to feign cowering at your both your superior argument, and your clear ability to admit when you've been wrong about something.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 11:52 PM
5

My stance: corrupt nepotism is a problem in politics. Your stance: a Democrat did it for her adulterous lover, so it's okay.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 09:12 PM
4

"Corrupt Republican nepotism isn't the same as corrupt Democrat nepotism!"
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 08:12 PM
6

Given how often it's been a complaint from the left about how often the right does just that (Trump being a great recent example), maybe people like her should try to lead by example some time instead of assuming they're too special to be touched.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 06:37 PM
6

A lot of people felt the same way about Clinton and Lewinsky, including Lewinsky herself... until the MeToo era that this has all happened in. That made people far more anal about work relationships. Thanks for pointing out the corrupt nepotism and favoritism involved with the sexual impropiety. Man, this Katie Hill seems a terribly corrupt person, doesn't she? Good thing she resigned.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 06:12 PM
1

To be fair, I just found an interview where her defense was her tattoo was inspired by a company logo for Independent Trucks Company. Note that they accepted the symbol literally because the Pope was wearing one like it. It gets used in Catholic imagery for sure. Of course, I'm one to view the Catholic Church about the same boat as Hitler's Nazis, this isn't a defense of either by me.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 05:39 PM
10

You don't understand the issues people might have with a married politician using their position to exploit a young and vulnerable woman?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 05:28 PM
4

The only things I've shared have been pics or vids that I was told quite specifically could share, by the subject. And I've never shared most of those, either. Those wonderful gifts were for me to enjoy. I enjoy them, in part, by knowing nobody else gets to experience them.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/21 05:22 PM
8

Sure, NOBODY has ever said that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/21 11:41 AM
37

So it's a dramatization.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/21 08:50 PM
2

Lol old habit from my meta-programming mid 20's. Specific verbiage to soften the issue. "Picked up" makes it sound more like a chosen reaction. "Suffer from" reinforces negative association and powerlessness. "Gained" would sound too positive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 06:19 AM
6

I am one of those weird guys. Having made it to 43 has allowed me to learn a crap ton of tricks to help with socialization and interaction, but it's been a long road to here. And I'm definitely still working with a deficit because of it. Teens and early 20's, though? Complete nightmare trying to make or keep friends. Romantic pursuits were almost impossible. I definitely had what people nowadays would call incel thought patterns. I'm not looking forward to my future. In this context, I'm in a pa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 02:14 AM
9

There was a post in this sub (I believe) a day or three ago, about a researcher studying social conditioning regarding how we approach abuser/victim scenarios based on pre-conceived notions about which gender was the abuser and which the victim. Men were, across the board, shown less empathy as victims by pretty much every grouping. A few weeks ago, I was involved in a thread about violent crimes by perpetrators. When I brought up the stat that women were by far the primary perpetrators of infan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 12:57 AM
6

I have, in have had occasions to experience blunt, open, and truthful conversations with a number of abusive women. In the large majority of these anecdotes, there was a neurotic component behind it in some way. Sometimes directly (pre-frontal cortex being damaged in an accident years prior), and sometimes indirectly (BPD can cause people to misread a situation, as well as cause someone to have lowered emotional control). Given that neurotic men are expected to be abusers, could it be a bit of p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 12:18 AM
8

Look into the history of the term. It was originally a gender-neutral, non-aggressive descriptor that was co-opted by online feminists as an insult.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/21 10:23 PM
25

Misanthropy does not grow in a vacuum. It tends to be watered well by others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 07:41 AM
5

Pretty sure the term "useful idiots" is older than that.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/21 02:28 AM
8

I unsubbed from /MRA a year or two ago, partly because of the vitriol. This place has seemed much more of what I wish /MRA was.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/21 10:39 PM
10

Because when you're accustomed to privilege, equality (and especially negative equality) feels like attempts to oppress.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/21 01:23 AM
22

You don't owe anybody friendship.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 05:25 AM
7

Citation needed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/21 06:27 AM
2

A few years ago, SJWs made an effort to appropriate the phrase. Remember the memes about Social Justice Wizards, Social Justice Druids, etc.? That was around when the term was first really being exposed to most Progressives. It had the affect of diluting the term a bit in the public sphere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/21 01:16 AM
7

Personally, that's actually part of why like this one. It uses a pre-existing framing device that feminists are already familiar with. It will either open their eyes to make advocacy, open their eyes to how annoying the aggressive framing can be, or open your eyes into just how fanatical they are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 11:24 PM
14

It was also part of Sokal2/ Grievance Studies affair. They literally took a section of Mein Kampf and reworded it to fit in with intersectional patriarchy theory.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/21 11:02 PM
47

Best. Meanwhile a local university student just got arrested for extortion, after threatening to tell cops she was sexually assaulted if her victim didn't give her $1000.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/20 05:59 AM
1

"Burdened by abuse of power or authority". Do you know what "oppressed" actually means?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/20 08:01 AM
19

Had a sexual tryst*
/r/PussyPassDenied17/10/20 06:47 PM
15

So I lost my wife back in April after a short fight with cancer. Since then, a particular old female friend has, almost single-handedly, been instrumental in keeping me going. We've spent a lot of time drinking, watching TV, getting drugged up, etc.. So much so that some of my friends and family have asked if we were dating (we're not). We've barely done anything physical outside of lots of hugging. But yeah... That woman alone has been a big part of the reason I've put off following my wife so …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/20 10:05 PM
2

I mean, the Dalai Lama does it for that. "The aggression that comes out in the video game satiates whatever desire I might have to express that feeling. For me, that's very skilful [sic] because when I do that I don't have to go and hit anyone over the head."
/r/PussyPassDenied23/08/20 09:14 PM
14

*shaft.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 04:16 AM
16

I remember this one. IIRC, he was essentially an illegal immigrant. France gave him citizenship for this.
/r/MensRights24/06/20 04:24 AM
89

FFS, sit down with a photo of your dead dad and cry over a few drinks while talking to it like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights17/06/20 08:23 AM
3

To be fair, if someone's willing to sell their 8 year old child to a cop, that kid has a high likely hood of having been abused already. I once had a woman in my taxi tell me a very similar story (sold to a cop when she was 10 or so). The things she told me kinda still haunt me about fifteen years later. If everything she told me was true, holy fucking shit If it was all exaggerated, it still had a lot of bad implications. If it was all fake, she'd been through some shit to be that darkly and cr…
/r/MensRights03/06/20 07:13 PM
1

Janitors. My team happens to be 1/3rd women.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 02:56 AM
2

Ahem.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 04:49 AM
3

How's it feel to be the same sex as Karla Homolka?
/r/MensRights17/04/20 12:14 AM
6

It didn't die. It got a movie deal
/r/PussyPass14/04/20 04:09 PM
5

Dropping the occasional "adult up" can be about as good.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 02:46 AM
4

Dropping the occasional "adult up" can be about as good.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 02:46 AM
1

So... Power-dynamic corruption-based statutory rape seems to be the only crime where the massive sentencing disparity between men and women doesn't happen? Is that what they're alleging?
/r/MensRights06/04/20 10:05 PM
2

There's a damned insurance commercial out there right now where a woman is upset because her "she-shed" burnt down.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 08:42 PM
3

Years back, I had a buddy "summon" me into a Facebook argument he was having with an ex, and said ex at the time was about the epitome of an insane online feminist. This was long enough ago that you had to click "more" to see a full post if it was over a certain character count. So knowing that detail, I broke my arguments down into A), B), C), etc.. Point C) was me saying that she was acting like someone arguing purely from emotion instead of putting any effort into trying to understand what ot…
/r/MensRights29/03/20 08:41 PM
42

So.... When choices result in more men being at risk of dying, it's mens fault. But... When choices result in women being paid less, it's structural sexism, thus mens fault.
/r/MensRights25/03/20 01:45 AM
2

Yes, it was. And Amazon had stopped selling them for awhile.
/r/MensRights19/03/20 09:24 PM
8

My favorite response (third hand, unfortunately) was, "why do men need rights? ......oh."
/r/MensRights12/03/20 09:06 PM
2

Female autists tend to be underdiagnosed. Not because of outright bias like the headline suggests, but because for years it (and many other issues) were assumed to present similarly between the sexes, and most research was historically done on males. This has actually been a growing bubble for quite some time in the psychiatric and psychological world. Sociopathy seems to present fairly differently between the sexes too, for example (males more likely to Target individuals, females more likely t…
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:55 PM
4

When you worship intersectional feminism, any display of a woman in less-than-good light ludicrously denotes an attack on women as a whole. Like Rachel Maddow complaining about sexism causing Warren (both white intersectionalists) to drop out of the race, while refusing to mention Tulsi Gabbard at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/20 01:06 AM
1

I didn't choose for my partner to have a major and debilitating stroke that caused her to leave the workforce.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 10:03 PM
55

The same UK that legally details rape as an action (only) a male commits? The same UK that wants to end prison for women? The same UK that recently had a bunch of rape accusations get voided because police were seemingly suppressing evidence that may have exonerated the accused? I would be genuinely surprised if they did not charge male victims of statutory rape for child support, at this point.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 10:46 PM
1

Back to the Future series replaced both Mary's girlfriend and the younger George McFly.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 05:26 AM
11

Speaking as a straight man, I've seen too many intersectional feminists in recent years musing that gay men still have male privilege, and that gay men are the "white men" of the minority groups (i.e., gay men should be treated as men, not as oppressed gays). Gay men still get shat on and shafted (no pun intended) by our culture and society, but there are woke people that want to ignore that because it's men. I'll agree with OP, gay rights are men's rights. Or rather, men's rights are gay rights…
/r/MensRights22/02/20 09:56 PM
2

Ahh gotcha.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 02:45 AM
5

Trades are blue collar work.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 02:41 AM
23

Excessive masturbation while under 30 may increase chances of prostate cancer. Excessive masturbation after 40 may reduce chances.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 01:19 AM
2

Fair.
/r/MensRights12/01/20 05:01 PM
2

Why the Mean Girls link? I was expecting this IMDB link.
/r/MensRights12/01/20 06:04 AM
3

Gotcha. Sorry, haven't been getting much sleep for a while, today especially.
/r/MensRights10/01/20 10:19 PM
11

That's... Not from the 1920's...?
/r/MensRights10/01/20 09:13 PM
2

What about bringing her previous victims in as character witnesses (or equivalent)?
/r/MensRights27/12/19 01:38 AM
7

So... Is she suggesting that if a man were to pull his punches, or just slap lightly, it would be okay? Like, if a guy were to try to just lightly beat someone it would be okay? Wtf??
/r/MensRights22/12/19 12:06 AM
2

20 years ago the Duluth Model was official police policy in a lot more states than it is now. Think about it. "Hello, police? I know you are required by law and policy to assume the male is always the aggressor in a domestic or sexual situation, but I have a woman in my house that sexually assaulted me and refuses to leave. Yes, please come to my house and assume I'm the aggressor merely because I'm male, and by law you have to. I will accept going to prison and being legally branded a rapist fo…
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:51 AM
4

Hmmm. I wonder what Prince might have said about this.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 10:54 PM
10

Men are victims of breast cancer already...
/r/MensRights29/11/19 10:13 PM
2

Sodomy generally just means any sex act intended to not result in pregnancy. Sucking dick would be sodomy.
/r/MensRights19/11/19 06:00 AM
2

Out of the possible 100 she's facing?
/r/MensRights19/11/19 05:59 AM
21

Or Anthony Weiner.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 04:51 AM
6

Your goddaughter wants to reinforce toxic gender roles with the suggestion than guys should "man up and take it". Tell her that.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 08:55 PM
6

Jfc, in sorry to hear that :( I've quite definitely known a couple of people, mostly women, that got penalized for abusing the protective orders they had out. We're you using a private attorney?
/r/MensRights18/09/19 04:55 PM
13

If like to see a source on that. "Abuse of Process" is a legal term that seems to apply to these vases pretty often and successfully
/r/MensRights18/09/19 04:43 PM
15

They do. You cannot weaponize an existing restraining order. You cannot get a restraining order, and then go to a person's job just before their shift starts to prevent them from working. You cannot attempt a "gotcha" by initiating contact with someone you have a restraining order against.
/r/MensRights18/09/19 04:28 PM
10

So. Its sexist to have women dress in business attire? But what about the air conditioning?
/r/MensRights15/09/19 05:41 AM
3

Wow. My bad, you are right. Been far too long since my last read thru I guess.
/r/MensRights06/08/19 08:09 PM
17

They don't lose voting rights, they just don't earn voting rights. Also can't open their own business.
/r/MensRights06/08/19 06:55 PM
5

Numerous mental illnesses tend to manifest differently in women and men. It's rather recently that the manifestation of both autism and sociopathy were realized to be distinct between men and women.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 06:44 AM
0

Find the whole interview/statement. In context, what she said was much more egalitarian than feminist.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 02:09 AM
1

Alright. On Android, you can get an app called SCOS. Spy Camera OS. This can be set up to (obviously) surreptitiously take photos or record video. There was a recent update that included audio with the video. The only thing that will pop up while recording A/V is an icon up in the status bar. You can also (in paid version at least, and it's not much) choose where the clips are saved, and I believe (though could be wrong) there may be an option for some light encryption. You can also set up how t…
/r/MensRights25/07/19 02:07 AM
1

According to Urban Dictionary, a stan is a STalker fAN.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 04:12 AM
10

Amazon was pressured to stop selling this shit about a decade ago.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 04:07 AM
3

Wtf... Wasn't this like a decade ago?
/r/MensRights02/07/19 02:24 AM
8

When I was in the industry, I was in a minority in my company that was accepting of in-cab cameras. People seem to underestimate how casually people will break laws in cabs. Drivers and passengers both. Drugs, sex, drinking (actually legal in my state to drink as a taxi passenger, but almost nobody knows it). Drivers making personal deals against company policy (as uninteresting as taking a personal check), being nice and not charging extra fees for stops or passengers, and eventually even just …
/r/MensRights28/06/19 07:17 PM
9

Remember a couple of generations ago, after women had entered the work force en masse for the first time, they started demanding a relaxation of female dress codes to be more comfortable, less stuffy, etc.? What did they expect to happen when they only argued for their own benefit, without caring what the men had to sit through?
/r/MensRights05/06/19 04:37 AM
4

Its old news at this point that women are less likely than men to be imprisoned for the same crime. And that they're also less likely to be convicted for the same crime. I'm pretty sure (though tired and having problems Googling it) that women are less likely than men to be arrested for same crime. Certainly true at least for DV, especially in places still using the Duluth Model. So.... Women are less likely to be aggressors in crime stats.... Because they're seemingly given special dispensation…
/r/MensRights30/04/19 06:18 AM
11

She's also one of the people that started Gender Studies. Let that sink in for awhile.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 01:52 PM
8

This is not a semantic argument, this is a legalese argument. Brock Turner was not convicted of rape. He was convicted of sexual assault (with a finger). Just because a journo refered to it as rape, does not make it rape. For example, Iowa does not have "rape" in the law books. We have sexual assault and sexual abuse. We don't have rape. Legally speaking.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 09:38 PM
5

TRP subreddit was started by users from Something Awful forums to parrot feminist-extremist language into Pick Up Artist rhetoric. Translated.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 08:39 PM
2

The quote in full context was actually a bit anti-feminist. As I recall, she had to "clarify" what she meant a bit due to feminist outrage.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 04:55 PM
2

*4th wave
/r/MensRights10/03/19 07:50 PM
2

Why did the "you can speak with us, just not for us" line trigger people? Haven't feminists said similar rhetoric when it comes to abortion?
/r/MensRights02/03/19 06:47 AM
3

Wait. Tanzania? The country that, when studied, seemed to show that FGM may reduce HIV transmission rates Tanzania? Wtf?
/r/MensRights13/02/19 09:10 PM
10

Were they all over the Obama-era "fightin' age"?
/r/MensRights01/02/19 12:54 AM
21

Sharpen a chainsaw? Wtf, this person's not "manly" enough to use an actual axe?
/r/MensRights30/12/18 02:00 AM
14

ACLU is not the ACLU you might remember.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 06:20 PM
11

She doesn't use the word. "...the road that led there was littered with inappropriate abuse of authority, station, and privilege. (Full stop.)" "Now, at 44, I’m beginning (just beginning) to consider the implications of the power differentials that were so vast between a president and a White House intern. I’m beginning to entertain the notion that in such a circumstance the idea of consent might well be rendered moot. (Although power imbalances—and the ability to abuse them—do exist even when t…
/r/MensRights21/11/18 01:56 AM
5

Vanity Fair
/r/MensRights21/11/18 12:49 AM
20

After #MeToo, Lewinsky (who back during the social affair maintained that it was all consensual) ended up switching gears to the "power dynamics made it rape" argument. Which raises the question from this information, if the power dynamics made it rape, why was she (seemingly) intentionally trying to get it to happen?
/r/MensRights21/11/18 12:38 AM
1

I was in the early 80's.
/r/MensRights12/11/18 12:21 PM
-2

I wonder how the various countries that have had women in combat riles over the last five decades or so have managed to do it.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 11:12 PM
21

My fiance had a major stroke a couple of years ago. Rehab hasn't been too effective. It has been a long, rough few years. Would you like to know what benefits I'll get when she passes, after marriage? A fuck-ton of medical bills and debt. It transfers to spouses in my state. Does that sound goof for anyone other than bill collectors? Thankfully, my gal is quite happy not having a legal marriage, just a happy hippy little hand-fasting. It's the act that matters to her, not the contract.
/r/MensRights20/08/18 06:05 PM
3

More and more, I'm starting to read "only white people can be racist" or "white people don't experience racism" as "I'm okay with bigotry and prejudice".
/r/MensRights03/08/18 04:19 PM
12

We The People was a ploy from the Obama administration to make the populace feel they were listened to. The original threshold before a response was 30k. It quickly got raised to 50k when popular, politically temperamental petitions started moving up. Last I saw, it was 100k for a response, and that was before Trump took over. There were some very real, very popular petitions that got ignored or waved aside. Now people just want to talk about the Death Star petition, and not how that particular …
/r/MensRights30/05/18 06:15 PM
3

Huh. Original author of what became the USA PATRIOT Act Joe Biden? No way...
/r/MensRights27/05/18 08:51 PM
8

I actually want a copy of this without the post script in the bottom. I think that might be more.... engaging.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 09:32 PM
7

Oh, it absolutely is. "People" has changed definition over the years. It started as "rich male land owner", and now means "corporation".
/r/MensRights01/05/18 09:20 PM
17

Not like Obama responded to the majority of them, beforehand... The while site was a "hope" gimmick from the beginning. It initially took 30k signatures for a "direct response" from the President. That was very quickly raised to 50k when they wanted to ignore an early petition. Now it's, what, 100k?
/r/MensRights01/05/18 07:49 PM
17

Thankfully, I found a nice Reddit post from a couple of years calling it for bullshit, if any of you see the image out in the wild. As well as a CNN article, and an NCSL link further debunking the bullshit. Stay informed
/r/MensRights13/04/18 10:55 PM
286

When women murder their boyfriend's or husbands, it's obviously the only choice hey have after years of being terrorized by domestic violence. /S But that rationale has quite definitely been used as a defense. Jodi Arias used it, albeit unsuccessfully, for a somewhat famous example. In fact, it seems to be a go-to defense whenever a woman kills her male partner.
/r/MensRights03/04/18 11:40 PM
2

Look at social interactions on the internet pre-broadband compared to today.
/r/MensRights19/02/18 06:03 PM
2

I've watched a woman or two do that.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 08:29 PM
13

Now this- ah say now this- ain't hardly a new thing!
/r/MensRights08/11/17 02:24 AM
1

Nope. Like I said, violence against men is systemic and entertainment.
/r/MensRights19/10/17 04:38 AM
10

I actually saw a woman on my FB feed post how she will change, and detailed the abuses and lies ("rape" to cover cheating was her example) she has committed over the years. That almost brought a tear to my eye, knowing there's even one woman willing to publicly stand up and admit (and detail!) her transgressions.
/r/MensRights19/10/17 03:52 AM
1

Yes, because violence against men is systemic and entertainment, not "bad".
/r/MensRights19/10/17 03:49 AM
1

I've seen two that said everyone. I saw one (from a FtM) that said men and women.
/r/MensRights17/10/17 01:46 AM
19

Was Cosby sober when he was sharing party drugs with women?
/r/MensRights13/10/17 12:36 AM
12

Wikipedia, Scientific American
/r/MensRights24/09/17 08:39 PM
5

As I recall, when the quote first got published (in context), MRA's supported it, feminists railed against it. Now feminists are spinning it to fit their narrative.
/r/MensRights22/07/17 09:06 PM
18

I also don't think it's ok for you to continue to hit them or even do anything but push them because this guy is clearly way bigger. I'm pretty sure he has less mass than the first woman...
/r/PussyPassDenied22/04/17 02:28 PM
2

Meanwhile in the taxi side of things, we're usually independent contractors. We are not required, as individuals, to pick up any specific passenger. If a passenger is bad enough to be known as such, the dispatcher can have a hard time getting anyone to pick up the call. And on the dispatch side (I've been grounded before, it sucks in that seat), if someone has been exceptionally bad (repeatedly verbally abusive, violent, robber or runner), we often won't even call it out. If they're lucky, we'll…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 03:19 AM
1

And yet it tends to be the immigrant or uneducated drivers that garner the most complaints and stereotypes. As far as overhead, most has just been shifted to the driver under this new model, but owner-operators are not at all new in the taxi world. I considered it myself shortly after I got into the game, long before ride-share apps. I would have gotten a larger percentage of each run in my pocket, sure, but the constant upkeep on a personal vehicle going through that adds up quick as fuck. Espe…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 02:56 AM
1

Biased and wrong are very different things. Feel free to troll my post history for my views on ride share services. I'm not against them. I do hate Uber, specifically. But I'm very aware that they're not the game-changer people were pretending they were. All they've really done is cut out the dispatcher, forced some companies to clean up their act, and given some people that were barred from driving cab another chance to fuck people over as a driver-for-hire. It has not removed the problem of sh…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 02:26 AM
3

Amazing. And yet people bitched up a storm about traditional taxis doing the same, declaring Uber would save them from such occurrences! Surely this has to be something completely different!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/17 10:31 PM
1

Archive of the original posters' account. Just the original post itself, and a follow-up which includes that she had, indeed, apologized; as well as a brief explanation that the OP was in part a work of personal catharsis, as well as aiming to educate other women on what to watch out for within their own behaviors.
/r/MensRights24/03/17 01:46 AM
2

Daredevil: A man sacrificing his health and personal relationships for the betterment of society, while suffering his (very literal) bruises and wounds in scared silence of being found out.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 12:56 PM
1

Meh. Mormons already ruined BSA.
/r/MensRights09/01/17 09:21 PM
2

One could argue that women in the West are currently victims of contemporary feminism, holding them down as weak and fragile flowers unable to face criticism. But I'm just being a bit of a twat right now, waiting for my morning coffee to brew, and nothing I say should be taken too seriously.
/r/MensRights11/12/16 04:57 PM
8

Victimhood.
/r/MensRights11/12/16 04:30 PM
6

But Chewie doesn't live on Endor. That's always bothered me.
/r/MensRights09/12/16 03:02 PM
2

Vasectomies have their problems. Like an apparent increase in prostate cancer risk. Not saying they're not viable (fuck that, they're still one of the best options out there hands-down). Just keep informed.
/r/MensRights10/11/16 06:53 PM
6

Those Puerto Rican tests happened because of feminist money. They keep wanting to ignore that.
/r/MensRights05/11/16 04:42 PM
4

Had a big argument recently over FB about this. Apparently, they're upset at the double standard that the female pills side effects were deemed "okay". 70 years ago. Tested outside US regulations at the time. Funded by a Feminist. So, obviously, we need to pull all female birth control options off the market until we test those further, as well.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 11:27 PM
1

Shit, I face that level of depression almost every day, without any hormone pills.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 11:24 PM
2

My deepest condolences.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/16 03:22 AM
1

Nope, just pointing out an example of why this sub exists. It doesn't hate women, it hates women getting preferential treatment merely because they're women. If you think it's anything else, you are the bigot.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/16 02:33 AM
26

She did. Glasses don't stop pepper spray.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 11:49 PM
1

I mean, you do realize that the disparity between male and female incarceration is factors higher than that between blacks and whites, right? Do you believe males are more prone to crime than women? Do you also believe blacks are more prone to crime, then? Are you that much of a bigot?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 11:48 PM
4

Riiiiiight. I mean, if you think "threatening violence over a difference of thought" counts as "not liking" someone, then maybe you're part of the problem, y'know? I mean, if you are for people being allowed to hurl verbal abuse at a group, while being protected themselves from similar abuse, maybe you could take your white ass down to the KKK and sign up. If you think the (valid) concepts of safe spaces and trigger warnings would never be abused to stifle speech, thought, or beliefs, I would lo…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 08:36 PM
-1

Wow, you avoided answering a question that might suggest narrative to be false!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 08:18 PM
5

Eh, maybe you just can't see how the reality of the situation is affecting people from your seat of privilege. Either way, you're acting like a clam-hurt legbeard trying to scream over a guest speaker.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 08:09 PM
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Hey, do you think the disproportionate rates of incarceration between blacks and whites suggests a systemic prejudice against blacks?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 08:03 PM
5

Ar hominem, insult, sex\gender-based derogatory term, no real refutation outside of ear-plugging. How's the hate coming?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 07:59 PM
4

Y'know, people like you have got me thinking... I've never actually seen unreasonable police brutality against a minority. So with your logic, that trend would just be a non-existant piece of far-left media, right, that dosn't actually happen? I mean, if you are going to disbelieve something merely because you have been lucky enough to not experience it....
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 07:56 PM
3

What are you, nuts? We are talking about special snowflakes with college experience! They would not be working McDonalds....they sell you coffee.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/16 07:54 PM
1

In that sense, I would argue that we have had multiple societies meld together in that single generation, with more still coming in.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 06:14 AM
4

Society as a system has changed faster, and seems continuing so, in (relative) recent years than humans have. Our available tools have changed, and grown in ease of use, dramatically quickly compared to the evolution of our species. Think of how much, as an easy and common example, the internet has changed us. Just the internet, in one generation, has gone from 28.8 kbps being a good speed modem to well over that, from pure text communication to autoplay videos and ads blocking the page. From a …
/r/MensRights23/08/16 05:52 AM
2

I think you mean Sadist instead of Masochist. The former enjoys inflicting pain and suffering, the latter receiving.
/r/MensRights09/08/16 10:57 PM
2

I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a Christian, which means I believe that all people are fundamentally depraved. I'm an Agnostic (to condense it simply) that spent some years working in a porn shop. I, too, believe that all people are fundamentally depraved :) However, I do believe a fair amount of our social strife comes from people being afraid or ashamed of their own depravity. Not that we should all indulge in all such things, absolutely not. But thoughts are thoughts, and actions are actions.
/r/MensRights06/08/16 07:49 PM
1

In the past, before this mess started for you, did you ever hear about or get linked to posts here in /MRA that showed it's full of women-hating bigots? Because I'm pretty sure you just responded to a sock-puppet that was at least partially intended to be used to support those arguments.
/r/MensRights06/08/16 05:20 AM
3

Original Follow up
/r/MensRights29/07/16 07:44 PM
2

Man = a from apple. Men = e from enter.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 10:40 AM
-4

There's enough differences between the two to necessitate separate labels (impulsive vs. calculated, for example). But I've been out of my head lately, and I believe I had it backwards.
/r/MensRights07/07/16 05:25 AM
-2

*Sociopath.
/r/MensRights07/07/16 02:16 AM
2

That... could be said of just about every reboot, though. Even the original Robocop had a subtle cerebral streak that seems pretty lacking from its reboot.
/r/MensRights03/07/16 06:25 AM
10

To be fair, as I recall there was a lot of angst directed towards the Star Trek reboot.... until it actually came out. There was (and is) still some, but it's almost entirely died down at this point, and pretty easy to refute in-canon.
/r/MensRights02/07/16 01:04 AM
2

Huh. Honestly did not know that. Was a top hit when I googled.
/r/MensRights09/06/16 11:16 PM
1

That said, from what I've read, the biggest concern is not so much that it's in the movie, but that it's an advertisement posted on a billboard for all to see. I can understand that PoV... but here is a poster of Rose McGowan from her movie "Jawbreaker".
/r/MensRights09/06/16 06:32 PM
24

Which itself suggests people expect men to be the majority of homeless, and nobody cares.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 02:29 AM
1

Was, maybe, not are. It was well over a decade ago.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 09:56 PM
3

....well, haven't seen that one before...
/r/MensRights31/05/16 02:25 AM
3

wat
/r/MensRights31/05/16 02:24 AM
6

Hey. Those of us downstairs were mostly quite drunk. And maybe some other things involved, as well, to disrupt our rationality. It's also worth noting that at the time, a lot of us were slightly over-protective of said woman. It's also very worth noting that many years later, she got drunk, seduced a (roughly equally drunk) male friend in a very serious monogamous relationship, and then told everyone he raped her (despite many, many witnesses). She's also admitted a couple years after the fact t…
/r/MensRights31/05/16 01:22 AM
5

Very true.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 08:23 PM
22

Years back, a bunch of my friends lived in a three-apartment house. Two domiciles upstairs, one downstairs. Party atmosphere all around. Anyway, one day a bunch of us are downstairs enjoying a party. A woman that lived upstairs came downstairs... with a huge black eye. Everybody got up, most of us grabbed a beat-down object of some form, and we were all ready to beat the fuck out of her boyfriend after she told us he did it. Turns out it was bad phrasing. He was practicing special effects makeup…
/r/MensRights30/05/16 07:30 PM
1

heheh Definitely need therapy. 'Shrooms have been working better for me than MDMA. The whole really uncomfortable with sexuality thing kinda detracts from enjoying that for me lately.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 06:07 AM
3

Another time, probably. Been pretty up for a few weeks. It's amazing how suffering and surviving Opiate withdrawal can kick someones will to live back into overdrive. But fucking thank you. Haven't had a single friend ask me that yet, and it's almost been a year since shit blew up on me.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 01:29 AM
17

heh This has actually been on my mind lately. See, I kinda went through a rough break up a little while ago. I started hanging out with a particular group of friends that are extremely sexually free and open. They kept wanting me around to give me a safe space, and kept offering their bodies to me. Which, fine, great, sure, why not. I mean, I'm just severely depressed, lost six years of my life in a relationship that ended with me going to /r/DeadBedrooms, caused me to have a psychotic breakdown…
/r/MensRights14/05/16 09:53 PM
2

MaybeSheDoesn'tHitYou
/r/MensRights13/05/16 12:06 AM
1

I mean, it's not like those of us that were young and curious in a pre-internet era ever looked at anatomy photos and diagrams in paper-bound encyclopedia's. Nothing more than the modern era catching up to advances in technology. Y'know, like Uber/Lyft and AirBNB.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 09:23 PM
11

IA, too.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 08:13 AM
1

On the other hand, him showing such restraint suggests hhe may be more professional in demeanor than she is.
/r/MensRights24/04/16 03:21 AM
2

That professionals are expected to remain professional.
/r/MensRights23/04/16 09:47 PM
7

As I recall, the driver declined pressing charges.
/r/MensRights23/04/16 09:46 PM
1

I've been physically assaulted by more female passengers than male, over the years. Welcome to reality.
/r/MensRights11/04/16 11:34 AM
5

Did vibrators make men obsolete?
/r/MensRights22/03/16 05:46 PM
2

And don't forget about the baby.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 05:44 PM
5

Okay. One of the tweeted complaints said it was racist. What in the flying fuck? I mean, what, having a white woman makes it racist? How? Or were they meaning using the prison slang term "fifi" was, itself, racist?
/r/MensRights14/11/15 08:39 PM
-1

Right. Pornography, specifically and legally, has no artistic merit. What she made was an art piece, ergo it was "erotica".
/r/MensRights16/09/15 11:42 PM
2

Look. I don't know how old you are. I'm close to 40, myself. This victim blaming mentality has been on a heavy decline for a few decades. Like, forty years ago, you might have been able to actually use "look at how she was dressed" as an accepted defense. That seems to be far, far removed from how it's been for, oh, the last decade or two. I agree, feminists were right that until (somewhat) recently, victim blaming seemed to be big, common, and accepted. But that changed a while ago, and we seem…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 09:06 PM
1

I think they're asking if anyone happens to have links handy regarding feminist attacks on science.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 07:55 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/MensRights13/08/15 02:39 AM
11

From what I remember of the original thread, a fair number did. Like, more than five. I've got a terrible memory these days, but I do remember being over all very impressed with the reactions and responses. I wonder if those attitudes are why it's a graveyard now. Seriously, this is the second time I've seen a blog post here in /r/mensrights quoting this Reddit post, in this year, and the first time the thread was still alive.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 08:42 PM
26

This was originally a /r/twoxchromosomes post. Interestingly enough, the original is a ghost yard now... wasn't a few months ago.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 08:16 PM
24

Future earnings, tho
/r/MensRights15/07/15 06:50 PM
3

Yeah, I pretty much assumed this was how it was going to pan out. I'm glad I work in a relatively small town. Big college, though, lots of female passengers on weekend nights. Thankfully, my company has three female drivers, two of which (mostly) enjoy working the weekend night shifts. We're happy to accommodate requests for female drivers when possible, and we've definitely had such requests. But the job would quite definitely not be for most people, regardless of sex or gender. And I can only …
/r/MensRights28/12/14 05:23 PM
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