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Sure seems like you set up a strawman argument there, as the person you're responding to didn't say anything about where the focus should be, or that women should be criticised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 04:34 PM
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Ok, so leaving aside whether #2 is immoral in and of itself... How is that your main problem with the list? You think it's ridiculous and immoral to make a girl jealous, but not to: Consciously maintain options with other women Avoid saying "I'm sorry" even if you are actually guilty Be an asshole over being polite, if you can't see another option Your objection doesn't seem consistent at all. How is it immoral to make a woman jealous by flirting with other women, but not immoral to actually hav…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 06:20 AM
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I feel the same way at times. The idea that I'm building my case on, though, is that the most visible markers of consensus on Reddit are not really the best indicators of what people actually believe and understand about the community. What are some visible markers of consensus? Well: Upvotes Comments agreeing with people Endorsed contributors Field reports referencing certain ideas Constant reminders of AWALT Etc. So from these markers, we might tend to form a view that TRP... well, has a certa…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 04:55 PM
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TRP contains a lot of wisdom, in my mind, and it's only somewhat from the social dynamics discussed here Surprisingly for a community that advises being massively, even unjustifiably confident... TRP has a pretty solid sense of humility about it. The rules actively prohibit moralising, and the posting guidelines tell you to make specific cases ("Strategy X can help with Y") instead of imperatives ("Stop doing X"). So what you get here is a whole bunch of people treating this forum as a toolkit t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 03:05 PM
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Man I first ran into CH maybe... 8 years ago? Idk exactly but a long time ago I kinda grew out of the whole PUA blog thing, went out, lived life, only happened to stay in touch with TRP through Reddit which I was using anyway... Checked back into CH for the first time in years, just the other day... And holy shit did his blog radicalise him Now you can barely go a post without seeing references to our "Globohomo culture" and betas swallowing Allah jizz and... I think Obama is called homomulatto …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 02:45 PM
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Just a heads up - all the squats and deads here will certainly give you a pretty good butt, but I don't think they're a complete solution... just because the force is always being applied forward/backward in a single plane, and you don't really have any side work. I got pretty solid at squats and deads, and I have a LARGE butt that pokes out backwards (and yeah I do get compliments), but it's not nice and round and bubbled at the sides like a really fantastic butt would have. If I had more space…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:09 PM
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If you committed verbally and are a man of your word you should not cheat to begin with. So after the deed is done, everything is fair game. What? So if you're trying to be a moral person and say you won't steal from the store you work at once it's unattended... and then you get tempted and steal a candy bar... you're gonna think "the deed is done, everything is fair game now" and keep on doing bad shit? Obviously if he's trying to be a man of his word he shouldn't have cheated in the first plac…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:22 AM
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Gets the point across though Act like you're a sex offender with ADHD?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:04 PM
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Next time you give her shit. Tease her for going up to a 40 year old dude. Throw her off gaurd. Walk up, high five the guy. Then go up to some random woman and whisper to her she looks hot. Then saunter to the bathroom. Make this bitch's hamster spin. When you return, pull her close, and whisper 'after I fuck you, remind me to take a shower. I only like 40 year old vibes when it's one of my milf's'. This is the weirdest TRP internet fantasy I've read yet lmao
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:35 PM
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Ive met a few longer term gf's on tinder. Of course you have, nobody is- Oh you mean your own long term girlfriends Oh
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:28 PM
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No, because nobody makes idiotic statements like: If what you are doing is not filling up your stomach, then what you are doing is not valuable or important, no matter how much you want it to be. Food is great, but someone who claims that therefore makes basically everything else worthless would be an idiot. The OP is quite literally saying (multiple times over) that if something doesn't make you friends, get you laid, or make you money, then it's worthless. All those things are great but it's a…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:06 PM
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Exercise is important because it lengthens your life and increases your sexual appeal. Can you explain how this isn't still just putting pussy on a pedestal? Things aren't important to me because they help me get women, and I don't structure my life around those things. Things are important to me because they make me happy. They are INTRINSICALLY valuable for that reason, whether you agree or not.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 03:44 PM
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One of the more difficult truths for a man to accept is that you are not important. The things that are important and valuable to you are not important. You thinking that something is important doesn’t make it important. You aren’t in control of the world. The world is in control of you. You don’t decide what’s important – other people decide what’s important. If what you are doing is not working – nobody is having sex with you or being your friend or giving you money – then what you are doing i…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 08:04 AM
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I can't improve my looks and get physically attractive because I have no money. Look up bodyweight exercise guys on YouTube. They have more muscle than you and are leaner than you. Bodyweight exercise is free and can usually be done at home, with chinups really being the only thing you need a sturdy bar for, and that should be at a nearby park. You can improve your skin by taking cold showers (saves money too) and eating healthier (unless you're literally just eating spaghetti already, you can p…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:56 AM
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Above all, come across as relaxed. Being around lots of women is normal to you, you're not the type of guy to put on an act or try to show anything off. Just chill out first, and adopt useful behaviours second. Women love polarisation. If you have a dissenting opinion, share it! If you have a cocky joke to make to someone about a lecture slide, share it! As long as you do so good naturedly and because YOU enjoy it, not because you're trying to show off, it will come across fine. Girls will likel…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:28 PM
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"Spinning plates" generally refers to men who haven't given a promise of monogamy to any of the women he's involved with. If he's promised monogamy to you, and your'e worried about him violating that promise, that's kinda different. If he otherwise actively demonstrates integrity in other parts of his life, you're likely good, but there's no way to be sure. Successful open relationships, where you know about his / her other partner(s) and are comfortable with it or are possibly even involved as …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 10:21 AM
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Minions
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:25 AM
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Talking about marriage and children before even locking in to be a girlfriend is about as surefire a method of scaring off a good guy as you get lol. Don't listen to this advice please OP.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 02:14 PM
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That's fine dude, I'm often too long for girls and I'm 16.5 usually. Doggy, cowgirl, prone bone, missionary with two pillows under her ass and legs over your shoulders are all good ways to go deeper
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:45 AM
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Just play to your strengths. Bigger guys can give her a 'fuller' feeling in standard positions like missionary, but will often hurt the girl in other positions (doggy, cowgirl, missionary with her legs over your shoulders and her folded up real tight, etc.). You can use those positions to give her a similarly full feeling without having to restrain yourself as much. Bigger guys need more warmup time, need to insert slowly, etc. Not saying to skip foreplay by any means, but you're more able to ex…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:13 PM
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Her ordering you to change their diapers isn't great, so it's good you recognised not to just immediately comply / take orders. However, smirking and laughing at a request to help with parenting duties probably isn't the best move either. Better responses that hold frame while also doing your job as a dad: "Babe I am reading the best chapter of my life right now, I swear - you change them tonight, and I will change them tomorrow morning instead for you." This works because you have established a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/18 02:35 AM
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Eh I've had depression and psychosis and the fastest path for me to happiness again was leaning on others for support while I rebuilt My sex life is also the best it's ever been so I don't really have any concern that it's damaging my prospects with women I hope you learn how to express emotions while maintaining strong frame because it's very liberating :)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 09:10 AM
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This is probably the surest path to depression besides child abuse
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:56 AM
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You can be as big as you want. If you don't know how to fight, you're the one at the disadvantage. This is simultaneously true and such a terrible, cherrypicked argument. Here are a few possible matchups for a small guy, and what happens: OPPONENTS Big guy who can fight Big guy who can't fight Small guy who can fight Big guy probably wins Toss-up Small guy who can't fight Borderline murder Big guy probably wins Yeah, okay, if we're talking about a shorter MMA fighter and a big guy who's just thr…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:50 AM
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I generally agree with the point, but I think it's funny that literally the only rule of this sub over there in the sidebar is that posts must be requests for advice or clarification... ("It's called askTRP, not tellTRP.") ... which means you didn't read the sidebar yourself.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 01:31 PM
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There is also a ton of direct carryover to other aspects of life, e.g.: Learning abundance mentality and to create new opportunities for yourself instead of tunnel-visioning on one and getting desperate about making it work is essential to any kind of long term professional success Learning how to set a strong frame and stick to it in conversations is just as essential for interacting with men, or people of any gender in a professional context, or with a demanding family, etc. Learning how to be…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 06:25 AM
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If your LTRs have required that much work then you're doing something horribly wrong
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:56 PM
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You didn't answer the question. Why would you change if you're still making good progress?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:07 PM
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You're making progress on your current program. Why are you asking how to change it?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:15 PM
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The most important part of getting in shape is consistency. 7 small workouts a week will give you much better results than 3 large workouts a week. This has been proven in multiple studies. Sorry to be blunt, but this is an outright falsehood, and you can look at literally any professional athlete's training regimen to see evidence of this. All successful athletes structure their training around strenuous sessions, with dedicated time off for recovery.* Could you please link some of those studie…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:33 PM
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You don't need to view everything through a TRP lens mate. Women are people too and can have desires, ambitions, needs for self-actualisation. It sounds like she really does just want to be productive and have a project of her own. Being productive on things YOU care about so YOU don't get stressed out simply might not fill that need. How would you feel if she asked you to cut your work down so you could spend an extra day per week at home doing chores and helping with the kids? You're still bei…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:42 AM
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Up to you man. All the answers you want to those claims are in the SS book / wiki. I don't think you're really in a position to know what is a good program if your current one clearly isn't working and you don't know why, but I have no horse in this race eh I ran SS / SL and looked great at 85kg with a 200kg deadlift, eating whatever I wanted.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:24 AM
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You should aim to follow a strength program like SS or SL and eat the 3,000 or so calories a day that will help you make great gains on it. You will naturally recomp through that process as the added muscle will require more calories to maintain anyway.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:56 AM
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I didn't say you'd look bad. I said you'd be skinny and you'd inevitably bulk again because you'd want muscle
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:15 AM
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"I'm lifting weights but eating less than the average calorie intake for sedentary people, why aren't I seeing results?" Cutting weight with your numbers (which are novice level) is pointless. You'd just end up incredibly skinny, bulk back up to actually gain some muscle, and then want to cut again regardless. Following a strength program requires that you eat enough food, and the right foods, to gain strength. Doesn't sound at all like you're doing that.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:50 PM
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Yeah, he's saying it's a dumb idea. i.e. he disagrees with you
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:05 AM
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If it's a very vulnerable situation for her, it can be a bit harsh to cockily respond with something like "I know". There's no need to make her feel bad. I'd think about what your feelings are for her and respond with a positive comment that still doesn't say "love". Something like "I really enjoy my time with you" will communicate that you don't love her (or you WOULD have used that word) but is a gentle way to let her down.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:06 AM
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Christian Bale has his shit together Yeahhh not sure about that one hey
/r/askTRP29/04/18 11:53 AM
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Humans are shallow. If you had a formerly ugly female friend who showed up to a party unexpectedly fit and in a tight dress, I can 99% guarantee you'd find yourself treating her better too. It's just the way of life and biology.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:27 AM
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trying to turn her into a plate somehow, maybe by texting something like „you‘re gonna have to pay me back for that“ lmao this sounds like the start of a bad porn plot
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:43 AM
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At the end of the day, that bloke's doing sets of 315 with the girl he's dating / sleeping with / whatever, while you're overanalysing his life and workout routine on an internet forum. Who's the winner?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 06:35 AM
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It's awful advice. First, your comment was about "how big can I get?", implying your goal is mass. Two gallons of milk is gonna weigh about 8kg, which isn't going to let you work effectively in any kind of rep range useful for hypertrophy (let's call it under 25 reps per set) once you get even moderately fit. Yes, unbalanced loads are harder to lift than a barbell. No, an 8kg unbalanced load is still not enough to gain mass. In fact, as you're 60kg+, doing a pushup (which might lift... 60% of yo…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:26 AM
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I came in there 6 fucking times before then. 6 fucking teeth drilled deep in total. 6 times where she could've asked me anything. She didn't, we only talked about my teeth, she even initiated the conversation one or two times herself, asking questions only about my teeth. Then, on the final, 7th appointment, after I say "Finally, the last one today doc!" she asks me whether I'm a student or I have job. This literally does not mean a thing. A huge problem in online material about attracting women…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:12 AM
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If you like her and she's handling it, go for it. I have an extremely fulfilling relationship with similar circumstances.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:36 AM
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I didn't say you didn't provide the other 50% of pleasure. I said to remember it so that you don't place too much emphasis on the erection quality in the moment.
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:43 PM
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You'll just develop a psychological dependence on viagra instead. Just celebrate your successes ("I kept it up for 2 solid mins this time and it was great!"), remember that sex is like 50% foreplay, oral, fingers, dirty talk, etc. as well, and try to keep your confidence if you do lose your erection. Learning how to look down at your dick, back at her, grin and say "it's nervous cause you're so fucking hot" or some shit, then immediately go down on her instead is a great skill. She likely won't …
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:16 PM
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I'm special because I thought r/relationships was wrong to chide OP, or...?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:21 AM
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Mate your reading comprehension isn't crash hot, hey I was pointing out that even if r/relationships were correct that he wasn't justified in feeling this way (go check out the thread he mentioned), it still wouldn't justify staying with her. I did not express any belief about whether his feelings were justified or not.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:03 AM
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Without giving you an actual speech, you might explain: You were and are deeply in love with her You got engaged to her with genuine intention of marrying Since then, you have reconsidered your views on marriage and do not think you could go through with it You know that this will hurt her and there is no way around it, but you are deeply saddened by that You do not think that a relationship after a marriage cancellation would stand a good chance of recovery, so you would prefer to end the relat…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:27 AM
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She doesn't know I know, but this is extremely hard to keep to myself. When I saw her again I just acted like I wasn't feeling great and went to bed. I don't know what to do guys! This has completely changed my perception of her. I'm legitimately grossed out by the thought of having sex with her, and I've even had thoughts of calling off the engagement. I think the key point that those in r/relationships were missing is that, at this stage, it does not matter whether you are justified in feeling…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:17 AM
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I'm talking about the OPs girl man, I'm not sure what your girlfriend has to do with anything tbh
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:00 PM
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Ye, that's what I'm getting at. Just as you enforce boundaries on it, it's fully possible she's doing the same. Not enough info to tell if she's hiding something or just expects privacy, IMO.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:39 PM
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However, I'm just confused on why she doesn't let me see her phone. Me being curious, I want to know now.... what could she possibly be hiding and how do I deal w it? Would you let a girl go through all your messages? Some people just value privacy and think wanting to read every message etc. (or gaining that ability) is controlling. It's POSSIBLE she's hiding something, but it's also possible she's just super annoyed at how needy you're being. Hard to say.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:40 PM
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the more dopamine you access the less you have later on if you use it too much This is the stupidest shit I've read all day
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:12 PM
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Not sure what you mean either! I don't think the OP's post improves anyone's life or happiness.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 03:38 PM
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Again, look at your phrasing, man. You're getting angry / emotional at people on an internet forum. Ain't good. (Ain't even TRP, as far as holding frame goes.)
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 12:57 PM
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I think he was being sarcastic :)
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 12:50 PM
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I could care less if she offed herself. Remember that people come here to try to improve their lives and find happiness (in their dating, relationships, control over social circles, etc.). Ask yourself if interpreting the philosophy in a way that makes you completely apathetic to the suicide of someone you knew is a path to that happiness. Sure, you might not be feeling sadness now, as a result, but that same attitude is going to foster a whole lot of disconnect from other people in the long run…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 12:49 PM
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What makes your points hard to implement is the dramatic shortage of fairly mature women. IMO, severe lack of fairly mature men, too.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:40 PM
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It'll work to get girls. I don't see it working to also produce consistent, really genuinely happy and healthy relationships. All I can say is that it is possible to build enough status and solid frame where you can be a really genuinely fucking nice dude AND still be super attractive, and I think that's the best place to be in. Gets you out of the mindset of playing tactical games to keep her interested and lets you just stay in the moment more. Take it for what it's worth my dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:59 PM
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Not always. If you have already established a pretty rock solid frame, compliments can actively help you get closer with a girl. If you're heavily flirting with her, for example, "you're so fucking sexy" said with real intent and eye contact is a great way to ramp up the intimacy of the moment. Similarly, if she's being genuinely cool and a good conversational partner, "I like that you're so nice" said with authority and firmness is a good way to establish a bond and comfort and recognise that y…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 03:06 PM
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(not the one who downvoted you) I would've agreed in isolation, but his entire convo is full of overinvestment and emojis and shit. If he's willing to drive that far for sex, I have a hard time believing he doesn't genuinely think it would be wild to have sex on the first date.
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:42 AM
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she was uncomfortable about the idea of me driving so far Would she be uncomfortable with Brad Pitt driving to see her?
/r/seduction21/03/18 08:45 AM
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So firstly, this is not sexual subcommunication... at all. This is about as direct as flirting gets. Second, you come across extremely invested in this person (blurting out about sex when it wasn't mentioned, tons of typing + emojis, willing to drive ages to see her, trying to prove yourself too hard). This isn't just expressing interest; you actively come across desperate. On a related note, calling her 'wild' simply for saying sex isn't off the table indicates that you're not used to women bei…
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:05 AM
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... the most upvoted comments on the thread agree with him, sounds like his opinion is in the majority to me
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:37 AM
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It is not a contradiction to say that while someone might not deserve kindness from you, you can do some good in the world by showing kindness to them. People can still benefit from things they don't deserve. You seem like a fairly angry person with a lot of pent up resentment and a need to get even. I hope you find some solace.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:29 AM
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Man, her dad killed herself on Fathers Day and she's seemingly alone to deal with the grief. If there's ever a day to break your personal rules about not rewarding cries for attention, this it probably it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:03 AM
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He may dislike her and never want to be with her again, but still want her to be mentally okay on a very tough day for her. A few kind words here could accomplish that. You'd have to ask him, though.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:02 AM
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She doesn't deserve compassion from him. That doesn't mean that he can't do some good in the world by showing compassion here. If your frame is so weak that a few kind texts to someone on the day their dad died constitutes "kowtowing" to them, then you have more work to do, IMO. If you can't see how a balance could be struck, you're too vulnerable to being ensnared in conversations once started.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:00 AM
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As I understand it, this sub is deliberately amoral - it discusses sexual dynamics in an attempt to help people understand the world. It makes no prescriptions on what you should want, or what you should use the information for. Here, we're not just discussing the usual questions (how to get women interested, how to manage relationships, etc.). We're discussing a more fundamental issue - whether OP should show kindness to someone he personally does not want in his life. Maybe being a compassiona…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:19 PM
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No. You can be firm that you are never getting back together, while still lending some compassion and cheering up her otherwise extremely dark day. Think about how much harm it would do you to continue the conversation (very little, if you're firm enough in your beliefs and actions) versus how much good it could possibly do this girl. She could very well be living in complete mental torture (I do not use that word liberally, here) right now, and you could help. You can simultaneously believe tha…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:44 PM
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I'm not disputing that GPS could exist if there was a flat earth. I'm saying the calculations that it uses are pretty much publicly available and testable (for those with math education), and have been used by many independent states and countries with no serious dispute. His response is untrue, that's all. I'd also point out that a satellite is essentially just a very high altitude drone...
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 08:55 AM
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I would assume he's being downvoted for the implication that the other theories (Government indoctrination centers, Big Pharma, and the incoming Economic collapse) are more reasonable, not the implication that Flat Earth is unreasonable.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:49 AM
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How can we be moving through the infinite universe with everything exploding outward and still see the same stars for tens of thousands of years? Because the expansion of the universe isn't as fast as you think it is, relative to the size of our solar system etc. Regardless, stars do change position over the years, e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Point_of_Aries. I don’t think the ancients were as dumb as to think something true if it had no credence. And yet you think virtually every pe…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 04:03 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_GPS_satellites
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:53 PM
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It’s not hard to keep a lie a secret when no one even cares. Would be pretty hard when so much technology depends on the curvature of the Earth (e.g. GPS) and has been independently built and verified.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:35 PM
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"Orbiters" is a useful term to help guys understand that they're creepily hanging out for women to fuck them, but it's not the totality of the human experience I have a ton of female friends who I'm not attracted to / out of their league and it's still a perfectly fun, friendly relationship that adds value to my life. If you aren't at that point where you can chill out with girls without seeing everything through a PUA framework, then you still have some work to do, IMO But maybe that's just me …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 07:03 AM
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Guess it proves it ain't a waste of time, as you said :) It's just good to have friends no matter the gender (and no matter their race, ideology, political beliefs, etc.). If you're having fun with people then I'd say that's a pretty good use of your life
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:43 AM
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It's pretty rich to call other people spergs when you don't see any value in having female friends... If you can't hang out with a girl you're not having sex with and still have fun, you're either not attracting the right people into your life or you just aren't very good at having fun yourself Up to you tho dude
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:03 AM
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For the future if a woman ever wants to take a break, break up. If someone ever wants to take a break, you are automatically on a break in practice — it's just a question of whether you acknowledge it or not.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:40 AM
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You will want to look at these other women, even for just a glance. But this is literally the worst thing you can do because she will resent you for it. No, the worst thing you can do is stifle who you are to attempt to attract a girl. It's dishonest and will bubble up in the long run. My girlfriend and I check out other girls together all the time, and she recognises that having your eye drawn to attractive people is just part of being human (male or female). This is actively bad advice for men…
/r/seduction10/02/18 03:43 PM
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Arguably the exact opposite — wealthy people are quite likely to feel disconnected from their lavish lifestyle and want something to shake it up.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:48 AM
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Sure, I can agree to that! Congrats dude, I apologise if I came across as undermining that progress at any point! I think I started at around 130lbish (didn't really weigh) too, I know how it feels to make that big a leap. Keep at it man, well done
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:27 AM
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Yeah fair dude, I forgot (got one hour sleep) Still though man, idk how else to break it to you, but you weren't big at 150lb. If people stepped around you, it'd be because of your body posture / refusal to step aside yourself / etc., but even world class powerlifters don't look 'big' at 150. I'm of a medium build at 190 and still get dwarfed by rugby players etc. at my gym
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 12:22 AM
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Alright, post a timestamped pic up with a tape measure round your bicep. Hell, even a mirror shot with no tape measure. I'm keen to see what "big arms and chest" look like at 150lb
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:47 PM
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Yeah dude that's not how self-knowledge works sorry. You by definition cannot really know the odds that you hold a belief erroneously, because if you did, you would have already adjusted that belief accordingly. This is like hearing religious people say "the odds of god not existing are zero because I know he does". Just bad logic and it's not gonna persuade anyone here
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:46 PM
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The chances of you tracking incorrectly are substantially higher than the chances of you being such an outlier that you can only gain weight at 3,500 kcal a day.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:03 PM
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You probably do need to be bigger than average, though, and 150lb is not heavier than average. You also don't have a big chest or big arms at 150lb — I'll guarantee that much. I'm spot on 190 and I don't have a particularly big chest or big arms.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:02 PM
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Advice given here is usually too far in the opposite direction of societal perceptions of "what makes an attractive man". The purpose is not to have you conform 100% — indeed, if you think that way, you have largely missed the point of deciding what works based on empirical observation rather than societal pressure — but to serve as useful provocation. In the same way, you do not actually have to be a mysterious robot to attract women. Indeed, you can actually get better results by opening up at…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:21 PM
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As an outsider who has no stake in this, you’re definitely coming off as naive and defensive. Consider his words again in clearer mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:11 AM
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The answer to both these questions is very situational. Is this a good position to be in or not? If you have any need to demonstrate value to her, this is probably good. It shows that you have other friends, potentially other girls interested in you, and generally have a life outside the relationship. On the other hand, if she is interested in other men, she might take this as an excuse to ramp up her interaction with them (thinking that you're doing it too), and place less stock in the relation…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:28 AM
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The whole post reeks of someone who has either: Lifted for 1-3 months and now thinks they are a fitness guru, or Lifted casually for a long time but has made New Year's Resolutions to finally take it 'seriously', and is acting as though this small act of discipline has guaranteed the entire year of success Either way, it just reads like very typical new-gym-rat-narcissism and self-aggrandization. I'm sorry, but you aren't tough just because you drove 45 minutes in the rain to get to gym. You are…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:05 AM
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Okay, sure, but his point that this is not little time investment (as claimed) still stands.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:43 AM
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How much can you squat, then?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:49 AM
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Perhaps then, true understanding of AWALT is more than just "you do not expect her to stay faithful" but the continuous understanding that you do not expect her to give her best self and its always dwindling effort unless you actively push back against it This only indicates her perception of your value is dropping, and that you have more work to do on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 11:20 AM
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"If you can't be a billionaire, what's the point in working a 100k job?"
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:38 AM
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I was only refuting the "all these guys with feminine voices now" statement specifically, not the idea that this guy was feminine, so I'm going to take your comment as an addition rather than a rebuttal.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:32 PM
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What makes you think guys in the past all had deeper voices? If you look at older videos, there were tons of men with equally mid-range or high-range voices. Chances are you have a perception that the "good old days" were full of burly lumberjack men with deep voices, and that's clouding your perception. Voices haven't changed much, as far back as we have audio recordings.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:59 AM
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Yes, they are shrill, aggressive, and annoying. Just what you want in a sexual partner! Eh, I don't think that behaviour is correlated with intelligence - plenty of shrill and annoying women (and men) who I wouldn't class as intelligent, as well. There are nice and intelligent women out there if you have the social circle to find them. Also, keep in mind that people behave better around people they value highly - if girls are being shrill / annoying to you, chances are that you're not attractive…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:56 AM
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Met plenty of intelligent women at university, expect it'd be similar in tough intellectual jobs (e.g. STEM ones). Don't listen to the posters who deny intelligent women exist at all. Seems like they hang out in the wrong crowds and are projecting that outwards onto the entire population. One thing I have noted is that intelligent women still seem to communicate and discuss differently - they're a little less willing to value technical / logical analysis in conversation, and tend instead towards…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:58 PM
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He is bi and has a really hot friend that is also bi, It seems that in your mind, these facts increase the likelihood of getting a threesome - they're both bi, right?! In my mind, these facts decrease the likelihood of getting a threesome - friends (particularly male mates) tend to be less likely to have a threesome for fear it'll make things weird / they won't be able to easily escape the aftermath. To concur with another poster - sounds like you just want to fuck his friend, tbh.
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:59 PM
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You just might be better off with the 140 IQ chick who spend her college days in the microbiology lab rather than the pub and spent her Saturday nights at the library rather than getting railed by the rugby team. Chances are the 140 IQ microbiologist has an equally impressive sexual history, and is just better at hiding it from her social circles (and not disclosing the time in her schedule freed up explicitly for it).
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:01 AM
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Unless you are already confident Well yeah dude that's basically what I said
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:07 PM
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Self-deprecating humour is fine if it's said with such a large shit-eating grin that it's clear you believe exactly the opposite. If you do it well, it even conveys confidence (because you know you're so good you can use that humour without taking any hit). But yeah if he's in this position, he doesn't know how to do that, so probs not for him
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:47 AM
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Making this post (particularly the phrasing of "how do I fuck her before he does?") shows you do not have an abundance mentality. Don't trick yourself.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:19 PM
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You will get a negative reputation if you make complete cold approaches - e.g. stopping a complete stranger and just asking their name, as you might on the street. However, college provides a ton of excuses for starting up innocuous conversations in day-to-day life: Hey, do you know where ___ building is? Hey, is this the room for [class]? Hey, is anyone using this computer next to you? Hey, could you mind my stuff for a few minutes? Hey, do you know how I add print credit to my card? Hey, do yo…
/r/seduction05/09/17 03:59 AM
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If she had raised a calm complaint about never going out anymore, then you should take that seriously and (if you want to) agree to genuinely mix up your dates. Sometimes there just isn't a subtext to read into. If she went 'ape shit', however... it's more likely that she was offended by the situation to the extent of feeling like a slut. You can't deal with an emotional reaction in a logical manner - it will either simply not work (in which case they'll find something else to complain about), o…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:07 PM
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It's rationalisation only, most likely.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:25 AM
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If you obsess about getting the "perfect RP response", you're going to find yourself referencing it relatively often in the hopes that you'll finally nail the stoicism / charm / whatever you're after... and the frequency alone will give away that you are insecure about it. (I don't mean insecure in the sense that you think it will disrupt the relationship - I mean insecure in the sense that you clearly aren't secure in whatever potential response you came up with yourself.) This isn't a common l…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:14 PM
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The user asked a question and you read a ton of assumptions into it to insult them. Bad form.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/17 03:55 PM
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micro-chimerism This is not at all documented to occur through human sexual contact.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:22 PM
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Did you just rationalise that the girlfriend is really the unfaithful one when OP cheated? That's one of the strongest hamsters I've ever seen bro
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:08 PM
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Psychopathic women are not well-suited to any but the most empathy deficient and thrill-seeking of men. Even her relationship with a dark triad man is nought but a union of two sadistic thrill seekers engaged in a perpetual wrestle for power. If you are not high enough on the psychopathy spectrum to derive enjoyment from the conflict of a psychopathic woman’s unending histrionics, you’d do well to steer clear. (i.e. if you are high enough on the psychopathy spectrum to enjoy her company, it coul…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:46 AM
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Not really the crux of my point. He's clearly having some fun exploring various kinks and debauchery that 'normal' girls won't offer, and is being presented with a fairly visceral side of life through her mental illness / personality disorders. If he values that, why shouldn't he keep dating her for now? It's a bit like Fight Club - no-one would actually rationally want to live like Tyler Durden (ramshackle house, mental issues, crazy girlfriend, constantly fighting, etc.) and TRP advises routes…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 02:05 AM
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I'd appreciate substantive response to the arguments next time. :)
/r/askTRP27/12/16 02:00 AM
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Fwiw, both my girlfriend and I have fairly severe mental illness. (e.g. psychosis, suicidal intentions, etc.) Our dynamic sounds somewhat similar to yours - sometimes she's the most wonderful girl on earth to me, other times she's a raging needy bitch with issues. You won't have a stable, drama free, always happy relationship with these sorts of girls. If that's what you're after, or you're obsessed with always being.in control so you can feel dominant, she's probably not the girl for you. On th…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 03:50 PM
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The most "TRP" option is not letting an internet forum decide on the aesthetics of a car which only you will see in person and be (dis)pleased by.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 01:45 PM
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I don't know enough to discuss the odds of her finding out, etc., but remember this doesn't just affect your relationship. Until the end of your life, every time someone even mentions cheating to you, or you read a news article about it, or - god forbid - a friend confides in you that their partner cheated and they're heartbroken... your mind will be drawn back to that one decision. You will feel an involuntary pang of guilt and immorality, and it will recur perhaps several times through the day…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:44 PM
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I find it highly unlikely that you loved your life while simultaneously being depressed for seemingly no reason. I never said that. I was responding to someone who said that depression only came from poor decisions, when I wasn't making many (and at the very least, was very clearly doing better than many people who were much happier). There is a reason most psychologists / neuroscientists believe that chemical imbalances out of one's control can play a reason in depression - the correlation betw…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 07:50 PM
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I've been through severe depression while being a successful STEM student, dating a 7 who made me very happy, having a great social life, being financially secure, and excelling (to world class level, actually) at two hobbies. What poor decisions did I make?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 06:06 PM
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Yeah, that's a good point. Extra incentive for companies to hire them in visible positions, then - get to pay them less and get more customers in.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 02:59 PM
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I meant that it's "worked" in terms of them making a profit per unit of labor, which is what the discussion was about... not quality of service.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 02:56 PM
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At least in my country, yep! Glassdoor tells me $14.54 / hour at Boost, while Payscale gives me a median national wage of $18 / hour for those sorts of jobs... so Boost is paying about 80% as much.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 02:56 PM
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There are some companies that have tried it and it's worked - for example, Boost Juice does quite well and their staff is dominated by women (no idea if this is hiring practice or simply more women apply).
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 08:10 AM
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Keep an open mind and consider that maybe "why not just kill the bitch?" is anger phase thinking, even if you feel rational right now.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:02 AM
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I took a look at your post history. You seem like you're still in the anger phase, to the extent that you have seriously proposed killing women who divorce rape guys. I wish you the best of luck and sincerely hope you're able to find a happier state of mind here on TRP, or otherwise.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 04:37 AM
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Remember that men often don't love women how they expect to be loved, either - we're guilty of valuing physical looks quite highly, undervaluing intelligence, etc. We don't love perfectly, but we still love passionately and to the best of our ability, and occasionally even overcome our flawed natures. It's the same for women. Just because we don't get the eternal, unconditional, pure love that Disney promises us, doesn't mean their love isn't worth valuing at all. Adjust your expectations and re…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:08 AM
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Jesus Christ, some of these other replies... TRP generally concedes that 100% 'alpha' behaviour isn't effective for a long term relationship (i.e. you want some 'beta' behaviour in or you're going to have constant comfort tests and increase risk of cheating for pure emotional support), and also that if you're sufficiently 'alpha' you can make some suboptimal decisions without losing a girl - we don't need to be 'gaming' 24/7 to have happy relationships. Accordingly, when we fall in love... we pr…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 09:47 AM
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"Assume the worst" is not an application of Occam's Razor, which is what he's pointing out
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:51 PM
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Oh okay, must have been someone else :) Sorry, I just assumed because of the timing!
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:48 AM
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Wouldn't be too sure about recommending strength programs for someone concerned about height - constant spinal compression from a loaded barbell on your back probably doesn't significantly make you shorter (of course, hard to do a controlled experiment on that subject!) but it's certainly not going to help.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:17 AM
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That still comes off as incredibly tryhard to me, idk. I think it's partially the length of the response, and the presence of an insult... the sentence itself says "I can't be bothered" but the phrasing says "I'm bothered but acting unfazed". "Nah" by itself would be good (or "haha" maybe), but I do genuinely think the best response is ignoring it completely. It's the sort of shit I'd show a mate or my girlfriend and have a laugh at in private, not that I'd actually respond to. Do you ever see '…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:18 PM
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Girls fuck people all the time when traveling. You never let girls travel alone unless they are single/alone or it's a strictly business trip. So do guys. Should girls dump a guy who travels alone without them?
/r/askTRP
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I'm not sure why you downvoted me given that you agree a program with high squat volume (as far as beginner programs so) might compress the spine, making one shorter over a long timeframe. Just because you can offset it so there's potentially no harm or little harm, doesn't mean it's optimal for height to include it anyway.
/r/askTRP
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This is the "alpha" move. It's the tryhard move, mate. Everyone comes off insecure in that exchange.
/r/askTRP
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