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| 44 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)Didn’t he also tell some other girl he loved her too? Like idk the L word actually means something to me but not to LVM I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:56 PM |
| -4 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)Virginia doesn’t claim her 😤😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 24 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.A) this sounds like incel bait to make people rage about how women get it so easy or whatever because apparently it’s so so so easy for us to go into sex work B) objectively veterinarians do not have the highest suicide rate, it’s actual physicians. I call BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 46 | I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviourI have a friend like this. Meanwhile he abuses her every other way but she sticks to him like glue because of her past trauma. Just because he isn’t actively raping you doesn’t mean he’s a good guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 01:55 PM |
| 24 | "I think the golden rule for men should be: If you're a man, don't say anything to a woman that you wouldn't want a man to say to you." There, fixed it. Location doesn't matter. #WomenArePeopleToo #WomenArePeopleNotResourcesBecause they know it won’t happen and they know that 99% of the time they’ll get away with it and society will cheer them on for their supposed virility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Idk I don’t go on much so just from what I’ve seen they’ve called out incels which is more than most subs can say. I mostly hang out on here and my university sub, thanks for the correction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:26 PM |
| 68 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Yup. You have subs like r/sex which I consider to be well moderated and relatively female friendly. But tou get posts where some young girl is discussing how no man has ever gotten her to orgasm or a man asking for advice on How to please a woman and even though most are supportive and advocate for things like she comes first there’s always folks that are like ‘HiS OrGaSm Is EqAlLy ImPoRtANt!’ It’s like yeah, sex should be mutually pleasurable but it’s way harder to get off as a woman. Give me a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 26 | A (male) professor admitted he never had any intention of learning his wife's first tongueMy dad is a Greek guy and my mom is Chinese (and I am fluent in Chinese.) While he definitely can’t speak fluently he can understand key words and phrases and has made genuine effort to connect with my mom’s side. It’s shameful when they can’t even put forward a modicum of effort. I would argue Chinese is harder to learn than some of the other languages mentioned in this thread, like Spanish, honestly it’s just effort. You can tell if they’re HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Man writes letter to wife expecting her to mindread his desires and threatening to cheat because she’s so busy caring for THEIR child that she is too tired to have sex. Pathetic.This makes me sick to my stomach. This is my worst fear- that I’ll work and take care of the little one and my husband will be there not doing shit (as much as he says he does) and ogling other women because I’m ‘not as sexy’ after the baby or too tired from providing and taking care of the family. Men have it so. Damn. Easy. Their lives are all worries about sex and video games. They expect no real world responsibilities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 42 | Young woman is uncomfortable with her boyfriend being close to past sex partners and of course /relationships shames her for it.I would not qualify having sex at parties like that and crazy orgies as normal. Most guys I know don’t do that. It’s normal for both men and women to have a few sexual partners in a lifetime but certainly not crazy ass parties like that. W.T.F. I don’t blame her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 54 | Women are restricted in self expression. Wdyt?Talking about exactly this the other day. Society doesn’t like tou unless you’re bubbly, flamboyant, flirty, and dumb. A smart, funny woman? Someone who has sass? Someone who’s serious and driven? Forget about it. You’re not dateable to most. It’s frustrating. I don’t want to give up my dreams for people to like me, and I won’t, but goddamn does society make me feel like I should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 6 | 90% of men have trash double standards. Also, never tell a man that you “understand why he’s insecure” and proceed to let him hurt you. There are no excusesDefinitely incel troll, don’t believe a word of this. This didn’t happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:15 AM |
| 89 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Exactly. There were some saying that the age of consent is okay at 16, etc. That I was being uptight and a girl could consent then. It’s like where does this stop? Where does this stop being a justification of ‘mature’ teenagers and start being a defense of paedophilia? I’m sorry, as a college RA and a mentor to many young girls I just can’t see a good reason for a 21 year old man to be sleeping with a 17 year old. Legal or not, it’s not right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 26 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outLuckily I am young, so I have time to bounce back and learn. I have all my 20s to learn how to date! And yeah your friend gave good advice. Mine didn’t, which ended up in my embarrassment. Catch me never doing that again. Yeah I can’t tell your English from a native speaker and honestly you write better than most folks online who ARE native speakers. You’re doing great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 39 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Should’ve commented on his dick. ‘Haha yea! Your body is perfect too, just wish your dick was bigger. What? It’s a joke!’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 167 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.People were calling him out for sleeping with a girl so young in the comments at least. R/sex usually isn’t too bad, they deal with shaming quickly and are pretty equitable toward female posters (though a lot of concerning pick mes on there.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 182 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI made this mistake. It was humiliating and pathetic and will not be repeated again . It is against nature for a woman to chase a man and I have learned that now. I am focusing on my own self improvement, developing my own skills, hobbies, and career. If a man finds that attractive, he’s more than welcome to ask me out but I am not falling into the trap they’re putting out now about how women should ask. Men are becoming pathetic - they should not expect us to do all the heavy lifting, the askin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 73 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.Yeah I’m very comfortable in my ‘feminine.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 12 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?Nah I found this cause she was posting it on twitter saying it was cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 116 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?I know folks off this sub will look at this post and criticize me for being mean or unable to take a joke. But is it too much to ask for a man to do something special for our anniversary because he loves me and wants me to be happy, not because he wants me to buy him a PS5? Why has the world come to love being merely transactional? Because in the same way I would hope anything romantic I do for him would make him feel happy and loved, not like he has to reciprocate with some nonsense thing I wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 56 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?If my man expects me to buy him his PS5 because he can’t, that’s an issue... because I’m buying mine for myself with MY money. Yeesh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 65 | He would consider HIS OWN CHILD to be a toothless ratNgl I kind of had an aneurysm reading his texts, who tf spells scary scarey? Guy like him shouldn’t father kids, he might make them stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 7 | Love her content so much! It really is putting all those level up lessons into words. Wonderful viewpoint from a wonderful woman!Her lips are absolutely flawless and her makeup is on point... empress quality here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 71 | Love her content so much! It really is putting all those level up lessons into words. Wonderful viewpoint from a wonderful woman!She is so pretty what 😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 14 | Dude, just say that you hate women and move on.He’s 42 and thinks this is funny? Seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: It is Okay to not be OkayHeavy is the head that wears the crown 👑🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 17 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsThis article made me delete my dating apps just now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingWow very similar.. I was originally going to do neuroscience but I switched to human biology and am doing my capstone in immunology. Are you doing public health work or is it more wet lab based? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingThis is kind of side related but I can see you’re a science queen from the name. Keep up the neuroscience future PhD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 15 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.The worst part is that the post got voted not suffer worthy enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 39 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchI went and read it, wow, somebody needs to take a chill pill and recall how to write like an adult... referencing dragon dildos on an adult sub seems like a childish thing to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 28 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchWait what happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 614 | This was empowering to watch. If you aren’t getting what you deserve, dump his ass!!The good thing is that she is acknowledging her feelings as valid. She knew it was the right decision but doesn’t feel guilty for feeling upset- and she’s permitting herself to feel bad but maintain her stance. This is really important- I feel like a lot of people are told that if they leave a toxic person the only thing they should be allowed to feel is happy. And that’s not true, especially if you’re emotionally invested in someone. You will feel sad. Acknowledging those feelings as valid but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 16 | And this, ladies, is why education is fundamental, and porn is not educational.I could tell he was incel when he told her not many pretty girls game. I hate the stereotype that girls do not play video games and if they do they’re fat and ugly. Such bullshit. Such ‘I don’t talk to anyone outside of my male DOTA group’ mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 60 | Males who support trad gender roles don't get to complain when they get findom-ed [Findom = financial domination by a female]Men are like 85% more likely to cheat (I read this on a study I found a few years back, if I find it I’ll link it) if they are stay at home dads in order to escape what they perceive to be emasculation. You can’t win either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....How is wanting to find a guy who loves me and treats me right, and I in turn will love and treat him right misandrist? Almost everyone here has been in a relationship and a majority don’t hate men. At least I don’t. MGTOW glorifies stripping rights from women and dehumanizing them. We just want to, I don’t know, not get sent dick pics unsolicited. Sounds like people are just conflating things they don’t understand. Or a MGTOW knows how bad they are but wants to say well there’s others like us to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | YOUNG COLLEGE GIRL NEEDING ADVICE: How to start dating (never had a real thing before) without falling into PickMe traps?Yeah that’s why you don’t see many married doctor couples. The lifestyle is also not super conducive to it either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 11 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.But Jesus wouldn’t look at porn and then lie to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | YOUNG COLLEGE GIRL NEEDING ADVICE: How to start dating (never had a real thing before) without falling into PickMe traps?I do want kids at some point so I don’t have the luxury men do of waiting so long. Congrats to your brother though it’s a big achievement! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 14 | YOUNG COLLEGE GIRL NEEDING ADVICE: How to start dating (never had a real thing before) without falling into PickMe traps?Absolutely not. I’m going to fucking med school. Nobody is worth that. And yeah most guys my age want hookups only :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:50 PM |
| 30 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.Yes but the point being a man would fuck anything, including a monkey, if he deemed it sexy enougj | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 6 | YOUNG COLLEGE GIRL NEEDING ADVICE: How to start dating (never had a real thing before) without falling into PickMe traps?No, no drinking. I’m an RA and I want to keep my job. Also unless I’m drinking wine with food alcohol tastes bad. Thanks for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 45 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.Two SEXY monkeys ftfy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 47 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.I’m okay with growing a beard to cover flaws, it shows they give a damn on how they look. Also I love beards on men - I think they’re really manly. That being said, this guy just looks unkempt. Like.. take care of yourself. Just because you don’t have to shave for weeks at a time doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take care of your facial hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 138 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.He hasn’t cut his hair and beard in what looks like years but probably expects her legs, underarms, and genitals to be 100% clean shaven or he would refuse to touch her because she would be ‘unnaturally disgusting’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 9 | YOUNG COLLEGE GIRL NEEDING ADVICE: How to start dating (never had a real thing before) without falling into PickMe traps?Thank you for sharing your experience! I do think that I want to date a bit but I do not intend to lose sight of my goals. Thank you for your insight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | women can’t have meaningful platonic relationships with anyone because they’re women?It’s MGTOW. Only the lowest of the low go there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 30 | "be my baby machine" 🤮🤢Love is just enough is code word for I can’t provide and we will struggle, but this fairytale idea of love getting us by will sustain us until we get fed up and file for divorce. And baby machine? Cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:17 PM |
| 12 | So... I guess I'm now truly part of the community 🤷🏽♀️He angry you didn’t want to put up with nonsense from a virgin who didn’t want a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 63 | Queen shittytYeah, prince Andrew, child rapist POS. I hate them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 116 | Queen shittytI know this is super unpopular but I really dislike the royal family. Bunch of idiots who have never had to work for anything and can get anything they want because some dusty law deemed them royalty. Sexual deviants and uneducated riding on the British tax dollar. I can care less about their scandals or their children or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 7 | behold this person unwittingly doing us a favor. keep helping us spread the word, by all means!That’s how I found this sub! Someone was pissing and moaning about it on a relationship sub as man hating. I was skeptical so I checked it out and found that there was some good stuff on here. I stayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 47 | A true catchDid this guy have a stroke and a tonic clinic seizure while writing this? Also, reads like incel nonsense. Girls don’t want me cuz I’m fat... newsflash, 70% of america is fat. If fat guys couldn’t get laid we’d have a serious problem. It’s your shitty personality and entitlement. Get a grip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:11 PM |
| 59 | makes logical sensedid u cum? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 24 | makes logical senseAnd I OOP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Wait what? How do only losers work out? To me the most successful people balance working out with their work schedules. I strive to be like those people. Tf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:49 AM |
| 18 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Level up queen! And ughhh... there’s a reason I would NEVER touch a guy who smokes weed/juuls with a 10 ft pole. They’re usually losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:07 AM |
| 23 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?I think it depends. I see a lot of women around that age let themself go too, but I think statistically it’s easier to find a woman who looks good at that age than it is a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Omg same girl I’m on the last 10 lbs. I recommend eating at maintenance for a week or so - that helped me and I managed to break my plateau. Good luck you got this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 41 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?It is objectively much harder for men to gain weight, and easier for them to lose. They have a higher metabolism, more testosterone to build muscle, and thus capacity to eat more. Men are not recommended to go below 15-1800 when partaking in CICO. That’s more than I could eat to maintain my weight if sedentary. Men have to go to much more extreme lengths to gain weight than women do - and society villainizes women for what their bodies are more inclined to do. While I understand what you’re sayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:58 PM |
| 95 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?The worst part is that he probably thinks he’d be punching down with her - that he’s much better looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 19 | Some clownery I found in the wild on Insta. If you were in this situation, would you stay or not?Bet you that guy felt so damn slick when he was having the affair too. Thought he was a man’s man, bragged about it to his friends, he was banging TWO women and neither knew the better. That he’s having more sex than he could fathom. Bullshit he feels bad and that he wants forgiveness. He’s loving this ego stroke and is dumping this baby on his wife. Piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 36 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Agreed. Look good, feel good, do good for YOU. Not for anyone else, especially not some guy who couldn’t give two shits if you live or die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 148 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Oh and did I forget to mention? Women are VILLIFIED for being overweight. A man can get away with being fat unless he’s like morbidly obese, and people will still boost his confidence and tell him he looks good. But god forbid you gain 20 lbs after carrying a baby and DH doesn’t find you sexy anymore. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionIdk but I will say it’s really hard opening up and asking for advice about your own dating failures only to be invalidated and mocked because of your gender. It’s hard to put it into perspective when you have someone attacking your character when you’re in an already very vulnerable place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 17 | Djungelskog wouldn’t cheat on me though 😤😤I checked and he’s sold out and I’m actually really sad rn 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Why is the bar so low for men in the states?Yeah, this. They think the guy is default a weirdo because he’s dating an Asian woman and that really only speaks to the ingrained racism and anti race mixing that we have in society. It’s perfectly normal and honestly really refreshing to be attracted to and in love with someone who isn’t exactly homogenous to your racial group! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 16 | Why is the bar so low for men in the states?Ah yes... the Asian women are subservient thing... I come from a family full of Asian women (my grandmother escaped Maoist China with four sisters) and i would describe them as the opposite of subservient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 32 | Why is the bar so low for men in the states?But don’t necessarily write off an interracial couple! I fucking HATE white guys who fetishized Asian women (as an Asian woman who has experienced it herself) but we should remember there are healthy interracial couples and celebrate their diversity! I am a byproduct of one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 42 | Tinder is trash. but I guess I'm just posting the obvious... .6% matches😆😅😂🤣🤣People don’t acknowledge this but men tend to swipe ‘up’ on people - where they swipe on people who are far more beautiful/attractive than them. While that’s fine, there is a theorem in psychology that does suggest that people of equal attractiveness tend to gravitate toward one another - this tends to go out the window with online dating because you are no longer seeing the person attached to the image. Women on the other hand will swipe not only for looks but also personality - if you’re funny… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 94 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionYeah, this. You virtually cannot be female and post about dating issues on r/dating_advice because you’d get downvoted and get told by a bunch of men that women can’t have dating problems, not like men, not like them, poor ugly virgins, that men would fuck any woman that comes along so there must be something wrong with you if you’re single, you must be fat, crazy, ugly, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 34 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldDo men want daughters? I usually am under the impression that they prefer boys, especially if they’re LVM. And I’m sorry about what happened with your dad. Your mom sounds amazing :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:15 PM |
| 27 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldI read through the comments and appears to be a troll, thankfully. But honestly this is a horrible thing if it is true. I bet he wouldn’t be so harsh it it was a son and not a daughter... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it.Nah I’ve seen some women get nasty too about wearing a mask. It’s less of a man vs woman thing and more of an IQ test tbh. Just wear a fucking mask, I promise your freedom isn’t being compromised and you don’t look weak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Okay? You did something amazing for yourself? But a marriage is a partnership and a commitment for us both?She’s a gold digger if she’s not pleased I’m paying off my own loans!!!! Like that’s good for your life! Not hers! It’s bare minimum to get her a ring, if have 70k I’m sure you’re doing well enough to buy her something nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Wow, I just love women's nAtuRaL beaUtyHonestly I don’t want to slut shame anyone. It’s time for society - especially American society - to recognize sex as a healthy, normal and natural thing for both men and women, and treat it as the beautiful and intimate act it is, rather than a method to get off or exert power. European countries have a much better attitude toward sex imo (like how people acknowledge the female orgasm exists.) I think sex for both men and women is much better with someone you care about deeply, and we should pu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 48 | Wow, I just love women's nAtuRaL beaUtyThat’s false. There was a study (I believe by Cornell?) that found there is no difference in libido and visual arousal between men and women. The idea and excuse that men are more sexual and thus less likely to control themselves is something societally ingrained. Women are just as sexual and just as desirous of sex as men but are socialized for repression and feelings of guilt about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?I am not OP but I needed to read this today. I am a young woman in my early 20s deathly afraid of dying alone. Maybe I shouldn’t be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 11 | Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒He doesn’t know the difference between you’re and your I think he has bigger problems than gold diggers using him for a free meal... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 7 | It does NOT fucking matter WHY he's problematic, that's NOT. YOUR. PROBLEM.That’s awesome. Similar with mine. His dad passed when my dad was 18, but what my dad remembers is not positive. I don’t think he has one positive memory of his dad and I think he was afraid of me being the same, so he really went that extra mile for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 5 | The pickmeisha final boss. I hope all the scrotes pick her so that they won't bother us.Hah she’s so unique and quirky haha Also Estonia? That’s not a place I usually see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 78 | It does NOT fucking matter WHY he's problematic, that's NOT. YOUR. PROBLEM.He really is. He’s also probably the reason why I’m still single - he sets the standards so high most can’t match lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 210 | It does NOT fucking matter WHY he's problematic, that's NOT. YOUR. PROBLEM.My dad’s dad was absentee. My dad’s dad was angry all the time. My dad’s dad wasn’t a good husband to my grandmother, didn’t help with the kids, went to work and came home and watched TV. Interestingly, my dad is not like that. My dad is there for me. When I am on my period, he doesn’t tell me I’m gross, he’s understanding that my cramps limit me. He was there for every school concert, for every sports game, for every competition. He never raises his voice at me (okay once, when I put a giant ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:31 PM |
| 14 | I left a LVM today! After 4 years!Sorry but eww who wants black decorations? We tryna live in a vampire nest? White is so much prettier and brighter, you have good taste! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 23 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisLikewise. I’m moderate/conservative (mostly moderate now) and I think Ben Shapiro is the biggest dumbass alive. And his wife is a pediatrician. Girl, what’re you doing with your MD wasting your life on a garbage can like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 96 | Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less.Mr. Darcy 🥰🥰🥰🥰 If any man makes fun of me for my taste in literature (and those that have usually don’t read books anyway?) then we have a problem. Pride and Prejudice is a classic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:57 AM |
| 100 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.This stretch mark thing concerns me. I am a young (21) woman and I have quite a few - because I chose life and health and lost 35 lbs from my heaviest. To me, the stretch marks are a symbol of hard work and sweat and blood I put into fixing my health and my body, for me. Are stretch marks such a cardinal sin to men (I’ve never had a boyfriend so I wouldn’t know) that they’d overlook my smarts, my work ethic, my heart, and my achievements and leave me because of what my body has been through as I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:08 PM |
| 31 | Just say no to sending nudes. Dare to resist one-night stands and fwb that you don't really want.It’s such a risk compared to the meager benefits. Like… if he wants to see you nude so bad, why don’t he come to your house and have sex? He doesn’t because he only cares about his sexual satisfaction, not yours. Don’t send nudes. Some guy could also get angry after you leave him and spill them online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Spotted: another gem on bumble.Lol I think the shitty tattoos and the tacky basketball jersey give enough of an image lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseLike Williamsburg, VA? He making you drive 4,5 hours for a booty call? Tf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 14 | Wtf is r/GenderCritical banned?!Sorry this is off topic but hoping I can be like you one day. I’m a premed in undergrad and can’t wait to finally be in med school and getting that MD. Keeping being a role model for girls like me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:43 PM |
| 18 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Okay so I read the post and there were some comments there and here about it being a leftist thing. I get them banning r/conservative if this is a leftist thing, because, you know, people can’t stand to be online with those they disagree with, but why us and the other feminism subreddits? Isn’t it a very progressive thing to encourage female free thought? And what about all the other hate subs that incels swarm to like MGTOW? Are they gonna let them sit and stew? Despicable. This is unacceptable… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 10 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’Let me clarify. My father acknowledged it was true that men felt that way, not that men are scientifically equally viable at any age. My father is nowhere near a stupid man and I realize my phrasing was poor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:56 AM |
| 15 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’Wow, that’s awful. My dad has heart failure (genetic) but that’s never an excuse - he’s always been there for my mom (a stay at home mom) after work to help her make dinner. Good thing you left that guy. Your little one deserves a good role model. Praying for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:36 AM |
| 18 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’I mean I’m 20 and I have yet to have my first serious boyfriend. Hell, I haven’t seen a guy naked in real life. I guess I have high standards because I’ve seen how my dad treats my mom. Additionally, I have goals to shoot for. This post (not yours, the one you’re responding to) makes me feel like my expiry date is 25. Absolutely not. I’m going to graduate med school and establish myself before having babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 10 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’My dad was 33 when he had me. He’s not advocating I get pregnant at 22 (god forbid, I have med school) but that men shouldn’t have kids when they’re like 45. He was plenty young and spry at that age raising me, and some of my fondest memories are me as a child sitting on his shoulders and riding space mountain at Disneyland with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 37 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn.Yeah but… gl finding a guy who’ll condescend to do this… most men will laugh you off, shut you down, or act like you’re trying to emasculate them 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 17 | 🧐🧐 Don’t let yourself or your daughters be involved with a man like this (or your son be one)… pedophiles exploiting the vulnerable minds of young teens via an age gap.And the acne/patchy chin and sideburn hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 13 | 🧐🧐 Don’t let yourself or your daughters be involved with a man like this (or your son be one)… pedophiles exploiting the vulnerable minds of young teens via an age gap.Stolen from r/starterpacks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 51 | I couldn't resist...I hate to be that person but I used to work for special olympics and I took a pledge to spread the word to end the word. While I get this meme is funny using the R word is harmful to special adults with mental deficits and disabilities and to use it casually is hurtful to them. Sorry to be the fun police but I want to say it when I can because the special olympics changed my life - and changes the lives of special adults and kids - for the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Why I hate ‘gender preferences’ (babies/pregnancy)Yes, thanks for explaining it to the Chinese person. I’m just saying it looks different in the United States and even though we purport we have gender equality in terms of pregnancy we don’t. It’s almost like this back room gender preference kind of thing. Henry VIII was a byproduct of his time and took extreme measures. Those measures aren’t excusable but the issue was completely different for him. That’s substantially different than a stupid chadbro in 2020 demanding his wife have a son to thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Imagine having this level of audacityPeople are calling him tf out on that thread and it’s amazing. He’s getting what he deserves from them haha. But yeah, if he’s so damn picky, just cook yourself? Like what? It’s her money, she can cook what she wants. Stop being a bitch and grow up. Time to put on your big boy shoes and be a functional human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Misogynist Men Hate FDS Because We Expose Their TacticsYup, violin lessons, Chinese school, and knowing my multiplication tables before I finished kindergarten. Love my mon though. She gave me my strength and strong work ethic and I would be nothing without her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 14 | Girls, HVM behaviour?Wow I’m so sorry that happened girlie, people can really suck sometimes. Hope you found your inner strength and keep your bits as shaved/hairy you please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:15 AM |
| 62 | Girls, HVM behaviour?This is actually something I’ve thought about a lot. I’ve never had a relationship (simply because I’ve been hyper focused on schoolwork and goals) so I’ve never really had to shave or worry about my lady parts. I think a deep part of me is afraid the first time I am intimate with a guy that he will recoil in disgust at my natural hair. Then again, that’s why you date him a bit before hopping in the sack to see if he’s that kind of punk ass bitch. If that’s the case, not gonna let any man shame … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:44 PM |
| 8 | Why I hate ‘gender preferences’ (babies/pregnancy)No, but it’s evolved into a thing that is toxic but ignored. That’s why I brought it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:21 AM |
| 49 | Misogynist Men Hate FDS Because We Expose Their TacticsI mean… I hate that misconception about eastern women. I’m half Chinese and the women on my Chinese side are the strongest, least subservient women I know. My mom is a 5’2” Asian lady and my dad is a 6’3” big white guy but mom rules the roost 😂 The problem with incels is that they conflate reality with stereotypes. That’s why they think porn stereotypes is how things go or that attractive women won’t be interested in a less attractive guy. They forget the personality factor. How is it that one o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 34 | Why I hate ‘gender preferences’ (babies/pregnancy)Oh and forgot the whole damn point here: men who are sticklers for having a boy and guilt you if you did not ‘give’ them one is a LVM. He will guilt your daughter the same way as well. Weed that stuff out quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 06:33 PM |
| 31 | Always put yourself first, ladies.This is likely parent-encouraged. Saw the same thing happen a few years ago when I graduated high school. She turned down our state’s flagship - a consistently top 5 public university and thought of as the equivalent of an Ivy League, to go with her boyfriend to a much lower ranked tech school. Note that him going there was much more beneficial as he is in engineering and their E school is very good while their general college program is average. They broke up. She’s now stuck there, and I hate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?The only good thing in this video is the Morgan wallen track in the background Damn @ the people downvoting: what my comment meant was this video was bad, because it’s pathetic. The ONLY positive note is that the Morgan wallen song is food. I am using the Morgan wallen soundtrack to highlight the fact that this whole video is awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Just ewAs an Asian Christian woman, I’m so glad he informed me who he was so I can stay the fuck away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 05:07 AM |
| 42 | Bad Sex Advice as Given by Different Young Adult SourcesThat’s why I like so much my involvement with the medical field. As I learn more I appreciate how doctors and nurses think about human bodies. Instead of sexualizing them, it’s a complex understanding and admiration of the different systems in play. A body is attached to a person we need to heal. I feel like in society now we remove the person from the body, making both men and women easier to sexualize and devalue. Keep both together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 18 | No, I don't want no scrubs / A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me /Hangin' out the passenger side of his best friend's ride / Trying to holla at meNo I want scrubs. I want them embroidered with my last name and “Dr.” in front of it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:58 PM |
| 7 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!That’s my university! Go UVA! Wahoowa! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Want this to be me one dayHaha I did see this response. It’s called she understood but wanted to make a point! Thanks for pointing out though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Want this to be me one dayI don’t have an ex lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Want this to be me one dayDo it. You’re never too old unless you tell yourself otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 127 | Want this to be me one dayThanks for the support y’all- this post is less about sticking it to an ex and more about following my dreams… And I promised my dad that I’d keep his last name as an MD. He’s my hero and my role model, the pinnacle of HVM and I want to keep that part of him. Also, my husband likely didn’t go to medical school so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:02 PM |
| 34 | Want this to be me one dayCan’t run the hospital without em! Here’s to appreciating PA’s and nurses too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, some help with potential LVM/HVM?I just wanted a kind of assessment on what’s going on bc I don’t really understand it. Thanks for putting in perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Being psychopathic is in their natureWhen red dead 2 is actively a story about family, the woman Arthur (main character) stayed true to for decades, protecting the people you care about and being honorable… The game actively punishes you for being evil. There is love and loss and it’s a truly human story. Totally against the message of the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 73 | LVM be like.. 🤣Call the police for a well-being checkup. Yes, he’s not gonna kill himself and he’s using it to manipulate you, but he ain’t never gonna use that threat when EMTs show up at the door thinking they’re dealing with a suicide call, and he gets yelled at by law enforcement officers for wasting their time. You (as in the individual being threatened) were acting as a concerned citizen in their best interest. Or he actually is having a mental health crisis and medical professionals save someone in seri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 20 | Realization: My FatherHe is. I am a very blessed individual! Just called him this morning in fact to talk about one of my finals in college. I am counting the days until we can go see star wars together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 27 | Realization: My FatherYeah that’s why I put this out there. So many other women I know have LVM for dads (like shaming them for periods??????) and I realized I truly hit the jackpot. Sorry you had to go through that. I figured this would be a good example of how HVM translates to high value father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:16 PM |
| 25 | How porn affects the brainIt literally destroys brain function. So yes. Dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin- they’re all linked. So while they’re killing dopamine synapses, they may also be killing social synapses like oxytocin too. Sex is an intimate act. It triggers social hormones in our brains. That trigger not only wipes out normal pleasure sensors but also can erode at social ones. That’s why porn is proven to make you think weird- and why people go into hardcore things that when they started they didn’t anticipate divin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 07:42 PM |
| 46 | How porn affects the brainIt’s been proven to be more addictive than black tar heroine. It causes premature erectile dysfunction. It upends hormone levels in the brain (I am a student of brain science - basically it screws your dopamine synapses. Your brain learns it doesn’t need to produce any dopamine anymore because hey! Why should I when I have this much?) Makes it more difficult to feel pleasure and building the tolerance means going more and more hardcore. Avoid people with serious porn habits like the plague. Neur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Found on r/bumble. Couldn’t crosspost for some reason. Credit to r/corago513 for putting this dude in his place. Don’t let anyone talk to you like this. Ever.u/corago513 sorry for putting you on the spot! I think what you did was super brave and the right thing to do! You go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 05:58 AM |
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