askinpala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
152	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video	misandry	askinpala	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 07:11 AM
42	Did We Fall Into A Trap?	discussion	askinpala	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/26 04:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video She didn't but maybe she has a way to hide certain comments. I really don't know. I hope all goes well with your video response. Thank you for putting the effort!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/26 07:29 PM
21	How do you manage not to become misanthropic? These people are just sacks of shit, and I'm being too kind.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/26 03:32 PM
4	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video I guess the link doesn't work. Yeah... especially the self flagellating guys :(	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/05/26 02:32 PM
28	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video It's a very valid point. I agree. I also felt very sad for her boyfriend. I think it's really disrespectful to call your boyfriend a "Tier 2" in front of everyone. I don't want to label her because of that but to me, that act is evil. She could have very well kept what she thought about such a loving boyfriend to herself. Such a girlboss, right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 12:02 PM
5	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video Also if you like the comment, maybe you can like it on youtube so she and other people can see it. I really wonder if she will respond to it and if she does, how? comment link	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 11:31 AM
22	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video There seems to be a lot of right wing, anti-feminist content out there but our position is unique and I think that we may give unique insights in the overall discussion. We also need to produce media like this woman. Tinmen seems to do a great job in this. Anti-feminism to alt-right pipeline is insane and I would rather prefer if we could direct that energy into actual liberation and anger against the elite.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 10:54 AM
7	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video Thank you, brother 👍	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 10:51 AM
15	A comment I made on the video by Karla Kim, where she says that %84 of men are evil and let's also discuss the video I wanted to give an example from a feminist to melt the ice, in a way. I started to realize that many feminists feel personally attacked and get defensive when I just express my opinions. I could have just give the archeological example of Yamnaya migrations wiping out %90 of old European population, especially wiping all men because from genetical evidence we can see that almost no old european men has descendants. But I think this way, my point can come as more peaceful and understandable. I d…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 08:26 AM
2	Is it a problem if institutions support feminism? Sorry for the late reply, I was a bit busy. I can certainly recommend looking at tengrist/pagan steppe nomads and their history. I think they were more egalitarian than the sedentary civilizations of their time. Women were also trained for defense and hunting from young ages. Their society was built on efficiency, both women and men had to do what they can for the tribe's survival. The Khatun (Khan's wife) had a say and vetoing power in the Kurultai (Khan's council). Khatuns could rule the tribe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/26 09:42 PM
13	Is it a problem if institutions support feminism? The problem is, many movements in the left, including feminism, are actively steered by the elite. The essay you linked talks about intersectionality, but whenever I hear that word, I’m reminded that Crenshaw’s AAPF took $4 million from the MacArthur Foundation. Ford Foundation spent nearly $2 billion on its invite-only BUILD program, where they essentially hand-pick which social justice organizations to fund and elevate. They choose the leaders they can work with. You're either against the esta…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/04/26 11:31 AM
10	What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/ There are many forms of socialism that has nothing to do with intersectionality. Intersectionality, modern feminism falls under the "New Left" umbrella which has it's roots in 60s or sth like that. It was a reactionary movement against the old leftists like classical marxists. When you look at how the "New Left" is formed, you will see that it's clearly a psyop. Herbert Marcuse, the so called "Father of New Left" was an ex-member of Office of Strategic Services (predecessor of CIA). If you follo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/03/26 12:02 AM
31	How can one find healing from feminist-caused trauma in a mental health system obsessed with feminist ideals? Also, I am so glad I found this sub. I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of that. I think that, sometimes, our conscience is the best judge when it comes to decide what is good or bad. I too, once found myself absorbing the feminist propaganda because of similar reasons. I thought that, because I'm a man I don't have their experience so I should be more sensitive to women's problems (which is partly true) but I also always had a feeling that something was wrong. Something didn't add up and I always felt a lot of hate and in…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 10:46 AM
0	Did We Fall Into A Trap? That sounds awful. I wish you luck. Is it because of issues like abortion? From here it looks young women mostly voted democrat because they felt threatened by the right wing policies and young men mostly voted for trump for the same reasons. It seems like both sides put men and women in very threatened positions and maybe that's one of the major reasons why people are getting radicalized and polarised.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 08:35 AM
0	Did We Fall Into A Trap? This is a trap question. Replacing a system of economy shouldn't be the burden of a random redditor, right? But, we have objectives. These objectives can lead us to a better system if we can organize in a meaningful way. Objectives are: wealth redistrubution, labor rights, universal healthcare and so on...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/26 08:05 AM
-1	Did We Fall Into A Trap? I'm sorry for your experience. I'm not gonna defend something who exploits people regardless of which color they wear. Maybe they were state capitalists? If that's the case, they just swap the big corporations with party bureucrats. Which is essentialy the same thing. The exploitiation is still there. I just emphasize that %1 shouldn't own more than %50 of the resources. That's why we need to dismantle capitalism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 11:01 AM
8	Did We Fall Into A Trap? That's understandable. It's a specific subreddit after all. Like I said in my post, just a friendly heads up. Because I'd really be upset if we fall for the same mistakes. I think that this is also a legitimate fear because it happens in the left all the time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 10:54 AM
13	Did We Fall Into A Trap? Yes, I agree with you. We can't focus on the rich and elite until we fix this issue. But we should do something. We should at least have a strategy about this. We won't fix it by just venting. We need to try to establish a cultural hegemony and increase our soft power. Universities are lost, TV is lost, social media is a chaos. We should create our own spaces, funded by our own pockets. We should organize a movement that can create art, media and produce knowledge so we can intellectually and cu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 10:40 AM
2	Did We Fall Into A Trap? I have ex-feminist friends who stopped being feminists when they saw the problems we're discussing. Real life isn't social media so there are many women and men who actually want to do good. I have many queer friends that I criticize feminism with in queer spaces. They're not the same with cops. Of course, we can't save all of them but many of them are more dissatisfied with the feminist movement than we think. I'm not from the west though, so I don't know how the situation is in there but there…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 10:28 AM
2	Did We Fall Into A Trap? English isn't my native language so it's a mistake on my part, sorry. I mean we should criticize of course, I meant to emphasize that we shouldn't focus all of our attention to it. I care about men's rights but ultimately, my focus is on the base of the system. Propagandizing against feminism, is helpful for men's rights which is good but I prioritize much more about fixing the left so we can also organize a movement powerful enough to demand labor rights, wealth redistribution etc. Which would …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 10:18 AM
1	Did We Fall Into A Trap? That is a great response, thank you. I don't agree with you on some points but unfortunately, I'm a bit busy right now. I'll definetely reply though. I just don't want to hurry about this. I think there can be a middle ground where we can both be right though. It's really important to point out out tbat there's much more for every person to lose than their chains and that's actually one of the reasons I also couldn't join classical marxist movements. I don't like how they operate. But I think th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 10:11 AM
-3	Did We Fall Into A Trap? Let's not unite with them but try to establish a cultural power enough to save people from their agenda and unite with them?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:56 AM
7	Did We Fall Into A Trap? You only see those examples because the other, non-tyrannical socialist or anti-colonial leaders got killed or deposed by CIA. There are many examples for this. Salvador Allende, Thomas Sankara etc.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:53 AM
-1	Did We Fall Into A Trap? We should try to increase our soft power and cultural capital. Through organizing, through art and media etc. We should create spaces where we can focus on culture, politics and knowledge production. Spaces that are funded by us, not the government or the billionaires. We should propagandize that feminism doesn't belong to the Left. We should portray them as close to the right and pro-capitalist. Say this enough times, and people will start to think like that. I know I sounded like Goebbels in t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:43 AM
0	Did We Fall Into A Trap? I don't appreciate that you're trying to digest my sincerity or call me naive just because I'm pointing my opinion. You're exactly doing what I fear. People won't and shouldn't agree with you always, if they do, then you're in an echo chamber. Anyways, my point isn't to dismiss men's experience, on the contrary, I want to solve men's problems as much as I can. But sometimes we have to ask that why some of our problems exist. When we ask that, the answer isn't always simply that 'because of femin…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:27 AM
1	Did We Fall Into A Trap? I agree and appreciate your critique on monocasuality but in practice this is also a dangerous position. We risk dividing the Left into smaller movements that are based on specific problems. Which is also what is happening now. I think I'm being understood wrongly here. I'm not saying that we shouldn't talk about feminism and men's rights. I'm saying that we should not only focus on that. Not all nodes are equal. Some have more significance. Capitalism isn't just a variable, all the other variab…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:12 AM
-3	Did We Fall Into A Trap? Engels doesn't argue that without patriarchy, there wouldn't be monogamy. Engels just argues that monogamy was forced upon women, while men could have extramarital affairs or in many cultures, could have multiple wives. The monogamy we're talking about is not all monogamy, it's just a strict, legalistic version of monogamy. That is patriarchal. He suggests that, without patriarchy the relationship between individuals would be based on love, so a real monogamy would only be possible under sociali…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:00 AM
-9	Did We Fall Into A Trap? Yes but still, the gendered expectations are there because of the class division and the emergence of the private property. The men is the slave of the upper class. Men also provide for the women who are domestic slaves, so that the women can keep producing new slaves. I'm not saying that we shouldn't voice out our opinions against feminism and for men's problems. I'm trying to say that our disposiblity is linked to Capitalism more than the angry feminists. When men die because of dangerous and …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 07:13 AM
-2	Did We Fall Into A Trap? I'm not saying that we shouldn't talk about men's rights. I think we should. Draft, mental health, empathy gap etc. are all very important issues and they all destroy many men's lives every single day but I'm trying to say that we shouldn't 'only' focus on men's rights. The struggles we're facing are the features of a system we all collectively need to unite and fight against. I'm not trying to gaslight anyone, this is my sincere opinion.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 07:12 AM
-2	Did We Fall Into A Trap? This is a big stretch. I'm not an authoritarian and a Stalinist. I'm just trying to talk about how corporate interest affects the left. I don't see how I'm being a conspiracy theorist here when there's a clear evidence that there's a corporate interest in identity/gender politics and millions of dollars of funding for that narrative in the Left.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 07:05 AM
6	Why opinion of highly regarded academicians means almost nothing. (Read “insert feminist author”) Looking into feminist arguments: Part 1? I appreciate this. Every community has a risk to lose reason in an echo chamber if they don't listen to counter-arguments. We all need anti-thesis to construct a better synthesis. I'd prefer if there were more feminists here, we need all voices.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/03/26 04:47 PM