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lol
/r/seduction19/02/20 06:45 PM
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Girls are more anti-social (like to communicate only with people they already know, or through none face-to-face communication) and more superficial (they are now more aware than ever of their beauty due to constant validation from hunks on tinder etc)
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:18 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNPGtceq9tA&feature=youtu.be
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:28 PM
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Younger ones are much easier. younger girls are much harder, tbh. I can pull older girls so easily in comparison. I think it's because young ones are SUPER aware of how hot they are, spending all day on insta getting hundreds of likes and messages per day from guys. Older ones don't live in that world and are way more receptive. Also young girls are typically way more superfical when it comes to looks, whereas older women care more about things like masculinity and 'game' etc
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:14 PM
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I honestly do think that for a lot of people, their results get worse (when trying to attract the hot YOUNG girls who tend to be the most desired) as they get older and less physically attractive/suitable etc - and then they exit the game Tyler bragged about his game getting better and better, but his most recent youtube vids where he went state to state (his last actual 'game' vids before he deleted all that stuff) he seemed to be getting rejected by the 18-25 girls on the whole and only gettin…
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:10 PM
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probably the youtube pranksters, tbh. Thatwasepic etc. Way more numbers with much hotter, younger girls than the PUA's running game on the low hanging fruit (tourists, girls in poor countries etc). Strangely enough it looks less cringey and awkward, too
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:46 PM
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'Advanced techniques' - so not just pushpull lines, teasing, disqualifying yourself as an option, qualification etc. Not the stuff taught by mystery and RSD and Todd etc But the real super powerful stuff that makes any girl want to bed you? 'Advanced technical game' Not sure - But maybe others here can help you
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:34 PM
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it's largely irrelevant. People get success by going indirect, direct, asking interview mode questions, making coldreads and routines, and every other variation of 'game' you can possibly think of There's almost nothing too it. 'Coaches' are charging people 10k for fresh air! It's madness. Reminds me of teh trading/forex industry where people who can't even make money trading are charging people 10k for some technical analysis course that doesn't work (if it did they woudln't need to sell course…
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:41 PM
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interesting. Cheers
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:16 PM
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Here's some advanced stuff for ya https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ&t=472s
/r/seduction24/01/20 08:57 PM
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probably a shit test / neg - she likes you!
/r/seduction23/01/20 01:21 PM
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prefer Ross Jeferies lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:43 PM
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Anyone got any new infields of someone trying to use the mysterymethod in todays world? Would be funny! post link if you kow of any
/r/seduction23/01/20 10:23 AM
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Paul Janka (handsome, tall professional PUA) had, I think he said, a 4% approach to lay ratio. Let that sink in lol Never give up, though! My first cold approach lay was with a stunning teenager who was WAY younger than me, and that was after like 250 rejections, mainly from girls nowhere near as hot as her.
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:32 PM
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UK is ROUGH for cold approach. Just gotta play the numbers game until you find a girl who, not only thinks you're hot, but is also one of the rare girls who is approachable/doesn't think that being cold approached is the weirdest thing in the world lol
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:18 PM
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you can't force attraction in a girl with 'game', tbh. That's why even the pros get rejected a tonne if you watch their 'uncut' infields The girls were probably just attracted to his good looking friend and not to him so there's nothing he could ahve done with the rejections (although he did kiss a girl so he was attractive enough too at least one girl)
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:14 PM
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I think the issue with this (and basically 99% of all 'game' techniques) is that they only 'work' when she is attracted to you. They can make her chase more, help you with escalation etc etc BUt if you approach a girl who ISN'T attracted to you, doing this like 'disqualification' (''i'm not sure about you'', ''me and you wouldnt get along'' bla bla bla) etc is just gonna make her think 'Errr...yeah, no shit this isn't gonna work between us. I don't think you're hot!!'' lol, and it just makes you…
/r/seduction20/01/20 03:58 PM
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I think the issue with this (and basically 99% of all 'game' techniques) is that they only 'work' when she is attracted to you. They can make her chase more, help you with escalation etc etc BUt if you approach a girl who ISN'T attracted to you, doing this like 'disqualification' (''i'm not sure about you'', ''me and you wouldnt get along'' bla bla bla) etc is just gonna make her think 'Errr...yeah, no shit this isn't gonna work between us. I don't think you're hot!!'' lol, and it just makes you…
/r/seduction20/01/20 03:57 PM
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nah, the wing got attention because of his good looks. He'd have got lots of attention if the was opening up girlsl and being loud and confident OR (as was the case) being aloof and quiet. This always happens on this sub. Handsome guy gets laid and whatever he done (whether it be being the 'joker' or being 'james bond') people always attribute that as the reason for his success and missing the blindingly obvious lol (the girl was just attracted to him)
/r/seduction09/01/20 03:58 PM
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That post is so on the money. I actually read a fairly similar post a while back by another pro gamer on his blog who, after years in the game came too a similar conclusion as the OP (but he used 'sexual tension' instead of 'flirting', but the idea was the same - that that's really where the 'game' is played, and that the 'attraction' part that everyone worries about is out of your control)
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:31 PM
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Me too! That post is so on the money. I actually read a fairly similar post a while back by another pro gamer on his blog who, after years in the game came too a similar conclusion (but he used 'sexual tension' instead of 'flirting', but the idea was the same - that the 'attraction' part that everyone worries about is out of your control)
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:30 PM
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nah, he's right tbh. Hall of fame post by the looks of it. Like Mark Manson says, you can only amplify existing attraction. YOu can't 'create' is where there is none Some 60 year old 4ft guy with no hair isn't gonna be banging hot teens from cold approach no matter how many times he negs her lol. She's not attracted. And there's fuck all he can do to make her sexually attracted.
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:03 PM
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Well if she isn't already somewhat attracted, you won't be able to 'seduce' her, so it's not like it's ALL your fault lol
/r/seduction07/01/20 08:31 AM
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agree
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:33 PM
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legit post! So much bullshit being peddled by 'coaches' and stuff. It's really pretty simple and everyone already has all the info they need. Go out and apply it (neg her. Or 'self asmuse', or use a few push-pull lines etc) and see for yourself if it works or not (hint: it works when she's into you, but no if she's not)
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:41 PM
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Normal. No matter how much you know about 'game' and how many PUA books you've read. If you're not her type or (and) she's just not that sort of social, friendly girl, you'll be talking too a brick wall until it eventually ends (she tells you she's not interested, or you are forced to self eject out of pure awkwardness)lol
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:51 PM
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this is what's up: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ef03lr/the_truth_about_the_numbers_game/?st=k4zhkxcv&sh=f8cefbcc
/r/seduction04/01/20 11:11 AM
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You're kind of right. If you have a brilliant life with money and a good social life and stuff, then you will have girls who make it easy for you. They'll kind of 'appear' in your life through your work/social club/friends group etc. They may or may no be the girls you want/find attractive, but yeah, just getting laid isn't necessarily that hard But with cold approach - (which is what this sub is mainly about) all of them methods are there because PUA's are trying to 'create' attraction where th…
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:08 PM
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misunderstanding, I guess. When you said there is no method and it was about your unique personality, I assumed you were one of the many posters who say 'game' is basically all about 'loving yourself', and being the best you etc etc (which kind of implies there's nothing too actually learn) I kind of disagree that people aren't trying to apply stuff, though. I read so so many FR's, even here, where someone is making tonnes of approaches following either the London Day game model, or mysterymetho…
/r/seduction29/12/19 09:57 PM
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There is no method. But when I teach guys, I'm not teaching them my style because my style is based on my personality. Because that's what I decided when I started learning this. I'm going to only enhance my personality, not follow some school like Mystery or rsd. So basically there's nothing to learn. No 'method' at all. Just basically 'be yourself' kind of thing
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:54 PM
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I this a real question? haaha - A supermodel with have attraction with like 95% of gilrs. An average looking guy will have attraction with like 20% (and he can't 'make' attraction by telling her a DHV story and negging her i'm afraid - no more than an ugly girl trying to 'game' you)
/r/seduction26/12/19 10:35 AM
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she cares very little about how much muscles we have in comparison, or how nice our hair is. A hot blonde comments on my hair and asks how it looks so good :)
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:31 PM
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I lost what looked like a sure set recently (cute young Russian girl), although I'm honestly not sure of the reason. People will have all kinds of pua reasons, but none of us are in her head so we'll never know Basically approached her in bar, kissed, built comfort, invite myself back and she agrees. It's basically ON. At one point on the walk back I forget her name (which I think was the reason personally, although PUA's give me different reasons like not sexualising the convo on the walk. Or s…
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:12 PM
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Remember that disqualifying (telling her that you aren't into her sexually) is the worst thing you can ever do according to HALF of 'experts' so take every PUA tip with a grain of salt lol
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:57 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6xSB73TuTY&list=LLKMgbcu5bCspbXERXhCdeYQ&index=2&t=178s
/r/seduction19/12/19 04:01 PM
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tried it a few times in varying doses on empty stomach. Doesn't seem to effect me.
/r/seduction19/12/19 12:57 PM
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Happens ALL.THE.TIME. Doesn't matter how 'good' you are. If she's not remotely interested in you (maybe you're not her type) OR/AND she just isn't a social person and thinks it's super strange when a stranger walks up and talks to her, the interaction will be very cringey. Just like that now infamous Todd V clip that is doing the rounds lol Don't know where you live but in the UK (outside of London due to the tourists etc) that Todd V clip looks like 95% of peoples sets. Luckily for him, it's ra…
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:03 AM
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I don't understand why, during that process, anyone would abandon their own core and replace it with a fucking flowchart lol I'm not saying it works, but the answer to your question is that, 'what if that really hot girl you like doesn't want to sleep with you?'. The idea is that with this 'flow chart' you can basically manipulate her into finding your attractive. And then you can bang her. Despite her being way too hot for you and finding you ugly thus not giving you a shot So you can be yourse…
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:23 PM
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Didn't watch it, but yes. The industry is 'mostly' built on a big scam. The idea you can force attraction in a girl with 'game'. It's not how it works. Game amplifies existing attraction. (as Mark Manson says) It can't 'create' it anymore than if a girl who you thought was ugly tried to 'game' you into wanting to bang her (by 'self amusing' or by using negs and dhv stories and routines or whatever) (ps - there are female PUA forums where girls tell each other things like ''guys don't care about …
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:11 PM
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I think if she thinks you're hot and you're like her physical type, then it can definitely increase the attraction when you become very sexual and playful
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:08 PM
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d have a similar conversation but tease her in it. Girl is interested/attracted you can't 'tease' a girl into being sexually attracted to you lol. Like Mark Manson says, you can't 'create attraction' - only amplify it
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:10 PM
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people realised that the techniques themselves (negging etc)didn't really work and you can't force attraction in a girl. She's either attracted or she's not. It's out of your control. Same as whether you think a girl is hot or not Game is about 'screening' and becoming more attractive in general through fashion/gym etc so that when you play the numbers game (by approaching lots) you're more likely to open a girl who is attracted to you. From that point, you don't really need to implement game te…
/r/seduction15/12/19 12:07 PM
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'Game' only works on 'yes girls' Some girl travelling the world looking for fun and adventure and 'discoering herself' is more likely to be a 'yes girl' (assuming you are her physical type)
/r/seduction14/12/19 05:53 PM
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I would have ejected out of this set immediately As he should have done! :) haha. Maybe he's learnt his lesson now His game is OK in my opinion. No better or worse than any other PUA i've seen. It's all the same stuff. They are all decent at closing girls that are attracted. (and of course none can pull 'no girls' lol). But that's cool. I know good looking dudes who sometimes fail to close due too a lack of 'game'. Some of his recent 'pulls' in the system look extremely dodgy to me tbh. e.g - He…
/r/seduction13/12/19 07:36 PM
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True. Always a good watch. Confirms what we all already know, though https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMTdjiHV2hY&feature=youtu.be
/r/seduction13/12/19 07:01 PM
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This is what happens when a PUA meets 'no girls'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMTdjiHV2hY&feature=youtu.be
/r/seduction13/12/19 07:00 PM
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Don't be a PUA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMTdjiHV2hY&feature=youtu.be Only people trying to sell courses and books believe that you can 'game' a girl who isn't attracted to you, into being attracted.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:56 PM
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cringing hard at Todd's lines. They all get rejected pretty much as much as anyone on seddit or any other guy though, tbh. Tusk does well, as is just fairly normal with his approach (not cramming in too much cheesy PUA stuff) but it's mainly because he looks like a tall, jacked male model lol
/r/seduction12/12/19 12:57 PM
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they're good numbers. Up there with pro daygamers. The deciding factor on whether the approach is a success or not is more to do with whether she is attracted to you (out of your control) and whether she is single and sociable (out of your control). It's a numbers game 25 dates from 300 approaches is about as good as the pro's. (with the exception of the handsome ones like James Tusk etc who obviously will get most girls numbers as he looks like a model lol) I think you could close more of them …
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:39 PM
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structured-game stuff out there requires you to act bizarre. I think that's what the OP is saying lol. I think with something like a 'neg'. It's kind of OK, but technical game theory suggests you do it at the open, before you have any rapport. That is suicide on the young, hot, entitled, loud UK girls lol. You're likely to just get told to fuck off. Even if it's a fairly mild neg (if done at the open and you're not her type) I'm not going to go up to a girl in Belfast and be all "you have blonde…
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:23 PM
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personality matters, but from a cold approach especially, if she's not into your looks, she'll either insta reject you or just not engage in convo properly and allow you to 'hook'
/r/seduction08/12/19 10:52 PM
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I'd say 8 in real life. 9 online
/r/seduction08/12/19 12:39 PM
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https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5519305/ Obviously both sexes care about looks the same amount! Where did this ridiculous theory come from? Mysterymethod or something lol??
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:00 AM
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https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:59 PM
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I'm skeptical of all these people online who have 'friends' who are hideous and bang 100 super models a year, but yeah. If he's killing it on tinder too, then he's very good looking despite balding. Tinder is 100% looks.
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:54 PM
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https://xkcd.com/1027/
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:23 PM
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This is a great question, but I fear you'll just get the usual 'love yourself' advice on seddit
/r/seduction28/11/19 12:29 PM
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I think you have a lot to learn from him lol, people always say that. Even with online dating. An ugly guy gets no matches and a handsome guy gets tonnes, and people are like 'try to learn from his profile! Looks at how in the pics he's wearing bright colours! Look at how he leaves his profile empty to look mysterious!'' etc Or ''Look at how he just wears black in the pics! Gives a badboy vibe. And look at how his profile is so long. Shows girls he puts in effort!!'' haha People try to find excu…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:54 AM
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I don't think there's anything that could have been done. One can't 'game' some girl with his magic words into finding him attractive and forgetting about the hot guy lol I had a similar situation when I was hitting on a girl but she just wanted to bang the handsome barman! haha. I gave up in the end and I think she gave him her number Game without physical attraction isn't gonna fly
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:50 AM
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The girl smoking at 6.30 nailed it. Method acting!! That's exactly how girls look at me when I know that I have solid attraction. Hard to explain what she's even doing different from everyone else, tbh!
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:37 AM
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You can get almost every book for free nowadays, but since you've got a credit lying around it's no big deal I guess (although i'd use it on someting that I couldn't find for free) Anything truly earth-shattering in it I've read maybe 60 PUA books and there's never been anything close to 'earth shattering' in any of them lol. Otherwise we'd all be out there banging every single hot girl we see using this secret knowledge and the world would turn on it's head :)
/r/seduction18/11/19 09:13 AM
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Self development now. Rather than learning how to approach girls, it's more about how to love yourself. Give yourself a cuddle each morning. Meditate. Smile at yourself in the mirror for 20 mins each day etc etc
/r/seduction17/11/19 11:58 AM
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negging is the worst thing you can do here lol - She'll literally tell you to fuck off and walk away haha (unless you are handsome as shit)
/r/seduction17/11/19 11:41 AM
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ive seen his vids. its not that he doesnt get rejected, its that he gets rejected less. even the best batters rarely hit a perfect season. you will NEVER resch a point where you get every girl you approach, its about turning 0 in 100 down to 1 in 50.... Yep. I agree even the best of them consider 1 in 5 great. I Promise nobody is getting even remotely close to that (with the exception of like handsome, very famous musicians etc) and in them cases, it sure as hell isn't their 'game' that is doing…
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:43 PM
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What does your attraction phase look like? Who's model/what type of things do you say? I've honestly never seen an infield or anything in person where someone 'flips' a girl from completely unattracted too sexually attracted. Give examples. Cheers
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:04 PM
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Nothing more you could have done. Good game. NEXT!!
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:45 PM
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She likes you but Or she doesn't and thus just barely speaks back hoping you'll take teh hint. I tend to know within about 2 seconds whether I have a shot or not nowadays lol
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:34 PM
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I think they have, tbh. So many FR's where guys go out and 'run game' (open, neg, false time constraint, disqualify her bla bla) and she isn't remotely attracted and it goes nowhere Or they follow a different 'model' with the same results (maybe direct or RSD self amusements style game etc) And sometimes they open a girl and she's into him after he says 'hi' and he bangs her and everyone pats him on the back lol The reason faith in game seems to be at an all time low is because people have reali…
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:10 PM
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I don't think Todd is anything special, tbh. I think he gets rejected as much as any of us, but cherry picks and edits to show his best interactions etc Also, this I saw earlier. Point 2 mentions todd: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dmvwif/take_infields_with_a_pinch_of_salt/
/r/seduction16/11/19 02:45 PM
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Move on to the next girl. She's not interested. It's a numbers game Unless you are VERY handsome, a HUGE percentage of the girls you open will fall into the 'no girl' category and no matter what 'game' you run and what you say, they will remain in that category. And thus will barely talk back to you so as not to encourage you
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:30 PM
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his words were '5 for 5' lol. But yeah, you'r right in that only idiots fall for it. His hit rate (and even his 'game') from what i've seen in infields is no better than any other guys, despite his claims. It's a strange industry!
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:16 AM
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Ditto
/r/seduction15/11/19 11:30 PM
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I don't know how some people managed to get the idea of seduction warped Because they read things like the mysterymethod who said you can attract ANY/EVERY girl lol
/r/seduction15/11/19 11:29 PM
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Show some examples/lines (things you say to MAKE a girl who isn't attracted to you, want you)
/r/seduction15/11/19 11:24 PM
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Mystery is the same as teh rest of us. Get's rejected by girls who don't think he's hot, and bangs the ones who do think he's hot. His 'game' was just nonsense to sell books. Most people realise that now which is why the community moved to 'natrual game' because they realised none of mysery's stuff actually worked on girls who weren't attracted to them lol.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:40 PM
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LMAO
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:35 PM
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yeah, read it years ago. (i've read pretty much every PUA book in existence lol)
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:22 PM
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Ewww... have you ever seen mysteries infields? lol. He's no better at this stuff than most of us on this sub lol.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:14 PM
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Just a way for people who don't have any qualifications to make lots of money. We can all do it. Start a course on how to meditate and 'love yourself' and make decent bank
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:31 PM
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/r/seduction07/11/19 04:12 PM
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Everything's free dude. Stop spamming to try to make a buck off other peoples work.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:40 PM
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Great FR. I like FR's in that simple layout. Reminds me of this dude: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bh9yzg/wednesday_frno_girls_and_a_yes_girl/ Secondly, even though you say you're a newbie, you basically have it nailed down. Don't seem to have much approach anxiety and it sounds like they were mainly just girls who weren't down and there's nothing you can do about that. You can't change their minds, tbh. 'Pros' get rejected all the time. The next test will be when you come across …
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:06 AM
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How strange that I happened to watch this video this morning, and then I see this thread. That shit always happens to me. Like a completely random scene from 'the simpsons' will pop into my head for no reason, and then that episode will come on later that night on the TV. Anyway, great clip. Kind of seems more relevant in the community now more than ever since the definition of 'game' seems to have morphed over the years into one much more of a 'numbers game' as opposed too a 'skill' where you c…
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:52 PM
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haha, dude, I wanna wing you on a night out! - I can so relate - in particular with the shit wings who talk bad about you as their way of showing some sort of value, but also the other stuff, too My personal strange sticking point is that if I meet a girl in a bar who i've already met before (maybe we flirted weeks back but it didn't go anywhere) I just have fuck all idea what to say and always have teh most stilted interactions. It's like i've got a loose 'model' for girls who I meet for the fi…
/r/seduction06/11/19 04:32 PM
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I feel like what you are asking for is how can you force attraction in some hot girl. In fact, that's kind of the old definition of the word 'seduce'. (nowadays people use the word 'seduce' to basically mean 'hit on a girl and tel her she's hot', or maybe 'escalating on an already receptive girl') Unfortauntely, it just isn't possible lol. And when you sit and think clearly for a second, you realise how dumb you'd have to be to believe that it was possible, and how the world might look different…
/r/seduction06/11/19 01:30 PM
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theory rarely translates into real life. I've learnt that despite reading every game book in existence, I basically need to teach myself and pretty much discard everything i've been taught lol. I feel like this is because 'game' closely depends on things like your location, culture, how good looking you are, your age, etc etc I'm not sure how much the tips and tricks that we 'learn' actually help, tbh IN the books, you might open a girl with 'who lies more, men or women?' and you start having th…
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:28 AM
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I don't think he's some PUA God at all and think he gets rejected as much as we do on seddit, tbh. But he's maybe one of the best of the youtube coaches I did find this thread interesting though, as I see the exact same shit!"! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dmvwif/take_infields_with_a_pinch_of_salt/ point '2' mentions Todd
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:58 AM
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Even though the answers you will on here are get are like ''Go and find out'', in my experience, I always know before hand and i'm basically never wrong. At night, the biggest clue is kind of how she is interacting with her friends. If she's not really talking to them and looking around the room, she's usually approachable. If she's engrossed with her friends or has a massive bitch face going on, she'll usually tell me ''Go away. You're not my type'' as soon as I say hi lol (not in a 'shit test'…
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:52 AM
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lol, not a bad idea. I have a really bad memory. It's not the first time something like that has happened! I'll never know if that WAS the reason for the 'rejection'/LMR, but I think there's a fair chance. She reacted kind of badly in that moment and wasn't at all impressed! Kind of hoping that iS the reason though tbh, otherwise i'll just be confused as to why that played out like that. (one 'expert' told me that I needed to sexualise the interaction more etc, and another 'expert' told me the e…
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:05 PM
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I tihnk that's kind of like the fallacy of the whole PUA thing. We can't actually force attraction in girls. It's kind of out of your hands, in the same way it is for women whether we are attracted to them or not.
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:08 PM
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I remembered that I forgot her name on the walk back to her place which i'm now thinking may have been the reason!! IN tersm of foreplay, my experience is always the same as you; i.e kissing and grabbing her ass etc always leads to sex. However, on this super unusual occasion, she wouldn't let me do ANYTHING with her once back at her place! I'm starting to think it was partly a Russian thing, amplified by me forgetting her damn name lol.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:28 AM
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Thanks. I had an embarrassing flashback which could potentially explain it: I forgot her name!! (I have a famously bad memory, and i'd had a few beers that night too) We were walking back to her place and she mentioned never having had a one night stand or anything like that, and shortly after she asked me if I knew her name and I didn't!! I joked around with her and stuff and made her laugh to try to recover the situation after that and used her unusual sounding name as an excuse etc, but in hi…
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:26 AM
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They went Self help - easier to tell nerdy people to meditate and get them to chant self help slogans and talk about happiness and business than it is to try to get some average looking guy laid with some 10/10 teenage cheerleader lol
/r/seduction31/10/19 07:39 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of guys write ‘field reports’ that were just a story about what happened along with. Instead, you need to make a point to actually focus on the things that you did that prevented you from getting the results you wanted Problem is that a lot of the time is IS 100% out of your control. SHe wasn't attracted to you. Nothing you say or do will force attraction in her. You're just not her type. She's not interested and doesn't wanna hear what you've got to say There's also lots of con…
/r/seduction31/10/19 07:36 PM
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Why do you want to hook up with him?
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:45 AM
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lol, yeah that was my guess! If she'd have said 'what makes me look interesting' and you said 'You look hot!', it wouldn't necessarily go down great! haha That's my issue with the popular/PUA 'interesting' opener. It seems to work better on American girls in fairness from what i've seen, but here in the UK, they tend to see right through that shit and treat it like a bad pickup line lol. I remember watching some James Tusk vids (of his students) and lots of the Brit girls (the ones who didn't im…
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:39 PM
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what made her look interesting?
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:23 PM
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lol, nope! (ps - before I get killed by the feminist neckbeards, I live in Europe. We have younger age of consent and not 'age gap' laws)
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:59 PM
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Thicker skin from literally thousands of rejections lol Also been able to get lucky and bang a few girls that are way out of my league (in terms of being half my age, and very attractive compared to me) I'm in the UK
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:14 AM
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I don't really think so, tbh. As long as they both have the balls to actually 'make a move', they should both get teh same result
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:13 AM
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Something similar happens to me from time to time. I know the outergame/techical guys won't agree, but I often find that actually 'running game' and doing/saying the things i'm told to do make me come across WORSE - And at times, I decide ''screw this! Game is a load of nonsense. You can't MAKE girls want you with game. I'm just gonna do and say whatever'' and that's actually when I tend to have my better sets lol. Break all the 'rules' but get better results
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:51 PM
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extreme plastic surgery! :) - Never know. Might get lucky and end up being a 9 like her!
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:40 AM
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Good to know that this dude: https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/images/ic/1376x774/p07hk21q.jpg Can walk into bar and bang all of these teenage cheerleaders if he knows about 'push pull'! Life is gooood!! https://i.pinimg.com/736x/c3/99/77/c39977b4cd6f278a87ef971d614d10f1.jpg
/r/seduction24/10/19 03:27 PM
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I'm just jealous you're handsome enough to match girls on tinder lol
/r/seduction23/10/19 08:22 AM
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pickup is a massive numbers and don't let any PUA coach trying to take your money, or flat out dreamer tell you otherwise! The top coaches like JulienRSD etc admitted to getting rejected 'all the time'. That really implies that 'game' is really just something that can help you seal the deal with girls that are already attracted to you. Girls that liked you when they saw you. It's not some magic where you can learn secret lines and psychological tricks and then bang any girl you want like some su…
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:17 PM
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If she's not responsive, you need to take the hint and eject. Easy in a bar or something. You're just like ''Ok, anyway. Have a good night'' and walk away If you're on a bus it's inevitably gonna be a little more awkward and you'll have to stew a bit in the silences, but it's not the end of the world. Get out your phone and pretend to text a friend! :)
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:23 PM
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It's kinda tough. People will tell you 'just say hi'. Thing is, that's just an opener (pre-opener?), not a conversation starter. So then, you just say things like, 'how are you?', 'what's your name?' etc, but if it doesn't go anywhere, people will say you asked boring questions (but it'd be weird to open a stranger with something like ''Hey, lets talk about sky-diving!!' haha) Only time strangers seem to have actual good convos if they are super into each other, basically. Or if teh environment …
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:12 PM
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true, but as far as i'm aware that's not illegal either? (filming someone in a public place without their consent).
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:51 AM
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Budapest was hella fun
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:45 PM
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the girls the Scottish PUA that got in trouble approached weren't underage in fairness.
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:28 PM
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Well, it really shouldn't come as a surprise. Would you want to have sex with a someone who you didn't think was hot? Neither do girls! There are exceptions - just as there are men who want a girl to be 'confident' and stuff and value that trait a lot. There's also the matter of personal taste. Even as an ugly guy, I've had certain hot girls who think i'm decent looking and who wanted to hook up in terms of getting laid from cold approach, of course looks matter. They're basically a pre-requisit…
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:23 PM
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techniques of seducing that would learn me how to get every girl Take a second and ask yourself if that sounds even remotely realistic. If that man existed, he'd be so famous for being some normal guy who's having sex with every top model and stunning actress lol That kind of marketing is like the average Joe who writes a book about how to make a billion on the stock market. He wouldn't give them secrets away if he was actually able to do it (he also wouldn't need the money from the book sales)
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:14 PM
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i act totally disinterested to the point that they don't like me anymore lol but people on this sub always say that women are like cats and teh more you ignore them etc, the more they chase. Also, I always see threads on here lke ''Why the more disinterested I act in a girl, the more she likes me?''. But yeah, the other half of seddit highly advocate always showing your intent Who knows what's correct lol
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:43 PM
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It' so weird because the material often says so much...so many words, but kind of nothing at the same time. It reminds me when i'd watch RSD vids on youtube, and Tyler would be talking for about an hour, and then the comments on the vid were like ''Soooo...you're saying to listen to what people tell you and then reply with your thoughts on what she said?!'' kind of thing lol. Since game has moved towards 'natural game' and there's really no 'rules' or techniques and 'scripts' that one has to use…
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:59 PM
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lol - such a good way of putting it. Is there any cure? I can read/learn something, but when anxiety kicks in, it goes out the window and I almost nie from my own cringe!! Last night for example, I open a girl and say 'how's your night going?''. I'm in the UK and she looks at me like I just told her I kill babies for fun. She then says 'fine' and half looks away. Now, I guess I need to plow here, but in the moment, I just froze (I guess in part due to her reaction) and looked at her and nodded l…
/r/seduction11/10/19 12:20 PM
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