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| 2 | Opinions about certain dating coachesDon't follow dating coaches. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/25 12:13 AM |
| 0 | When you subscribed to the red pill, did you hate women, or were you merely skeptical of them and their motives? [Gynoskepsis vs. misogyny: an important distinction in analysing red pill and manosphere men]Excellent. How did you come to this? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/23 09:06 PM |
| 34 | Is a 9-5 worth it, or would becoming an entrepreneur really help solve my social, financial and romantic problems?If you’re asking then a 9-5. Trust me running your own business is a million times harder plus you likely won’t be spending time with anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm worried about my boyfriendHey BigSaso! Red pill is not self help. The gurus paint it that way to brainwash you. Red pill is just misogyny. Then they sprinkle self help on top so followers can feel a sense of purpose in their misogyny. It’s kind of like how conservatives hate trans people, so they come up with weird news stories about random trans people committing crimes so they could rally everyone into having a reason to hate trans people. Like there was a weird time where Fox News got all conservatives concerned that … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023But are you sure this is true? That they have all the advantages and you don’t? Do you think there are any women who can’t pick and choose men? Or have better orgasms, feelings, and beauty? Just so I’m clear, you’re telling me this is all women? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/23 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023So you don’t hate any one woman but just women in general? Like it’s not personal, it’s just principle? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/23 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023So you’re saying men want women more than women want men? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/23 11:44 PM |
| 9 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023So red pillers are mad at women because they aren’t as beautiful as women? Why is it that I don’t gaf about that? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/23 03:27 PM |
| 17 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023It feels like it but only time will tell. The issue is the damage it’s already done to many boys. To have a misogynist superstar as their role model as a child is pretty imprinting. And I hope there’s a way for them to shift their perspective. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Sadly I have fallen back into the red pill. I have been watching the33secrets and better bachelor etc. I no it’s bad but for me it’s almost like a train wreck I can’t look away also when I get bored if I’m doing nothing I go back too those YouTube channels. I hate them.http://youtube.com/anthonyrecenello | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/23 05:59 PM |
| 3 | My journey in and out of the red pill movementThey’ve been raised by the patriarchy and extreme capitalism. So yes, they’re victims of the system. Just as red pillers have been taught to be as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/23 08:41 PM |
| 10 | My journey in and out of the red pill movementThe truth of red pill is even if the advice works for you, it works on equally insecure women. It’s just shallow and uneducated finding shallow and uneducated. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/23 07:03 PM |
| 45 | I find it funny red pillars hate sex workersThey hate all women. But they USE sex workers for humiliation. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/23 07:00 PM |
| 9 | How important are looks, money and status for making friends, garnering respect and finding a meaningful relationship?Looks, money, and status is all wrong. It’s presence, purpose, and health. Red pillers make childish claims because they don’t actually have experience with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?Bro. Lol. Red pill means being successful? I love how pillboys act like the most basic shit is some mind blowing secret answer to life. Who tf doesn’t want a partner with a sense of purpose? Red pill is explicitly misogyny. Full stop. You think cuz they add basic ass tips that makes it an exclusively red pill idea? Also, I didn’t say rich. Pillers say women want men with money. I don’t believe that. I believe anyone is attracted to a purposeful person. Not money. It’s because red pillers find it… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?I’ve been a dating coach for 17 years. Red pill is the newest bullshit for the masses of young men. Red pill is made to make you a shell of yourself. Son when I was ur age I was going out literally every night, approaching everyone at bars and clubs. No excuses because nobody brainwashed me into hating women or thinking they’re femoids. Go and have some fun man. Red pill has rotted ur brain. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?General hotness? You’re still massively red pilled. Only those losers think about how hot they are compared to other men. They convinced you facial symmetry is what women look for. Red pill is based on making excuses for themselves. You have a good personality, you’re physically fit, and I assume you’re ambitious? That’s all you need. My guess is you don’t really approach many women? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?Oh then get in shape. There’s your answer. You won’t worry about competing anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/23 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?What are the requisites for being sexy and attractive to a potential partner? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/23 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How to stop comparing myself to other "better" men, when it comes to dating?Are you dating for a happy relationship, or to compete with other men? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Angry and SadWait you didn’t tell your parents???? Tell your parents everything. Your brother is a child being radicalized by alt right propaganda. You need to tell your parents this! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | This is a genuine question— where do redpill men get the idea that women LOVE being with “bad boys”/borderline abusive men??Boom. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 10:01 PM |
| 12 | Men who have left Red Pill, what was the first falsehood you recognized that led to you starting to doubt the rest of their claims?Also, good response doesn’t mean chemistry, connection, and attraction. People stopped PUA when they realized it was just dancing monkey shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Wtf is this subreddit?Got it. So based on survival, if a man with a gun came into your home, per this example, the best thing to protect your family is to fight with him? And not to run and get your kids away? Please explain. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Wtf is this subreddit?Car crashing? Whatttt????? Thieves? What are you gonna do if a thief enters your home and starts attacking you? Punch him with your strong man fists? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Wtf is this subreddit?Do muggers not use weapons I’m curious? Also, when’s the last time you had to defend yourself from a home invasion. Or I’m sorry, where does your family get attacked? Did you think I believe men aren’t bigger than women on average? That wasn’t my question. But I see you took it in that direction. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Wtf is this subreddit?I really do think red pillers make people into cartoons. This is likely cuz 90% of red pillers are children. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Wtf is this subreddit?Hey! I think I missed your answer to my question in your last comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Wtf is this subreddit?Hey I missed your answer to my question in your last comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Wtf is this subreddit?Got it so like what would you do if a guy was robbing you with a gun or knife that a woman couldn’t do? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Yes they do. They just don’t want him to be also needy. Also… again you just made a generalization about women. Not all women want that, actually most women don’t. The next thing you gotta do is get rid of these generalizations red pillers make. It’s shit idiots do. They find one trend they might see and just say “that’s all women all the time from the beginning of time to now and it’ll never change cuz it’s in their DNA” Like yeah that’s how people do science. People are multifaceted. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 13 | Wtf is this subreddit?Red pill is misogyny. Conservative values is conservative values. Definitely a weird way to live, but if everyone’s happy w the arrangement, no issue with me. Actually this is a good time for me to ask, what are men defending their family from that a woman can’t? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Do you see what you just did there? “This is why women are single.” You just made another sweeping generalization about a whole gender. Because you’re so used to living in a vacuum with red pillers that come up w an idea and then everyone agrees. You lost women cuz you’re likely needy as fuck. And everyone hates neediness, no matter who you are. Every girl I express I want a relationship and I really like them, they end up my girlfriend. And they’re super attractive to me. Only diff? I did the s… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Rape. Men lie their asses off to get sex, promising they’re in love, convincing women they’ll have a future together, and then as soon as they have sex, they vanish like nothing happened. It can tear your heart apart to have that happen several times to a person. And no this isn’t only the fuccbois doing this. Most men do this. You’re not acknowledging single women in their 30s and 40s. Basically as soon as a woman hits 30, she may as well be invisible to men. Men don’t have to worry about this.… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Yes just as. I’m a dating coach and everyday I’m speaking with all genders. No gender has it easier than another. You have no idea what women go through. If anything, dating could be seen as HARDER for women. When you say things like “when I ask women they all just want the bad boy” it shows how little you actually talk to women. You still are red pilled and are influenced by red pill bias. I recommend to keep exploring alternative perspectives. 🤙🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 11 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?Beautifully put | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?It seems to be that way cuz of confirmation bias. Women have it just as hard. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | A serious questionNo. Red pill men are guys with no experience with women and believe angry men on the internet because they are angry themselves that they can’t be chads and just have women falling all over them. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Confused about hypergamySo hypergamy isn’t some biological thing women have. Everyone is different. Some people are more shallow than others. Being good at dating isn’t about making everyone attracted to you. It’s how good you are at finding the right people. You’re looking in the wrong places. If you have a crush, it tells me you’re not regularly meeting women. So go out and find places where there are women you get along well with. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 06:37 PM |
| 6 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentI’m so sorry you got into this. It pains me every day to know young men are being poisoned with this shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Don't you think the redpill is somehow necessary?What does any of what you mentioned have to do with red pill? Red pill teaches the opposite of street smart. Are you saying men should be purposeful, passionate, positivity, and standards for who they date? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does AlphaM get so much hate here?First of all, his advice is just plain bad. His personality is cringe, and he has conservative views on relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 07:48 AM |
| 3 | RP has an overly simplified, black-and-white view of people, interpersonal relationships and the human conditionYes. It’s why it’s went viral in the past couple years. Simple straightforward marketing works for the masses. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 11:36 PM |
| -2 | Can you hook up without being redpill?Honestly nobody know anymore. The rules change daily. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/23 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on David Goggins?I’m just about to read his book. I heard he’s just really motivational, does he say toxic shit? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I think Redpill is wrong about a lot but is right about money.Lollll who said money isn’t important? I’m so confused | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Is all this red pill shit I’ve “ingested” the reason I have such low self esteem and confidence?Yes. Kids always feel normal insecurities in highschool and college. But as you grow up it fades away and you gain confidence and live a normal life. But red pill will grow this negativity and continue it into your adulthood. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/23 08:58 AM |
| 2 | I need some advice from non red or blue pillersI’m neither blue or red. And you’re being a little baby. Go meet some people and stop obsessing over some random person for no reason. This isn’t mind blowing advice it’s common sense my bro. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | As promised, here is the (first, another one in press) article published from our project which recruited here!Yes I know what you’re saying… but don’t you agree that in the past year is when red pill has gone mainstream? Not underground? And yes I know it came from PUA, but I don’t think that’s why it took off. I think conservative males were looking for something to counter their issues in trying to deal with the #metoo movement, and like I said feminism in general. But I’m gonna read those articles thank you! I’d love to see a timeline. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 07:19 AM |
| 5 | As promised, here is the (first, another one in press) article published from our project which recruited here!Things go in waves. Red pill was a response to the backlash of the radical feminism movement happening in the past ten years. Red pill has now taken rise and we’re obviously seeing a pushback. Here’s the issue with red pill… feminism is embraced by liberal men and women alike. Red pill is so radical that even conservative women and many conservative men can’t even get on board with it. Women can’t have a capacity to love? Women are only hypergamous? Men should be promiscuous while women stay com… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 04:07 PM |
| 8 | As promised, here is the (first, another one in press) article published from our project which recruited here!Thank you so much. I don’t think you even understand how much this work means. I’m an anti red pill dating coach (rare I know). And it helps to refer to some peer reviewed stuff. ❤️ | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 08:18 AM |
| 31 | any male that supports this subreddit is a fucking cuck🤦🏾♂️I love when red pillers use dork terms and think that offends normal people. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Ugh! anyone else hates how prudishness is slowly creeping in through red pill spaces?The reason is because red pill isnt about sex at all. It’s about power over other men. Sex with “hot” women isn’t supposed to even be enjoyed or your gay or something. The whole point is to dunk on other men to show them you have more prowess or something? Dude the whole thing makes zero sense but that’s why we have the popcorn. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 08:51 PM |
| 20 | Why do men who already have a girlfriend suddenly believe in Red Pill?Young men are peer pressured. They don’t wanna be a “simp” or “cuck” for their girlfriend and red pill bashes into your skull that all women cheat if you don’t dominate them completely. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Is the "80/20 rule" true, in which only the top 20% of men are desirable to 80% of women? I feel as though I have missed the boat in terms of "making it" as a 25-year-old.Making platonic friends w women was the single best thing I did for my dating life. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/23 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you know the guru is possibly a psychopath? Their fans are obsessed and see them as gods.All cult leaders are teaching self help. And to even think that a psychopath doesn’t teach self help is short sighted. They don’t give af about helping. They want power and influence. Which is why Tate gives literally the worst advice ever known to man. It’s just hateful ideology. And Tate is 100% a cult leader. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you know the guru is possibly a psychopath? Their fans are obsessed and see them as gods.Got it. You’re right. Cult leaders are def NOT psychopaths because they are mostly teaching self help to their followers. Thanks for that! 👌🏻 Also, please let me know where you’ve studied psychopathy! I’m trying to learn more about them. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Is it understandable to dislike RP, PUA, Manosphere, but also dislike FDS?Yes this is just red pill for women. Same thing. Victims of society, capitalism, ego, insecurity, fitting in, materialism, just plain shallow thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Documentary InterviewEmailed | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Is the "80/20 rule" true, in which only the top 20% of men are desirable to 80% of women? I feel as though I have missed the boat in terms of "making it" as a 25-year-old.This is 100% false. It’s a way for charlatans to get you committed to them. In fact, it’s probably flipped. Since men are so focused on looks, it cuts out most women who don’t match those looks. You’ve been duped by idiots on the internet who wear sunglasses INSIDE WHERE THE SUN ISNT SHINING IN THEIR EYES. 🤣 This is the hidden problem with red pill. It’s not just about how they build your hate for women and world, but how they help you to hate yourself and make you feel like you’re worthless. I’… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 11:38 AM |
| 8 | Are there any forums or groups that specifically make fun of redpillers or rant about them I need a good laugh?Yeah I know red pillers hate h3 but they used to like him when he was trashing on SJWs. Now that he trolls red pillers all day long you guys hate his guts 🤣 which is what makes the podcast so fuckin hilarious. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Are there any forums or groups that specifically make fun of redpillers or rant about them I need a good laugh?R/h3h3productions it’s all we do over there | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Has "The Rational Male" helped you?I’ve read the dating version and it was the stupidest thing I’ve ever read. It wasn’t even original. He literally just ripped off Mystery the PUA. It’s because he doesn’t date … so the motherfucker has no idea what actually works. Same goes for the Art Of Seduction guy Robert Greene. That man hasn’t kissed a persons lips in his life and is giving dating advice. Also, he’s a psychopath for that book the 48 laws of power. Unfortunately the dating world is run by inexperienced charlatans. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Im starting r/exredpill2 so we can post media (vids, links, pics, cross posting)Yes I can try out being mod! I’ll see if it’s too much work for me or not | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Im starting r/exredpill2 so we can post media (vids, links, pics, cross posting)Hey! The reason I want vids is so we can post vids of things relevant to the sub! I hope that makes sense. For instance, if there is something valuable that is only in video form, we can’t post it here. But my question, and I think this is a better question than yours: Why wouldn’t you want vids? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Im starting r/exredpill2 so we can post media (vids, links, pics, cross posting)See you there: r/exredpill2 | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Where are your parents?Do you see how you just went berserk in your response to me like that? I care about children like yourself, so I spent time studying red pill and watching a ton of material. These are the main tenants of red Pill. It starts with laughing at funny videos of Tate talking about water and CPR. I’d say you’re in the early stages of being radicalized, since you don’t know most of what he teaches or what red pill is fundamentally about. But the sub you’re on right now are the thousands of young men who… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Where are your parents?Lol omg I commented to you above! Lol it’ll tell you why I hate Tate so much | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Where are your parents?You do realize all the stuff you mentioned has nothing to do with red pill? Those are basic af advice points made to fill up a podcast. The reason you are a red piller is because you believe women are less than human, and that they are shallow creatures that are easily manipulatable by money, status, and looks. They have no capacity for true love, and just want protection and a luxurious life. If you don’t believe those things, then you’re not red pilled. If you do believe those things, then bas… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Where are your parents?What do they say in a joking manner for your entertainment? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Is this a common and prevalent problem, or is it just another case of confirmation bias?My guess is the man wasn’t “more vulnerable” but actually just depressed and super negative. But you can’t say that to other guys on the internet, so you instead say “I was emotional.” | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How do redpill dudes explain Kieth Raniere of NXIM?Lemme ask you something… “resourceful, ambitious men” is red pill? Also, making a lot of money is hardly what gets women. Sounds like you’re still red pilled? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:34 PM |
| 3 | How do redpill dudes explain Kieth Raniere of NXIM?Just so you know… most PUA are fakes. Just wanted to let that out there. I’ve met many of them and they are horrrrrrible with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Is this a common and prevalent problem, or is it just another case of confirmation bias?Yeah I actually experience the opposite. Women have asked me to be MORE vulnerable and emotional. The whole “don’t be vulnerable” thing is bullshit. Everything about red pill starts as something small and they turn it into a mind blowing revelation that is the biggest problem in your life. “Don’t be vulnerable because women will think you’re pathetic.” Like dude who tf are you dating? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 26 | Red pill stuff is really toxic to the mindMost people are good people. Red pill was made for sad men to feel validated to hate women. But when you tell kids “Red pill opens your mind about the truth that women are shallow and you aren’t,” and if you’re feeling like shit about your dating life, it’s easy to fall into the trap. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Navigating relationships after RedPillHey! It looks like you suffered the consequences of what red pill offers. Okay so here’s the deal… Give only love and positivity to any relationship you are in. The issue here is red pillers are taught that means you are a simp cuck pushover. That’s untrue. You become a pushover simp when you are doing things in order to win the favor of a woman. Since red pill is psychopathic, they didn’t consider that you could be loving and positive because you are simply a loving and positive person that enj… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Mens Rights: why are pro-men feminists absolutely rejected?Sounds like they’re a bunch of babies. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Mens Rights: why are pro-men feminists absolutely rejected?A couple things. The list of oppressions isn’t exclusive to men or much worse for men. Why didn’t you get along with men’s lib? I see your edit. Libs are sex positive. Much more than conservatives. So I’m curious why you think they downvoted you. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Mens Rights: why are pro-men feminists absolutely rejected?Are you looking for men’s rights groups because you are specifically being oppressed? For instance, many single dads don’t have custody of their children because of the court system. That’s a valid issue. Or are you just looking for other guys who want to gather because they don’t date women? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 05:22 PM |
| 16 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Your question is a red pill question. Your answer is: The hobbies you love. If you want to be strategic, first start with what you already enjoy. Then, after you’ve tried several communities, just frequent the ones where you get along most with the other people. Then, pick the one that you also make the most connections with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you know the guru is possibly a psychopath? Their fans are obsessed and see them as gods.Thanks for this. I’m going to study up on this stuff. 🙏🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | what advice would you give me?Brainwashing goes deep my brother. You’ve been brainwashed by grifters. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 06:17 AM |
| 3 | what advice would you give me?Oh that’s easy. You’re young enough to still explore. I started life at 26. Make a list of ten things you’re interested in possibly pursuing. Spend the next couple years exploring each one. One by one. There are three points: How much you love doing it How good you are at it How much money it makes (or will make in 5-10 years) After a couple years, keep only the ones that match all three points well. Then consult with parents, friends, internet, experts, etc. Then go with your heart. Voila! You … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 01:42 AM |
| 2 | what advice would you give me?Just so I’m clear, what advice are you looking for? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 11:17 PM |
| 3 | How did you feel when you realized your Red Piller tried to recruit you into the cult they were in without properly informing you?The #1 rule of starting a cult is to find vulnerable followers. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 02:59 PM |
| 26 | How can it be possible that there is virtually zero nuance in this discussion, that you are either firmly planted on one end of the spectrum or the other with absolutely no balanced take to be found?Hey! It does seem like the mature answer to say that both are right and both have wrong stuff too. But red pill was created and began as a place for men to rationalize their hate for women. All ideology was built from there. From there, content creators wanted to capitalize on this movement, and started adding their flavors to the mix. What new advice caught on was the advice all the content creators adopted in their own teachings too. Even the book The Rational Male, which is supposed to be the… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/23 11:28 PM |
| 9 | I'm jealous of other races who date white womenHey! Thanks for your insight. Can you explain yourself? On this sub we can’t just bark opinions out in the comments. We like to talk them over. 🤙🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/23 12:47 AM |
| 12 | I'm jealous of other races who date white womenYou don’t feel the effect of being white because privilege is a luxury. And your whiteness has been experiencing the luxury of being white since you popped out of the womb. It’s like growing up in a mansion. Kids in a mansion don’t realize how great their lives are. And they will still whine about toys they don’t have. Just because you don’t feel the effect, doesn’t mean you don’t benefit from the effect all day long. Also, pillers love making themselves victims. When they’re a victim then nothi… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Genuine self-help book recommendationsAlso if you’re feeling like you really want emotional stability, get Your Errornous Zones and read the fuck out of that shit. ❤️ | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Genuine self-help book recommendationsThe Power Of Now. Recommended for everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pill YouTube channels exist? They’re all sexist and should be removed from YouTube. On a side note I really love this subreddit. I really hope it always exists it’s helped me a lot.Most of them don’t really get that many views to matter. It wasn’t until hamza, fresh and fit, sneako, and tate that things got out of hand. Before a couple years ago, red pill was exclusively for a small group of men that came together to hate women. But now it went alt right mainstream. And sadly now millions of children are brainwashed. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Hey guys. Sleeping around isn’t an extreme. All women and men are doing it. It’s just having sex. Can you explain how that’s “never good” and extreme? Did you mean sex addiction? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 04:24 PM |
| 7 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?It’s all a mess. First of all. Sleeping around isn’t bad. Sleep around all you’d like. Just be honest with your partners by telling them what your true intentions are. Back to red pillers. The philosophy doesn’t make sense cuz it’s not a philosophy. It’s just a culture of hating women and finding ways to make them look bad and have power over them. When they talk about sleeping around, they’re really saying, “Prove that you’re better than all these women.” It has nothing to do with actually liki… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 02:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm not sure how to move past this whole partner count stat. Even if it is real or not.Here’s the thing… You can do whatever you want. You see stats that tell you not to date and marry women who’ve had sex with multiple partners? Great. It’s when you shame women for having multiple partners and men for not is where red pill gets dirty. There is literally zero reason to judge someone for who they have sex with. They’re sexual past does nothing to your life or hers or anyone else’s. It’s literally a religious rule implying that women aren’t pure. Think about how gross that is. But f… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?Approaching for the wrong reasons? I agree. Approaching to meet new women and connect with them? Approaching to improve your social skills? Approaching at places where women want to be approached? It all depends. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Help me differentiate between the negative and positive elements of the “redpill”If you’ve heard the advice from some self help place, it’s likely good, general life advice. “Clean your room” “Don’t be lazy” If it’s something to do with dating, specific business strategy, evolutionary biology, it’s bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:34 AM |
| 6 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?Red pill wants to keep you being a little bitch. “Look at all the stats about how you’re doomed!” Oh ok now shrivel up and die. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?I would drive to other towns. It didn’t matter how many people were out. I wanted to get better. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?Go out seven nights a week and approach ten women a night. Do it for a year. Take notes every night. That’s what I did. Don’t follow dating coaches as they aren’t actually good with women. Even the infield videos are planned. 90% of socializing is getting desensitized to rejection. That takes repetition and consistency. You won’t learn that from dating coaches. You learn that by going out. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:08 AM |
| 7 | This sun has really helped my mental healthI’m so sorry you’ve been brainwashed to think you’re worthless. This is by far the worst thing red pill does to people. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Does keeping my money and never buy those redpills attraction course worth it? Im tried of redpills communityI’ve been a dating coach for 15+ years. It’s extremely rare I find any dating coach content/course that isn’t complete bullshit. Red pills job is to make you feel worthless, and then makes huge promises to make you amazing in a short period. Here’s my advice… Instead of spending money on this, dedicate yourself to going out and meeting people at least 3 nights a week. Every interaction you have, write down what happened in detail. Also write where you fucked up, and where you did well. And what … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill is a contradiction in itself.The thing that always gets me, is the steak scene. Red pillers value facade, lust, status, materialism, and luxury spending over anything else. It’s literally how they draw children into the ideology. In the Matrix, the red pill was about leaving all those lizard brain desires for the real world… which is about depth, simple pleasures, and placing a value on the beauty of natural life. That steak scene, where Cypher said “I know this steak doesn’t exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, th… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill made me think that Im not "good enough"They do this so they can market to you. It’s the worst part of red pill. I’ve said it before on here that the only good thing that came from red pill’s previous incarnation, PUA, is at least they pushed you to go out and constantly be meeting people. Because the more you go out, the more success and experience you gain, which will raise your confidence. With red pill, they want you hooked to their videos and in a world of anger, so you can’t do anything but consume and hate. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Is evolutionary psychology even a thing?You put this so well | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 05:03 PM |
| 30 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subWe want red pillers lurking here. It means they’re curious. We don’t want them creeping on women here though. So I hope that mods can figure that issue out. 🙏🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How to stand out as a mediocre guy?That’s excellent! You talk to two women for at least five minutes each every time you go out for the sole purpose of finding a partner. That means, on average, you approach and chat up ten new women each month. In the past month, how many of those women fit your standards for a partner? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 12:42 AM |
| 7 | How to stand out as a mediocre guy?Great! So out of the five times you went out in the past 30 days, how many new women did you approach and have a conversation with (5 mins minimum) for the purpose of seeing if there was a connection (I’m a dating coach btw so apologies for the straightforward questioning but this is how we fix things) | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 12:33 AM |
| 6 | How to stand out as a mediocre guy?Anything where your specific goal is to meet new people. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 12:22 AM |
| 5 | How to stand out as a mediocre guy?How many times in the past month have you gone out to meet people? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 12:19 AM |
| 25 | How to stand out as a mediocre guy?You’ve been brainwashed by redpill rhetoric brother. Red pill wants you to have low self esteem so it can market to you. There is no competition out there. There’s just you and people who are looking for you. Find them. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many over-the-top extreme gurus nowadays?Because children are most of the fans. Adults understand how life actually works. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Deconstructing RP claims: Is the double standard society has for promiscuity fair??So here’s the big thing that people don’t think about… WHO GIVES A SHIT. Red pill is about hating women, so they need reasons to keep them controlled. But guess what… if you don’t hate women, you don’t want to control them… then you are HAPPY for them to live their lives the way they want. If you don’t hate women, you would not gaf who they had sex with. It has nothing to do with anything. “But biologically…” Shut the fuck up. I literally don’t care about body count because it has nothing to do … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Deconstructing RP claims: Is the double standard society has for promiscuity fair??Loving these comments 🤘🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Deconstructing RP Claims : The reason women think most men are trash is because the majority are chasing the same small percentage of men and ignoring the rest.Loving the answers on this post. Makes me happy to see ex red pillers that can see through the smoke. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm worried about my boyfriendI agree with you. But if she doesn’t mind it, then I’m not trying to impose my values on her. So I just think whatever serves her best. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Impossible standartsSo you’re competing against men for approval from women? And is this what red pill teaches? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Impossible standartsExternal approval by perhaps whom? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Impossible standartsYes but what I’m saying is what thing are you winning? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Impossible standartsWhat are you competing for? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Impossible standartsHey! Dating Coach here. Let’s hash it out. Who is judging you on whether you’re good enough with women? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 15 | I'm worried about my boyfriendHey! Relationship coach here. So at this age, most young men are into red pill. His friends are prob into it, and he’s at a point in his life where he prob doesn’t have any role models, so these internet guys are who he can look up to. It doesn’t seem like your boyfriend has fallen so deep yet, which is good. And I can tell you love him. You want to think about what is serving you. Has the relationship deteriorated because of the things he’s learned? Has he changed for the worse? Or is he being … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 10:44 PM |
| 53 | Hamza made me miserableJust so you know… Working out Meditating Being productive That’s not red pill. That’s the stuff red pill adds in to make it not seem creepy af. That’s normal basic life advice that all gurus teach. It’s all the other stuff that fucks everyone up. It’s like going to a party in the bad part of town and the punch bowl is spiked with roofies. You were getting some cute punch, but that punch is also laced with bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 08:13 AM |
| 7 | How do redpillers not realise they're beta's in their own logic?Thanks man! I just love women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 11:40 PM |
| 15 | How do redpillers not realise they're beta's in their own logic?This is so clear to people that aren’t red pillers, but if you’ve been indoctrinated, the brainwashing is so strong they can’t see the obvious inconsistencies. Also, most red pillers are children. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 11:04 PM |
| 13 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?So, if you mean in the US… If a woman got pregnant, she can’t choose to do what she wants with her body. So imagine if you were a woman and someone got you pregnant at 14. You guys were drunk and didn’t use a condom. And now, the rest of your life is changed. You are now a mother and are raising a child for the next 20 years. You don’t have a choice for that. Next, women are just constantly vulnerable to men’s assault. Which is why women can’t walk alone on a street at night. I hardly ever have … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Excellent! Thanks so much I’ll check it out. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?Yes. I don’t know if that person. But there are extremists in literally every subculture. But I don’t base my identity on those people. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?Yes. I don’t know if that person. But there are extremists in literally every subculture. But I don’t base my identity on those people. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:42 PM |
| 18 | What specifically is, according to red pill-ers, wrong with “modern feminism”?To say you’re not a feminist because of some ridiculous outliers doesn’t make sense. There are weirdos in every group. Liberals and conservatives both have nuts and good people. There are bad actors in business, politics, the arts, etc. The difference is… red pill is based in hating women. That was the genesis, and the ideology grew from that. Feminism is based on saying “We’d like women to get the same rights as men.” That’s why there are a ton of male feminists, because many men also want wome… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:39 PM |
| 5 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?I don’t meet a lot of people like that. I’ve lived in LA and NYC the past 12 yrs of my life. I meet women who just want to have equal rights and not be treated like a second class citizen. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:02 PM |
| 8 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?From adults. So random children in your school just expressing distain for how men treat them. Similar to how red pill boys are upset that women don’t like them because they don’t have a big jaw or something. That’s not feminist rhetoric. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:39 PM |
| 15 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?Kill all men? Lol where are you getting your feminist rhetoric from? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:24 PM |
| 16 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?Feminism literally just means equal rights for all genders. So if you don’t like that then you don’t like women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 20 | I disagree with the red pill community and disagree with the feminist. Where am I?You’re just a guy that doesn’t like red pill or women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:07 PM |
| 15 | A Contradiction Occurred to MeRed pillers just don’t think women are full humans. It’s a form of segregation. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 07:00 PM |
| 6 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?I thought you said women been equal? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:56 AM |
| 5 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Do you believe men and women should be completely equal in a relationship? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 09:31 AM |
| 10 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Thank you. I agree. He’s excellent. Have you checked out Hunter Avalon? I think he’s even better. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:59 AM |
| 10 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Hi Tank. Who said to put women before your own needs? And feminism just means equal rights for the sexes. But I get you’re doing your Myron Ganes routine or whatever. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 08:58 AM |
| 10 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Have you accounted for tradition in these studies? The fact that women have been not allowed to have jobs, vote, make decisions, until fairly recently? And the fact that as cultures (like the US) move towards equal gender rights, this all changes? What you’re doing is reciting what red pill videos told you… without considering the nuances to the studies they cite, and what context. Yes, in a place where women have little autonomy, of course they’d prefer a partner who has mucho autonomy. But as … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 06:08 AM |
| 8 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Really? Give me one point that is logical and factual. Let’s hash this out. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 04:52 AM |
| 6 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Of course. But you’re just making a vague statement. “Eating unhealthy will kill you.” There are a lot of subtleties. But Red Pill’s extreme exaggerations turned into absolute laws of life are much more harmful than any naïveté about their points. I just ask you to think more critically about red pill stuff you watch. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 04:43 AM |
| 12 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Fuck yes. What if everyday I told you the most horrible things going on in the world everyday? And told you because “it’s supposed to help you”. But with red pill.. it’s worse. Because most of the stuff they teach in red pill is literally false. So it’s telling you horrible shit just to get you angry and feel contempt. Red pill is made to handicap you. Happy, loving people are not watching red pill videos. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 04:29 AM |
| 9 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Not even. It’s best to ignore the harsh truths because they do nothing to benefit you. I’d rather someone be happy af and naive to anything. No ideas of high value, height, chads, money, etc. If men had no thoughts about any of that and just focused on being as happy, confident, and healthy as possible, and to focus on meeting someone who shares those values… you think it’d be worse than learning about red pill? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 04:17 AM |
| 3 | I have no female friends and it is unsatisfying?The thing that's made me the best with women is making friends with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 03:53 AM |
| 6 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?thank you for this 🙏🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 03:03 AM |
| 14 | My main beef with redpill is its illogical and emotionally driven "science"Have you heard of the term "bro science" before? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:45 AM |
| 20 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Hey! Red pill is 100% about hating women. Give me any positive advice from red pill that isn't already general life advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:08 AM |
| 12 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Hey! Just name one thing that is not general advice, that you think isn’t bad. Let’s talk about it! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:02 AM |
| 20 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Everything. Except the basic self help stuff they teach which is stuff you can find anywhere. Everything else will RUIN your dating life, confidence, and happiness. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 6 | What de-radicalized you from Red Pill?Plz tell me who this is? Link if possible. ❤️ | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 11:15 PM |
| 3 | For the love of god what is even the appeal of JustPearlyThingsOh of course! But come on bud… put on some glasses. This is classic tokenizing. It doesn’t take a scientist to see this. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 11:15 PM |
| 6 | For the love of god what is even the appeal of JustPearlyThingsHey Meister! Red pill is based in negativity. Any positive advice they have is the run-of-the-mill basic stuff that's been taught by self-help gurus for years. The only unique elements of Red Pill are negative biases. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 09:22 PM |
| 10 | For the love of god what is even the appeal of JustPearlyThingsFor conservatives, they take in anyone who is supporting their cause… especially if they’re the “token” character used to show diversity. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?So this question gets asked a lot. The answer is men are the ones that have been through it all and know what to do. Women say what they’d ideally like to happen, but that idea usually doesn’t match up to how it really works. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 04:14 PM |
| 0 | What would have changed your mind?Following | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Does being a virgin at 20 make you an incel by default?Fuck no. That’s still young. The thing about being young is it feels like whatever age you’re at is the most crucial age to be. When you get a bit older you realize how everybody is growing at different speeds in different areas. Also, your early years aren’t going to have the best sex anyway. Honestly don’t worry about this. I notice a lot of you guys who are leaving red pill still have a victim-mindset about dating that red pill definitely influenced. Now that you’re leaving the ideology, it’s… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?Oh then yeah it’s nothing to do with my stuff. I love waffles but I’m also I’m big on action. 😁 As a side note, I didn’t find Subtle Art all that good. I looked through it and found it basic. So maybe Models was similar? Never read. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?Hey! So really simply, PUA is mostly about power. What I teach is about love. So PUA is just about playing a game. It’s why they use that word so much. It’s not about women really. It’s more of a real-life video game that guys can compete in and brag if they succeed. In other words, if it’s not challenging, it’s not worth doing. Why? Because the goal is about feeling powerful over women, by any means possible. Conversely, I just love women and want to form better relationships with them. And the… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?Many women are attracted to shorter men. It’s just less common—as dating a tall man is more societally accepted as attractive, so women are following that. Also, even if not, there are plenty of short women 4’10-5’3 that would love to meet someone like you. Again, the height thing should be flushed from your mind. I’m not 5’3–but I am 5’8. And I know that a ton of women filtered me out because of my height. I literally care zero for something like this. I like my height and want to find people w… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?Hey! Dating Coach here. So, everyone has a handicap in dating somewhere. And at every level of “value” a person is, they are all dealing with their own respective relationship issues. Height is your thing. I have my things. But I don’t focus on my things. I simply go into communities that I enjoy, and find people I connect with. Then I express my interest in the ones I particularly like. Many won’t be interested. Then eventually I’ll find some that will. This is how dating has worked since the b… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateNo I’m not. I’m just saying things you don’t like. But you’re on this sub for a reason. So there are doubts that you have. My comments may not hit you now since you’re in defense mode, but hopefully a bit later on things will start clicking. 🙏🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateDude he literally dresses like neo and talks about the matrix all day one. Slevenn you gotta stop defending him with these silly arguments. It’s not helping anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateRed pill has been pedaling the same stuff for years. It only went viral when Tate utilized tiktok and affiliate marketing. Then, he plays a character as though a WWE wrestler and kids eat it up. No one else took it to that level before. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateBBC believes a court case will be in May. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateHi Slevenn! You’re back! The OP didn’t post here looking for advice because he hate-watches Tate. You’re purposely being silly here my dude. The remainder of what you said is just saying “he teaches stuff and is entertaining.” We all know that. That’s why you’re hooked. The issue here is that children can not discern between good and bad values. This is why we don’t give them the rights adults have. Especially for young people with parents who weren’t there for them and didn’t teach them good va… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateHi Slevenn, What you just said has nothing to do with what I said. You used a common tactic known as red herring. Who cares what the average time is? Andrew Tate isn’t average, he’s an infamous gangster who has committed multiple felonies (his words). So yes, he’ll be in jail for a while for the crimes he’s committed. And the prosecution is taking its time to gather all evidence before charges are made. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 06:58 AM |
| 8 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateHey Rage! What you said is false. Not all alleged victims stated that. Also, based on lawyers who have read about the case, as well as a BBC investigation, he will be in jail for many years. I just want you to consider the idea that a man that is constantly accused of something, that he himself admits to, where there are multiple victims speaking out, there is a small likelihood that it’s all fake and Andrew is innocent. This just doesn’t happen. There is no matrix. There is no world order tryin… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 02:27 AM |
| 13 | Am I red pilled if I watch Hamza and Andrew TateHey! Yes it does. The non-toxic advice they give out is very basic stuff all self help coaches teach. The difference between Tate and other coaches is Tate is an obvious psychopathic criminal with horrible values towards women, business, and people in general. If you just like it for the motivation, there are a ton of other motivational coaches. I suggest checking out David Goggins, Grant Cardone, or Gary Vaynerchuk. Because Tate markets to children, like yourself, he’s able to teach you stuff t… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 02:18 AM |
| 0 | What is the actual reason behind the huge gender disparity on dating apps? Why are close to 80% of major dating apps’ users men?Hey! A lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 11:46 PM |
| 6 | What is the actual reason behind the huge gender disparity on dating apps? Why are close to 80% of major dating apps’ users men?Hey! Dating coach here who’s been online dating since 15 yrs old. This is simple. Society’s old fashioned customs of having men pursue women is why. No, this has nothing to do with red pill faux- psychology/biology. The more we fall into conservative customs, the more this will happen. The more we stop slut-shaming women, and the less we objectify them when approaching and just staring from afar, the more welcome they’ll feel to strike up conversation with men and get purposeful about their own … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Now that you left redpill, what do you think was the real reason you were drawn to the ideology? No judgment.What parts of that drew you in? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Now that you left redpill, what do you think was the real reason you were drawn to the ideology? No judgment.Thank you. Did you ever feel anger towards women? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 07:19 PM |
| 29 | Glad I left the "manosphere" when I did (rant)I’m loving seeing the disillusioned men telling their stories here. This place is necessary. Thanks for sharing bud. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Are there any ‘universal laws’ to dating at all?Presence Purpose Health If you follow those three things you’ll be the happy, confident, attractive person you always wanted to be. Nothing really else matters. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 02:13 AM |
| 2 | My storyWhen you’re a kid, the way parents get you to do things is give you two options. One is a bad option and one is a good option. Who would ever pick the bad option in this scenario? The truth is among red pill, there are many different options, but learning to love women isn’t one of them. Being Blue Pilled is not what most people would prefer, as it is about neediness and delusion. But so is red pill, it’s just instead of being sad, you can now be angry and contempt. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 05:35 PM |
| 8 | My storyThank you for your story. Somehow you were able to get out it. I’m actually a dating coach (who isn’t into red pill). Can you tell me the moments you started realizing it wasn’t the right path for you, and what was the alternative? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Study uncovers a “particularly alarming” link between men’s feelings of personal deprivation and hostile sexismThis | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Study uncovers a “particularly alarming” link between men’s feelings of personal deprivation and hostile sexismThe question is… is the majority certain men who are just more likely to be less vulnerable which naturally causes sexism, or is it more because of society? Because I know a tonnnnnn of vulnerable men who aren’t sexist at all. How did they all seem to avoid this stuff? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 06:54 PM |
| 16 | 24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract FemalesAm I literally reading a post for men on how to pose for the fucking camera? | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 09:31 PM |
| 5 | How to Ask a Girl Out (Exact texts to use)There will always be shitty dating advice as there is always 16 yr olds who are info hungry. The older you get the less interested in this topic you are. The older you are the more mature and experienced you so they filter out idiot dating experts. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Best youtube channels on game?Wolfandgarden | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 01:23 PM |
| 0 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]It's 100% my channel. Thanks for helping me clarify. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]You're right. Maybe I should delete this post—I was wrong to post it here. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 01:46 AM |
| 8 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]Really? Do you think that storytelling has no place in seduction? Can you explain | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 01:30 AM |
| 9 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]Yes true. One can't tell a good story unless you look like a celebrity. I thought everyone on this forum were celebs? | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 01:11 AM |
| 5 | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]Yes agreed | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 11:56 PM |
| – | How to Tell A Story Like Matthew McConaughey — Classic Charm [VIDEO ESSAY]There's more video essays like this every week. You can subscribe to the channel at http://youtube.com/wolfandgarden | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt like not approaching simply because you realize that you haven't built/showed any value?Hey buddy I answered the question on video for ya... enjoy: https://youtu.be/weq1k046o3A | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsThis is so bad it's not even funny. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Feel nervous about approaching.I thought I could better express this through video: https://youtu.be/D0vBAXt65Jc Love ya! | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt like not approaching simply because you realize that you haven't built/showed any value?I'm going to send you a video response real soon. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I almost thought I was a pedo..Hahahahhaha LOVE this story. Great stuff! | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 01:02 AM |
| 2 | 9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women OffYah I agree I think that makes sense. Confidence relates to protection and that relates to her father protecting her and it all relates to Freud. It sounds like a joke but I really believe this, or at least hypothesize on this idea. Funny part is the guy explaining it looks like he'd be shy as shit in front of a hot woman. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 08:07 AM |
| 4 | [FR] How strong eye contact sealed the deal again.I'll answer this on video for you this week. Good question. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 07:42 AM |
| 28 | [FR] How strong eye contact sealed the deal again.Yes. It's very powerful. But the real reason she hooked up w you is cuz she liked you. You think eye contact magically changed her? It's you. The thing that you should think is magic is your confidence changing as well as your showing of attraction towards her. You simply became more confident and allowed her to feel sexy around you. She saw that as an invitation. Men, don't see this story as the magic trick that can seal the deal. You'll just have rapey-eyed fucks running around. Very strong ey… | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How much of this is really a numbers game? I feel like I'm approaching women in the wrong demographic.See? What'd I tell ya? RESPONSE: https://youtu.be/_cMm9iivhm8 | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 11:38 AM |
| -5 | Physical Escalation (With Example Exercises To Practise)Buddy stop! | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 08:29 PM |
| 16 | [VID] This has helped me THE MOST in learning to build sexual tension with womenYeah but isn't he just a bit creepy with those eyes haha | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Need help sexually escalatingI don't like writing so I made a video answering your question: https://youtu.be/iFHKTXlOI9M I'm a professional dating coach btw. Enjoy. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?They aren't good. Unless you love that life and it completely fits you. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?Of course it works. But it's like going on an episode of American Ninja Warrior just to get physically fit. Why all the craziness when you can do it so much easier in a regular fucking gym? The entire course is focused on WHAT WHERE AND HOW. It focuses 100% on process. You'll see. Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?Hey... use OkCupid it's easier. Use only two to three photos and have a wholesome profile mixed w a cheeky short message. I actually give a free OkCupid Ebook after you take my course: http://perfectdatinglife.com | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?Hey there buddy I answered this for you on video cuz it's easier for me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3hAhf9OI98 Enjoy. | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Why all the work? She initially already invited you to see her and instead of saying yes, you began playing with her head until she asked you to hang out again? Seems like she's a normal human being and you're an insecure manipulative kid. Why are you cool for prolonging hanging out with a girl that was already interested from the get go? | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 09:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm very attractive, but I lack confidence and struggle to keep up a casual conversation with girls (or anyone).I give a free coaching call to people who take this course: http://www.perfectdatinglife.com | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Help with Opening lines on dating site?I made a video answer for you here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0y9caKW1rY Btw, I'm a profeshh dating coach. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Does women feel difference if i am walking in front of her or behind her in narrow spaces?PLEASE don't focus on this. This is incredibly unimportant. | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 06:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm very attractive, but I lack confidence and struggle to keep up a casual conversation with girls (or anyone).I don't know enough about you. Can you send me a video of what you're like so I can give you advice? I'm a pro dating coach btw. | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How much of this is really a numbers game? I feel like I'm approaching women in the wrong demographic.I'm going to make a video for you on this. | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 06:41 AM |
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