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anxiously_synonymous/r/askMRP18/08/19 05:32 AM
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anxiously_synonymous/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:42 AM
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Throughout that process, feelings ebbed and flowed between us, but at the end of the day she would never respect me fully because I took her back after sure slept with someone else. This is pretty much my exact scenario and thought process. Thanks
/r/askMRP19/08/19 08:13 PM
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You are not outcome independent. I'd be thankful for the lesson that only cost me a grand.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 08:01 PM
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and you're so attached to it that the thought of selling it so that someone else can drive it through the mud a few times and then scrap it for parts is just unthinkable for you. This is exactly right. Thanks for putting it into words.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:57 PM
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Goddammit. Did not like reading this one bit. Harsh but thanks.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:56 PM
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Here, I'll be as succinct as I can. Everything going great. Woman gonna woman. Find out this new info. Everything still seemingly going great. Don't wan't to burn it all down. But understand something HAS to change. What do?
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:53 PM
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I did. Yesterday. Today. And will again tomorrow. But thanks
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:43 PM
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This is an amazing analysis. Thanks so much for the spot-on advice!
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:42 PM
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Yes, is cad still around? u/redpillcad
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:40 PM
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why are you asking us what to do? Cause it came out of left field. A buddy of mine got me to go to the gym with him consistently about 4 years ago. It changed everything. Went from dad-bod everyman to attractive in shape guy. Took a long while to accept this new persona. But I have. That's why... this action by her, despite the disparity, is so jarring. She even says stuff like "when are you going to leave me" etc. That's why I felt all warm and fuzzy that despite my new appearance I had been al…
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:36 PM
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Yes! This is the kind of advice I thought I'd get in the RP sphere. I might be trying to have my cake and it eat too... but this definitely not a butt-hurt revenge thing. Just practical RP planning.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:30 PM
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Very tough to hear... but good advice nonetheless. Thanks
/r/askMRP19/08/19 07:27 PM
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Damn fine advice. Thank you!
/r/askMRP18/08/19 09:14 AM
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If someone steals my taurus in the driveway, but I've got a ferrari in the garage, what the fuck do I care?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 08:43 AM
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This is extremely insightful. Thanks
/r/askMRP18/08/19 08:39 AM
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That's the point. I get all the legal potentialities and unfaithfulness implications. And admittedly, some of the alpha chad stuff in the post is quite likely ego salve... But in the end, I just don't really care. I know she's crazy about me and won't leave. I know I am (was) a good captain... whoever's on-board. I would never get drunk as someone suggested and cry about "why don't you love me anymore" or anything silly like that. But if at all possible, (it may be delusional) I want to try and …
/r/askMRP18/08/19 07:56 AM
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Photos
/r/askMRP18/08/19 07:02 AM
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I know it sounds that way. I'm just trying to highlight the disparity in SMV. And trying to figure how could a person could not think about the possible consequences of their actions? Oh, also go fuck yourself.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:59 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate it.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:19 AM
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Good comment. Kind of came out of left field. Processing it all as like I said relationship is (was) good. Will think on this. Thank you.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:11 AM
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Ok, good advice. Thank you. I'm not looking to "play" anyone. Just trying to make the best of a bad situation.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:05 AM
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Do any of you have kids or extenuating circumstances that don't make it all that easy? How is this not being understood? Like obviously if it was just me it wouldn't even be a seconds thought?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:03 AM
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It's like a fish you keep in a 10k dollar specialty tank telling you they want to go live in the ocean. Like, alright, if you must, I suppose that will be fine. I can't control anyone's choices other than my own. I know I could fill the tank tomorrow and have new, exotic fish. But I still like and care for the one who thinks the ocean is gonna be fun. This isn't ego preservation or holding on to a Oneitis.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 05:58 AM
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No man, it really doesn't. I hold all the cards. It's like I hold a flush and she's got a pair and bluffing. The main thing is the kids (and even her) well-being long-term. Like I don't mind actually. Not cause I'm some fucking disgusting cuck or something, but because I know my life as a single man would actually not be all that bad. And know that if I'm (forced) to start considering options, I'm just looking at what would minimize the pain all around?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 05:46 AM
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Get a job in sales.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:12 AM
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You are way overthinking this. How can an early morning email from some random person in your supposed past put your whole life in such a state of flux? Go complete radio silent and forget about it.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:09 AM
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But it looks so much cooler to throw heavy weight around! Good stuff, thanks man
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:58 AM
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time under tension training Any TUT program you'd recommend?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 06:46 AM
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"Do what you need to do" is good. So is Op's "that's not how I feel". Going to remember that one. Hard to argue feelings after all.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 06:40 AM
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Your "study stuff I'm interested in" is a masquerading excuse for not wanting to buckle down and do the boring hard stuff at hand. Knock the shit out of that SAT. Not because it's important. But because you can. Listen to the audiobook "Deep Work" it's free on youtube.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:28 PM
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Grow the fuck up. Take yourself seriously. You're 18. The entire world lays before you. Your whole story sucks. Every single word of it. There is nothing standing in your way of "being the man you want to be" except for yourself and your decisions. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:05 PM
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You're thinking/acting logically... "remember when you said..." She operates moment to moment. And how she feels at any given time
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:54 AM
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Miracle Morning
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:51 AM
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Yep. He baited the hook well. This fish will bite later. Or it wont. Plenty more in the sea.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:49 AM
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Freedom is the power to chose your own chains. Grinding it out for a few years and then building a business sounds far better than being beholden to the whims of others.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:44 AM
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Outcome independence
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:49 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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