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huh? I don't understand why you are asking that? No it never even crossed my mind, I loved him and was attracted to him very much
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 04:02 PM
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what if you've been together 4 years and your SO isn't sure he wants to get married due to marriage rights in the states, but is satisfied staying in a committed relationship with you? What about for the couples that don't plan on marrying?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 01:35 AM
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Yea that's how I felt, I never asked him if anything else. I just felt it was inappropriate in a mature, committed LTR. It's something I saw teenagers doing but I didn't feel like it had a place in an adult relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 01:08 AM
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I don't understand this, because these actions didn't make me feel secure and loved and was one of the things that led to a breakup. So I'm not entirely sure what you're saying, should I as a woman find a way to be ok with a guy like that because I did really love him and admire him but could not in the end feel secure with him choosing friends over me and started making me feel less attracted to him. Does it fall on me, I should not mention it or if he refuses, I should just deal with it myself…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 12:32 AM
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Why is this shit testing?? I was the more attractive one... Men ask their SOs all the time to refrain from hanging out with guy friends and women obey, is it shit testing when they do it? Why can't I get the same respect they ask for?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 09:01 PM
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well i never told him "I gave up my male friends so you should give up your female," or acted bitter or passive-aggressive. I told him straight up in as nice a way as possible after I started noticing how often he'd hang out or text a female friend that I was uncomfortable with it and didn't feel ok about it. It's just something I thought about recently when I was reflecting about the situation. edit: I would've given up male friends regardless of whether he asked or didn't cause I don't believe…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 06:50 PM
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This is a covert contract: doing one thing in hopes of another person acting a certain way. You made the contract in your own mind and then are upset that he didn't uphold his end that he didn't know existed. Oh I see that now, I wasn't even aware that it was a covert contract at first, thank you. As you and your groups get older, this will change, and as you get in a more committed relationship, it will also change. We were in a committed LTR but he just didn't see any problem with it and alway…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 05:57 PM
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Ugh that's disappointing, it is still early though. I'm sure the better ones are buried in the woodwork. What sites did you use?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/15 06:06 PM
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no I totally agree, it's just frustrating at times
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 03:33 AM
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yea, that's what I always feel like because they'll look to me to continue the discussion, and i just smile and shrug lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 03:32 AM
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haha same problem
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 03:03 AM
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I'm not, for some guys it sounds like it could be a compliment? But usually shortly after they say it I feel them distance themselves and I begin to hear less and less from them. So I don't really know what to infer from it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 03:03 AM
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this was great! thank you. I'm glad you broke your lurker status cause a lot of this was much needed. I look forward to hearing about your tinder experience cause there have been mixed reviews on here. Do not for the love of god, post an inspirational quote ("Live. Laugh. Love. Learn" or "Life is about the small moment and I try to enjoy each one to the fullest) ESPECIALLY from Marylin Monroe (i.e. "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best") hahaha I promise I won't
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 03:07 AM
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If I were to do it again, I'd make a point to remember not to get overwhelmed. I hope that doesn't happen to me. What ended up working for you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/15 07:31 PM
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I just read it, thanks it helps a lot. Did you have any luck since then with your experience?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/15 07:30 PM
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I was really nervous about having to deny further dates in person, but it wasn't so bad. How did you go about this? I want to be as respectful and kind as possible. Do you just say that you don't feel a connection and that you are looking for the same things. Or is this too harsh?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/15 08:36 PM
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Hi! Thank you! I'm so glad to hear that you found your SO and happiness through online dating. Was it difficult to find your guy? I see what you are saying, attract a certain type of man by being certain type of woman and depicting that through what you say. I always thought people were supposed to be direct and list what they were looking for on profiles. That's where my whole confusion of the process came from.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/15 08:15 PM
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I just went through all of this, thank you for digging it up. It helps A LOT!! and eases my concerns. I'm glad to see some of you great ladies went through this and have had success.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/15 08:10 PM
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interesting
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/15 06:17 PM
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why do they bring it up in that way though? Is it a test in a way to see how you'll react?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 09:56 PM
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that's an interesting point. So do you think they might say those things also as a sort of test, to see how you'll respond?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 08:14 PM
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Most of them that I try to date are well into their 30s and pretty well established otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 05:05 PM
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It's not that i'd rather they say anything else, i just confused when they say it and was wondering if there was a hidden meaning. Or if they mean it as a positive or a negative.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 05:05 PM
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I let them no from the get go that I'm not looking for hook ups though. And when they say it they look to me as if with almost a questioning look/tone, waiting for a response, but I don't say anything.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 05:03 PM
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this made me feel better
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 05:02 PM
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You guys aren't exclusive/committed yet. So if anything that in itself doesn't technically make him owe you too much or make him obligated to fulfill any "boyfriend/partner" duties
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/15 12:25 AM
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oh woah woah yea that's pretty bad. I used to have this friend who her bf lived with her and they had broken up and he didn't move out and began to bring women over to the house which he would proceed to make out with. She later got back together with him cause of "love." If that doesn't wanna make you want to smack some sense into someone I don't know what does
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 10:36 PM
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I think quality women or maybe i should say romantics....don't want to branch swing, they wanna give it everything they've got if they love the guy for whatever reason. Despite him throwing up red flags left and right, you almost develop blinders to them. Also, as mentioned above a lot of women including myself have had the "I can change him," and we always believe our guy and our love will be the exception to the rule. It's easy to think and believe "I won't/wouldn't ever be that girl." Love ho…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 10:14 PM
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hahaha, I laughed immediately after reading and picturing this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 09:00 PM
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Yea I completely understand that, however are there any ways to tell (signs, behaviors..) with the first instance guys that you mentioned. Who will say they want to be exclusive but will actually just lie and trick you and leave you after sex??
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/15 05:00 PM
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This resonates a lot with me, thanks for the post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/15 02:25 AM
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so is it ok for a RPW to date other men while dating the one she would potentially want to commit, until he commits? Or do I limit myself to dating one guy at a time and seeing if they commit?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 04:46 PM
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so i shouldn't let him do anything on me either during that time right? Just kissing
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 11:32 PM
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"trying to lock a dude down ASAP" ideas will. I hope that makes sense. Men can smell that desperation a mile away. haha yea I think I was starting to emit that odor after reading some stuff here and TRP theory. Thanks for the warning awww that's the cutest thing I like how he approached asking you and there is a bit of sexy dominance in that statement
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 10:44 PM
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wow thanks a lot!! So any kind of oral is out of the question right? Have you had any trouble with this method, have guys stuck around sans sex for 1-2 months?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 09:56 PM
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I don't know how handy you are with the sewing machine or how much you like crafting, and maybe this is a weird suggestion but you could try making some of your own clothes. I'm recently vegan (still seeing how my body responds) but I started making a few items of my own. It's hard to find animal friendly products so I took it into my own hands. It's pretty easy and gives you a lot of control. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 09:22 PM
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