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OP, we don't allow repetitive posts. You have posted about this topic twice before and you have received advice before. Can you clarify what your question is and what you think we can help you with, that is different to your other posts?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/26 06:01 AM
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This is off topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/26 11:29 PM
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Removed. Don't gatekeep the subreddit. We will do that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 05:49 AM
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Removed. We discuss strategies for getting relationships. Strategies for sleeping around will not be discussed. Guys you sleep around with are going to dump you anyway, better throat game is not going to make them want to start a relationship with you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 11:37 PM
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This is the second low effort discussion post you've made. No low effort posts and you must attempt to answer your own question. Also Rule 9, RPW is not for men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/26 12:05 AM
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I'm sorry, I know you mean well but this is just not the right audience for it. Please go and be happy but RPW is about finding relationships with men. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 11:38 PM
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Removed. A core tenet of RPW is that women want love. Your statement that "Love isn't real from men anyway" leaves me wondering why you are here at RPW at all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 06:59 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/26 01:04 AM
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Removed. Rule 3: no insulting our members.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 06:26 AM
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Removed. "Leave him" must not be your first piece of advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 06:25 AM
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You are confusing cause and effect and this advice doesn't help women in the long run. Unless you are married to one of those girls their strategies didn't work out either. Removed, Rule Zero.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 01:05 PM
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Removed. Rule 9. RPW is not for men to complain.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 02:36 AM
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It doesn't matter what she thinks a man's life is like. RPW is not for men's questions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 12:49 AM
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Removed. Rule 9. RPW is not for men's complaints.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 12:28 AM
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Removed. OP has already said looks are not a deal breaker and that is not the source of her hesitation. If you are unable to give helpful redpill advice you need to move along.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 03:01 AM
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Removed. No male centric discussion, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 04:58 AM
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Removed. This is your second hypothetical post about modesty. Can you please explain to me why this topic is important to you and how it will help you in your own life?
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 08:12 AM
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Removed. This is off topic for RPW. You might want to post on a subreddit that deals specifically with contraception questions.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/26 01:52 PM
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Removed. This is not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/26 12:08 PM
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Removed. Refrain from advising on contraceptive methods that you have no experience with.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 12:37 PM
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Congratulations, SunRose42! u/Wife_and_Mama has awarded you a star! Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 09:34 PM
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Okay, it's back up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 09:04 PM
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Removed. This is not helpful or actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 12:45 PM
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Removed. This is not redpill advice. Specifically, the last paragraph and phrases like "doesn't deserve to have you".
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 06:40 AM
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Removed. Rule 4: advice must be redpill. Men's attraction to women doesn't work the same way women's attraction to men does.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/26 12:36 PM
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Removed. "Leave him" must not be your first piece of advice.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/26 11:29 PM
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This was removed due to Rule 9, RPW is not for men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 03:42 PM
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Removed. Rule 4, advice has to be redpill. Of course no one has to have sex even if married, this is not about that. But this is RPW and we understand that men feel loved through sex. What OP is saying is that she knew this would make her fiance feel unloved and chose to do that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 06:09 AM
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Removed, RPW is an English speaking subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 05:08 AM
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Just a clarification on redpill. It is an understanding of truths, ie that men crave respect and women crave love, and a collection of strategies (eg submission, STFU, etc). Created To Be His Help Meet is very extreme and is also religious; while RPW aims to be amoral. For example, we only use submission because it works better than being defiant, not out of any moral or religious obligation or directive. I quote Whisper from the above article: A woman who is submissive to a man who feels no urg…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/26 08:39 AM
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Removed. Vague validation is not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 01:15 AM
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Removed. Men are not unreasonable for having standards. N count is one of the most difficult to swallow parts of the redpill and if you are not redpilled it is recommended you lurk.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/26 07:41 AM
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That's fine but none of your recent responses have been redpill. Sit this one out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/26 06:43 AM
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Removed, Rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/26 10:59 PM
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Removed. Rule 4, advice must be redpill.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/26 10:59 PM
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Removed. Your personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/26 10:59 PM
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Removed. Part of taking the redpill is understanding that all men care about N count to varying degrees in a way that women don't. There are good evopsych reasons for this, such as men wanting to be sure about paternity, and good traditional/religious reasons, such as wanting a woman with the same values and experiences as them. The redpill does not apply a moral stance not does it shame men for pursuing their optimal strategy, but instead offers workable strategies for women. Such as, finding m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/26 12:21 AM
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RPW is not for moralizing or pushing an ideological viewpoint. It's for discussing what works & what helps women reach their goals.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 11:43 PM
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Removed. Neither this nor your original comment is redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 11:42 PM
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If you can't be polite, be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/26 09:56 PM
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Removed. RPW is for women seeking a male led relationship. From what you've written that doesn't seem to be something you are interested in.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 02:55 AM
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Removed. Your personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 10:39 AM
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Removed. We are an English speaking subreddit and this is not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/26 10:18 PM
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You don't seem to be super familiar with the male spaces (that's actually a good thing) so I'll link these from the Wiki: Benefits of taking the Red Pill for women Axioms of RPW We're not one size fits all A red pill woman is someone who understands red pill concepts and applies them in her life to get and keep the best man she can. Not everyone benefits from the red pill but those who are struggling in their relationships or are single often can.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/26 01:11 AM
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There are weekly OYS posts at r/redpillwives, see latest: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/1rrq4r8/weekly_oys_march_12_2026/
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 08:53 PM
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Removed. The inconsistent punctuation and capitalisation tells me AI did not write the OP. Is it so crazy to imagine that people can actually write and proofread their own work?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 05:29 AM
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OP, this question is not controversial. What is controversial is you considering getting back with an emotionally and physically abusive man. This post is removed because it is beyond the scope of RPW. I don't think you need our help figuring out what is abusive since you gave good definitions in your own words in your post history. In terms of RPW, good leadership is not abusive. Anything more nuanced we can save until you're safe and ready to move on. I do not think a discussion will be helpfu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 10:50 AM
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I disagree. Don't gatekeep the subreddit if you're not a moderator. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 02:33 AM
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Red Pill Women is older than Fresh&Fit, Andrew Tate and Nick Fuentes' online influencer careers. They all mostly came along after r/TheRedPill was quarantined on Reddit, and emulate TheRedPill's locker room talk and talking points, with varying degrees of understanding. They also don't (or rather, shouldn't) give advice to women. Check out TRP vs RPW from the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 03:31 AM
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Your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/26 05:00 AM
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Removed. Rule 9. A reminder that men who are commenting must be experts in redpill theory, preferably older or married.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/26 04:01 AM
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Removed. Advice must be from a redpill perspective. If you want to remain single, RPW is not for you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 07:03 AM
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Removed. Sarcasm has to be a little more helpful/obvious than this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:23 AM
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Removed. No male centric discussion on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 11:52 PM
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Removed. Don't insult our community members, especially our flaired community members.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 10:15 PM
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No. That is my final mod decision on this thread. Please note we have a related "Leave him must not be your first piece of advice" rule. If you would like to appeal this with my fellow mods, please send a modmail.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 01:12 AM
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Removed. This is not actionable advice for the OP.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 09:51 PM
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Removed. RPW is not for debates.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 08:46 PM
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Removed. Please post in English on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 01:10 AM
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Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/26 09:57 PM
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I don't really care whether it's pro or anti feminism or pro or anti traditionalism. It is simply off topic political/ideological discussion. RPW does not exist to justify ideologies or lifestyles or religions or political movements, be they traditional or progressive. If you would like to bring this to the attention of the rest of the mod team, please send a modmail of your own wording.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/26 06:21 AM
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Removed. RPW is not for debating or justifying feminism. Rule 5.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/26 05:51 AM
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Removed. Rule 2, sorry, we don't allow questions on behalf of others.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 09:44 PM
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Yeah. Dinner is a way bigger chore than lunch anyway and someone is making that, and your husband and you both work! I'm not sure why working AND making lunch is grounds for a divorce in that woman's mind.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 10:04 PM
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Removed. You are jumping the gun to "Leave him". This is a married woman who may also have children. We don't know what their individual chores in the household are, it is possible he does his fair share.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 02:08 AM
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You don't understand female mentality or concerns. She will get many DMs from thirsty men. Generally women hate that. /u/MelodicContract4256
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/26 09:51 PM
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Removed. This advice is not helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/26 04:12 AM
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That's enough. Oleander has two stars. You have none and have no idea what strategies work for women. Rule 3, Do not insult our members, and Rule 9, single men should not posting on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/26 12:43 AM
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Removed. See comment on your other post about post frequency.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 11:17 AM
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The recommended number of threads is 1 per person until you have had time to digest the advice on your last thread or until you have a new field reports to contribute. Please don't post again until you've had a chance to read our wiki and tried out the advice on your last thread.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 11:13 AM
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Removed. Rule 4: this is not redpill advice. OP specifically mentioned she wanted redpill insight vs "just be yourself", which is absolutely useless advice.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 05:53 AM
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I'm sorry, we only allow regular contributors to link off-site and advertise their own work. If you want feedback from RPW you will have to post the contents here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/26 05:40 AM
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Removed. We like to explore other options before recommending divorce at RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/25 06:37 AM
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Removed. Rule 9, men should be experts in redpill theory, and Rule 4, advice should be banked by redpill theory. This is not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/25 10:21 PM
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Removed. This is not actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/25 06:04 AM
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They are actually broken up as per the post. Multiple people have said that her title was unclear so if you got that impression, you're not the only one. Relationship counselling is not actionable because they are not in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/25 03:33 AM
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Removed. This is not actionable for the OP and doesn't help her situation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/25 11:30 PM
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Don't declare that you are a man. The women here don't like that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/25 04:46 AM
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Removed. RPW is not for men's questions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/25 03:29 AM
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Removed. Your questions about kink are getting weird. If you are single, this is not what you should be focusing on and asking RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/25 09:41 AM
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Removed. Men's questions don't belong on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/25 11:48 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/25 09:07 AM
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Removed. Your first two sentences are not redpill advice. If you delete the sentiment that blames men for having options and preferences, the rest of your comment is fine. You shouldn't have to shame men for their natural preferences to give advice or feel better about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 03:42 AM
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Removed, this is not relationship advice. We don't allow public solicitation of personal information.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 03:34 AM
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I/We didn't say all feminists are bad. The reason I didn't explain why the No True Scotsman fallacy is appropriate with you using phrases like so the “feminists” you talked about are actually not feminists at all Is because I didn't think you'd understand it, nor did I think your reading comprehension is any good. Arguing about what feminism is on RPW is frankly, stupid. Shouldn't you be arguing with the fake feminists about what they've done for women? Why waste your time with women who aren't …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/25 08:44 PM
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Feminism is allowed as the topic of discussion as per this post. Jumping in to defend feminism is not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/25 08:01 PM
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Removed. Rule 5, no feminism. You might also want to look up the No True Scotsman fallacy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/25 07:08 PM
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If you're a man and feel the need to comment, think again. Arguments in the comments between men about men's issues will be removed as off topic. Insults will be removed under Rule 3. Bans are being handed out liberally. This is not a subreddit for men, it is for women. Unless you're talking about women's issues and problems, the discussion is off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/25 01:59 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 04:15 AM
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Removed. No need for snark right now.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/25 02:41 AM
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Removed. This is not actionable redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 09:54 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 06:33 AM
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Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 06:31 AM
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Not just marriage but also LTR and children. Some women here don't want marriage but want an LTR, some do want children, others don't. The redpill component is acknowledging the gender differences between men and women, from a traditional or evolutionary psychology basis. Here is where certain truths that are hard to swallow are openly discussed. Eg, the Wall (the effect of age), the effect of N Count/promiscuity or sex work, effect of weight/appearance, the effect of prior children/marriage, th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 03:45 AM
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This is a brilliant analogy and I'm going to award you a star. Great write up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 04:55 AM
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Yes! Congratulations u/dropdeadgorgon on your third star!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 10:35 PM
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Removed. Rule 3, don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 05:22 AM
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Removed. This is not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 10:15 PM
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Removed. Accusations of abuse should not be made without proof.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 11:32 AM
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Removed. Leave him is not the first option. Don't insult OP's husband.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 01:30 AM
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Low effort comments are removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/25 06:14 AM
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Removed. Leave him should not be your first piece of advice.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/25 03:42 AM
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Removed. No self promotion. If this is not self promotion, you have to restate the argument in the video in the body of the post.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/25 12:37 AM
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Removed. Lurk more.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/25 01:05 AM
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Removed. This is not nuanced and bad advice for the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 02:11 AM
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It's certainly a lively debate, which I am enjoying, and what I have always enjoyed in RP spaces. But saying women can't be sexual with a FT job is like saying "modern life is making us fat, we can't be skinny because there are seed oils and sugar in everything and here are some studies to prove that". It's not about being complacent and accepting yourself the way you are it's about changing yourself to meet your goals. Don't be fat. Look for practical solutions to save your sex life and your ma…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/25 02:15 AM
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This subreddit has always been about self improvement, not getting a free ride, and it has never been about lifestyle but it is a toolbox. There are multiple ECs in this thread at least two of whom have been around for 10 years. Just because people disagree with you doesn't mean it isn't redpill. /u/babyfacedmango
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 06:27 AM
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Removed. "High value man" is vague and in the eye of the beholder.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 06:57 AM
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Insulting people isn't the best way to get them to listen to you or take your advice. I think you just like being mean and getting away with it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 05:26 AM
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Removed. Rule 3, do not insult our members or their men.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 12:32 AM
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Removed. RPW is not for men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 12:33 PM
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Removed. At RPW we do not advise an OP to leave as the first resort, especially if she is married.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 03:49 AM
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Removed. While a lovely story, this is not actionable advice and is not relevant to the OP's situation as it hinges on you/the breadwinner being in love and attracted to him and doesn't address what happens when you lose attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 03:23 AM
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Removed. Please stick to actionable advice for the OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 03:15 AM
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Removed. Your first part is only partly correct and your second part is a wild jump. A reminder that RPW is not for men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 01:04 AM
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This post seems to have attracted a lot of outside attention so let me clarify some redpill 101: Men are the gatekeepers of relationships, and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men have trouble finding women that will have sex with them, and women have trouble finding men to commit to them. Ie: Men often bang anything that moves. Women often have sex with a high status man only to find out he's not interested in a relationship with her.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 05:52 AM
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Cute. This breaks Rule Zero, advice must benefit the woman, and is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 05:25 AM
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Removed. We don't allow posts asking for validation and you have already posted about this recently. I suggest rereading your own posts and what you wrote, as that will likely give you the assurance you require. Journalling is another good way to track thoughts and feelings and gauge improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/25 12:30 PM
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Removed. Snark isn't helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 01:46 PM
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Rule 10: No Moralizing. RPW is not religious or traditional and OP has not mentioned religion so this comment is off base. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 12:40 AM
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Removed. This is insulting OP's fiance and not redpill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/25 11:06 PM
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Removed. No self promotion.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/25 10:56 AM
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Removed. This attitude is not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 04:08 AM
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Removed. Posts on RPW must be high effort. Yours has a single word and a title.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 06:13 AM
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I think you meant to reply to me. The problem is everyone has different goals. Some women are religious, some are not. Some want kids, some do not. RP is about collating things that work and removing them from their traditional or moral context. By now maybe you've figured out that submissive behaviour as a strategy works regardless of whether one is Christian or not. It's like that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 10:40 AM
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Removed. Unfortunately these break Rule 10: No Moralizing. RPW is a toolbox and avoids questions of morality. Nothing says you can't have a moral code but when posting advice it has to be from a place of what works not what is moral. Please review RPW is Not Tradcon to understand our subreddit better.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 08:22 AM
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Removed. No self promotion.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 08:16 AM
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RP isn't a lifestyle. There is no reason a stay at home dad can't be the leader in the family.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 04:22 AM
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Thirsty men tend to validate women no matter what they say (eg "just be yourself!" Or "just turn up!" When asked for dating advice) and they also believe their personal preference applies when it doesn't. Eg, they might like pixie cuts because they had a girlfriend with a pixie cut once, not because that style is attractive to all men. OP is also way more likely to get creepy men in her DMs if she posts there. u/AlexaBabe91
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 03:03 AM
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Removed. This is a field report, from somebody that is presenting as a newbie. You are not being lectured and your comment is mean spirited.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 01:44 AM
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Your exact words were "any mature man" and "predatory". Yes it happens. But there are also many age gap relationships which are not predatory. Avoid moralizing, and further arguing will result in a temporary or permanent ban.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 01:54 AM
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Removed. No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 12:16 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Your personal preferences are not advice, and this is not a redpill response. If the men she wants are rejecting her it is worthy of introspection. We do not write off men as "insecure" simply for having preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 09:51 PM
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Removed. No self advertising, RPW is not a dating site.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 04:07 AM
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Removed. We don't allow questions on behalf of books or others.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/25 01:50 AM
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This post is locked. OP your relationship is terribly unhealthy in so many ways, and is far, far beyond the scope of RPW because of the physical abuse and age gap when you were underage.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 02:30 AM
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Removed. Rule 3, don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 10:16 AM
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Removed. This is not redpill advice. We try to make relationships work rather than advising OP to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 01:32 AM
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This post is locked as you don't seem interested in Red Pill insight nor do you seem interested in self improvement. We do not allow vents nor do we allow posts seeking validation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 10:35 AM
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This post is locked. OP, you need to include all relevant information in your post, including whether you are still married to another man. Not telling us this isn't going to change the veracity of the advice you got last time you asked about this. Deleting posts is also against our subreddit rules. This is a warning.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/25 05:24 AM
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The number of people you have had sex with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 05:35 AM
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Removed. This is unnecessarily insulting, everyone takes the red pill differently and there is an initial anger phase for men and women. If you are a man, you should not be commenting here. Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 09:37 AM
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Removed. You should have left it with the first sentence. I'm reading this as TRP anger phase. If you're single or simply bitter about female hypergamy, you shouldn't be here. Women want attractive successful men and men want hot young women. Of course any man or woman that falls outside those categories will be bitter, resentful and has no place commenting on the other sex's dating strategies.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 03:30 AM
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Removed. Rule 5: no feminism. Please see this post for what is allowed here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 07:52 AM
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Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 10:52 AM
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Removed. Advice must be helpful and actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 06:20 AM
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Removed. Our Rule 10: is no moralizing, and you're now being insulting because OP doesn't agree with your values. It doesn't make her selfish to want to raise her biological child. Take a break.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 02:52 AM
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Because OP didn't ask men, she asked RPW. If she wanted to talk to men she'd post on PurplePillDebate or AskMen. She clearly has a bone to pick with the women of this community, which I've already banned her under Rule 5 for. You can see in in this very thread she ignores men's responses in particular, ie "are you a man?" The women here are easily scared off by male participation and in general are hostile to it. Men also tend to bounce between white knighting and the anger phase and unless they…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 12:30 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 11:11 AM
6

Men shouldn't be commenting unless they are RP experts and satisfy the clauses of the many posts linked in Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 08:48 AM
3

Removed. This is not redpilled enough to satisfy Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 08:47 AM
1

Removed. Insulting our community members' intelligence falls under Rule 3. Your proposed response is an ultimatum and can be simplified to "Propose within X months or we break up". If he previously was planning to propose eventually this is pushy enough to make him reconsider that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 02:24 AM
1

Removed. Rule 9 & advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 02:25 AM
3

Removed. We don't condone jumping to "he's abusive, leave him" here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 07:39 AM
1

Removed. This is not redpill advice. Men and women are judged by different standards on the dating market.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 06:58 AM
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Attention respondents. Anyone giving empty platitudes and non-redpill advice will be removed. Please review the wiki on N Count to see our stance. Important excerpts are quoted below. Some men have a visceral disgust reaction to women with high n-counts. A lower count gives you access to more potential relationship candidates. What we do not believe is that a woman with a higher n-count is broken or has no chance of finding a man Therefore, anyone moralizing or insulting OP or the other women he…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 06:53 AM
1

Removed. This is not redpill advice. See our wiki on N-Count for the redpill view point.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 06:44 AM
1

Removed. Do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 10:27 PM
1

Removed. Don't insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/25 11:46 AM
5

Removed, Rule 9, this isn't a space for men to vent.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/25 07:45 AM
1

Removed. Rule 10: No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:41 AM
1

It does not, but thanks for trying.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 12:15 AM
1

Be careful because negging doesn't mean what you think it means. Edit: Red Archive link of the above post for people that can't access TRP
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 12:06 AM
1

Remove the "high value man" phrase to be specific about why it's bad. Avoid using it in general, quotes or otherwise. The redpill statement is that if a man is "sleazy", ie sleeps with a lot of women, he is obviously doing well in the sexual marketplace, since women are the gatekeepers of sex. Regarding the red pill stuff, target OP's views specifically. You can write as much as you want to make it clear.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 11:29 PM
1

this whole red-pill thing Was the insult. Not every newbie that posts here is representative of the views of the community.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 11:01 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3, don't insult the community. Also, you don't get to say what a high value man is or what he does.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 10:41 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 06:39 AM
1

I don't care. This is not the Christian police subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 01:28 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3. This is unnecessarily rude. Plenty of women here have said they'd stay. Are they all friendless motherless too?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/25 09:49 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 04:29 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3, don't insult community members or their men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 11:10 AM
0

Removed. Don't insult our members, Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 03:11 AM
1

Thank you for being understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 03:05 AM
0

The mod team and subreddit rules have your back, so no need to argue if you don't want to. You can simply report -> breaks this subreddit's rules -> No Feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 03:04 AM
2

No one deserves anything except what they work for. This is not redpill advice, take a break to peruse our wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 01:35 AM
2

Removed. Comments with "pickmeisha" in them unironically are bound to be low effort and not redpill.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 01:34 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3, don't insult the OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 05:35 AM
1

Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 01:06 AM
1

Removed. Snark is not appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 01:06 AM
1

Removed. This is not helpful advice.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 01:50 PM
0

Removed. Rule 3. Do not insult the OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 01:23 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3, do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 09:03 AM
4

Removed. This is not redpill advice. As OP had stated she is looking for redpill advice rather than "he's abusive dump him".
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 05:15 AM
3

Removed. Not sure how this is helpful to OP.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 05:28 AM
1

Removed, this is not redpill advice. The basis of redpill is that men and women perform different tasks and receive different benefits in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 12:03 PM
3

Removed. We don't allow asking questions on behalf of others. Self improvement is a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 02:36 AM
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It's been removed by Reddit, not the mod team now. Not sure why though. I think someone was reporting it under hate and harassment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 08:32 PM
15

Female mod here. I am happy to see well considered controversial thinking and I would hate to remove this post over the last couple paragraphs under Rule 3. Edit out the bit about male mods (none are currently active anyway so it's misrepresenting the mod team, and even if they were they would laugh at your attempt to insult them) and this post can stay up.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 05:59 AM
0

This is removed because of Rule 10. You are in no position to dictate to women what their options are.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 09:27 PM
3

No probs, can you just edit your post and state that this is entirely hypothetical. It might help calm people down (or not, I can't tell these days).
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 05:21 AM
5

OP, can you please clarify if this is a hypothetical situation or it is actually happening to you?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 05:11 AM
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Removed. Rule 5, no feminism, no debating. Please review our policy on feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/25 10:39 AM
13

Congratulations, u/TheFeminineFrame! You've earnt a star for this comment! Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/25 07:15 AM
4

Removed. Avoid stating you are a man or petting the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 04:01 AM
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This was removed because the first two words break rule 9: https://archive.is/Wgcys. Edit them out and I'll re-approve. Please read all the links in Rule 9 in the Rules of this subreddit as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 03:51 AM
0

Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:17 AM
3

Removed. Tradcon is RPW but RPW is not Tradcon. Also, the mods decide what breaks the rules, not you. Arguing in the comments further will get you temp banned. Send a modmail instead.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:02 AM
2

I don't know what "WOW ROTFLMAO" and the emojis are supposed to mean but this post is removed as Low Effort.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 11:04 AM
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Removed. OP is arguing with advice and withholding information.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 11:36 PM
3

It is absolutely relevant as it impacts the class of man you're likely to meet and can attract. We don't deal in fantasies/vents here, we focus on self improvement and targeted advice. If you are here simply to whinge and reject practical advice your post will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 11:10 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. You may also want to review the Axioms of RPW and men and women's goals. A man does not become an incel simply because he does not want LTRs or casual sex.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 03:43 AM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/25 04:12 AM
1

I personally don't believe in that, as explained in the Hypergamy is Monogamy article I've already linked. Did you read it? You're not engaging with its arguments leaving me to think you haven't read it. I believe men can be in extramarital affairs and not lose attraction to their "main" woman but the women that accept that for a long time while in love are quite rare. More commonly they are already checked out, and hanging in for children, status or money (like the person you were responding to…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 04:01 AM
2

amount of women cheating whilst staying in happy relationships for decades I'm sorry what? Cheating =/= happy relationship. men ASKING their wives to be unfaithful Not at RPW. Beginning to think you're not here in good faith and are a concern troll. the fact that men being unfaithful and bringing children from that means that there will be less resources for his family It's up to the couple whether the man steps out. Most high status men can afford it. My personal preference for this is to avoid…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 12:24 AM
5

This is not redpill advice, Rule 4. Because the person you're responding to has already read this, I won't remove it, but this advice could end her marriage. The basis of redpill is that women are different from men. While polygyny satisfies redpill axioms, polyandry doesn't. Women are innately hypergamous and monogamous while men are not. Because of paternity insecurity, men also have an innate drive to be more jealous of their sexual partner's physical affairs, while women have an innate drive…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 11:53 PM
1

Did you mean to post this in RPW?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 10:59 AM
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Removed. "Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/25 11:28 AM
1

Not sure what a single letter means but this is removed. Edit: apologies, just realised you were responding with option B. Approved.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 12:21 AM
0

Removed. See pinned comment.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 05:03 AM
2

Temporary and PERMANENT bans will be handed out for repeated rule breaking or attempting to argue.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 01:04 AM
1

Removed. This is insulting to OP's man and jumps the gun to "leave him" too quickly. At RPW we try to save marriages first.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 12:50 AM
1

If you'd stopped at 2 paragraphs, it would be fine. As it is, removed. Red pill women are women and women are hypergamous. That should all be self evident. Go back to TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/25 08:53 PM
2

See the Glossary of Terms and Acronyms - you can find it by searching the subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 08:56 PM
4

Everyone is afraid of death, but nevertheless, someone on chemotherapy would have a different idea of what to do next. A tone of serious consideration could excuse inexperience, but your tone is glib. I'm not suggesting, I am telling you to sit this one out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 12:52 AM
2

Removed. Your comments in this thread are over the line. Being 23 and hot, you have no idea what fear of being alone feels like. Sit this one out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 12:43 AM
1

Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 08:43 PM
1

Removed. Rule 4: strategies should be from a redpill perspective. Women typically do not increase in SMV as they age.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 05:26 AM
3

Use the search function in the subreddit: This is the original STFU Method but since then there's been a lot of discussion on what is STFU and what isn't and other field reports which you can find by searching for STFU in this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 01:52 AM
1

Removed. Don't argue on old posts. And Rule 3, don't insult the community.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 01:48 AM
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To the men that feel compelled to comment here because hypergamy and female nature in general upsets you, go read Schrodinger's nAWALT.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 10:07 AM
2

Removed. No need to use insults to ask simple questions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 09:46 AM
0

Removed, Rule zero, advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 09:42 AM
3

Removed. Rule 10: No moralizing, and your preference is not advice. Generally it's up to the couple to decide between themselves how dates will be paid for.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 09:39 AM
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Removed, Rule 3, do not use insults. It is unclear from the post whether this was a standing arrangement that he has gone back on or if assumptions were made without discussion. You are jumping the gun.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 09:13 AM
1

Removed. Don't ask for users to doxx themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 06:22 AM
0

Removed. Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 11:33 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 04:52 AM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 04:32 AM
-6

You can do that after an extended discussion. We do allow "leave him" when it is well thought out and considered and not said in a flurry of indignation on the OP's behalf. Low effort one liners are going to get removed regardless. Of the removed comments so far, one was long form but not RP (very validating), and the others were very low effort 1-2 sentence cliches. /u/ChamomileMist
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 01:42 AM
2

Removed. Rule 9: personal preference is not advice, and do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 12:27 AM
3

Thank you! And thanks for hosting the thread :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 02:36 PM
1

Faulty psychology. So many women go into sex not having intentions of long term commitment, because of the lie that sex can be no strings attached. Then the oxytocin hits, and the man they previously believed was unsuitable for a LTR is now their ride or die. Otherwise, projection. They believe men are the same as women and will catch feelings after sex, or after knowing them some time. They can always try to stay longer so he will eventually catch feelings... Not realising men generally don't w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 04:17 AM
5

OP, please don't delete this post. Users have a terrible habit of deleting posts after a few days. Given there are now two starred comment responses in this thread, it is a very valuable thread to have in our subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 03:40 AM
3

+1 star. I think this would also make a good, if controversial (going by the downvoted) standalone post.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 05:12 AM
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Hmm sorry we don't allow vent posts. If you'd like to focus more on what you did and what the results were you could post a field report, which we do allow (and encourage!). You can sort by the Field Report flair here to see examples of other ones to go by.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 01:07 AM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing. If you want to say that cheating is wrong you will have to explain why it's a bad strategy for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 04:07 PM
1

/u/Fae_Leaf you are welcome to continue this debate if you are enjoying it, but I've given Intelligent Cry a temp 3 day ban for her first sentence breaking Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/24 11:06 AM
1

Removed. This is not actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 06:47 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. In future, use the report tool if you think something breaks the rules. However, be aware that we allow RP men to post and give RP advice on RPW. The top level comment stands.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 03:59 AM
1

None of this is actionable advice for the woman. Removed. RPW focuses on actionable advice for the women that post here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/24 10:08 AM
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We appreciate your interest in us but we aren't here for outsiders to study. Read our posts or check out the wiki if you are curious about RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/24 11:50 AM
1

Removed. Tradcon is RPW but RPW is not Tradcon. RPW is open to women from all walks of life. Moreover, don't state you are male when giving a simple opinion. The question of whether women should help support the family financially is a nuanced one and depends on culture, cost of living, and the family's financial situation. There is no one and done answer.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/24 09:40 AM
1

Removed. Do not call other users "idiot", especially when you do not have experience beyond the boyfriend/girlfriend stage to speak from.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/24 06:55 AM
5

Can I pat myself on the back here? No. Removed. This was not relevant to RPW - perhaps you would be more at home at TRP?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/24 03:08 PM
1

Option 4 is he wants what OP wants but they can't afford it. "Tell your husband you are unhappy with the long-term goals and see if you can set a long term goal that is more to your liking" is fine advice, if lacking nuance, and worthy of a longer thread. But that was not the focus of your original comment. You were scaremongering and speaking of divorce if she didn't get her way immediately. That was not only my interpretation but OP's as well. You make it out like OPs ideal life is just around…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 08:46 AM
6

Become an indebted divorcee, that'll help her fulfil her SAHM dreams. FFS. Removed. "Leave him" should not be your first resort.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 09:55 PM
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Removed. If you don't like RPW then you have no business posting here or wasting our time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 09:55 PM
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Removed. Please see the automoderator message below on why this was removed. Use an alt when posting on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 03:44 AM
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Removed. Please add context to this post as per Rule 6: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? He didn't just one day up and decide to go to gym with another woman. Has he ever expressed dissatisfaction with you? Have there been other marital problems? What is your sex life like? Would all be questions to answer. Please reply to this comment when …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 12:39 AM
1

Removed, "Leave Him" should not be the first resort on RPW. Additionally, the OP has since made a post saying he has broken up with her.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/24 03:46 AM
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A number of our members have husbands or LTRs who are aware of the manosphere or TRP. Removed, Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 05:09 AM
2

Removed, Rule 3, don't insult the OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 09:38 PM
1

Removed. You are Moralizing, and Rule 10 doesn't allow that. It's also not RP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 04:34 AM
3

Removed. Rule 10: No Moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 11:17 PM
1

Removed. Personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 07:40 AM
1

Removed. Do not insult our users - your last sentence breaks this rule.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 07:37 AM
3

Thanks OP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 12:48 AM
5

OP, please give us some context. From Rule 6: - What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? - How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? - What is your current relationship status and length of time? And what were you two arguing about before the silent treatment, would be my additional question.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 12:20 AM
3

Keep it civil. Insisting on what men "should" do is no help to an OP struggling when a man doesn't do what he "should", especially for married OPs. Insulting our flaired users is also frowned upon. You are free to question who users are before taking their advice. But Jenneapolis was giving RP advice here, so I don't think your reaction was warranted.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 12:12 AM
3

It's more that in the history of this subreddit there have been community splits over the nonmonogamy issue. You saying that may give other members the idea that the current mod team is prohibitive of non monogamy talk and that is not the case! In fact we would like to push the community slightly further away from tradcon if possible. Tradcon isn't RP, and RP thought can extend a lot further than tradcon can. We shouldn't be limited by what tradcon says we can do.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/24 12:50 AM
3

From a quick poll around the mod team -- you wouldn't lose a star for exploring or engaging in non monogamy. Imo the nonmonogamy route was always a viable alternative for hypergamous women who didn't want to tradeoff the calibre of man they could get for monogamy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 11:25 PM
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We appreciate your interest in us but we aren't here for outsiders to study. Read our posts or check out the wiki if you are curious about RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 09:14 PM
6

A reminder that Red Pill does not mean conservative, nor are RPW trying to date RP aware men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 09:37 AM
1

Removed. See the sticky.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 03:02 AM
2

No low effort comments. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 10:45 AM
3

Even with a burner account there's still going to be sweat and tears involved. One of my newbie accounts I deleted when someone asked if I was a dog 😭 No, I'm not giving more context. I understand the hesitation. I also agree that learning to roll with the punches is going to make newbies into better women. If you must delete, delete your account NOT your posts!! (To anyone considering it) Or take a 2 week break and it will seem nowhere near as big a deal when you log in again. If the worst thin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 03:50 AM
7

I think the reason many are hesitant is not fear of being doxxed, but fear of judgement. A lot of OPs delete their posts for the same reason, eg if they get too many down votes, or someone calls them out for acting foolishly or unwisely.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 12:12 AM
1

Removed. This is not helpful nor is it actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/24 08:04 PM
6

Removed. Not sure why you expect any woman not to be hypergamous, RPW or not. You have not made peace with female nature. This subreddit is not for you. Rule zero: advice must benefit women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 04:27 AM
3

"Slim" chance of success? This is why we don't let most men comment here. Your idea of what is likely and what is achievable is not correct. We have never had any woman make a post that says "I am having trouble finding an LTR because of my N count of 6". It has never happened and imo, will never happen. Any similar posts are more likely to go one of two ways, "I have major issues (most of which are far worse than N count) and cannot find a relationship" which we always respond to with "Do The W…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/24 10:44 PM
2

Removed, see stickied comment on this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 01:21 PM
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Anyone who responds to this thread with any variation of the following will be removed & either temp banned or permanently banned for Rule 4/Rule 10: men are immoral for judging a woman based on N count men are low value for judging a woman based on N count men are not "allowed" (?) to judge a woman, disqualify her from a relationship, or break up with her based on N count Please review the wiki section on N count and you for the full RPW stance on this nuanced issue.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 01:20 PM
6

Same sentiment as "You can't fire me, I quit!"
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 11:28 PM
21

Having any sort of deal-breaker, whether it be N count, smoking or wearing pink or whatever other frivolous thing, does not determine whether a man is low value or high value. That is your way of saying "those men aren't good enough for ME" when it's in fact the opposite.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 02:33 AM
17

Removed. Rule 4, and no shaming men for having preferences. At RPW we acknowledge that many men have a preference for low N count. While not every man will prioritise it, it does not make a man low value simply for having a preference and exercising options.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 02:26 AM
8

u/ChamomileMist posts a weekly (?) OYS thread over at r/RedPillWives Feel free to participate there!
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 01:12 AM
1

Removed for a few reasons, but namely, Rule 3: do not insult OP's man, she will not listen to your advice if you do. And please do not jump to accusations of abuse lightly... Him expecting her to read his mind is unfortunately quite common these days but not necessarily malicious.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 03:00 AM
2

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's bf.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 02:17 AM
5

As of now OP is still with her bf, so the avocado thing is breaking Rule 3, no insulting OP's man. Removed. Edit that part and I'll approve. Edit: N/m the entire comment breaks the Leave Him should not be the first option. Removed permanently.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 10:22 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralising, Rule 3: no insulting members.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 06:31 AM
2

Me are not allowed to ask questions here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 11:57 PM
13

Read. The. Rules. Stop petting the unicorns. Stop mentioning you are a man. If your advice stands on its own, then it should be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 10:47 PM
6

Before commenting further, please acquaint yourself with Rule 9. In general, men who are not in LTRs will be removed if they comment on RPW. However, this is good advice, so I'm leaving it up.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 10:22 PM
2

I have locked the response on this thread, and removed some of the higher level comments. Please be aware that everyone's advice is coloured by their own circumstances - someone that had a bad marriage and is committed to avoiding women is of course going to have a negative & pessimistic outlook. We also have Rule 9 that limits such men from posting or opining here. RPW is not the place for those discussions, men's forums like TRP, MRP, and MRA forums would be.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 01:53 AM
3

I don't partner anymore I don't think this is relevant to RPW. Men who are not in LTRs should not be posting here. Removed, per Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 01:42 AM
1

Removed. Rule 9, your gender is not relevant in the marketplace of ideas. You should also not be jumping to "leave him" as your first option.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 03:19 AM
4

Please see the pinned Getting Started for general newbie information. Specifically, this wall.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 04:23 AM
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Removed. While RedPillWomen's definition of The Wall is much softer than TheRedPill's, we still acknowledge that in general female SMV peaks in the 20s and decreases with age (although not down to zero). In short, advice must be from a redpill perspective here. Which reminds me I have yet to update the Glossary/Common Terms.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 04:18 AM
1

Removed. Please add any additional context to your first post rather than making a new post.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 01:13 AM
1

Removed. Stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/24 11:39 PM
1

Please focus your efforts on the men's subreddit. You will get a lot further teaching men to be respectable than you will telling women to withhold respect.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 03:41 AM
1

Automod has removed your comment. Before I approve this, I'd like to check that you are coming from the right place. For example, it is core RPW theory that men prefer respect over love, and women prefer love over respect. Men, in general, are not ok with being interrupted when they speak, and women, in general, *are* ok with being interrupted when they speak. I'm interested to hear if you acknowledge these gender differences or if you are here to "save us" with feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 02:55 AM
1

FYI you are shadowbanned - please appeal this with Reddit at https://www.reddit.com/appeal
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 08:23 AM
1

Removed. This is not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 04:59 AM
2

Removed. There are far more details that we don't know than there are that we do. You're jumping the gun. From the replies OP has given we don't know if he is delaying combining the finances or she is.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:12 AM
2

Roses already has 5 stars, yay! We can't give any more stars than 5! But this would certainly be deserving of a star.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/24 11:06 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 08:48 AM
0

Low effort & moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 02:48 AM
1

Please do not insult OP's man. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 03:08 AM
1

Removed, see pinned comment.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 04:05 AM
1

You are the definition of a concern troll. You're not a member by your own admission. You are excused.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 07:00 AM
1

Removed. Rule 5: No Feminism. We don't need to be saved. OP can go anywhere else for that advice but she came here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 09:25 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3, do not insult community members.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 11:42 PM
2

Yes, I know, and at RPW we accept reality rather than pretending it's not there.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 08:53 PM
3

Removed. Rule 4, specifically this statement: There’s only a stigma with women, and there shouldn’t be! The genders are not the same, there's a stigma for men being virgins (or "incels") but not for women. Of course the genders will be treated differently by society.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 06:38 AM
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Your account is shadowbanned, please appeal this at reddit.com/appeal to post on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 10:23 PM
4

Not sure what you're getting at but given the nature of this post, Rule 10, No Moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 02:02 AM
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Oh, we're around. But writing new theory is not as simple as putting in the time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:59 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3. We also have no idea if he is redpill or not.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 12:29 AM
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RPW is not a lifestyle, and we support women's stated relationship goals. Men who are happy with 1 child do exist. There is no need to call anyone here a loser. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 09:52 AM
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Seems like this post is attracting a lot of attention from outside our subreddit. I am locking this post for now, OP if you would like to respond to the genuine comments offering advice, please contact modmail after the noise has died down and we will unlock.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 06:27 AM
2

I've removed a few already on this post. Thirsty men will be thirsty.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 03:01 AM
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I've removed that user's comment as men are not permitted to give advice solely from personal preference here. You will get both sides from men, the first side will moralise and tell you women should be in the kitchen and shouldn't have any thoughts of their own, and the second side will tell you they love you just as you are and slide into your DMs (which is a bannable offence here, btw). Neither is good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 03:00 AM
2

Absolutely no hard feelings from me! Glad to hear you like the content.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:51 AM
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Lol, ever heard the saying, good advice, like youth, is wasted on the young? Imagine the alternative. A rich old guy hits on a young woman and pursues her relentlessly. She listens to your advice and thinks, "Gosh he is surrounded by so many beautiful women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s but he wants plain little old me! The Wall is BS so it must be because of... MY PERSONALITY!!!" Oh honey. No...
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:13 AM
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I agree with your expanded thoughts but I removed your comment because you said and I quote: The Wall is BS SMV has never defined a woman's whole worth. That's why we have different acronyms for SMV/SMP and RMV/RMP. Denying The Wall doesn't help those exact 20yos you want to help. They need to know when their SMV is highest so they can weigh up their relative immaturity/low RMV with their high SMV when selecting a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:55 AM
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Yup, see the RPW Common Terms although the definition there is a bit TRPish. I'll discuss with the mod team.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:08 AM
2

Removed, Rule 4 we acknowledge the existence of the wall. There's a nuanced discussion to be had here about how much it matters in different stages of life but you must acknowledge female SMV decreasing with age.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:04 AM
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Removed. We're going to need more context than that for open ended discussion questions. Please note we are not a zoo and you must be female and interested in participating here if you want to start a discussion. Outsiders are not welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 07:51 AM
2

They've been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/24 10:04 AM
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You are unclear on what RP is. A man saying something regrettable in a moment of inebriated anger is a perfect time for the female partner to practice STFU. It doesn't mean put up with constant disrespect (but some women will choose that over being unloved, I'll come back to that in a moment) but there's a big difference between coming back to discuss it at a more opportune time and making it worse in the moment. Finally, disrespect is the man's biggest fear, not the woman's. The woman fears bei…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 12:01 AM
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Anyone who gives non-RP advice on this thread without a *mod approved* posting history here will be removed and/or banned. This thread is attracting a lot of low quality non-RP advice that is jumping the gun. Including but not limited to: he is an abuser, he is controlling, give him an ultimatum, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 07:20 AM
4

Removed. Rule 4: strategies should be from a redpill perspective. We also don't allow feminist arguments here...
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 02:11 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 11:35 AM
1

Removed. RPW is not for men to ask questions.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/24 02:36 AM
2

Removed: low effort post. Please note advice posts must contain context.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/24 05:23 AM
1

Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 03:51 AM
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Removed. Appreciate you being an older brother but men are not allowed to ask questions on RPW, and even if that were not the case, you would not be allowed to ask questions on behalf of others. Your sister has to live her own life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 12:41 PM
1

No worries, you're fine then :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 05:49 AM
1

Removed. If you are a man, no petting the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 05:18 AM
1

Removed. Advice must benefit the woman. I understand that the OP is being resistant to RP advice but scaremongering is not going to help. 25 yo single women are not going to end up alone if they do other things right.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 12:41 AM
1

Removed. Advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/24 11:11 PM
2

Certainly! u/amityjeanklein Congratulations on your second star! Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/24 05:43 AM
1

Leave him should not be your first piece of advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 10:22 AM
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u/Vermillion-Rx has been in contact with the mod team asking for clarification on rules. I think he is here in good faith and willing to learn about our rules, and has a good understanding of the dating market OP faces. ​ I am going to approve his contributions here because they offer a different perspective for the OP and RPW can become very "groupthink" at times, something I am guilty of myself. Having a different perspective is not a bad thing, as long as it is focussed on the woman's benefit…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 10:16 AM
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Just butting in here with a note because I would like to clarify something in your response. We are not all Catholic or tradwives, but our subreddit is about redpill strategies, one of which is submission. You do not need to be Catholic or traditional to implement redpill strategies. TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradCon The rest of your point, about how to submit to a man that isn't leading by example, is a legitimate question so I'll let you continue the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/24 09:44 PM
2

Removed. Rule 4: strategies must be from a red pilled perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/24 08:20 PM
1

Look, you're the one that started this by calling the women here unsuccessful. Which obviously no one took kindly to. Don't bother using the report button, I'm not going to take your side.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/24 12:05 AM
2

Men should not be posting on RPW. If you only have advice to give regarding what doesn't work, your advice will always be one sided, and not necessarily lead to a good outcome. Stick to the men's subs while you figure it all out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/24 05:37 AM
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Removed. Rule 3: don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 07:16 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by bio essentialism, but RPW prides itself on a traditional/evolutionary psychology basis for the opinions we hold, which are that men and women have innate gender differences. If that's what bio essentialism is to you, then this is not the right subreddit for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 12:18 AM
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Approaching has always been a man's job but giving him green signals has always been a woman's job.. They're not wrong about that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/24 09:04 PM
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RPW, in light of the physical abuse that has been brought to our attention, I am locking this thread under Problems Beyond The Scope of RPW.. OP, we can't deal with the fallout of your relationship for you, whether you choose to stay or leave. Please seek in person help, and take care.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 01:39 PM
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This is a warning. I will start removing and temp banning if you continue bringing up feminist talking points or misandrist points of view, eg. Male characters can be psychopathic serial killers, but god forgive if a woman is a nag. No one in this thread ever said this, and keep misandry and feminism out of RPW. Rule 5. If you don't understand why women leap to each other's defence - and correspondingly, why men don't leap to men's defence - and why men also feel instinctively protective of wome…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 05:24 AM
4

Removed. I understand you're not a man but soliciting a chat session with a man tends to scare off our female users.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 05:39 AM
1

Removed. Do not insult the community members, Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 02:11 PM
2

Removed. Rule 9. RPW is not for men's questions. Focus on the men's RP resources until you have a good knowledge of the theory.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/24 10:42 AM
2

Men are not permitted to DM users here. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/24 12:49 PM
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Removed. Rule 4. Your advice is not redpill and is the same "strong independent woman" rhetoric that many women here are trying to get away from.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 12:19 PM
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Are you here with the intention of participating in good faith or are you here just to argue with non feminist advice?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 07:45 AM
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Anyone who wants the Automod text deleted can message modmail. We include it so we know who to warn/ban for deleting posts as that information is not known to us without the Automod text. Deleting posts is bad faith, against our subreddit rules, and wastes the time of anyone who put effort into writing a response comment.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 08:25 AM
1

Low effort posts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 09:57 AM
1

Removed. "Not a real man" statements are personal preference and do not constitute actionable advice for the OP. Stop tooting your own horn, it doesn't help her at all.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 11:42 PM
2

Rule 3: Do not insult OP's man. She is unlikely to take your opinion seriously if you do that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/24 01:06 PM
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Not cool even as a joke. Don't scare the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 12:52 PM
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Hey, this might be better suited to another subreddit. Sorry but I'm removing this post as off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 07:05 AM
1

Removed. Rule 9: no petting the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/24 08:52 AM
1

Removed. Please put more effort into your posts, as that will attract more & better responses.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 08:13 AM
1

Removed. Advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 01:44 AM
1

Personal preference is not advice. Rule 9. From my experience I can also tell you that you are quite wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/24 12:48 AM
3

Removed. Please see Tradcon is RPW, but RPW is not tradcon.. Outsiders (including men) are not permitted to ask questions unless it is relevant to a request for advice from the OP. Please familiarise yourself with the sidebar rules especially Rule 9 before engaging further.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/24 08:22 AM
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Removed. Your top level comment gave grounded advice but this is purely validation towards OP and it is not helping her make a decision. It also breaks Rule 3 by badmouthing her ex with whom she is considering getting back together with.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 11:33 PM
1

Removed - Rule 4/Rule 3. I don't think we can impute that a man is unwanted by women his age just because he dates younger.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 10:35 PM
1

Removed. Saying any man is a loser because he has standards you don't agree with breaks Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 10:33 PM
6

Helpful and actionable. +1 u/Mighty_Wombat42
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 04:46 AM
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Sir this is a Wendy's. This contains no actionable advice for OP and is a rant about your dating struggles, which belongs on TRP not RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 10:53 PM
1

Removed. For two rules: Leave him should not be your first piece of advice. Do not insult OP's man
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 07:06 AM
2

Removed, Rule 3. Everything else is fine, just your last 3 words.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:58 PM
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Attention RPW. Do not resort to insults of OP's man. Insulting responses will be removed. These tend to be low effort comments anyway so a secondary reminder: we value high effort responses.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:57 PM
2

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:51 PM
2

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man. Also, leaving should not be your first piece of advice.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:50 PM
2

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:49 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 08:44 PM
1

I am removing your comment according to Rule 7: Low effort posts (and comments) will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 05:54 AM
1

Low effort comments are removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 03:17 AM
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That's enough. We address this in the sidebar: TRP vs RPW RP women are not trying to specifically date ‘RP aware’ men. Many naturally masculine men will display certain red pill characteristics, but have no familiarity with the actual term ‘red pill.’ Plate spinners are not ideal husbands. You don't need to have a genius level IQ to figure that out. It is not u/xx_AphroditeDove_xx 's job to read the sidebar for you and we are not a zoo. You have earnt yourself a temp ban.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 03:06 AM
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Removed, no male centric discussion. Advice must benefit women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 08:38 PM
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A warning, please read Rule 9 and avoid using your gender as a basis for any advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 11:25 PM
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Reddit did introduce these new inactive moderator changes in the last 6 months. Perhaps this is what happens if all the mods on a subreddit are inactive for too long. My yardstick for Reddit censorship is still TRP and while quarantined and severely censored, it's still up. The mod position on Reddit censorship has been described in this post, from back when u/Whisper was banned: Reddit Censorship, TRP &RPW
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 12:55 AM
1

Removed. This isn't actionable or insightful.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 08:48 AM
1

Removed. The term high value is entirely subjective and deeming someone high value or not does not constitute actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/24 10:50 PM
1

Removed for being creepy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 08:53 PM
1

Removed. We don't allow surveys on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 07:17 AM
1

Those comments were written before OP edited her post with the list. A mod direction is not an invitation to argue.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 10:07 PM
1

Removed. Be polite or be quiet. This field report is contributing to the community and outlines a number of reasons that OP is able to have a successful marriage. Points 2, 3, 8, 9, 10 are all classic RPW girl game. If you don't agree with our strategies perhaps you shouldn't be here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 09:14 PM
1

Men should not be asking women to DM them on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 04:23 AM
1

Low effort comments will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 01:10 AM
2

Removed. Let's help OP reach her goals rather than insulting her relationship status.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/24 11:36 PM
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I'm not sure whether this constitutes physical abuse or what Laura Doyle or Alison Armstrong would say about it. But it does constitute emotional abuse as covered in our subreddit's Problems Beyond the Scope of RPW. In general RPW ceases to be helpful when it comes to the topic of abuse. We can't give you the long-term support needed for a problem of this magnitude. We don't know him and we don't know your full situation. We can't decide for you whether your marriage is salvageable, and we can't…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/24 11:37 AM
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Removed. OP specifically stated she is happy with her academics - let's keep it on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 10:32 AM
1

Removed. Advice has to be based on more than your imaginary scenario of him secretly being a love bombing scumbag. Especially if you are telling someone to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 04:20 AM
1

Removed. Personal preference is not advice - OP is not trying to date you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 09:18 PM
1

Removed. We generally don't allow cross posts and this is a particularly low effort and uninspiring one.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 09:39 AM
2

This has the potential to be a good comment but fails for two reasons: one, OP seems to have addressed your two disqualifiers in her post, making most of your comment redundant, and two, you have not read Rule 9 and announce you are a man and use personal preference as advice. Removed. Lurk more or change tack.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:58 AM
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Removed. "Men who do <thing I do not like> are not good men" is moralizing. Rule 10.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:52 AM
3

Removed. OP has already given her age. I'm not sure how height or race are relevant to her concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 03:49 AM
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Removed. While we enjoy the odd discussion question, we do ask that newer members post less and read more. This applies to discussion and advice posts. There is a lot of interesting evopsych theory that could go into answering a question like this but for now, I would recommend you read the sidebar carefully as it has a lot of posts on self improvement relevant to your concerns. The posts you already have which are garnering community responses I will leave up on a case by case basis, but in gen…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 03:46 AM
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I think there is enough gray area between "hot now" and "hot in high school" and "10/10" and "7/10" to still remove your initial comment. This one is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 12:40 AM
1

Don't neg our users. Rule 9, men must be here to help women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 11:13 PM
1

I didn't mean that they ignored children, just that 40 yo men are less likely to play with their kids as they get more health issues than 30 yo do. While it is true women do the bulk of child care, the physical strength play is where fathers typically do more and that gets lessened as they age. It's not your job to decide on OP's timeline or preferences for her. Good advice is about pros and cons and informed decisions. One liners like you gave out at the start are low effort, and low effort com…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 10:23 PM
1

I'm not sure that a third date going well or ending a marriage are markers of success. Abstain from giving advice while you learn more about the redpill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 10:11 PM
1

I don't think that there is any guarantee that a guy 10 years older will not waste her time. She should be vetting carefully, not rushing headfirst into a relationship. 32 or 22, we still have to spend a lot of time (perhaps a lifetime) with the man we choose. As I explained before - a 32 year old man may not necessarily prefer a 28 year old if he is vetting not solely based on looks, and if OP is bringing something other than looks to the table. Trying to shortcut the selection process based so…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 12:02 PM
2

While it is true that men prefer younger women in looks, that is a) not achievable for most men, and b) some men will avoid dating younger women because of fear of lack of maturity or fear of social backlash. I don't think you have enough experience or real world knowledge to be giving advice on this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 04:27 AM
5

Low effort insults of OP's boyfriend will be removed. Rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 10:21 AM
2

Rule 9 is quite clear about thirsty males who'll excuse any behaviour just to simp. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 04:05 AM
1

Polygyny would be an acceptable strategy if OP had said "I don't want to settle for the guys I can get. I want a better guy." Instead, she said, "I just want to be the only woman my boyfriend wants or thinks about". That is her goal. Polygyny is the exact opposite of her goal, and Rule Zero is that advice must serve to help women. Your advice would help a **man** that was worried about his wife aging, not a woman that was worried about aging.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 11:49 PM
1

It is, what's your point?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 10:48 PM
0

Advice has to be woman centric; Rule 0. Not sure how polygyny is going to help OP feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 03:42 AM
5

I'm not removing this since it sounds like it is relevant to the OP. But, I will issue a reminder. Any comments from a male perspective here have to be backed up by actionable advice. The purpose of RPW is to help women achieve their goals.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:10 AM
1

This won't get any responses on such an old post. I recommend making a new post about your situation instead.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 09:45 PM
2

Removed. Low effort comment, and "leave him" should not be the first option. OP is willing to give him a chance, let's honour this. Unless you are willing to put in the time and effort and show that you've read all the comments and deliver a higher effort response, simple "leave him" takes will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 03:33 AM
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Hi OP, your post has been removed, the discussion here is not productive. There is so much negative self talk in this post and in your other post history that most people just believe you are a troll.I do think you are in earnest, but there best thing for you to do is to take the serious responses here to heart. Also, **stay off the male RP spaces and don't watch content aimed at anger phase men**. It is and will be extremely detrimental for you. Lurk the sidebar and see this moderator comment: …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 11:21 AM
1

Removed, Rule 10: no moralizing. You are welcome to make a new comment explaining pros and cons of a decision but moral arguments are not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 06:09 AM
3

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 04:23 AM
2

Removed. There is nothing in the sidebar that says self sufficient women are low RMV. This is not RP, this is just your personal opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 09:42 PM
1

Insulting her partner is not a good way to get OP to listen to you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/24 01:49 AM
1

Removed. None of that is in good faith.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 07:52 AM
3

You shouldn't be here. You didn't read her post, didn't see her take on responsibility, and you don't want to help her. You're just here to heckle. Rule 9, you are excused.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 01:17 AM
1

Rule 9: personal preferences are not advice. OP is not trying to date you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 11:07 AM
1

It reads to me like it was said in jest. You're just looking for something to get mad at. And your post history shows that you hate TRP. Rule 4, you are excused.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 12:51 AM
9

Well, we don't have a rule against self directed misogyny. Approved your original comment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 12:36 PM
4

"Women are weird"? Dude read Rule 9. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 03:34 AM
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Read the rules. Advice must be woman centric. "He should dump you immediately" is male centric advice. Also, this isn't Fight Club. We recommend escalating to a harsher tone only when OP has shown a refusal to listen to advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 11:45 PM
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Removed. Advice must be given with the intention of helping.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 02:13 PM
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Removed. You should not be posting on RPW as a single man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:02 AM
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Removed. For the most part she is giving you good advice. If it doesn't resonate leave it alone - don't resort to personal insults.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:00 AM
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I am removing this comment because of Rule 3: don't insult our community. It contains no actionable advice and doesn't provide any value to our community. If you would like to hold a non majority opinion here, you have to do so with grace.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 11:20 PM
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Removed. "Leave him" should not be the first option, especially for marriages. The first half of your comment is okay - it is actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 12:25 PM
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"Leave Him" should not be the first option; this is also a very low effort comment. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 12:23 PM
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While I am sorry your marriage is not going well, we do prefer advice from men who have figured out how to make their relationships work. This comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 12:48 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 12:15 PM
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Please don't delete your posts, especially as you're already using a throwaway. Others can learn from the advice you receive but not if you deleted your post.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 11:50 AM
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I am well aware this particular user is not a longtime contributor and has not been vetted. That's not the point. The point is, I want to see more fluffy field reports. This is the best we've got right now. The line that struck me was "When men watch a movie where the hero gets patched up and sewn up so they can take on the world speak to our soul." I've watched dozens of movies with this kind of montage but never knew it held that kind of meaning. I've read a lot of TRP content and never really…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:18 PM
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This all got a lot more meta than I was hoping it would. If it is not clear, I agree with you and the sidebar. Certain male voices are valued here but not all. Those with the rare ability to share RP knowledge in a helpful manner are the most valued. All those you mentioned and more, I am grateful for their presence here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 01:03 PM
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I never said anything about you and feminism. I don't care if you're a Trotskyist or a Leninist, Rothbardian or Objectivist. You're giving non RP advice. Your comment was reported by the community and I happened to agree with the report. There is no mention in the OP of him asking her to lose weight, as far as we know she decided to do that herself. All the rest of your responses boiled down to "leave him" and "don't change yourself for him" which are both faux pas on RPW. Yes, we do encourage w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 08:52 AM
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Removed. It is classic RP advice that a 0.7 waist to hip ratio is most attractive to men. Our subreddit focuses on self improvement and harsh truths over validation. Giving validation only is against Rule 2.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:58 AM
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Removed. Justifications of feminism or debates about the meaning of feminism are not allowed here according to Rule 5.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:49 AM
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I am keeping this post up because it is a valid RPW strategy to care and tend for your man during convalescence. We haven't gotten any fluffy fields reports like this from the women's perspective lately, so to me, a man's perspective is better than nothing, even if it verges on unicorn petting. I think we can get some good discussion on a post like this as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 03:58 AM
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Removed. This is not actionable advice. Badmouthing OP's SO is not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 03:38 PM
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This user has been shown the door. From the very beginning RPW was not a traditional space nor one where men could moralise at women, nor a place they could spew bitterness at women.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 08:52 AM
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This is either moralizing or way too blackpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 02:17 PM
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"1 for life" would imply no woman ever gets any second chances. This is contrary to the principles of RPW, which are that any woman can come to RPW and learn about the tools she needs to find a good man. Rule 10, no moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 02:16 PM
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RPW is not for men's questions. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 10:39 PM
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Removed. OP, you have submitted multiple posts in the last few days, deleting each shortly after the other. Deleting posts is against our rules. You also seem not to have taken any of the advice given to you about LDRs. Take a break from posting here, at this point I think you are just looking for validation and not willing to listen to any advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 12:12 AM
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Your personal preference is not universal truth. Men in the anger phase are not permitted on RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 12:17 AM
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Removed. Let's keep this thread on track.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 11:23 AM
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This is an open and shut case of "be a good first mate". Catastrophising about OP's future is not necessary. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 08:52 PM
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Wanting a good first mate is not an Oedipal complex. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/23 10:20 PM
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Removed. "Leave him" is jumping the gun here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/23 09:23 PM
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Removed. We don't have a rule against forecasting the future - oh wait, I think we do. Rule 9. Writing out a poster's predicted future history in the second person is creepy Past mods are the best. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 09:25 PM
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If you can't see things from women's point of view you shouldn't be giving advice here. OP has revealed that his lack of ambition/laziness is part of her concern. "Is he a leech" is not the only thing she should be vetting on. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:04 AM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 02:20 AM
2

Advice must benefit the woman. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 02:17 AM
3

Unless you want to expand on that thought, "men with high body counts are high value men" constitutes personal preference and is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 10:18 AM
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This take is not nuanced enough for RPW. We have had discussions about Elon Musk here before. The upshot is that he's not a very good father as he has many children with many women and is unable to provide a stable family life. If a woman's goals include raising a child in a stable family, she would rather avoid the Elon Musks of the world. At RPW we recognise that beta traits are valuable alongside alpha traits and men who have the right mix of alpha and beta make the best husbands.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 04:32 AM
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Is this really advice you'd give to eg, your daughter? Men commenting here must be older, married, and experts in RP theory. Such a comment makes me think you are only interested in justifying your own life choices, not helping OP vet her man.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 04:18 AM
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Removed. Advice must be from a redpill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 04:11 AM
3

Done! u/Egoistchan you have earnt your first star! Great work!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 02:07 AM
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Removed. Advice on RPW must be for the woman, not the man. Insulting OP's man is also not a great way to start.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 05:17 AM
1

I'm not sure what the person you were responding to said since their comments are deleted but please don't jump to insults. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 12:59 AM
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Not sure where you're getting that redpill men hate women... Some senior TRP contributors comment here and help out from time to time. This subreddit has an explicit rule that "advice must be helpful to women" (as opposed to men) and that was written by a redpill man. The subreddit was set up by a redpill man. That's why the advice here differs so much from the advice on TRP. The advice here will always benefit the woman, regardless of how much baggage she has. Moralising is also against the rul…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/23 11:11 PM
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Hi OP, I'm very sorry to hear that you're in this situation. Unfortunately we can't help as this is beyond the scope of RPW. To me, it sounds like it falls under emotional abuse. You need to seek help in person. This is just based off a quick search but Canada has services available. If you are already bursting into tears when he yells there's really nothing we can advise. We can only teach you anti-abuse strategies not femininity strategies in this case, and the former is not our forte. If you …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/23 11:01 PM
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I agree completely! u/RatchedAngle you have earnt your fifth and final star. This is the most stars we can give out. I also agree this should be made into a separate post.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 11:55 PM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 05:39 AM
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Removed. We don't need to be saved by feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/23 11:04 AM
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This kind of speculation is not helpful. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 02:35 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 02:01 AM
1

Removed. We don't allow low effort copy pastes unless there is additional thought/discussion on top of it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 11:49 PM
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I'm not sure you understand the nuances of male/female relationships enough to be giving advice here. Men do not always have to maintain frame, they just have to understand the woman well enough to maintain frame when it matters to her. If she doesn't perceive cuddling as effeminate then he's all good. In fact if a woman is comfort testing him then his lack of cuddling would likely be a relationship ender.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 06:19 AM
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Leave him should not be the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 06:52 AM
1

Captain and First Mate Dynamic is an analogy for the relationship dynamic we are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 12:21 PM
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Engage with the users who are trying to explain it to you. At least one user has said that it is something that is partner-specific.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 03:09 AM
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Yes but they are not saying that "it hurts" is selfish, uncaring or lazy. Context matters. The advice in the other thread may work for 80-90% of women, but you have your own thread here with detailed, contextual, and specific advice. There underlying theme of both threads is that neither partner should set themselves on fire to keep the other warm. In the other thread the OP's husband was being set on fire to keep her warm and here you are seeing yourself on fire to keep your SO warm. Neither is…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 03:08 AM
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Removed. Not sure where RPW is advocating for sexual assault or rape.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 02:29 AM
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Removed. You are acting in bad faith. A number of commenters here have already said your shouldn't be forcing yourself through unpleasurable sex, yet you seem determined to believe that they are. Why?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 02:29 AM
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Careful. It's one thing to respectfully disagree with advice given and another thing to accuse everyone here of bad faith. Just because you are experiencing pain does not mean everyone is. There are statistics for percentage of women that experience pain during sex and it is around 10-20%.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 01:44 AM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable for the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 09:15 PM
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Removed. It's fine to have a moral code or to discuss it when OP specifically mentions it, but proselytizing is not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 09:00 PM
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Your opinion as a man is not required on this thread. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 08:59 PM
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Advice must be actionable. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 08:51 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that, but you cannot comment on here as a man unless if it is to give advice to women, and it must be RP advice and you would be preferably advising from a happy marriage. Our standards for male participation (Rule 9) are very high. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 05:00 AM
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If you're not keen then no need. Just putting the idea out there.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 07:53 AM
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If you like we can lock the thread if you don't want more responses
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 05:45 AM
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Unfortunately, without this context, most/all of the responses on this post are useless, especially when you only give it 8 days after the post was originally posted. I would suggest making a new post if you really want answers and to add the new context. The cheating is a whole post on its own. Maintaining your cool depends on many factors, such as the response of the man and the severity of the conflict. For simple cases there is STFU. But for major cases like cheating that is simply not an op…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 09:03 PM
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OP, your responses are low effort, and often miss the point entirely. You are also arguing with advice given and aren't willing to consider answers that contradict your premise. This is a warning that this thread will be locked if we don't believe you are responding in good faith.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:57 PM
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The all-american-women-are-bad spiel is pointless here. This is RPW. If you are a man, you probably shouldn't be commenting at all. Check Rule 9, and check your anger at the door.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 08:54 AM
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Removed, advice must be from a redpill perspective. Terms like body count, N count are used here regularly. There is a discussion of it in the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 10:48 PM
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If you are actually baffled - you need to read this moderator note on a recent post, and comments such as this on another post. It is antithetical to the very premise of RPW to be entitled or to believe that you deserve anything you haven't earnt. Whenever someone brags about what they're getting for "free", they haven't told you what they had to do or what they had to tolerate in order to get that "free" money. Edit: also see this deleted post, in which the OP shared that her luxurious lifestyl…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 10:26 AM
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It seems you are unfamiliar with redpill theory. From the wiki: Male goals: spin plates, casual sex, LTR, marriage, children Female goals: LTR, marriage, children Male goals include spinning plates & casual sex which is at odds with female goals. We recommend all men go to r/TheRedPill and don't post here until they are RP theory experts.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 10:23 AM
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Removed. Rule 4: advice must be from a redpill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:20 AM
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Removed. Trying to get people to contact you on other platforms isn't allowed on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 09:38 AM
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I'm not sure that your comment is as helpful as you make it out to be. A lot of it reads as a not-so-humble-brag. OP has been kind to be open about her lifestyle, including its cons as well as its pros. You putting her down isn't helping anyone here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 07:21 AM
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Great advice and perspective! Have a star.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/23 08:43 AM
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Removed. Men who aren't in relationships should not be commenting here & petting the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 09:48 AM
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Removed. Resorting to a harsher tone should only be done when OP is refusing to take responsibility, not as your opening comment.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 07:33 AM
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Snarking about OP's religion isn't helpful right now. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 07:29 AM
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Too much information / that's not appropriate on RPW. Ideally the men here are in happy relationships and giving advice from a spirit of what works, not what doesn't.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 03:28 AM
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TMI buddy. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 03:24 AM
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Rule 9, personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 07:57 AM
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Men, please reconsider your need to comment on this post. If you haven't read all the links in Rule 9 it's safe to say you shouldn't comment on this post. RPW is for women. We don't need men justifying their lifestyle here. If you'd like to help OP, make sure your advice is helpful and actionable for her. Rule 9 infringements will result in temp & permanent bans.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 02:51 AM
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This is too much male-centric discussion. None of this is helpful to the OP - please note that you are on RPW, the women's space in the RP network, and discussions about what men should be doing is not helpful to the OP who is asking for guidance about what she should be doing. Keep that stuff to TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 02:47 AM
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I think you do have a point, however I won't approve this comment because of its wording and its vague advice to the OP. Please read the guidelines for male participation in the links in Rule 9 before participating here. Advice must be helpful & actionable to the OP and not be just personal preference.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 02:43 AM
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Removed. Single men should not be posting on RPW. Men here are preferably experts in RP theory, older and married.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 02:19 AM
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I think you're not clear on what this community is about. We don't date/marry men who are exclusively redpill. We often discourage members from dating men who are too "alpha" or are into redpill theory to the detriment of their relationships. Take a break.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:30 AM
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In the past we've had quite heated discussions around ethnicity & culture so I just want to head that off before it happens again. To anyone looking to offer advice, please: Don't assume that OP's man is a bad man just because of his ethnicity/religion, or that he is with her for the wrong reasons. This is a little insulting frankly. Cautionary tales are all well and good but at the end of the day those men are not OP's man and you don't know him. Be careful about over generalisations. Do give h…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 06:48 AM
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I agree that N count is almost irrelevant for women who are already married. For newbies, see the wiki on N Count and You.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 01:06 AM
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Removed. Rule 9: Personal preference is not advice. If this was written in third person to make it more applicable to other men it would be better.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 06:18 AM
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Removed. Rule 9: personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 06:13 AM
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This isn't helpful or actionable. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 01:24 AM
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Well, now that she's here, let's keep the comments focused on advice given with the intention of helping, yeah? Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 12:21 AM
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Rule 3. Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 09:43 PM
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Removed. Rule 3. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 09:42 PM
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Stop asking what women bring to the table. Only incels ask a woman what she brings to the table Not sure what subreddit you think you're on. There are a lot of posts here from women asking how they can make a man commit, or commit quicker. In these situations women should ask what they can bring to the table.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 04:20 AM
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Removed. Leave him should not be the first option. You are catastrophising to the max. Stay grounded.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/23 09:40 PM
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OP, you are debating feminism. Stop responding to debate prompts and focus on the relationship issues. This is not a feminism debate sub. You can provide context like you have in the post but no more. You repeatedly claim you want to be RP but your own argumentative attitude in the comments is going to stop you from having the kind of relationship you want. It shows a lack of self awareness of how you're coming of and a lack of self awareness about the appropriateness of the discussions [we expl…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 10:35 PM
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Removed. Same reason.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 10:30 PM
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OP, you asked a very similar question yesterday without context. I removed it and directed you to Rule 6 and the asking for relationship advice template. Rule 2, if you are asking a hypothetical question, it must be stated as such. If you do not edit more context into your post, this post will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 10:15 PM
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you’re a blue pilled woman and there are subs that can probably better help you. Removed. OP has stated that she believes in male-led relationships, therefore she belongs here. Don't gatekeep the sub. Leave that to us.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 08:00 AM
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That's because most of the male mods & veteran users have migrated to https://www.forums.red/i/theredpill Without the senior users & thought leaders any space will devolve. RPS' post
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 02:55 AM
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Removed. Rule 9: personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 12:35 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3: don't insult OP.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 09:51 PM
1

Removed, Rule 9, no petting the unicorns. If you're not an RP theory expert it's better if you lurk.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 09:49 PM
1

Removed. Advice must benefit women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 04:12 AM
1

Removed. Personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 10:38 PM
1

Removed. Personal preference is not advice,
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 10:37 PM
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Removed. Rule 9. If it's not relevant please don't say if you are a man. Additionally, please don't offer advice that only validates. Specifically: "the fickle standards of men who were intimidated by..." echoes common blue pill terminology ("he's just intimidated by you") and removes the impetus for RPW to self improve.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 09:51 AM
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Removed. I think you understand women better than you think. But still this is too much personal preference, Rule 9, if you are a man, personal preference is not advice. I can approve if you remove your first & last sentence.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 09:47 AM
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That's not really how it works in my experience. I've noticed that when I don't have sex or don't use menstrual cups for a while, I feel tighter down there. This is very temporary and goes away quickly though. A woman who's never had anything down there is also more likely to tense up because she's nervous or scared, which will be noticeable.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 04:06 AM
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Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. Removed. There are other reasons why virgins might be tight that have nothing to do with hymens.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 03:52 AM
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This comment is too validatory/petting the unicorns to be here. Single men should not be posting on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 08:55 PM
1

While there is a time and place for discussions about pros and cons marriage, you haven't added anything to this conversation. Unfortunately for you, your message reads far too MGTOW-y for RPW. There are a lot of women here who will not compromise on marriage, and RPW is for them more than it is for you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 10:13 AM
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You do realise this is a women's forum? Why are you talking to OP as if she were a man?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 06:35 AM
2

Thanks so much for the work you've put in to the wiki, Pineapple!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:20 PM
1

Don't pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 12:09 AM
1

Removed. If you are still looking for a relationship, you should not be here. Men on RPW are preferably RP theory experts, married and older.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 09:13 AM
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If you want to argue with a male TRP EC about male sexual strategy, you can do so on TRP. Your time on RPW is over.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 02:05 AM
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Yes, becoming self aware and vetting yourself are the first steps. The looking up at the man you're dating when 25-30 has at least an explanation behind it - 28 is about the age when at which women's SMV starts going down and men's starts going up. Which gives a lot of women FOMO.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 10:30 PM
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It's not glorified. The pros and cons are clearly spelled out. Pros: - An older man is more likely to be established in his career, mature, ready to settle down, and secure in himself. - If you are in your early 20s, men in your age range may still be figuring themselves out, struggling financially or not interested in settling down. - If you are in your 30s or beyond, you will be competing with younger and more attractive women if you go after your peers. Cons: - But he may have baggage from pa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 10:24 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable. Also Rule 3: don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 09:46 PM
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divorcing your partner is the most vile, selfish, pathetic, dishonorable thing a human can do in civilized society No Moralising. Removed. I think you are not in a good place to participate here, as you seem to hyper focus on unhappy marriages and calling people in them names when they divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 10:04 PM
2

Do not insult members of this community and do not moralise. There is a way to make your point but this is not it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 09:49 PM
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Removed. Leave him should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 05:13 AM
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Removed. Leave him should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 05:12 AM
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It is! and it works wonderfully for single ladies as well. Saying "yes" means anyone who is introverted will automatically get out more.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 10:53 PM
5

I think the recommended books are great resources. Fascinating Womanhood has a large number of practical tips and tricks - if you've already read it, it's worth a re-read, and if you haven't, I would recommend it. In contrast, For Women Only is more holistic and works by changing your perspective first.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 10:49 PM
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If you are still struggling with gaining the favour of women (or one particular woman), you should not be posting on RPW. You should be focusing your time on the male RP subs. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 01:10 AM
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Thank you for writing this beautiful field report. I'm giving you a star!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 09:44 PM
1

If you haven't got any woman-centric advice, be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 04:37 AM
1

No idea what this means but it seems low effort. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 12:19 PM
1

Retcon - to change something previously established, normally in a story line. I just see "he's not a HVM" far too often when it turns out the man did something the woman didn't like, or has some character flaw.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 05:54 AM
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I'm not a fan of the HVM terminology. It's too easy to retcon. I think there are users here whose relationships did start on other subreddits - honestly, why not? But strictly speaking such behaviour is banned on RPW, because you are right, it attracts the wrong sort of men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 04:53 AM
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Removed. Stop picking fights.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:39 PM
5

Men should not be trying to find women on RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:32 PM
2

Removed, advice must benefit women. You should not be trying to convince OP to give a man she's never felt attracted to a chance... Nor should you be trying to convince her to do things that don't benefit her, like DEER. Spend more time on TRP before venturing over the women's side.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 01:09 AM
1

We do not have a discord group, sorry. Removed as this question comes up quite a lot and normally it ends in someone posting their private discord group - which we don't allow.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 03:26 AM
1

Rule 3: don't insult OP's boyfriend. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 12:53 AM
-1

Comments offering validation and not actionable advice will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 12:53 AM
1

Please be mindful of Rule 9: your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 03:43 AM
1

Rule 9. We expect our male contributors to not announce they are men and to show proof of commitment. I suspect it is a combination of these two that have earned you the downvotes. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 11:04 PM
1

Removed. "Leave him" should not be the first option.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 10:42 PM
2

Rule 9: If you are a man and you are here... Don't pet the unicorns. Some of the most cringe-worthy posts include fawning admiration of "the lovely ladies" here. Comments like these also do not help to build our environment of humility and self improvement. (AWALT!) Beware, we can do something much worse than remove such posts: we might leave them posted. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 09:37 AM
2

No need for that kind of language. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 09:33 AM
2

Not sure what you mean by that, but questions from men are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 09:44 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:24 AM
5

Do you really think telling her her husband can impregnate a new uterus every day is going to help this situation? Rule Zero. Advice must benefit women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 11:44 PM
2

Low effort posts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 10:07 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 09:26 AM
5

Removed. Rule 9. While the majority of your comment was tiptoeing on the line of "personal preference is not advice", the word "sluts" pushed it over. This is not TRP. We expect male contributors to drop the locker room talk when they come here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 12:20 PM
2

Removed. This isn't adding to the discussion. Of course OP will come here to clarify discrepancies. The male-centric podcasts & articles are not the best source of nuanced information for women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 12:15 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing. Rule Zero: There is no one true way to approach RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 05:39 AM
1

I think this is a low effort AI post. It doesn't add anything to the discussion. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 10:06 PM
1

This sub is so funny with how contradictive your guys' philosophies are. Women need to be subservient hot moms who are nothing but peppy and fun- yet you sit here and advocate for speaking out in public on behalf of your husband? For shame. You don't know what this sub is about. We're not here to argue with you or hear you argue with us. Removed, and banned.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 10:52 PM
2

Removed. It's patronising, and breaks Rule 9: Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 02:16 AM
3

Please refrain from insulting this community while you give advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 02:10 AM
5

Congratulations on getting 5 Stars! You've reached the maximum number and shown your understanding of RP theory!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 09:39 PM
1

Removed. Review Rule 9: personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 09:46 PM
1

Removed. Review Rule 9: Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 09:44 PM
2

Casual sex may not be so bad for some people. But for others it's quite awful. I think you're being deliberately obtuse. This is a redpill sub, which means we recognise there are downsides to casual sex for both men and women. If you are unwilling to acknowledge this then you need to take a short break from commenting here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 11:25 PM
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You are not a moderator - please don't advise users what they can and can't say. That's a moderator's job and we have had a few run ins in the past week with users who had the completely wrong idea about what was allowable discourse trying to undermine the truth-telling ethos of the sub and policing tone, when it was not their place or right to do so. u/Deliaallmylife is an EC and a veteran user of our community. I think she is far more aware of what "on topic" is than you are. While we do have …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 12:52 AM
1

Rule 5: no feminism. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:36 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:40 AM
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You have posted the same question, three times, without any more details than what is contained in the title and deleted it shortly after posting. Deleting posts is against our rules for advice seekers. If you are not willing to help the community by leaving your posts up so others can learn from the advice given, please take a break, and stop making duplicate posts. Use the advice you already got.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:33 AM
3

Rule 3: don't insult OP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 03:52 AM
1

I can only assume you are trolling. Removed. Edit: if you are earnest, please begin your RPW journey by reading TRP vs RPW and understanding how and why they are so different. RPW does not specifically want RP aware men nor do we think that RP aware men make the best life partners. There is a pinned post for newbies at the top of the subreddit, you should read it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 10:28 PM
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Removed. RPW is not for men's questions, and I suspect you are using this forum to find dates. That's explicitly verboten. Men who have yet to have any success with women should stick to forums.red.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 10:27 AM
2

Some of this is okay but insulting our community is not. Rule 3. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 12:47 PM
1

Removed. Personal preference is not advice. I highly doubt not being a virgin is going to disqualify OP with the majority of men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 11:51 AM
3

Removed. OP is willing to learn, so no need to resort to the harsher tone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 01:45 AM
7

white women can OF COURSE call out their own men and talk crap about white men all day on tiktok yeah, on Tiktok. Not on RPW. Rule 3. Ladies, don't badmouth your men. So I suggest you keep your "chicken or egg"- theories to yourself, we don't want anything to do with your two-faced tactics. Rule 3 again. For "Two faced". While I acknowledge there are serious issues in the Indian community - the premise of RPW is self improvement and Jenn is calling out what she sees. If you read any unhappy marr…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 11:21 PM
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Removed, implying Jenn's partner is a "cuck" and they will get divorced is way out of line. This is exactly the kind of attitude that would turn any man, including an Indian man, off. You're not making the kind of excellent point you think you are.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 10:49 PM
6

Don't insult our starred members, who are pointing out reality... Take a break.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 10:41 PM
2

This is only going to devolve. For the record, what u/GreatGoldSphinx is saying here is the same as what VasiliyZaitzev (TRP EC) and SunshineSundress (RPW EC) have said elsewhere on this post. It is odd to me that you are attacking his argument with ad hominems yet disregarding the flaired community members who hold the same views.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 03:12 AM
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u/ghwynn is right - this would open up our users to being doxxed. There are no official RPW groups on WhatsApp.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 05:09 AM
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I've removed this post. See my earlier stickied note on your post regarding physical abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 11:56 PM
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How long do i have to prove myself until he's nice to me? If he is not abusive, and you have always been traditional, it should have an immediate effect. The fact that it hasn't indicates that he has no protective instincts towards you, and nothing you do will make him treat you better. Especially if you have always done what your traditional culture raised you to do, there is no reason for him to treat you this way (except that he is abusive). I'm sorry. We haven't any more advice to give you. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 02:36 AM
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Unfortunately I don't think it is. This account was made before the other post, and she has messaged us in modmail for help before the other troll post. The tone is subtly different too. I think this is a genuine cry for help.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 02:17 AM
3

Isn't it! I think u/blushingoleander came up with it first.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 10:40 PM
1

The only post in the sidebar that talks about nun mode is For Single Ladies Late to the Redpill Part 2. It's a topic that's been identified by the mod team for further expansion.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 11:10 AM
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I am removing this, for several reasons. Firstly, Rule 8. No doxxing yourself. Secondly. We actually ban any man that we find out about DMing users here. That's not what this subreddit is for. I'm not going to ban you for it but I'd like to let you know that good men don't spend their time on RPW waiting for their future wife to pop up. I am ready to get married immediately, and I believe that a marriage between almost anyone could work, as long as they’re willing to be selfless and help the oth…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 10:22 AM
1

Removed. This has nothing to do with OP's post.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 11:34 AM
1

I think you need to take a break from RPW until you get some life experience. A list of qualities which mirror your own characteristics is just personal preference, and doesn't make good advice to the women here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 11:01 AM
4

Welcome aboard, Cammie!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 10:44 PM
2

Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 10:04 AM
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OP, I am in two minds about removing this post. Rule 4 states: Strategies for securing no-commitment sex from men will not be discussed. This is not something women typically want, and not something they need with help with if they do. Please be aware that the mod team will be removing comments that advise going through with no-commitment sex. I am going to leave the post up, however, because you did ask an open question, and I think RPW can still provide helpful interpretations of his actions.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 10:04 AM
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Please note Rule 2: All information you choose to give about yourself must be true, and hypotheticals must be stated as such. I am conditionally approving this & assuming that this is about you, since questions on behalf of others are not allowed, and there is far too much detail here to be a hypothetical.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 02:49 AM
1

Unfortunately, this comment is too close to the Personal Preference clause of Rule 9. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 06:28 AM
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Hi, I've approved your post. Bearing in mind the usual disclaimers that RPW is not exclusively trad, I think a discussion about "what is traditional" is perfectly fine for this sub. Welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 04:40 AM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 06:34 AM
1

Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:53 AM
1

Removed. If you can't be helpful, at least don't be snarky.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:51 AM
1

The comment was removed by automod, and subsequently confirmed removed by me, and somehow I can't even see it on this page anymore. Anyway, It's exactly the sort of thing that shouldn't be here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 12:26 AM
1

Ultimately the decision to leave is up to OP, as she can weigh all the pros/cons. Begging her to leave him is just not impartial enough to be good advice. Removed, as "leave him" advice needs to be well reasoned out and strongly justified.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 02:52 AM
1

Removed. No need for snark.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 10:16 PM
0

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 11:52 PM
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I think calling OP's man a d-bag is breaking Rule 3. It also doesn't endear you to OP or help her hear you out. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 11:09 PM
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Great roundup of the theory, and the societal implications. +1 star.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 10:08 AM
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There's likely something more important than any of that, that she isn't doing, if no man is interested in her... Telling her to wait around and waste her time isn't as helpful as you think it is. Maybe you can help her figure out what that something is....? I don't have the answers, I'm just enforcing the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 01:51 AM
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Removed. You're in the wrong sub to simply validate women that don't want to put any effort in. Rule 2: Requests must be made with the intent of useful advice, not sympathy, and advice must be given with the intent of helping the person requesting it. with the corollary: ...and not just sympathy or validation. OP is posting here because what she's doing isn't working. Giving her advice that amounts to "keep doing what you're doing" isn't going to fix her problem.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 01:19 AM
2

Removed. "You shouldn't have..." isn't advice, it's just moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 10:08 PM
2

Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 11:17 PM
1

Thankyou!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 01:46 AM
9

Can you please add line breaks to this, as it will improve readability and help you get the help you need from our community.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 12:32 AM
1

Lol it's not about the man feeling the need to make us submit. The vast majority of women here are with Greater Betas, such a thing would probably be anathema to them. However, the women here find that life is easier and happier when they do submit. Edit: You're getting a bit of flack. Before you ragequit/delete your comments, please have a look at these field reports to understand the exact dynamic. Empowering your Captain Shutting up and trusting him My submission is his gift to me There are h…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 02:12 AM
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Removed. Rule 5: No Feminism, we don't need to be saved. We are perfectly capable of being strong & independent, in fact many women here have successful careers. However, they also want love, and they want love with a worthy man, and they prioritise this over their own ego and independence. It means sacrificing their need to be in control in order to keep the kind of man that wants to take care of them and wants to be needed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 01:57 AM
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Women instinctively submit to, defer to, and obey men. Men instinctively protect and care for women. Each of these instincts, when expressed proportionally, tends to provoke the corresponding response in the other. Have a read of Submissive Behaviour as Strategy to understand why being independent might be considered masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 12:55 AM
1

Removed. This is not a sub for men's questions. Go to forums.red/i/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 09:48 PM
3

As u/Whisper himself wrote, "begone thot" is not very useful advice. If you don't have any useful advice, Rule 9, you don't belong here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 09:58 PM
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Can you please edit your post to make it clear that this is a hypothetical, and clarify what is real and what is not (eg are you in a relationship, are you having these issues, or are they made up). We have a rule that hypotheticals must be stated as such.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 05:18 AM
1

Paranoia is not helpful. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 10:19 PM
5

This sub is RP from the female perspective, and it differs quite a bit from the male perspective. Your advice must be helpful to women who want to become wife material. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 10:16 PM
1

Low effort posts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 12:41 AM
1

Rule Two; advice must be helpful. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 12:55 PM
5

Don't worry about it, his post history showed a lot of anger towards women. This was the wrong place for his emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 08:42 AM
1

Rule 3: Do not insult the community or its members. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 08:38 AM
4

I agree with u/Jenneapolis, if you don't want to help women, and are stuck in the anger phase, RPW is not for you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 08:33 AM
1

This is not redpill, removed as off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/23 10:12 PM
1

Removed. Rule 3, plus, low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/23 02:47 AM
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Jinx!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/23 10:16 PM
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We've got a Getting Started With RPW stickied to the top of the sub. Check it out. When you have more time, read the Wiki as well, including the WIP section.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/23 10:15 PM
1

Removed. Same reason as above.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 10:53 PM
1

Removed. Strategies should be from a red pill perspective. We recognize that virginity does exist, in men and women, and is something that is fundamental to a relationship in certain cultures and for certain people, depending on preference.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 10:52 PM
1

Removed. Sometimes lying is the preferred strategy, no need to be insulting.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 10:51 PM
1

Removed. Be kind to our newbies.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 10:48 PM
0

And why do you think homosexuality and codependency are attractive to women in a man?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 11:36 PM
1

Can you explain how Interview With The Vampire shows any great examples of feminine traits in men?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 11:18 PM
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Low effort comments will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 05:43 AM
1

If you're speaking from experience, this comes under Rule 9. Leave your anger at the door.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 09:37 PM
5

Your wish is granted - banned.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 01:08 AM
3

Leave if you want, but the female-male dynamic has been often analogised to pets before. Because this dynamic, when done intelligently, inspires our man to love us more than ever. - Be a cat is in our sidebar - One of our ECs wrote Lessons from Fido: How To Be a Better First Mate, and this article was reposted 2 years ago during Back to Basics September.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 12:17 AM
1

Welcome to RPW, please Read Rule 9 indepth and don't announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 09:30 PM
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I don't think you should be advising women if you can't inspire a woman to go on a second date with you. Spend more time on the men's forums instead.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 11:48 AM
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You wrote nothing that addressed the question. I will remove your post if you are only here for validation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 11:41 AM
4

Removed, Rule 6: Withholding information doesn't make it less true or relevant. Either answer the question ("What happened those 8 times?") and set InfinteShadox straight, or accept that she is right. You have a posting history here of not taking responsibility for your actions and arguing with advice given.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 01:16 AM
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Removed, Rule 3. No need for snark.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 10:43 PM
3

Done! u/morbidityofanother, great post!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 12:55 AM
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Removed. Rule 9. Men's questions belong on forums.red/i/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 09:37 PM
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RPW is not your flirting ground. Rule 9. Permanent ban for any man who says "dm me" or tries to pickup here. Ladies, please report (via modmail) any man that flirtatiously DMs you in response to an RPW post. This is explicitly verboten.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 10:53 AM
3

Removed. Please read Rule 9. Don't announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 10:42 AM
3

Rule 9. Don't announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 12:18 AM
2

Please refrain from treating this thread as a place for your erotica.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 02:27 PM
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Removed, Rule 9. Men's question belong on forums.red/i/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 02:18 PM
1

Rule 9. Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 03:32 AM
1

Rule 4: Strategies must be from a redpill perspective. Removed. I don't think any EC here has ever said "men will leave you if you have sex too soon with them." The exact opposite has been stated in multiple theory posts. To be clear - waiting for sex is a valid vetting strategy but not a valid strategy for inspiring commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 03:10 AM
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Rule 9. Don't announce you are a man. Rule 4. Strategies should be from a red-pill perspective. The terms alpha and beta are frequently used by the red pill community to denote male traits that evoke different feelings in women. For alpha, it is sexual arousal, and for beta, it is a feeling of comfort. if you are a man and not an expert at TRP, please focus your time in the male spaces before posting in the female spaces.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 02:51 AM
1

It's for the best I think. Saves newbies the trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 11:38 PM
1

Even if VasiliyZaitzev were not a man, this is not a debate sub and not a place where you can insult everyone that disagrees with you. We will always preference what women think here, because this is RedPillWomen. If you would like a place that helps men, feel free to check out the new forums.red. You can look out for the guys there and we'll look out for the gals here. Rule 9. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 11:26 PM
1

Oops, my bad. The focus was on the "TRP Senior Endorsed" bit and I missed the bit above it in old reddit. Fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 11:09 PM
1

Removed. If you are a man in the anger phase and don't have any actionable advice for OP, don't post here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 10:16 PM
7

We have people who "looksmaxx" here too. From what I can tell it's a ideologically neutral set of strategies that are often associated with some hardcore subs that are known to be a bit light on the moral side. Ironically, calling certain kinds of people subhuman is very close to the insult you used. Rule 3: Don't insult the community or its members. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 10:11 PM
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Are you policing comments? on a sub moderated by men. I'm policing comments. Yours are removed. This particular one for Rule 3: don't insult the community or its members, the rest for being off topic. Make a post - as has already been advised.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 10:01 PM
1

Low effort comments will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 07:35 AM
1

You're arguing against a strawman. Anyway, Rule 3: Don't insult the community or its members, and Rule 5: No Feminism. We don't need to be saved, we don't engage in debates here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 07:24 AM
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Thank you, u/pythag333 for bringing this to our attention and for providing a well reasoned justification of our position. To anyone looking to do the same - please remember that the mod team advises caution before talking to reporters. We are jaded cynicists regarding the media, and this article only confirms that. Please remember to stay safe online. Regarding the political matters mentioned in the post - we tend to remove most discussions of politics, except when they are directly relevant to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 04:15 AM
2

No, it's not, you have to summarise what the video is about.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 11:06 PM
4

Removed. If you have no useful advice for anyone but a very select subsection of women, you should not be giving advice here. Rule Four, advice must be actionable. "Begone thot" by any other name is not actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 09:28 PM
1

Removed. Mind your language.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 09:17 PM
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Removed. Many flaired community members have given you an excellent overview of who we are and why we are here. You have ignored the best explanations and chosen to focus on a very small subset of views that most confirm your negative opinion of us. I am removing this for not being in good faith and deviating from the purpose of the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 04:45 AM
1

Removed, no feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 04:33 AM
3

Sounds like you're not here in good faith. I am removing your post. We are not r/PurplePillDebate, we do not engage with naysayers, our community is here for women who would like to improve their relationships or find a worthwhile relationship. Outsiders who are not here to help women in these goals or help themselves with these goals are not welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 04:32 AM
5

We love you back <3
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 12:02 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. You have broken enough rules to earn a permanent ban.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 10:46 PM
2

Advice must be actionable. This is not helpful to OP. Removed. Are you here to help women or just judge them?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 10:40 PM
1

Removed. Leave Him is Never the First Option.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 10:37 PM
10

A lot of the people saying that about modern women are newbies, not flaired users that have been distinguished by the mod team and endorsed contributors, and if they are, they're often men again. Be discerning about who is saying it and why. The who is a shortcut to the why. I spend a lot of time removing comments from men who only come here to pet the unicorns and spout venom at modern women.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 10:31 PM
1

Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 07:37 AM
1

Comments from men must include actionable advice and be for the benefit of women. No male-centric discussion. Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 02:35 AM
5

Your opinion as a man is irrelevant - Rule 9. Don't declare that you are a man, your opinion must stand on its own.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 10:29 PM
1

Removed, personal preferences are not advice. Please see Rule 9 for male participation guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 09:47 AM
1

Hey, appreciate you helping OP out but your first three words break Rule 3. If you can edit those out, I will approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 06:03 AM
1

Removed, Rule 3: don't insult the community members.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 02:45 AM
1

Removed. Please read Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 06:48 AM
3

Approved, cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 02:54 AM
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Don't link to FDS, our AutoMod will remove your comment. If you edit that part out I can approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 02:24 AM
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I'm approving but your first sentence is not Rule 9 compliant, don't announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 01:18 AM
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There is actually a report on your post for a Rule 3 violation: do not insult the community or its members, which means members of the community felt you were insulting them, long before your edit. The reason you did not get more useful advice from women is because you explicitly excluded them from giving you any on a women's subreddit. It's really ironic - but, the reason women coddle women, is because if we don't, they get all stroppy and ragequit just like you did. Your post is removed for br…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 06:59 AM
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Men who participate here should ideally be ideally older, TRP experts, and married. I don't think you meet these criteria based on this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/23 09:59 PM
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Yes we can! Congratulations u/dropdeadgorgon, you have 1 star!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/23 09:55 PM
1

A reminder of Rule 7: links or videos must contain a summary, linked to RP theory, in the body of the post. Removed. If you can fulfil the requirements of the rule, please make a new post.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 11:11 AM
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The OP has been around RPW a while. I see no reason to think she's a man because of one doom and gloom post.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 06:58 AM
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people would be going nuts Not on this sub they wouldn't.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 10:55 PM
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This comment triggered the automod because you stated you were a man. Also, your comment had no actionable advice, so I am removing this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 09:51 PM
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If you don't know enough about women to understand why we have these rules, you shouldn't be participating here, and should be focussing your time on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 09:51 PM
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Rule 3: do not insult OP's man. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 10:14 PM
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I'm very sorry that you're in this tough situation, but you need to consider getting professional in person help. The internet can't do much if he's getting physically violent or threatening violence. This problem is beyond the scope of RPW. I'm removing this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:09 PM
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Removed - Leave him is never the 1st option. Edit: just read OP's response to this comment. I'm going to update this post with a stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:04 PM
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Hi - please see Rule 6: If you are asking a personal relationship question, please answer the following questions: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? Be honest with yourself about what background is needed to help the community answer your question. Withholding information doesn't make it less true or relevant. Include the state of your sex li…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 04:41 AM
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This bot has been banned.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 04:38 AM
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Ok, in which case the early advice on this post is still relevant to you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 09:42 PM
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Removed, Rule 5: No Feminism. RPW is an anti-feminist community. Please see this post by one of our moderators discussing the rule for more information: Furthermore, please do not derail our threads with feminism and arguments for its validity. You are free to be a feminist and mention that you are a feminist here and how that affects your utilization of the RPW toolbox, but we do not need any proselytizing in the name of feminism here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 07:59 AM
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No you won't - I'm issuing a temp ban if you cannot follow the community rules.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 11:20 PM
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I'm not trying to get anywhere with you; your comment was reported by the community under Rule 3; I agreed with that assessment; and I removed it and did you the courtesy of explaining why. If you are going to double down I will keep removing your comments.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 10:35 PM
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I think it's a bit much to say that he is a pedophile. All men above age 21 are sexually attracted to 21 year old women; there was an okcupid chart about it. Men are different to women in this regard, while women's sexual preference is for men their own age, men's is always for 21 year olds. However unpalatable that truth may be, it certainly doesn't automatically make anyone a pedophile, which means sexual attraction to people well below age 21, and is truly despicable, and is not at all the sa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 09:58 PM
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Rule 9: no need to announce you are a man. Please read Rule 9 before posting.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 09:41 PM
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Rule 9: personal preferences are not advice. If your advice isn't generic, removed. Also don't announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 09:39 PM
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Your edit triggered the automod. Rule 9: don't announce you are a man. Personal preference is not advice. Two day ban for anyone that obviously hasn't read Rule 9 before posting.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 09:37 PM
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N count affects RMV, not SMV. And it isn't the entirety of RMV either, there are other aspects to RMV. I'm approving your comment as it got picked up by automod - with these clarifications.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 10:07 PM
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Cope til you can’t It was written in the second person. Seems pointless arguing about a one liner.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 09:55 PM
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There's too many Rule 9 violations for me to list. Removed. Please read Rule 9 and all the links in it before posting here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 05:34 AM
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Even if you are a high value man yourself, you do not speak for all of them. Moreover, you have not met OP nor can you predict her future. Saying that "the ship has sailed" and that she is disqualified from high value men seems to be exactly what this snippet in Rule 9 was written for: Don't come here to spit mad Red Pill Truths. We know TRP theory from the female perspective already. Writing out a poster's predicted future history in the second person is creepy, and it derails the discussion fo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 02:30 AM
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You are unnecessarily projecting your relationship failures onto someone else. Advice should be given from a place of what worked to save your relationship, not what didn't. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 10:14 PM
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You are correct in that the wiki and the rules both say that no strings attached sex is off limits/ not advisable. I've also heard just about as many feminists arguing your position as I've heard them arguing "sex work is work". There's a lot of feminist literature arguing sex work is exploitative and immoral. From previous research I know that a very large percentage (high 90s) of sex work in poorer countries is an option of last resort - they wouldn't be doing it if they had another option. Tu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 10:06 PM
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Agree, poor choice of words on my part.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 09:35 PM
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He's shit. You know he's shit. Do not badmouth OP's man. It often comes from the ladies but men are not exempt from this rule either.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 02:17 PM
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A good man won’t judge you for your number count and sexual history While I certainly think that OP is being dramatic describing herself as "worthless", RPW still acknowledges that low N count is a component of a woman's RMV. Given the choice between two women who are exactly the same but differ only in their N count (which is unrealistic) - a man will prefer the woman with the lower N count. Therefore, rather than attempting to shame men for their innate preferences, RPW advises women to be awa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 01:19 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from a redpill perspective. Comments demonising, emasculating, or insulting men for having a preference for women with low N counts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 01:03 PM
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Removed. All advice must be from a redpill perspective. Having a preference for a low N count is not an indication that a man is intimidated or not masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:56 PM
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Women behave differently in mixed gender groups. The quiet, shy women do not speak in a group they don't feel safe in, and any group with a lot of strange men is one they don't feel safe in. This is the reason we come down very hard on any men showing sexual interest in members or sliding into their DMs here. To feel safe, women must feel like any of the men around them are able & willing to protect them if need be - only established, non-sex-motivated, more paternal men fit this bill. We can sm…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 09:32 AM
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Understood, I've approved your comment, thanks for the clarification.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 07:44 AM
2

Removed. I understand your anger about OP lying about her situation, but it is not true that anyone else in OP's situation is not allowed to post here. We have sex workers as part of our community here, and they have made advice posts and received advice in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:58 PM
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Removed. Don't insult/gatekeep our community. We have sex workers here, there is nothing in the rules that prohibits a sex worker from posting or asking advice. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy, and it is part of the ethos of RPW to help every woman that wants help, not just tradcons. That said, lying/giving false information is certainly against our rules and I've removed OP's post under Rule 2 for not giving accurate information.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:55 PM
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OP, your post history shows that you are witholding important information - that you started your relationship with him as a sugar baby. If this is the case, I am removing this post under Rule 2: All information you choose to give about yourself and your situation must be true. Misrepresenting how you met him is not going to get you good advice. Edit: OP is not a native English speaker, and didn't realise sugaring meant sex work. She has clarified that she is in an age gap relationship only. Any…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:48 PM
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Rule 3: don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:42 PM
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Ah LOL no worries. OP's been banned anyway and the post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:24 PM
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Please don't encourage men DMing our users flirtatiously. It will get men banned from the sub if the lady reports it to the mods.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 09:47 PM
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I don't think comparing OP's marriage to your failed relationship is a good go here. You should be giving advice from what worked, not what didn't. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 09:22 PM
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Rule Zero: Stay on topic. RPW is for women to discuss sexual strategy. Content must serve to help women, deviations from this are off topic. If you are here to learn, perhaps you're best off lurking.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 09:31 PM
1

Congrats u/StrangestUnicorn! You're up to 4 stars!
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 07:25 AM
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No, you are quite wrong, Crowder isn't the topic, OP's relationship with her partner is. We are a sub dedicated to male/female relationships. I took down a post just yesterday on Crowder because it had no relevance whatsoever. What you said was: I mean the fact that you openly admit to being indoctrinated to this ideology by a man who abuses his wife should be a pretty big red flag. That was it. You had no actionable advice, and I'm aware this issue is a political hot topic. It's also going to d…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 03:50 AM
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Removed. Stay on topic. There are certainly non-abusive conservative men out there, this doesn't help OP.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 03:23 AM
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Rule 2: Advice must be helpful and actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 08:39 PM
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Rule 9: - don't announce you are a man - personal preferences are not advice
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 08:29 PM
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Rule 7: links or videos require a brief summary and must be related to RP theory. Not sure how this is RP at all. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 03:24 AM
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Sigh, nevermind, this is an actual ripped off GLO post.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 02:27 AM
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Hi RPW - yes, the mods find the language suspect as well, and I initially removed it because I thought it was a man. However, I can't prove that, and if OP is willing to defend herself in the comments than who am I to say otherwise? The post itself is well written and high effort, and, highly entertaining. The content of the post is worthy of a discussion on its own. I'm leaving it up so that discussion can take place. OP and others - please refrain from calls for doxxing and/or accepting video …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 10:12 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 09:39 PM
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Hi OP, this post is poorly formatted, spelled, and punctuated, and does not meet our posting guidelines as per Rule 7. Can you use a text editing program (eg Word or an open source alternative) to spellcheck and help with capitalisation, sentence structure, etc., before reposting? Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 12:03 PM
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Please note that even though I've removed the original post, this advice is not in line with our subreddit rules: Leave Him Is Never The First Option, especially pertinent whenever OP states that she is married.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 10:26 PM
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OP, this is a very low effort post and we need more details. I am removing this. If you'd like better and more tailored advice, write a new post that follows our "guidelines for asking relationship questions" in Rule 6.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 10:24 PM
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Removed, Rule 7. No low effort posts. Please include age, and relevant details like your interests, and what you've tried before, and why you think it didn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 12:19 AM
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Automatic 2 day ban for anyone announcing "man here". Please read Rule 9 and all the links in it before contributing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 03:37 AM
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Removed. Rule 7. FLS is not endorsed by the RP network.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 02:53 AM
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This got caught in reddit's spam filter. If you re-post it I will approve.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 09:55 AM
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Removed. As helpfully pointed out, this sub is not the place. Try forums.red/i/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 05:23 AM
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Rule 10: No arguments from morality. For the moment there are still plenty of men, and there is no reason OP has to "share" a man. Also, temp ban for being a man.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 01:55 AM
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+1 star, u/diaryofalostgirl! Fantastic nuanced discussion of AWALT.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 11:32 PM
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Removed. Advice must be helpful to women. Saying 40+ literally 0 beauty to men is not going to help OP or anyone else. At RPW we recognise that men value RMV as well as SMV, and a woman's SMV is age-dependant among her peers. Men her age and older will find a mature woman attractive if she has the RMV to match. Also, it's weird that you include preteen and teen ages in your comment. That's creepy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:56 PM
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+1 star, u/undothatbutton. Good breakdown of TRP vs RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:40 PM
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This feels like a troll. I feel like you're really a redpill man lols DON'T insult anyone in our community, including anyone in the male RP community. Not that u/BePrivateGirl is a man, she's not, with a history of posting here. If you're only here to insult RP men and RP women and argue with core RP principles like hypergamy - your post will be removed or locked.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:35 PM
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+1 star, u/StrangestUnicorn. Good understanding of alpha/beta.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:31 AM
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Removed. Rule 9: personal preferences are not advice. If you're a man, please review Rule 9 before contributing. Automatic 2 day bans for any man breaking the rule.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/23 12:36 PM
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Removing this post because OP's account is suspended, and the post is too vague.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/23 08:03 AM
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I find it hard enough to keep up with the rules we already have. Pls no more.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 10:49 AM
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Sorry, this is off topic, removed. Rule 10 also stipulates no moralising. You are welcome to have a code of ethics and opine on why certain cultures function the way they do and the history behind them. But merely stating your religious beliefs is against Rule 10.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 06:01 AM
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Rule 3: don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 11:54 AM
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There is nothing in what OP has said as of yet that leads us to believe he will or is cheating on her. At least one person has asked OP directly about that but she has not yet responded. I am removing this comment as it breaks the Leave Him is Never the First Option rule.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 03:23 AM
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Yet plenty of wives say they got turned off by their husbands 100% focusing on them and not looking at other women I get the feeling you have no direct experience of this and are repeating something you heard from TRP about how all women go for AF over BB. Here on RPW we make The Case for The Greater Beta and seek a man that also gives us comfort, in line with our own needs on the comfort/dominance spectrum. Your comment is removed, it seems to be a "gotcha" aimed at women in unhappy relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 02:39 AM
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OP, I'm removing this post. There are other subreddits for fashion advice, weight loss and postpartum if you're really keen on those points. On a postpartum forum you're going to get much more relevant and considerate advice. The reason I'm removing this post is because the advice you're going to get is going to be all over the place and is going to do nothing for your self esteem. The internet nitpicks everything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 09:43 PM
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Removed. Rule 9: don't announce you are a man. Your advice should stand on its own. Temp ban.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 09:23 PM
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This comment isn't in line with our standards of conduct, described in Rule 3, and I have removed it. Everyone will benefit from showing a default level of politeness and patience. Escalating to a firmer tone should only be done as a measured response to someone that has displayed a reluctance to listen. This is particularly important to keep in mind with newcomers that are unlikely to know much about RP concepts.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 01:56 AM
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Rule 9; check your anger at the door. Stay off this sub if your only intent here is to rage against women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 07:28 AM
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The post may be deleted but reports on comments still go up in our mod queue. Temp ban.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 01:41 AM
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Removed, Rule 7: no inter-reddit links. Edit: Please don't repost this without the crosslink. This is exactly the kind of drama-bait we will remove regardless. I'll have a discussion with the other moderators about this and see if there's any actions we think are appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/23 04:58 AM
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Rule 5: no arguing, debating, justification of beliefs. You are allowed to explain why letting a man pay on a date is a bad idea for the woman, but otherwise we accept that some of the women here want a traditional marriage and do not have to justify that choice. Additionally, you sound like you are still in the anger phase and have a grudge against all women. Our Rule 9 is Commitment or GTFO.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:12 PM
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Rule 0: Advice must be helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:06 PM
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Rule 9: No petting the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:03 PM
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Well.. that's why they're here, isn't it, to get advice and learn... And yes, we're softies, because we're women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:02 PM
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Removed, rule 3: don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 11:23 PM
1

Why?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 09:51 PM
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OP's account has been deleted; I'm removing this post under Rule 2 for not sticking around.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 11:54 AM
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Removed, rule 3. Please refrain from using insults.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 05:58 AM
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Removed. Rule 3: don't insult our members.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 02:47 AM
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But saying a woman who slept around is worthy of a good man is like saying a man who did nothing with his life and lives with his mom deserves the most beautiful virgin woman I appreciate you bringing RP theory back in to this thread but it leans too far into not-helping-women territory; Rule 0 violation, and I'm removing this comment. Women and men aren't static numbers on a scale. Self improvement for both men and women is possible. If a woman has a high N count but is perfect in every other w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 02:58 AM
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It is a beautiful thing!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 10:56 PM
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Tbh, your comment got picked up by the automod, and when I reviewed the mod log, decided it was best to keep this one removed based on the above reasoning. You don't have to explain why lying is immoral, lying is well understood to be immoral. The thing is that immoral strategies may still work and we do allow discussion of immoral strategies, even if they aren't so well received by the community at times. Your reworked response gets my tick of approval, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 10:45 PM
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From your original wording it sounded like you think we exist to serve men or something. But no, you're quite right, we aim to understand them primarily and then do with that information what we will. We have goals, even if they're unstated, and the knowledge here is a tool for reaching those goals. When we ask "how can I make my man happy?" it's always well understood that the unstated goal is not "make my man happy" but "so he can love me more and I can feel loved by a worthy man". You sound l…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 10:37 PM
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Removed. Rule 10: no moralizing, and don't insult the community. Lying is an amoral strategy. If you'd like to explain why it is bad, then you must do so from the perspective of why it doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 09:44 PM
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Rule 9: Check your anger at the door. I don't think you can give good advice or help anyone if you're holding a grudge against all women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 09:42 PM
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Can you please explain what you mean by the following? The reason I give advice here is because I see redpill women as in a similar boat as me--taking on the ideology of the opposite sex.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 03:19 AM
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Removed, leave him is never the first option. You should offer other advice before suggesting breaking up a happy relationship of 2 years over a hyperactive hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 10:13 PM
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Removed. Please be kind and patient when interacting on RPW, especially with newbies.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 09:54 PM
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Removed. Strategies should be from a redpill perspective. At RPW we do acknowledge that all things being equal, men do prefer younger women. If you'd like to give a more nuanced answer about how age isn't the only determining factor in a man's pick, please do.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 09:52 PM
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This post got automatically removed by Automod - if you want to resubmit this one, would suggest making a new post, with more detail that we can approve.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 09:50 PM
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Rule 9: Personal preferences are not advice. OP isn't trying to marry you. Rule 10: No moralizing. And Rule 0: Advice must be helpful to women. None of your advice helped OP figure out what to do, it just shamed her for not being perfect. Take a break and reconsider whether you should be posting on the women's sub.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 11:14 AM
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I've approved this comment because it's relevant but please remember Rule 9. Personal preferences are not advice. As other men on this thread have said, not asking is not the same as not caring. Some men can guess a woman's rough N count based on how she acts, but won't ask the exact number nor bring up the topic even if they want an LTR with her, if they trust her and she brings value to their life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 08:07 AM
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Removed. Advice needs to help the OP - this is just shaming her boyfriend and by extension her.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 09:40 PM
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Removed. Advice must actually help OP.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 09:07 AM
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In this very post another user has complained that posts like this are too "cry me a river" and the advice they garner is too "relationship_advice". If you look at Rule 2 it states: Requests must be made with the intent of useful advice, not sympathy, and advice must be given with the intent of helping the person requesting it. It's too easy for women on the internet to find support and sympathy, and very hard for them to find actionable advice that actually improves their chances of a happy rel…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 09:02 AM
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Removed. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 01:27 AM
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Arguing with a mod - and you're a man - temp 2 day ban. If I advise someone not to have sex before marriage it's because I think that's better. Yes, uhuh... but is it better for OP or better for your agenda? Advice must benefit women, or OP specifically. Advice that seeks to push an agenda benefits the agenda only.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 01:20 AM
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The criteria I use to decide is if I remove the insult, semantics aside, does the comment still have value? The brevity of your comment was the overall decider, if it was longer or more nuanced I'd probably have kept it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 01:12 AM
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Regarding the formatting, that is a fair comment. As for the content/advice nature of it - I think as an Update post it is valuable, because it allows people to see the effect of certain advice and how it plays out in real life. There were a lot of people on the previous post that said "don't tell him he has no right to ask" - and well - the relationship ends is what happens when you follow that advice. That's a lesson for everyone here, and for that reason I would encourage follow up posts. Due…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 01:07 AM
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only abusive and manipulative guys care about body coun Removed. Not RP advice. At RPW we acknowledge that men do care about body count.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:29 PM
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I know they're technically not together anymore - but removed, rule 3, for insulting OP's man. Try to focus more on behaviours rather than jumping straight to insults.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:27 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:21 PM
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+1 Star for this, u/StrangestUnicorn. Good walkthrough of what went wrong and why.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:13 PM
2

And, +1 Star u/PillUpAss.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:04 PM
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u/infinitymouse The Whisper article in question is The Final Exam, and is absolutely recommended reading as it explains why making men wait is not a bad strategy, and also explains why you doing it early is not a mistake if he still likes you afterwards. Edit: not a bad strategy but also not a great strategy on its own.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 09:58 PM
4

Just a reminder, as a mod, of the star system and Endorsed Contributor tags: In the same way that stars denote upvotes at RPW, we are adopting star flair to recognize you lovely ladies and charming gents. Members will be able to earn up to 5 stars for their amazing insights, excellent red pill theory and impeccable advice. Stars are earned one at a time, so new members will be able to tell who are long time or active contributors by the number of stars they hold. These stars will also help the m…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 09:48 PM
1

Removed as off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 11:30 AM
1

I recommend you make a new post with this info - it's too easily missed in the comments on an old post.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:49 AM
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Sex outside of marriage is wrong Removed, rule 10: no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:47 AM
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You have already received a lot of feedback from community members, that the way in which you say things matters, and that there are other approaches to being feminine or applying RP skills. A reminder of the RPW standards of conduct: ... participating on this forum with a sense of kindness, patience, and charitability is one of the best ways to foster community and encourage thoughtful discussions. You have been unwilling to take on board the feedback given and are again resorting to insults. I…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 06:30 AM
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OP I'm removing this post. From your comments below I gather that this man, among other red flags, hit you and tried to suffocate you. Which puts this post in the Problems Beyond The Scope of RPW category for physical abuse. You need to seek in person help. RPW doesn't condone submitting to an abusive man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 02:59 AM
1

Removed. Rule 3: don't insult our members.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 02:47 AM
2

Removed. Rule 9: men's advice posts are not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 12:22 PM
3

Removed. Rule 9: men's advice posts are not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 12:17 PM
1

Good to hear it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:37 AM
1

Removed, rule 3.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:31 AM
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Removed, rule 3: don't insult our members. It's great that your relationship works for you - I do mean that - but you have to realise that the things you achieve one way can be achieved in other ways by other women. You use "toughness" to be more useful to your man but other women may use "vulnerability" or "delicacy" to inspire care from their man. Both approaches are fine for different kinds of men. One man might see a delicate woman as impractical and another will rush to protect and provide …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:28 AM
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Removed: don't pet the unicorns. Please take some time to familiarize yourself with Rule 9 and the contribution guidelines for men.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 07:43 AM
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Why would you be banned for restating accepted redpill theory?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 03:52 AM
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Please don't mistake RPW for a conservative community - TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradCon. We have women of all stripes here, including those who do watch porn in their relationships and do participate in the sex work industry.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 12:08 PM
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OP, our Rule 10 is no moralizing. You are welcome to discuss how porn has changed society and relationships between men and women, but this is not a platform for you to voice your personal distaste for porn actors and actresses.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 11:55 AM
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Hi OP, video links must include a brief summary of the content in the body of the post. Tie it into RP theory. If you can edit this post with that, I will reapprove it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:21 AM
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Hi OP. I'm removing this thread because it falls under Problems that are beyond the scope of RPW. Very extreme porn would probably come under the severe addiction category and you need to seek help in person.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:17 AM
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Removed: advice must be helpful to women. Her having sex with him again is only bad for her. You're trying to get women to act in their worst self interest - which is contrary to the premise of this sub. I'm issuing a permanent ban, because you've been temp banned before.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 12:37 AM
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Men here must be familiar with the sidebar and the standards of conduct. Rule 3: do not insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 09:26 PM
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... This isn't relevant to helping women or the discussion at hand. Removed; rule 0.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 11:37 AM
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Your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 11:33 AM
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Take a break from giving advice here if you haven't read the sidebar or the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 10:04 PM
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This isn't really redpill, and I'm removing it. Men's careers really take off at 30, which gives them a dual injection of confidence and status. Men gain most of their life satisfaction and pride from how good/respected they are at work. For this reason many men are seen as more attractive at 30 than 20, receding hairlines notwithstanding.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 09:27 PM
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Removed. Don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 09:11 PM
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Noted, I misread your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 10:29 PM
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If you spell out what you mean here, I'm happy to leave it up. I'm not sure what you mean by "easily". The original comment stays removed for insulting OP's man. Edit: make a new top-level comment with the advice, since this will get lost, and I'll clean up this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 10:19 PM
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We both know what you meant. The rule is there for a reason. I know you're being facetious but I'm going to level with you and not just temp ban you. OP's boyfriend seems to have a warped sense of humour and a playful demeanour. Neither of these disqualify him from being a good Captain. You have to eliminate the possibility that he isn't doing this maliciously, like u/delavogue has said, before advising OP to leave. Sometimes the truth behind jokes is that "he's not sensitive to emotions like wo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 10:14 PM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Also, don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 09:50 PM
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Removed. While this is redpill women, it's also redpill women. I'll leave your initial comment up but please familiarize yourself with the guidelines for men contributing. All comments must be useful and relevant to women, as judged by women. Check your anger at the door. Calling people delusional for pointing out a fact is not how we talk here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 08:01 AM
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Removed. No need for snark.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:45 AM
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Removed. No need for snark.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:45 AM
1

Removed. Personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:43 AM
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No need for insults. Just report them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:43 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Please keep in mind that OP is married. This sub is not about breaking apart marriages, it's about making them work. What you're saying is not redpill advice. OP herself admits that it's not worth arguing over, and is looking for ways to improve her behaviour. At RPW we don't just validate OPs - we encourage them to improve themselves. Often they find that by following our advice, they become happier, because women don't want to be ri…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 08:58 PM
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Removed. Rule 9: if you're a man, personal preferences are not advice. I don't think you're the right fit for this subreddit if you're telling women to sleep around.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 10:34 AM
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RPW Theory: Childlike vs Childish
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 07:07 AM
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Don't pet the unicorns. Some of the most cringe-worthy posts include fawning admiration of "the lovely ladies" here. Comments like these also do not help to build our environment of humility and self improvement. (AWALT!) Beware, we can do something much worse than remove such posts: we might leave them posted! Familiarize yourself with these guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 08:31 PM
2

Removed. Strategies should be from a redpill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 10:37 AM
3

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Men's contributions must have RP strategy and useful advice.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 03:20 AM
1

Removed. Questions cannot be asked on behalf of others (rule 2) and men's advice posts are not allowed (rule 9). Head over to r/TheRedPill or r/marriedredpill
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/23 09:33 PM
2

Removed. We don't allow promotion of discord servers as it could be a pretext to doxx people.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/23 08:51 AM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:08 PM
1

Removed. See stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:07 PM
1

Removed. See stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:06 PM
2

Removed. See stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:06 PM
2

Removed. See stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:04 PM
2

Removed. See stickied comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:03 PM
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Attention RPW. A lot of the below comments are trying to talk OP into ending her relationship, or using anecdotes, generalities or statistics to convince her that the relationship is doomed. You're all very close to creating a self fulfilling prophecy. May I remind everyone, that Leave Him is Never the First Option. Especially when the OP is married and they have a child together. Comments that imply, insinuate, or otherwise try to dodge around the Leave Him rule by casting vague aspersions on t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:01 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here and Rule 4, which includes Leave him should not be the 1st option. Also issuing a temporary 2 day ban for your first violation of rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 09:15 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 08:25 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 12:53 PM
1

Removed. Posts and comments must actually try to help OP, not mock her.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 12:52 PM
6

Removed. Rule 3 violation: do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 11:53 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Commitment or GTFO. This advice does not benefit the woman in any way, so it also breaks Rule 0. It would decrease the amount of investment and commitment she gets from her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 09:45 AM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/23 11:42 AM
1

Removed. Please keep in mind that "Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 08:53 PM
1

Removed for rule 8 - no promoting discord servers or identifying information. Also, advice must be for OP, not for her boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 08:47 PM
1

You're breaking Rule 9. RPW is not the place to promote bluepill ideology. It doesn't matter how qualified a woman is, she may still not want to do a certain job because it doesn't suit her personality or because it interferes with her life goals, both of which could be described as feminine. Men on RPW need to either lurk or only contribute when they feel they have enough RP knowledge to pass on.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 08:41 PM
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Granted!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 10:48 AM
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r/theredpill has updated their rules to say that personal advice questions now have to go www.forums.red/i/asktrp . In line with that, our rules now say the same thing under Rule 9. As always, all male advice submissions on RPW will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/23 02:28 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here and rule 0: advice must benefit the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/23 08:49 PM
1

Removed - because "Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Here at RPW we explore other options before suggesting breaking up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/23 07:23 AM
1

Removed. Do not insult the community.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/23 07:20 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Also - we are not a zoo.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 02:44 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. This is your second violation of this rule. The first time, you were kind to my face, and passively aggressively argued with my decision in comments to others. This time, your advice is awful and contradicts one of the most important tenets of RPW: Vetting. It is clear that you are not qualified to give advice here, and I am issuing a permanent ban.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 12:11 AM
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This comment got picked up by the AutoMod and I've approved it. However, what made it really hard for me to decide was your tone. A reminder of the Standards of Conduct: participating on this forum with a sense of kindness, patience, and charitability is one of the best ways to foster community and encourage thoughtful discussions. and: Escalating to a firmer tone should only be done as a measured response to someone that has displayed a reluctance to listen. This is just a reminder to be patien…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 09:34 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 07:24 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 11:11 PM
1

Removed. Rule 10: no moralising. OP is bi herself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 08:44 PM
2

Be glad to!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 06:44 AM
1

Removed. Rule 2: You cannot ask questions on behalf of others. You can only change yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 04:01 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 03:34 AM
3

Rule zero; stay on topic. There is no reason to believe anything like that is happening.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 01:22 AM
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Removed, rule 0, this comment is not helpful. A lot of women start freaking out when their looks start fading but it doesn't mean they become invisible to men overnight. OP is 26, she still has time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 09:38 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Specifically: personal preferences are not advice. Age does matter for many practical reasons, and your comment does not capture the nuances or pitfalls of that decision.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 09:21 PM
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This comment was removed by AutoMod - I've approved it for the notes about the maturity of men in their early 20s, but you're skirting quite close to "personal preferences are not advice". Men's comments are held to a higher standard here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 09:15 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 10:17 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/23 09:55 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. I appreciate the effort to be helpful and the gentle language - but personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/23 09:53 PM
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Beautiful response. Have a star.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 11:30 PM
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Removed. LateralThinker13 is an RPW Endorsed Contributor because he consistently gives good advice. Blatant misandry will not be tolerated; it is not men's fault for pursuing good looking women, nor is it true that all men think plain women are subhuman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 07:27 AM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 04:06 AM
1

u/Wife_and_Mama OP has been permanently banned from RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 03:30 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 03:18 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 09:35 PM
1

Removed due to rule 10: no arguments that stem from morality.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 08:27 PM
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I was wondering if anyone would ask this. Here are mine, as relevant to RPW. - I believe RPW has something to help every woman who wants a healthy relationship with a man, even those who get icked out by submission (it's only a strategy!). There's plenty of tools in the toolbox. Women seem to continually live in 1984 because vulnerability is our strength and someone needs to guide us through these counter intuitive truths. - I believe in self improvement and personal accountability; and that peo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 02:16 AM
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Removed; you need to give OP actionable advice rather than just condemning her for her past actions.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 01:11 AM
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Categories of men and their risks
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 01:06 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Specifically, men's comments must contain actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 08:29 PM
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Whooohoo! Glad to be on the team. I'll be trying my best to keep the place neat and tidy, as well as you and Pearl did.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 02:06 AM
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You showed a lack of awareness of gender differences by not knowing that mature women have no romantic interest in 19 year old boys, and by assuming that we have a double standard in the first place and need to be corrected. RPW is not the place for men to whinge about having it hard. Focus your time on TRP until you are familiar with RP strategy as it applies to women, rather than to men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 01:26 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Specifically; - Posts must include actionable advice. - Check your anger at the door.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 12:57 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 09:17 PM
2

Jinx!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 03:10 AM
2

Removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 03:09 AM
1

Removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 03:05 AM
1

Removed due to Rule 7: Low effort posts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/23 11:40 AM
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Removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/23 08:22 AM
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Removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/23 08:21 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult the community or its members. Certainly do not insult OP's boyfriend: some wet wipe of a man questions you on everything Rule 4: Strategies must be from a Red Pill perspective. Leave him should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 07:25 AM
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Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 07:07 AM
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Strategies should be from a red pill perspective. You are merely validating OP and that's not helping her in the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 09:01 PM
1

Leave him is never the 1st option.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 08:54 PM
1

Leave him is never the 1st option.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 08:51 PM
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