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Inner Game aphronono/r/seduction01/04/22 04:24 PM
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Lifestyleaphronono/r/seduction30/03/20 12:16 PM
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Conversationaphronono/r/seduction03/03/22 10:35 AM
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I don't think so but reality did prove just prove it to you.
/r/seduction09/04/26 01:21 PM
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Here make fun of him!
/r/MensRights22/03/26 06:44 PM
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Hmm, maybe not approach her directly. If you get rejected you're in for a tough night socializing. First make some friends be social and after that talk to the girl. She is probably going to be a lot more open to talk to you and if she is not, you're not the guy noone knows hitting on girls and getting rejected.
/r/seduction04/02/26 07:50 PM
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Learn how to be attractive, grow thick skin, go to southeast Asia and party, play a drinking game, kiss a girl ask her if she is into threesomes, if yes go look for a girl you both think is hot and ask her. If rejected try again tomorrow
/r/seduction17/12/25 11:20 PM
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Just to entertain this message. Go ask around. Find people that are in the same position and see if they were able to find a partner. It's not impossible but it's a mean world out there and you'll need thick skin if you're going to try to get a girlfriend from the position you're in. A lot of ugly rejections.
/r/seduction02/02/25 02:45 AM
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I think you underestimate what an average man is and you overestimate what an average woman is on the dating market. 35 year old women have a horrible time finding an average guy to stick with them. The average 35 year old guy I think can quite easily find a girl if he so wants. Especially outside of the western world.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 02:31 PM
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Lol why are people downvoting you, that's hilarious.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 01:37 PM
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Well darwinism will lead us I guess.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 08:19 AM
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If all you guys keep working on yourself and move to these countries as high valuable men than my guess is women will start to realise their mistake. If not in 1generation these women will be phased out for not being able to reproduce.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:42 AM
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Western Europe. Eastern European women are not the same a western european.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:37 AM
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I honestly agree with you. And though this situation makes them miserable they still keep unreasonably high standards for any potential partner. They still sleep around more than they are looking for serious partners and when they do find good fits they don't dare to commit because of reason.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:18 AM
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It's backed up by tinder data :D Wouldn't you agree guys value on the dating market increase as they age? I can probably outgame most 18year olds..
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:21 AM
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Hahaha they shouldn't! I never told them my preference just the tinder numbers.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 04:01 AM
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Could you hook me up on that data? I always thought that women who married young and a virgin had higher chance of divorcing
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:49 PM
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Well if you want to date virgins you are a little late to the party at 30+ man. We seem to live in different worlds. I have so many 30-36 year old Women in my life begging for a good husband so they can finally start a family. But yeah they have all had 10+ bedpartners. May I ask you why virginity is important to you? And also how many bedpartners have you had yourself?
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:38 PM
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You only want to date virgins? None of my friends are in the 10% income. Most of my friends do pretty well. Also, there is a bit of truth in your statement the top % of men get relatively a lot of pussy but saying you won't get any under 10% is just untrue.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:22 PM
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Depends how you see it I guess. I do think we as men gain Value. We become influencal and powerful the older we get. Until the age of like 45 you're still growing in strength. You get more time to gain valuable experience and build on yourself and confidence. Women get that same time but they are much more judged on their appearance and humans tend to just dislike aging in women more than in men until a certain age that is.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:06 PM
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I have seen some numbers for tinder a kong time ago. And actually 40year old guys get more interest then 20year old women. The thing is though, you'll het interest from 30+ year old women and guys tend to lose interest in women a lot after 30y/o.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:28 PM
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Nahh, men age better than women do. I'd say guys have better odds after marriage compared to their female counterparts.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:58 AM
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Yes. It also helps to go super Saiyan 3. But it's hard to uphold this form. Ssj 4works as well but your hair color might change and it will grow all over your body.
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:06 PM
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I didn't tell them not to. It's just entirely possible to do do that without shaming him. I'd even argue you'll be more convincing if you can bring it in a nice way. What exactly should I learn from this?
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:25 PM
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I'm absolutely convinced that if OP would follow your advice he'd end up having the same problem but with with people with the same interest. Usually the problem with incels is either a lack of confidence and a severe lack of certain Social skills. Simply telling them to go and meet people with common interest won't change anything as they are unable to have flirty/playfull conversations with women if any at all.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:15 AM
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Stop shaming the dude.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:05 AM
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This is a choice you have to make yourself. It's not the most ethical point but honestly it doesn't really matter. Middle way: Lie about it initially but tell her honestly how old you are when you have built a bit of attraction.
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:42 PM
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I'd disagree. I think it's perfectly healthy for a woman to take in consideration the effectiveness of her future partner as a provider. Women who only go for multi-millionaires are a special case where I would agree with your statement.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:04 PM
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Honestly, I'll just judge all y'all fuckers for dating in general. Women are temporary, glory of World of Warcraft is forever.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:13 PM
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I wanted to downvote you but honestly you are right and giving the answer he is looking. I just think the opinion you're describing is utter garbage. Also a lot of women are very attracted to this imbalance of power and intellect to the point that they do wouldn't want to be with a partner where that difference is not appearent.
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:30 PM
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Good point!
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:29 PM
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They could. And if you want then to you can try to things. Either make the experience as much fun and enjoyable for him as possible and see where things go. Or be upfront and ask him. "Hé I know you are not looking for a relationship. This thing we have is a lot of fun to me. Is there a Chance you will at some point change your mind?" Honestly the first choice has a higher succes rate but it takes good game. Second one is is easy but has a low succes rate.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:56 AM
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I think this might be rather important..
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:05 AM
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Hey buddy, try travelling. Hostels are packed with fit fun girls. Also it's absolutely normal to be alone in a bar when you are travelling.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:30 PM
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Hey guys, I see a lot of well meant advice that in my opinion is very vague. When telling people u get in a flow/get confident/get out of their comfort zone explain how to do that. I am happy to see much of the advice is focussed on action/taling responsibility. If you are new to pickup here are some tips for beginners: Find buddies you can grow with. Friends were my most important asset in becoming successful with women. They will make the journey more fun, help you stay motivated and can be cr…
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:20 AM
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Not saying I agree. Am saying I lol'd
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:01 PM
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Women would rather fuck their boss than their co-workers though...
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:26 PM
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My text was short. Nowhere did I mention violently undressing a chick. All I am saying is. In some cases your nonverbal approach won't be enough. "She matched my energy your honor" won't hold up well in court..
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:16 PM
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Uhu. So you tell me gazing, play with hair and looking away and smiling equals consent? Good luck in court. Dudes asking legit questions.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:59 AM
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Probably isn't. Sex before marriage is not allowed by Islam. And as it is a requirement for a Muslim to both say a certain oath confirming there is only 1 god and his name is Allah at marriage he should be looking for a Muslim wife if he truly believes.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:15 PM
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Hmm. You are currently on social media trying to lower a teenagers self esteem. Sounds like some real alpha male shit...
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:49 PM
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Looking at it from a certain perspective it does makes sense right. In the dating life we are usually trying to create scarsity. You want to seem exclusive so that she can feel we own desires. Now if you almost had sex the first date and it didn't happen (I assume she rejected sex) then she will feel like she has you in the pocket. You are not a chase anymore and she will see all your unattractive sides she previously ignored because of the excitement. She knows one thing for sure: she is not th…
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:40 PM
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That's impressive.
/r/seduction26/09/20 09:30 PM
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Yeah I understand you'd want to tell the truth. Actually I don't even know why I told you not to as I believe in dating we should always be honest. Well bro. Let's not turn this conversation into a life coach session. Only thing I'd like to add is: there is a way. 40 is a very attractive age. I am 25 and both my gf's have repeatedly said they would like to try a 40 y/o dude. Without me asking about it 😂. Gl my man let us know if things change!
/r/seduction25/09/20 07:39 AM
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Make a new profile. Change your age to 40 when asked about it down the line say it was a mistake you couldn't change. On tinder you can only see women that can see you. So everyone you swipe through has a realistic chance of matching you. Get new friends. There ain't tons open. There are some. Go try them out. Or go do activities single women your age group tend to go to. Buddy I shouldn't be telling you what to do man. After living 40years on this planet are you going to tell me you can't come …
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:23 PM
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Uhm are you deliberately misinterpreting my message. I said men and women have exactly the same amount of matches as they are matching with eachother. Not all men have the same amount matches. But the total sum of male matches is just as big as the total sum of female matches. Finally, I'm a man that was in the top 10% when I was in my 30s, there were times I was fucking 4 women in rotation. Now I'm in my 40s and it's much tougher since women filter by age in swipe dating and cold approach doesn…
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:27 PM
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Good to hear bro. Are you married? How does this affect your interest in a monogamous relationships? Do you feel more interested in freedom now that you get more attention?
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:45 AM
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Unless we count in homosexual relationships, men and women have the exact same match count as we are matching eachother.(if you don't understand the math behind this please tell me). I wish you all the best but if you think you'll have 100s of men exclusively waiting for you when you hit 40 I'd count you in for a big reality check. Statistically you'll be a lot less desirable at that age. Now that I reread your post you might actually refer to the dating pool in general. Wich in your area probab…
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:44 AM
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Hmm, in terms of getting dates women have it easier. You answer will be very dependent on what you define as an easy dating life. If getting a one night stand out of dates is your definition then the answer is women by a long run. If your definition is a fullfilling dating life I'd say on average probably still women but certain ranges of males will win here. Did you know that online a female aged 25 on average is two times more wanted then the average 25 y/o male. Did you know that at the age o…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:36 AM
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Let me start out by saying I like the fact that this opinion gets posted every once in a while. It start up some nice discussions and I enjoy these. Though I will be harsh in my criticism. 1 If girls are attuned to PUA tactics this only means you'll have to execute them better. Most of the stuff that's being taught is just basic laws of attraction in action. To make it very easy to understand. I could walk up to a girl and say hey my friend Brandon keeps acting very confident just to get girls. …
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:13 AM
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Exactly. I'm not saying you are wrong.(except for the fact that on average women are not much happier with their dating life then men) I'm just pointing out you shouldn't care. You spent like an hour writing that post, and probably many more thinking about it? If you'd have put that time in work and used that money for professional pictures you'd be one step closer in enjoying the life you want. Life ain't fair. I agree. Be a winner not a loser.
/r/seduction10/04/20 09:56 AM
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Hey mate, I don't know you so first off I want to start off with pointing out the fact you're making quite the amount of assumptions in your first sentences that we might have to look at. You're saying you're average, what exactly does that mean? Reasonably fit? Weight length fat percentage? What do you consider a good job? Also you're saying you're having amazing conversations with these women. How do you know thats how they feel? Are the convos amazing emotionally or erotically? I had a friend…
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:38 AM
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Hahaha awesome to hear mate! I moved to ozz for a year as well (also dutch) really enjoyed your story. What exactly do you do as a data analyst? I will do a semester of data engineering in September any tips on what to focus on?
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:16 PM
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Why don't you slide into the dms? What about tinder? Also I thought of it like this. Since I can't be with them I can improve myself so that if I'll be able to I'll have abundance.
/r/seduction30/03/20 02:21 PM
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I don't know your situation buddy. You might be right, I should change my stance on it I guess. There could be some people that are so deep in the autism spectrum that they can't really be expected to develop high level social skills. If you really want to attract women my first advice would still be to try. If you work out physically you'll be able to attract women with your body. Then do your mental exercise, your meditation and probably find some good friends/family/coaches that will support …
/r/seduction30/03/20 12:04 PM
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So are you going to tell me my autistic friends did not get laid? My post told you to go through months of trial and error, you're telling me it can't be done. Those who say they can and those who say they can't are both usually right. For you the same answer as the previous guy. Mate, I worked hard to get to where I am. I'm willing to help you out but I'm not willing you change your mindset. If you believe you can become attractive and social welcome to the game. If you believe it to be impossi…
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:29 AM
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Some easy going situationals: What's your favorite music to dance on? What's your opinion on Trump's hair? Do aliens exist? Deeper ones for when you want to really build a connection: If you could grade your life right now on a scale of 1-10 what would you give? Then continue: what would make it a ten? What's your happiest memory? (Look up 36questions that lead to love and see Wich ones resonate with you)
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:06 AM
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If your needs are purely sexual move to the Netherlands and see a hooker once a week. It's cheaper and easier then to improve your game. If your desires are social: acknowledge the fact you are indeed a social animal. Your are complaining and saying something about it right now. And you are getting advice from someone who has been studying and exercising game for over a decade. Here I am. Society's way of telling you we haven't forgotten about you. Have your read the game? Mystery is an autistic…
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:01 AM
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Women are usually looking for older guys. This is a fact. A lot of women sometimes hook up with younger guys. This is a fact. If you are interested in women 6-7years older smoothmax is giving some solid advice. You'll need to be able to hold the pressure of her doubts about the age difference. She is going to wonder what her friends will think of you. She is going to look for signs of insecurity and immaturity even more then she would normally. And you'll have to beat those odds. Some advice: do…
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:28 PM
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1 telling her she is attractive after she is showing you interest in you is good advice! You can always throw in some teasing as well keep it light and flirty though! A) my experience in club game is that questions are too low energy and because of loud music you can't effectively communicate verbally. Having some questions ready is great anyway, if you get the chance to go outside for some fresh air you need those conversation makers! B) pretty much the same thing. C) great advice, go hard or g…
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:09 PM
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As I see the thread developing I like 2sides are forming. Those who attack plowing stating it's awkward and disgusting. Those who defend it and state the benefits. Since this subreddit is made to improve our game I think we should try to look at it from that angle. Though awkward and horrible to look at even those who attack "plowing" can't deny that the pressure of working a "plowing set" can really improve your social skills. Being able to win over a crowd that disliked your at the start is tr…
/r/seduction14/03/20 10:55 PM
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From what I know of 3. From what I suspect I'd say 5.
/r/seduction04/02/20 09:42 AM
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From what I have seen it's autistic guys that grow the most from game. People with austism learn their social behaviour by set rules. Unfortunately learning how to pickup women is not learned by parents and friends nor media. The things we learn from these mediums are usually counter productive. (Be nice, keep trying, show her that you care, be completely honest, don't be Johnny bravo) Now when you read up on enough game and(I can't stress this enough) GO PRACTICE! Autistic guys tend to be able …
/r/seduction04/02/20 09:17 AM
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