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Best advice I've gotten from this post. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/24 05:08 PM
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They want me to wait until I’m done with my undergraduate degree and work a stable job for a bit. I’ll be done in December this year, and after proving my independence and job stability for a bit I would absolutely tell them about a relationship I was in
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 09:03 PM
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Thanks for your insight
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 06:53 PM
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Maybe that’s true but he’s such a dream in every other aspect. He constantly talks about and plans for our future, all his friends know of me, and he’s thoughtful with acts of service and gifts, he asks to call me almost every night and I’m the one who has to hang up because he never wants to haha. It’s just this one thing which is why im so confused. And he has always been this way, since the beginning
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 06:53 PM
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honestly leave while you're not attached. if he feels comfortable enough following them on his public account, it'll only get worse over time. especially if you become his girlfriend in the future- he'll constantly be comparing you to these fictional girls
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 07:27 PM
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People call me shallow too. I'm 5'9 and want a guy who is above 6'. I understand some guys are not but I feel like cuz I'm tall too its justified? idk
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 05:01 PM
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Thank you so much! This is the best piece of advice I’ve gotten on here to be honest
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 03:55 PM
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I’m not east asian, but lovely of you to make that assumption !
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 05:46 PM
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I'm pretty sure it's because it was TECH sales at a big tech company and I have experience at a BIG TECH company. the tech matters more than the sales.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 03:01 PM
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Thanks for pointing out the one edge case among the vast majority of others that say that subconscious bias is real when hiring! Any psychology or HR professional would agree with me lmao
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 02:37 AM
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Thank you so much for saying this <3 in today's culture especially with my friends my age I feel crazy for wanting a man who fits all the boxes because so many women settle with less. Thank you for making me feel normal
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 02:35 AM
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my boyfriend is admittedly not the most conventionally attractive. I don't care because he's my boyfriend and I love him either way and he is attractive to ME. but I'm not expecting a hot model bf because he is absolutely amazing in every regard.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 10:29 PM
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1000% agree to everything you've said here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 10:28 PM
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You're so right. I am completely unqualified for the job. Thank you. Comment after comment people have been saying I only got the job because I am a woman and because of AA. I'm SO SICK of hearing it. Genuinely, look through the comments. 90% of them say this. This is insane because my first internship I worked my ASS OFF to get. I was cold emailing and calling multiple people there, went to corporate offices to get my resume in the hands of hiring managers, creating full decks to propose projec…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 10:27 PM
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I accept him, I just want him to reach his full potential which he is not doing currently.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 10:20 PM
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There have been countless studies done on how the whitening and masculinization of resumes leads to higher interview rates. The numbers do not lie.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 10:16 PM
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I don't understand how wanting my man to be the breadwinner in the relationship is sick. I come from an Eastern background where that has always been the norm and the man is the provider.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:19 PM
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? this is an RPW subreddit, that's not what we're about if I think you're implying what you are.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:27 PM
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thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:25 PM
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You're saying I should break up? I do value his views more than anyone's in my life- if I didn't we wouldn't have been together for over a year.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:24 PM
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you're* But I get what you mean- frontal lobes aren't fully developed until around 25. That being said I don't think I'm necessarily more mature than others, I just want to plan for my future because I want to have kids young and have a big family. I've taken time to think about what it is I want from my future. Although I can never know for sure, I think I have a pretty good idea but I'm open to change :) thanks for your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:23 PM
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Totally understand that. I'm not talking about edge cases here, I'm talking about the vast majority which is students fresh out of high school. There will always be exceptions and I think that's great! Good for your dad!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:20 PM
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So you're saying I've only gotten three past internships because I'm a woman? Good to know!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 04:06 PM
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So what would you suggest I do? Work experience is so important these days, to even get an entry level job you need years of experience. I don't think its smart to spend undergrad just studying, especially in a commerce degree.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 04:05 PM
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I don't think it's premature? I've always wanted to be a SAHM. The girlboss culture has not appealed to me, I've done it because I've wanted to give back to my immigrant parents who have sacrificed so much for me it feels I am doing them a disservice by jumping into being a SAHW/M immediately upon graduation. We have discussed it and he's said he's ok with me staying at home with kids and agrees on that. But he also sees the value in a two income household. He's the love of my life, I'd rather t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 04:03 PM
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I am willing to wait it out with him. His character outweighs his earning potential, but obviously I would like if he was the breadwinner in our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 04:00 PM
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I always love getting all perspectives, but not a fan of the rhetoric that most tech internships go to women. That's simply not been true in my experience and in the experience of all my female friends in tech. We are SURROUNDED by men, and the tech industry is mostly comprised of men in these roles. I've worked in software engineering and technical product management and my team has been ALL MEN. As for my upcoming sales role I can't say, but I know I am one of few female interns in the cohort.…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:59 PM
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Because we're on a RPW subreddit? That comes with having a masculine, ambitious man who has goals and has a provider mindset. I don't want to be the provider in the relationship. And I am extremely grateful he is great in all those other categories. I am so lucky to have him, I know that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:54 PM
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I'm not content because I'm worried I may have an unambitious partner. Very different.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:51 PM
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Not in debt :) super grateful to not be, to pay for my own schooling 100%, and to now be contributing to 80% of my parent's mortgage payments but go on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:50 PM
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I don't think that 's the case here. Maybe somewhat but saying I only got it because I'm a woman is a bit rude. I am the only woman in this cohort of interns, the rest are men. In most of my previous work experience it's been that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:47 PM
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I get where you're coming from. Just to put it out there, my last two have been in software engineering and technical product management, it's not just sales. I know I'll get some comments about only getting them because I'm a woman but I don't think that means I'm completely unqualified.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 03:46 PM
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Lol take a look at the subreddit you're on? And yes it does turn me off when I'm earning some income and have been 'more successful' in a patriarchal society and my partner does not... if that makes me a villain so be it. I never claimed to be a feminist and never said anything about being independent and needing no man. I DO NEED A MAN.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 04:50 AM
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What do you mean? The students in my program are 17 - 22, at least in undergrad lol. I'm not talking about the PhD program
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 02:57 AM
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Thanks for your comment as a working woman :) truly helps Honestly I am not too sure what I want from my future also. The only nonnegotiable is that I'd like to definitely be a SAHM for the first few years' of my child's life but I wouldn't 100% be opposed to working. I would need to see how FT work is upon when I get my first job. I really, really wish I believed in him more. I tell him all the time that I do but I don't think I believe it. As far as he knows he's been very appreciative of my s…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 12:57 AM
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I see him as my leader in every regard other than this one
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 12:53 AM
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No, I'm not positive about that at all. And that's so interesting! I've only noticed that more successful men do want SAHWs but I am young so don't know too much about this :) Not sure what you mean by box checker or if it was meant to be an insult? I think the difference was that I prepared for the interview and he didn't get the interview due to his lack of qualifications. Honestly, I want him to thrive in whatever he chooses to do. I'll support him each step of the way. But I'm not sure how t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 12:52 AM
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Hi, I'm not trying to brag at all- simply trying to paint a picture to try and get the best advice possible from the lovely ladies on here. We are both still studying, but are in our final year so post-grad life needs to be thought of to some degree. I will graduate a year earlier than him due to him transferring universities but we are on the older side of university students. Honestly, yes I couldn't say the word but I do suspect him of being lazy. I wish he was more driven, and although glimp…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 12:50 AM
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“the longer we hold onto the wrong one, the less time we have with the right one” really hit. thank you I think i’m going to pull the trigger
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 08:02 PM
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thank you, I think I am going to walk away. he even had his friend message me and say he’s just “clueless” to these things and didn’t realize what he was doing was wrong lol. but i’m done
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 07:59 PM
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thank you for the reality check 🥹 how do I find the guys that do? you and your husband getting married at 21 is the expectation I had for myself to get married at
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 07:57 PM
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