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| 6 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videos | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 09:46 PM | |
| 2 | If I try to kiss a girl and she pulls away does that mean I lacked confidence? | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 08:23 PM | |
| 1 | PUA for 6 years and have only kissed a few girls | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 04:41 PM | |
| 1 | daygaming and nightgaming in LA for 9-12 hours a day | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 19/03/16 04:28 PM | |
| 1 | BEST TEXT GAME PUA PRODUCT????? | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 07:58 PM | |
| 1 | Does my style make me look unhygienic or low status? | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:35 AM | |
| 1 | virgin after 15,000 approaches. | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 06:39 PM | |
| 0 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing. | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 04:36 AM | |
| 0 | The only success I've had with girls are when they gave me their number | artjimmerson1 | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 06:38 PM |
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| 1 | How important is behaving culturallyYou have to leave your subjective bias out of this discussion otherwise your emotions will cloud you from succeeding (with the hottest girls) | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How important is behaving culturallyThe goal of life is to survive and replicate Everything we do is to serve this, not some ego of superiority that you cling to Copying those who are successful is something all successful people do | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 06:09 PM |
| -1 | How important is behaving culturallyAlso the elite skills for attracting women are la nyc and vegas club promoters These are guys who's livelihood depend on being what women like, and they can't fake it like a pua can | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 03:46 PM |
| -1 | How important is behaving culturallySnapBack hats and just mimicking the stuff you see young white males do- it shows you're culturally integrated A Clark Kent redpill reddit guy might spend all day lifting and then speak like a professor, probably not good From what I've observed a skinny wigger will beat out a grown man mature guy | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 03:45 PM |
| -2 | Social media has me f'd upi'm not sure about this subs obsession with body i've worked out for 14 years and pretty much have a fight club brad pitt body also i'm living in a 10 million dollar house and i haven't kissed a girl in 8 months--- why? because of how my face looks in la you will see skinny guys who don't workout with pretty girls as long as they have nice faces --- the key to a nice face is full lips and a short distance from the top lip to the nose... this is what is important not how buff you are | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/17 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Preselection is powerfulI have a picture with one of the most famous instagram "models" where she's leaning on me looking like she's into me. But in the picture I am making a goofy/ugly face and don't look good. To test looks vs pre selection I decided to put the picture on Tinder. It didn't do well I got almost no matches wth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 06:11 PM |
| 2 | The reason why some guys don't have confidenceYou're only confident when you're partaking in the skill that you have. If you're confident at playing guitar, then going to a dance club and being confident about your dancing (because you just killed it at guitar earlier that day) is pretty odd. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The reason why some guys don't have confidenceI take the "be yourself" thing too literally. I dont know if you have read any ontology or Sartre but each instant is actually a departure from the self (or the previous self) Imagine if you told a confused 5 year old to be himself. You even put a poster on his wall stating "be your self". And each day he committed himself to staying true to who he was (at 5) You'd eventually have a 70 year old man who was still acting 5 | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The reason why some guys don't have confidenceI'm not sure if you were just using the "shit on you" as an example. No where in my post did I state that the world has treated me badly, though i guess I could see how you could infer as much | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 02:55 AM |
| 8 | The reason why some guys don't have confidenceI dont believe in hobby theory. In fact most really amazing guitar players lack social confidence (I can probably explain why but i won't attempt to here) Most people have something they can do better than the general person, and by most i mean all the people in this reddit forum ect.. it is exceedingly rare to find a person without some skill. Now if you're suggesting that they become 1 percentile or better at that skill then I understand, however the people who are truly elite and dedicate the… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the core fundamentals that allow some guys to have girlfriends and others to not?I've approached around 10,000 women in the past 6 years. Day gaming for 5-6 hours on most days | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successNo he thinks women want him. You're out of your mind with this advice. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI initially started approaching girls with an open mind. I have an indian friend who simply cannot get a cute girl no matter what he does. Its red pill but its reality. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIm missing a masculine face. Facial masculinity is the single most important factor behind this all (its better to be fat with a masculine face than fit with a childish face.) Sexual dimorphism is what drives attraction. Imagine a guy who was 6'0 and ripped but had an 8 year olds face. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Women Are Attracted To Testosterone: A Biological Basis For Shit TestsThese sexual dimorphism threads are always too all or nothing. The hallmark of sexual dimorphism (biologically speaking dimorphism is the ability to discern a persons sex from a distance) is a very long ZZ top beard. Furthermore we are able to inject unlimited amounts of testosterone into our bodies. If Test were what mattered juice-heads would DOMINATE the dating market. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successEvery single time i approach a girl i believe i am brad pitt, otherwise it's impossible to approach. This is why approaching 9's and 10's is hard. If a man truly has low self-esteem he simply will/can not approach. The fact that i continue to do so means that I am confident in myself to some degree | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successTry to remember that most of these youtube guys are trying to sell you something. So when they are being overly enthusiastic they are marketing their products | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI just got back from the bars. My wingman is a guy a lot like David Tee. Often times I will wing him in a set and the girls friend will tell me straight up he has no chance with the girl he likes because shes too "picky" The friends are always right. Do you go out? I question if most of the guys here even go out and have seen the real matrix of bars/clubs and behavior of females who have an abundance of options. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIn a hypergamous society (like ours) being vulnerable confers no advantage. We best compare to tropical birds of paradise in mating habits. Tropical birds of paradise dont rely on vulnerability to appeal to other birds. PS. compare how hot Manson's wife is to Mysterys girls. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successThe best way to guage how attractive you are is to approach about 5 thousand women. That is an enormous sample size. Make a fake tinder account using a male model and act very weird and needy and insecure. You'll see the reality. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI was having fun and offering value. I was bringing girls over to where we were sitting/standing | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successSomething incredibly off about this Jason's guys mannerisms. Not natural at all. Julien from RSD has been doing this crap lately too | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successAt some point I have to start to value my own time. 5 years and doing this every day I could have made a lot of money doing other things. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successLet's keep in mind that after 5 years even a depressed guy should be able to find a girl who is into depressed guys. (or whatever other sticking point that you are pinpointing me to have | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI have a 5'3 indian friend who would do this same stuff. To me it's just a delusional guy trying to make himself feel better and cope with the harsh reality of the dating environment. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:13 PM |
| 0 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successDavid Tee is an old ugly guy who realized that he can't get laid off cold approach because of how he looks (balding) i just read some of the site and hes deluding himself into thinking every day he becomes more attractive since girls love older guys. This is not true. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI'm telling you what i've found out to be true, my word carries some weight given my amount of time doing this stuff. Obviously I would not have spent 5 years looking for X, if I thought X were the truth i would have quit "game" before i ever began. Part of my problem is that i was deluded into believing i could attract the hottest girls if I used the advice of being alpha and positive and independent of outcome ect | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successNo that was just one girl. I don't think they are shallow money chasers at all | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIts the amount of dates that I've gone on where I didn't force it and the girl tweeted afterwards "its always nice to get free meals" she continued using me for free food... Like I said i've done this a long long time. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIm not sure how long you have done game. But I have done it for 5 years as a full time job. I have gone out with different men with different confidence levels and different looks. I have seen the matrix time and time again. I feel like you are being misled by disingenuous people if you truly think that how you look is not the principle factor driving attraction. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successDude I have done this for 5 years. I could teach PUA courses. I am a PRO at this. I just don't ahve the looks to get the quality of woman im interested in. I've gone to bars before, befriended good looking buff guys and then went around and brought over girls to him (he was shy and insecure-ish acting) but im bold and confident so i was bringing over 20+ girls. Every single girl focused her attention on him. Every single one. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successLet me explain to you how much more important looks are then how you make her feel. Let's say you meet a girl somewhere online. And she has not seen your picture or talked to you yet. And you tell her you're interested in her. Whats her first reply before she will hangout with you? "I WANT TO SEE A PICTURE OF YOU". It will never be "I WANT TO HAEV A PHONE CONVERSATION WITH YOU TO SEE HOW YOU MAKE ME FEEL" | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI've gone out so many nights that sometimes im simply in a good mood and sometimes im not. So out of the sheer amount of times I've gone out there have been nights that I was projecting pure positivity. The issue here is that, the few girls that liked me, liked me for my face. (they even told me they were attracted to guys who had my small/skinny guy appeal) and it didnt matter if i was negative or positive to these girls. They liked my face and it didn't matter what my body language or mental s… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successThere is something called physiognomy that deals with this concept. You should read into it. Essentially if you walk like the baddest MFer in the room but are 4'11 and look very weird then people will hate you more than if you were simply 4'11 and shy and nice. What physiognomy highlights is the fact that people want you to ACT like how you LOOK. If you don't it gives major red alerts to their mind that something is wrong here. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 06:01 PM |
| 0 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successMark Manson, in his book, says the 2 most important things any guy can do is F and F. Fashion and fitness. He got it half right, he was basically admitting that looks are the number one most important thing, however he failed to quantify the importance of face, namely bone structure of the face. The reason Manson had success is the same reason Max Tucker had so much success.. They both have enormous jaws, and are white and average everywhere else. A huge jaw is the biggest indicator of sexual di… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successNo because this is post-date analytical behavior. I dont exhibit these qualities while with a girl. Im very playful and teasing. I videos if you'd like to add me on skype. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successI'm not a victim and im not a below average man. The issue here is that above average women are the most powerful creatures on earth. A girl above an 8 can simply have hot millionare guys pay for their entire life (until they lose attractiveness) | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successMark Mansons models, RSD, Mystery method (best success), Justin Wayne, Goodlookingloser | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successhttp://i216.photobucket.com/albums/cc86/xztop123/IMG_1141_zpsih51d4ml.jpg I train an hour a day 5 days a week. Im not half-assing this, i do EVERYTHING in my power to improve my odds. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:52 PM |
| -1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successEvery single scientific study done on dating and women has shown that facial sexual dimorphism is ALWAYS favored when a female is ovulating (wanting sex) it's no surprise that guys with little dimorphism (Micheal Cera) are cast to play roles in hollywood of guys who cant find girls. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successWhat about the times I've gotten into a social circle (friend of the girls friends) and made a move on the girl i liked in the social circle and her telling me that my FACE is simply not what she looks for in a guy? | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successThe issue is that I did what the guy suggests for the first 24 years of my life with also no success. I was extremely popular in HS. Still 0 lays. I'm just using "lays" as a barometer for success. Sex is not my goal, my goal is to share life experiences with someone. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successWeird advice. Certainly deluding myself with positivity would make me feel better, but should not necessarily change my results. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:36 AM |
| 3 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successNo pimples should make me a stud | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successExcuses? I'm summerizing why I think im failing to a guy who asked. I didn't offer my excuses outright. after 5 years I can state plausible explinations given that it is strange to incur an activity for so long with such little to show for it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:50 AM |
| -2 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIts my chin IMO--- facial bones and I give the vibe of a young kid(undeveloped face structure) I've spent Hours and hour sand hours i've posted on about 20 message boards. Infields of me, pictures of me... ect. I have gone out with top level rsd instructors. I have spent more time in game than most people on this planet including PUA instructors. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosApproaching women won't necessarily build EQ is what im saying. A guy who is spam approaching RSD style with odd routines won't do well. You need to WATCH someone who is successful. At the very least that could isolate some variables and we could get to the bottom of what causes attraction. (what I mean by isolating variables- is that if every single guy used the exact same "game" then we'd be able to figure out just how important LMS truly is.) | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosI just said they are the same | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosI don't they are synonymous. Personally I believe going in-field with poor EQ will lead to the aforementioned "bad ideas" of LMS or unworthiness. Because you CAN be conditioned to expect rejection. Because confidence is the expectation of a positive result, it can be de-implemented if there are continued failures. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosER had extremely poor social intelligence. If you heard him speak he sounded like he was isolated for the better part of his life and probably also had some kind of mental illness(simply because of the way he spoke, not in retrospect of his actions) What about the examples of the guys that believe LMS isn't that major and who go out 5 days a week and approach thousands of women for years with minimal success? | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosThis is a very good point. Unlearning what things though? NOT APPROACHING a girl might be a form of emotional intelligence given that it is socially frowned upon in some circumstances. But I guess when I use the term im talking about direct communication aspects of EQ. Like speaking patterns, eye contact, and body language.. As humans we are better at copying successful people than we are at taking information and implementing it (in a social arena) | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosIm suggesting that watching infields of guys talking to girls on youtube is better than reading about pickup. Because emotional intelligence is learned from WATCHING humans interact. Emotional Int is an interesting subject that you should explore. There are a few good TEDtalks on it. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosget over the bar by flapping your arms like wings and blowing really hard towards the ground to get lift, instead of properly using the pole. N So in this scenario, PUA's who focus on improving their looks money and status are the pole vaulters flapping their arms in an attempt to fly? | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosI dont think your world view impacts success in a great way. FOr instance there are tons of successful nihilist type guys in the work place that do better than the guys with positive world views. there are even examples of top level athletes who didnt enjoy what they did. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosThe good PUA's have it half right when they tell you to stop reading about game and get out into the field. --- there is a caveat because you might have poor emotional intelligence and women won't teach you masculine EQ. The REAL way is to go out in the field, and have a guy who is very good with women to watch. It would be even better to have him as a roomate and see him up close. Watching other guys do infield videos is good too | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The REASON why game can't be learned over books/forums and is better learned in person / videosThat sounds correct but its a little vague, specific example? Im talking about videos of watching guys actually interact with girls. | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Does my style make me look unhygienic or low status?The amiugly forum is a different group of people. I wanted a perspective from guys who seduce. Also I touched up some things since that previous post on amiugly | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Does my style make me look unhygienic or low status?Im not terribly worried, i game and run direct approach anywhere anyplace anytime. I just notice that less girls give me IOI who are upper class, the type with gucci purses and stuff. Most everyone harps on how important looking neat is, so im asking if i have that covered | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionYes sluthate is just a bunch of guys saying dumb things and looking for evidence to back it up that "girls only want 10/10 guys!!!!" i go out and i people watch enough to see whos getting the types of girls I want. You seem cool can I pm you and exchange skypes? I enjoy skype calling people who are likeminded and have sifted through the various odd forums | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.I have a friend who is a magician (very great crowd control and social savvy) Above average looking guy but a little short. He studies PUA for years and goes out all the time. He recently did steroids and told me it helped him more than PUA ever did. The only assumption I can make is that he wasn't implementing quality PUA. In my personal opinion doing routine based PUA is really should be the focus. I know its antiquated but thats the only real advantage it confers | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionI agree. Now which places are best to ask for looks related advice? I know sluthate but a lot of these guys are from different countries or are otherwise fairly shut-in as far as going out is concerned. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.There is no such thing as a master PUA. PUA is a numbers game. Thats like saying someone is a master at winning powerball because they buy a lot of tickets. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionGetting laid isn't hard. I FULLY believe that if you address the proper "game" and self-improvement ideas that you can get laid with a girl about roughly-to slightly below your own looks status (value) What Im talking about is guys with wild hair and odd looking mustaches like me approaching 9.5 / 10 girls who are walking around with Gucci purses ect ect. Realistically no amount of game, charisma, and self-actualization will allow that to happen. Even if I had social proof | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionI go out all the time. I have friends I've amogged professional NFL football players before. I've gone out and spam approached and befriended every guy in a bar many many times. | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionTyler and Todd are both above average masculine white guys. When I say good looking I mean masculine -- ability to grow a full beard and having sufficient jaw projection and skeletal development. An issue here is that most people don't properly know how to judge looks. Few people do. Google some of Nathan Marquardt and Mike Mew if you're interested in learning more. THE BEST COUNTER ARGUMENT would be that the good looking guys are confident because OTHER MEN validated them earlier on (good looki… | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Looks arent a big factor in attractionNo. But this is pure speculation regardless. I go off what I see | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.I see IOI's as approach invites. I am able to operate with complete translucency--- If im feeling ugly one day I can approach a 5 set of hot girls and talk to them about how I dislike my nose and chin and tell them i am considering plastic surgery --- this can be viewed as Extreme confidence or extreme insecurity.. regardless it's honest communication. I am not basing my "insecurities" on anything delusional. Or any pre-conceived notion of how the world works. It's based on the guys I see with t… | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 07:46 PM |
| -2 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.Incorrect. Most young men, especially athletes and "hip hop" culture people have strong core. I have met many and they are completely oblivious to self-scrutiny. If you spend any time in a bar/club or just people watching in general around colleges you'll see that having a strong masculine core is the "norm". | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 03:29 PM |
| -2 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.This is pure delusion and a great way to have security called on you. Just walking up and approaching girls who don't look at you OR WORSE--- who completely AVOID looking at you by faking a text or having an otherwise completely disinterested face. | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 02:45 PM |
| -2 | Been daygaming for a few years. Lately the IOI;s have been diminishing.I've been doing this for years though. I have a PUA instructor level of sets under my belt. I've run probably 5 -10 thousand sets, ballpark figure.. I have over 900 numbers in my phone.. Just to give an idea of the scale of this. Now back to my original point. I always ask the girls I am successful with what they liked about me. And afterwards they tell me --- THEY LIKED HOW I LOOKED. (this is always the case) Another thing i've gained over the years is a very keen sense of people watching (sarg… | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | AMA - Chris Bale, Masculine IntentAnytime I try to use masculine intent I am called a "fuckboy" by girls (they only tell me in retrospect when I ask them why I was not given a second date) "fuckboy" is a term used to denote a guy who is a player. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:01 AM |
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