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1	How to get laid a lot in College? Going out with friends is best because it gets you social, validates you, and ensures you have a good night regardless of how things play out. Otherwise, yeah it's your call. If you want to walk straight up, go for it. If you prefer to make a side comment to them about something else going on in the bar, or buy them a drink, or ask them to play pool or darts or settle an argument, anything can fly.	/r/seduction	01/09/19 07:42 PM
20	How to get laid a lot in College? -Frats are a pretty quick way to have access to social networks and have the validation of a bunch of guys that new people might already like. Just be really sure you pick one that doesn't have creeps or predatory guys, and gets rid of them immediately if they do pop up and doesn't try to cover stuff up. -Clubs and extracurriculars are great if you're not into Greek life but still want regular socialization. It can be hit or miss though on whether the club members hang out with each other or jus…	/r/seduction	31/08/19 11:01 PM
1	Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set? Sure, anything is a skill. And yeah, some people can just go out, give zero fucks, be unapologetically themselves, and things will be awesome for them. But some can't, and they want to learn how to be that way. That's where learning comes into play. It's like with any sport, but screw it, we'll look at running. Some people can put on shoes, open the door, and all they have to do is run every day and they'll eventually run fast and long. But some people will try that and get injured immediately. …	/r/seduction	13/02/19 06:46 PM
4	Probably the best AA killer I've ever tried: reframe your doubts into positives I think the 30 sec could be ignored in this advice. The advice isn't about speed, it's about quality of interaction. That's just an example where his doubts were the exact opposite of reality, and as a result of reframing those doubts, he realized the reality was much better than his imagination. Maybe he is better looking, but we don't blame that here. He probably takes care of his hygiene, his haircut, his clothes, his exercise, his diet, and his lifestyle. But nerves can still stop you dead i…	/r/seduction	04/09/18 02:36 AM
2	What do you say to a girl right before kissing them?? If you're sitting or standing real close to her, lean your heads close, be a little quieter, and say quietly, calmly, and confidently "kiss me"	/r/seduction	31/08/18 07:48 AM
3	How big a deal is a receding hairline? It's as big a deal as you make it. Looks matter a little, yes. But I don't know many (quality) girls who immediately disqualify guys because of their hair. Focus on what you can control: your muscles/weight, your posture, your attitude, and your fashion (including your hair if there's a better haircut to suit you, or shaving it all). If you have real confidence in those things, the slight downside of hair won't phase you. Short of some sort of treatment, there's not much you can do about it. And…	/r/seduction	20/08/18 01:59 PM
1	Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice] You don't need an actual higher social status, or higher worth. You just need the confidence of those things; how to get there, I can't begin to tell you in one post. That's what the rest of this sub is for. But I can advise you that yes, you're thinking too much and assuming everything. Maybe she doesn't want a guy even more cool/badass than her, maybe she's dated those guys and they're all douchebags or she's not interested. Maybe she wants just a nice, cutely nervous guy who listens and is in…	/r/seduction	30/07/18 05:25 AM
5	👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨3 Ways Men Ruin First Dates👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 The advice is a little different than that. It could also be advising you to not be afraid to speak honestly about past mistakes. Obviously you want to avoid serious past relationship problems, but a good example could also be if you had a conflict with a friend, maybe where neither of you handled the situation appropriately. Being honest and saying "I think I was too proud to bring up my concerns earlier" or "it was tough to watch someone I grew up with change into someone I didn't recognize". …	/r/seduction	01/06/18 06:26 PM
1	Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrow The most important to focus on is you having fun. Not "gotta get laid" fun, but enjoy talking to her as a person, like an old friend. Hear what she's been up to and let her ask the same of you; you must have something exciting going for you if she wants to catch up! Another thing you may want to do is make sure you're not putting her on the same pedestal on which high school crushes are usually put. That may have been what things were like last time you saw each other, but things have changed. Y…	/r/seduction	26/12/17 01:55 AM
11	Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go through Not very active here, but to give a response: I don't know a guy who isn't appreciative of being approached; as has been said, we're not that different, and it's flattering to be approached. Not many guys will take approaching as an immediate turn-off. Now, how you approach and what you do is an entirely different story, but the approach alone won't kill your chances with most guys. Seeming desperate is a risk you run when approaching for ANY gender. I don't have any stats, so I don't know the c…	/r/seduction	06/07/17 07:19 PM