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Do you pay more attention to words or actions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:21 AM
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Yes i have a whiteboard at my house with an equation written out. No lol it’s something the red pill teaches where guys should be doing less chasing than their partner. It can be good for the guy if he recognizes hes doing less pursuing, but not so much if he consciously has to hold back to feel more in control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:39 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/whatis.techtarget.com/definition/intermittent-reinforcement%3famp=1 Heres a web article i found, my personal experience dating a narcissist and the research i did following that relationship lead me to believe in it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:28 AM
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Compliments, gifts, making admiration blatantly clear i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:20 AM
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Compliments, gifts, admiration in most forms i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:18 AM
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Yes this is the intermittent reward part that i mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:52 PM
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Haha i dont mathematically use a ratio when dating, that ratio is “taught” to guys so they basically are letting their partner do more chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:36 PM
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Your kids genes may not matter if theyre being raised by a woman like that
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:28 PM
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I feel its as simple as “does she treat you the way you want to be treated, and is she a respectable person”
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:26 PM
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if you're 28 and live with your mom, you have more important things to worry about than where to have car sex
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:39 PM
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Just play it cool, dont chase her but dont act butthurt either. If she talks to you respond warmly, but dont make her the focus of your time at the party. Just focus on having a good time
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:22 PM
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That sums up exactly how i feel. I could tell the girl had a good time and figured i had the upper hand. I guess it really is an ego thing that i gotta crush. Thankful this subreddit exists
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:27 PM
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Good way to look at it. I know I’ll eventually have fun again obviously, but its hard to shift my mindset from “i want to have fun with her again” to “who’s next”. Just gotta keep experiencing it I guess is all i can think of
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:24 PM
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So is Saturday now obviously, the dates tuesday. We could both do monday but i have some stuff late in the day monday so id be rushing to get there. Should I reschedule for monday or is 3 days okay? Obviously its not black and white the date will fall through if its a certain number of days just want ur opinion
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:33 PM
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So no contact at all? Got it
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:25 PM
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Do i passively make it known i was with another girl or no
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:07 PM
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Ive lived with the mindset that its better to be alone than to be in bad company. Find people you value and stick with them, dont lessen yourself out of loneliness
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:54 AM
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is she writing reddit posts about how shes worried about you cheating? sounds like you have her on a pedestal more than she has you on one
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:13 PM
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Can you expand on her approaching you being a red flag, havent heard that one before
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:17 PM
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Thanks man. Thats whats tough, i was really starting to hit my stride and accomplish a lot of my goals and had some big career moves come my way. She turned this into “youre focused too much on work, and not having fun”. I was having fun until shed put the thought in my head i wasnt. Im in probably the best shape of my life, and she only started getting back in shape towards the end, for this other dude. I was still doing fun stuff with her, but my main focus was very much my own life. Youre rig…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:36 PM
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My guts never lied to me, don't stay with someone you don't feel secure with. Including yourself, you have your own insecurities you need to work on
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:28 AM
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The ones that would've resolved past mistakes
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:41 PM
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It sounds like living together has exposed a gap in your compatibility, dont double down on this by investing further in her.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:41 PM
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Quality>quantity
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:45 PM
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Very insightful thank you for taking the time to respond
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:27 PM
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Just learned about red pill, still learning. Making this post is not a red pill move, just gonna move on
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:01 AM
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True that
/r/askTRP15/11/20 10:05 PM
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I see signs of it
/r/askTRP15/11/20 03:14 PM
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I know this is the solution, just want to clear this out of my head and get my mental health right before i jump back in
/r/askTRP15/11/20 03:01 PM
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Ive had very similar experiences, my last year of college i had no classes involving mathematics and found myself much less rational
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:07 PM
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Yes. I understand that I was not text book red pill, and im not really looking to defend myself. Im saying the person i was when i entered the relationship became different from who i was at the end. I had no interest in being in a relationship when i met her, with her or anyone. And i told her this when she asked if we were dating after hooking up for a few months. Once i got emotionally invested in the relationship and began trusting her I definitely lost this mentality and began trying to bui…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:49 PM
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Thats why im writing this post. Im looking to improve and not develop this sort of oneitis in the future
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:22 PM
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I definitely agree, and I acknowledge in the post i developed a oneitis. What im looking for here is how to avoid this development in the future
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:21 PM
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Im not super red pill, i only really learned about it after the break up. But I understood i had other options. I felt i had a good thing and didnt jump ship when things started shaking up.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:47 PM
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Im not going to marry a girl without experiencing living with her first. Would have to make sure she is who she says she is
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:44 PM
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I maintained abundance. I understand my SMV, and had girls try to be with me during the relationship and some of her friends would tell her i was attractive and such.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:21 PM
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