Hi fellow red pillers, the situation is the following: last weekend I was on a wedding of a friend of mine, where on my table was a girl which was a colleague of the bride and had come alone on the wedding, so we got seated next to each other for the night., introduced each other and talked for a while. I was telling stories about my last mountain trips to the whole table and she was interested as well. IMO she is HB7-HB8(she is 5 years older then me, but I dont care ofc), I didnt throw any compliments at all on her(there were also other guys talking to her but it was completely visible they are after her using AFC techniques, I laughed internally), I was negging her and trying to disqualify at first, so I felt she got teased, which was the main aim. There was a topic about mosquitos where I mentioned that only female mosquitos bite and this is a normal thing females to be bad. And she was hooked, asking what this should mean and so on. It is what it is.

Later there was dancing. I went to the bathroom and when coming back to the table(was my idea) she stopped me and dragged me into the dancing floor, so without thinking i jumped into it. She caught the bride's bouquet and took it to our table. Later I was out for a cigarette and when came back to the table the bouquet was placed on my chair, I asked immediately "Is this for me?" she:"not yet, you'll have to try harder". Anyway, the night continued a little bit more with dancing, eating and less talking. I was unable to isolate her, later 6 people(last standers of the wedding) went into a hotel room to continue drinking and talking there. As you can imagine the energy dropped a lot and in an hour we all went to sleep. Next day we all went home separately.

Two hours after I got home, I open my FB and see she has sent me a FB friend request. I accepted 5 hours later with no texting her, I wanted to tease her and see if she'll text(no result). After 24 hours I decided it's time. I started with "Hey, female mosquito :D", she:"i'll pretend I didnt read that", me:"i'll not pretend I didnt write it :D", 1-2 lines followed where she complained about work, and I told he my day was great, no work at all, home office, etc. Then she freezed the chat. I decided I dont give a fuck, she's playing. After a day and I half I texted her "The other day on the wedding I found you cool and I liked you. I want to check if I havent mistaken that. Today I can't but let's see each other tomorrow?" she:"I'm really busy this whole week with work, that's why I havent texted a lot I barely check my phone, I work until 10pm then get home and go to bed, but you havent mistaken, I am cool :D", my answer to this was "Ok, cool, blow me up when work lessens". And that's it. Last text from me was sent 2 days ago. Thing is that right now I don't have much options and I want her to text back, and I feel myself dependable on that which should not be. Good thing is, I realize that.