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aretourner/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:20 AM
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Do you consciously set out to murder comment sections or is it an unintended consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:26 PM
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As someone who has always known that being a mother was the one thing I wanted from life above all other things, I think the point might be that people value... different things. The person with a fleet of supercars and 10 kids who will inherit them will, in 100 years, be just as dead as the childless person with a fleet of supercars who chooses to donate them to a museum or a charity or something. Presumably childless car guy will get just as much enjoyment out of his cars and his rich-guy life…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:41 PM
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I'd say given the popularity of online dating it draws a pretty diverse group and is probably decentely representative of a significant portion of the population. You'd "say" but we don't know. I'd actually say different, I think online dating platforms are generally not representative of the general population, and I'd also say it differs per age group (i.e. I think young people who use dating apps/online dating sites are a different crowd to older people who use dating apps/online dating sites…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:27 PM
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It wouldn't necessarily be invalid in all contexts, but it also doesn't necessarily = a truly general (or generally applicable) sampling. People who use online dating platforms are a specific group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:57 PM
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I'm going to assume we're talking about 'top 20%' specifically in the 'sexually attractive' sense, which I think is what you're talking about, OP. As of not so long ago, plastic surgery exists. Before plastic surgery existing/being widely available, I would say it would have been harder for a 2/10 woman to become Top 20%. In fact I would say it was almost literally impossible for her to do so. Now, I think it's probably about equal, leaning easier for women. Maybe some men here are going to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:55 PM
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The most heated I have ever seen many of the women here was during a discussion of engagement rings/diamonds in particular. "I expect an expensive engagement ring from a man" is one thing, but that quickly morphs, under questioning, into "because I would feel undervalued if I didn't get one" which then quickly leads to "WTF, R U SAYING MY FIANCE DOESN'T LOVE ME AS MUCH AS YOURS?!" Women (and men, but we're talking about women) feel personally attacked over this shit alllll the time. Including he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:54 PM
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100% agree. Which is weird, given our previous unsatisfactory interaction. 'Strong, meaningful relationships with other humans beings' (and I'm talking about family, friendship, romantic, parent-child, all of it) is as close to the meaning of life as mortals are ever going to be able to figure out. Literally nothing even comes close to this one thing in terms of meaning and happiness in an individual's life. Relationships matter more than anything else, by some distance. Anyone who says otherwis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:32 PM
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reads flair Off topic - did you guys ban Lewis or am I just not reading the posts he's commenting on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:18 PM
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Fucking LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO inhales OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:04 PM
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This glorification is hardly accurate. That really wasn't an attempt to 'glorify' the military - it was more me expressing my own enjoyment of an orderly hierarchy. I know irl the armed forces are not perfectly run and flawless examples of human competence (and I know this mostly due to stories from my sibling in the military).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:00 PM
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ITA with this post. I called him out on his obviousness a few weeks ago and, like he has done with you here, he doesn't even understand what he's being called out on. These guys with their earnest 'black knight triggerpocalypse' and 'school shooter but with nazi style SS additions tee-hee' flairs - it's so deeply and utterly cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:56 PM
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Literally the only truly accurate response to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:44 PM
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My point was more, all else equal, people will likely tend to defer to the taller, stronger looking, man who is competent - blame evo psych - he looks like he can physically protect them. They’re going to want to naturally want to protect the feminine framed competent woman, not necessarily follow her lead in battle. Because she’s tiny and soft or supple lol. It's not that I think this is untrue, but I think it's more true at the beginning of a relationship (and I use 'relationship' broadly here…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:39 PM
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True submission as I define it works in an hierarchical nature. For instance the Vice President aligns with the President regardless if his position on an issue differs from the President's. I understand what you mean. I always actually wondered if I should have joined the military, because there's something orderly and comforting about a clear, established hierarchy. It would make life easier (or so i think sometimes). But I wouldn't personally characterize that as 'natural' in that, well, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:17 PM
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Ok. Obviously, I don't know your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:11 PM
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Jesus H Christ. I really can't with you and people like you. You don't live in the same universe that I live in, is all I can assume. The universe I live in has mostly average people trying and very often failing to do their best and trying not to be selfish but very often failing etc. What it doesn't have is Group A on the one side, always morally unimpeachable, brave, kind, coolly logical without being robotic, never wrong, never cruel etc. and Group B on the other side, evil jerks who love be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:09 PM
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It clearly has a different meaning to you than me. Maybe it does. Maybe you're leading a life of action offline. I don't know. All I know is how you sound to me, and that's passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:03 PM
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A cold approach in a non-social setting has never worked on me and I don't think it ever could. I don't even look at the guy in those circumstances, it's an immediate 'get the fuck away' response in my brain. Not disgust or fear, it's probably closest to annoyance. Like wtf are you doing, stranger who I don't know, trying to awkwardly crack a joke with me like we're buds or something? I'm just trying to get my shit done. Leave me the fuck alone. Honestly I react the same way with women (cold app…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:00 PM
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But if they do that, laydees might be mean to them. And then they'll die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:52 PM
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I think a lot of them would agree you're in a really passive and self-destructive headspace. But yes, i admit the bottom of the barrel is being scraped. This is the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:50 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/rarepuppers/comments/anho4u/grizzlord_lookin_for_doggos_to_play_wif/ "Grizzlord." Omfg that's hilarious. OK, will stop derailing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:49 PM
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Np. If hyperrreal was still here he'd send you to the rarepuppers subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/rarepuppers/ but he's not so I guess you'll never know just how many heckin good boys and girls there really are out there. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:46 PM
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I don't think women are any more morally 'good' than men. I do not believe women never kill their children. Never claimed either of those things were true. And you know I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:44 PM
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It's that internet thing where people say 'heck.' Like 'hecking good boys' for dogs and stuff. Instead of 'hell' because that's a swear. So this person took the 'hel' out of helicopter and turned it into heck and I have a very childish sense of humour and it made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:42 PM
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Well then it looks like you and I have opposing definitions of submission. To me, it has to not be a choice. I have to feel compelled to submit. It can't be forced. If it is, it's not real. And don't come back at me with "well threatening to slay a woman's whole family if she doesn't submit will also leave her with no choice but to submit" - I'm not talking about the 0.01% of cases of female submission that involve actual criminal acts. I'm talking about real world people in non 24/7 BDSM relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:39 PM
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Over 30? I mean, are there any red pillers or MRAs who want to jump in here? Because I am not a good enough person to deal with this guy in a compassionate or kind manner. And he sounds like he needs help. How about some of you boastful fucks put your effort where your mouth is and have a chat with him? Not crackrock or the other crackrock, tho. Someone normal and patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:32 PM
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I mean, that's not really how it works, guy. I'm not just gonna believe your claims just because you say they're true. You're obviously not an unbiased party, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:29 PM
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Then it must be true. Also omg one of the mods there is 'heckicopter' - that's funny af.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:25 PM
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Someone needs to make this their flair. "'Like all the other girls' and therefore not like all the other girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:20 PM
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Natural submission is contingent upon feelings. Anything else is just forced/coerced and not genuine. But I think you might be joking in which case ignore my earnest response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:04 PM
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I mean, what don't you understand about "you're wrong?" I can see that you disagree with me, but you need to know that there is nothing I or any woman could say to you, in the mindset you're in right now, that could possibly harm you any more than you're harming yourself by living in this passive world of victimhood. How old are you? Over or under 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:01 PM
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That link doesn't say a single thing about "women" closing down that man's shelter. I actually mentioned this exact man and his shelter on PPD a couple of weeks ago, here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ahys9q/what_do_you_think_trp_gets_wrong_and_why_are_they/eek6yi3/ The article mentions that Earl Silverman was not able to secure enough government funding to keep his shelter open and that: After years of being unable to keep the shelter through his own funds and meagre priva…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:59 PM
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Heaven help you if you're a woman who looks like she makes money and is self sufficient. You like clothes and jewelry and makeup and can afford it, well. The jokes on you because you should be marketing yourself in a ponytail and yoga pants and not be so tryhard. <---Actual stuff I've read here. They have a hard enough day lamenting how women don't "need men" because they have an education and jobs just to read women have quality of life standards? But but...approaching is hardddddd don't you kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:37 PM
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mommywife bangmaid Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:36 PM
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To have a truly submissive woman, you must strip her down of all options to leave by denying her employment, setting boundaries as to who she can associate with to avoid negative influences This is pretty much the opposite of my opinion on this. Nothing would make me feel less willing to naturally submit than some ape disallowing me to work/hang out with other humans. That's some 'I Am A Terrified Man' shit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:35 PM
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What is your obsession with leadership? There's a fairly significant number of men on this subreddit who genuinely believe that "I haven't ever experienced or witnessed thing X" = "Thing X does not exist." They generally cannot be argued with, either. Your honest reporting on your own relationship is literally worthless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:30 PM
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You're wrong about where the unfairness is. And if you're over ~22 right now, as you make these posts on the internet, you probably need to have a good old think about everything before you get even more entrenched and just make yourself even unhappier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:29 PM
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No woman consciously wants a man to rule her. But every woman wants a man to rule over her. Oh dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:26 PM
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This place is a little snowflakey on the female side, at times. That said, I'm not like those other broads. I'm much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:25 PM
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You, like so many of the men posting here, sound angry, OP. And I think that, like them, your anger is misdirected at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:18 PM
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Women shut down male only homeless shelters in Toronto. Link pls. Actually asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:17 PM
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Crackrock has a purple butt and a high-pitched speaking voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:16 PM
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you're the one who claimed they didn't This kind of blatant bad faith is why I won't have this discussion with you. I said no such thing. What I said was that "studies alone are not enough." You are the textbook conclusion first, evidence-to-fit-the-conclusion-second person, Smoogs. And I can tell you don't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:43 PM
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The fourth article is just a link to an abstract, something you disparaged above Lol, so do they count or don't they? To you, I mean? Smoogs, no. I'm not doing this. Either studies matter or they don't. I'm not engaging in a "coincidentally, only the studies that support my beliefs count" interminable back and forth with you. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:34 PM
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Honestly I'm kinda thinking that this phenomenon might have an evo-psych-type explanation. Or, partial explanation. I think men are made that way. To maximize the potential of oat-sowing, basically. Assuming every woman hates you and vomits at the thought of your dick = probably not going to hit on any women. Assuming every woman who gives you a tight smile wants the D = probably gonna hit on way more women = higher possibilities of babies/biological win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:30 PM
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If If you believe that RP men are generally high value. If you don't believe they are, that's also fine. Either way. As stated, I was simply stating my beliefs re: red pill men and their general value on the romance market. if anyone feels shamed by my beliefs, that's not my intention but it doesn't change my beliefs. people like BiggerDthanYou He's literally the only real blue on the mod team and takes an inordinate amount of shit here, including from other mods, for things that almost everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:26 PM
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My point was less about the frequency (or possible existence) of unicorns and more about the near-certainty that laydee unicorns will almost certainly be getting with man-unicorns (and vice-versa) and not ugly, boring, stupid, premature-ejaculation-suffering/saggy-boob-having, penniless, syphilis-infected Reddit posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:19 PM
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Study 1 Study 2 Study 3 "In Western European cultures, men are more collective than women in society, but women are more collective than men in family. In East Asian cultures, men are more collective than women in family. " Study 4 Gender comparisons of scores on four constructs deemed to reflect psychological individualism...provide no basis for concluding gender differences exist. . Note - you said this: The research is pretty solid on this. I am linking studies only in order to counter your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:15 PM
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Your in-group bias shows how individualistic you are. The Wikipedia entry for In-Group Favourisitm/Bias - Gender Differences lists 3 examples (studies) on the topic, 2 of which show greater male in-group bias. Study 1 Study 2 So, are you going to concede that, based on your own claim that stronger in-group bias = less individualistic, men are less individualistic than women? Note that I don't agree with you that in-group bias levels are directly correlated with 'individualism' and am not giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:41 PM
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This pretty much ends the debate Lol, NO. First of all, no, links to 2 studies do not automatically invalidate the claim "men are not more individualist than women" - the best these studies could do (and I'm getting to them) is establish specific contexts and circumstances under which men are more individual than women. No decent scientist is going to be making broad, definitive statements like "men are more individualistic than women" based on a study or two. Second, what does "individualistic"…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:43 PM
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So here's the thing. Having just read through this whole exchange, I think I pretty much agree with u/Ladyofblades. Might my belief that TRP generally attracts low value men cause some of those men to feel shamed? It might. Nonetheless, it is actually what I believe. My intention isn't to shame them, but in honestly reporting my beliefs I cannot deny that some of them might feel shamed. Many times on PPD I've read characterizations of the women here as low-value/unattractive. It's fine. I can ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:08 PM
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Then they're not being good friends either. Depending on what is actually meant by "flirting."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:17 AM
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its funny how trash women are. Just make a post about that, rather than pussyfooting around it with proxy issues and links to shitty tabloids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:04 AM
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Most people don't do that level of thinking. Sure they do. What you're basically describing, with the additional of the kind of arrogance I have come to associate with the kind of young men who post about this sort of thing on the internet, is your basic 'immature person gets dumped' narrative. I.e. I've been dumped! I'm so hurt and angry! Women (or men, because women indulge themselves in this kind of thinking as well) are such shallow assholes! Maybe you're going to take this as an insult. it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 10:56 AM
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Then I'd take the harem, although to be clear it's not ideal or even close to it. Not sure if the other women answering were assuming they could still have sex/casual relationships, you may have gotten a few different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:59 PM
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Define 'alone,' OP. Are we talking 'alone' as in no getting married but can bone and have relationships with who I want? Or are we talking 'alone' as in celibate/no romantic relationships with a man ever again? If it's the former then obvs. I would be that kind of alone over part of a harem. If it's the latter I'll take being part of the harem. If you really want to get interesting (well, maybe) answers to this ask the women here if they'd choose never seeing their man again or being part of a 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:32 PM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:15 PM
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They explode on their 35th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:37 PM
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As someone else said, centrist (leaning left on social, center on economic + international issues) to non-Americans, wild-eyed commie loon to (many) Americans. Voted for Trudeau, would do so again (although he could fuck that up by allowing Huawei into Canada's communications infrastructure), now live in the UK and may have voted for Corbyn at one point but can't now (reasons: Brexit position, nuclear position). Would set self on fire before voting for current crop of Tories, but could see votin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:34 PM
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Sexy, no question. 'Cute' isn't even a compliment, really. Cute can go straight to hell. Suck it, cute. My celeb lookalike (are we doing this? some ppl are doing this) is Kim K but pre-surgery (ALL the surgery, including the fakebutt) and blonde/white af. JK my celeb lookalike is Joe Pesci.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:21 PM
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so the timing of most divorces might be something you want to look into I'd also want to see time-spent-with-kids comparisons between divorced and non-divorced couples (for the husbands and the wives).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:08 PM
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Just to be clear, OP, if men's bad behaviour is women's fault, women's bad behaviour is men's fault. Right? Like when a woman leaves her loving but slightly chubby husband for an ALPHA CHAD, it's men's fault for being so thirsty that women can just branch swing to another willing cock, because there will always be another willing cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:02 PM
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Crackrock, you really give yourself away with posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:01 PM
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You're not talking to me. You're talking to some barely sentient vagina you've created in your resentment-addled male brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:58 PM
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That i should be ashamed of myself for breaking up his marrage beacuse Im a misnadrist feminist who like all misandrist feminsits is anti-marriage With a large proportion of these guys, there really is no winning. You have a vagina, therefore you're evil. It isn't any more complicated than that. There are a few regular posters here who are just like this. They're just primally mad at women, for having something they covet, and nothing is gonna change it for them. I don't think you were here then…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:54 PM
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Thank you! We are super, super, super happy and excited. The only advice I can give sounds cliche but keep communicating. This is what I've learned from my friends, too. Even the ones who don't say it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Some men don't. Most of them, I think, do. And please don't go disparaging this high-minded discourse as a stupid slap fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:37 PM
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I guess I understood that in movies the pretty girls got with the cute boys, but as I just explained to another user, I still did the thing that a lot of young, stupid and inexperienced people of both sexes do - I assumed that boys were like me. I wanted a deeper emotional connection and genuine interest in each other as people, and that caused lust for me. So it was just assumed by me that that's how boys operated, too. It took a good few years of dating and sleeping with male humans for it to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:36 PM
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I honestly don't understand the world some of you guys say you were raised in. Like, were there cultural messages that I absorbed? Yes. Were they uniform? No. Did they contradict themselves a lot? Yes. What I was told growing up, and what I to this day think was pretty much backed up by the wider culture, the schooling system etc., was that you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover and it's what's inside that counts and if you work hard good things will happen for you etc. etc. I don't recall muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:33 PM
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humans are shallow as fuck. We are. I think we have the capacity, in certain situations, to not be so shallow. But yeah, we are shallow. And there's literally no point in getting mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:17 PM
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volunteer for organizations that help men, do advocacy on behalf of men's health. Really? Damn. I reserve a certain amount of genuine scorn for whining internet MRAs pissing and moaning about all the many reasons why they can't actually, you know, DO anything for the cause irl. And as you say below, I'm certain you're just a misandrist femcentric agent of the fempocalypse to these guys. And yet you probably do more than 99% of them for men's causes. In the real world. Where it actually counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:15 PM
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You attempt to gaslight and obfuscate. Disagreeing with someone is not gaslighting or obfuscating, guy. I'm not lying - I genuinely don't see what you're saying is some widespread thing happening. And you haven't been able to provide me with anything beyond your own belief that it's happening. So if we've got your belief (and no actual evidence beyond that belief) on one hand and if we've got my belief on the other, why should I change my mind? Why should I believe you? Western birthrates and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:26 PM
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less men are pursuing, and those who are pursuing are exercising more caution than ever You have no proof of this and literally nothing I have seen or heard about irl backs it up. Men can and have demonstrated the ability to reign in their sex drive or divert away from women Have they? Like, as a group? When/where? You can ignore the changing pattern of mens behavior if it's more comforting. I literally don't see a changing pattern so in this case there's nothing to ignore. Men wanting to bang i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:15 PM
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I have never seen approaching women and calling them ugly actually work. Delivered in the right way, this (and out of the blue told I was "fucking ugly") could very possibly have worked on me at 21. And by 'work' I mean made me take interest in whoever it was saying it. The delivery would have been key, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:10 PM
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If you just have self-worth Be confident no matter what. Girls are as dumb as men You get it, OP. 100% truth. That first point, though, while completely true, is also something that all of the red pill 'philosophy' still won't manage to achieve in 99% of the men going there. Achieving self-worth if you don't have any is extremely difficult. Not impossible, but difficult, and there are no shortcuts that involve reading and shitposting on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:09 PM
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why are they lumped in with...white nationalists? Now this one is a true fuckin' mystery, OP. Baffling indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:02 PM
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Are you talking about MGTOW-but-still-has-sex (i.e. no relationships, just banging) or are you talking about MGTOW-and-no-non-trivial-contact-with-women-ever? I assumed you were talking about the latter. I was talking about the latter. if you're talking about the former, and saying men are still gonna fuck but not get into relationships then yeah, that could happen. It probably already is, and not just with men. it's easier to be single these days, for both sexes. But if you're saying men are go…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:58 PM
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You know, a lot of my female friends are around your age (i.e. older than me but not much) and have kids and they often talk about this. In fact it's so consistent I'd say it's a pronounced norm - how they all thought their relationships were egalitarian, modern etc. until the first baby came along (not sure if you'd say the same). I've seen it in male friends, too, a kind of insta-traditionalism, to a greater or lesser extent, that seems to come at the moment of their baby's birth. Not that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:53 PM
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The sex drive is powerful but eventually the cost will stifle it Disagree. Unless men are literally starving, drowning, being burned alive etc., they're gonna be trying to fuck and nothing (except life-threatening situations) will stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:46 PM
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First of all, fucking LOL at all the dudes in here all "women can't have RP moments" and "if women knew what they were they'd all kill themselves out of shame." Ya bunch of big girls blouses. To answer your Q, OP, yeah. My first RP moments (and I don't like to call them that but I know what you mean so...) happened, as someone else said, around early puberty. The slow realization that the weird levels of friendliness from an adult male neighbour weren't 'friendly' at all. Getting obscene catcall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:33 PM
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If you tried dating or whatever as one day as a man you would flip this position immediately You can't know this. Not unless you've experienced both sides yourself. Which you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 10:28 AM
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This is fucking stupid. No u. So... What the hell are you talking about? Next time you ask someone to clarify, do it without the "fucking stupid" bit first. That's a free life tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 10:00 AM
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I don't act bad to get pussy, because I have certain standards of conduct for myself Good for you, that speaks well of you. women create the men they want by creating a demand for them. Unless patriarchy is the order of the day and mate selection is in the hands of men, it comes down to an economics equation of what the women demand from the men, they have to concede to her if they want access to reproduction, that is the bottom line. Yes everyone is responsible for themselves, but can you blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:58 AM
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You see, men are not supposed to have emotions. Women find men who have emotions wimpy. Women want men to do the things one would do if they had emotions, without actually demonstrating any emotions. In other words, women like men who fake emotions. I don't even know what to say to this or to your post in general. You're wrong. But you also sound like you're really far down the rabbit hole. Why do you believe these things about women? Specifically, what led to this place?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:48 AM
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Did you misread my post on purpose? On the off-chance you didn't and this is a good faith response: I in no way believe that having trouble with dating or romantic relationships = bad person. No do I read the TRP subreddit. It's possible the RP representatives here are not more generally representative. You understand that a woman with no ability to be faithful, an IQ of 85 and a vicious mean streak is going to have less luck at finding love than her equally attractive counterpart with a 105 IQ …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:47 AM
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I totally don't think we're the outliers on this at all. It's a fucking stereotype that women go gaga over a man with a puppy or a baby! I guess the difference is we say we're genuinely turned on by kind/good men and they'd just interpret it as "YOU HYPERGAMOUS WHORES ARE JUST GETTING WET OVER THE IDEA OF SPENDING THIS GENEROUS AND KIND MAN'S MONEY ON ALL YOUR CHAD BABIES! BURN THE WITCHES!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:41 AM
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OK, so, I kind of agree with the dude who says you don't know what empathy is (what is on display in that video is in no way empathy) but I also think there's no reason for us to get waylaid by semantics. I know what you're saying is unattractive to women - the behaviour on display in the video, even as we both recognize it's being exaggerated for effect. I agree - that dude would be generally extremely unattractive to women. Again, tho, Imma kind of have to take issue with your word usage here …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:33 AM
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Well I disagree re: good vs bad character. Unless you're talking solely about having ONS with bad-character women. That's a situation in which I could believe bad character>good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:34 PM
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Don't disagree with any of this, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:31 PM
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Oh, see, now I didn't catch that all. It's the retardation fucking with my mind. Sorry about that and may all the ducklings be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:21 PM
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You're not attracted to good men, you're attracted to strong men who happen to be useful(saving kittens). Just FYI, this is a really bad way to respond to someone if you want them to listen to anything you have to say. You don't know me. You certainly don't know me well enough to tell me who and what I'm attracted to. Utility and kindness are two different things. You understand, though, that the way you're arguing this means that literally everything all men and women are attracted to in others…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:10 PM
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That's why sociopaths have the best reproductive success, especially if they occasionally pretend to rescue ducklings from a sewer. LOOOOOOOOL. Some of you guys are just too much. Can you really, truly, genuinely, not conceive of a human being who would rescue ducklings from a sewer because s/he felt for said ducklings??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:56 PM
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She's made me regret it again, you guys! Goddaaaaaamnit!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:54 PM
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Ha ha, see this is a cute response. RPs who can mess around a bit are the best kind of RPs. That said, yes, my aim was to turn you gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:53 PM
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I don't really disagree with much of this. Can you be clearer on where you specifically disagree with what I said? Still to this day I have ex classmates who have had kids with “blue pill billy” and send either friends of mine or I explicit texts the boyfriend/husband would not like. Maybe we disagree here a little, in that I think it's a small and specific group of married women (i.e. pieces of shit with bad character) who are going to be sending explicit texts to men who aren't their husband. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:40 PM
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Yes and I said what I said in the context of what's being desired and speculated that maybe you see what women desire (men) as more noble than what men desire (women). I honestly wasn't trying to be sneaky and if you tell me I'm wrong then I'll accept it without argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:35 PM
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I have never, not once, not regretted talking to you in good faith, but OK, all joking aside, uh, really? I mean, you openly hold up violent, out of control men as paragons of masculinity. You think Dan Bilzerian is masculine! Which you're allowed to do, I just a)totally disagree and b)think that any men reading what you say should for their own good ignore 80% of it. I honestly don't even know how to react to you saying you don't hold up borderline feral men as alpha/masculine/attractive etc. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:33 PM
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Also different definitions of grace: is a bull graceful? As I said, I'm specifically not talking about physical grace. A woman with a galumphing walk and a masculine physical manner can still have the kind of grace I'm talking about. Men can be and are graceful. Yes, and women can be physically strong and courageous. Physical strength and courage, especially when they are not displayed in relation to offspring (because I think women might be the equal of men on that front), still read 'masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:52 PM
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Once more I will blaspheme in the church of purple/red and say that I believe many of the components of healthy femininity are the same (gasp) as those of healthy masculinity. Someone's going to ask me for an example so I'll say 'honesty.' Healthy character in both sexes involves this trait. There are traits and ways of being that are specific to my own conception of a healthy femininity, though. And there's one big one whcih I'll get into at the end of the post. Sexuality. I believe that health…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:26 PM
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Or the opposite? That you see male qualities as inherently more admirable than female? (don't anyone freak out, I'm asking not telling)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:13 PM
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Ah, the never-ending PPD topic. Do you know how many times (many times, my friend, many times) I've had this out with Lewis? So. Do you want me to acknowledge that The Rock is more attractive than Michael Cera? Yes. I acknowledge that. But. To be clear, I do not believe, not have I ever said, that being a good person/man will reliably cause a physically unattractive man to become attractive in the eyes of women. The Rock is hot and Michael Cera isn't entirely apart from both of their characters.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:04 PM
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Monetize that shit. You'd have Lubey's shirts beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:49 PM
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Which they’re not gonna do. Yep, because they have bad character. You could almost feel bad for them, esp. the ones who had a chance at some point but had the bad luck to be born to shitbag parents. “let me blame subpar women for being subpar rather than blame myself for not being willing to do work to attract anything better.” [insert 100% emoji] And before any Angry Bois come for me, I think women are just as able and willing to blame their own failings on others as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:47 PM
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This is a goddamned ARMY of strawmen, guy. Even for PPD. Women have boobs therefore its harder to lose weight is just magical thinking. At no point have I said it's harder for women to lose weight. I don't know if it is or not. I have specifically and only been talking about your (still wrong) claim that women do not have a hormone that leads to fat storage/hoarding/stockpiling/amassing (pick the words that least angers you) etc. At no point have I claimed that women somehow will magically not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:43 PM
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I don't like your posts, OP, and do not wish to subscribe to your newsletter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:59 PM
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Not only does TRP neglect character, it actively shits on the idea that it matters at all. Concern at being a good person, or god fucking forbid a good man is, to TRP, basically the same thing as a man ripping all his clothes off, running into the local gay bar, and shouting at full volume that he loves dick and wants it in all his holes immediately. It's a chicken and egg thing. Did RP cause their bad character, or did having bad character lead them to RP? I lean towards the latter, but do ackn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:55 PM
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But poppy, he's totally a real doctor with a multiple degrees! Someone's gonna report this for circlejerking so hi mods. Oh, and I saw him dogwhistling up there, too. This place, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:43 PM
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Retreat to semantics. That didn't take long. And because I think I know whose alt this is, and that you'll be angrily disputing my response, here is the definition of "hoard:" noun: hoard; plural noun: hoards a stock or store of money or valued objects synonyms: cache, stockpile, stock, store, collection, supply, reserve, reservoir, fund, accumulation, heap, pile, mass, aggregation, conglomeration, treasure house, treasure trove; More informal: stash; verb verb: hoard amass...hide or store away …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:37 PM
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OK, so, a few things. First thing, I think you're dead wrong in your interpretation of what ol' Billy Redface is doing here. Specifically: In fact sometimes it's a good thing and your feelings need to be hurt. It is men shaming men for behavior that is weak. Bill Burr is exaggerating this fact for comedic effect. Bill's target is not the guy getting called a fag for carrying an umbrella. He's picked a ridiculous example (if you think the guy carrying the umbrella is the ridiculous person in that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:19 PM
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Wow. You are really mad. Oh poor me I'm a woman, its hard for me to lose weight because I'm so female! Fuck that put down the cupcake. I remember the last time PPD had this conversation. And a number of the women were saying things along the lines of what u/poppy_blu is saying, above - that is, I didn't see a single one saying "I am hugely obese but it's not my fault, god made me this way and all men have to want to have sex with me and if they don't they're bad people." For real why are you eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:33 AM
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Lol, you've been downvoted so badly the comment is hidden. I don't know why pointing out this biological fact triggers so many here, but it really, REALLY does. In a previous thread a bunch of them seemed to be taking it as some kind of 'women are meant to weigh 300 lbs and it's awesome when they do' statement so maybe it's that? What do these guys (mostly straight) think boobs and hips and asses even are ffs? They're FAT, you dopes. For BABIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:20 AM
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cowards Yep. Just when I thought I couldn't possibly lose any more respect for the men who post here, this thread happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:54 AM
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Low cost Jfc, you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:41 AM
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Anyone who thinks pathological victimhood is a specifically female state of being is a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:38 AM
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Pathological victimhood is an unproductive state of being for any individual, I totally agree. But I think the manosphere/MRA/RP/MGTOW movement(s) are equally if not more infected with it than certain feminist groups. Look at the current highest response to this OP from Trash-Baguette. "Well we would be on board with Project Name and Shame Toxic Femininity but we can't because people would be mean to us!" It's utterly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:34 AM
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Disagree, I think the cultural peak years for the manosphere/alt-right thing will turn out to have been 2014-early 2017, with Trump's election as the high water mark. You can already feel the tide turning on it, and it was never, imo, more than niche internet-based resistance anyway. In 10 years, finding someone to admit to being part of the manosphere/alt-right is going to be as difficult as it currently is to find someone to admit they were fully on board for the post-9/11 neocon Iraq war proj…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:29 AM
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most of their FMCG product lines are bought in supermarkets and usually surrounded by their direct competitors. I'd also assume a healthy percentage of these razors/products are bought by women, too? Own goal? I don't think this was an own-goal. The usual suspects are mad but everyone is talking about this ad, everyone is watching it. Although there has been a negative reaction form some quarters (and I assume in 2019 Gillette must have anticipated this?) most of the reactions I've heard from pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:19 AM
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Male description is more accurate than the female description. Completely agree. Being one in a harem to a wealthy/attractive man is in no way ideal (or close to it) for the vast majority of straight women. And hypergamy as RP defines it doesn't exist so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:03 PM
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I hope OP responds to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:00 PM
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Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:53 PM
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I'll tell you what is definitely wasn't about: making sure men have quick and easy access to pussy. Y'alls can downvote as much as you like, but it doesn't change the fact that you're basically pissed off at your real estate agent for not baking you a cake. Real estate agents don't bakes cakes. It's not their purpose. Just like empowering men/making life easier for men/making sure all men have equal sexual access to women etc. etc. etc. was not the purpose of feminism. Feminism was/is concerned …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:32 PM
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Once again, and returning to what both I and the other poster said: SOME men. You are the one with the extreme view here, not me. I think there are smart men and dumb men. Men who would be good leaders and men who would be bad leaders. I also believe there are smart women and dumb women etc. etc. I just don't think it's a controversial belief to think that there have always been men who were natural leaders, and those who weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:25 PM
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Nothing to say about the rest of it because I unsurprisingly disagree with you on it. In order to have a more in-depth conversation regarding rights and responsibilities I would have to believe you have a real interest in exploring the topic with an eye to good faith and genuine discussion. But you don't. So what I'll say is: I do believe women take responsibility for their/our empowerment. You and I are in disagreement, L.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:19 PM
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IS THIS MR. ATLAS???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:14 PM
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We don't want you to get hurt, you testosterone-addled loons. jk. I would want my bf to force the other man onto his knees (in front of everyone), take out his dick, cockslap him to the point of extensive bruising, film it for the internet, and then slit the dude's throat and paint his face with the blood of his vanquished foe. Only then would I be able to respect him after having a stranger touch me on the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:13 PM
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I mean, I wouldn't say it's rare. I don't think I know a single human who wouldn't be able to tell me a story about the time Dumbass X had some form of power of them (often a boss or other authority figure). I mean, check out who the most powerful man in the world is, guy. I have known women who were smarter than their SOs. I have been with men who were dumber than me. If it was Ye Oldene Days of the Patriarchie those men would have been the boss of me/my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:06 PM
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But not the "worst thing ever" u. r. shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:04 PM
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Um. Do you think that humans acquire intelligence (or skills) solely via...power?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:59 PM
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So is this (having a man raise children that you know aren't his, but he doesn't know aren't his) a crime? Can she be sued for fraud or something? I'm surprised the kids seem to have taken the mom's side - it appears she lied to them for as long and as bald-facedly as she lied to her husband. For the record, you're a total piece of shit and failure of a human being if you do this to your spouse/children and I would support her having to pay an extremely hefty amount of $.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:00 PM
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This is why the 'financial abortion' argument is and will always be a total nonstarter (even if MRAs ever develop any skills re: leaving the house to actually protest things). The state will make you pay for SOMEONE ELSE'S kid! You think they're gonna let you off the hook for your own? lol And you're right, this isn't about women being favoured, it's about the state being pragmatic/not giving a fuck as long as they can minimize their own payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:55 PM
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From this very comment section: the ridiculous welfare government & warped society granting women the right to vote has given us. - Pragmaticgrizzly There ya go, Lewis. Someone who thinks female empowerment )in the form of voting rights) is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:35 PM
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Men have enforced their will for most of human history. Some men. You're basically telling me that humanity has been lead by incompetent men for 99,99% of its existence, while competent men only started existing half a century ago. I think what the poster is saying, and I happen to pretty much agree entirely, is that the 'natural' leaders would rise to the top in a patriarchy AND in a non-patriarchy. One of the problems with patriarchy is that it isn't merit/skill/intelligence based, as you ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:25 PM
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Too bad women don't respect guys like that. What are you saying in these posts? Because it sounds to me like you might saying that women only "respected" men like that when they didn't have a choice but to stay with them. Which doesn't sound like respect to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:12 PM
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the sexual liberation has not relieved men of the burden of approaching. It's benefited only a small percentage of elite men. The rest are still expected to approach, take the lead, earn more, be more responsible etc. I think you may have entirely misunderstood what the sexual revolution was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:08 PM
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I could answer this, but the last time I attempted to have a good faith conversation with you, you deleted your comments rather than being held to account for your incoherent views. So what's it gonna be this time? You gonna act right, Sado? Or you just gonna BS until you can't BS anymore and then delete your posts? Cuz I don't even want to get into this with you if it's just gonna be the usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:21 PM
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OP is kinda right, though. In fact I might even say OP is mostly, almost-entirely, right (oh I just saw him claiming to be libertarian so let me clarify - I believe OP is mostly right specifically and only about what he posted in his OP). Like, on this board I'm usually taken as a feminist/man-hater/left-wing communist socialist Marxist evil castrating freedom hating bitch from hell. In my real life I'm usually taken, with affection, as a slightly misguided (slightly misguided to the extent that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:09 PM
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And nuanced thinking? For what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:01 PM
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Oh my fucking god dude. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:00 PM
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What would you say if I told you that I was having a hard time dating and kept meeting bad men or getting pumped and dumped by men i wanted relationships with and also my life was just generally kind of shitty, and then i started hanging out with feminists and reading feminist books and implementing feminist dating advice and my relationships and life in general got noticeably better. What would you say to that? If I told you this meant that feminism was "observable reality" and "pragmatic, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:58 PM
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I just read through your whole terrible exchange with sublimemongrel, in which your entire argument hinges on: a)not acknowledging the actual things you have said and, b)putting words into her mouth. You'll note that I didn't say (nor do I believe) that the following is true: "talking about being scared for a sick person has the same value as trying to save their life" (presumably with actions that involve more than talking). As for 'acting' - once again and yes, talking is an act. Talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:49 PM
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This OP is honestly starting to smell like a bloop troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:40 PM
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it's not cool to get into fistfights and start riots cuz your team lost lmao. Unless it's hockey. Then it's the rational course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:28 PM
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I've noticed this myself. Lol. The linked study says something entirely different. it's like a lot of women don't even operate on that kind of level and can't think about things in an abstract, detached manner. Dudes like you (i.e. dudes making the unthinking assumption that your strong feelings about something being true = the thing being true) coming here to talk about women's lower capacity to discuss intelleksheral matters will never not be fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:27 PM
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Bitching isn’t acting. Yes it is. I understand that to a lot of the people posting here (including you) "bitching" is just the word you use when the person talking about their problems is a woman. But whatever gender the person is, talking about your emotions around a given problem IS acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:38 PM
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Was the whole point of this thread so you can rail on about women not taking responsibility? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:22 PM
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Ok, tell me why RP is incorrect/wrong/misguided/sometimes legit harmful, because that wouldn't even be near describing RP in action. Tip #1 when 'debating' - don't admit right off the bat to the person you're debating that nothing they can say would work to change your mind. It's not that I haven't already gathered this about you, but good faith is a thing and if you're genuinely interested in the truth, you should look into it. As for RP being incorrect, I mean, I could give you examples of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:38 PM
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Tell me what's so negative about it. I said I think your argument (you disagree with me and so you're unfuckable) is shit. It's still shit. If the person arguing against me denies RP philosophies claiming they don't work based upon feelings his/her feelings, then I assume that it has affected them negatively in any way. What does this even mean? What if she just literally thinks RP is incorrect/wrong/misguided etc.? I think it's mostly incorrect/wrong/misguided/sometimes legit harmful etc. and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:53 PM
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I'm convinced pity gets incel dicks harder than any pussy ever could. If they could choose between society standing up as one and agreeing that no one, literally no one, has ever suffered as they have suffered, and that their suffering is unjust and wrong and worse than the holocaust and suddenly getting sexual access to a pack of swimsuit models, you know they'd go for the former. Also, mods, this is an incel post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:35 PM
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How will I live with the shame?? Also, this: Red Pill is bullshit. Anyone who thinks otherwise is an incel living in their mom's basement. Was making a point. That's literally what you're doing to that other poster. "You disagree with me so you must be unattractive and sexually unsuccessful." It's a shit argument, whatever the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:22 PM
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Well OP, I see from the insane downvotes that you've successfully struck a nerve. FWIW I pretty much totally agree with your position. And before anyone comes at me with "omg you think getting in shape and developing your interests and social skills IZ BAD?!" - no, no I don't. I do think the general advice and tone on the RP subreddit and often here at PPD is actively harmful in many cases. jading someone who is young and inexperienced is morally wrong, in my opinion. I completely agree (and tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:16 PM
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Lol, holy fuck dude. Is this really who you wanna be? That guy on the internet telling the stranger who doesn't agree with him that they must be unfuckable? Red Pill is bullshit. Anyone who thinks otherwise is an incel living in their mom's basement. Edit (because it looks like I have to edit): You guys, the above sentence is MAKING A POINT. Calm your tits, RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:09 PM
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I think one reason it's so difficult to discuss these things here is because people refuse to acknowledge (or simply don't believe_ that humans are complex. More complex than lobster or voles or chimps or whatever we're being compared to today. In certain circumstances and contexts human beings are incredibly egalitarian. In others we're not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:49 AM
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Are the mods comatose? Wtf is this? And wtf is with allowing all the incel rhetoric to shit this place up again so long as the dreaded buzzwords are not mentioned (referring to another thread from yesterday or the day before that was incel-tastic).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:40 AM
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OP is being shitty all over these comments. I was actually going to give an honest answer until I saw his BS. "Women so dumb and solippy always talking about their feeeeelings also women pls talk about your feeeeeelings."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:38 AM
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You need to stop projecting your ex-wife's personality onto all women. You also might do well to ask yourself what attracted you to her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:35 AM
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it's just women yammering about whatever they feel. Don't do that, OP. It's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:29 AM
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Wasn't the point of the term "nice guy" originally that guys who liked girls and were nice to them just because they were nice were often less successful than attractive guys who were less nice? No, dude. The term has always been sarcastic. It's easier to use in actual conversation, where you can hear the sarcasm in someone's tone. Online you will sometimes (but not always) see people putting single quotes around it etc. to make it clear they mean it in the widely-used sarcastic way. This term h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:10 PM
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Without reading any other comments: Dracula, by far. Rambo isn't even sexy at all, but Dracula is very, very sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:02 PM
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There's not a whole lot to expand on here except to say that I find the emotionally and sexually incontinent/out of control male, often held up here by RP people as the embodiment of 'alpha' the opposite of attractive. And I find men who are in control of themselves (emotionally etc.) viscerally sexually attractive. In my mind when answering this question I picture some horndog at a bar, it's getting closer to closing time, he's horny and sloppy and randomly hitting on drunk, sloppy women. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:12 PM
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You're right, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:54 PM
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patronizing Hmmmm. This sounds like something you've just assumed - that holding the door for a woman (male version of benevolent sexism) is somehow patronizing - i.e. that it's an implied commentary. "You're such a weak and frail little lady I guess I should help you with this big heavy door here!" You're not the only one who makes that assumption. But, actually, I don't think it's entirely the annoying feminist faction who does it, either (to be clear I am acknowledging that there IS a faction…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:52 PM
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Not wanting to interact with a male for being not top 5% attractive is extremely detrimental to their ability to participate in society. The OP in the linked thread said absolutely nothing like this and you're 100% projecting. Once again, not wanting to be creeped on by cashiers does not = not wanting to ever be within the vicinity of non Top 5% males. Edit: I won't be going further into this with you. I've made my point and don't want to get sucked into an incelly rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:31 PM
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I mean, it looks like here ppl are basically saying it's because work = cheating but AFAIK it's simply a traditionalist view. It's what people with rigid and old-fashioned views of gender roles believe. They believe a woman's 'place' is in the home caring for children and the home. They believe this is what fulfills all vagina-having humans. At the same time, a man's place will be 'outside the home, at work' bringing home the bacon to provide his wife and children with food, material goods, vaca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:26 PM
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How to not get fired from your job for creeping on customers: Don't creep on customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:20 PM
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Waiting for OP's response to this. OP?? (because it seems more than clear to me that, yes, complaining about a customer service worker creeping on her as a customer is not the same thing as 'hating and wanting all non-Liam Hemsworth men to die.'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:19 PM
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You sound like a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:22 AM
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RP isn't really about 'teaching' anyone at all. It's about helping men who were failed by their parents to continue to avoid taking responsibility for who they are. RP is utterly misguided. I mean, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:19 AM
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The 'not intended to be funny but funny anyway' kind of funny is the best kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:17 AM
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So it may seem like these are morally incoherent It doesn't seem morally incoherent, my man. It is morally incoherent. Small children know that "because I was mad" (i.e. "because she made me!") or "because she did it to me first" isn't any kind of justification or excuse for bad/wrong behaviour. You (general you) don't act right for rewards. You act right because you respect yourself and others, you care about your community, and you weren't raised by fucking wolves. Have a go a defending your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:14 AM
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because they were born that way I don't believe this about incels. Nor do I believe that there is a way to institute 'sex welfare' that doesn't grossly violate the rights of other humans (even if I thought sex welfare should be a thing, which I generally don't).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:11 AM
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Sure, yep. Men who are unhappy with their treatment in the romantic arena have every right to opt out of it. As I just said to someone else, though, if you consciously choose not to engage with women/romance/dating, you probably shouldn't be complaining about other people's sexual strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:05 AM
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These 'rewards' (i.e. women, i.e. pussy and the getting of it) is literally the entire reason RP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:04 AM
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Your tone. Lol. I'm on the record numerous times straight up saying men have every right to pursue their sexual strategy as freely as women do, and that men have no obligation to play games if they don't wish to. It does behoove the people who don't want to dance not to bitch about the fact that they miss out on the benefits of dancing, though. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:03 AM
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Manipulation You used this word, not me. I do not believe that flirting or traditional 'hard to get' stuff is manipulation. No one is being forced to put up with behaviour they don't like. Don't like someone playing hard to get? Don't pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:50 AM
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because they cant get sex otherwise. You didn't specify this in the OP. There are reasons other than 'because he's too gross to get free sex' to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:39 AM
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Sleeping with a woman that doesn't want it is the least attractive thing a man could do. Oooh, not only do I not personally agree with this (as a laydee), I actually find being able to bang people who aren't super into (to be clear, I'm not talking about rape) kind of male. And therefore attractive. I just like dudes with high sex drives. And I do find that there are real differences between 'male high sex drive' and 'female high sex drive' in terms of expression etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:38 AM
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If I'm into a guy enough to want to date/be with him, I honestly don't care if he's paid for sex or had ONS. In fact in some scenarios I'd prefer paid sex, tbh. I've said this before on this sub but there's actually something that could be attractive about a man paying for sex. It's such a male thing to do. Men - some men - can get into this cold, shark mode where they need to get off and that's it. I perceive that as masculine. I perceive that practicality about getting off, and the anonymity o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:30 AM
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Actual answer, OP: For the vast majority of human beings: No. No it won't. Only sociopaths and psychopaths might (to be clear: might) benefit from abandoning their moral compass that they don't even have in the first place. For everyone else the overwhelming odds are that this will lead to an emotionally and spiritually empty life and an old age filled with regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:16 AM
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Aretourner seems to oversimplify this. This is a legitimate point - I considered putting something in my post about the definition of 'hard to get' (which can range from dating someone for 8 years before allowing him to touch your ankle to simply failing to remove your panties, lie down on your back and spread your legs for the first man who smiles at you in the bar) but my posts are already too long so I didn't. She also seems to hate men who just don't want to play her version of a game. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:13 AM
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Not sarcasm, actual question. Which you're not going to answer because on some level you sense the inherent ridiculousness of the implied level of cynicism in comments like your own being posted by a person who is not a 1-legged war veteran without a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:08 AM
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How is this a problem? Ask the men posting in regards to their problems with women (in this case, his problems with women 'playing hard to get'). Is this what you tell poor people, racial minorities, and union workers on strike? No, it isn't, because I don't see poor people, minorities or striking union workers as equal to sexually frustrated, badly brought up young men. Perhaps you want me to, but I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:05 AM
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They're terrible? That's an emotive word for what is basically a person with a differing flirting technique to your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:02 AM
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Wouldn’t the debate be better served by not doing personal attacks? I mean, undoubtedly yes but you do realize that you've just walked into a conference of Intellectually Disabled ADHD Toddlers, handed out bowls of pure sugar, and then asked them why they're not quietly reading their copies of War and Peace, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:57 AM
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I just want to get you on record on this point - you are claiming a genuine concern for "the foundation of our society" and "the fabric of society" and "our towns," - right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:55 AM
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"Outside" and "not Reddit" sound like the places for you, my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:25 AM
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whispers pls stahp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:24 AM
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Are you a one-legged, one-eyed veteran of a brutal 25 year long war whose wife and children left him for the victorious enemy warlord before you even conceded defeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:05 AM
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Hence my flair, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:00 AM
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I think what we've got here is a 'disagreement.' Although I will now have a cursory look at your recent post history to make sure I am not confusing you with someone else. Edit: You've deleted all but a single page of your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:53 PM
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ATLAS I KNOW U KNOW HOW TO WORK THE GOOGLE. OK FINE. He is a phenomenon most of us have met in life: a hybrid who combines the delicate frailness of the Mimosa, crumbling at a touch when his own feelings are hurt, with the thick-skinned robustness of the elephant trampling over the feelings of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:52 PM
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The things you say and believe and how you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:39 PM
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tears up I've missed this spiritual hellscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:38 PM
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Question mark? Really? You shouldn't be giving advice to rocks, let alone sentient beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:35 PM
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Oh OK well in that case we agree but the 'men with very low or no self control are sexy' is legit not a sarcastic thing with a decent proportion of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:32 PM
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Cuz girl's gonna find out you aren't dangerous at all and run into the arms of the first tattooed accountant she sees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:29 PM
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DO NOT TAKE THIS PERSON'S ADVICE FOR FLYING FUCK'S SAKE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:28 PM
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Is that a red flag? Oh clearly yes. If you don't dump her literally tonight you deserve to raise the bastard children of all your best friends after she fucks every single one of them behind your back and puts your name on the birth certificates. we usually talk and I say how I like my partners in general (standards, she then tries to qualify) This relationship sounds excellent. But this worried me a big to be honest. OK, unsarcastically now - please dump this poor girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:27 PM
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It was sup dude. are you doing this on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:22 PM
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You want the mean and therefore only partially true answer? To weed out men who say things like this: It's female nature because women are terrible. You gonna get buttmad because I'm playing the game with you? The fun game that humans have played for all of history and will continue to play until the asteroid roasts us all? Cool, now I instantly know you're not fuckable. Less mean answer: The above is true. It's also true that almost 100% of humans respond to having something withheld by wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:21 PM
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Cool. What you said is still not true and you would still do well to stop trying to convince yourself it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:14 PM
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None of it was my choice. The way you act, the things you say, the things you do etc. etc. is always entirely your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:13 PM
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OK. So I think both sexes are capable of losing attraction to a shitty person, even if that shitty person is good-looking. I think more women than men are prone to this. But I also think it's a little more nuanced, perhaps. For example, I've definitely experienced losing attraction to someone I either initially felt attraction to or felt the potential for attraction to based on their looks. I don't come to see them, physically, as ugly. That is I can still see with my eyeballs that they are attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:58 PM
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Literally can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, and your point actually touches on one of the clearly delineated lines in this sub (i.e. the line between women who fancy men who lack self control and those who don't).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:40 PM
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Your posts are sad. Not in a piss-takey way, either. Genuinely sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:38 PM
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all the sexually successful men cross culturally known as players are considered to be bad people Not only is this not even close to true, you (and RP in general) would do well to stop trying to convince yourselves it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:32 PM
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PPD: Where whiny little bitches come to whine about different whiny little bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:47 PM
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I mean, no, but neither did Rollo or Roosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:23 PM
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Lol I can't believe no one has responded to this yet. So, to get this straight, you're saying that because egg freezing (a fertility preservation technique the OP did not bring up, or even hint at, in her discussion of her education that also did not include her feelings on children and whether or not she wants any) didn't work out for the 40-soemthing women you've linked, Civilseaworthiness should immediately ditch her education and marry a wealthy older man? Is that it? Because it seems to nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:10 PM
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He can't even spell the words he's using to oh-so-subtly (note: sarcasm) imply that other races are dumber than the one he belongs to. Is that irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:06 PM
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Do you even believe anything you're saying? Non-internet-trollishly? Non-'ironically?' Do you really believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:48 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rut_(mammalian_reproduction) Male animals have been known to literally fuck themselves to death via exhaustion. Male deer will also often kill or be killed in fights with other males over sexual access to females. What I'm saying is you're wrong and it's clear you haven't even given cursory thought to your flimsy worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:41 PM
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Why do you think non-humans want to bang so much? Is red deer society making all the male red deer want to have sex with the female red deer? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:31 PM
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If you think I would rather have this stressful broke life instead of the one I am leading you are crazy... If you think I... I... Girl, you need to recognize that what's heaven to you might be hell to another. Young people aren't working hard to get qualifications, at great financial (and other) costs because they're masochists. Your life choices come with risks, too, and it's entirely possible that a person who is not you will have come to different conclusions with regard to what risks are an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:26 PM
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I think the difference is if the author were to write a sequel, during which we get a look at the main couple's married life, it would definitely not include the wife browbeating Christian for putting the darks in with the whites. He would still be who he was (big manly alpha billionaire) but... married and monogamous and a dad. You either believe it's possible to be alpha and married/monogamous/a dad or you don't. I'm also probably not a great one to answer this because I don't find the charact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:09 PM
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Why is taming such a ladyboner fantasy? Because it plays into female narcissism (note: I do not use this term in a clinical sense). My magical vagina will capture this man amongst men in a way that none of those other whores non-magical vaginas could. It's about being The One to him. The Only one. The only one who was worth him making an effort for. There's a whole nother PPD post out there about this 'taming' narrative between men and women because honestly, while I definitely know people of bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:07 PM
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I was sort of wondering if you were doing a bit of laydee-dread with your husband - the pointing it out etc. I used to do that with my ex (the one who used to work with hotties all day) - 'oh, so and so called about [X work thing] - she definitely wants the D' etc. It was super mild dread of the "I'm actually not bothered by this" variety but it was also true. After I got over my legitimately crazy level of insecurity with him, I actually became super secure. I knew he wanted me and not Hot Girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:10 AM
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Wew, PPD. I just read through this whole thread and it's PPD doing its usual thing of getting super bogged down in semantics. Stupidly, in this case, because we're using a pretty loose term in "mate guarding" and it would be nice if we could all just say "OK, I had something slightly different in mind but I see what OP is asking for." I mean, another poster (Philomexa, I think) mentioned shit-talking a flirtatious other woman to her husband as her mate-guarding strategy (tactic?), too. I don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 11:58 PM
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Hmmm. So at the risk of being accused of virtue-signaling, I don't mate-guard anymore. This is due not to virtue but to a relationship I had in my mid 20s with an older man, the first relationship in my life where I felt that a)I was with someone who wasn't just going to do whatever I wanted because he wanted to keep having sex with me and b)that he had frequent access to women who were of an equal or higher quality than I was (to be blunt: he had access to model-looking women and spent much of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:38 PM
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failure to recognize our affinity for women as a manifestation of our lower selves Hooooo boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:56 PM
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No. They. Do. Not. This is complete and utter bullshit. Priorities don't change. What you can get changes. While I don't disagree that what you can get at one stage of life won't necessarily match what you can get at another, I strongly disagree that the idea of priorities changing as people get older is "utter bullshit." In fact I'm willing to bet that anyone expressing such a belief is either a)under ~24 or b)is one of the (imo) small minority of people who genuinely don't change their priorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 05:36 AM
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Bc they'd like that level of attention from women No. They say they would like that level of attention from women. But since women generally don't pay that kind of attention to men (OP describes it well - that touchy, intimate, too-close attention that men, often total strangers, pay to women - and it can be almost constant for young, attractive women), we can't really know if men would like that kind of attention from women. Unless we're talking about women those men are attracted to, which mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 12:33 PM
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NPC Yyyyyyyy do you guys do this? Y do you all just start hive-minding the same insult? Like at what meeting did you all decide cuck was over and soyboy was in and then that soyboy was over and NPC was in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:17 PM
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Also, I take the kids there to shop for birthday and Christmas presents for their mom. The kids have great fun picking out four or five presents each. This is fine. Kids are idiots and can't tell the difference between good stuff and crappy stuff, nor do they care so yeah this is fine. But I commented on the shopping thread (disappointingly short) during the purge that i specifically hate dollarama because yes, everything is cheaper, but it's cheaper because it fucking sucks! Your dollar store c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:12 PM
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I think Wayne Rooney is hot Just quoting this for the next time someone says I like ugly dudes. Oh yeah, mean ppl? Well Grid thinks he's hot too so suck it. Actually that 2nd guy’s face is beautiful and is weirdly my ideal, but in a black man Yeah trumpet guy is hot. I don't care what colour dudes are, really, I just have a specific weakness for UK/Irish taters and they tend to be white. The chavs esp. tend to be white. So to increase my odds of finding more men attractive, I’ve found that most …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:07 PM
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whatever the dollar store is selling So here's the deal you never needed red pill and the women you were with were never bitches everything is on this one sentence. The fuckin dollar store, guy???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:43 PM
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Ha ha, yep, I know about you and your beard-enthusiasm. And yeah, New Steve is slightly overstyled in those shots. Are they from a magazine? If they are then I guess that's why. As for my taste in men, Grid, I likes 'em beefy and tater-y. Fresh off the boat from Newcastle or Swansea or Galway. Broadly muscular in the shoulders, face, chest, neck and thighs with some fluff on top not just acceptable but even desirable. If they've got a touch of the chav about them then all the fuckin' better. Exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:37 PM
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Lewis what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:38 PM
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I think he's had fillers for sure. He's got that man-fatface that Brad Pitt was rockin for awhile there before the horrible succubus dumped him. Whoever he's got doing his face these days is doing a more subtle job for sure. But back to Carell, you have a very particular 'look' you like in men. I've noticed it before. You always fancy dudes who I picture being fancied by 28 yr old gay dudes. You like 'em styled is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:33 PM
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Yep. Goldblum is, like, omnisexy. I saw the other comments here from women (like you) who I know have very different taste to my own. I like beefy, blunt-jawed 'taters. We have very, very different taste in male humans. And yet we both see the objective Truth that Jeff Goldblum is pure sex in human form. I mean, goddamn. I would fist fight all of you just to be able to sit across from him at a table sighing and laughing at everything he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:26 PM
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Omg. That exchange was good. Mods = fun destroyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:00 PM
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Um... Jeff Goldblum... hot?? Oh Lewis. Oh Lewis, Lewis, Lewis... Jeff Goldblum is powerfully fuckable. This transcends tribe, too. Grid and I, for example, have quite different taste in men and I had exactly the same experience as her (must have seen Goldblum in movies as a kid, never noticed him except maybe noting he was tall and seemed goofy, grew up and had the sudden 'omfuckingGOD' moment when watching him in something or seeing him interviewed. And this isn't a niche thing, either. He's fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:55 PM
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You kind of contradict yourself here do you not? No, but I didn't explain it fully/well. I'm just not talking about someone like GLO who goes on the internet to talk about how dum laydees are and construct this whole badass persona. The kind of person I'm talking about is doing everything he can to hide his dark triad-ness, not everything he can to make everyone think he is one. I'm not saying there will be no exceptions (this is humans we're talking about, after all), but Lubey was all smiley a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:33 PM
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L A Z Y
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:29 PM
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Whoa OP. You've totally touched on something I've been thinking about in relation to this subreddit for a long time. There's the person who watch Tai Lopez videos and reads dating/finance/social skills/confidence self help books; you know the type that "knows it all". Yet they don't seem to improve their lives do they? Yes, exactly. It's the person whose bookshelves are groaning with self-help tomes and the difference between this ever-vanishing 'future' when everything will be perfect and the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:25 PM
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Who is gonna answer yes to this? Of course no one, of either gender, is gonna be happy to find out their partner never really fancied them and only got with them because they didn't think they could do any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:14 PM
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It may be perpetuated by some of the women here, I wouldn't be surprised. I mean, the red/blue divide isn't really gendered here. But post the links if you get around to it, Smoogler.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:10 PM
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Narcissists do this because they do know the difference between right and wrong. They know that if anyone knew how they planned on treating them they'd have nothing to do with them. That's where the need for a false persona is necessary at first. TRP's teachings prescribe this strategy as the key to ensuring women won't leave them. Further, they frame women as sub-human, the same justification narcissists use to assauge themselves of accountability. Lol at RP denying this. I've seen people on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:08 PM
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You come from the assumption that any man who treats his sex partner as not "one of the bros" is a male supremacist. Out of curiosity, who, according to you, is a woman who doesn't treat her sex partner as "one of us girls"? - My response would be that this woman is a normal human being. Christ is this disingenuous. I mean, come on. Have the courage of your convictions. RP doesn't say "women aren't one of the bros! don't treat them like they are!" They say "women are incapable of intellectualism…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:58 AM
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Hegalian Fucksake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:52 AM
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As I said, they are taking notes from feminists. But those laydees made me do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:51 AM
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Is it manipulation to purposefully mold yourself into what woman are attracted to? I mean I've seen RPs saying make-up is horrible female manipulation so I guess if that's how you think, losing weight and fixing your teeth could be seen as manipulative, in some lights, from certain angles. I don't really think it is and I think those who do are being a bit disingenuous. I'm thinking that women are somehow offended if they fall for a guy who isn't a natural. This meme needs to die, though. It's o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:47 AM
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I love watching your craven little attempts to get back in Atlas' good books. Probably best if you just stick to flattering internet alphas and talking about your latest trip to Pottery Barn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:30 AM
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Greasypole is the definition of the term pub bore. He probably inflicts himself on us because his local finally barred him after one too many cheeky-chappie rants. PPD protip: block him and experience pseud-level reductions of up to 75% within the first week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:22 AM
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I mean, this is a Sublime alt, isn't it? Of all the people to start an attack account over, you pick the one who goes out of her way not to offend anyone, ever, ever, ever? The one who could find common ground with Pol Pot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 12:00 AM
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Just another iteration of the 'not like other girls' school of girl-ing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:57 PM
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so yh, i might be a hateful wank stain for a year or two But y tho? Why give someone that power over who you are? You, like apparently many of the men here, ran into a awful cunt of a girl. There are all sorts of awful cunts walking this earth, many of them male. As far as I'm concerned the best way to deal with awful cunts is to disallow their attempts to turn us into awful cunts like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:55 PM
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Oh I thought this was a real question and I was gonna say the best way is to liquefy it and flush it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:47 PM
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You know, on the one hand I'm like omg, these fucking parents and their obsessing, it's so embarrassing and symbolic of their pathetically willing subversion of their entire beings into the role of PARENT!!1 But on the other hand I'm like omg, there better not ever be one single molecule of non-organic food near MY CHILD EVARRRRR!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:44 PM
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I'd estimate more than 95% of women would be more than happy to do this for a man they loved and appreciated. So, like, be a man who is lovable and appreciateable. Not a hateful internet wankstain (apologies if you are not a hateful internet wankstain).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:42 PM
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Why is this post downvoted? I'd love to know where PPDers shop. I also think we should have a fridge thread where we post candids of our fridges. You can tell a lot about someone from their fridge/fridge contents. So, Skratt, Sephora is better because you can get MAC there now, apparently, as well as loads of other brands. Best stores (actually just some random stores with very wonderful and gorgeous goods for sale) for painfully middle class dickheads trying to fill their howling inner voids wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:35 PM
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I feel personally attacked. Also I'm not sleazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:03 PM
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Oh Sublime...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:02 PM
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Omg. Why do certain people develop a mania for Dollarama? I have a friend who used to constantly bug me to accompany her to Dollarama to buy [insert literally any product in existence] because it was "so much cheaper!" there. Finally gave in on some shipping envelopes and they were shit. The sticky strip thing was bullshit, didn't even stick the first time. Corners ripping. Chocolate for sale at the till inedible (and it takes a lot for me to declare chocolate inedible). Fuck Dollarama and their…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:01 PM
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150?? LOL. You guys are seriously your own worst enemy. I was gonna say 10, as an average,. A surprising number of women bang like 1, 2, 3 guys, total. They bring the average way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:54 AM
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Our resident Cool Girl is on the record as loving anal (of course of course) so I think you'll be disappointed if it's crying you seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:48 AM
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I have an answer for this but it's too mean even for the purge. The three are sublimemongrel, smurfsmurferson and texastentialism but I can't say whyyyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:46 AM
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What if the cook is a laydee?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:41 AM
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Oooooh I fuckin love those head massages. I also like the boobs-in-the-face massage from the dental hygienist and I'm a straight lady. I feel terrible too btw. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:40 AM
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I legit don't find Indians to be any uglier than any other race. I don't think I've ever met one that smelled of curry. And even if they did, curry is fucking delicious and I don't know if I would think it was bad if someone smelled of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:36 AM
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Ugh I hate it when people want everyone else to follow their own asshole/nicey nice schedule. I've seen you acting like a shithead on PPD this week OP, and I decline to be nice just cuz you're feeling it. Screw you and your mom and pets too. Alright not your pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:32 AM
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Oh hi Frenchie. What's crackezvous-ing? So my recipe is sort of like carbonara but without some parts that make it carbonara and with lemon. pasta (bucatini or linguine) 1 or 2 lemons depending on your love of lemoniness 2 egg yolks 1/2 cup grated parmesan (the real shit, u savage) 1/2 cup cream (35% or higher) 1.5 tbsp butter Italian parsley, choppy choppy In a bowl mix the yolks, zest and juice of the lemon(s), parm and cream. Cook the pasta, reserve some of the cooking liquid, drain it when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:27 AM
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$200 - $400 = kick in the nards $400 - $500 = kiss on the cheek, wherein I won't even try to hide how grossed out I am $500 - $1000 = kiss on the cheek, neutral expression $1000 - $1500 = kiss with tongues $1500 - $5000 = lacklustre handjob $5000+ = fine. sex. whatever. j/k we don't really keep track of who pays for what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:14 AM
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Reddit is the mainstream platform for intellectuals Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:30 PM
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Omg there was a minor but awesome one on here the other day from Walkingmenu's latest incarnation - in response to a red piller posting a pic with his gf. Should I find it? OK I'll try to find it. Hold on. Edit: Here ya go: Aww she’s lovely. Lucky you! White strips and a new hair makeup routine and she’s super lovely. That is uncut bitchery/low-level 'toxic femininity,' I actually loled when I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:13 PM
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The same things I learned from our first purge: This really isn't a quality group of people, by any measure. Comparisons to high school are incorrect. PPD is Grade 7, not HS. We always let ourselves down during the purges. It's less a breaking down of the usual order than a reinforcing of it. It's why I think the people who post here were unpopular in highschool. You can sort of feel the clinging to any small measure of status (even anonymous internet status) and it makes me just feel like eeeee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:08 PM
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The great lie of modern dating is that in order to sleep with a woman, a man must pretend initially as if he doesn’t want to. I don't think this is true. Not beyond the teens (if then). Women know what men want, and I don[t say that in an aggressive or a mocking way, we just know. Anyone who has had to deal with male sexuality for any length of time (and this includes most teen girls) knows it. Not trying to fuck right away is just part of the social ritual of dating, and of being human. I've ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:58 PM
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One thing that always bothered me is how women love to shame men for not being ready and willing to raise another man's child Someone else posted basically this exact thing yesterday and my response is the same. Who is doing this? I've never in my life (personal life or in the media etc.) seen any woman shaming men for refusing to raise another man's child. You need to link to some of this or give examples or something because this shit just sounds like just another made-up entrant in the victim…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:31 AM
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it does seem to me to be in bad taste Oh I hope you haven't come here (and during purge week) expecting good taste. Bad taste might be the only thing PPD actually does well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:00 AM
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We don't have rape fantasies. We have 'being overpowered by someone we want to overpower us' fantasies. The thing you're missing is that, in the fantasy, we WANT it. It is by definition not rape. yw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:56 PM
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I only sleep with wealthy omegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:55 PM
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It is when you treat the world like a racetrack and play gta for real oh. oh dear. oh, crackrock. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:51 PM
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Ignore these fuckers. Look at you with your real life non-ogre girlfriend and straight guy style! - please understand we must now rip you to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:46 PM
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You actually are a degenerate tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:41 PM
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Why should people who do these things be entitled to us. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:40 PM
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Oh this is totally true. Crackrock, sadomasochrist, squid, gaylube, yep yep. Juiced up nerds, all of 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:35 PM
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Society mocks beta males who refuse to raise the kids of alpha males Nobody does this. Certainly not society. I have never, not once in my life, seen any individual or group mocking men for not raising children they have no biological connection to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:34 PM
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Well that depends on what it is women are mad at men for doing, doesn't it? Like if you just killed some girl's whole family in order to kidnap her and take her to live in your basement as your personal sex slave, I feel like it's OK if some people are mad about that. As i said, if you act like a fucking dick asshole shithead in order to get some pussy, then you ARE a fucking dick asshole shithead and that's on you and nobody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:29 PM
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Atlas doesn't hate black people, she hates herself. OK maybe she hates black people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:25 PM
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Cuckleberry, you are performing a fine service to this sub, I can hear the dopamine receptors firing from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:24 PM
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OK RICHARD HAMMOND
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:17 PM
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The person responsible for a given behaviour or act or statement etc. is always the person committing the behaviour/act or making the statement. Women are responsible for what they do. And men are responsible for what they do. And OP, fyi, there isn't much that rings less masculine than "but I only did it because girls made me!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:16 PM
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In my experience, calling racists racist generally results in a LOT of screaming and yelling and denying. The only reason being a racist is seen as acceptable/arguably even 'cool' here at PPD is because this place is a cesspool, ruled by the human garbage fire and superannuated Hot Topic shopper that is Atlas B, and populated mostly by people who will never get over not having been popular in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:34 PM
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I do think that an abortion is not 'nothing' in a moral sense. It is the ending of a possible life. It is the ending of, as you say, the possibilities of a whole life. It is not the ending, imo, of a 'life.' And for me, as I said, the ending of a possible-life is a)not the same as the ending of a 'life' and b)is not outweighed by the risks of banning abortion. The line here really is drawn where people see 'life' beginning. Those people who think sex without birth control as a sin genuinely see …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:22 PM
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I mean, true, but so are teh menz. The classic PPD mistake. 'Women are hysterical/stupid/avaricious/dishonest/manipulative/selfish etc. etc. etc." Humans. Humans are these things. And you yourself are a human. Be the change you wish to see in the world, FI-Boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:09 PM
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I mean no, it isn't. A sprouting seed is demonstrably not a plant. It may be a plant in the future, but it is not, in its sprouting seed state, a plant. 'What thing X might be in the future' is not the same as 'Thing X.' You're not going to win this argument because it's, at base, at least partially about feels (as almost everything we freak out over in this sub is). You either believe (i.e. feel) a zygote/blastocyst/embryo/fetus is a 'baby' (as in, in no way different from a human baby living o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:06 PM
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Hey you stupid nigger maybe if you keep typing it it'll turn out to be true. You're obsession with me is adorable. What's the matter you didn't get a good enough response to your other post that you deleted like the Pussie coward nigger that you are? Nothing you say is going to stop the people who like me from liking me, and the people who don't like me can all get cancer poke their own eyes out and die including you. So I hope this little act made you feel better, I understand that it's very di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:23 PM
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This isn't a purge week topic. This is just a regular PPD topic. We all know that all the PPD husbands are alpha so alpha manly jacked protective huge dicks amazing sex funny smart sexy sexy can't read can read kill other men with their dicks but would never cheat y'all they would never cheat and sure we have problems but they're like in a job interview when your worst trait is you're too much of a perfectionist you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:10 PM
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I mean, obviously. The endless ranks of anonymous losers clamouring around this virtual garbage fire trying to convince other anonymous losers that they're not, in fact, anonymous losers, totally proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:00 PM
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This OP would totally do that shit. And then he'd come here and tell us about it, because telling people how masculine he is on the internet is the closest he's ever going to come to actual masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:55 PM
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No. You can tell by the way she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:40 PM
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There's a few of them here who speak entirely in buzzwords. It's not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:23 AM
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Communism isn't dead. It's just hiding under America's bed, lurking, waiting to reach out and wrap it's cold, clammy hand around the nation's slender ankle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:22 AM
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True tRPW will be a community of women sharing their experiences to gain a better understanding of AMALT. This is true. I have yet to see a female RP subreddit that was anything more than a combination of I'm Not Like Other Girls and/or I Have A Vagina But I Don't Know How To Female. The latter of which I suspect are largely male fetishists. Not that I think we'll ever see a true female RP subreddit because there's no need. Eeeeeveryone knows what boys like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:13 AM
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If it's sincere defense, I'm good with it. Like if he's 'defending' me because he actually agrees with me, cool. If it's not sincere defense, and I suspect he's doing it to score points, it just makes me feel weird. It makes me feel like he might expect me to be grateful or to owe him somehow, for the favour. I don't like that feeling, of someone else thinking I'm obliged to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 07:40 AM
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Sooo, OP, I'm always wondering how true your side of this is. Like I wonder if you were an emotionally retarded assface who ignored her "Imma leave if this doesn't change' for 5 years pre-divorce or if what you say is pretty much true and she straight up ditched her husband/father of her children for a richer dude. But we can totally gossip about this. People are being a bit mean to you. If I was you, I'd be fuckin' mad too. Like, they're right, this woman is living in your brain rent-free, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 07:36 AM
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This is a very, very common thing among manosphere guys, where "the very small subset of women I'm sexually interested in" = "women". Lewis is doing this in another comment section. Women can get high quality dick anytime, anyplace, at the drop of a hat.' By which he means "attractive women of childbearing age" and not, you know, 60 yr old fat women with chin hairs. Most women are not attractive + childbearing age. also, at least in my personal case, sending a "want sum fuk" message makes you a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:05 PM
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I think the best strains of redpill thinking amount to good marketing intelligence where you don’t just ask consumers, but rather study their actions. IE humans are hypocritical little monkeys full of cognitive dissonance, and when you ask for their values you’re only hearing their idealized version of themselves talking. ITA. I often find myself being reflexively assumed to be a member of Team Woman on this sub (because I'm a woman and am disagreeing with something they've said, usually) but I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:44 PM
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I can and do disagree with that you wrote, Lewis. I agree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:27 PM
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I've definitely seen the 'that guy' dynamic playing out in a group of male friends before. One of them, and everyone will be fully aware of who it is, will expect a level of deference from people that he just hasn't earned. These guys are almost always disliked by men and women, and as far as I can see, very few of them make it past college/their mid-20s with friend groups intact. At a certain age i think people just cut extra social weight loose and the 'super sensitive to 'disrespect,'/thinks …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:22 PM
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You're both wrong, wheeeee!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:46 PM
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Exactly a man needs to be a 10/10 Henry Cavill forever 25 year old Chad for women to even want a relationship with him! Not only is this laughably untrue, but if you you actually believe it it's probably going to make your life worse than it has to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:41 PM
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No, your lives are that much better because you can get quality cock whenever you want it and commitment from not-so-quality cock whenever you decide it's time to settle for it. OP's point is definitively proven. /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:37 PM
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I mean, and I do not say this in an insincere or mocking way at all, no fucking wonder you guys are mad! I think I might be mad, too, if every day when I woke up a significant portion of the human population around me, who were working no harder than me and were in no discernable way 'better' than me, were living lives of ease and luxury, and I still had to work and suppress my foul nature in order to have friends/a boyfriend/some level of social acceptance. Thankfully that's not the case. And i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:32 PM
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To say it’s rough because you have so many suitors is dumb Who's saying this? Who's saying 'ugh, sooooo many men showering me with validation and prezzies and love and desire and everything good, so boring and tiresome! ugh, stop!' I mean, no one is. The point women are making in this thread is that, no matter how sincerely the men here say they would value that kind of thing, most women don't. Not that they're showered with validation to the point that it becomes meaningless, but that they don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:28 PM
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A man committing to a woman only reveals himself to be low value. [eyeroll/the end times are nigh emoji]
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:16 PM
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Ok, let me try to answer this. Hehe, from what i've seen women are more likely to get excited about a dick pic or "hey babe want sum fuk?" from a high value, good looking "Chad" than they are about a sincere, longwinded thoughtful message from a lower value guy. It isn't the content of the messages that turns women off or on. It's the man posting them in a lot of cases. I mean, in terms of dick pics from hot men vs longwinded messages from not-hot men, I assume you're talking about hook-up apps …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:11 PM
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gross disgusting lowlifes? I mean, this is emotive language. "Hey babe ur hot u do anal?" and the like is just in no way a quality indicator, OK? No woman will disagree with this. It's literally 'I don't give a fuck about anything about you except the fact that you have a vagina and hopefully this minimal amount of effort that I'm scattershotting to 100 other women will result in one of you allowing me to masturbate into it.' That may be true, but it's its truthiness that makes it the opposite o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:24 AM
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"OMG these average looking guys have the audacity to approach me, a princess. Ughhh I'm so oppressed." This is a total strawman. it's simple fact that women get cold approached a lot more than men. That simple fact in no way implies 'uuugh I'm so much better than all these disgusting lowly male worms!!! so oppressed by their constant fawning and gifts!!" You're comparing being broke in a third world country and starving on the streets to living in abundance in a first world country but not havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:18 AM
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I mean, I feel the same way and have said as much here before. Inspire me to submit, and I'll submit. Not as a conscious choice, it'll just happen. I often see men here talking about Captain/FO (although not as many lately, unless I'm imagining it?) and it's just, like, LOL. Because of what you said. This is the burden of anyone who wants respect, admiration, followers etc. Male or female, there is no way around the fact that you have to earn that. If you aren't admirable, no one will admire you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:10 AM
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If he fails as a captain, that is because I failed when I selected him. It is not his fault for failing, it is my fault for picking him. Oh hayull no. One of the most necessary factors for being a 'captain'/leader/whatever terms works for you is the absolute rock solid ability to take responsibility for yourself. Blaming a failing on another party is inherently weak. Much weaker than simply owning a mistake. I respect men who cop to fucking up (because ot's not realistic to expect anyone never t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:59 AM
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Yeah, I know there are submissive dudes, too. And I don't think I'm fearmongering in these comments at all - I've specifically said I'm not one of the women who lives in fear of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:48 AM
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Yeah but this is the grey area shit you get into with female rape fantasies. Getting off on imagining beating a woman half to death while fucking her as she screams 'no' and cries is one thing. Getting off on imagining holding a woman down, not beating her half to death, and quite quickly having her willingly succumb to your intensely attractive masculinity is another. Or is it? I dunno. Is one of those men a sadist and one not? Are they both sadists? And same for a woman, is fantasizing about b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:05 PM
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Men have more paraphilias than women. Yup, I know this. Even without studies this seems obvious. I have never in my life met a woman who, for example, needed to smell her partners socks to get off. It just comes down to what one believes is 'depravity' or not. I just don't think the fact that women are less likely to develop specific sexual fetishes = women are less sexually depraved in general. Interesting tidbit from that link: pedophiles are more likely to be left-handed than non-pedophiles. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:58 PM
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Never been snarked on before for parentheses. (PDD comes through again) Also how do you know re: "not typically?" I'm actually asking. Are there stats/studies on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:54 PM
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PPD try harder. But all my effort goes to trying to figure out why I keep gaining weight even though I only eat 4 burgers a day now instead of 5. So frustrating!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:34 PM
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Most men don’t have rape fantasies. Don't they? Men don't fantasize about holding down an unwilling woman and fucking her? (now I want to know how many male rape fantasies involve the woman eventually realizing, due to his irresistible masculinity, that she actually loves it)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:30 PM
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but but
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:28 PM
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Fwiw I'm a woman and am in no way 'afraid' of all men. Not even lowkey. Nor do I see any real reason to think men are more sexually depraved than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:23 PM
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You hang with actual weirdos then. No s/he doesn't. You're talking about women you've dated (i.e. banged). The other guy is saying his female friends (ALL of them!) have talked to him about a rape/kink fantasy of theirs. And that's just really odd unless the Venn diagram of 'that guy's social group' and 'hardcore lifestyle kinksters' is a perfect circle. I can't imagine any woman talking about her rape/kink fantasies with male friends. That's just asking for trouble. Not asking for rape, to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:14 PM
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The people you perceive as not having scapegoats simply do this, they are acting to increas their own power and influence. "I am not good, so others cannot be good." Are you just explaining what you meant (with the quoted part) or is this what you actually believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:08 PM
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Perhaps you could give me can example or several of something you think is purely altruistic or purely selfless act -- meaning there's not external or intrinsic benefit to the person performing the action. I can't do this - and neither can you do the opposite - without being the person involved. I can give you a scenario and say "this person killed themselves in order to save the child of a stranger out of 100% altruistic motivation" but then you can say "no they didn't." Neither of us can know …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:06 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by that and how it's related to what I said? I'm not trying to catch you out, either. You're one person I've noticed generally seems to speak honestly here so I'm actually curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:48 PM
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And not in a cynical way. It’s just I don’t find that term helpful. You don't find it helpful because you don't believe in it (pure selflessness - although I'm not sure the official definition of altruism concerns the purity of the selflessness and should probably Google it) though, right? Most selfless acts aren’t that selfless. If I jump in front of a car to save a random little kid. It’s usually because it would pain me to see that little kid smashed to smithereens more than reverence for my …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:43 PM
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I'm more interested in your thoughts on altruism (etc.) as good or bad. Something to be aspired to or not. What you were saying to Mercedes seemed like you thought altruism was preferable, somehow, to selfishness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:29 PM
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Oh I didn't say I don't have a scapegoat. I just said I don't think everyone has a scapegoat. There are good ppl out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:26 PM
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I think it's this one: https://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html Although I haven't re-read to check if it is, I think it is. if it goes into women getting aroused by watching monkey porn and a device that measures vaginal wetness (iirc) then it is. First result when I Googled these words: "new york times female sexuality study bonobos vaginal narcissism" :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:56 AM
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Everyone’s got a scapegoat Oh that's not true at all. I don’t need to be liked by everyone. Yeah, that's fine. I'm the same. I wouldn't say I feed off people's hate, tho. That's kinda weird, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:53 AM
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I don't think they don't deserve respect...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:51 AM
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I think your perspective is warped, false, and ultimately self-serving Are you sure you're not saying anything about selfishness somehow being bad or immoral? The way you speak of altruism, too, makes it sound like you think it's something to aspire to, or a good thing somehow? As to the purest expression of altruism, wouldn't it be sacrifice for a stranger rather than one's own children? Surely you acknowledge there is some selfishness/self-interest in sacrificing for your own genetic line?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:47 AM
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Do you know what some of the cultural messaging on SAHM-ing reminds me of? The cultural messaging on military service. They're both occupations with a crap-ton of signaling and baggage. And it's not new, either. Motherhood as an exalted role is not new, the sometimes way OTT praise of motherhood (literally the hardest job in the world, the sine qua non of society, the saintly mother who gives her all for her family etc. etc.) really chimes with a lot of the sometimes way OTT praise of military s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:11 PM
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it's not a view, it's pretty objective. Stahp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 09:56 PM
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you're saying you feel peak horny a couple of times a month (per cycle)? Yep. Ovulation and just before my period starts. I think maybe the difference between what I've seen other PPD women describe and my experience is that even outside these times, I am not someone who needs to be 'worked up' to sex. I'm pretty much always up for it, in a way that seems closer to the way men here describe it than many of the women. So on the one hand I think how I am mid-cycle is quite 'male' (I never feel pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:59 PM
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Sorry, that was SUPER badly worded on my part (the time I am most horny is the time I am most active in pursuing sex and this is somehow a paradox!). OK, (I am up late and super distracted by your stupid country's politics right now, so it's basically your fault I'm not making any sense!) what I mean was I sense a personal difference in us re: reactive sexuality. I've seen you describe your own as (mostly) reactive here, as well as quite a few of the other women. I would not describe my own libi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:40 PM
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Yep, that's definitely crossed my mind (i.e. from an evo-pysch perspective it makes total sense - male orgasm is necessary for pregnancy, female orgasm is not).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:32 PM
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Besides, if they could genuinely be made to fancy fat women, wouldn't most of the men here jump on it? All I hear is how many fat women there are everywhere - RP's pool of options gets way bigger (heh) in that scenario!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:24 PM
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Based on that I would still say my sexuality is majorly responsive more than active/aggro. Yep, I've read your comments on this before and realized that you and I just differ on it personally. It's weirdly paradoxical to me that at the time of month I am at my most 'ugh, TAKE ME, ALPHA MALEZ!' is also the time I am the most active in pursuing sex/male desire. I.e. I feel most submissive to my bf at the same time as I feel most aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:22 PM
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Female desire is responsive. I don't think female desire 'not responsive' - to be clear - but re: my own post in reply to OP, that kind of mid-cycle female sexuality doesn't feel responsive to me at all. It in fact feels quite aggressive, although it's a weird kind of aggression where it's main goal is the stoking of aggression in another. Edit: Wait, if by 'responsive' you didn't mean 'reactive' (the way it's often talked about here) then ... well, that's how I took it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:11 PM
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The very nature of women focusing on desire means a large swath of men will be excluded as women will focus on the top men who pique her arousal/or focus on women. To this point (there's a loooot in your OP!) and on the understanding that I understand you're being a little hyperbolic, I think I disagree. I don't think I believe that society, media etc. can have any real impact on who we fancy, sexually. I don't think Fat Acceptance can make men actually want to bang fat chicks (not the one who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:58 PM
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I know what real prejudice feels like You admit it and on some base level I respect that in a way I totally don't respect all the 'but it's for the fatties' own good! we care about their health!' BS. It makes me not like you, though (and I say that fully aware that there's no reason for you to care).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:37 PM
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Okaaaaaay Smoogler.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:33 PM
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Do you remember that NYT article (that I've def. seen referenced on this board a few times, iirc) about female sexuality from a few years ago? To this day it is one of the most insightful things I have ever read on the topic, admittedly because some of it personally rang true to me with regards to my own sexuality. I know we think of ourselves these days as really enlightened and knowledgeable about female sexuality. In some ways I think we are. In other ways I think we might have some really ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:28 PM
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Definitely could have something to do with it. I was talking recently with the one friend who did end up marrying her college bf and is still happily with him in her early 30s and she reckoned it was about age - i.e. that 18-22 is just a bit too young for many to be making the big life decisions. According to her she and her husband just lucked out in picking people at 20 who they could still stand and even love at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 09:01 PM
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But they're nooooot the most desirable jobs. I mean, surely there must be some data on what are, no? Someone must have done a study of, like, just normal people filling out a survey (which won't be perfect either, I know), not from data sucked off a dating app? Calm down there sparky. This made me laugh tho. :D 'Sparky.' Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:58 PM
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My previous dentist was so hot she almost made me gay. So can confirm on that hot-dentist front.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:54 PM
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In Montreal being a fucking smokeshow is mandatory for all police hires (male or female) but they seem to relax standards around 40-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:53 PM
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Latino men are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:50 PM
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slow, grudging clap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:48 PM
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Tinder allows same-sex swiping Ah, so this data is useless. Just like the OKCupid data. This sub REALLY needs to stop using dating app behaviour as a 100% reflection of real life human behaviour. We've got male interior designers as the most attractive in these results, and another recent one that had 50 year old men as the most sexually attractive to women. It's obvious bullpucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:47 PM
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Obviously this is a small sample size and no one should read any larger claims into it but almost across the board the people I know who married their college mates ended up unhappy, but those who married the person they met in the ~1-3 years post-college all seem to be doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:39 PM
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My Big Fat Fabulous Life Assuming this is a TV show? Is that where this 'fat acceptance' obsession comes from? Because honestly I have never (literally never) come across anything irl about this movement. Never heard anyone talk about it, never heard it mentioned as a thing, never knew anyone who was into it/not into it. Online, though (and when i say 'online' I pretty much mean PPD) this gets talked about as if it's a major thing. As if women everywhere are being talked into joining his nefario…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:34 PM
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I will never, ever stop fat shaming But why tho? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:25 PM
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Because if a fraction of a penny of my taxes or insurance payment goes towards it then it is my concern and I have a say on the issue. u/hiso_hiso is right, though. If we make fat people pay for their fat-related healthcare because they chose to engage in risky behaviour (eating too much), do we also have to start making people who engage in dangerous sporting hobbies pay for their healthcare? So we have to start making the families of teenage boys who injure themselves doing dumb teenage boy sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:20 PM
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blacks aren't really a part of the SMP anyway ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:08 PM
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I mean, if someone wants to awkwardly put their arms around me and pat me on the back without any actual body contact I guess ok, have at it? but I don't understand it and I don't see the need for it and it just feels weird and awkward and hugging? really? you don't even know me ugh. Thankfully I now live in a country where such things are frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:44 PM
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This is one of those things I've noticed is very difficult to communicate to some of the men here (calm down, men, I know there are things that are very difficult to explain to us, too). And I certainly can't speak for all women - I already see responses from women here saying this has never happened to them. But here's the thing. I don't assess men I don't know in a sexual way. Men on the street, men in the pub, men in line at the supermarket. This isn't disdain, it's neutrality. I feel about 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:42 PM
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I know men yammer about kino but touch too fast and the wrong way bleh. The least problematic manosphere group to me is the PUAs but when I first read what kino was I was genuinely surprised. Being touched by a dude I'm not sure I'm into (i.e. a stranger who is trying to pick-up) is really off-putting. Not even in a showy 'omg he's gonna rape meeee' way, either. Just in a 'urgh, wtf are you doing?' way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:32 PM
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I think the specific assumption is important, though. Like if I say "yeah, all women like breathing air" that's one (correct) thing. If I say "all women are gold-digging whores who hate sex and only have it in order to get $$$ and buy shoes" that's another (incorrect) thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:29 PM
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Although I am fascinated by the British royal family )and the British class system in general), I don't know the exact particulars of Diana's childhood. Google says she attended public (i.e. private) school starting at 9 and then finishing school in Switzerland, which was standard for posh girls. As to her virginity, I don't think any isolation on her part (I don't think she was isolated in her late teens? esp. if attending finishing school abroad and living in a shared flat in London, per Googl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:21 PM
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You can't sign up whole heartedly for classic power structures that don't give a shit about working class men and then bitch about how classic power structures don't give a shit about working class men. Completely agree. You just summed up what is probably my main takeaway from the last few years of being on PPD. I'd guild this but fuck Reddit so if you want me to donate however much gold is to a particular charity, PM me the name. Also agree about nursing and teaching often being brought up as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:11 PM
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What I hate is men who can do pull-ups. When I was 22 and in the best shape of my life, I, a laydee, could do 4 pull-ups. It was awesome. Everybody who saw it was like WOAH and clapping and cheering and offering me money and saying how awesome I was. Whenever I have seen a man doing pull-ups (which are easy for all men due to their natural upper body strength and masculine weight distribution) people jeer and throw rotten fruit at those pigs. I mean, it's SUPER easy for those guys to do pull-ups…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 08:35 PM
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Every time I try to have a conversation with you, you seem to lose the ability to understand English. Is it one of the most disingenuous posts I've ever seen from you? Yes. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:56 PM
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I think it’s the Internet increasing visibility of these guys. Yep, I bet this is true, too. Good point. The internet is definitely allowing us to 'see' all kinds of people we didn't before, and it's probably also giving the impression that some of these very loud groups are more populous than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:30 PM
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no one "hates" poors This is one of the most disingenuous things I've ever seen you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:28 PM
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Yep, this. I see people class-LARPing on this board and just doing it wrong. I'd bet 95%+ people posting here are solid MC. The single one I knew who self-categorized as UC was actually UMC. I think we need to treat class online like men's height (and women's weight) on dating apps. Adjust one class down from whats reported. heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:15 PM
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I was talking to someone about this recently, how it seems to be a particularly American thing (not that it doesn't happen elsewhere, ofc, but that it seems more widespread and accepted in the US) to openly speak/think badly of people who do these 'shit' jobs. As if you (general you) don't eat those burgers and wee in those clean toilets yourself! There's a real sense of superiority towards the poor in America and I see it in microcosm on this board all the time. It's very Calvinist, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:12 PM
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Traditionally female working class jobs (cleaning, industrial catering, lower retail, childcare, elder care, base line secretarial, beauty technicians, etc - all basically minimum wage and paying less than the traditionally male jobs listed) are ignored YES, thank you, this. I've brought this up before (the low paid, physically arduous work that women do, much of very grotty - cleaning toilets, changing old people's diapers etc.) and pretty much been dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:07 PM
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but she didn't know about, like, Polo and hunting and stuff That's not true at all. The Spencer family is posh/UC af. Diana was, on paper, a 'perfect' wife for Charles, she ticked every box. Charles had to be pushed into marrying the younger, prettier woman, while pining for, cheating with, and eventually marrying the plainer woman who understood him. If Camilla had been a virgin (or if she had at least not been know to NOT be a virgin - i.e. if she had not already lived with a man), Charles may…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 09:53 PM
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Heh, I see the Women's PPD Power Collective has their new narrative (i.e. 'I'm not going to say anything that could in any world be perceived as portraying myself, my relationships and my life as anything less than ideal because X [it will be used against me by the mad ppd men].') I think I may even have participated in the creation of this one, last week? Men of PPD, you kinda at least partially have yourselves to blame. Most of you are OK but there are a few that just stand out as talking to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 09:35 PM
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First of all, what is a 'foreveralone'? I.e. what is the actual definition of this word? Is it just a synonym for 'incel'? 'Person who is so unattractive very few people other than the truly desperate and equally unattractive would have sex/relationships with them'? I'm seeing three main answer-types here, none of which really ring true. Women would rather share a high value man than settle for monogamy with a lower value one. I just don't see any evidence of this at all. What is this argument? …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 09:15 PM
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Nice. I wasn't being sarcastic if that wasn't clear - that's genuinely impressive. I'm envious, especially as a very nervous flier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:22 PM
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I earned ~15x what my partner did over the past year. Also thirsty af for him. What these guys are really failing to see is that their thoughts on women's inability to be attracted to men who make less money than them, while not wrong, are applicable only to a certain group of women. And there are other groups of women out there, including an ever-increasing one who makes their own $ and genuinely doesn't care what their man makes. I've actually never cared how much a man makes, even before I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:19 PM
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the amount of anecdata available there is well within the realm of reasonable certainty. You've gotta have a higher bar than that. I mean, really? Lots of anecdata from clearly invested people = reasonable certainty? I have to be a Christian (or a flat earther, for example) if I set my bar that low. Or you have to be a feminist, because I guarantee you you'll also be able to find loads of anecdata from them, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:06 PM
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You're right. The actual real definition of 'hypergamy' means marrying up in a social class sense, and the RP definition of 'hypergamy, as far as I can tell, is almost literally any woman fucking a man who isn't them. I once saw a Red Piller here use a high-achieving, high-earning, beautiful woman with a poor surfer dude as an example of (female) hypergamy, because the surfer was good at surfing and therefore thought well of/high-status in his surfing group. I also once, when discussing hypergam…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:57 PM
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That doesn’t mean we need particular terms to describe them So you're literally conceding that X exists but that we don't "need" a term to describe it (whatever X may be)? Wat? and in point of fact, we don’t have them We do. We have the word 'toxic' to describe things that are... toxic. I hope you get over yours someday. Ah, another MRA-er here to discuss things in good faith! People like you are one of the reasons this sub can be a bit of a shitshow. At no point did I say anything misandrist (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:34 PM
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Yeah, my dad is totally the parent who is still very protective and service-y with us. No fucking way would he let any of his kids make their own way home from the airport. Like he would probably get mad if we tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:52 PM
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I need a few drinks to parse out my thoughts on it. I hope you don't mean FREE drinks, Grid, that you have manipulated out of the innocent men!! (have fun, and gimme your thoughts later)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:48 PM
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Is too. Edit: FINE I WILL HAVE THIS CONVO IF ANYONE WANTS TO. So... imagine there is some delicious liver. Eating liver is good, many vitamins, much nutrition. But let's say you ONLY eat liver. Let's say you eat loads and loads of liver, and nothing else, every day. Soon, you will have vitamin A toxicity and a host of nutritional deficiencies. The liver-only diet has become harmful to the person eating it. It has become... toxic. Not because liver is inherently toxic, but because you ate so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:42 PM
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Grid wat? Really? I mean, I wouldn't threaten to disown any daughters if they accepted a free drink or anything but I would definitely advise against it. That said, no one ever said anything to me about accepting free stuff (literally, no one ever said anything about it at all, let alone in a positive or negative light), I just never felt comfortable with it. That's not virtue signaling, either - when I say I never felt comfortable I just mean feeling like I owe someone - even just a smile or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:41 PM
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I think we do. My dad was also a really active parent, always doing outdoor activities with us. Walking, hiking, tennis, biking, tobogganing etc. etc. My mom is a big believer in 'outdoor' time for kids, too, but it was often my dad directing those activities and my mom directing the indoors ones. Looking back it was probably as much about getting us out of mom's hair on the weekends as anything else. :D My dad has always been the more patient of the 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:36 PM
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This is actually freaking me out. These activities aren't just similar they are legit the exact same. Yes on the store clay (and the home-made playdough that I used to convince my sisters to eat). My mom was a primary school teacher before we were born, and then she was a reluctant SAHM. Oh, she also used to get big bowls of water, add loads of dishsoap, put them out in the backyard, give us straws and let us blow bubbles of a summer afternoon. Luckily we were easily amused children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:31 PM
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Also same, it was my dad who was really eager for kids out of the two of them. I think my mom was totally ambivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:27 PM
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Are you being serious (not being snotty, genuinely can't tell!)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:25 PM
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That is exactly how my parents were. I mean, right down to the paper mache stations in the kitchen. Damn. If your mom also used to mix large bowls of coloured paint, lay down rolls of newsprint, and let you dip your hands and feet in the paint to make prints, then we might be siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:24 PM
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There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity". Yes there is. Being an asshole is not inherently masculine. 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:20 PM
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Have a wire that delivers an electrical current implanted in his testes at birth. Starting at 12 months old, begin to deliver increasingly painful electrical shocks to his balls when he shows anything other than perfect, immediate deference to female humans. At 30 (after making sure his virginity has remained firmly intact), pass him off to a pre-approved-by-the-matriarchy wife and move them into my house so the wife and I can ensure his compliant behaviour continues. Repeat procedure with any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:14 PM
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Maybe she has, but you're beginning to rival Lewis for dishonest arguments, imo, and it you want people to engage with you genuinely you should - well, actually, you should be genuinely interested in differing opinions. Which I don't think you are. You're definitely not the only here, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:04 PM
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That's basically what keeps me from feeling too sorry for any of the Merp-wives. Those dudes can't even keep a lid on their shittiness online, in text, and they fucking married them! Odds are many of those wives are just as shitty as the husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:59 PM
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Yes it is. (Respond if you like but before you do, know that I in no way believe you have any idea what 'sensible, confident and decent' women respond to.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:55 PM
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You're reaping what you've sown in bad faith here, Smoogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:48 PM
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People named whodunnit88 should go soak their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:40 PM
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My personal opinion on 'real man-ness' sounds very similar to yours. Although I'm perfectly happy to slot human males into the 'weak little bitch' category if they do something to warrant it. Not that anyone is expected to take my personal categorizations as gospel, ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:37 PM
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Lets not pretend that various degenerate metrosexual pyjamas boys are not castrated girliemen. Why do you even care? Don't like pajama boys, don't be one. shrug Also, you speak almost entirely in buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 09:42 AM
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Huh, that's funny, I think I just 100% bought that those stats were solid/real because they get referenced SO much around here. And are then improperly used to support the old 'women are shitty at marriage' (which is NOT backed by any stats) notion when all that does is reveal the speaker's bias. I mean I am 95% sure that some hardcore radfem discussion group would use those same 'stats' to confirm that it is, in fact, men who are shitty at marriage, forcing all those poor women to leave them or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 11:51 PM
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It is not men who are divorcing at a higher rate but women, who initiate the vast majority of divorces. So women must take a more realistic inventory of themselves and drop the unrealistic expectations and show a higher level of fidelity to their husbands and the institution of marriage, or chose not to marry. We could go with that narrative on the 'women initiate divorce more often than men' stats. We could go with 'women need to be more realistic/lower the expectations' etc. Or we could just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:14 PM
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So u/planejane is lying? Her male friend cannot actually count on her? And why the fuck do redpills hang out with such shitheaded women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:17 AM
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Though she is often raped at least once Nope. Amazon shitcans your account if you publish anything that even smells of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:11 AM
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That they made it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:09 AM
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No, it's not that either. The main female mating strategy is to find a man she loves and wants to fuck and then having kids with him. You guys seem to think that genuine attraction between humans is this rare thing, but it isn't. We're all built to fancy and love each other. The unlikeliest of people find love and relationships and have kids. The general opinions of Red Pill have been totally formed (some might say warped) by the fact that the majority of the married ones seem to have married th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:29 PM
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I will never understand the idea that AF/BB is like some sort of prime and/or highly engaged in female sexual strategy. It's just standard Red Pill 'this thing happened to me so this thing must be widespread/a rule of human nature.' Which is bad enough but you have to add to that that the vast majority of these guys, imo, probably were fancied by their wives at one point and then lost that attraction for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:22 PM
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It's female mating strategy. No it isn't. Marrying one man and secretly getting pregnant with Chad's baby, only to fool the beta Husband into raising Chad's offspring is demonstrably not the human female mating strategy. Edit: 'dating' to 'mating.'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:17 PM
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You can fly? I - this might literally be the most impressed I've ever been with anyone on here. Omg. Aaaaah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:56 AM
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Sharp Objects was fucking lame, final episode was bullshit, twist was dumb, internet is wanking itself into a frenzy over how great it is. True Detective for laydeez, and equally as shite. Joke's on me tho cuz I watched every episode. I'll watch anything with Amy Adams in it. Love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:53 AM
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My feelings on housewives are the same as my feelings on welders or bartenders. I know some houses need cleaning and some kids need feeding and some pipes need joining together and some people needs drinks so I hope the housewives like housewifing and the welders like welding and the bartenders like bartending, but beyond that I have no controversial opinions on the vast majority of ways people spend their days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:45 AM
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rawr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:41 AM
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OK Bill Burr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:39 AM
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Can women make themselves intellectual equals to men? You're asking this question (and look where you're asking it), and so in your case specifically I think the answer is probably 'nothing.' That's mean but fucksake OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:34 AM
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'I feel I'm more intelligent/rational than women and so it's fact that I am.' Red Pill so stupid their statements about their own superior intelligence inherently prove them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:31 AM
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The funny thing is that she's horny as fuck!! She's CONSTANTLY wanting sex. She just doesn't seem to have a need to orgasm. OK. I mean... I have no idea what to say to that. Not being sarcastic, I genuinely don't. But I'll default to believing her because I have no reason not to (it not being that way for me isn't a good enough reason to doubt a woman I don't know). if she has to orgasm every time, which has the opposite effect. This sounds totally reasonable. I know that for me, if I know the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:35 PM
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Joking about the ball and chain and apron strings is just harmless male bonding. Just like women joking about the toilet seat and socks on the floor and wasting money on useless gadgets is harmless female bonding. No, that I agree with. I was just getting het up over the fact that whenever you actually question RP on any of their 'WOMEN ARE NOT SENTIENT AND SHOULD ALL BE PUT INTO CAMPS' stuff (note to readers: this is 'hyperbole' - I know RP does not actually say this, I am using the rhetorical …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:31 PM
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Feminism was mean to muh dick. A male PPDer NEEDS to make this his flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:17 PM
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And it's always been like this between you two? From what you're saying she doesn't sound super comfortable with her sexuality (or maybe she just truly is a lot less horny than you?) and that's just unfortunate. I'm totally fascinated by people who don't masturbate. Like, if we even believe them, ofc. Does she not do it because she doesn't know how to get herself off? Or because she thinks it's bad/wrong somehow? 43 is definitely an age at which I am shocked to hear a person is still ignorant (n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:13 PM
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The part I actually think gets left out of too many of these discussions is the mind-related parts of sex and how important that is for women. What's going on in my head is by far the most critical part of any sexual encounter for me, and how it ends up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:03 PM
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She doesn't ever do it solo. Really? How old is your wife if you don't mind me asking (just give me the decade if you don't want to be specific)? I'm reading your comments in this thread and just feeling kinda bad for her, but also frustrated with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:01 PM
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You're being generous, Poppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:37 PM
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You're failing to show where I'm lying I didn't say you were lying (I can't know if you're being truthful or not). I said you were posturing and vice-signaling. Which you mostly are on this sub, and the most cursory glance at your post history shows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:31 PM
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Really? You got clobbered for that? I mean, is it not just totally obvious to anyone reading this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:29 PM
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Asking questions is "going OFF"? On that specific incidence? Yes, you did appear to be 'going off' on Chartreuse. You were hectoring, and you were doing it in a situation where it was unwarranted. And before this turns into a 'yes you did' 'no I didn't' exchange, if you disagree then let's just leave it there. You may or may not be interested in how you come across to others, but I feel my opinion on that exchange is not an isolated one. Characterizing asking women for what their spouses flaws a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:59 PM
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Le menz do it too is so boring. It may be boring, but it also happens to be true and this is a debate sub, not RP. Truth matters here. HAHAHAHA! sorry, lol, ok, but you know what I mean. Because I regularly catch myself doing anti virtue signalling. Yeah but in your case, and the case of a number of our Resident Alpha Males, which is a group you have repeatedly placed yourself in with your posts, the 'anti virtue-signaling' is the virtue signaling. You're not posturing to make yourself look mora…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:50 PM
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Do you legit not see the role you play in women being reluctant to bare their souls here? I mean, you're gonna be hostile in response to this, aren't you? Even though I kind of agree the women on this sub are sometimes pretty bad for 'everything in my life is perfect, I don't know wtf is wrong with all you penis-having fuckups?' Lewis, someone just linked you fucking going OFF on a woman who had been threatened with rape by a stranger. And it's not rare form from you. How can you possibly expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:37 PM
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i mean, take a look at this shit. Christ. I mean, whether or not it's true that women here hold back on statements that may, in some universe, cause them to appear less than perfect, shit like this pretty much guarantees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:27 PM
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I think women like saying things that paint them in a good light You're right, women do often like to talk about themselves in flattering ways and the women here are no exception. The part you're missing is that men also like to do this, and just as much as women. This is a human tendency, not a female one. And I'll refer you to your own post history if you want an example of men talking about themselves in self-flattering ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:05 PM
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T.R.O.L.L.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:05 AM
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:: carefully removes u/nodoxxintoxin's handsewn voodoo doll from collection of handsewn PPD voodoo dolls before tossing the rest into the bath :: Don't worry, I don't really want us to be washed away in a flood of righteousness. Perhaps a light splashing in a shallow puddle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:04 AM
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I hate this sub and everyone who posts on it including myself and hope a flood washes us all away. Also to the pathetic bloops deep inside Atlas' paper frame - get some self-respect. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 09:02 PM
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It is girl game, and the worst part of it (for dudes like I'm talking about who would see this as evil and manipulative) is that the vast majority of men actually like it when we do this stuff. I've talked about this before. Men like feeling like men. Women like feeling like women. Even little things like bringing her food or a drink, there's still a teeny little momentary frisson of that enjoyable male-female tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:55 PM
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Anyway this was years ago, but it's why as a woman "who is able" I now play up the "damsel" thing more often. I do this too. Imo it's just social lubrication, although I'm sure there's some dude on here who thinks we're both manipulative bitches from hell now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:49 PM
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I'd rather laugh and make memories worth having than try to constantly be an intellectual equal or continually judge if I'm being too manly for my man's fragile ego. Why does this sub look at things this way? As if conversation between two intelligent people is necessarily some nightmarish game of one-upmanship? Surely two intelligent people hanging out/talking doesn't somehow preclude laughter or making good memories? a human level rather than a professional one or long boring games of one uppi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:43 PM
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Its possible to both respect a woman's intellect and regularly objectify her. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:35 PM
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Men LOVE to respect and admire smart and successful women You're getting a lot of pushback on this (predictably) but I actually agree that men are into smart women more than this sub is willing to admit (#notallmen ofc). they should never treat her like an intellectual equal. I disagree with this, though. Although i think maybe I know what you're getting at? Not being treated like an intellectual equal (by a man who is my intellectual equal, that is - I wouldn't get buttmad at Famous Genius X fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:33 PM
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One of my friends solved this problem by creating a fire pit and some other cool things in her backyard nice grill, outdoor fridge and cheap bar set up I recently spent some time with friends at their new house in the country. They're getting some hens and there was much discussion of hen psychology and what specific objects to provide in their environment so as to keep them happy and occupied with natural hen-y behaviours. What you just said reminded me exactly of that convo, except instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:06 PM
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My cat is named Trouble, too. And he is. (also I think I saw that grey one at my last HAES meeting)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:57 PM
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So many cute PPD pets! (so many FAT ones, too - y'alls are gonna trigger the fk out of Mergerarbitrage and Popelucious with those chubby-ass critters who need to put down the burgers).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:54 PM
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This is obvs. the answer to OP. This girl is stringing along followers to make $ and no interactions with women who don't have a professional interest in keeping a man sniffing around should be evaluated in the light of interactions with women who do. Not that I think the woman in the OP is doing anything wrong, to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:41 PM
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Anyway, these women wouldn’t be able to scale effectively without the free labor of all these thirsty desperate man. I mean, it doesn't cost that much to pay someone(s) to handle/manage your social media accounts - and you can also have them sign a NDA. As an aside, I’ve never seen a group of men who so desperately needed TRP in my life. I mean on the one hand, I agree. But on the other hand, you're never going to be able to stamp out this kind of thirst. It is woven into the fiber of human men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:34 PM
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I feel like I’m missing part of the story. It couldn't be more obvious what's going on here. I applaud your seemingly infinite patience with this human brick wall, though - honestly his posts just make me want to strangle him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:29 PM
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This is cringe af, OP. It's never - literally never - the 'me so dominant' guys who give off the vibe of being able to actually dominate anything more than an ant. Your pedestrian conflation of physical pain/physical violence with domination is the main giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 10:55 PM
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Yes it does. I was going to give a detailed reply to OP but your obvious bad faith in the replies have made me decide against it. I honestly come across so many people with that not-yet-fully-realized theory of mind problem and wtf is up with that? Like, do you really not get that because Sexual Act X is one way for you doesn't mean it is also always that way for others? This whole subreddit suffers from this problem. Why does it even matter if other people are into the same shit you're into and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 10:40 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily how the man shapes his hand, but that the man would do it in the first place. This is some pretty bad mansplaining, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 10:27 PM
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WTF I'M PERFECTLY RELAXED!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 07:18 AM
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Tomato/tomahtoe. Earthy goodness/DIRT. But if you're gonna load up the green flair and yell at me, be warned that it won't work - I pervishly enjoy getting mod smackdowns. If anything it will just spur me on to further misbehaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:48 AM
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I feel like I'm taking crazy pills after reading through the new comments. Like, Merger is super convinced this is all about the laydees of PPD not being able to put down the burgers (not the ice-cream, not the cake - the burgers). And literally no one he's talking to has said a single thing about overeating not causing overweight. Now I need to suck back 3 frapps to calm down. Why can't I lose weight, Grid???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:46 AM
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Good lord, you even like it. I would have been OK (not great) with you drinking that nastiness for health reasons. But you LIKE it? I mean, why not just get some dirt and mix it with water and drink that? Beets taste like dirt is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:39 AM
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But women's bodies just ARE built to store fat. Literally and definitively. And before your head starts spinning around read what I said. What I did NOT say was: being fat/overweight is awesome or good or attractive etc. I am talking about the substance: fat. Not the state of 'being fat.' But women have boobs and asses and hips precisely because our hormones dictate that we stores fat more efficiently than men. In order to carry a pregnancy and breastfeed a baby. Once again: NO ONE IS SAYING WOM…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:37 AM
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Jesus Christ Grid, beet juice? That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:31 AM
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Ugh, dude, these posts. Please don't get angry but honestly I have this experience every now and again of reading through an exchange like this here and just ending up sad and baffled. First of all, you don't see it, do you? I mean, there's no reason you would. The whole nature of being in a fucked-up mindset is that the person in it usually doesn't see it. Go listen to the now-overdone 'This Is Water speech by David Foster Wallace. ANYWAY. The sadness, my friend. The defeatism. It is wafting of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:12 AM
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Have you considered the possibility that the women you're talking to are not overweight? You've totally responded to 2 women now acting like they're some 200-pounders complaining that all they can't seem to lose weight even after switching from 2 pints of Ben and Jerry's per day to 1 pint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:22 PM
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Women aren’t built to “store fat”. ... Women simply have higher natural body fat percentages Uhhh...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:14 PM
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This is the most glorious triggering I've seen around here for awhile. The fact that it was non-intentional makes it even better. I think maybe fat laydees murdered these guy's dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:13 PM
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One of my exes would make me say the word 'pop.' It used to reliably give him a boner. Men are fucking WEIRD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 11:17 PM
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It's the men here showing their asses again. It's the PPD-male equivalent of all those 'I'm 30 and Men Are Shit' articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 11:15 PM
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Sadly women seem to loose the ability to fall madly for a guy as they age. Very few women over 30 seem to be able to do it (this is the true wall IMHO). Heh heh, this is the the most male solippybippy way possible to express this phenomenon, but I don't think you're entirely wrong. What I do think of this (I recently had this convo with a male friend and we both came to this conclusion) is that it's not that women lose the ability over 30 (or over whatever age - I've seen it posited as 23 in a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 11:11 PM
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I don’t agree that masculinity is better than femininity. Then...it's not hypergamy, though, right? I just - I mean, you've already said you think it's not the right word (confirm?), no? And if you don't, then goddamnit you're just muddying the waters in a place (PPD) where visibility is already near zero. We seriously need a new word for this. I think masculinity is more respected. If Atlas views respect as better than love that’s her own pref and might be better asking her her thoughts on this…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:49 PM
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Grid, wtf. I've just read through this whole exchange, basically agreeing with u/mossiness, and coming to the conclusion along the way that the issue here appears to be the specific word 'hypergamy' - i.e. the word itself (backed up by much of the RP rhetoric on this sub, from men and women) specifically means 'over, above, higher.' It's implicit in the word itself that women being hypergamous is women going for men who are above them, who are better than them. No? I feel like that's the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:08 PM
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“women are shit and men are virtuous” crowd that has seemed to taken over. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:04 AM
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"I don't believe you" is debate. No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:02 AM
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I see a lot of women in this sub advocating that they are unicorns and "have never cheated and will never cheat/don't even think about it". I agree that there are a suspiciously high number of people here who seem certain that they would never behave in a morally reprehensible way. That's not PPD, though, and I don't necessarily think it's women, either. It's just humans. Almost everyone is going to say "no, never" in response to the "would you cheat on your SO" question when it's asked in publi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:57 AM
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Because a woman who has had a taste of everything in life is left with only the microscopic strata of the upper tier of men to remain aroused...Women have a smaller arousal window than men, and that window shrinks as they "experience life." This isn't even 'I'm high and shooting the shit with a non-judgmental good friend' level thinking. This is pure male arrogance of the 'it occurred to me and so it's true' variety. You have nothing but the fact that you (appear to) believe this is true to back…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:30 PM
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Because he just axe-murdered 4 people for looking at him the wrong way and the way the blood spatter plays up his cheekbones is just UGH?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:47 AM
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Because hypergamy as RP defines it doesn't exist and it's just another 'women r eviller than men!' cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:44 AM
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The power those women had to summon a sexual harassment investigation from a university because he made them 'feel' uncomfortable goes over people's heads. It's interesting seeing it from redpillers, too. A real demonstration of that human propensity to feel the pain only of other who are like us and to dismiss the pain of those who aren't. I'm actually arguing with a redpiller downthread who pretty much thinks he knows that this guy is a sexual harasser and that his strong feeling is enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:16 AM
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You know, you're probably right and I was a bit sloppy in my response. My first sex ed class would have been grade school, early 90s. I do have it in my head that I was given a general message of 'casual sex is OK and not shameful and even empowering to women' during my pre-18 youth, but it's possible (probable) this message had a variety of different sources and looking back I don't think I was being given much info in those first years of sex ed (I think we were ~8 the first time we had it iir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:10 AM
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Agreed. I guess a lot of it is the fact that the 90s was still a time when it was possible for a legit feminist figure to believe that life was 100% nurture and 0% nature. They thought if they treated us like boys and socialized us like boys (sex is fun! yay! have all the casual sex you like! you're just like the boys!) then we would be like the boys. We wouldn't be hurt by casual sex. We wouldn't feel used when a casual sex partner didn't call us. We wouldn't feel devalued. Unfortunately it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:11 AM
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normal people don't get accused of sexual harassment when they ask for a fistbump or selfies. This is straight-up toxic blue-pill. Penis-haver gets accused of sexual harassment (in this case for asking for selfies/fist-bumps), so we're not even going to consider the possibility that that girl may have over-reacted or, you know, not actually been sexually harassed despite her possibly very real feelings of being creeped out. social interaction has rules and norms. if you're so completely socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:03 AM
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do you agree that both boys and girls are given bad or wrong information about sex and relationships? Yes. I'd say that pretty much everyone is at some point (and usually many points) given all sorts of wrong/bad info by parents and other authority figures when growing up - about sex and about all kinds of other topics. Kids get lied to all the time. They get lied to by dumb parents and bad parents and parents who care more about being seen to be good parents by their peers rather than actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 11:48 PM
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Deadpan, dry-as-a-bone humour? YES. Lazy snark? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:46 PM
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This comment section is truly sickening. I mean, I expect it from our Professional PPD Internet Mean People (disabled people are 'its'! lol! he's got brain damage from aluminum poisoning! lolll!) but goddamn I'm actually shocked at the cross-flair casual cruelty on display. I mean, he's weird and he makes people uncomfortable. Obviously he's a sexual harasser who shouldn't even be at college (with normal people) in the first place, amiright? Jesus H Christ. Shit like this honestly makes me wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:42 PM
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My thoughts exactly. OK, Richard Hammond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:37 PM
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So if someone posted a link to a story about a non-disabled guy asking for a fist bump/selfies with a fellow (female) college student, and then being accused of sexual harassment by that girl, who later changes her story to allege being groped, you would automatically assume that the guy was guilty of sexual harassment? And you're Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:31 PM
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PPD commentariat covering itself in glory once more, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:26 PM
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whatever happened, if the autistic guy is so socially incompetent that he can't ask for a fist bump or a selfie without setting off a sexual harassment investigation, then he shouldn't be allowed in public without adult supervision. Does your opinion stay the same if you remove the word 'autistic' from the above quote? Does it stay the same if we're talking about a non-disabled guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:11 PM
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No studies, no proof supporting your statements, just a LOT of feelz and personal bias. Welcome to PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 09:23 PM
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Yes, thank you! As far as I can tell the main 'biological' reason for slut-shaming is related to male interests (i.e. paternity). Men, especially men in a pre-genetic testing patriarchal society, have a clear interest in making sure women are monogamous/not filthy sloots. u/cashobar - u gonna respond to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 09:21 PM
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"I drink and I know things" Omg. That line. That specific line was one of the moments that actually started to kill this show for me. It just represents, for me, how the writers (absent material from GRRM) have turned what were originally 3d characters into weird, fanservice-y caricatures of themselves. And i think Tyrion might be the best example of this, probably doomed by his own popularity with fans. That 'I drink and I know things' line wasn't even clever! They've turned Tyrion into this we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 09:10 PM
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100%. It's not gendered, it's possible, and it's not wholly automatic (although I would say some of it is, for mentally healthy people). We're having this discussion, though, in a space where having empathy is specifically and frequently seen as explicitly weak and stupid and in which people over the age of 16 are often seen posturing about how very little empathy they have. Which means we're not going to have a meaningful discussion because PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:59 PM
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It is as real as...MBTI. Shots fuckin' fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:48 PM
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Game of Thrones was good/very entertaining up to the part where they ran out of material written by GRRM. Since then it has gotten so bad the last season was legit embarrassing, especially in comparison to earlier seasons. I'm going to finish watching it because I'm invested now, but this is no longer quality TV (mostly due to shit writing) and hasn't been for a few seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:31 PM
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I don't even think this is gullibility. There seem to be 2 dudes in here, including OP, defending the linked 'post' as reflective of some kind of reality. Odds OP, the other Red Piller in here agreeing with him and the author of the linked post are the same person? Very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:29 PM
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Protip for Redpill: If you're going to write anonymous articles for obscure lifestyle websites with no barriers to publishing, or if you're gonna make fake posts on advice or women's issues subreddits in order to then use those articles/posts as 'proof' of various Red Pill tenets, do a better job of not being totally, utterly, 100% completely obvious. It's just embarrassing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:00 PM
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or are you saying that the way we think and what we believe makes us low value men? I'm saying the way some (note: some) men on here (I don't recognize your username and do not necessarily include you in this group) think and believe reveals them as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:07 PM
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I agree and think everyone who worked on that film should be hunted down and executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:03 PM
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women want casual sex more than men Yes. women are less discriminate about their sexual partners than men Yes women find male bodies, in general, more attractive than men find female bodies Not sure I agree that women in some general way find male bodies less attractive then men find female bodies As to the first 2 points, how can we create a situation in which women want casual sex more than men and are less discriminate about who they sleep with - that's easy. This sub is super, super focused …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:58 PM
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i think this is what is being characterized as "women get frigid as soon as that ring's on their finger!" by men who have had especially poor experiences as individuals, and do not have insight into normal or happy relationships. Yes, agreed. I think a lot of the men on here don't realize how thoroughly they give themselves away as basically low value with the way they think and what they believe. Most of the stuff being discussed in this convo isn't about women at all, it's about the men saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 07:32 PM
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I wanna see the RPW answers to this, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:39 AM
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The Red Pill IS the (intellectual, spiritual) lumpenproletariat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:33 AM
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Would you feel the same way about this if you had children (I'm assuming you don't because you didn't mention any)? Two adults I can see, and I would ultimately leave it up to him in that scenario, too. But if we had kids? That would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:29 AM
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Here's the thing. If you're this sensitive to class distinctions, and class consciousness is your primary personality trait, you're almost certainly LMC larping as UMC or UMC larping as UC. Fucking thiiiis. The amount of class posturing/LARPing I see on this sub is so cringe. If you're online dropping UMC/UC class signifiers into convo, you're middle class. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:24 AM
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And he's a youth-digger. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:18 PM
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Red Pill, you looooove "but nature is sexist!" when it suits you, but you haaaaate it when it doesn't. No one arranged for women to carry babies. Feminists didn't do that. Society didn't do that. Your ex wife didn't do that. Nature did that. And now we live in a society that gives a fuck about bodily autonomy (i.e. a society in which forced abortions would be viewed as evil and wrong). So you can't force ladies to have abortions. And what does that mean? It means some babies might be born to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:18 PM
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ALL MEN ARE LITERALLY RAPING, MURDERING THUGS But nobody says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:00 PM
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You sound young! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:57 PM
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I am definitely, in this thread, talking about relationships between older men who are significantly wealthier than their younger/very hot wives. I'm not so much talking about the cute 30 y.o. nurse marrying the 44 y.o. doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:56 PM
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This is def. the realistic way to look at it and if I was one of those rich old men (I'm actually a laydee) I can see myself allowing it (in the interests of keeping hot young wife happy and interested in keeping me happy) but goddamn there would have to be ZERO chance she got caught, or anyone else caught on. Hot young faithful wife is, I suspect, probably rather important to these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:55 PM
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He married a woman who claimed she was attracted to him. And I bet she married a man who claimed his love for her wasn't entirely based on her looks. Come on, let's be real. These relationships would not be occurring if either party wasn't fulfilling their side of the deal. These old rich dudes who want a hot girl on their arm don't marry hideous young women. And hot young women who want to be kept in a certain lifestyle don't marry poor old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:39 PM
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Women acting like this are bad. Women marrying older men for shallow ($$$) reasons are bad. Are older men marrying women for shallow (she's hot af) reasons bad? You're gonna make some excuse here, aren't you? But men are driven to want to be with hot ladies who can have babies!! Well if we're gonna go all straight evo-psych, doesn't that argument also say women are driven to be with rich providers? It's very telling that you see the woman as the evil party in what is actually a straight-up trans…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:34 PM
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A couple of my fantasies would be illegal so I wouldn't want to act those out in case of getting arrested and sent to bad lady jail. Most of my non-vanilla fantasies, actually I'd say pretty much all of them, involve the ever-popular 'rape' fantasy which, as we've discussed before on PPD, wouldn't actually be a rape scenario irl because I want it and me wanting it = not rape by definition. These imaginings involve specific men, specific situations and contexts. That doesn't mean I want a random …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:29 PM
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Look, if you give it some more careful consideration, I think you'll have to agree. You're doing it again. You're doing that thing where if only people took the time to truly think and understand, they would immediately accept that you're right. Except you're not right, and reading through your posts on this thread I think I can say you're a pretty perfect example of specifically what not to do in terms of dealing with the inevitable failings and pain of life. What is it with people like you nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:05 PM
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