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apatel215/r/seduction02/04/18 06:47 PM
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Dude, I had a very similar realization after doing shrooms a couple months ago. I made it a point to not have my phone on me during the trip and although my overall trip wasn't the most pleasant, being disconnected from everything on my phone felt great. Since then I have deleted my instagram, deleted facebook awhile ago, and only reason i have twitter is cuz it entertains me but even then i know its coming to an end. I definitely feel these effects of no social media and its nice and refreshing…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 03:32 PM
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*on men
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:06 PM
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Anything archived to reference me to? I'm interested to know. Are they also against tats even on me because it shows insecurities or something?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:03 PM
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Is this a known theory/behavior for women? I've seen a few comments advising caution with chicks with tattoos. Is TRP generally against tats? I'm very curious
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:20 PM
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I realized this sometime ago. Didn't understand why back then but it's why I've always kept my circles small.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:48 PM
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Its crazy how true this is. And i believed it since day 1. Attractiveness changes EVERYTHING. Back in my BP days in highschool and even most of college, I'd be skipped over, not acknowledged, fucked with, you name it and now its so different. But growing up with that conditioning, i still look through the lenses of my past self. I'm still adjusting to that. But regardless its hypocritical af. An attractive person can have a similar life (interests, hobbies etc..) and can do the EXACT same thing …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 04:37 PM
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Jesus i'm glad to be on this side of the fence. I have a friend who went thru a breakup in the last year or so and he was so devastated and what not and at the time i "understood" him but now i realize how BP he really is. Ideally i would like for him to discover TRP...
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:06 PM
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Sheeeesh does this hit home. I've been dealing with oneitis's since day 1. Every time i got over one, another chick would just come and replace the previous. Whats difficult about my current oneitis is that she works at the gym i go to and i barely even talk to her (Social anxiety) but I'm just so infatuated. Regardless, i just deleted instagram off my phone last night because of this. And soon enough twitter and so on. My goal behind deleting social media is that it will keep me much more groun…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:58 PM
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First chick i fucked told me that so nonchalantly after the first time hooking up (second day i hung out with her!) and i knew it wasnt right. Long story short: i ghosted the fuck out of her
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:06 PM
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Naturally being a reserved/introverted person, i always talk much less than i listen. However, I never knew/realized I can use it to my advantage. Need to learn to utilize this more
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:20 PM
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Your absolutely right.... It's subjective. I just personally admire the boldness of a girl to do that
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:16 AM
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Not that I think this is wrong but it can be even simpler. Literally approaching with a "hi" would work. At least from my perspective, girls NEVER approach so I would think an approach will easily get momentum going and guys, or me at least, will do the "asking out" part. But an approach to indicate interest is all it takes.
/r/seduction26/07/18 09:20 PM
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dude..........what? is it just me or is everyone else lost reading this post?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 07:33 PM
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If i have learned anything from my mistakes, i would 100% ask your friend about her first. Maybe even have her introduce you or something. Randomly Snap chatting someone you've even been acquainted to can come off creepy even if there are no bad intentions, let alone a stranger.
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:18 PM
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I just got a boner reading this. Very motivating OP
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:48 AM
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I typically stay off the sub during the weekend. And coming off this weekend, this post being the first i read today, is exactly what i needed. thank you OP
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:58 PM
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worst part is I've lived in America my whole life...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:21 PM
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i posted a comment the other day about my cousin who, although didn't have an arranged marriage necessarily, said something to me at his/his wife's baby shower along the lines of "if i couldn't get away (from marriage) then you cant either." The context was about marriage. He said something about my "future marriage" and i responded with "IF i get married" and he laughed as if i don't have control. Shit made me think tbh. He's BPed af
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:08 PM
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Funny, the other day i was at my cousins baby shower. At the end we were just talking, me, him and his wife. And family being family, always make jokes and tease the single people about marriage and what not especially due to the culture. Anyway, something came up while i was talking to the two about that and i shrug it off with something along the lines of "IF i get married." They laugh and he tries to downplay the fact that I have control of my own life and will live how I want. He even said s…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:50 PM
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Jcole said it best "if they don't know your dreams, then they cant shoot em down"
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:41 PM
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I absolutely agree. Its more of a guide or outline and people do what they will with the information, be it continue developing themselves, transforming from BP to RP (swallowing the RP) or reject it altogether and stay BP.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 07:18 PM
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Just playing devils advocated here but don't you think its ironic or even almost hypocritical in the sense that we "divide" ourselves from the inferior herd (BP narrative) by essentially joining the superior RP herd?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 02:57 PM
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Jcole said it best "You see I peeped it, pussy is power That proud feeling we get knowin' that pussy is ours And how it feels to feel that feeling You feeling when you be drillin' that shit Got her sayin' you be killin' that shit"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:07 PM
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focusing/taking care of myself. After graduating college and landing a full-time job i immediately signed up to a gym (literally after my first day of work). started to maintain my diet more and am forever learning in both aspects. started reading more. etc... At this point I'm not exactly sure my body fat % but i know I'm progressively getting to where i wanna be
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 07:10 PM
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Its crazy how during my unattractive days i believed this and was upset over it cuz of my lack of success as well as being BP af but now that i am attractive, this still remains true and it still lowkey bugs me but i just don't have to worry about it as much as before
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 03:23 PM
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Yea you're right it does depend on the girls. i dont think the age really matters at least in my experience and maybe location too (northeast America) its like a thing that girls love beards. Maybe i only notice the girls that show interest in the beard and dont even pay attention to those that dont idk. Again just from my experience beards work. And i feel you bro, Im brown too but i keep to myself im not really a part of that crowd so i think that just makes me stand out by default
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:16 PM
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personally i dont grow mine out i just keep it on my cheeks but thats just what i think looks best for me. Its great tho, my group of friends cant grow facial hair for shit so its nice to have that 1up lol
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:43 PM
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wym? like you dont keep your facial hair at all? definitely do whatever works for you but if you (generally speaking) can grow facial hair id recommend it as again...bitches love beards
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:39 PM
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I feel like facial hair is not talked/emphasized enough....BITCHES LOVE BEARDS!!! Keep it cleanly shaped (eyebrows included) and i guarantee you'll turn heads. I started shaping mine up myself with a straight razor, mainly out of pickiness with my facial hair but it'll also save a few bucks per trip to the barber for it. especially with these inflated ass haircut prices
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 06:29 PM
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Dude when i was 6 and because my parents religion makes it seem sex is evil i didnt believe that my parents fucked to have me....lol
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:28 PM
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Little shit like this goes a long way...Never thought about this in depth. Gunna start using the trx bands at my gym more. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:28 PM
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the context in which you wrote it made me think the moment of recognition was you recognizing the girl making her mind up of whether or not to sleep with you. My question is what indicators does a girl give that you can tell she has made her decision?
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:36 PM
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what would you describe this "moment of recognition" as?
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:16 PM
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i forget about this so much. i need to use this line next time
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:10 PM
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Dude you have no idea. The more fat you shed the more defined you will be which will automatically raise your self-confidence and you WILL get the attention (whether it comes from people looking at you or actually approaching you). I went from about 210 of mainly fat down to a healthy 180ish (i have more muscle than fat now) and before the change i never would have thought I'd get as many compliments as i do. Cuz not only will you look good (obviously) but people who have seen you before the cha…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 03:21 PM
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I feel you completely. Sex is whatever to me when its easy af. I'm competitive af and love to win. I'll be scrutinized for saying this but conquering my oneitis's when they arise is when i think ill feel accomplished
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:36 PM
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Diet is number 1. Nothing will be accomplished if you don't have your diet on track. Assuming you do, high intensity training will help burn fat. Cardio, continue your strength training and you'll see results. I wouldn't recommend a trainer cuz its a lot of money for something you can pick up and learn and get accustomed to yourself
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:25 PM
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I'd figure at that point if they are getting girls left and right then they'd be desensitized to it regardless. And I feel you on your second point and thats where i personally point out that i tell my close friends. From my perspective, I gotta talk about it whether it'd be on forums as such or again with my close friends. I'm never gunna tell someone my business who isn't important enough to know
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:41 PM
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Respect....that shit is your business too. Im one to keep my circles small and would obviously tell my closest friends as im sure most would too. Bragging also shows you don't get much as is. discretion = abundance. thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:58 PM
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Okay so i realized it never got me laid necessarily but it makes the girl curious and in this case the chick was on spring break so limited time but anyway... Only one in particular brought it up and i responded as such: Her: so your bio in interesting, pretty cocky lol Me: sounds like it caught your attention I Flipped it on her and she said something about wanting to "pick my brain." I told her she can do that in person if she would like. she says "wow you move fast." i clarified and said "i m…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:47 PM
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i started using "guaranteed to outperform your ex or your money back" with some success. im also attractive so that plays into it but girls who USE tinder are horny for whatever reason they have..like a recent breakup lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:18 PM
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I think this might be the best response
/r/seduction21/02/18 03:25 PM
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I mean regardless of our opinions, we both understood what he's saying. My bad for assuming but i feel like youre nit picking his post. We interpreted his post differently. No hard feelings bro. All respect
/r/seduction17/02/18 05:05 PM
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Dude this whole subreddit implies narcissism to an extent. I think youre looking at his post too seriously. Take it with a grain of salt and work with it. The hyperboles youre mentioning can be found humorous. Just loosen up when reading it. I think his OG post was motivating
/r/seduction17/02/18 04:34 PM
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See now thats something id definitely say but thats after ive gotten comfortable with a girl as in ive hooked up with her once or when i KNOW shes into me. But is that something i can say before when "gaming." Im always afraid it would come off as creepy
/r/seduction17/02/18 03:57 PM
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Nah man. This guys got the right idea. Dont knock him cuz you're feeling attacked
/r/seduction17/02/18 03:52 PM
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That's not true, I want to fuck a lot of people
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:17 PM
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Fantastic
/r/seduction12/02/18 03:16 PM
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Personally i would never open with that unless maybe youre in person. Think about the context and read your message out loud and see if you still think its good. But i wouldnt "tease" immediately. Joke around sure. Theres a big difference between saying youre an astronaut and "i saw you checking me out" also i assume most girls arent gunna understand that emote so its all gunna come off weird. Like i would throw in the sarcasm when having casual convo so she gets it and hopefully plays along wit…
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:49 PM
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Well the point of the blatant sarcasm is to break the serious barrier and to keep it playful. What kinda jokes are you using lad?
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:36 PM
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example her: do you work? you: yea im an astronaut (say whatever the fuck you want to make a joke but you get the idea)
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:22 PM
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personally id go with blatant sarcasm to kind of help them get it and try to escalate the teasing from there
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:17 PM
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Lol ok i hear you. Im not used to reading it just hearing it. But im doing alright. And nice thats good to hear
/r/seduction08/02/18 05:59 PM
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Well i flirted with her a little in the DMs and at one point she goes "sorry im bad at responding to DMs" so i say "i wouldnt have DMed if SOMEONE never left the party lol" then put my number there. She responded well and She did text me but that conversation was very brief (like 3 messages) before she stopped replying. I agree im not expecting her to set a date but I wasnt going to make a date for anything till i had actually talked to her for a little (unless i should have?)
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:54 PM
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Maja che?
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:33 PM
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im a fan of the STOTD. keep it up. Also i think the broomstick is a great response
/r/seduction08/02/18 03:11 PM
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I've actually got a tandem bike and was looking for someone to ride with
/r/seduction08/02/18 03:03 PM
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Is it possible for a girl to be using this on you? Like this one chick gave me a compliment once, then this past new years, there were a few other IOIs and i had DMed her the next day cuz she had left the party we were at. In those DMs i found out she was interested and i ended up giving her my number. I also played it like i was calling her out on her interest of me. Since then tho not much conversation has been made. You think that is an example of a girl using this hot/cold method?
/r/seduction08/02/18 03:01 PM
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Yo i've had a good handful of girls immediately respond to my first green text block with "you dont have an iPhone?" I dont get it either...
/r/seduction07/02/18 07:50 PM
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