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14

If you’re not feeling it/ need to overlook a lot, you should end it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 03:29 PM
2

Oof. What’s keeper
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 05:38 PM
2

Crazy opinion, but maybe focus all that attention on your own life instead of his. Because in fact, the relationship hasn’t changed, but your perspective has. *if he has an addiction, (his words) and isn’t getting help, there’s nothing you can do anyway
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 11:37 PM
8

Stopped reading after OP talking exclusivity after 2 weeks. OP got drunk on pussy and left a text wall
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 04:10 PM
2

This is a shit post. This isn’t MGTOW or being your best self related. If I wanted salty emotions and a wasteful posts I’d read fb
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 05:31 AM
5

Releasing anger into hobbies that involve checking the internet to fuel that anger don’t help as much as say constructive (non internet) hobbies. Such as meditation, herb garden (which can you do indoors), working out, musical instrument practice, art, etc. my fav is hiking which ALWAYS works
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 08:56 PM
3

1)everyone posts on Twitter for a reaction 2) what people say is NOT ABOUT YOU, it’s a stream of opinions that do not reflect YOUR reality, but their own
/r/MGTOW221/11/20 12:57 PM
1

Perhaps they are projecting their guilt (of doing the same thing) onto others to redirect it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:28 AM
1

Either find a new job, or find a new way to deal with it- IMO, do both. You can’t control others actions/thoughts/ feelings, only your own. Do you have HR there? Employee handbooks? Also if your only card in your hand is that you’re threatening to quit, we both know you won’t play it, and if called on it, won’t do anything about it. Action bro, take some.
/r/MGTOW219/10/20 08:25 PM
40

To recap... you orbited a girl, caught feelings for her (shocker), wrote her poems, and spent a whole lot of time chasing her when she played games. I agree with your TLDR, however I don’t agree with anything else you said about ‘being alpha’, unicorns, or that you “allowed yourself to catch feelings”. PS. Unicorns are the men who have solid love in ourselves and put OURSELVES first.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 08:49 PM
20

By your logic, since men are taking all the risk, initiative, and doing all the work of setting up plans and such, he should pay for you AND your time? IM(U)O women who think like that are stingy, selfish and preoccupied with what they can get from a man vs sharing in the experience of getting to know someone. EDIT: took out last bit for concise msg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:45 PM
3

I think you should try therapy. (For real). And if that doesn’t suit you, ask this q in the red pill sub, and read all the books on this list to give you some idea
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:41 AM
1

Wrong sub
/r/MGTOW08/08/20 05:25 AM
10

I’m pretty okay with this particular story 😎
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 08:53 PM
25

Excellent post. I believe everyone should try therapy. I went when I said ‘that wouldn’t help me’, and can testify it had a profoundly awesome 180° on my psyche.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 01:35 PM
2

Know what else doesn't change? Their upper bicep/ top part of their shoulder. I ALWAYS look at that area to see if they are actually fit
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 05:08 PM
3

Now this is going to sound really dick... but... READ all the sidebar. To know is to learn, to learn is to research and understand. If I were to just tell you, not only quo’s that do nothing, but you have no reason to trust it until you do it for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 03:46 AM
6

What do you want out of all this? Like longer than a birthday party... Bc to me, it sounds like she’s making the rules, you’re following along dutifully and you’re gonna get burnt
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 03:33 AM
10

Honestly good if you can combine all the bs stock advice, see a pattern and make some profit from it. The hive mind they have for pumping and dumping stocks is great for quick $$$
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 04:20 AM
1

🤮🤮🤮
/r/MGTOW29/05/20 04:38 AM
3

well said. you encapsulate all the great maxims. solid vid!
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 12:50 AM
8

Good way to look at it. Nice wrote up!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 11:13 PM
0

K thx for agreeing and still disagreeing. Have fun out there
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 10:24 AM
0

Same could be said for Star Trek, doctor who, firefly and a host of other shows, but hey, you’re opinion is what counts
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 11:38 PM
0

Trueeee. Be the guy who sees ‘chaos as a ladder’ (Nerd alert)
/r/MGTOW13/04/20 11:39 PM
7

Great analogy!
/r/MGTOW13/04/20 11:33 PM
1

To me, Joe Rogan have a helluva explanation for this exact topic And IMHO... it wanes. I might really dig the newness and her, but after a few times, and getting to know her, the caring slides it’s way out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:56 AM
-1

Uhhhhmmmmm, thanks?
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 03:20 AM
4

Congrats on earning the True Grit award. (I know that sounds like a smart ass remark, but I am being serious. It's a super tough achievement to accomplish, and many people don't know what it's like until they live through it). Big ups for you brotha
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 07:37 PM
5

If you like your job, don’t fuck. If, fuck your job, then fuck her and quit
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 04:58 AM
21

Move on. Sounds like you liked the attention he gave you but are not into him, if so it’s better for both of you if you find someone/something else for your time/attention
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:23 PM
2

No offense taken since your post was equally vague and nonsensical as OP’s warning
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 01:08 AM
9

Try..... paragraphs
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 05:01 PM
4

Your user name + this topic does not equal profit, nor does your short list of bs criteria which is not conclusive. TLDR: go feed your cats ‘princess’
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 02:07 AM
30

Do you really think in the next 10 years (your 20’s) you won’t meet ANY good partners? Seriously? Let it go, and move on with your life. It was a tough but good decision IMO
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 07:02 PM
2

Have you read, ‘When I Say No I Feel Guilty’? Because there’s a plethora of examples to tire out anyone who gives you shit. Basically what everyone else has said, say no, be firm, have boundaries, and pretend she’s 6 years old and treat her as such* (the end is IMO which seems to work for me Bc I will out sass anyone)
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 09:55 AM
1

it’s a trap
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 03:11 AM
3

You twat! Thanks for getting my hopes up
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 03:01 AM
1

Yes, and now that you have it, you should too
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 06:06 AM
1

Men’s walls are tables. If you find yourself as a low status, fat bellied, low SMV guy, you’ve found your wall
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 02:33 AM
1

The title led me to believe something constructive would transpire, instead a diatribe about...? If you’re at the gym, try focusing on why you’re there and leave the people watching to everyone else
/r/MGTOW08/10/19 05:09 AM
9

It sounds like you’re bored (you said that) and you want social interaction. Can you think of any other ways that appeal to you that would both a) give you something to do, b) give you social interaction, c) meet guys, d) perhaps get you off your phone? Do you have a hobby that could take the time you’re investing in checking for a new msg? IMO a guy, or a msg from a guy shouldn’t be the bulk of what makes you happy/how you spend your time
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 02:17 AM
1

I think you’re thinking backwards on this. Personally, the way you’re describing it, he might’ve been trying to prove to himself he can get it up. I’ve failed in that department before and it’s a real mind fuck every time thereafter. It has nothing to do with my partner Also, does he know you looked at his tabs? Does he know how you feel? Maybe you could talk with him in a supportive way and try to help out wherever you can. I feel like my boner was improved greatly when my SO was helpful and wo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:12 PM
3

As a man I can tell you, even when I love my partner and the sex is fantastic between us, I still will want to play solo at times too. And Ive used porn, gone wild, or whatever to help with that. You’re entitled to your feelings, but you may be over thinking your other statements.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:04 PM
2

Agree 100%, but I think he wanted to try to grab his stuff from her apt. And he seemed like a ‘nice guy’
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 01:01 PM
-1

bruhhhhh I got no fucks for anyone that straw mans a person. OP has nothing to contribute is the point
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 09:42 PM
5

Maybe I’m not up on TRP politics and gossip games, but what is this? If Roosh had posts that taught you to become better, AND YOU DID, and now you don’t like who he his, does hat really matter? You educated yourself and became a better man, and you’re now belittling the guy that helped you do that? Straw man argument at best here, and yet, what’s the point? If you don’t agree with him, move on, or contribute something worthwhile, don’t bash a dude.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 07:54 PM
1

You should def reply back and tell this girl how much you like her, and you have all these feelings that you want to tell her about. Also, send 🍆 pics, but put googly eyes on it so she thinks you’re not just another fuck boy
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:35 PM
2

Ever hear of shit tests? And also if you have so much going on in your life, her ass wouldn’t be the top priority... so you could put her in the corner, get to her when you need to, and fuck her. Also, ever read anything from the side bar? It’s located on the side for reference
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:08 PM
40

Bro, rough draft your preamble next time. This is all over the place
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 02:58 AM
3

You’ll find out soon enough what works and what doesn’t. I’m not going to tell you how to live your life, but I can say that I’ve seen some very underhanded and malicious ways people deal with boundary pushers. And I’ve seen a bunch of pushovers who’d don’t do anything. Best of luck with your decisions
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:12 AM
3

Bc you’re still attracted to each other/ would bang again
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:30 PM
3

Try it and find out. (I’ve water faster and the first 24hrs felt bleh, but by day 2 felt pretty rockstar, ymmv)
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:16 AM
3

EDIT: Well said!^^ Red pill principle is based on action > words. Words are easy and don't hold any responsibility. Action, especially working on ourselves is the real gambit.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 10:54 PM
1

She gave many indicators of who I am, but never my name. It was a bunch of half truths and bs, which I did nab a lawyer with. I got a cease and desist and eventually she moved from the state. At this point the damage has been done, and I've been laying low for a year to rebrand myself, which has been working...
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:51 PM
6

Ruined my social life pretty extensively. She has a blog/is a writer. Wrote a piece bout me emotionally objectifying her, and then blasted it on fb. She and I were coworkers in an adult social sports league... she was in charge of the larger league and friends with many of the people on fb, and thus many people saw the post. (She was cheating on me when we dated, but she stated said that I took advantage of women). I was already known as a lothario so I had a huge black mark on me and the talk o…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:53 PM
63

Maybe I’m an asshole, but I’d focus less on sex and more on yourself and the things you’ve expressed that might have pushed him away. Bc if he comes back, will he feel pushed again after some time? It’s not easy, and congrats for the work you started already, but is necessary for us all to work on ourselves (first)
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 01:42 PM
2

Imagine it this way, would your dad say that to you? Or, would you say that to a kid?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:34 PM
4

Yep! Pretty much the exact answer he was looking for in this sub. Thanks for your $0.02
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:37 PM
3

Bro, actions speak louder than words. How many times in 2 weeks have you guys hung out? If it’s more than 3 you need to slow your role and get busy with life.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:04 PM
1

The problem is this post is thoughtless. I’m not asking for the next Rollo Tomassi, BUT if OP or anyone tries to be, at least the material would be thought provoking and not a waste of time
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:10 PM
5

*every person has their childhood selves inside of them, you’ll see it when they become highly emotional That said, women are highly emotional, so you’ll see it all the time, especially if they get rejected. Just look at kids who thro temper tantrums when told ‘no’
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:21 AM
25

What’s the point of this post... if you’ve read the sidebar this shouldn’t be new. AWALT or something like that
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 05:03 PM
2

Hey...
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:45 AM
1

What? What are you saying? A chick who LJBF you is treating you like a LJBF dude, is that what I’m reading?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:41 AM
1

So... she’s being a brat and wants you to give in? You’re not her mommy; be her daddy and put baby in the corner, or put her in timeout til she’s done being bratty
/r/askTRP05/05/19 11:31 PM
7

dafuq bro? Do you even sidebar? Amoral sexual strategy is not the same as breaking trust in a relationship. You’re an ass
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:42 AM
1

I feel like I just clicked on one of those click baity articles on snapchat. Can you believe his gf said THIS to him...!?!?!?
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:38 PM
1

First q is, are you even asking permission or validation? Sounds like you’re already trying Two, go for it, if not you’ll stay exactly where you are in bumblefck friend zone
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:09 AM
1

I noticed it when I started seeing it happen. Like watching the story unfold and knowing the answers to whats going on and why...
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:36 PM
3

You wake from the matrix and get to play life by whatever rules you want with a big shit eating grin as you do it
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:34 PM
3

Treat and talk to them as if they are a guy or if you have a 6 year old niece / nephew you can compare them to/treat them like. Your entire outlook changes when you reframe how you see people... everyone is the same, we all want to make friends and are inherently nice.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:45 AM
5

“Thanks I’ll take that into consideration” when he offers advice. If he presses you, tell him your own question. As prez, I’ll run my business how I see fit, etc... then thank him again for his input
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:24 AM
2

Idk about anyone else, but I focus on me first. If pain is physical: ibuprofen, ‘RICE’, stretch Emotional, etc: put one foot in front of the other, reach out to my bro’s *if it’s like depression/grief: therapy, force myself to do activities (not gaming girls) that make me happy, and finding support Ps, hope you’re doing alright buddy. You should reach out to someone if something is bugging you
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:39 PM
6

If you have to ask, them you already know. Don’t unblock
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:53 AM
1

Post-bacc
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:31 PM
1

Went back at 33. My grades were better, the teachers respected me more, and still got a few college cuties. All worth it IMO
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:24 PM
1

Maybe, not everything is about you. Maybe they just suck at life and you’re there to soak it up. Brush it off and put your thoughts to the ones who are all about you instead
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:53 PM
1

Making yourself look and feel better is a good thing. Do it, especially if you have Austin Powers teeth
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:51 PM
1

It’s a dopamine dump that does ruin your brain, that much is true. And the user below is correct, as guys become complacent with porn instead of approaching. Point is, do what works for you, and also, try becoming better in some areas too. Can’t hurt
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:19 PM
1

You make a promise to yourself to go If your word is shit, then you won’t go, but if you want your word to mean something, you’ll find a way to go
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:24 AM
5

Ignore them til they are 18
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:19 AM
2

why? live your own life; use what (knowledge) you can, discard the rest.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:44 PM
1

Does something you do leisurely change your core beliefs, and who you believe yourself to be?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:07 PM
1

Could it be... more like this?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:06 AM
1

... “all I want is free validation”... Iiiiisss that all you want? If so, go get your IOI’s from life where you seem to get them. “My pictures aren’t great and I have no bio”... Stop complaining if you already know you’re half-assing it and getting zero results
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:59 AM
1

I treat betas like tantrum-throwing kids, and vice versa. Don't feed into their shit, don't rationalize with them, don't give them any attention. They are both trying to steal your attention, and wear you down... ignore those little shits
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:40 PM
1

you're right. you could have seriously low levels and taking a measily amount of D3 won't do anything ​ also, here's a an article that Rick And Morty’s Co-Author Dan Harmon was asked 'How To Cope With Depression' ​ also no hobbies? like nothing you're interested in? not comics? gaming? playing outside? anything? there's a link I can't find about a guy who beat his depression while playing catch with people. Got himself a 2 baseball gloves, a ball, and asked people to play... just a thought, easy…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 07:08 PM
1

You want grip work? look into tennis elbow rehab exercises and grip strength workouts. they will help 1000%
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:03 PM
1

To help with that, get wrist wraps
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:59 PM
1

There's a lot you can change, if you want to. There's plenty of great advice here too that I won't parrot. ​ BUT I will say, you should def get your Vitamin D levels checked. No joke makes a world of difference
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:56 PM
2

High school and my first bachelors, I was unmedicated. "C's get degrees" is legit saying. My second degree, I was medicated (vyvanse), changed career paths and am in medicine now. I had a clearer focus then, and feel more aligned now. ​ Your 2nd q: ADHD is hereditary, and can be brought on by childhood issues that don't manifest til later in life aka yes, it is a real thing. ​ PS vaccination doesn't give you autism, in case you want to ask that next
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:52 PM
1

honestly, I would look into your micronutrients... you may be lacking some substantial ones (D, Mg, Zn, B12- they play big roles in cravings)
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:37 PM
1

if it's not you, then some other red pilled dude will do it... ​ personally, I have and would do again, but will never go to their house
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:35 PM
2

Themselves. People don’t think they can, so they won’t try. Or, trying in general. Nowadays I see so many people move their mouths but do diddly when it comes to action. They want to be spoon fed results without any effort. Effort is hard... making excuses is easy and can coddle people’s ego’s.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:39 AM
3

Congrats on curing yourself, and “thanks” for the warning
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:18 AM
6

First step is get diagnosed, because medication makes a WORLD of difference. There are a few website “attitudemag . Com” and the like which have helped me dial in diet. But the biggest help has been becoming disciplined through stoicism practice, meditation, lifting, counting to 5 before talking, really trying to listen before speaking... and since I’m on mobile, I forget where I was going with that. But yea, get tested, get meds, get discipline
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:55 PM
2

I’ve recently let a friendship of 17 yrs drift away. Homeboy was in a rut and turned on me after I helped him out. I warned him about my newer boundaries and RP life and he was still a dick. I’m looking at what I can control/ who’s in my life and he can stay a fool and be demoted to a fb friend.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:23 AM
1

A few things... use paragraphs. 2) maybe she shaved a diff part of her body 3) I don’t think you understand trp as youre doing everything BUT escalation. (You’re thinking and acting like a girlfriend ) Do your homework buddy
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:15 AM
1

Write SMART (<-acronym) goals for yourself that you see everyday.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:37 AM
2

You can’t control life... it ebbs and flows. Don’t get down on yourself man, that’s easy to do and not worth it. Be positive, and talk to yourself in a positive way. You’ll get back on track soon man, yes it takes discipline, but what’s a week if you live your best life for another 80 yrs.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:36 AM
1

My bad, you and OP want to be spoon fed answers. Search “her frame” in the sub / the Red Pill and see what the first 20 results are Edit: ... sounds like you're expecting something different than what's actually going on. She sees you as a caring ATM aka beta bux BUT without the title, which means her frame is prevailing here. Reading below... "I really like her and I don't want to drive her away", dude that is ONEitis (which is in the sidebar). How you don't drive her away is having an abundanc…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:26 PM
3

She wants to fuck...at the end of the night after she’s gotten all the attention she can get. Either be more interesting than everyone else, care less when she pulls that, talk to others at the bar -when she talks to people, text her to come out by you, don’t mate guard. Actually, do all of the above
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:14 AM
2

What exactly do you track? Lifting progression? %’s? Nutrition? Programs? Your knowledge on lifting? ....none of the above...?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:07 AM
31

Man, I wish there was some info on shit tests in the sidebar
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:05 AM
1

dude, you got any other info that would be pertinent for helping your situation?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:23 PM
1

If they’re polaroids, there shouldn’t be...
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:48 AM
2

Boring But Big
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:46 AM
6

Go in, bang, take it and bounce Then play dumb if she asks you about it
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:45 AM
2

I screwed up my rotator cuffs benching, so I focused on decline bench and cable flys, in addition to rotator cuff rehab exercises. Don’t keep hitting bench if shoulders or elbows are aching.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:42 AM
1

If making something up doesn’t appeal to you, just be aloof af. “Wouldn’t you like to know”, “I lived a hella good life” etc. if they push for more, tell them you read the entire time, with a smirk.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:09 AM
3

Awesome sauce! Glad to hear it, and best of work
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:11 AM
4

After my BPD ex and I split, I got away from her and anyone she went near. My life is way more important than anything related to what or who my ex was doing. Move on and don’t associate with your ex or whoever the fuck she goes near
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:34 AM
1

I did not as far as the book says. I have two best buds that I suggested the book to, and they became ones I could talk about it with. I was their safe person, so, sort of. (If that makes sense)
/r/askTRP26/12/18 03:33 AM
2

I wrote a list of the people I wanted to keep, and what boundaries I had with them. Were they where I wanted them? (They weren’t) so I focused on those. I started with a solid foundation and it reverberated from there to more superficial relations. *And some of the ones I thought were more meaningful, weren’t as I instituted better boundaries. That would be my tip
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:27 PM
1

It’s a long road that can be tough, which starts with your mindset needing a change. My 2 cents would be to read ‘daring greatly’ and listen to Tim Robbins to put you on the right track.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:55 PM
1

Sooo what you’re actually saying is... that you aren’t sure if you’re doing a new posture exercise correct because your shoulders are engaged differently than how you normally have them? Is that what you meant to say? I’m sorry if I wasn’t clear that your shoulders SHOULD feel pinned/pinched because you are activating them and it will feel awkward/different. Practice makes perfect. .. pm me if you want more help.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 12:01 AM
14

Stand up in a normal stance. Feet shoulder width apart. Hands flat and open at your sides. ​ raise your hands above your head... (you should feel like your shoulder blades tighten)... ​ keeping hands flat, and open, bring them down in front of you like (like the wand exercise:flexion ** but down not up **) to the original position ​ Don't let your shoulders drop... just your arms. your shoulders will be pinned in the correct position, and your body is aligned properly. ​ savvy? ​
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 08:51 PM
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Quick tip to align your upper trunk: when standing, raise both arms above your head (like you’re doing the wave). Bring your arms down without releasing your shoulders (ie: just arms move down). Your shoulders and upper trunk will now be in correct alignment and you’ll feel it. Try it! Don’t be discouraged if you can’t do it for more than a few mins at a time
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 08:37 PM
1

Don’t psych yourself out and approach anyway! It’s all a learning curve
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:40 AM
1

The Tao of Steve .....no joke good
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:30 PM
1

That was the sweetest dropping of the hammer I’ve ever had the pleasure of reading. It’s so fucking accurate it gives chills
/r/askTRP27/07/18 06:34 PM
1

I'd say similar to passive aggressive behavior with someone one on one... ignore it completely, like it doesn't exist. Be so into your own world of fun/ happy sentiment (etc) that you utterly deny any ass hats from projecting their bad behavior onto you. Killing people with kindness works in conjunction with that as well
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:56 AM
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Get a life... stop putting so much interest in one woman. Have a fulfilling life that comes first and if / when you want company, reach out to your options (read: more than one woman)
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:22 AM
1

don’t burn bridges.. and be honest too Cut them out, straight up stop letting them use your (precious) time; be honest that you’re really busy with x, y, z and can’t hang with them, and be congenial about it. They’ll realize they can’t suck your life force anymore and eventually move on without much help. From this approach, real friends will appear.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:05 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your past brother, childhood is a crapshoot that we all have hard lessons to learn and grow from. I’m happy for you that you’ve made it here and have opened yourself up to this, and to life along the way. All around sold post, thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:54 PM
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Sorry to hear bro, deaths are tough. IMO stoicism and trying to keep it together is best around anyone and if you slip up, try to regain composure. Your true boys will be there when you want to let it all out. (Otherwise you’ll find many people stay away from you, especially women)
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:41 PM
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Red pill isn’t a magic pill that makes every girl want to fuck you... IMO everyone gets one chance with someone in life, due to timing/ mindset etc In any case, move on and worry about improving and other interests
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:35 AM
1

dude... EVERYONE likes an ass. own it. chicks dig their paws into it when it comes time for the pokey pokey
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:21 AM
1

I was in a similar boat, and honestly, if this is the worst thing you have going on, your life is pretty okay. Advice: fully jump in... your hair isn't coming back, so get rid of the lot, and own it. People dig someone who owns their shit. (if you can't jump to a razor, get a buzzer and trip down to the lowest setting and rock that for awhile first, it'll kill the initial shock)
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:20 AM
3

unmatch and keep swiping. also, improve your AA / text game (joking about rape is a no no bro)
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:16 AM
2

I give you a lil bit of props for actually asking for her number... Since you got rejected, stop, calibrate and listen: read every post in the sidebar, and get every book it mentions, read those too. Then in two-five years you can ask her again
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:12 AM
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To me, when someone talks about doing things... that's all it is. They talk about it like that means something. Actions bro. Actions mean you start working on whatever it is you want to be. Like many of suggested, stop talking about 'what you should do', and instead, make a check list, and start DOING those things. (Do the exercises in the books. Make time for yourself and find your actual personality and let it free. Then approach 100 people, get comfortable with who you really are with them th…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:06 AM
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I can share one... men with lower SMV do a lot more gossiping too. I invited this chick to a group bar crawl on Sat. She’s been around my group of friends before and is chill. She joined us and hopped to 3 bars with us all. During that time she hung near me, but also engaged everyone. The other dudes would stare and hover nearby but never fully chatted her, me, or either of us fully. Two of those guys have been texting her (for a month, and haven’t closed the deal), and hovered nearby throughout…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:29 PM
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I ignore nudes as if they weren’t even sent to me... drives them crazy because that’s their tool for validation and weak dudes to trip on themselves over them. If YOU’RE the prize, she should be hungry for you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:44 AM
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I dated someone like this once... I dumped her because a) you can’t make someone respect you, they decide if they will or not, b) she inherently wasn’t happy with herself and projected it onto me, c) she was nothing special. Aftermath was really bad because of a,b, c and since have found better. Moral: you should find a better one
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:20 AM
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I use Manson’s Fuck yea or (long) no for all relationships. If I’m not totes all about having that person in my life... they get the ‘long no’ to being my acquaintances... which is basically only seeing them out publicly and being cordial. My friends are my family, it’s best to have the good ones close. All othersget the ax
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:14 AM
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It IS condescending, which is why I say it in the way I do (to get a laugh). It also clarifies whatever vague statement I just heard to something intelligent. I use it with everyone. Advice? Go talk to people, like everyone. Be random, develop you personality and who you want to be in life and be that person unapologetically. Also, be kind overall. No one likes an a-hole
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:30 PM
1

My niece is 6... when she says something vague, I usually quip back with, 'use your words'. Said it to a female this wkend, she rightly said that was condescending, but laughed and answered. Talking to kids, break it down, be snarky, be playful... I'm pretty sure the sidebar has this. Something about being the fun teasing uncle.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:37 PM
2

Hey man, I feel your pain... the initial pain anyway. At first it seems like it’s the worst... but accepting it, and rocking it is the way to go. I’m 37, shave my head (receding hair line & grey) and have a short beard (skunk stripe right down my chin) year round. I get more compliments from people bc of how happy I am with that (and myself) than any other. Decide what look you want, embrace it, and rock it! You’re a man, we age, it happens
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:36 PM
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Tap into self respect, how bout that? Maybe if I said, “OP you should stop wasting your time on this girl and go find someone who‘d be enthusiastic when you asked her out”, then maybe you would think “that commenter may be right, I should stop wasting mine, and everyone else’s time by pining over a girl that really isn’t that interested and find someone who is”. But... you’re not gonna do that, and I wouldn’t say that. It’s unfortunate, but you’ll find out soon enough
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:38 AM
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...stop playing the ‘what if’ game. If X, then Y... the other commenters nailed it. Have plans (x), invite her (Y)... she doesn’t come/ says maybe / etc = don’t waste one more word, ignore and goodbye If she comes... hang, escalate, grab her thigh and tell her she’s coming back, etc.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 04:00 AM
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I lost close to 100# and have kept it off for eight years now. Lifting heavy has helped but I still have those problem areas... and yknow what? DGAF at all about them. And I think that translates to how other people perceive them. My gym bro wants me to try Tren, and being 37, I could.. but attitude with muscle says more than my non perfect skin. Just my .02
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:03 AM
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Dude... abort now. Don’t wait, you’ll get attached because the sex is good, and the bad behavior will only increase. If she is BPD, you’ll end up in a world of hurt at the end. No relationship is worth receiving abuse verbally or physically
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:07 AM
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I’ve got an addendum to this trick. Should you find yourself relaxing when walking around... Stop. Stand with feet shoulder width apart (or normal stance). Raise both arms above your head like you’re doing the wave, then lower them to the front (slowly, don’t just let them drop). Your shoulders should be pinned back into the sockets and fully engaged. They’ll stay that way longer than normal, and easy to make the string trick work. Try it
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:34 AM
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I'll add my .02 to #2... life is what you make of it. What do YOU want? What do you want to spend the most time on, and where do you want it to lead? Do you want kids? Do you want to have fun til you drop? Do you want both? Life is much about enlightening yourself and what you want right now may change in a few years, and may change again after that; only you can decide that. The most optimal model would be the one that works for what you want out of life. What is your end goal (which you should…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:55 AM
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In shape people have cold hands...because the blood is used by your core for internal organs and such. My tip: get used to it, and if I'm about to touch someone, shake them, or do some movement to warm my body up
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:39 PM
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If it works for you, stick with it. After you've become experienced (read: done it awhile) and want to adapt, try something new. Here's something most people don't say... do you have a goal in mind? Make a few S.M.A.R.T. Goals (ask google) and work towards those things. Strengths numbers don't matter / are relative if you have the mindset of working towards the goal of what you want. 100 pull-ups in 3 months? 10 BW deadlifts / bench / squat in 6? Run a mile in 4.16 minutes? Whatever... just make…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:11 AM
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Move on. "The medium is the message" meaning her actions (delayed msgs) and lethargic answer to your question have already shown that she's not into it. Sorry buddy, but there are way more less shallow women out there... go grab their numbers and tallyho!
/r/seduction07/09/17 05:37 AM
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Ooohhhhhh myyyy gooooood... whattt the flying fuck is up with women? Like, literally what the fuck are they thinking (not thinking) with Shit like this!
/r/MGTOW09/08/17 03:04 AM
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Idk if I can offer any better advice but can offer you what'll happen if you don't confront him and,or break up with her. I had nearly the exact issue, except I was as outgoing as your boy J. I hit on girls, kept emotions and my frame high and didn't gaf, even tho I was in love with my ex. The minute I broke up with her, my boy "J" took me out for beers and about 2 weeks later, banged my ex. Afterwards it got real messy and won't go into it... but you lose twice as much then. Advice: cut J out. …
/r/askTRP28/06/17 10:26 PM
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personally I've found a counter with... "what don't I want from you?" and escalate seems to work nicely. And if she pesters with it again.. I stop, and ask what she's looking for, and play off that.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:18 PM
1

she can have some of my TIME but never any of my MONEY
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:29 AM
1

hey man, sorry for your loss. I've been going through my own hell over a recent death in my life. Even asking for help on here is a great thing, and the commenters who've posted already all say what I would, which is very solid IMO. I found this along my time of grieving... maybe it'll help reddit gold ps. monk mode has been the single best way to work on things (for me). I highly recommend it
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:25 AM
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simply put, if she's not chasing you at all, you are wasting 100% of your time with thoughts/ game/ emotions etc regarding this chick. personally, if I try once, or maybe twice, and it doesn't happen... I just move along. I know a chick like that. she bangs on the first date, and then keep dudes lingering for eternity bc she likes the attention. she's a waste in every sense of the word. you can do better homie, I believe in you
/r/seduction17/05/17 10:52 PM
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my story's similar to the others who posted. it's hella difficult to break away, because the back and forth is akin to the highs of drug use. my ex stalked me, f*cked people I thought were friends, did a pretty decent smear campaign, the whole nine... and I "let her" because I was co-dependent and a wuss. the answer? stop. just stop everything. it's tough, and it's a long process but your sanity and life are worth it. for me, therapy helped. also, 180 on life, dropping friend groups, hobbies, an…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:45 AM
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YES! had a recent major issue where all I wanted was support, just by someone being there. All they had to do was sit there while I talk/vent/cry etc. -lost 3 female 'friends' (all said they literally couldn't help me) --lost a major amount of bros who said they were close to me ---all in all, kept 2 newer (<5 yrs) & 3 older (>10 yrs) friends. All you need is what you can count on one hand
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 12:03 AM
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I agree with everyone who said NO to paying, no matter how the invitation was suggested. Whether it's the first, second, or whenever meetup, the magic words to say actually are I'm pro feminism so we are going dutch (we pay for ourselves), OR, You get this, I'll get the next both have worked just fine everytime, no matter the activity
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:22 AM
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The Tao of Steve
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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