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Fuck her off..
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 04:20 AM
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Its facts, when there us money and children involved
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 01:03 PM
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5 nights a fortnight isbt that bad man. 7 is 50/50 We are men its harder for us Keep a good relationship be a good dad You can build to 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 07:32 AM
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Offcourse, they need to make money from both of you. Its rediculus
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 06:11 AM
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How much women can change when the mask comes off, my ex wife is nothing even close to what i thought my wife was. She is a terrible selfish person. Only talking about money
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 05:22 AM
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You can do your best, but it takes two to tango, she will use the kids to hurt you, use you and break you. Thats what happened to me too. I was staying unhappily married for the kids and eventually she asked for divorce. I hate her for doing it to the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 05:21 AM
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Pawn it
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 05:56 AM
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Mine went to the psychologist (who i sent because i thought she was deppressed ) and came back wanting a divorce. Saying she has has 10 years of unrepairable damage from me and that i have been verbally abusing her and that i am toxic and a narcisist and the rest. Ontop of that she had a freshly divorced mum at school in her ear all day telling her that the grass is greener.. I cant freakin believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/26 11:07 AM
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Good one you for having the balls to do it. I stayed unhappily married she planned everything and took me to the cleaners. I should have left years ago
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/26 11:02 AM
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Im the same but 2 kids. Next week last week I hate her for doing it
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/26 05:10 AM
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Same here. I’m 40. We were together 14 years, married almost 10, with two kids, 7 and 9. She went to a psychologist and came back wanting a divorce. Now I see the kids twice a week, and after 8 weeks it’ll go up to three times. The one good thing is that I’ve gotten a lot fitter because of it. Truth is, I was unhappy in the marriage too, but I stayed because of the kids. So in a way, good on her for having the guts to do what I couldn’t. But it still hurts like hell. I had a routine. I knew I’d …
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 07:33 AM
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She was born when you got married with the stbxw it was meant to be hahahah
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 03:28 AM
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I want my wife to suffer i have so much anger towards her. I worked all my life to build a legacy for us and she is leaving with almost everything. Because i worked too much. I fukin hate her
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 01:53 AM
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Same, the whole routine of being all together
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 05:32 AM
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Bro relax, dont let her get under your skin.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 12:28 PM
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Did you understand what she said?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 12:26 PM
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Mine was cleaning the floor now. And said its better than cleaning childrens vomit. Something that you have never done. And you want 50/50 custody too. What a total bitch
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 11:34 AM
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Shes going to come after you one way or another.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 03:27 AM
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Man its hard but, you need to accept it an move on. Keep yourself busy. And when a negative thought comes stop it. Im about to move out soon she asked for a divorce in febuary. I know it isnt going to be essy but fuck her. Time to live your life too
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 10:56 AM
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Can i also dm you
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 05:07 AM
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Well done, it happens to us the younger ones too your a stud go with the flow dont be a pusi.. Enjoy life
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 09:00 PM
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I must have missed that part
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 02:34 AM
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Try marriage councling it might work for you guys and stay married , delete the past and build a better future.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 01:27 AM
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Ok so it finished. They want me to be a visitor dad for 6 weeks and see how we go What a joke. I want a structured plan that end to 50/50 This was vague 6 weeks monday and tuesday after school and sunday all day till 7:30 with no sleepovers What a fukin joke
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 05:02 AM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 02:30 AM
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If it was a chance to see my daughters more yes i would 100%
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 09:09 PM
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Try couple counceling.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 08:48 AM
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I would for my kids But it depends whats been said. My wife has said things that cant be forgoten or taken away now.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 06:55 AM
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Sorry i didbt unserstand
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 03:45 PM
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Everything is for our dayghters. Yes its around 100k rolexes etc
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 01:29 PM
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Are you in the US?
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 04:19 AM
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Thats what she is doing to me. I had no interest in doing it but she is being so unreasonable with everything. Everything she wants fair but fair for her.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 04:19 AM
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Its an amount between 60k and 100k
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 02:58 AM
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We are talking almost 100€
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 02:57 AM
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Be calm she will say stuff that wont make sense to you. Dont fall in the trap to argue. Its hard but suck it up and dont fall for it
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 11:29 AM
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Where do i find the community legal center.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:08 AM
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Thanks mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:00 AM
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Thanks mate.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:00 AM
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I get it. Im scared she might poison my girls
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 09:22 AM
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Keep a friendly relationship for the children thats my goal. I will suck my pride and try to pretend we are friends
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 09:18 AM
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Appreciate it mate, this is the kind of Aussie-specific insight I was after. Extra context: we’re not miles apart on income. She earns about $65k part-time and I’m around $100k, but she would earn more if she went full-time. We have two properties and both have basically the same debt attached. I’m not trying to leave her with nothing. I’ve even said I’d take the cheaper property and carry the debt with it. What I don’t think is fair is a setup where she walks away debt-free while I carry debt, …
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 09:17 AM
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Unbelievable. They turn into monsters man. Its crazy
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 09:08 AM
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My man!
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 07:57 AM
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Yeah exactly
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 03:25 AM
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I believe in most cases us men are mostly seen this way. You provide and she gets the credit. Dont let your ego overtake you You arent doing it for validation you are doing it for your children. F* her, she deep down knows that without you providing nothing would be possible. Once you turn that “tap” off and dont provide she will be doomed. Continue what you are doing for your kids. One day they will know your value. And appreciate everything. This is coming from an almost divorced dad that has …
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:35 AM
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Mate you dont have kids its like a break up just move on if she doesn’t want you. Try to fix is if it unrepairable big deal no kids no assets. Its all goibg to be fine
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 01:03 PM
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100% hahahahha telepathically!!!! Gold
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 10:26 AM
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Let her do whatever she wants. Its all reaction Once she realizes the mistake it will be too late. Mine is the same, she even said to me that she was too good for me.. meanwhile she is living in a paid off 2 million dolar house i left her…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 09:45 AM
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My wife was fine till a divorced b i tch latched on her and abd after that i was the abusive narcisist controling husband and it all webt sideways and she wants to live her best life Meanwhile all i was doing was providing and workibg hard so her and the kids have an easy life I wish i never met the stbxw She is going to end up with a paid off house and with money.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 05:08 AM
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Yes i know she has outside influence from a woman thay has a masters in psychology and destroyed her husband.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 08:44 PM
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100% plus is half price if she ends up getting half anyway…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 02:30 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 02:15 PM
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Even if i dont. She claimed ive been threatening her what a joke. I asked her to tell us infront of her dad once that i did and she couldnt answer.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 02:13 PM
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I have been telling her to support me with the bedtime routines but she just takes over once the kids say they want mum to out them to bed. She doesnt help with the situation.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:54 PM
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Man i am in total shock
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:53 PM
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I have a lawyer she was normal before today saying she wasnt everything to happen respectfully and whats best for the kids etc etc. But she uses the line that the kids wont cope with me. Insanity
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:51 PM
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Allot of information here. My lawyer made our parenting plan. Hers was a very simple one just stating that for 2 months ill be seeing the kids 3 times a week. We are in Australia not sure the laws are the same as the US. The firm i went with are known for sorting out stuff out of court. But she was a different oerson she also doesnt want to go to laywers but i have no choice i was terrified today by the aggression and lies.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:49 PM
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Im doing it gradual so she could agree because she says the kids wont cope with me because she has been putting them to bed every night. Now that i needed her help she has been sabotaging it. I am lost of words
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:41 PM
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She wanted mediation but before mediation i wanted her to do it infront of her unbiased dad. But she still lies so much like to convince them of something that i am not. Unbelievable stuff ive never in 15 yesrs seen this side of her before. It all started since she started seeing a psychologist
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:39 PM
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I told her to move out if she wants to and its that hard in the house. She claimed so many lies when i asked her to mention one thing ive done wrong she couldnt even answer.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:35 PM
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7 and 9
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:29 PM
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Yes for my daughters. But if i could have the same daughters with a more normal and understanding wife then no.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 08:29 AM
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Hahahahaha thats the best.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 03:57 AM
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Dont be so shallow and care about looks only.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 12:31 PM
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You need time man. Once the switch goes off you will he fine. You still live with hope. Forget about it
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 04:21 AM
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You are going to live the best days of your life soon Be patient, workout, cut any addictions if any (porn, alcohol, drugs) do long walks. Im seperating and these things have helped me realise the grass is greener…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 10:41 PM
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Ive already downloaded tinder and awaiting to get out of here and start the apps hahah 14 years together and out of the blue she isnt happy and wants a divorce Took me 2 months to accept it Now i cant wait!
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 08:57 PM
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Keep it under the radar
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 04:54 AM
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Youll be fine bro. Dont feel sorry for yourself Hit the gym, eat clean, cut addictions, life is good Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 01:19 PM
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Im almost divorced and ive come to peace with it. Im already excited i can get in tinder hahahahahah
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 12:20 AM
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An appraisal is different than a valuation
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 09:07 PM
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You get 5 valuations Knock off the highest and the lowest and average the middle 3
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 01:55 PM
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Yes youbdont understand how evil this friend is. Shespread a roumor at school that he has an afair with another mum totally embaraced him. The guy didnt have an afair, she pulled a knife at him and accused him of rapping her. He called the police twice on her because she was hitting their kids psuchopath. And my wife doesnt know all this and thinks she is the best friend she has ever met and she has a masters in psychology and has just totaly manipulated her. It is a sad story i cant believe my …
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 08:36 PM
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Yes she listens to her parents allot and what made me get suspicious is that she doesnt want to discuss infront of him and go straight to mediation and keep family out of it. When usually she listens to her parents like they are God
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 08:34 PM
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Even if we have a clear path with stages Example Stage 1 Weeks 1 3 stay with father sunday monday Stage 2 Weeks 4 6 sunday minday tuesday Stage 3 week7 10 sunday monday tuedday and every second saturday and so on?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 02:11 PM
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Nah she thinks because she puts them to bed that they wont cope. They are 7 and 9 girls. I know it will be hard for them. But she made the desision so she has to take the responsibilities
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 01:42 PM
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That because she puts them to bed, it will be hard for them in the beggining and to start softer and then move to 50 50 Back then i told her nah they will be fine. I do understand what she is saying but at the same time inneed guarantees. For example for 4 weeks i can have them 2 nights then 3 nights and then move to 3 nights and every second weekend. But this has to be signed so she doesnt screw me. If its signed how can she screw me?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 01:41 PM
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This was her mesage I dont have an issue working towards 50/50 however initially the kids wont cope with that
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 01:38 PM
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What do you mean? If we agree to gradually lean to 50 50 and sign it and organise it she can change it?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 01:29 PM
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Yes i agree she tried kicking me out probably thinkibg she will get more power over me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/26 05:08 AM
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No she is miles ahead with this to me it came like a shock and im still prossesing it. She has come to accept it so she has been planning it for a while. When i have had 2 3 weeks of it. In reality i would like us to be a family again and i understand everyone that will be saying it wont happen or she will do the same etc. But i cant imagine living without my kids 24/7 although she agreed to 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 11:47 PM
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Im already on that, ive hit the gym and dropped to 73 kilos from 90. Ive renewed my warddrope because if she is getting half im getting everything at half price at the moment hahah
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 11:45 PM
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We have a joint equity of x and the house we are living in if i leave it to her i get the other house with the debt plus keep my businesses untouched. I questioned the same but if she agrees to keep the house and leave me alone it should he a good outcome
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 11:44 PM
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