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asshat_billy/r/seduction14/03/16 06:04 AM
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I love Strats too but I prefer Teles :)
/r/seduction01/02/16 08:03 AM
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Jesus, don't ever "text", especially for hours on end. Not even when you're dating. It's a bad habit to keep anyways. Ditch it. Hang out more often, and be present when you do.
/r/seduction13/01/16 04:08 PM
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https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-41157-post-852262.html The gist of it is, if the girl thinks gay marriage is OK, she's much more likely to have liberal sexual values than one that thinks it's not. Besides this, I agree with just going ahead like she was any other girl.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:38 PM
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You sound a little like those butthurt feminists who gave rise to the whole Julien episode in the first place. We're on a subreddit where guys gather and discuss how to seduce women: We're all bloody weird. If that's the only reason you don't like him then that's pretty shallow, to be honest.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:22 AM
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What, you don't have friends of the opposite gender?
/r/seduction13/12/15 05:49 PM
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If I wanted to stab you in the neck I wouldn't buy you a coffee. Geez man you needa chill. I don't think I'd go around buying strangers coffees either as it isn't really congruent with who I am. But if it works for others, great!
/r/seduction13/12/15 05:47 PM
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IIRC in Models you are told that compliments should come from a place of non-neediness and be made genuinely and just for the sake of it. One can argue that the guys in the videos are complimenting the girl from a place of neediness - they are only saying it to try to solicit a response and ultimately with the goal of sleeping with her in mind. They didn't really mean it when they say "You're gorgeous", they really just wanted to sleep with her. Their conduct was conditional, dishonest and ultim…
/r/seduction08/12/15 06:22 PM
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Dude, don't use it to woo women. Do it because you want to. Make seduction your side thing, and personal development first and foremost. Different women will react differently to it - some positively, some negatively. The best thing you can do is just do it because you honestly love it. If a girl thinks it's cool, cool. If a girl thinks it's tacky, you don't need her in your life. Move right along.
/r/seduction13/11/15 09:56 AM
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But it doesn't teach anything. It's really just insight into what the community was like back in the day...
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:00 AM
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"Any tips on which lines i should be using?" No. No lines. Even if you were using lines, they should be your own. But you shouldn't be using lines at all. Women are probably way more intuitive and socially intelligent than you right now. Don't try to put on a guise and fool them with somebody else's lines. "I wanted to try to get a number by the end of the night." Why is that your goal? Why put yourself in a position where you are so outcome-dependent? Perhaps this is why you got so depressed an…
/r/seduction03/11/15 11:25 AM
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Well done! First time I've read about a gay pick-up on Seddit.
/r/seduction03/11/15 11:21 AM
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Let's be a little bit more considerate here alright?
/r/seduction03/11/15 07:15 AM
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Mark Manson: Be less invested in her as she is in you.
/r/seduction30/10/15 01:43 PM
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Totally agreed. Can we actually get together and figure out a way to fix this once and for all? Too much clutter and with all due respect too many lazy questions.
/r/seduction22/10/15 04:40 PM
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Dinners suck. It's hard to kino, you're eating half the time, it's not flexible - you're stuck there in the same venue for the entire meal, and it's usually inherently boring. You might want to take your mind off it, looks like you might be over thinking a little. She seems to like you already anyways so don't bother planning how much kino you should do next time or how to properly set up the next date or whatever. Just set up yourself for success and go with it.
/r/seduction22/10/15 02:49 AM
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Text game is such a different world. I have zero text game so I tend to play it safe and just use it for logistics, unless she's IOI'ing like crazy over text, then I might reward her a little. Even then I'd make sure to be the one to end the convo first, usually by saying I've got to go off and do something. Seems to work for me.
/r/seduction08/10/15 06:59 AM
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This could've been a lot more helpful if you told us more about what he did and you didn't do...
/r/seduction08/10/15 05:37 AM
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Revelation > Magic Bullets > Mystery Method Pick up has gone a long way beyond this but people don't evolve in a matter of decades. This stuff works.
/r/seduction02/10/15 11:46 AM
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Personally, I think one of the most overlooked things about dates is actually having fun. Have some fucking fun! It's state transference! If you're being overly analytical, trying to escalate whenever possible or trying too hard to gauge her buying temperature or whatever, you're not having fun, and chances are, she's not either! Beyond assessing your value (which occurs subconsciously), the girl wants to be with you if she has a fun time whenever she's with you. Condition this: Make her attribu…
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:00 PM
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Trust me, we appreciate it when someone new makes his way into pick up, and we're more than happy to help out! But if you really want help, you should be willing to at least look at the sidebar and some introductory stuff first! P.S. Game isn't about "some basic tips" anymore - It's a way of being!
/r/seduction15/09/15 07:26 PM
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I may have given him a slight nudge, but that's exactly what I said to him (albeit in an assertive, "I'm the better man and I'm not gonna fight you" way). He rounded up his buddies anyways. I did put a hand on his shoulder to try to calm him down but this may have actually been the catalyst.
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:39 AM
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Totally agree about the insecurity. An interesting side note: As I was leaving, I saw one of the main instigators of that scuffle trying to chat up a girl and completely being blown out like the major AFC that he is. I rejoice in the fact that I know I'm getting better with every set, and these losers will be doing the same thing over and over again. If anything, I'm more motivated than ever! These types of people just aren't worth our time and attention :)
/r/seduction10/09/15 04:46 PM
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I think I was in the same kind of position before where I was way too reliant on cockiness and humour. Ultimately it is the subtext that wins out. Humour is a great way to communicate that you don't give a shit and you're self amused and unfazed by the validation others give you, but it is so easy to put too much energy and focus into it.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:36 AM
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Your goals should not rely on external circumstances. Be in control. Don't rely on others and if you are able to qualify yourself to them and if they fuck you. Your goals should be improvement after every night out, every set. Getting laid or kissing a girl is superficial.
/r/seduction06/09/15 04:11 PM
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If you're gonna walk up to some girl and ask her "Is David Bowie good looking" or "Is Khaki a colour or a fabric", you'll be blown out. But humans have not magically evolved in 10 or 20 years. The underlying principles still work, and they're a great start to pick up.
/r/seduction05/09/15 02:06 PM
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It sounds like you're taking value more than you're giving value right now by "introducing yourself" and "making small talk". Seeing as though you've just started going infield... Textbook game exists for a reason! Someone just starting out might not good enough inner game to do crazy bold direct approaches like Sasha or the RSD guys. Try it, learn from it, then maybe move on to what you're doing right now. Read Mystery Method/Magic Bullets - I think even people who have moved on beyond this typ…
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:48 AM
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“I give the same advice to men and women: be yourself and you will attract the right person.” If I was an absolute newbie and I heard this, it would have been no help whatsoever...
/r/seduction04/09/15 05:50 AM
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Oh please don't. Just warm up. Go talk to random strangers. Go talk to people. That's how true confidence is built up, and that's how you shatter AA. A clear and strong mind is great for inner game.
/r/seduction04/09/15 05:48 AM
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Good job! It's all uphill from here on. Keep going (y)
/r/seduction04/09/15 05:46 AM
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Ummm oneitis?
/r/seduction04/09/15 02:54 AM
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I like that! But I would've said "Hmm, I can't roll my R's though... Maybe someday I'll let you roll mine" ;)
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:17 PM
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I've just been browsing their website a bit more. Amazingly these guys are also somehow qualified to teach dancing. It's kinda embarrassing to watch.
/r/seduction02/09/15 07:09 PM
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This. Or play along with it - Makes me think about the old-school stuff like playful role reversal: "I'm not the hook-up type of guy either! I hate it when girls take advantage over me. You're not trying to do that, are you?" etc. etc.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:17 PM
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I don't understand why this has so many upvotes. It's just rehashed RSD-esque stuff, and the advice he's giving isn't even that good. I honestly don't believe the guy has enough experience to be coaching people - Just look at his body language, vocal projection, how he slurs and talks way too fast, even how nervous he is when he chuckles at people behind him at 3:20. I checked out their website and their bootcamp page's FAQs were word-for-word directly copied and pasted from RSD. They even forge…
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:08 PM
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Not really much for a red pill guy, but from an inner game perspective, be careful! Inner game is somewhat like gaming yourself too, so don't let yourself slip into oneitis or diverting too much time and effort into this one girl. She definitely sounds interested, so go for it. What usually troubles people about breaking away from the "friendzone" is that, even after so much self improvement, the target is still accustomed to seeing them as the old AFC that they were. By breaking contact (in a n…
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:43 AM
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As the guys at RSD put it: Don't get bitter, get better! Perhaps even study and learn from his success: What is he incorporating (knowingly or otherwise) that spikes attraction? Why are girls responding like that? Don't just point your finger at his looks - Look beyond that! The first friend I introduced to pick up came down eventually had this whole anxiety break down and shed tons of confidence that I thought he had. It's an interesting story but that's besides the point. Get better! Don't let…
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:05 AM
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The mixed reviews you hear are probably because RSD is very much inner-game. It's not for everyone - Many, including myself, prefer some more structure and technique. Everyone, though, needs to develop inner game, in order to progress. Gauge where you are at right now, and watch some of the free RSD material out there to see if it's for you right now. If you had a RSD hotseat coming to town, however, go for it.
/r/seduction01/09/15 09:07 PM
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This probably came from Sasha Daygame, where in his bootcamps he'd tell his students to approach and directly open to a girl or set, then say nothing with a "durrr" face until they walk away. Essentially throwing the set in order to get into the IDGAF state that matches his type of bold, direct game. It's a good tool to have but be aware of what type of state you're going for. You could always just do the standard warmup by opening a few sets wherever. I find that gives you a more flexible sort …
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:53 PM
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Sorry buddy, but it sounds like you're looking for some quick trick on how to "get that girl in class". You're not gonna find it in this sub. Go read all the stuff in the sidebar, then come back and ask better questions. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/08/15 07:09 PM
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With all due respect, it kinda sounds like you're just looking for a quick fuck, buddy. Read all the intro stuff in the sidebar, go out a few times again, then come back and ask us better questions. Good luck!
/r/seduction29/08/15 07:57 PM
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Watch the episode with Cajun and the one with the two Love systems coaches. The rest aren't that useful and the "judges" aren't all that qualified or knowledgeable with regards to pick up.
/r/seduction28/08/15 05:41 PM
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Smells like oneitis. +1 you're too young to be here. Just go out there and develop yourself naturally!
/r/seduction28/08/15 05:38 PM
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Was? Did he leave?
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:13 PM
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I love Tyler. I also admire Cajun's mastery and his style. I know I'm gonna get a lot of flack for this but Mystery is still my guy, for the simple reason that his school of thought meshes well with my personality. It's the same reason why I enjoy listening to the VA guys (Matador, Discovery, Lovedrop etc...)
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:35 PM
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I'm a pretty good dancer (danced to MJ in my youth). If I'm out sarging, I stay away from the dance floor. Don't be the weird guy watching others dance. Be the chill, relaxed guy who is constantly engaged in conversation, has massive social proof, and doesn't need to dance or seek attention on the dance floor. HBs rarely dance non-stop all night anyways so you'll have sets coming to you when they step away from the dancing.
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:17 PM
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I can think of two solutions: 1) Work your inner game so well that your scarring becomes a non-issue. This is gonna take ages and loads of effort. Consider Yad - Someone who most would consider "ugly", yet successful with women. 2) Laser that shit and fix it. Personally, I would go for 2), especially considering the negative feedback loop that you're being caught in. There's no shame in that. It saves time, and you can do 1) a lot faster after that.
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:14 AM
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I keep all my approaches and field reports in my diary app on my phone. I keep a journal for every day life anyways, as cliche as it may seem. You may also find it enriching to log your progress in both pick up and daily life as honestly as possible, so that you know better and clearer which areas of life you need improve in, and brainstorm the steps you need to take to do so.
/r/seduction24/08/15 05:07 PM
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More. That was so well done. I love hearing AMOG stories. Overcoming an obstacle like this is so good for your state too.
/r/seduction24/08/15 05:02 PM
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+1 on don't give a shit. If you really can't get what others think of you out of your mind, then at least have your mindset be something like these other guys are like your little brothers. They may say a lot and tease and annoy you but at the end of the day, you're the guy on top of things, who knows better, gets things done, working to bettering yourself, so you don't have to take their opinion seriously at all. This shit works. There is plenty of living proof in the community. So don't get kn…
/r/seduction24/08/15 04:55 PM
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Just chiming in with a similar situation. Had a very long winded on off thing with a girl back in high school. It got to a point where it was just strained and the relationship (whatever it was) was just toxic (oneitis is a bitch!). So we just stopped talking after graduation. This was way before I started pick up, and even then I knew it had to be done. In my case, however, I had plenty of urges to go back and talk to her again, but from a personal development and inner game perspective, especi…
/r/seduction23/08/15 10:07 PM
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"I've got to meet my friends in a bit too". FTR, shows preselection, shows lack of neediness, and subtly implies you both are in the situation where you DO have a few minutes to spare
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:42 PM
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+1 on isolate. You should have built enough rapport to do so anyways before a number close... If you really can't isolate then you could ask directly once you've worked the set well enough ("Well, I've got to go, but it's been nice talking to you girls. We should keep in touch!"). Getting both their numbers seems a little off. IMHO don't worry so much about getting that one girl's number. Pay more attention to building enough rapport and comfort in the set to do so.
/r/seduction21/08/15 07:35 PM
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9 is an OK time for a lounge. Fuck dinners (no kino, and you're eating half the damn time) and fuck movies. Don't be nervous. Warm up beforehand. Go talk to strangers before meeting her. Good luck buddy.
/r/seduction21/08/15 07:21 PM
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