I see a lot of posts asking about advice on what to do when a girl is giving mixed signals. There is one solution that would rid you of the doubt that comes with these situations and that is abundance. A lot of people guys and girls alike tend to stop looking for possible Future partners whenever they find possible fit. They will proceed to exhausted this possibility until they are absolutely positive it is not the right person. This puts you in a very uncomfortable position when said person starts to play games with you as you stay in the game but are lost on what to do.

My general strategy is that whenever I feel like a girl is giving me mixed signals I'll stay nice and change my attention to either other girls I'm talking to or put my energy into finding other girls to talk to. If the first girl did turn out to be interested no harm to my life. If she turned out not to be I don't have to go through this whole part of feeling undesirable and unsuccessful as I have not over invested in the wrong person.

If she would in any way find out you're talking to other girls and is offended just tell her you thought she was not interested because of her mixed signals. Tell her that if she is interested you would love to go on a date with her as you always thought she was the most attractive anyways.

Girls(and guys) love it when they are chosen over someone else.

Happy dating 🤗