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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Porn is SO normalized There is currently a post on the women sub where someone asked if they care if their partner watches porn. The responses are nauseating. One woman stated that while she too is uncomfortable with it, that women will be hard pressed to find a man who doesn’t, and even if he says he doesn’t, he’s likely lying and going to hide it. Why are some women so toxic with things like this? There is zero need to put it in someone’s head that their partner is lying to them. I’m baffled.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 05:14 PM
241	Porn is SO normalized Yet we are “insecure” when we feel this way. Along with the many women who don’t see it as an issue who make us look “crazy” and the many men who tell us that our s/o is lying if he says he doesn’t watch it. I’ve been very fixated on this issue lately and don’t see how to find a man who truly does not watch.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 01:13 PM
1	FDS is NOT categorically against OLD. In the topic of OLD, I’m curious how others broach the subject of not being okay with porn use. Do you spell it out in your profile? Mention it after talking? After a date? I’ve struggled with the conversation and timing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 03:37 AM
11	A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of porn Ugh. I feel the same way. I just expressed my feelings regarding porn use while in a relationship and the guy was not willing to not watch. How do others even broach the topic? Is there a right time to bring it up? Before meeting? After a couple dates? I didn’t want to waste this guy’s time or my own. But damn it makes me feel so shitty that a guy would rather continue watching other people have sex than be in a relationship and have the real thing. He was respectful about it, and honest, but st…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/21 09:15 PM

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