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| 1 | the "I just got out of the shower" text messageI get a lot of these from girls! I think it’s their seduction technique! I talk to a lot of girls from tinder and mostly Adult Friend Finder and I get a lot of these messages! I usually respond with “No invite? Jk”. I think girls tend to say this to seduce you. They know that we have an imaginable mind! What else would you think of if you get that kind of message right? So, just try to joke around or hit them up with a line. Works all the time. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | What is seddit?We are people who are having trouble socializing and putting ourselves out there. We give advice on how to be confident on how to pick up girls, how to properly use hookup apps (Tinder, POF, Adult Friend Finder), how to pick up girls at the bar, how to look more appealing to women. Etc. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Well, just put a decent photo there, and also photos of you doing your hobbies (not the weird ones!) And invest in your bio! Make it relatable and not too braggy. Girls want decent guys! I tried out all of the other popular dating apps and I've had the most luck on Tinder and POF for relationships and Adult Friend Finder for finding hookups and I think mostly it's because of my bio and not my profile photo (I’m not that good looking). I had a bunch of dates and hookups there. And also, start wit… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The ButtAwesome tips! I agree! I’m an introvert and started on this hookup app called Adult Friend Finder and some of these lines are the ones I used to kick off the conversation! It’s pretty simple but it works! I was able to go on multiple dates and hookups because of those! Cheers brotha! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Coach Mark Sing, anyone ever heard of him?Programs like these are a waste of money! Programs like these are alright and everything but I tried out all of the other popular dating apps and I've had more luck on Bumble and eHarmony for relationships and Adult Friend Finder for finding hookups. Overall, you are looking to hook up or be in a relationship! There are also a lot of women out there in dating apps looking for one! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Any thoughts on The F-Formula (Marni Wing Girl) ?Don’t spend money! Not worth it! Podcasts or advices like that are alright and everything but I tried out all of the other popular dating apps and I've had more luck on Bumble and eHarmony for relationships and Adult Friend Finder for finding hookups. If that’s what you are aiming for! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Should you leave girls on read if they send a message that doesn't require an answer?Girls are really complicated. They leave us messages that don’t typically need an answer and expect us to respond. I met this girl on Adult Friend Finder, a hookup app. We had a great daily conversation at first, then suddenly, she sent a message that didn’t need a response from me, so I left it on read, a few days I sent her a message again asking why I haven’t heard from her. She was a little upset that I left her on read! So I explained why. She understood but it was really confusing for me. … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Tip for people going to HawaiiThe best advice for hooking up when you are on vacation is to download a dating app!! I used to find a lot more hookups on Tinder, but the last year or two it has gotten a lot worse and harder on Tinder to hook up for me, I tried a couple of popular apps like Bumble/Hinge, they are good but the best one I have used for hookups is Adult Friend Finder by far. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Any advice to seduce older women?.Well first, some bars or clubs caters to older women, you can try there. Also, I have this milf fetish and what worked for me was going to Adult Friend Finder. It’s a hookup app that caters to different fetishes. I find that Tinder, Bumble, and eHarmony are good for dating and finding relationships and Adult Friend Finder is good for hookups, milfs, and fetishes. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Cool Seduction StoriesI met this girl on this hookup app called Adult Friend Finder. We naturally had a good conversation. We didn’t really talk about dirty stuff, most of them are harmless. Then we went out on a date. We had dinner around the corner. She has this nasty smile but I was trying to block that idea. After a few glasses of wine, she then handed me something from across the table before she went to the ladies' room. It was her panties! I was shocked and had an intense boner and I really didn’t know what to… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Review: RSD Las Vegas Immersion/Bootcamp with RSD LukeDoes this actually work? I’m having confidence problems. I am only able to do hookups from hookup apps (Tinder, POF, Adult Friend Finder). Since we get to chat first without the awkwardness of seeing their face, I sound confident. But when I’m trying to pick up girls at the club, I’m lame, will his program help me with my issue? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | I have a tip for you. Before going, go to r/dirtypenpals and look at the female submissions there... Stay with me.Not all women are satisfied, they are afraid of judgment! If you have ever been to hookup apps like Adult Friend Finder, you’ll get to know how sexually deprived women are. Since it’s online and it focuses on hookups only, girls there is straight the point! They will tell you what they really want to be done to them! Their profile might seem like this perfect untouched girl type but once you get to talk to them, it's completely the opposite! So yeah, everyone has a nasty side! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate hooking up at a house party?First, initiate a good conversation! Girls don’t just usually jump in and hook up! I remember when my friend invited this girl over to our house party, it was a girl that he met from this online hookup app Adult Friend Finder, she was really shy and introverted the entire time! My friend didn’t know what to do but I got this feeling that she was scared or something, I told my friend to initiate a fun conversation, ask about her, and make her feel comfortable. Then initiate physical contact by ho… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Tinder allows you to download your stats. What are yours?Tinder's algorithm is really messed up. I used it before and I only got a few matches. I think it had something to do with my bio. I got annoyed with all of these things that Tinder does, I moved on and better success with Bumble, Hinge, and eHarmony for dating and relationships but also use Adult Friend Finder when I am looking for a hookup. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How important is it that a girl asks you questions about yourself?Girls ask a lot of questions in general! Plus, it's better that they ask because if they don’t, they are not interested! That’s what I’ve learned from years of talking to girls on online dating sites. The more they ask questions, the more the conversation lasts and it ends up as a date or a hookup! Usually, when it's only me who’s asking questions, the conversation just ends in a snap. I ended up having more success on Bumble and POF for dating and relationships and Adult Friend Finder has been … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, Is Being Called a Dork a Good Thing?Female here. Being called a dork is not bad! Unless it’s said in a bad tone. Generally, when we call someone a dork, it’s more like us saying you look interesting or you seem like a good guy. To be honest I am on a lot of dating sites and I prefer to swipe right on dorks. Dating sites and bars are full of fuckboys and a dorky guy, for us, seems like a guy who will treat us better. I've had more success getting dates on Tinder, Bumble, and eHarmony when looking for a relationship. For hookups, Ad… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | GranniesBro, no judgment here. We all have different fetishes. Maybe try to talk to a female friend? Women are more understanding, they might hook you up with one. Also, there are gilfs on online dating sites! Believe it or not! Just try to change the age range to the max lol, whatever your age limit is. Adult Friend Finder is good for hookups, milfs, and fetishes. You might find some there! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | "Let women come to you" how tho?Well, becoming a better man comes in different ways. Women are looking for men who are not boys acting like jerks. And of course, you have to look presentable. If your goal is to let women come to you, my advice is you create an online dating profile. Put all your best photos there and a good bio too. There are a lot of women out there who are also seeking men. I find that Tinder, Bumble, and eHarmony are good for dating and finding relationships and Adult Friend Finder is good for hookups, milf… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.That’s what I do on tinder too! I usually skip on bio’s that only have their Instagram or Snapchat account username. They are usually accounts that just use Tinder to gain followers. I don't use Tinder anymore though. I tried out all of the other popular dating apps and I've had the most luck on Bumble and POF for dating and relationships and Adult Friend Finder has been the best for finding hookups. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | 7 Proven Tips to Last Longer in BedNice, I thought most of the 7 tips were pretty good advice. For me, the biggest factor is just having consistent sex. In-between relationships I like to have hookups on the regular to keep that consistency going so Adult Friend Finder has been the best for me to find hookups/NSA/FWB, which helps me last longer because I get used to it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI feel the same way too. Most of the time I get scared when men approach me out of the blue. It just seems scary. I am more comfortable if there is a casual conversation. It just feels safer, like you have a common ground. To be honest, I am a fan of online dating sites. I usually talk to them for a long time before meeting up with them. Of course, I also check their profiles to see if I’m not being scammed or if I’m in any sort of danger. Tinder and eHarmony have been good for regular dating, f… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate physicality when watching a movie at home with a girl you're interested in?Ya sometimes your instincts just take over and then you look back and go "that was perfect, how did I do that?!" LOL I pulled this girl off of Adult Friend Finder, we were watching a movie and I put my hand on her leg, she looked at me like "what are you doing?" I lightly slapped her thigh and said (confidently, but jokingly) "I do what I want" and put my hand back on her leg. She laughed and put her hand on my hand. Later that night we banged. So I would say, when you go in with some moves, be … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact is incredibly important.I agree. I’m an introvert so looking at people’s eyes is not really comfortable for me. But when I tried it, it happened to work! Although my story is, I started to get comfortable with talking to girls online first before I went on pick up girls at bars. I am not really that confident so I had to build it up through online dating. I tried out all of the other popular dating apps and I've had the most luck on Tinder and POF for relationships and Adult Friend Finder for finding hookups. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Easiest way to hook up in a club with minimal/no conversingYou have to talk to them. Pretty hard to pick them up without talking unless you look like Hercules or something. The closest thing I have ever gotten to "minimal/no conversing" though is using Adult Friend Finder. That is because then women on there are there for one reason. There are not a ton on there like Tinder but the ones that are on there are DTF and very receptive to guys on there. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | The best seduction books (you probably haven't read)Nice list, thanks. I'll have to check those out. I've read a good amount of books on the subject and have always found that they work okay on regular dating sites like Tinder, POF, Bumble etc. but I have had the best luck applying this stuff on Adult Friend Finder, I guess because it is more oriented towards hookups, FWB, NSA. There are not as many women on there as the biggest dating sites like Tinder but the ones that are on there are way more receptive towards me picking them up. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How to aproach a Milf at the gym?To not psych myself out, mentally I just start a conversation normally as if it were not a hot Milf. It comes off more natural than "trying to hit on her" style. the convo could be about anything. Starting off by joking / teasing is always good and crack a little grin and make eye contact. The gym is decent but I have had far more luck just going on to Adult Friend Finder, it is especially good for picking up Milf's. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:12 PM |
| – | PSA: Hinge is the best dating appI had a great time on Hinge too! I agree that they have way hotter girls! Hinge and Adult Friend Finder is on top of my list! Especially if you are looking for hookups only! Bumble and Tinder on the other hand are more on relationship type. People on Hinge and Adult Friend Finder are straight to the point which makes it more fun! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:12 PM |
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